What Japanese Women Think of Dating Foreign Men (Interview)

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What do Japanese women think of dating foreign men? I interviewed 5 Japanese women in this video and asked for their opinions.
I got diverse results. One of them have a typical americentric view of western men while the other are more open to different nationalities.
They have divided opinions about marrying non-Japanese men. Some of them prefer Japanese men because of their cultural values or lack of parents' acceptance.
I also asked them what they thought of Japanese men to compare to their views of non-Japanese men. The results were quite interesting.
Another interesting point is that their travel experience seems to have little to do with their openness. This might be another area to explore.
The questions I asked are:
- Would you date a foreign guy?
- Are you interested in any particular nationalities?
- Do you have any racial preferences?
- Would you marry a foreign guy?
- How would you like to be approached?
- What do Japanese guys lack these days?
- Is there anything you like about Japanese guys?
- Have you ever been abroad and where?

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@ThatJapaneseManYuta 9 жыл бұрын

Sorry about the focus. I'll try to do a better job next time.

@Demonnof 9 жыл бұрын

i just have to say thank you, thanks to you i did not have nightmares after watching this vid

@wojiaobill 9 жыл бұрын

thanks for the video man, very interesting ;-)

@Amavisaj 9 жыл бұрын

this is intresting, especially as a college student double majoring in Business and Japanese. I Subscribed!

@KonohazFinest 9 жыл бұрын

Harō yūta hajimete risunā to suscriber Imu. Otsukai no bideo no wa, hijō ni yūekide tanoshīdesu. Watashi to watashi no tsuma wa, Nihon e no ryokō o keikaku shite iruto watashi wa sore ga mottomo utsukushī den'en no ichibu ga aru to kangaete imasu. I hope thats right

@ddddddd1925 9 жыл бұрын

When you ask the last woman where had she been abroad. When she said philippines, you said 'nande philippines?' Which means why philippines. Why was her being in the philippines questionable?. Is philippines different from other asian countries?. Filipinos love japan and the japanese culture and the people. As do I, Sure Philippines was heavily influenced by western culture but we're stilm asian. I was just hurt that as a Filipino admiring Japan, seems like Some japanese people aren't recognizing my own country.

@Theowest 8 жыл бұрын

it's like france is the only european country japanese people have ever heard of.

@VicodinElmo 8 жыл бұрын

+Stélio Kontos STÉLIO! STÉLIO KONTOS!

@edauralapatate4020 8 жыл бұрын

Damn it feels good to be a french girrrl c: (just kidding, foreigners think of me as a "girl that is very feminine, polite, hates foreigners because... why not classify every french people as rude ? Oh yeah; she eats cheese too.")

@Theowest 8 жыл бұрын

so I just came back from a week in tokyo. My comment still stands. Instead of a EU size chart on some clothes and shoes they have FR instead.

@goroakechi1068 8 жыл бұрын

They're forgetting about the lovely italian men and women.

@WiiKey 7 жыл бұрын

There are so many french bakeries and shops too in Tokyo - it's quite amazing actually haha.

@joserafaelbenavente2152 4 жыл бұрын

0:13 Guy grabs a girl's butt on the right. And the girl talking about difference in values lol.

@MyKiwisAreFuzzy 4 жыл бұрын

Lol good eye

@obbymillion 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂🤣🤣

@xJohan.Liebertx 3 жыл бұрын

How did you catch that 😂

@AKRex 3 жыл бұрын

OMG I laughed so hard!!!! hahahaaaa!!

@yabazyabacoffee 3 жыл бұрын

Bruh I'm gone 🚪🏃‍♀️

@thelittleonefrommars 7 жыл бұрын

2:32 "How about black guys?" Me: (sweats)

@solamisandwich05 5 жыл бұрын

Me: [grabs rope]

@marksun4292 5 жыл бұрын

Grabs a rope lmao hahahaha

@thatkoolaidesdisease147 5 жыл бұрын

You say that in such a spiteful way Shakam, one could assume you're triggered by a shitty joke by playing on the stereotype put forth by pornos that white women in general would cheat on their partners with black guys. Which isn't common. You should probably also learn spacing. I mean, if you went insinuated something like 'Me: gets pike" which was a very common way Europeans in the middle ages humiliated each other. But no, you had to go with the assumption that some white guy's wife and mom would rather be fucked by a black guy than literally do anything else.

@SAIKODA777 5 жыл бұрын

@Rich Fly Rather satire, of course there will always be good and bad people no matter what skin color they are, but black people can be real thirsty sometimes and im more scared of a 23cm schlong than a 13cm white schlong.

@thisguysays1081 5 жыл бұрын

@@SAIKODA777 Everyone, no matter what race, sexuality, or gender, is thirsty.

@ethanthomas9367 8 жыл бұрын

the girls story about being lost and the guy took her to her destination is probably the most canadian story

@nouta3226 7 жыл бұрын

ethan thomas I always help foreigners :)

@nathaniel7961 6 жыл бұрын

ethan thomas my friend you are a genius i tell ya a genius

@deeward283 5 жыл бұрын

Americans would have been like " I think it's over that way but I don't know man you should probably ask someone else" 😂😂

@64Magick 5 жыл бұрын

*She was cute, so I wouldve done the same...and hope for the best!!*

@winterxx1555 8 жыл бұрын

Well, if they are looking for America's best, someone better tell them to avoid Walmart at all costs.

