How To Deal With Toxic People? Gaur Gopal Das

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A young employee once approached the HR Head to discuss his decision to quit because of toxic people, politics and negative talks in the organization. Would a change of job or change of situation help? The HR Head asked him to do one last thing before he would quit, which changed his decision.
About Gaur Gopal Das
Gaur Gopal Das is an Electrical Engineer, having studied at the College Of Engineering, Pune. He has been speaking at various prestigious academic institutions and corporate firms in India and abroad for over 2 decades and has even spoken at the United Nations & British Parliament. He has spoken at many charity events to raise funds for social initiatives in the field of education and rural development. His motivational videos are viral having reached around 1 Billion views. With over 13 million followers across all social media platforms, he is known as the urban, online monk.
He has been the recipient of several awards including the most prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke International Film Festival award, Lokmat’s most stylish international life coach award, an Honorary Doctorate by KIIT university and many more in recognition of the work he has been doing. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems.
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@aindrilaghosh7944 3 жыл бұрын

When this toxic is within family, it's very difficult to ignore.

@riyaz8899 3 жыл бұрын

True

@bangaloredays745 3 жыл бұрын

I watched video for the very same reason

@happyvibes4429 3 жыл бұрын

Yes.. me too..

@asthasinha6780 3 жыл бұрын

True

@abhisworld5454 3 жыл бұрын

It's damn difficult because you never expect your family to betray you , the betrayal hurts a lot!

@NishiSingh22 4 жыл бұрын

Toxic people are everywhere even in family. This formula can be applied there also.

@aishwaryadharmik9873 4 жыл бұрын

But what if a toxic member of your family put their nose in your every work and you can't stop them and Their behavior's effects on your life

@sweetydal3723 4 жыл бұрын

Yes I have one in my family. I ruined my life bcoz of her

@sweetydal3723 4 жыл бұрын

@@aishwaryadharmik9873 yes people have become so dangerous they use their brain too much to bring you down

@aishwaryadharmik9873 4 жыл бұрын

@@sweetydal3723 whole family has to suffer because of this 😑😑😑

@lakshmi9432 4 жыл бұрын

The sad truth is every one believe toxic people rather honest people

@saunaknandi1814 2 жыл бұрын

Point to remember - " When you focus on your priorities You dont Have the time to see all the dramas around you, the mistakes of other, gossip and the negativity "

@ranii2303 2 жыл бұрын

Agree

@sathyaanoop Жыл бұрын

True

@shivangisharma8410 Жыл бұрын

Ya I agree to some extent but what if they target you , bully you and makes fun of you due to jealousy or envy or hatred whatever so you name it 😬

@gritskennedy5007 Жыл бұрын

@@shivangisharma8410 if you are being targeted bullied and harassed you should immediately report this to human resources and make police reports if at home if at school see the school Dean or Principal because this act of bullying and targeting is illegal and no matter what your age is a crime and should be reported and documented to hold accountable and to list clearly the event and persons committing such a disgusting attention seeking game played by the mentally deficient and insecure jealous individuals if on the internet that is called cyber bullying and should be screenshots and report to local authorities who also will take report and get you in touch with the federal telecommunications and global internet department and they will make reports investigate and possibly prosecute depending on all the facts MOST IMPORTANTLY REMEMBER THIS IS ABOUT THEM BEING INSECURE JEALOUS OR ATTENTION SEEKING TO GAIN APPROVAL OF PEERS AND TRUTH IS THEY ARE TERRIFIED NO ONE WILL ACCEPT THEM SO THEY DO EVERYTHING THEY CAN TO FIND SOMEONE THEY CAN MAKE THE TARGET SO IT ISNT THEM. REPORT THIS THEY ARE UNSTABLE MENTALLY AND YOU DONT HAVE TIME OR THE EXTENSIVE PSYCHIATRY EXPERIENCE TO SORT OUT THEIR PLETHERA OF MENTAL ISSUES AND INNER CONFLICTS JUST DONT EVEN LOOK AT THEM OR IF U DO SAY LOOK I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU AND YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH ME EVERY DAY YOU STARE AT ME ALL DAY LONG AND BECAUSE I DONT ENJOY YOU CONSTANTLY WATCHING ME EVERY MINUTE EVERY DAY YOU GET ANGRY AND DO THE SAME THING START SAYING INSULTING THINGS TO ME BECUZ U HAVE BEEN REJECTED IM NOT INTERESTED IN ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP WITH U SO PLEASE STOP STALKING ME IVE ALREADY MADE A POLICE REPORT OR IVE ALREADY REPORTED THIS TO HUMAN TESOURCES OR IVE ALREADY REPORTED THIS TO THE SCHOOL DEAN OF DISCIPLINE AND THE SCHOOL DISTRICT ..AND remember they are trying to make u feel as bad as they feel about themselves it's a pity feel sorry for their mental deficiencies get counseling and never keep it to yourself

