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Praying for everyone who's in a long distance relationship including me!

I met my husband through a dating site and we first met physically after 8 months of dating online.. We now 13 years married and we have a handsome 9 year old kid..

1•He has a plan for the two of you to be together. 2•He takes you to his fun childhood memories. 3•He is apart of your daily life 4•He includes you in his fun life moments. 5•Consistent form of communication.

My long distance boyfriend texts me EVERY morning to greet me asks did I have a good night, asks me about my day's activities and shares his plans. He will face chat or call me during the day. He's very considerate of my feelings and doesn't like me to cry if I'm sad - he's actually cried when I cried at one time. We're making plans to meet and eventually get married... I'm soooo excited!!

When will this Corona end??? I am sure many who are in a LDR want this to end. Who wouldn't want to meet the love of their life? I do❣❤❤❤

Those in LDR too, we will get through this - and when we reunite with our partners... it will be absolute BLISS...

We should pray harder that this pandemic will end so that we can meet our LDR partners. God bless us all

Gotta throw this out there, I’ve also been in a couple of LDRs where my partner checked all of these boxes over a year + long distance, and guess what? He was seeing other women and not being honest with me. This happened in 2 different LDRs, one being very serious (discussing marriage and future plans, traveled to see each other regularly). Always pay attention. 👀 Sometimes these same men who are perpetually drawn to LDRs are living a double lives, and perhaps you are drawn to LDRs because you are drawn to unavailability in men or this fantasy life you’ve created through virtual experiences (our brains like to fill in the “gaps” about people we don’t know in person). The success rate for LDRs is not great (check the data), however, the best point in this video is to look for your partner making plans to end the long distance status. Meaning, LDRs should be temporary and dating should be intentional, for the purpose of determining you want to be together in person. Look for planning, clear & consistent communication, does he include you on social media, does he introduce you to his social circles and family?If you determine you want to be together, are you both moving towards making that a reality (in a reasonable amount of time, not overnight obviously). Ladies, please be careful out there. There are a lot of lovebombers and scammers who leverage long distance and our sad online dating culture as a way to lure in lonely women. May good fortune & blessings be with you all. ❤️🙏🏽

everything was on point! another one that wasn't mentioned and is also important: he lets you be! he encourages you to have a life, to hang out with friends, family, coworkers, and doesn't demand you to tell him where you are 24/7. he wants you to have an independent life of your own, and trusts you 100%.

5. Consistent forms of communication. 4. He includes you in his fun moments 3. He's a part of your daily life, though you are apart 2. He takes you to his fun childhood memories 1. He has a plan for you to be together!

No matter what, we make sure to pray together. It may be in the morning or evening. It gives us peace and assurance.

The passionate thing about him is, he asks everyday what my plans for the day are. He doesn't forget to say, take care babe I love u.....

It's been 2 years and we haven't met each other yet, but 2020 is the year! I'll see him physically for the first time by April ❤

Super love this line: "Whatever you love, you prioritize."

Reading through the comments and omg we totally need a LDR support group !!

He uses songs to express his thoughts and feelings.

Dating from a distance takes a LOT of creativity to keep the relationship fresh and tight.

This so true, my husband showed all these signs while we were dating ( long distance) we are going into 2 years of a happy marriage 🧡🧡🧡🧡

1. He has a plan for u to be together 2. He takes u to his fun childhood memories 3. He's a part of ur daily life 4. He includes u in his fun life moment's 5.Consistent forms of communication

Proud to be in healthy long distance relationship where my guy has been doing all these which is above mentioned in the video to keep me happy 😊 Love you Vignesh😊

Most of these signs, my bf has already done. First he started to texted and then video calls me everyday, even when he was at work. Even if he had 5 minutes of free time from work he video calls me. He works in the military so it’s abit difficult for him. He then includes me in all his activities like when he goes fishing, he’ll also video calls me and shows me where he is and who he’s with and what’s he is doing which is really sweet and cute. Then when I wasn’t feeling well he calls me to ask me if I was doing okay, he never stopped even when I was feeling better. He shows all his friends and tells them that I’m his gf etc. Lastly he eventually wanted to meet me and planned out a day to see me and take me out on a date. He traveled 8 ours to see me, even when it was only 1 day we got to spend with each other, it was one of the best days ever for me.

