Jocko laughing is my favourite part of the whole thing. The whole podcast.

Forever in debt to your priceless advice.

Echo goes on a really interesting and nicely stated talk about why the use of emojis highlights the deeply profound nature of modern communication. And Jocko just responds with, “Yeah. You’re good with hieroglyphics”😂😂😂💀💀💀

“Hieroglyphics” 🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥

Guys, this was like listening to the right and left sides of my brain becoming best friends. Thank you so much for being part of my personal development and winning the long game 🐻👍🏾🔥🔥🔥🌈🌈🌈

- hey Jocko did you see the game? - 🔪 - ok ttyl

Being teachable is the key to unlocking a disciplined man's full potential!

Jocko - "I don't really like emoticons or emojis.." Echo - "well yeah.. you're like that in real life..." 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Jocko emoticons all have the same facial expression

This here is one of the best clips on KZfaq. I love seeing Jocko laugh.

Man...Jocko cracking up...hahaha! Awesome...this was a good one!

The more you suffer the more you improve. If that boss is self satisfied... every ounce of your suffering and persistence brings you a step close to overthrowing him.

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Thank you, sir. The VA is concerned about my well-being. But I am strong. And I will be okay. No matter what. These videos give me strength. Cuz you were trained by the best to be the best. I went to the Navy's best unit. It was a disciplinary program. I loved every minute of it. They made me strong. Mentally physically I have trouble with my emotions. I I pay attention. But I still have trouble with my emotions. But I don't take it out on anybody. With the exception of myself occasionally I will beat the s*** out of a tree. It will be scarred for life.

Needed this one today. Ironically I got feedback today from a close friend/ work colleague in form of a jab. Ego is tough to suppress especially when you know the fault should be shared and isn't.

oh my god i love the laughing at the end

For managers giving feedback (positive and negative) theres a great 4 step process. 1.ask "may/can I give you some feedback". If they say "no, I'm busy" walk away and talk later. 2. "When you *do* X *visible action* (ex late for work) 3. Y is the result. "Things ran poorly" or "I was frustrated" ect. 4. If it was positive, say thank you. If it was negative "can you change that next time?/ can you improve that?". From the podcast *Manager Tools*.

I love the "Taking critique well" example, this resonates on alot of people I know.

Jocko’s laugh warms my heart lol

Get some! Been working at a new company for a few months and this is exactly what ive been trying to implement. Listen, evaluate, adjust and execute.

Jocko killing me with the laughter lol!

I kinda hate the fact the guy doesnt go into specifics." My boss is criticizing me and my friends and family wouldn't think it's TRUE. Bruh like what is he saying to you.

Just skip to 10:16 to hear Jocko laugh. Can someone please make a video of all the times Jocko laughs, because this is too good. Thanks.

I always take notes when it's something important like this and it's neither to brown nose or to be sarcastic it's because I struggle to reflect and remember, it's also very good evidence of conversations being had.

Love these podcasts. You hit hit on every thing and I love that. Great show bro.

What great feedback. It's also good to develop confidants at work, who you trust and who will be candid. Most of us behave differently at work, because work-like conditions don't always exist outside of work all the time. Being in a certain kind of pressure every now and again, in our personal lives, is not the same thing as consistently being under certain conditions. As an example, I rarely give formal presentations outside of work...but I have had jobs where I gave formal presentations to VP-level people on a daily basis.

Never seen them laugh so much😂 Love to see it!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

When it comes to someone else saying they take issue with your personality, and they want you to change it to suit their personal preference, especially in a business sense, it sounds like a control issue that THEY have. However, if they say they'd like you to adjust your attitude for improved customer service or coworker cohesion then yeah, some work may be necessary. But if they take issue about your personality, that sounds more like a personal problem that they have, which is none of their business. I have a blunt, straightforward personality, I'll say what I think with little to no sugarcoating or ego massaging, because "beating around the bush" to avoid hurting feelings is playing to their emotions unnecessarily. So If my personality rustles jimmies, then so be it, because it's VERY likely that I've already assessed the situation, and I'm giving my opinion on it based on my experience about it.

I've lived for the moment that made Jocko crack and lose it. Well done, @echocharles! ;)

Jocko and the handy dandy notebook.