@SilentMover95 8 жыл бұрын

+Winter xx Why? I like to see the weird ass shit in Walmart. I was actually excited to visit walmart in the usa for the first time.

@winterxx1555 8 жыл бұрын

haha c'mon man you know that's not the real America. But if you are looking for entertainment, I suppose that's the place to go

@saldynetwork3619 8 жыл бұрын

+Winter xx should I watch log horizon

@winterxx1555 8 жыл бұрын

Nah nah I'd say go for it. But I'm biased. And idk what your interests are. Your decision. :)

@SilentMover95 8 жыл бұрын

***** If you are not American, visit some walmarts in small towns down south if you ever go to the USA. It is quite interesting. Haha....

@josephben5927 7 жыл бұрын

0:15 that guy in the right corner got a smooth hand if you know what i mean lmaooooo

@rotundmonibuv5103 4 жыл бұрын

Bruh Moment™

@jcanexxdevelite3439 4 жыл бұрын

He grab that ass nc

@suuuuii4019 4 жыл бұрын

Youcef Benamara hes a true man of culture 😂😂

@levi9613 4 жыл бұрын

A real living Hokage

@eatingbatsoupforaliving7872 4 жыл бұрын

@@rotundmonibuv5103 B r u

@dagestanifive 7 жыл бұрын

I love japanese women and asian women in general. EDIT: 3 years later and I married one. Can I get a thumbs up?

@lalibellule7176 5 жыл бұрын

What's matter is do they love you ?

@helionzerx817 4 жыл бұрын

Nique ta censure KZfaq de merde yeah if ReX has a great personality

@ZeWhiteRabbit8 4 жыл бұрын

i can tell from your profile pic

@jaminbones827 4 жыл бұрын

FLex on man

@xhmbx9548 4 жыл бұрын

Damnnn seriously???

@elestromusicgamesfun1101 8 жыл бұрын

How interesting, when the question of marriage came up, they all started talking about their parents. A clear culture difference from the west.

@patrickf6120 6 жыл бұрын

We used to have a similar culture but liberalism destroyed it

@robertharris6092 6 жыл бұрын

Patrick F parents have no damn say in who i or anyone else married. The founding fathers literally created this country for that among other reasons.

@thomaspatrickparker6648 6 жыл бұрын

Patrick F don't let yourself believe Japan is really better about marriage. They are a dying nation due to failure to marry and have families.

@amberbrittany7546 6 жыл бұрын

Elestro Air-soft family values. I think we need to go back to that.

@xedn 6 жыл бұрын

My parents still care a lot about who I like

@stahl1624 8 жыл бұрын

What the fuck! None of these girls look like their Anime counterparts. I think I've been cheated!

@vilram60rus99 8 жыл бұрын

+Stahl's Game's And Strategy japanese girls are mostly ummmm...exotic I would say. =)

@stahl1624 8 жыл бұрын

Rofl

@wcastillo2501 8 жыл бұрын

+Stahl's Game's And Strategy the second girl looks like someone out of Clannad or Air.

@genghizkhan9021 8 жыл бұрын

+Martin Young Living THE dream.

@nikjey 8 жыл бұрын

+Stahl's Game's And Strategy hahahahahahahaha

@MakoRuu 7 жыл бұрын

Why is this in my suggested feed after watching a video on how to make gyoza. lol

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 7 жыл бұрын

Because KZfaq knows that you want to eat gyoza even if you might not know it yourself :D

@MakoRuu 7 жыл бұрын

I love gyoza! That's why I looked up how to make it with Cooking With Dog. It is good that you are teaching people about Japan. Some people may not know how to approach a Japanese girl if they like her. But it has nothing to do with yaki gyoza. lol

@OdemilUyan 7 жыл бұрын

haha Lelz

@esqueleto2663 5 жыл бұрын

What the fuck is gyoza.

@kakapoleon 5 жыл бұрын

@@esqueleto2663 ravioli chinois

@demando2 7 жыл бұрын

Hi (sorry for my bad English)

@ketsuekiuki 7 жыл бұрын

??????????????? What? LOL. Your explanation was longer than your statement!

@M3lw4r3 7 жыл бұрын

That visual novel, the memories (offtopic, sorry)

@johnmarston8649 7 жыл бұрын

it is ok

@TTH247 7 жыл бұрын

The poster is making fun of other posters who preface their comments with that statement.

@user-xi3mv1vc7w 7 жыл бұрын

eigo wakaranai

@quotetoadjr2779 8 жыл бұрын

3:57, a wild foreigner appears!

@CringePotato 8 жыл бұрын

+QuoteToad Jr Wild Foreigner uses memes

@Cugastratos 8 жыл бұрын

+QuoteToad Jr Figures I'd be out of pokeballs when I need to catch something rare.

@SomethingCool51 8 жыл бұрын

+The Unfunny White Kid it's super effective

@sergiojurado113 8 жыл бұрын

LOL

@chomengtaimak 8 жыл бұрын

A girl said she was very kindly treated in foreign countries, and said, if it's in Japan, Japanese won't do this much ... I think it's because you are a Japanese girl and when you ask some Japanese for "where is the place", Japanese think you understand what they say, and they know you can find the place, so they won't take you to where exactly it is. My friend, and old foreign lady, she can't speak Japanese nor English, and she tried to ask a Japanese man where is Shibuya station, that guy was almost late for his work (it was in the morning, and the old lady told me, the guy looked his watch for many times, the old lady wanted to say, "You have work, I can try to ask someone else", but she can't say English nor Japanese), he TOOK HER TO THE SHIBUYA STATION... Well, I just want to say in Japan, if you are a foreigner, they also go that far... Sorry for the comment is not really related to the video.

