Yuta, I hope you can also interview girls from the rural areas. I would like to see a comparison in differences of values between city and rural young people.

I try to learn Japanese :) It would be an amazing help, if you put up Japanese subtitles as well. These girls speak to fast for me :)

The word you're looking for is bold.

That Japanese Man Yuta you could also just say that the girls want the man to take the lead and be dominant in decision making.

a good word for this can be "bold" or event "consistent" "solid".

wakakaka Best comment ever. they watch too many drama that can be appeared on shoujo manga

Ryuzaki Raiga Possibly lol !

+Johan Dale it just reminds me the terrible reality of being in couple nowadays. A lot of people are taken but sad in their relationship, so are just waiting for something / somebody better to come in their life :/

+Johan Dale Yeah, that statement of theirs is outright disgusting. It's basic respect and discipline you don't make moves on those who are committed in general. To think with a way of thinking like theirs, they could mistake someone with extremely considerate policies to be "lacking in being persistent" when they shouldn't be, which is *_absolutely_* hideous and disgusting. With that said, I rejected girls before when I was already taken (and they knew I was committed; it's amazing how much wearing a ring makes a man more handsome). But I didn't look down on them. But yes, I did absolutely disagree with their choice of trying to make a move on me, but I'm not so cold to, on top of rejecting, to make the person even more miserable by pointing out the things I just said on my first two paragraphs to them.

I CHALLENGE YOU IN THE NAME OF MY FATHER! BEWARE MY SWORD CRAFTED FROM THE SCALE OF THE DRAGON OF THE RISING SUN

Women really likes to be chased and get more attention

In all honesty that’s going to backfire on them.

@@renielgarcia3306 its very unusual in western culture for that to be the case.

For real they could literally just break up if she wants someone else

I don't think she is a human after watching her talking.

FeelsBadMan 😔

Best of luck with that!!🙃🙃

Same

i feeeeel u homie

It's overrated. If it's not love it's poo poo.

Lol, bruh

Ahahaha! At least you can try.

lol yup Google map the shit out of it

You must prove your gaijin power level.

:'D Marry me

+alan simba as we say where im from: sut, slug og smut

Truth! If she's hoping for someone better, she should leave him and go look for someone better, not stick around expecting him to be there for her while she keeps an eye out for a Chad McThundercock. Expecting guys to break the Bro-code just so she can feel desired is downright despicable.

Why not? If you are *truly* such a great boyfriend, you wouldn't fear a little competition - right? If you try and keep her away from guys, it speaks volumes about your own ability to please her.

Just Another If she doesn't want to be with me, she can leave me openly and then find someone new. You don't break up other people's relationships or get involved in breaking them up. If they don't work well together they can damn well break up on their own.

Right, being with someone you don't care about will only create more issues. And then it'll be bitter AF.

I mean if I did it maybe another person can do it to me.

Yes sir. Our golden rule.

@@luisalbertoarenasaraya4579 good point🤣

Exactly if she's willing to do this to him because she finds me better then she will do it to me when she finds someone who she thinks is better fuck that

So NTR tag is real after all

But the fisherman sold his stick on Craigslist for an Xbox & went MGTOW. 😎😃

😭😭 no cap

But fish don't want to be caught, women kinda do

or a fishmonger if you may 🤣

So what your saying is never ask a guy on how to get a girl but rather ask a girl to get a girl is that what you meant lol? Or am I dumb and misunderstood lmao

Ya that gets me too, like apparently they expect us to *somehow* read their mind and than try to steal them from their imaginary boyfriends... Well now we know how these stupid bitches always "pick" the wrong guy and get douchebags for boyfriends.

I'm amazed they've never heard of the bro code lol. Surely they have some guy friends?

Japanese women are so passive though, I bet a lot of them are in relationships simply because the man decided he was going to make her his. I think Japanese women, they are so passive, they will let themselves be owned by whoever wants to have them. So maybe, she goes along with it, because it seems right, but the love is missing, and its because only one person in the relationship is practicing free choice. But women, they recognize one thing very well, the person you are in a relationship with, is not always, the one you truly desire.