@paredbhi Жыл бұрын

See those toxic people even bully me every time but I remember that this is just a part of life not the whole people will let u down until u down yourself work on yourself leave them or just I can say ignore Maybe keep a little distance Because I hear somewhere that krishna said Jo accha lagta hai usse karo aur no nahi usse bhool jayo chahe vo thinking , Karma , people

@JyotiSingh007 10 ай бұрын

It’s a beautiful lesson. It is also advisable to just get tf out of the toxicity and find better people instead of putting unrealistic pressure on yourself. There are better people, trust me. Choose your peace ☮️

@DesipetsoIndia 5 ай бұрын

I think this is the best and only solution

@SindhuBuddhavarapu 2 ай бұрын

So well said. I think this is the best solution for people who JUST REFUSE to change even after repeated attempts. Putting undue pressure on ourselves to act correctly even when others around us are acting wrong, and to react properly even when others around us are giving us constant negativity, is EXTREMELY difficult and maybe.. might even affect our health in the long run.

@levolevo5369 4 жыл бұрын

Toxic people support you when you do things according to their likes, they start criticizing you when you don't

@Chemistry_learn 4 жыл бұрын

Well said

@apphiadonashylla5733 4 жыл бұрын

Yes,, exactly Vaibhav

@ektadhapola9698 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@payelkoley2074 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly I want to get rid of them...They are trying to make me miserable 😑😑

@jyothsnap519 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@menonksa 3 жыл бұрын

I have one more thing to add here; make sure you are not that toxic person for others.

@hemlataponnada 3 жыл бұрын

True !

@yugabharathi6447 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely I won't ☺️

@menonksa 3 жыл бұрын

@@yugabharathi6447 If every person makes sure of that then there are no toxic people but unfortunately, the human world is always toxic if we look back 6000 years it is the same.

@yugabharathi6447 3 жыл бұрын

@@menonksa Just got bullied in college 1st day ,tats y came here tho

@menonksa 3 жыл бұрын

@@yugabharathi6447 Oh! - we are born into a toxic world but you seem to be a positive person so no worries I'm sure you will overcome it!

@PriyankaSingh-or6sr 2 жыл бұрын

There is only positive and helping people in my life, especially in my family.I live in joint family and I am very thankful to God for giving me such a amazing family.

@goodhealthforever1541 2 жыл бұрын

U r Lucky

@pp-od2ht 2 жыл бұрын

Very lucky indeed

@ramandeepsingh7334 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot... God Bless you more and more.

@aaass287 2 жыл бұрын

I too live in Joint family and am not thankful to God 🙌

@mufasasimba6827 2 жыл бұрын

Very Lucky 💖

@shabnam_khalid2684 2 жыл бұрын

You just left me speechless and a sudden smile appeared on my face when i got the moral.. Thank you 💜

@shwetaarya7140 3 жыл бұрын

today i realised why guru is necessary in life

@cezin8554 3 жыл бұрын

👍

@kavyamkapri1723 3 жыл бұрын

🙏

@ee29sougatadas7 3 жыл бұрын

Yes😊

@bitik9847 2 жыл бұрын

What? Since childhood I know why a teacher/guru is necessary

@divyagulihar4957 2 жыл бұрын

Guru govind doo khare, jake lagu paye Balihari guru aapne, jinne govind dio milae☺️🤍💫

@alpharohann 3 жыл бұрын

If toxic people are in family. It affects a lot I mean a lot.

@kamrun2918 3 жыл бұрын

agree with you...me too suffering

@sonaligharat2149 3 жыл бұрын

Think plus points about every family members. Change your thoughts about them situation will change automatically.

@surajprakashthakkar1672 3 жыл бұрын

Yes... Agreed

@akshitatiwari1891 3 жыл бұрын

@@sonaligharat2149 this is only possible in talks... when u r regulary tortured u dont even know how does it feels??;

@akankshaakanksha9450 3 жыл бұрын

Same Here.Not A Day Passes When I Don't Feel Lyk Quitting😰😢

@sragdharadey_25 Жыл бұрын

I would never know so many people dealing with toxic parents until I saw the comment section😥

@createsomething4292 Жыл бұрын

Wow...Nice thinking

@gayathrimuraleedharan.5717 2 жыл бұрын

Right time I see this video .Everyday I am thinking about how to escape from my frustrated surrounding And toxic people. I can't concentrate on my studies due to alot of negativities around my home. This video is the most appropriate video I ever seen in KZfaq. Thankuu soomuch

@Sheetal00723 4 жыл бұрын

Toxic ppl will remain toxic, can't change them, rather we should focus on ourselves

@sachintendulkar2356 4 жыл бұрын

They start putting there nose everywhere like a mosquito then?