Oh, man you guys are like pulp fiction opening scene with this one, seemlessly sliding from super serious to cracking up funny, but making great points along the whole thing.

Everyone: Happy birthday!! Jocko: It is your birthday.

That laugh

Great topic!! Nailed it 👍

It is quite weird but I never realized how much I have in common with Jocko....though I sound like Echo Charles for the most part. Very soft spoken....but I do have ....anger issues, just a little bit. Podcasts are great and really help me more than you guys know⚡️‼️🔑🔑🔑

@Jocko Sir accepting would not always work, denying and proving them wrong will make them correct their asshole behaviour. I am your greatest follower as well.

By far my fave podcast ! 😂❤️🔥🌈⚡️

Thanks Jocko

Great job

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Jocko's laugh forces me to laugh.

How do I train jujitsu if I live in a small town in Texas and there is not a single reputable dojo within an hours drive? Should I invest in the online academy? Should I read books on jujitsu? Please help! Love listening appreciate what you do.

That emoji discussion though 😂

Perfect Timing.

Feedback comes in 3 forms, critique, advice, compliments. Best way to look at it, is would you value that persons advice. If yes, then the feedback in the other 2 areas might be fair. If you wouldn't take their advice, then take it under advisement. Always remember people "might" like you more if you change to be the ideal they expect you to be, but you'll ultimately like yourself less

05:34 "Someone emails a joke, someone takes it seriously..." Reminds me of Key & Peele... kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pMecmNyfvbmbqaM.html

I have been on the receiving end of feedback that I disagreed with a few times. In every single instance, in hindsight I see exactly that they were correct and I wish that I had made corrections sooner

Jocko - "You write with hieroglyphics." Proceeds to deplete all air from his lungs 10:16.

Good shit.. a little discretion and wisdom never hurt anyone.. consider the source and glean from it what is relevant and disregard the rest.. Knowing the difference is where the wise are separated from the fools..

"My daughter will send me 875 emojis from my wifes phone... And I send back, 'Okay.' " Such a Jocko thing to say lmao

Damn Jocko got the most infectious laugh of all time

Good. Noted, thank you sir!

This is GOOD

Plus a lot of people act different around friends and family than they do at work.

You're better with hieroglyphics!!! 😂😂😂

The first time seeing Jocko smile

I feel this on so many levels lmao

Love the interaction between Echo and Jocko. Three rainbows, lol. Had to end off the podcast early owing to a hieroglyphically induced fit of laughing that incapacitated both of them. DaaaaAAAAANNNNGGG!!!! :D :D :D

Tea kettle @ 10:20 lmao

Great podcast!

When you’re in LEADERSHIP; you see things in most cases from what we call the 30,000 ft view. Subordinates are either fast runners, middle of the pack or slackers. The problem with a lot of people is that they can’t separate “criticism” from “constructive criticism”. Of course the guy’s manager doesn’t know him like his family does...that’s a given because at work - you’re there to WORK! Managers and Leaders don’t have time to babysit, so if it’s time for ass chewing to get the job done - pass the steak sauce! This generation is PUSSIFIED!!! They’ve never had their asses chewed so when it happens - they take it personally and cry instead going “where did I go wrong? How can I fix this so that it doesn’t happen again?

The second half of this made me think I had started a new video 😂

You have to be coach able!

When some one criticizes me... I respond in emoji's. XD

I'm GOING to pull the Notebook line next time our manager pops off on another passive aggressive rants... Keep ya posted

So pretty much avoid verbal Jiu Jitsu😂

Somebody give echo a hug... and a rainbow emoji.

No kidding, I also used to hate emojiis. But they can be quite useful and sometimes when you're on a hurry you can use to better express your emotional state. But they're so weird across devices and some are hard to be found etc.