@@germangonzales2008 "But women, they recognize one thing very well, the person you are in a relationship with, is not always, the one you truly desire." If that is the case then break up with him/her. Expecting someone to come along and flirt/date/steal/generally-show-interest in/with you is not only a bad idea as only the worst of people will do that, but it makes one of the worst as well. Dating someone you don't really want to be with is setting them up for heartbreak, it's giving them false hope, and it's taking away opportunities for them to find someone who actually cares for them. If as you say women recognise this but don't stop dating guys they don't they don't want to be with then that makes them horrible people. (disclaimer: I don't believe all women are like this. Some most definitely are, and so are some men, and those ones should be avoided at all costs. But that does not constitute all women or all men)

@@asherandai1000 Mehh, its just women being overly nice and not being able to say no to someone. True love takes time to develop sometimes, love at first sight is often just lust, which fades quick. There's more to a relationship than just pure self-interest. Its a chance to get to know someone new, a chance to "expand your horizons" whatever the fuck that means. And I find it very nice that even if a girl doesn't desire me or intitally like me, I still have a window of opportunity where I can try to make her want me. Unfortunately, Love never runs smooth. Sometimes you fall in love with someone you know you can't be with, and it all happens as the weeks pass by, unbenknownst to you the love was begining to blossom. Recently my friend drunk-texted me lamenting how sad she is. A mutual friend who she'd been with for most of her 20s, well as it turns out she is still deeply in love with him. But he has another girlfriend now, and he cherishes her the way she wishes he would cherish her. Anyways, she's been with 2-3 other guys since him, but she revealed to me she NEVER STOPPED LOVING HIM. She told me she can't stop being sad about it, and all the other guys she's been with, no matter how hard she tried to make it work (3 years + in a relationship) she cannot stop loving our mutual friend. He will never take her back. She is cursed to love him for the rest of her life it seems. True love, never runs smooth..

Hit the nail on the head with this one

"if she'll leave you for me, she'll leave me for him"

TRUE, I am amazed there is someone who thinks like this. This is light years ahead of what I think. Great.

@shelbrique that's because why would we date a girl who already has a boyfriend. If she can cheat like that for me why wouldn't she cheat like that for someone else. Women think it's wrong for men to cheat so they break cars for a living, but yet men are also supposed to steal them from their boyfriends saying it's ok for them to cheat... ok sure.

Also cause it’s just a total douche thing to do, I doubt you would like it if your girlfriend just up and dated some random dude because he was foreign, wouldn’t feel nice I bet

the accuracy

:)) that's exactly what I thought as well

True asf

But if that's the case, hypothetically a guy just needs to read/watch shojo manga/anime and behave like the most successful character in them...

IF SHE BREATH, SHE'S A JAPANESE

They are just acting cute it's getting annoying

@@SlowedAesthege there is no standard cuteness. Most of the girls want to look cute and that itself makes it an act. Everyone wants attention so being normal is actually cute but nobody does it thinking it will annoy the person ahead

@@SlowedAesthege Umm wow Not all Japanese act cute

@@SlowedAesthege I don’t act cute and I’m Japanese

yeah I wouldn't want to get my girlfriend taken away :^( Especially by some black guy.

Patata The Potato haha

wabi sabi :3

+ayodeji coker yeah but you can think about it as a compliment though :P

+Patata The Potato lmfao

Well put

A man of culture amen 🙌

Amen.

Japanese Girls really are scary I get an image of a complete sadist from them

Bro code

what is wrong with it? i love when people pat my head

@@reiper There is no problem, it's just perfect

Yeah I thought that girls actually hated that weird af

Probably worth noting that this is vastly different from culture to culture, and not synonymous among all types of Asians. I'm not as familiar with Japanese culture, but in Thai culture it's extremely rude to touch another person's head.

@@Madhattersinjeans j e s u i z

Your post sums up the entire comment section

@@peeyushverma2284 ikr lmfao

There are realistic anime too, for e.g. Bunny Girl Senpai

I agree with your comment!

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

🤣🤣🤣😂

you win the Internet.

I can't stop laugh

Lol u got me.hahaha

Competition is good for everyone.

huh?

I can fight. Here, hold my vodka.

Or an otaku...

"Jealous Samurai" LOL I'm dead XD

🙈That sounds like me.... Except of the last line🤣

Yesh

Thats gonna take years to change hehe jk

So perfect, in other words.

