Literally the first YT video saying that it's ok to have a busy partner... 🥺

I feel healed, rejuvenated, empowered, strong, I have a changed mindset after watching this! I was battling with a lot of anxiety and my emotions were all over but this helped me 😭 I ask God this morning to give me something to watch or send me a message that will help me I spend a lot of time praying and stuff however God sent you to encourage me and I’m so thankful! I wrote down all the notes.

Being with a trucker(working 14 hours a day, no time can be stolen from sleep, absolutely random schedule, very limited deadline, truck always being broken requiring repair paid by the trucker themself. If you aren't familiar with a trucker's routine) living abroad having literally no days off made me stronger💀. Nothing works other than hope for future and fantasy when there's no internet connection or time to talk or money to meet. I love him so hard, I know he wants to earn more to meet sooner and I can't imagine being with someone else but...usually receiving only a couple of messages a day from week to week and a call once a couple of months wears me out

Thank you for your honesty. I just sent a positive message to my partner because lately I have made him feel guilty for working and it is not his fault that he has to work.

6:30 well it absolutely is about me when my relationship is compromised. I love the positive message of this video and this is a very important aspect of it but you also need to be sure about your own needs and make sure they keep being met.

You made me feel more confident to date a busy man. He's so consistent and caring so I'm gonna follow all your tips and be more understanding ,busy , growing and patient. Thank u so much

I've been sad for about two weeks about not being able to spend quality time with him, but this video smacks some reality in my face. Thank you very much! I need this!🥺❤

Very helpful, I pray you have more strength. This is really helpful ❤️

I am so grateful for ur positive insights. It all makes so much sense.

Im so happy I found this video! Thank you so much for these advices helped me so much. ❤️

Thank you for this video. More videos like this please. I was freaking out myself. Definitely going to find more things to do. I been hanging with friends more as well.

This is a great video....thank you so much for the tips. I was freaking out when me and my partner started talking less because he got a job. I almost pushed him away with my worryinv but I'm glad I came across this video great advice 😊.

Thank you for the video, really! My partner’s schedule got really tight about a year ago and since then it has taken a toll on us. Like you, we went from calling every day to short calls twice a week, besides barely texting throughout the day, it is hard to get used to a new routine after more than 2 years doing the same every day. I feel like I’ve been through all of the stages/topics you’ve mentioned and trust me when I say it was not good. It’s been a year and we still weren’t able to recover and completely adapt to all of this, it’s been hard. I’m really glad I’ve found your video because it made me realize I’m not crazy for feeling the things I feel, but it also makes me think about how I could be a better partner for him as well, specially considering how stressed he is. Again, thank you!

thank you! This is just what I've needed to hear right now. I've been struggling with this and grateful you made this! great advice :)

I am enlightened ❤ Appreciate this content of yours. Cheers to more helpful contents Sis 🙏😇

I was really down about this, but ur positive perspective really lifted my mood and made my day. So thank you ❤️

This was so relatable and helpful… thank you

Ms. Leah with the keys 🔑!!! Go on with this great advice!!

This is sooo helping. Perspective is so important. Thank you so much.

Hey! thanks a lot for sharing these helpful tips!

Thank you! I’m going through it for the first time in my life that I had to youtube it lol you’re amazin!

Going through pretty much exactly this right now. Thank you for making this. It just helped hearing someone go through something similiar.

thank you so much for making this video ❤ I needed this

This was very helpful because every LDR vid I've seen is so vague or seems aimed at new grads starting uni. In my 30s & my partner is an hour away and works 2 jobs and the only one with a car. Been tough as I'm super flexible but he's barely making time for himself. So guess I'm exploring what I can do to facilitate a more fulfilling LDR and be fair/mindful of his crazy full schedule. I've been out of work a year....so polar opposites rn. Lol sorry late night LDR laments. Thanks again for ur vid

Really good advice! Helped me a lot with my introspection/journaling/organizing my thoughts!! Thank you & hello from 2021!