@nimsayaniaable 4 жыл бұрын

My boss is toxic.. stuuiuuuuuuuuuuuipid idiot bosss... very stupid.. i wish him bad things

@ellejae1821 3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you.

@SuperBhavanishankar 3 жыл бұрын

@@nimsayaniaable i wish you well my friend

@TariQ-nx3uz 3 жыл бұрын

Or change the toxic environment....

@aishwaryadas1122 3 жыл бұрын

" If you keep your attention focussed on your goal , you will never notice the obstacles and pitfalls along the way . " U re great Sir 🙏

@user-uq6ic8pw8x 2 жыл бұрын

Well some ppl are determined to put obstacles and snub u down. I think it's not that easy as the video mentions. There is one solution u run away. But if u r inside their toxic approval cycle only God can save u. Easier said than done.

@brightstudiosofficial Жыл бұрын

@@user-uq6ic8pw8x yes I agree 👍

@RahulUpadhyay-xj2cw Жыл бұрын

@@user-uq6ic8pw8x yes ignoring is not any solution.

@waitforit7696 Жыл бұрын

I agree, not easy to ignore .What if that person is taking credibility of your work , taking up your work and doing them .Then what is it that you wanna focus now ? Are you going to focus on the toxic guy because that person is eating all your work.Easy to say , difficult to follow. Best is to move out of such situations , run away as quickly as possible .

@kalpanabhate9557 Жыл бұрын

Yes in my office lot of politics is there Every one is pulling other legs and lots of other things then how can i focus

@nilighosh158 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Dealing with toxic people is something we all have to confront in our lives at one point or another. Narcissists, manipulators and those wallowing in self pity are just a few examples. Toxic people always find a way of worming their way into people's lives. Often they apply a divide and conquer strategy.

@babakazi2760 2 жыл бұрын

This is the best lesson bcoz the main reason of failure and negativity is 'log kya kahenge'

@Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls 3 жыл бұрын

I learned how to deal with TOXIC PEOPLE, I don't deal with them. I say a prayer and keep it moving. The best remedy for them is to leave them alone. run

@winnieamar9368 3 жыл бұрын

The best way to deal with toxic people is to leave their play ground,don't play.

@Jam.S. 3 жыл бұрын

This is impractical and doesn't look at any effects a toxic workplace can do to a very intelligent and focus oriented people. Haven't you come across situations where you were minding your own business but a jealous coworker still tried to ruin it or outsmart you in wrong way? So in this example, if someone purposely came and hit you to have that glass of water spill on you or even worse push you with that water on your boss. That's real toxic workplace and the approach he is suggesting here won't work at all. May be only if you are not human but a robot then this approach would work for you. Think guys! Stay Human! Corporate toxicity is real

@junior29557 3 жыл бұрын

@@Jam.S. true that.

@tj-ny4dh 2 жыл бұрын

@@Jam.S. happened to me

@ishitadey5101 3 жыл бұрын

Most of the time the intolerable toxic people are in the family for whom the utmost goal in their life is to destroy you inner PEACE

@yujibestboi 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Chapa24. 2 жыл бұрын

I found this video while searching for videos on how to deal with toxic parents.

@anupamabogati7646 2 жыл бұрын

True

@ureshimataro6624 2 жыл бұрын

It's my mom... I ccant believe

@noorayesha9108 2 жыл бұрын

@Neha Plz speak to yr mom.....keep yr side then decide Rarely v find toxic mothers dear

@user-wl2mv2kx6q 2 жыл бұрын

I am just fade up of these toxic people in my family. Now I don't want to call them my family.

@abstractgirl1971 2 жыл бұрын

Thank u so much!! I was really disturbed Because of toxic people and their comments on social medias. You're absolutely right, I should just focus on the things I love without caring about what others think of that thing!!

@smysmile5870 5 жыл бұрын

Such *calmness tranquility and wisdom* in his words. I sleep peacefully every night listening to anyone of his videos.

@fromindianthar9796 4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@vishalpawar3677 4 жыл бұрын

Ya because he is real saint from iskon

@payyavulabharathkumar2008 4 жыл бұрын

Today onwards i will follow you

@smysmile5870 4 жыл бұрын

@@payyavulabharathkumar2008 thank you kumar

@akshay-jr1qz 3 жыл бұрын

@@smysmile5870 guruji

@ankitasinghrajput4024 4 жыл бұрын

I also stay away from toxic people... because I know what I'm doing....I do my work with honesty doesn't matter what people think of me...