@edch7516 7 жыл бұрын

the best thing that ever happened to me was to meet my Japanese girlfriend, 100% happiness

@BreathFreeAndRemainNameless 4 жыл бұрын

mysteryman2024 Your lucky to even be in Japan. I’m not obsessed with anime or video games. I’ve seen some and played many. It just seems like a very special place.

@ahmedraza5369 4 жыл бұрын

@@BreathFreeAndRemainNameless same from me i mostly like there anime

@cdixon5150 4 жыл бұрын

mysteryman2024 got a girl yet?

@bongomongo9263 4 жыл бұрын

@@cdixon5150 haha happy new year

@DoomDeathYT 4 жыл бұрын

@@bongomongo9263 Happy New Year, Hope for the best in 2020.

@jazzmystic23 5 жыл бұрын

I’m American & I’ve been married to my Japanese wife for 10 years. Her parents, who are from northern Saitama (serious countryside) have always been very kind and friendly to me. Even though when her mother met me she said I looked like a “professional wrestler”.🤪

@Nahuel_Thiago 2 жыл бұрын

Alr no one ask you

@dmitry5233 2 жыл бұрын

@@Nahuel_Thiago Hey! You're so rude! Are you some kind of a barbarian that lives in africa or something!?

@dmitry5233 2 жыл бұрын

@@Nahuel_Thiago Get a life will you please!

@cr8284 Жыл бұрын

@@Nahuel_Thiago U get mad lol

@pokehero5327 Жыл бұрын

@@Nahuel_Thiagosure none asked but this comment is definitely relevant to the video.

@dingdingdingding5544 8 жыл бұрын

Weeaboos are drawn to Japanese women like flies to a carcass.

@jcv1999 8 жыл бұрын

Perfect comment.

@ThatKidinAfrica 8 жыл бұрын

roasted

@Anonymous_Man 7 жыл бұрын

Only to the 2D Japanese women. The contrast between how they look like and act in the anime and real life is a bit too stark for disgust to be avoidable. On the other hand a good looking asian woman in general is always a good option - they have good family values and work ethic - things in general lacking in Western women so as long as you can find a looker you'd be silly not to go for it.

@giovani9739 7 жыл бұрын

Anime girls look nothing like real Japanese women, so I doubt it.

@rajivnarayan5214 7 жыл бұрын

LOL

@arga7443 8 жыл бұрын

6:47 this girl is awesome, she's literally speakin without barely movin her lip, kudos to you girl

@masterofnova 4 жыл бұрын

Around that part it's almost like she's rapping without moving her mouth, incredible

@justateenager3181 3 жыл бұрын

she has a bug teeth

@allroundlad 5 жыл бұрын

"What if he spoke Japanese?" "Then I'd be interested" *Thank you for joining my mailing list*

@TempName525 3 жыл бұрын

Lol I’m learning Japanese rn 80% for this reason. Does that say something about me?... yes, yes it does

@myself784 3 жыл бұрын

@@TempName525 how are you learning Japanese?

@TempName525 3 жыл бұрын

@@myself784 mostly Duolingo

@myself784 3 жыл бұрын

@@TempName525 any other sources like website

@TempName525 3 жыл бұрын

@@myself784 not really. Duolingo is free. I just play that and watch anime. If there’s a word I want to know I google it

@DelightfulTravellers 7 жыл бұрын

Cool vids. Well done! We truly enjoyed it.

@LinkHyrule03 6 жыл бұрын

"Guys don't have cars these days" That's a Japan problem and a city problem in cities where mass transportation is common.

@----------------------------- 4 жыл бұрын

@@zanebecause00111 good luck living anywhere but SF and NYC. America is practically a car country, not that it matters anyways. China is leading in pollution anyways .

@Mili-bedili 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah the USA has terrible public transit. That's one thing that many international students and visitors complain about. Whenever I visit various countries in Northern Europe, their public transit puts the USA's to shame.

@DarylDSpivey 4 жыл бұрын

@@Mili-bedili I'm in NYC and have traveled. NYC has the best mass transit system in the world. Based on population and capability.

@justinweisel3337 4 жыл бұрын

No this is a growing problem in the US as well. Younger Millennials and the following generations have far less interest in not only owning a car but even driving them. As a note that's not just city kids but also kids in suburban and rural areas as well.

@justinweisel3337 4 жыл бұрын

@lightsouthaha You're right many Americans do, but car culture seems to have faded away over the last 10 years. These stories started back around 2012 and have persisted to this day. Ranging from sources like Forbes, Wall Street Journal, Business Insider, Vox, The Atlantic, NY Times, multitudes of articles from metro area newspapers (Chicago, DC, etc). Honestly you can just google something like millenials drive less or younger americans drive less (that's what I just did to list those sources). Honestly, half the reason this is probably true is the pervasive nature of Uber and Lyft.

@TheWarBe 8 жыл бұрын

Well, I gotta say. I think this guy knows his target audience..

@andresavp2005 7 жыл бұрын

This is really interesting. I like to see all the different body language when they answer questions. It's hard to learn things like that from most language courses. Good Job!

@dirtyharry0191 7 жыл бұрын

"Somewhere where men are not too dominant." So not Islamic theocraties, got it. "Likewise, somewhere not sexist." Again, not the Middle East.