Me and my fiance is in LDR. We communicate every single moment of the day. We leave voice messages when one of us is at work or asleep. We are each other's personal alarm clock 🤗🤗🤗

10,000 miles away he messages every time he wakes up. He sends pics of things he’s cooking. 6 months in and we’ve talked and come to know each other better than in the 10 year marriage I had in the past. I found my true love ❤️

Met my ldr a year ago...we finally met 2 weeks ago...was everything I hoped..now she's moving in one month! Fuxk what anyone says, those of you who have a real one stay focused.....it can definitely happen!!!!

In long distance relationship just trust to each other and love 101%

It's confirmed. He loves me ❤️😁

2 years next month with my boyfriend, we started in a long distance relationship, everything you said is us, hopefully marriage is soon Long distance works guys if you both know what you want and if your love is genuine Good luck to all❤️

My boyfriend lives in Delhi and I live in Chennai...he is making great effort to relocate to Chennai ASAP ❤️

after watching this, I’m 100% confirm that my man is the one :’) ♥️

I'm in a long distant relationship He sings to me He leaves me love voicemails He writes lovenotes😘😘

Whenever he is having a group videocall with his family, he includes me. He let me have conversations with his mom always.🥰

To be honest I am overthinker but hearing this made me so happy because my boyfriend literally does all of this. And sometimes its easy to focus on the bad but damn this really made me smile.

Just here to make sure I'm doing everything right. I love her so much

He does all these things and now I realize that “I” am the person who don’t put enough effort💔... gotta change that!❤️

We do virtual dates, like watching something together or eating or listening to music.. and then talk a lot and stay together virtually 😌

The time difference between me and my partner is 7 hours. We both have busy work schedules but we make time to talk and text almost everyday. He always makes sure that he calls either before midnight or at dawn my time so I can get enough rest before work the next day. In return, I send him love notes and voice recordings or me singing love songs for him because he loves them to bits. We are planning to be together and possibly get married as soon as the travelling restrictions are lifted so do wish us the best with everything. I hope everyone here is also blessed with the best outcomes in their LDR. Stay positive and strong and let’s cherish our loved ones to the best that we can despite the distance or anything that comes in between. God bless ❤️

He calls me every night before he goes to sleep! I love that he does this each and every day without fail. In almost a year, we have only missed a night or two. He shares pictures of nights out with the guys at times and other fun times I have to miss. He's a keeper.

I rewatch this again just to make sure my 3y long distance relationship man still loves me sooo much...im truly blessed...we got 4 of them except #2 because i never visit him...but he included me when he was with his family via facetime...he would tell me a lot of his childhood stories...

praying for everyone in a long distance relationship. it is honestly very tough...but prayer, understanding and trust are fundamentals while waiting for the moment where both will clise the distance.

I developed an LDR with a much younger man on a FB film page nearly 3 yrs ago. He's in Cape Town and I'm in NYC. I'm not a cougar and never cared for younger men (he's an old 48, and I'm a young 71). We just clicked. We spent 7 months yakking away about books, films, music before we became intimate. I flew to meet him in person last Nov and we were shy but had a great time touring his beautiful city. When I returned to NYC it hurt to be apart so he had a flight to me in June, canceled due to Covid. We're in daily contact, waiting. His lockdown was particularly rough and he's been quite miserable but somehow we manage to keep it light. This is a test of patience like no other for me.

I'm in a long distance relationship and it's checks out all the signs that he really loves me. So lucky to have him

He’s consistent, he talks about our future and he makes being in a relationship easy even if it’s LDR.