@vasanthar4533 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely I too keep myself away as much as possible..but still somewhere somehow I do get disturbed why people behave like this..why can't I be like them..then again I tell myself this is what I am .. unique special in my own way,I don't need anyone's opinions as long as am true to myself.

@nimsayaniaable 4 жыл бұрын

How about boss believe other peoples gossip about us n blame us n put so much negativity on me n say i am bad... it hurts so bad

@atharvak6459 3 жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ntt3gNZ4rK_ecpc.html best video

@ankitasinghrajput4024 3 жыл бұрын

@@nimsayaniaable yeah but self love is the best medicine for all these rubbish gossip 🤗

@Travelmoments 3 жыл бұрын

work need to be done with honesty. But such people is really everywhere and hard to manage and they only put you down by complaining about you.

@peppermint6691 Жыл бұрын

I just know I can't changed everyone's mentality , process of thought and nature of people but I can work myself and perhaps skip from the situation when it's gone out of control .

@indhumanthena3486 Жыл бұрын

Thankyou guruji

@nikkeepriya258 3 жыл бұрын

Toxic people will criticize you more when they don't want you to achieve your goals. Some people will demotivate you because they think that you can achieve whatever you want but they can't. So we must take that as a compliment.

@Burningtissue786 3 жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aZqklMRkt9vUoYk.html🌞

@invisibleperson-cy3uf 3 жыл бұрын

👍

@hanupawandwivedi6613 3 жыл бұрын

Truee

@bhavanabmbhanu8326 3 жыл бұрын

It's absolutely a test of our patience 👍👍 There is a saying by our Master If a situation is avoidable -walk out of it If it is unavoidable-tolerate it Let's not misinterpret here This really strengthens us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Viveka is needed to distinguish these situations and respond accordingly

@creativitiesofkareenakbind6852 3 жыл бұрын

You are right main to sirf apni criticize hi sunti hun dusre ke muh se ,Sab log mujhme Kamiyan hi nikalte rahte hai ,Aaj v nikala bhut Bura lagta hai dukh is liye nhi hota hai ki wo kamiyan i Nikal rahe hai mujhme balki isliye hota hai kyunki wo log khud Ko secure feel karne ke liye dusro Ko criticize karte hI

@seemamishra6711 3 жыл бұрын

I seriously don't know how this popped in my recommendation but I just sat furiously thinking about the toxic people I faced just right now. Thank you. A very nice vision.

@Burningtissue786 3 жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aZqklMRkt9vUoYk.html🌞

@marybassit8246 3 ай бұрын

Omg this video pop right when I was thinking of quitting a toxic workplace.

@exotic_memer09 4 ай бұрын

really ! people of this era will be grateful for gopal das dedication toward humanity😊

@VaaniRajput24 2 ай бұрын

You don't have idea how much you help me. 🎉🙏🙏

@neerajarora4920 4 жыл бұрын

U are telling Sir , that we should focus on our priorities/job/studies/work ............. But what I feel is , after a certain period of time or when the line is crossed there is a need to teach all of them a good lesson because , If we didn't not take action then , they will think/take our calmness as our weaknesses . Like in today's world a innocent person is considered as dumb or weak , but actually it's not like that ! And they form habit to tease us and put there nose in our personal matter , because they know that we are not going to take action . So what i feel is , we should ignore toxic people , but when the line is crossed then we should must take action !

@winged4924 3 жыл бұрын

Well said .

@TT-ls1yz 3 жыл бұрын

Neeraj.... No. We don't need to take action against toxic people. They are not worth our time and effort. No use to get twined into their drama! Instead we must focus on us and rise high like an eagle🦅, these cawing crows trying to fly with us, won't be able to catch up with us as we are flying very high like eagles reaching our goals. They will fall out on their own😃 Also time will teach them the lesson they deserve. Saying:👇🏼 "Being rude is easy, it doesn't take any effort and is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Kindness shows great self discipline and strong self esteem. Being kind is not always easy when dealing with a rude person who destroyed us. Kindness is a sign of a person who has done lot of personal work and has come to a great self-understanding and wisdom. Choose to be kind over being right and you will be right everytime because kindness is a sign of STRENGTH"

@arinbose6366 3 жыл бұрын

@@AneeshaRao100 You are correct, the video is telling dont let you inner peace be destroyed by such people.You take action when line is crossed but dont let your inner peace of mind be destroyed.