@prim16 7 жыл бұрын

Now if only there was a place where women were dominant :3

@7mooddxx 7 жыл бұрын

Middle East does not equal Islam, fyi there are more muslims outside the Middle East than the ones in Middle East. especially in Asia

@amvCBG 7 жыл бұрын

definitely are some social rights where women do not have all the same priveliges. like in Saudi Arabia, women are not allowed to drive. however in pakistan women do have tge ability to become Doctors. the main issue is more social standing in these countries. it is not mandatory to wear a hijab or burka, but it is definitely frowned upon and would be considered a slut. my sister was very harrased because we visited an arabic country for a short while. she was not allowed to look anyone in the eye. and it was also because she wore a short skirt. so yeh. and altho a minority of refugees. sexual harassment has increased immensely. like they believe it is mainly wrong before marriage. but a lot of them just think it's ok and that the women are all begging for it because of the way they dress differently.

@AsukaLangleyS02 6 жыл бұрын

The Middle East is Asia....

@isprikitikburkabush6200 5 жыл бұрын

Anywhere in the world is better than Middle east

@seanhennessy6667 8 жыл бұрын

That thing about the giving directions and actually taking some one to where theyre looking for, I've done it. I let 2 korean guy tourists who underestimated the cost of travel and were broke stay at my house overnight and fed them. Then showed them where to get a cheap bus ticket and paid for it. I met them in front of my work at Sea World and even gave them 4 free tickets. So if anyone thinks the guy on the bus was just flirting, maybe true but then again there are alot of kind people in the world that have empathy for others.

@bevankj 9 жыл бұрын

I thought the one girl's story at 5:26 about the guy who went out of his way to escort her to her destination was pretty interesting, particularly since she thought it couldn't happen in Japan. To the contrary, I've heard many similar stories from westerners in Japan about asking for directions and then being taken by the hand (sometimes literally) and guided directly to their destination. As a foreigner just visiting a place you often see a very different side of the people and place than do the natives.

@RokonGaming 7 жыл бұрын

I think the best part about this video is how some of the women fluster around, I think that's pretty cute.

@smarty3112 5 жыл бұрын

Yuta, you are truly amazing, not only can you speak many languages but you are also really good at pronouncing them!!!

@ZhangtheGreat 8 жыл бұрын

That girl who told that story about her time in Vancouver...I've seen that happen first hand. When I was in Vancouver riding the bus, a young Canadian man saw an elderly couple visiting from Southern California who were about to explore Stanley Park. Not only did he offer to show them where to get off the bus, but he insisted on guiding them around the park himself because he had no other plans for the afternoon. Canadians seem to be just that friendly.

@akikogenho 9 жыл бұрын

This was a really cool video :) I'd love to see if counter part, Japanese men's thoughts on foreign women.

@alexl5636 4 жыл бұрын

imagine the subtitles are all bs

@gathanzo4751 6 жыл бұрын

thanks for doing these interviews its very interesting to hear different perspectives

@XCerykX 9 жыл бұрын

I would be interested in the second video. Interesting video though. One thing that would be really interesting would be knowing what Japanese girls are like. I noticed there were concerns about the culture gap, which would be one of my concerns too. So it would be kind of interesting to know what that gap is. Might even be interesting to do a video asking what people think that cultural gap is and how they think it might be dealt with.

@teamsalvation 9 жыл бұрын

Great job there man! Thanks for putting yourself out there to being rejection and simply doing all that extra footwork to make this video happen. Getting honest opinions from random people in Japan - looking for *real* Japan. Now, I am married to a Japanese woman, so you would think I have the best *real* Japan experience...and I do, however, as we all know, people are different. And my "Japanese" experience is so different from another person's "Japanese" experiences. Thanks again!

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 9 жыл бұрын

Thoughts, Ideas, and what? Exactly! Even my Japanese experience is very biased because of my background, personality, the place I live in, etc.

@miderwr9363 7 жыл бұрын

6:58 holy shit is that even a word

@Dominous787 7 жыл бұрын

I watched that part again. I don't think that was a word. If that was, that must be the longest word in the world.

@PopulotusBoogiedown 7 жыл бұрын

It was a sentence..

@nicolaspace1182 4 жыл бұрын

基本的な考え方 is what I believe she said when her speech accelerated. "kihon teki na kangaegata"

@BackiNator123 4 жыл бұрын

holy crap i just stumbled across this vid and iposted the same question ... that was to fast i couldnt even follow a bit xD

@dxpnf9ub06ewqfmburner9 3 жыл бұрын

@@nicolaspace1182 Japanese speak a lot of words to express very little.

@ramiror3903 7 жыл бұрын

Muy buen video, me ayudo para mi viaje a Japon! This video really helped me, to my trip there to Japan!

@migueldecarvalho8012 9 жыл бұрын

Damn! You speak Portuguese! Yes, we can certainly understand you. Interesting interviews.

@andresouza5751 8 жыл бұрын

+Miguel de Carvalho Yes, we can!

@imaninjakinda9640 8 жыл бұрын

no love for latin american guys :'(

@RamiroRae 8 жыл бұрын

+Imaninja Kinda They don't know what is good :^)

@imaninjakinda9640 8 жыл бұрын

amen hermano :(((

@TicoKira 8 жыл бұрын

* sits down* well... At least y'all have a higher chance than black people QAQ

@noble20xx56 8 жыл бұрын

+TicoKira Doodles 😭

@imaninjakinda9640 8 жыл бұрын

:3 i hope so :p

@VictorFursov 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for interesting review. Congratulations with your printed book, it's a really hard job indeed! Good luck and best wishes!