@@chunchunmaru5414 so you are telling me you are not🤔???

my man basically ready to solve japans low birth rate problem xD

yeah, i gotta say thats the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard, they just honestly watch too much anime where they want 2 guys fighting over them zz.

All is fair in love and war.

true!! its a sign of respect

Not moving ahead is not respect. It is complacency. Let her make the move. Maybe she is tired of him or he is abusive or never pays her any attention. With my wife her bf 8 years and never asked her to marry him. i came along saw she was really something and proposed to her and we set a date that year and got married. The worst thing in a relationship is to become complacent. Comfortable. i hate this idea of people saying what they can't do. I want to hear what you can do. Listening to these Japanese girls they want a man to take the lead and not some girly boy.

No lack of cajones.

daradaradaa....its an one and only D-O-G-G SNOOP DOOOGG......

@@rohanbhagabati3697 I laughed so hard thx

What a Chad

"Why are you booing me? I'm right!"

😂😂😂👍👍

That shit is cancer man

What's that btw

@@Inversed00 oh u dont want to know..... its freaky as hell

🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣I dont like NTR especially the ugly bastards😂😂👍👍

@@knight6087 yup i legit have no idea why there is so much hentai involving ugly bastards

it's a reproduction of 'how to raise a boring girlfriend'

This isn't an anime. These are real people.

@@ironhand132 r/whoosh

Now this is really cringe....just saying.

Honestly judging by some of the pixels it's definitely not real

Yeah I'm not gonna do the waiter's job! :D

true, i wonder where they would even get a hot towel from? do they js go into the kitchen, grab a towel, make it hot and bring it back to their seat like nothing js happened? or do they expect men to carry towels with them in their pockets

James hello, I am originally from Vietnam, but live in America now. From my Experience socializing with many male and female friend in Ho Chi Minh, I have not ran into that issue, because we wanted to be seen as equal, and not rude. I thinks the girl you were talking to is just a maybe bit conceded, and taking advantage of u being polite. Haha, hope this helps. 👍

@@frosty_josh8048 It's called oshibori (おしぼり) - they are commonly given out to clean your hands before and after eating at most establishments.

@James thanks for the information, i appreciate learning new experiences and learning about cultures from another person's personal experience

All that’s wrong is the eyes , the voices and unrealistic romantic settings.

@@e_t_t9553 also boobs. We are cultured men after all.

of course , how could I forget ?

What were they right on? I haven’t watched slice of life anime’s so i wouldn’t know.

Clovud Shojo is very annoying at times when girls get worked up over the dumbest things and take the worst advice from their friends. It’s like their priorities are inthe wrong place... I started to see the correlation in this video That and the 1st name basis mentioning And the dates that they like And their expectations for eg hand holding stage... that also shows in anime Hope that kinda gives u an idea

hey scandinavian brother whats up im from Norway :D

LoL

VALHALLA

What no you guys have to just exist and they will throw themselves at you 😆😆

@@hemanshuchudasama3535 *optimistic Scandinavian grunt*

Lol thats what I was thinking

Floydthefuckbag If she wants another guy to steal her away, what is she doing with the guy in her current relationship? Clearly she isn't happy, otherwise she wouldn't want to be 'taken away' by some other guy. Just break up with him.

Floydthefuckbag Maybe it's sort of a fantasy situation about two guys fighting over the same girl. Like in the old days when men would engage in duels over women. I think some women secretly fantasize about that kind of thing.

Alan Falleur They probably do, people have weird fantasies. Everyone does.

Floydthefuckbag lol That it's exactly what I was think! Like, WTF bitch?

+noob168 The single life is the best life

+Dan k lol. really. No honestly ask yourself, really is it.

LegoSwordViedos that depends on individual. ik i can make myself happy.

+noob168 you can't make yourself happy while in a relationship? well, can u live happily until 70 or 80 years old without partner?

CookieeMonstarr666 I never said I can't be happy in a relationship...I've never even been in one. But what I do know is I can live happily w/o a partner till old age. :P Life has so much to offer.

yeah just be you dude this video kinda shows that some Japanese women are emotionally immature fr, one-day they'll realize.