I always have a stress weekends at works so my man would do something beforehand like he'll go to the beach and like "I'm taking to to a date before your day gets busy" and he'll sending you power hug, or hey, you know I'm just here ok. It's just sweet I find it heart wrenching.

When a man truly loves you. He will let you know. And that time you’ll know. No need for signs.

Regardless of the hardship, obstacles and issues he has never given up on us.

He's planning our future together. He tells me every day we're apart how much he misses and loves me. His love gives me strength and joy to meet another day

I just started with a long distance relationship and it’s been a month. So far he carries all those characteristics and I am trying too as well. Hoping this will be consistent. Praying we get to see each other next year as we planned.

Since the day that i met him i knew that we have some sparks between us. Most of the day he would make me laugh by singing some funny songs or make himself more funny. I never realized that he’s going to get serious because the time when he asked me to be his gf it sounds like a casual. Then things got more serious when he introduced me to his parents and his bff. He involved me to his hobbies and his memory lane. He’s always there for me and when I’m sad i just saw him caressing the screen as if he was touching my face. I love my bf deeply and I’m blessed that i had him. He always include me with his future plans ♥️

I married my 3 year long distance boyfriend. We unknowingly did every thing he said.

He always encouraging me that I'm stronger than I think to just hang in there

Bless all of you who are in a LDR like me I hope you get to move in with them asap and be happy together!

5. ✔️ 4.✔️ 3.✔️ 2. Not meeting him yet 1. Haven’t talk about it clearly Talk to him from early 2019, and suppose to meet him in 2020 May, but damn virus ruin everything.

I'm in an LDR for about a half year now and already I can see the difficulties that comes along with communicating and sharing experiences which are not being lived through together but seperately. The most important thing so far I've learned is to open up yourself and to be honest about your mood, your situation, your desires, your plans, your actions, your feelings and thoughts. Wether it feels positive or negative, together there is always a way to work it out because you are supposed to be a team after all. Sometimes its hard to move on when there is more dead air in the conversations or when its not really the right moment to try to make eachother laugh/feel happy. But let the mood be what it is and respect eachothers situation Also the sad moments where you want to hold eachother tight are hard because there is the distance in between. But keep telling the other that youre there for her/him in any way you could. Write a little poem, send some chocolates, or a funky letter with some silly jokes. Hold on to positive memories you have created together and re-live them together in chat. Keep naming up the things you like about the other and try to be very tactfull and considerate when talking about the doubts or issues that you have with or about the other. Open up your gate towards self-awareness in order to know what your attitude, facial expression, behavior, tone of voice, subject of conversation and even your appearance might have for an effect on the other. Try to do some out of the box thinking and get out of your comfort zone and do a crazy little silly dance or make a date to dress up with a glass of wine and candlelight on the webcam, do naughty stuff when both of you are in the mood for it and make eachother feel sexy and excited about eachother. Try to read the other a little/ or longer story before going to sleep or just during the day when he/she can actively listen to you. Try to look forward to exciting events/happenings or experiences or life goals together or at least try to live positively towards the happy moments of celebration or satisfaction that you can share. Try to sync-watch a movie/video together and pause it together when having a break so that you actually kind off see the movie together. If you go out into the nature, take a little noteblock with you and write down every single thing or moment that makes you think of the other deeply and share it and tell her/him why it made you think of the other. Share pictures, video's of yourself or your daily 'whatever you can think of' stuff. Play any type of online game together that you both like. Talk about the future together and imagine how that would be/look/feel like and let your creativity flow. And so there are many many more things to actually think of to share/do to make your relationship last and feel better for the long distance. Think of romantic ways to share your time together: youtube can actually help you ;) But most important: Keep telling that you LOVE the other and explain why! Be creative on that part and think of different ways to tell him/her that you feel love for and appreciate the little things that you both try to do or put effort into. For those in an LDR, I wish you goodluck and lots of love because thats what we are all looking for even though it might feel like going up and down a little from time to time. But thats fine. Let it be and celebrate the fact that you have found eachother and live forwards to the exciting moment of meeting again and again untill you finally find the solution/key/way to live together! GO FOR IT!!