@maamotteesoot 7 жыл бұрын

I really have enjoyed your street surveys! My son is Australian, his girlfriend is Japanese. I have shared the links to a few of these videos - I think they will really enjoy and have a laugh! I'd like to learn Japanese with you Yuta San!

@Trace7173 9 жыл бұрын

I ordered you book from amazon last month and I really enjoyed it!.And your videos too..Keep up the great work!.The subject of dating in Japan is fascinating!.I've been to Japan 5 times and I have made some friends with musicians from the local Tokyo music scene. My friends are mostly female but unfortunately they are all platonic relationships. I am absolutely crazy about one of them but it's hard to escalate without the possibility of pushing her away and being turned off. Plus it's very easy for foreigners to mistake kindness for interest!.. And living in separate countries {I'm American} it is very difficult to start anything.

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 9 жыл бұрын

Trace Rollins Thanks for reading my book! I hope you will eventually have something romantic with a Japanese woman :)

@kartikasweet 9 жыл бұрын

ThatJapaneseManYuta most Japanese women like with man of own nation, most commonly they are more interested Japan, Korean or chinese man .... that's all I know ..

@jerrellmay494 8 жыл бұрын

+Kartika Widjaya I'm m

@injanhoi1 8 жыл бұрын

+Kartika Widjaya That's very true. Only some are interested in foreigners particularly white or black. They tend to be interested in English and foreign cultures. I just noticed very traditional Japanese women wouldn't marry a foreigner. The other thing I noticed is very pretty Japanese girls don't usually marry foreigners. They will marry a handsome Japanese boy or one with good character and money!

@Trace7173 8 жыл бұрын

+injanhoi1 I understand that it would be difficult to actually marry a Japanese women because of language and cultural differences. Plus I'm not looking to get married. I just hope my female Japanese friends actually like me because I don't seem to be a priority with them. They are slow to respond on social media but I see them reply to others quickly. In fact I sent a message to the girl I like telling her I was going to Japan in a few months and she never replied..She has replied in the past but not this time. So I have serious doubts about the whole thing

@thevillageyid 4 жыл бұрын

I just came back from Japan. The women there seemed pretty mellow and had a certain modesty to them which I quite like. Admittedly, they were a bit more stand-off-ish in Tokyo, but in Kyoto I felt they were more open and receptive.

@ragingjojo 2 жыл бұрын

this man has made so many of these videos i think hes mastered the algorithm

@franciscoortega2829 6 жыл бұрын

Dude speaks Spanish! That is too awesome. Tengo que aprender el Japones para poder comunicarme con usted. Im really enjoying your videos. I know these are old videos but they just showed up on my feed and found the interviews interesting. Ive always wanted to visit Japan - maybe even live there for a while.

@0xCAFEF00D 8 жыл бұрын

I get the feeling they got a different idea of what America is than the rest of the world.

@antonpetek1527 5 жыл бұрын

They are being consistently brainwashed to like America.

@iregreteverything360 5 жыл бұрын

@@antonpetek1527 Sounds like your country needs to be liberated

@carlosvega5919 5 жыл бұрын

Well, as a foreigner who already has visited the US and usually working overseas, 'Murica is WAY better than plenty of countries. I hate the restrictive policies other countries have to something so simple as carrying a knife, and I mean a utility knife such as SAK, Wenger or even a multitool, not an obvious weapon such as a Ka-bar. On the other side, I've been forced to get down of the bus along with all the passengers for random searches and patdowns in a couple of countries. I may be a minority, but small-town/midsize cities in the US are a dream to me and I think americans don't know how good they have it compared to most of the world.

@carlosvega5919 4 жыл бұрын

@@zanebecause00111 It means to me I can enjoy WAY more freedom. My country is overrun by criminals and the law enforcement wave at them and their visible guns, while I can't carry a TOOL without being harassed and my property being taken. Heck, I've have wood chisels (in sheaths, which were also in a bag) seized under the "dangerous weapon" excuse, despite being covered in sawdust. I by no means pass as american. Wanna know how many times I've been harassed by cops in the US? twice. both in commie-fornia. In my country? at least twice a week. Korea? customs and immigration want me to buy the back plane ticket under the argument "I would overstay" if not, even if I explain my company pay for it and they don't know how much time I may stay. Israel? hours of being held "for questioning" in an isolated room in the airport about my background, repeating and rephrasing the same shit once and again. Portugal police has been a pain in my neck for smoking duty free cigarettes "illegally bought"... in the D.F. store on the airport I departed from. Chile threw the british Silk cut cigarettes I bought in england out of my documented luggage... Bottom line, every country got their share of crappyness, but personally I care more for not being accosted by law enforcement on a regular basis for nothing more than I care for some snide or condescending comment from some random person.

@carlosvega5919 4 жыл бұрын

@@zanebecause00111 I've traveled far and wide and believe me, it's something you can experience if you are not in a tourist trap. Honestly I can't stand metropolitan US, but I'd rather be in Virginia/Georgia/Texas/Carolina than Spain or Singapore. Granted, social services in the US are shit and their education is in the hole, but at least in the small towns of the big country I've found the most authentic, friendly, and polite people, and that is the only reason I'd love to be there for life. ... Also, the food is great down there.