Thanks for the advice

Herbivores/MGTOWs did start in Japan... 🤔😉

@charlie rammstein Of course ! It's a common known fact in the MGTOW sphere. 🙂

Most women know EXACTLY what they want, but yes, just be you. If you're not what I want you're better off with someone else anyway (and vice versa).

Yes

Apparently, we respect the relationship more than she does.

It’s not that, it’s just that if she’s willing to leave her current bf for me, then who’s to say she won’t leave me for another man later?

LMFAOOOOOOOO

You give up too easily

don't give up hahaha

@@apierc1 whahahahaha

Dude, same! I pitched the idea to her and she slapped me. I don’t know why.

KroutSuprem Yooo lol what a way to describe it

those are the best, a living human doll what more can you ask for LOL

It seems like it is either a pet or a feminazi... Where have the reasonable women gone?

extinct

Lmao i can relate

look closely at them, they look like 15-20 year old girls, are you surprised? Their view on dating is completely different than a 30 year old woman. They don't understand that they're PARTNERS, not a child with a daddy who does everything for her, even the thinking. -what do you want to eat? -idk -where do you want to go -idk take the lead **takes the lead and goes to a restaurant** -I don't like this place -_-

I like when guys lead. It's nice. It doesn't mean you do everything for me or ignore my input In means you out forward your own input and are sure about your ideals and opinions. It's nice to be with someone who knows who they are and what they want. And it's not wrong for someone to feel differently.

@@llVIU they never asked for a guy to do everything for them. You are very sour... They want a guy who knows what he wants. And not every girl is the same. Maybe actually try to get what they are trying to say rather then assuming everything they mean by what they say. Also. Who are you to fucking judge. I know 30 year old women who do indeed want a guy to know where he wants to go for a date or what he wants out of life. Maybe stop calling them children for having a different opinion?

@@liz6595 you should watch the video again and I'm describing the women in the video, not ALL women. The irony and arrogance in your comment... Also, again, look at the video, they barely look 15-20 years old at most. Yes, they're children. And probably so are you. You don't even know the difference between a woman who wants a guy who knows what he wants, and a woman who wants everything handed on a plate because she's too stupid to even know her own preferences. How old are **you** to try to educate me? When you can't even read or watch a youtube video?

@@llVIU trash

Saner78 exactly. I was surprised, when she said that a guy shouldn't give up, when the girl already has a boyfriend. That was odd.

Indeed, I was also suprised by that answer :/

Saner78 Same here, that sounds kinda unfaithful, I couldn't really trust her. I've seen other videos where japanese girls said they could forgive cheating if the girl was cuter than them, I was like "whaaaat?". Yet again, nobody said you had to meet every single japanese girl, just go for the ones that you like ^^

Saner78 LOL. She sounds like trouble.

Yeah, not a keeper that one. Literally. She sounds very shallow.

LOL

while walking on the street side

tell them they're kawaii

So i guess we can expect quickfeet to get a kawaii waifu very soon?

yep lol

Whole video summarised in one comment. 👍🏻😂

yeah, I thought of getting a body pillow as not the best idea until I watched this video. I love riu chan from domestic girlfriend, at least she cared about her step bro more than these girls ever will

@@energeticstunts993 i want a rui Chan too.

Tofu Waffle XD

I would too. Tight ass.

If you get them a happy meal with a toy there should be no problem .

girls don't do any work in relationships, they are just there, the guy needs to do literally everything, and then she will still leave you.

you got the point. LOL these kind of girls is not worth at all. OR shall we say Bitch.

@Edgar Ospina it depends on culture and woman background.. i'm not surprised at all if woman think like that.. since we have patriarchy culture in every place in this world.. woman expected to do home stuff (or worst some culture treat woman like property) while men do the protection

It seems to me these are the first women you get to know.

Been living in Japan for 10 years, been married, divorced, dated other girls since then...I tell you my man....most women are like that around here...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH

Master plot twist!! Hahahahaha

HAHAHA didnt think about it xd

R/iworkherelady... is that a thing yet.

Considering the girl in case, I really think that's the case.

Random Lee jfc you are a genius good sir

Man ur last answer choked me

Sadly, I think your list applies to more than Japanese girls. This is the modern woman in any developed nation.