the way my guy is fulfilling each and every thing makes me so much happy

I've been in the longest relationship for 3 years I'm embarrassed but I love you channel keep up the good work

He flew me out in just 3 weeks of talking . Took me to meet his brother , took me to his friends and it’s only been like 1 month . Next flight booked and this time I’m to meet his kids 😍😍😍 LDR 🔥🔥❤️❤️

After watching this Me: teary eye 😭, he doesn't love me 😭

He is an absolute sweet guy, and what I notice is when I send pictures throughout the day is that he will heart the pictures that include me and the way he smiles and looks up at the ceiling when he sends a selfie shows he is truly knowledgeable of the fact that he is my top interest!

As Mat is going through this list, I'm checking these things off, as I in a long distance relationship and gratefully my guy does these things and more. I've received some very amazing love letters via email. My guy is very expressive and articulate and I find that also helps me to be that way too. Praying for the day when we will be together and for all of those who are apart to be together too!

I'm single and watching this video 😂😂

I'm in a long distance relationship for about 5 years now , we loved each other so much but to be honest it's getting harder for us but we still trying to make it work.

Currently in LDR for more than a year (yes, because of Corona). Haven't met him yet in person but there are things he said and done that I can prove his love. 1) Family - he share things about his family. For me information about your family is very private. Yet he was able to share important facts about his family. 2) Personal Comfort - he goes way beyond his personal comfort just to make me feel that he appreciate and love me. I do hope that Corona will end soon. Once boarders are open then we can see each other. And I do hope that he is THE ONE.

This is all correct! I love that I hanged here for few minutes, I thought before ldr doesn't work, I've been with some ldr relationship but all that past relationships don't work except this one I have now. I'm so glad to hear this signs. One thing I am assured that ldr works when you both pray together every day, you both have relationship with the Lord, read the Bible together and give courage to each other. This video encouraged me that I am doing the right thing and I am on the right track now. Thanks be to God!

He includes me in every important moment of his life, he always say that u r family, he calls me his wife though we're nt married yet....i don't need any video to judge him or our relationship.....he is one in a million ❤️

We are not yet in a relationship yet as we are still getting to know each other. But we are both open to the idea of being in an official relationship. He has done all the things enumerated here and I also know he is truly into me. I just hope this pandemic ends very soon so we could meet.

he is committed to you everyday and tells you he will always be there for you and he spoils you like you deserve to be! he calls and messages and he tells you he loves you 30 times a day and supports you and motivates u everyday!

Thank you for this❤️ I'm thankful to God that my man is exactly what you are telling in the video.

It's been almost 3 years of our long distance relationship and total of 5 years of our relationship. Just because of this Corona thing my flight got cancelled. It really sucks

I have all those signs from my Man , he tells me I’m his 1st priority in his life he calls me his heartbeat he calls me his wife his queen tells me there is no one else he wants to spend his life with in November he is moving me and my boys into his home in a different state he brags about me to his friends says he can’t wait to show off our love to the world he ask me to marry him on August 23 2019 💕💕 we have a long love story but we are each other’s happiness and joy💗

Im a filipina and he's a Deutsch. Aww. I am grateful to have him. 💝 So excited to meet him sooooon. 🙏🏻

I am in long distance relationship and it's really going on well, we will get to meet each other soon. Communication is 100%

He always make me calm after a argument or fight. He will explain to me what going on ❤️

I'm in LDR... I keep smiling while I'm watching this video. Yes, that's him ❤️

Afraid of Long Distance Relationship but more afraid to loose the connection with that person. So I give it a try. And every signs you said is exactly what he’s doing. I thought LDR is hard but it turns out to be easy and natural, maybe I’m in the right man💗