@Tory-JJ 7 жыл бұрын

I date a nice japanese girl, Love her very much

@familyguy1391 5 жыл бұрын

Hi how did you find your wife? I mean in US or Japan?

@XX-de8jp 4 жыл бұрын

Thats great. But nobody cares.

@powpowouchy5 4 жыл бұрын

@@XX-de8jp i kind of care. It's interesting to hear personal anecdotes in the comments and i like seeing others happy. Maybe you're just bitter and jealous bro?

@Saberdud 4 жыл бұрын

Are you guys still together?

@charlesrobey2109 8 жыл бұрын

I thoroughly enjoyed your video and I learned a lot about the woman's perspective and that is valuable information. I am not looking for a japanese gf but I think their sharing can help me understand all the women in my life. Good Job.

@vencanobody971 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much that helped me understand. I thought Japan was a totally different culture and that's why I was worried about trying to find happiness there. Thank the author

@CrystalGreymon 5 жыл бұрын

Speaking as a Brit, your observation about Britain's friendly people being located up North feels very true. I've lived in the Southeast my whole life and the sheer amount of cockwombles far outweighs the amount of mild-mannered individuals.

@QuackDragon 9 жыл бұрын

"Why?" "because they're taller" this made me laugh so much. XD That was a great video, it was very interesting. The behind the scenes style bit at the end was unusually good, as these types of videos often only have the first bit. I would love to hear the commentary.

@davidhouston4810 2 жыл бұрын

I always like your videos, and I do watch them to the end. I am particularly grateful for the Subtitles, those cc ones are rubbish.

@grayhat3070 7 жыл бұрын

Most people are nice, but you will always run in the idiots, no matter where you live.

@lordclown1187 6 жыл бұрын

I'd say it's the other way around. Nah, to be honest, most people are neutral but i'd argue there are more bad than good people as it is much easier to be bad, although mostly much more rewarding to be good if you can handle all the pressure.

@LovedandTheLover 5 жыл бұрын

@Lord Clown I would argue it more good then bad, but everyone has bad parts about them that are alot easier to see at the surface level. If someone yells at you rudely it's easy to believe they are a bad person but they might have been in a bad mood and are normally kind and have many positive parts you just never saw

@riley3812 4 жыл бұрын

YohanVan SminkelSmerf that’s 100% true. People think there are more bad than good. And that’s only because we acknowledge them. And not good people. I would say it’s 44-66%

@techmad8204 4 жыл бұрын

Riley yeah true you would remember a guy who was rude in just answering a question say in a foreign country you ask for directions if speedon just told you then minds his own business you don’t remember him but if you encounter a rude person you might be a bit hurt and remember it for the days to come

@ChrisSlack 9 жыл бұрын

You have a talent with languages! Good job getting pretty girls to stop and be interviewed.

@maxb9315 5 жыл бұрын

The girl who first appears at 0.37 is lovely. She's so pretty and has a charming, engaging manner and a beautiful smile.

@davidbolha 5 жыл бұрын

😏

@asifsiraj5502 3 жыл бұрын

the fact that you also asked about their views on dating southeast asian guys made me subscribe your channel :)

@pfguo87 4 жыл бұрын

Good questions, very informative

@StevenDavisPhoto 8 жыл бұрын

i love that one girl who is so eager to meet a foreign guy. she's so excited. i love her bubbly excitement. haha. i prefer asians that speak english, so japan is mostly out. philippines though... :) countryside girl seemed very closed off to the idea. haha.

@9imack 7 жыл бұрын

You're spot on about the UK. People in the North are way friendlier than they are in the South.

@michaelerickson538 7 жыл бұрын

Hey Yuta. Great video I really enjoyed watching it. I think you are good at doing interviews. I'd like to hear your commentary on the video if you decide to make it.

@itsPOG1 7 жыл бұрын

Great video mi amigo!!

@a.gfrancisco7649 9 жыл бұрын

What he said in Spanish was. I want to learn more Spanish but I do not have that much time and if you want to speak Spanish with me that will make me happy. Your Spanish is very good you sound like a Latino.

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 9 жыл бұрын

A.G Francisco Thanks for translating my Spanish :D

@SleepNGiant9 9 жыл бұрын

Great video

@ricardodefreitas5964 6 жыл бұрын

Hey,Yuta i just watched you on the tube and your spanish and Portuguese is pretty good,can speak both,thanks

@adamwilson6768 5 жыл бұрын

Interesting responses, didn't really expect such a large variation in opinions, mind you people of all race and culture have different views! Great video

@Freyfrank 8 жыл бұрын

The interviewees were all likeable and very good-looking young women. Which makes me all the more interested in the subject.

@Nocturne33 3 жыл бұрын

Only one of them was semi attractive imo

@Xenosaga 3 жыл бұрын

@@Nocturne33 which one?

@Nocturne33 3 жыл бұрын

@@Xenosaga the one with the scarf looks good

@jojo84526 8 жыл бұрын

Who was the girl with the blue shirt and black backpack and smiling alot! OMG omg

@saptron 8 жыл бұрын

Hola, muy buen video, me subscribo a tu canal. Keep the good videos coming.

@later928 7 жыл бұрын

Okinawa, Osaka, Kyoto, Nagoya, and Tokyo were very nice. People were friendly and on more than one occasion I was offered help by random people as I studied train schedules. Often people seemed excited to practice English, as much as I was excited to practice Japanese. I didn't notice a difference in niceness, I didn't have a single rude experience.