Chaal ab ' भिक्षम देहि' bol 😂

Bros before hos.

Yessir

@@Anvilshock I'm late but Yessir

@@enchantedorange3141 pっっmpm

っmpmpー おっもppっmっっっp

*_ISEKAI_*

Too many disney, too many foreign trips..

Ya I think ALL women are like this. Well apparently they want you to "steal" them when they say they have a boyfriend... Also Disney IS FUCKING EVIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Aka ALL WOMEN

@@onyxia2294 In the west feminists call this "toxic masculinity".

it's sad to be me ;(

Wonder what they mean by that. It's a vague thing.

But I love being creepy..

Profile name checks out

labobo Ayyy that's actually smart.

That's a legit good question, why was it not asked? What a shitty interviewer...

I believe so.

No a white one

Do I need to have candy or just say I have some? I'm a kidnapper but not a dick?

@@makotoyuki345 I see what you did there

Lol

I totally agreee

Top notch stuff

Hell what? ... :D

This is the best CG I’ve seen yet

Invertex EXACTLY

exactly it is very messed indeed

Invertex "its not rape if she likes it"

Nissou Yeah, because I can’t depend on myself either.

ALAKTORN ahahahah nice one rofl xD

Nissou I feel the same way.

Nissou I don't think this is particularly enlightening. This is like the level of Gogglebox.

***** Because a relationship should go two ways. There's nothing more unattractive then somebody who breaks down if they are not with someone, who has to depend on someone else or they don't feel complete. When someone is like that, then their partner is just really filling a role rather then there being true love. A partner with their own hobbies, ambitions but also wants true love is ideal. You should never see your self as only a half, a relationship should be two fulls - if you get what I mean.

I would not think of it as dating advice to date other women, but to date them instead? In the end though, advice is advice in a way or two, and thus, you might know what a girl wants given past experience/advice. It is not entirely the issue if the information is wrong, is what you do with it... at least that's how I see it.

Never get advice from men on how to date a man. You think any guy is ever going to actually tell a woman: btw, if you're really good at oral sex, it helps a lot on that "first time." But afterwards you can pull back a bit, only do it every now and then so that it remains special to us. We need to face that no ONE person can speak for everyone, and that most of us, in the end, are genuinely attracted by the oddest little things we cannot explain. Also, asking people in groups such a personal question is never bound to get a good answer, especially in front of a camera... people are less likely to disagree with a friend on something very personal to them if the friend is the "alpha" of the group.

Haha, that was literally my first thought when I saw this headline.

Except these girls are less defensive, cause they are not giving advice to a friend specifically that they dont wanna hurt. Man planning and leading, less contact by phone, etc, they did say as It is. I bet the majority of these girls are strong, they know what they want, and they specially dont have tô hide it

Lesbians exist.

TRUE and REAL my brother XDD

Nice, Leon belmont pfp any Lament of Innocence enjoyer is definately a man any women should fight a tournament for

She will pat you ten times harder and with her hand closed.

down here in texas....it's hard.

😂

I HATE BEING PATTED

Only if you do it in a playful manner, I do it from time to time.

+sbtopjosh It's called individual preference. When people say you will find the right person, it means that the person will love you just the way you are, not for something you are trying to conform to be.

Cloud Strife The reason i commented (and my whole point) was that guys should just be themselves and not be overly concerned with what these young ladies "want" a man to do for them or like them to do for them. I think they are just showing their lack of maturity in most parts. Heck, one girl even wanted guys to try harder to "steal" them away from their boyfriend. What a knobhead

+sbtopjosh you plan it half

***** So your basically saying guys don't have to give a shit about what girls think because everyone's different. So a guy can treat you like dirt because he's a guy and he has his own rules but you would still be interested because he talks to you about "interesting stuff"

+sbtopjosh every women is different in somehow, bro

g7enn89 Hahahaha classic

What women are going to do when sex androids come out?

Facts!

It can give you an indication and a point to start from. Also it's good to see that different women prefer different things... almost as if they are individuals - weird thing huh? But yeah, RIP Patrice and his wisdom.

@@danegerausbayern Well I get where you're coming from, but if that were the case fboys wouldn't be a valid thing.