Thanks Desmond for always being there for us, I know you truly love me right from day one 😘I love you too babe❤️

I'm in a long distance relationship he is part of my daily life. He wants to make my problems he problems. We always talk for hours every day on vidoe and we watch movies together even thou we are far apart we still do same things. We meeting up one day can't wait to meet him. Good luck everyone 😊😊❤

He always ask my opinion before decide anything related to us or even to him

I really needed this for reassurance. My guy & I aren’t too far away, a lil over an hour, but he works a ton (90 hours a week). It’s really hard for us to see each other. He makes sure to communicate with me regularly. Just as your #5 point stated: we communicate at the same times every day, but it’s natural. It has become routine. I have so many fears that he will become tired of it & lose his love for me because we don’t get to see one another. I’m dealing with so many insecurities. He does reassure me, but it’s brought so many hardships to us to the point where we’ve almost broken up a few times.

My bf those three of the above 1. He has plans of us living together 3. He is a part of my daily life 5. Consistent form of communication And I love him so much and I know he loves me so much Praying for all those who are in a long distance relationship.

I’m currently in a LDR for almost a year & I must say my boyfriend & I have great communication & we both share life moments as well

Truth! Everything you applied in this video. My boyfriend is continuously doing, showing, and taking time for me to be apart of his life every day. Just last night, we talked about what he did for that day, actually called and texted me consistently throughout our day, is planning on hanging out with his friends and family.

Me and my boyfriend has all this. We always communicate he calls me everyday. We laugh,we talk everything and i am part of his life and plan to be together. hopefully oneday we will get married ❤🙇‍♀️🥰

Constant communication is the key.. same time every day or surprise facetimes, I got today, lovely surprise. Stay close no matter what. If it’s love it will work out!!

I've been dating my amazing guy long distance for ten years yes he checks all the boxes. Never been happier! We see each other twice a month. I even order his groceries to be delivered when he needs them and send him care packages every so often. I spend every day away from him working to be the best version of me for him.

I am in a LDR. I am so happy you posted this video. I am mature enough to look for good qualities and effort in another person. But as a woman I have been hurt in past. So second guessing myself out of protection is a given. But, I smiled ear to ear knowing my handsome man has been putting all of your 5 points to use since we started to fall in love. He makes constant tremendous effort to make sure I am safe and comforts me even when I have been in hospital. (He completely freaks out when that happened by the way). But he wouldn't even sleep till he new I was home, had all my meds and was resting. He did all of this by texting and video calls. I think he's a keeper, don't you?

This is a spot on description.

Yes,stable communication is a must to have strong relationship in long distance relationship

You will daily be informed and involved into everything he/she does. This is true, Matt.

After I watch this, Me: Oke, he doesn't love me. Only me who love him 🙁

I've been in a long distance relationship too. Sooo difficult the situation is very tough. I'm tell him lately that I think we need to have a space for now,so that he can focus in his work and me as well. I'm not giving up, cause I know everything has the right time. Prayer is my weapon during hard times. So I need to be busy all the time, to make the time so quick.

Always makes sure we have a nice time together when we get to see each other and takes me out to nice places

I met my Soulmate. Now in a long distance relationship. A real mix of emotion but a Blessing. #Respect #Trust #Faith

My fiance has all these qualities and we are in LDR now. I kept nodding during this video and it put a smile on my face

U have really taught me what have been bothering me with ma long distance relationship Mr moggs...God bless you for the teachings

I literally get messages about fun things his excited about. Always consistent He supports my studies always.

Wow thank you Math for recognizing my comment😌..i love all your videos and never skip any of your videos..

Im so lucky cause i saw all of this to him.This makes me love him more than before..and miss him more😢really,ldr is not easy but im praying and hoping that we'll be together...soon.

He is consistent in his "wake up" texts, sharing the adventures of his day, spends 1.5 - 2 hours at a time on the phone with me. Makes me feel connected and cared for.

Under 5 minutes and valuble this is what I appreciate !!!