@BritishRail60062 9 жыл бұрын

I have just viewed your video and I would like to give my opinion here on this debate. I think that a dual-culture marriage can work fine if both parties are willing to compromise and are willing to accept each others differences. Not only that, but both can learn from each other more in terms of their cultures as well. In general I am an open-minded person and I grew up with hearing multiple languages as my family is Irish and my grandparents used to speak in Gaelic most of the time. So for me, learning a new language isn't a problem and with an international marriage. If they decide to have children. The children in the family will be atleast bi-lingual which would benefit them in their careers as they could work in a job that involves international trading for example. I would have no problem in marrying a Japanese woman if I met one and the conditions are right for the both of us (i.e: if we are fully compatible). Please do make more videos as I find them interesting and useful. I have subscribed as well. Cheers.

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 9 жыл бұрын

***** Do you speak Gaelic? That's very interesting!

@BritishRail60062 9 жыл бұрын

ThatJapaneseManYuta Unfortunately not as I have forgotten most of it due to living in England for all of my life. However that is going to change this year as I want my children to be able to speak it and I want to bring Gaelic back into my family tree :). l still remember a few words but unfortunately its not enough to hold a full conversation. Here is one for saying goodbye to a friend in Gaelic Slán go fóill mo chara. This translates into English as "Bye for now my friend" :). Cheers Ash.

@Cursedfenix 9 жыл бұрын

You pretty much described most marriages. There is always compromise in a relationship

@RAvery41 7 жыл бұрын

I am married to a Japanese Woman and culturally we get along fine. I find that most of the Japanese Women I have met over the years were fun and preferred hakujin but also preferred guys they felt they could trust. Men need to understand not to be pushy and forceful with any women and many men, especially French I have seen, especially in S/E Asia treat women as objects and are very rude in general. I also prefer to live in Japan.

@Mr.Riffian 4 жыл бұрын

00:38 This is the one you’re looking for. Looks like a straightforward and fresh personality.

@zakariazaki7513 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for video keep going 🤠 greeting from Morocco

@2reeceybaby 7 жыл бұрын

Racist....I'm really done with that damned word, like, I couldn't give a shit if someone is racist anymore, the word has become, that bad. You want to date someone of a certain colour/race/background, who gives a crap? It's your damned choice. The word Racist is just like the others, a word to silence opposing views.

@FlameKing91 7 жыл бұрын

Everyone is allowed to have a preference, people shouldn't be pressured into dating either in or out of their ethnicity if they dont want to.

@delavago5379 7 жыл бұрын

The word should die for real. I don't see a white guy or a black guy or a Asian guy I just see people. No difference.

@2reeceybaby 7 жыл бұрын

Exactly mate, I do make distinguishments between people, but those differences would never make me dislike or hate anyone.

@delavago5379 7 жыл бұрын

Reece Bailey thank God someone understands. And its nice to meet you. Btw I'm actually a Bailey too so it's nice to meet another one. My name's Delano Bailey 😆😆.

@delavago5379 7 жыл бұрын

It's ok to distinguish among our self. But to judge by the color of one's skin? That should end.

@CatSkinCap 7 жыл бұрын

I like that girl on 0:24 she's got a good style.

@theoaky8924 4 жыл бұрын

And just good looking in general

@leonardospillerlusente7737 3 жыл бұрын

She's gorgeous

@suntzu4607 5 жыл бұрын

Man... Watching these kinds of videos reminds me of that one japanese girl in 4th grade that always plays with me after school till my service arrives and I had a crush on her because she’s gorgeous. I hope she still remembers me. Her name is still stuck in my mind 14 years later.

@ravagesoyjoy 7 жыл бұрын

And i w saw the vid till the end/still listening :D

@blahchop 8 жыл бұрын

Girl in the blue shirt seems to be a bit too enthusiastic about gaijin lol

@blackhatexpert9106 4 жыл бұрын

The girl who keeps laughing is really cute ❤

@YG-lt8nq 6 жыл бұрын

I like this Video, the girls are all very openminded and soeak our their thought.

@Wrighjj 4 жыл бұрын

One expressed surprise at being escorted to her destination in Canada saying that wouldn't have happened in Japan. My experience, being a frequently lost foreign in Nagoya, is random people on the street would go way out of their way to guide me to my destination. I'd be embarassed when I only hoped to be pointed in the right direction. Old men, young women, anyone would walk me all the way to my destination. Japanese people are wonderful and seeing these sorts of interviews bring back wonderful memories of my time there.

@ARCexmachina 7 жыл бұрын

The girl in the scarf is so pretty!

@mickey8298 8 жыл бұрын

This video is a weeaboo's dream.

@best2453 4 жыл бұрын

Suck

@IIrandhandleII 4 жыл бұрын

What is that?

@darlinginthefranxx7201 4 жыл бұрын

😂

@mywifeisdead4826 4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@AKUMABOWSER 7 жыл бұрын

THIS GUY IS A GENIUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Muchas gracias por tu video!!!

@faizanmckagan2827 7 жыл бұрын

I like ur channel. I love riki takeuchi's acting !