My little words matter..*happyemoji*

When you disagree with feedback... just listen. Try to be as understated and relatively attentive as you can. Analyze carefully what is being assessed about you/your work, and examine whether you really disagree with the statements made, or are they about something you've always been proud of... carried like an identity for yourself... REMEMBER, at least 30% of all communication is in the interpretation... so you've got to dig through and interpret carefully. People will tell you ALL about themselves if you let them. This is the other side of this little coin. 9/10 times, if you're not carrying this "bad thing" around like a badge, and your work really is NOT suffering the way stated... THEN you're dealing with projection. Once, you start filtering the projection to the surface, you start learning more about this "Boss" person giving you feedback. EVERYONE loves to talk about themselves... AND those who completely lack self-awareness, forget too easily, and let it filter into about everything else they're talking about... SO let them talk. LISTEN.... ANALYZE... and in a three minute "bitch session", you'll find out more about how to string them along and work them around than you could possibly figure out any other way. OF COURSE... what you do with this information is on YOUR conscience, not mine. ;o)

I’m 22 years old and just started a podcast with my 32 year old friend, and I recently got some feedback from a 50 something guy (who is a friend of my podcast partner) who said he stopped listing to our podcast because he thought I was too young and inexperienced to understand what I was talking about. To be honest, this is kinda an area of insecurity for me, but I always try to be humble and say that I don’t know everything, but I just want to give my perspective. I failed to say that in this instance (although I was operating out of that mindset), and this guy’s advice was to say something like that. The whole thing just kinda felt wrong to me, because I felt like the guy didn’t even give me a chance. Later on in our episode, we really went into the value of being humble, but this guy invariably shut down his mind after that first mischaracterization of me. Apparently his wife told him to listen to the rest of the episode, and his viewpoint changed. I’m all for applying his advice, but for anyone who’s read this far, do you think he was right to shut the podcast off without hearing me out? Honestly asking. Thanks in advance. :)

It hard when you have to use alot of "automated" voice prompts...that why in my situation I rather use "old school" methods

Personalities are subjective. This doesn't really help me with a situation I am dealing right now. I had a client tell my manager that I did NOT have a conversation with someone & should have. However, this is not accurate. I did have a conversation with this person. How am I supposed to take this feedback?

Sometimes corporate bully psychopaths offer nothing whatsoever to learn from. I know from experience. Like psychopaths and narcissists in general, the best and quickest way to stop being bullied and harassed is to find a new gig.

It could always be worse. My manager. Just got let go, and now my Mother in law is my new direct manager.

How do I remember to talk less I know I talk too much and it elbows people out of the conversation. I try to remember to keep it short but I get excited and forget. What to I do about it?

Man 10:15 😂😂😂😂😂

hahahaha..... echo.... damn it... 😂😂😂

3:08 iv done this 😂

When working in customer service, there is such a thing as using a tactical exclamation mark, and using just enough versus too many. It can really elevate the mood of an email when used well. 1-2 is appropriate and communicates enthusiasm, but any more makes you sound stupid and unbearably energetic, even borderline erratic. For example: (Enthusiastic) Thanks for your message. Your request has been processed. Let us know if need help with anything else. Have a great day! (Erratic) Thanks for your message!!! Your request has been processed! Let us know if you need help with anything else. Have a great day!!!

Jocko farted on end hahahha

im not sure what jocko is laughing at but its making me laugh too

With extreme hostility

I don't like emojis either. I mean, I'll use 'em sparingly like an ;) but I ain't communicating in hieroglyphs.

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So many bits of gold in here (except the emoji's, lol, which appear to have totally different implications across cultures, unfortunately), the need to learn how to write well for the purpose of bringing the right communication across (i.e., not just factual).

Even Jocko has a weakness and it’s the rainbow emoji. We have to keep this out of the wrong hands

Feedback is good despite of agreement status.

What if your co workers don’t agree?

how do you deal with feedback if you have SKINNY KNEES????!!!

I've dealt with this.(1) maybe you can change something ABOUT YOU !!!!! JUST THINK ABOUT THE PAYCHECK $$$$$$$$$$ LET S/H DO WANT THEY WANT 2 DO !!!!!!

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There's punctuation for sarcasm, I forget what it's called..

Interesting, at the end Jocko seems to have been critiqued and didn’t agree with it. His response was to laugh and make it fun.

A manager can give you personal feedback about your personality? Tell your manager to screw himself. Wtf man? If you're doing your job and are not pestering other employees and picking fights, he has no right to talk about your personality.