It's like asking a fish how to fishing

lmao

You did the right thing you put her happiness before yours so i hope you find a great girl man

@@alwalidmubaydin2547 I'm sure he will, he's got great karma

Your comment made me happy

You're a man of culture. Amen 🙌

Such a great guy , hope you find your perfect match.

+christopher bastas women specialize in contradictions it takes too much energy to figure them out just do the opposite of what they say and they will love it

+David Donovan That's all you have to say about the matter is I'll be forever alone.... LOL I would show you other wise the life I live, but your some creepy white knight that loves to get femdom with a strap on. Just worry about yourself. I'm sure you killing them kid.

You're honest about not knowing how girls think. It should not be a problem

You should slow down, I only have 8. Remeber this: "Multiple waifus will ruin your laifu"

But that would keep me from waifuing Taiga, Zero Louise and Shana. I do not like that rule.

These entitled girls are the reason why japanese guys are becoming "herbivores"

Girl wathc too much drama about reverse harem

Dogs demand wayyy less than women

Mine was a hamster but it always bit me so i lock it up in cage...

🤣😂😂

@@SuperAxon2 Good lock trying to get a dog pregnant hahaha!

@@DaviSouza-kq7xz Good luck paying child support hahahaha

under rated comment x0

Yes!

chronic24 Amazing comment

I assume that they may also say what they want others to think they want. For example: Maybe it's shameful to be into non machos, and want to be in the lead in Japan. That would explain why they all said they want the guys to lead and do everything and they'd basically be passive.

So true

our ship is sailing my fellow

And... if the japanese fishermen are too bad for this job?. The answer is..latin heat!

Lmao

gold

well said. you've got a way with words..

Well too bad i learn myself

I believe in u mate ,go get em and make the boys proud

Yeah then someone will stole them from you and you'll be single again 😂😂😂

Nah, you'll have no chance anywhere if you're a creep

@@alan.92you'll have no chance anywhere if you're an idiot like you are

Whatever you say, incel.

Damn right about that

I have two hands. 🤷‍♀️

Shes not yours, it just your turn.

@@jbizzle9984 hell yeah! When’s it my turn?

I agree, no girl worths more than the Bro code

yep ..Jerry Springer style

🙄You don’t have to steal her. Just blow her back out and move on to her friend. That’s basically what they’re saying.

Creamy Nico exactly, any sane guy won't want you to cheat on your boyfriend. And most of us wouldn't wanna cause a breakup either.

XD

LOL

lmao 😂

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA god, you made my day!!!

remember journey > destination ;P

You sound pretty insecure

@@Hazztech Nah its more like any normal person I'd say wouldnt expect to see foreign women seem to want things in a guy far less reasonable and instead just....weird and insane in comparison to American ladies. This is just kinda weird. You cant call anything a relationship and you cant call yourselves a couple if either one of you would be willing to be snatched by someone else/go out with someone else in a heartbeat. "Dating" has kinda lost all sorts of meaning and nowadays many men and women just kind of mindlessly have sex. Call people like me anything you want. There's more to connecting to someone than just that, or just dating "the guy of the week" or something else like that. I get that there are people that don't care to get in a committed relationship at all in their life, or ever have kids, ever be in love and get married. But many people do want that love. It's reasonable and shouldn't be a surprise to see someone not take this video lightly.

@Coconut 😊 Okay.

@coconut you should also at least speak a litle japanese, own a car and know your way around town so that you can get her to the cool places and bring her home afterwards.

You forgot about arranging all dates/events without asking them their opinion.

Women in general want to be lead. They like assertiveness, confidence, persuasiveness. Yes, they want you to be decisive and make plans. She just wants to show up and look pretty. She's not you wife, ergo you do not need her opinion on what you want to do. Your job is to approach, get her number, ask her out, show her a great time, and then wait a few days, asking her out again. Give time to miss that great guy. She will build you up in her head in ways no one else could. If ever interaction is fun, where you are gently leading, teasing playfully, she will eventually open her legs and her heart. She will end up chasing you, dreaming of you, wanting you. Be the man, and she will thank you. Stopping buying the Hollywood version of romance. It's ass backwards. The flowers, and shit comes after she's in love. Until then, you just act like Casanova.

That combination makes for a great anime character for sure, though.