@lusitangled1775 9 жыл бұрын

In Portugal I guess you have different people depending on how far north or south you go... being from the centre of Portugal, I only know what I've heard, but we say that people from the north are rude (meaning, they use a lot of swear words), but if you go further north it gets more rural and people are nicer and simpler. If you go to the south, people are known to be nice and welcoming, but I think that if you go further south people aren't as nice, maybe because it has become a tourist spot and a lot of foreigners (mainly British) live there. In any case, Portuguese people are known for their hospitality and their warm personalities. And people say the same about Europe! They say people from warm countries (Spain, Italy, Greece, etc) are more welcoming than people from cold countries (Germany, North of France, Switzerland, etc). Maybe temperature has something to do with it?

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 9 жыл бұрын

Ines Vilares You guys have sold me Portugal. I want to visit there!

@lusitangled1775 9 жыл бұрын

Do it! I'd recommend you see Lisbon, Cascais and Sintra, Sintra is my favourite place in the world! :) Maybe Coimbra as well, where there is our first university and it has a beautiful library, and you should definitely go to Monsaraz to see the castle and drink some wonderful wine.

@duc3r_prod 9 жыл бұрын

yhap! Sintra, Monsaraz are really unique you should come over man! : )

@TheDinosaurHead 9 жыл бұрын

My family is from the north of Portugal (Tras-os-Montes), I kind of actually agree with that statement. I tend to stray away from many portuguese when I lived in the states, (I can't find any now that I live in Japan) because I just didn't like the backstabbing and cold tough love lifestyle. I've never been to the southern parts liek Algarve, but I hope to go there one day. All I really know of Portugal is Porto, Minho, Fatima, Braganca and Tras os Montes. What I've seen of Lisbon is just the airport. Nice to meet a fellow Tuga ^_^

@canackcanack 9 жыл бұрын

lol you talk the exact opposite of another guy who commented here. He says ppl from the north are more welcoming than those in the centre ;D

@m00rtin4 7 жыл бұрын

poor girl coming from fukushima. must be hard for her

@thedarkflowkiller 7 жыл бұрын

how is that funny

@crazysam871 7 жыл бұрын

Some low IQ humour, I guess!

@watchfreeshits 7 жыл бұрын

Cant tell whether youre being sincere or sarcastic

@smorgington 7 жыл бұрын

Christ, I completely forgot about the radiation there. I was so confused about what you were talking about.

@d_bennji 6 жыл бұрын

Umm, not everything in Fukushima is radiated, The Fukushima-City is like totally fine, or Iwaki, even Sendai is completely fine... they just need to be aware of the Coastline and the Dangers it all brings ..

@matthewdeepblue 5 жыл бұрын

I listened, congratulations on the book... I liked the "happy girl" who like foriegners so much, the one who "has thought about" dating foriegners. She was cute, she also seemed happy in general.

@imfeelingsadaf8750 5 жыл бұрын

In Portugal south or north we are all friendly 😊 thumbs up for you since you refered my country

@MusicSkypirate 9 жыл бұрын

Interesting to hear multiple opinions from Japanese women. I am surprised the UK wasn't mentioned though. Previous Japanese friends and people I know say they quite like the idea of going out with English people. Although I was also told it's mainly because of the language more than anything!

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 9 жыл бұрын

Music Skypirate Music Skypirate I think many Japanese people are interested in the UK. Actually, I talked about this on my podcast: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/i7OpksmF3LuYo2w.html

@MusicSkypirate 9 жыл бұрын

Ooo Thank you. I will listen to this tomorrow ^-^b

@bonbonpony 8 жыл бұрын

05:39 CSI:KZfaq, find this guy ;J

@ThatJapaneseManYuta 8 жыл бұрын

+Bon Bon Actually, we found that guy. He commented on this video.

@bonbonpony 8 жыл бұрын

That Japanese Man Yuta Nice! :) Good to hear that :) But I guess that finding that comment on KZfaq will be hard - nay, I can't even find my own comments I made a week ago, because yeah, Google is totally a search engine, right?... :P

@0532MOET 8 жыл бұрын

I don't get it

@lucascharlier6601 8 жыл бұрын

+Bon Bon control+f

@bonbonpony 8 жыл бұрын

Lucas Charlier You think you're so smart, ain't you? :P Ctrl+F works only for finding text which already is there in the HTML document. It won't find the comments which aren't loaded yet, and thanks to another geniuses like you working for Google, almost 99% of the comments aren't there until you manually load them through XMLHttpRequest call.

@mgtowportugal7055 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for speaking a little bit of portuguese ! Congrats for the chanel.

@BLarsenPhoto 7 жыл бұрын

Hi Yuta san. Thanks so much for your videos. I've been enjoying watching them as it's helping my Japanese. I'm wondering if you can please add subtitles in Japanese? I can read hiragana and katakana, and quite a lot of kanji, but I find it hard to hear the words Japanese use in your videos sometimes because they speak quite quickly and sometimes not so clearly.

@WolfShaman777 9 жыл бұрын

Japanese women, are Wonderful...

@WolfShaman777 9 жыл бұрын

Keristen96 :)

@zekromepic678 9 жыл бұрын

MoMusuArchives HEBAT?

@nntflow7058 9 жыл бұрын

Way Of One 777 They won't date or marry you though.

@infiltr80r 8 жыл бұрын

Your comment, is Strange...

@Kuroganashi 7 жыл бұрын

The First girl in Video is the most open minded one, however I can see what the other girls are saying too and can't help but agree with it all.

@manicusevictus 7 жыл бұрын

cool vid, thanks for the info as for people being friendlier in the south, that is also true in my country Trinidad and Tobago (2 island state) i live in Trinidad though.