Thank you for advices. You've really put some senses into me. It's actually what I wanted to hear at the moment😊

Yoo girl thankyou so much!!!u can't even imagine how much of a help these things u told are to me telling that it's okay to feel this way and it's okay to have someone who is busy ❤❤lots of love 😘😘

This is actually helpful practical advice! Thank you

This was very helpful, thank you. A lot of videos on this topic are "prepare for the end" was nice to get this perspective.

Thank you so much for this!

Thank you for this ❤️ very enlighting!

I needed this! Thank you

This is really helpful 🥺❤️ all my friends told me to be negative about it and thank God

Very helpful video! Thank you!❤

I appreciate this so much. My tip would be try (if you’re comfy) try and schedule showers at the same time. It’s fun and very connecting.

He is busy during week and even holidays let's not fool ourselves

Thank you so much sister❤your advise really helped me!! Stay blessed. Stay safe...love from india!!!!

My husband just left to the military. Thank you so much for this. I’m bookmarking this video❤️

Thank you so much I needed this so much ❤

Thanks for this cuz when I’m see my baby gurl ima be so happy

It was helpful! Thank you 💓

Thank you so much for the tips/advice. I’m a single mom with a toddler and live 1hr 20 mins from my partner who works nights and in the reserves. I work from home during the day. I’m trying hard to be positive and stay busy

omg am so glad I came across this video I was feeling down about this he is so busy and hardly has time for me I was getting worried and feeling like we have to talk everyday but when life gets busy what can we do I am praying we reunite and for a long lasting love we engaged 💍 so I pray we get married soon

Seriously, you just told me everything I needed to hear. Thank you! My partner and I live about an hour away from one another and have been lucky to be able to see each other a lot these past few months due to flexible schedules. In a few weeks, she'll be starting school and a new job and I'll be starting a full-time internship so it's definitely going to be an adjustment. But at the end of the day, we chose one another and I'm confident it'll all be okay :)

I’m a Taurus too. This video helped me so much thank you 😅🙏

This video gives positivity ❤️

Thanks for the video it was helpful

this video made me realize how fortunate I am, my long distance partner has been super busy and stressed lately but he still makes time to text me daily and we have nightly phone calls. I still find myself missing him bc I am a needy person (which I'm trying to change), I'm learning to enjoy my alone time and be happy spending time with myself again. I try to keep myself busy as well so I'm not constantly waiting around to hear from him. & when my anxious attachment gets the best of me instead of texting/calling him asking for reassurance etc I just dump all my thoughts into a journal. I won't lie I have been starting a lot of arguments especially after we see each other and yet he hasn't given up on me, that's all the assurance I need to know he cares and wants this to work as much as I do. After coming VERY close to losing him I realized I needed to change my mindset asap, which is why I journal and try to stay busy these days.

Omg ❤️ you are right thanks for this video it's make me happy or make me strong bacause ihave in long distance relationship with my boyfriend he is very busy man 🙏

This made me feel better

Im so happy to know that im not the only one going through this right now. My boyfriend has always been busy and it was easier for us to talk in the summer but now i started school and i need to go to sleep early and we have 8 hours difference and its just killing me. He’s so busy but i hate it when he’s busy. I want attention you know. And it leads me to do stupid things like spam calling him, getting mad at him for not checking his phone because he leaves me on delivered for hours sometimes, saying mean stuff etc.. but at the end of the day its really not his fault he has controlling parents that always keep his schedule busy.😢 i’ll try not to be so controlling and mean when he has a life outside the relationship because me being like this really pushed him away and i was this close to losing him. I hope it works out❤️

Sooo hard but this video was needed

I just realised I was being toxic all this time doing all of the don'ts mentioned until it took me 3 to 4 days to get used to this and be supportive...trying to be more of it ...glad he didn't leave me for that...am sorry love ❤

this video really helps thank you

Thank u I needed this vid, I miss him, my anxiety is a lot at times,and I overthink a lot since my bf has a full time job and of I got a flexible job.

Great peace. I like it

OMG I NEEDED THIS… everything u mentioned was my problem and it also made me realize how selfish I was😭 God please help me change, understand and have more trust in my very loyal and good husband! Because he is a GOOD MAN❤️

Amazing Amazing practicals!!!!!!

It feels like you are talking to me😊

Thanks for sharing.

This is just what I wanted to hear I'm in a long distance relationship my boyfriend is in US and I'm in Nigeria but my partner is always very busy

Its difficult those two words im busy hurt but you saved my relationship

Thank you 😊

Me and my gf had issues she got a lot more busy with school and I’ve always been busy with work we had a set schedule that changed dramatically when she went to college it lead us to not talk as much as we used to but we compromised a schedule and work around it now it was perfect seeing this from a female perspective because my gf and I would argue and never get a understanding therefore my gf would hold a lot in and no express herself we’re doing a lot better now thank you for the advice underrated channel 💯🙏🏾

this videos reasoning is what im trying to explain to my partner right now. shes very busy with work and she doesnt have a lot of time anymore to talk and see eachother. she said she wants to break up because she think i deserve better and her schedule has changed. Im trying ti explain that i support her taking time away from me to study so she can chase her career. I told her that im there for her and we can mend our schedules to better fit it or take a break until shes finished with the studying she has to do. we want a long term realtionship but she think i deserve better because shes not giving most of her time to me. Im trying to let her know that the mindset shes using isnt healthy for us and we can steal have a connection even when shes busy and all she needs to do is give me bare minimum. little things like just replying to my texts when she can and calling when she can. Its a difficult time for her right now and i want her to know that i support her through it and that it is temporary. things wont be like this forever and im so happy for her doing the things she needs ot get done. but i believe that it shouldnt mean that we brea up because "i deserve better". its not fair to her or to me and not fair to this true and genuine connection we have.

thank you❤

Hi I am also in Long distance relationship last time when we talk I told. Him to give me time but he was too busy he told me he will. Call. Me later but he didn't after that he is not talking to me from 3 days may be he is ignoring me what to do about it

My bf is too busy to event text me good morning/night. We were break up before and get back together. Our issue is he is too busy and he is busy since he has 2 jobs and taking master. The thing is I am tired to make him make time for me. Idk if it was good decision to get back to him. Sometimes I wanna be supportive, sometimes I feel like tired my need is not met.

Hey i have an issue😪 ok so recently my boyfriend started working and his energy towards me just changed. When we're talking on the phone he just comes up with something to make him hang up. No more reassurances💔. I've tried to talk to him about why his energy changed, he just says it because of work. After talking about it he was his usual self again like we talked well. I just find myself thinking about him alot but then on the phone he's just so down. Idk what to do😔

Me and my partner don't get to call each because of his busy schedule. Now that the NFL has started he's even more distant.

Can’t choose my battles and timing if my partner doesn’t even communicate their schedule with me 😭

Let me go through comments before i watch this video

Can he be too busy to forget a whole date that he set up in the first place, to make up for another he missed ?????I feel like this video is good advise based on its content, other ppl are going through worse.

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But how do you stop the anxiety and overthinking ?

We been arguing everyday what should we do

The music is too loud

But what about when he make his time full of educational videos and gym and walking and trying to find new things to make his day more full and when u talk to him he say social media is a waste of time. I mean we are in long distance relationship... 😅

wow I kinda already did all the "don'ts" :((

I'm a very emotional person and my Partner and I are Uni students. Next semester he'll be Going to Classes, Studying and making money. We'll be in different provinces. Im introverted and i talk to only him. He told me to go to the gym but im terrified of it.I felt like he didn't want to spend time with me and i was hurt. But after watching this, my mindset's changed. I realized how much we love each other Thank you Leah 🥹 ❣️