@jibinjose2973 3 жыл бұрын

I am agreed with the fact u mentioned there .If we behave in a holistic manner , certain people think that we r fool.

@just4gaming786 3 жыл бұрын

Agree 100%

@Queenofkitchen 4 жыл бұрын

Namaste guruji, when I started my cooking channel on KZfaq, everyone at home made fun of me. Everyone discouraged me. But as I had this passion, I wanted to keep up with it. Somehow got everything done well, though in a small amount. But then, they all started discouraging me, by asking how much I earn on KZfaq and all other sort of things. I tried explaining, I was not here to earn, but to happily share my recipes, have wonderful friends around me. But again, ended up with all negative response from them. I kept on complaining about all this till now, until I saw this video. Now I know what I have to do. How I have to overcome this. Cannot thank you enough for this eye opening video. Koti koti vandhane guruji 🙏🙏🌸🙏🙏, a big thumbs up to this video.

@atharvak6459 3 жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ntt3gNZ4rK_ecpc.html must watch

@ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926 3 жыл бұрын

Keep it up,please ignore all toxic people and all negative people also,to make sure our own life feels happy and feels enjoyable only.

@ruchijain9662 Жыл бұрын

A big THANKYOU GURUJI . I was really affected by the negative behaviour of my colleagues .This video made me cry. My work is my focus and my worship too. Thanks again for this great help.

@Abhig3012 Жыл бұрын

Moral of the story👉👉 : you can change the world, just by changing your mindset. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@NatureVlogs77 5 жыл бұрын

2018 is ending with your blessings sir Thank you a lot

@moksha2691 5 жыл бұрын

Hi gm happy new year

@sr.carmelitamonteiro546 5 жыл бұрын

@avikar2256 5 жыл бұрын

Lovely 💛

@collegediarie5242 5 жыл бұрын

For meditation , watch my videos with your closed eyes and with full volume headphone I gaurentee you your mind will be freshed

@ilyashamid7427 4 жыл бұрын

I will always remember about that full glass of water. Thats mind blowing. Thanks Sir

@vishalpawar3677 4 жыл бұрын

Great inspirational that glass example only

@souravsahoo1582 3 жыл бұрын

That glass don't do anything on your life..stop listening these fake emotional videos.. real world is very critical and full of toxic people

@souravsahoo1582 3 жыл бұрын

@KaNaK you are toxic..it's proved by your word..toxic person spotted👍

@souravsahoo1582 3 жыл бұрын

@KaNaK i don't need your suggestions..you start it..i don't know you..so don't talk👍

@Logno-says Жыл бұрын

Thank you prabhu 🙏 🙏🙏🙏

@lokeshareddy.h9697 10 ай бұрын

Thanks guru ji

@MusicMustee 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks . I was about to quit my job.

@Igotmeforlife_ 3 жыл бұрын

Same. I'm so done with my colleagues. I work in mnc as software engineer. Here every day people play dirty games. It's difficult to evn get a leave. My team lead treats me as a slave . Sick of this job.

@n.c.7641 3 жыл бұрын

@@Igotmeforlife_ start your own business bro

@monalisakumar6010 3 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@explorer4587 3 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@drrameshshrink 3 жыл бұрын

Whatever u do, dont take advice from sanyasis. Because you arenot going to be one! There are toxic people who dont interfere and who do. Not all understand this. Still the best solution is 'To Let go'.

@Vaani1023 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot sir, unfortunately I'm facing this problem, this might be an inspiration to me 🙏😇

@darksoul7863 3 жыл бұрын

Me tooo

@manishazaman6647 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@gorentlamanoharmanohar1779 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly me too feeling same in my work environment.. but this boosted video make me to choose the right path

@neharahi7368 3 жыл бұрын

God blessss u be happy..... It is very difficult but yu can do it...

@SanjaySingh-cj5pl 3 жыл бұрын

listen to sandeep maheshwari..to deal with negative people...

@jyojuliejaggu9479 2 жыл бұрын

My mother is toxic like hell... nothing works on her ..you can't ignore things said about you...in improper manner. I have lost my Patience my confidence while handling her...

@umerfarooq8618 8 күн бұрын

Wowww❤

@riyatripathi7023 3 жыл бұрын

But unfortunately..it is not that easy as it seems to be...

@chinmaykalmankar1404 3 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely true.Toxic people have problem with our ability to focus on priorities.They just want drag you down.

@parthvasoya3562 3 жыл бұрын

Yea agree, but as with every other challenge, not impossible 🙂

@HimanshuYadav-uw2po 3 жыл бұрын

Lets change this situation, what if someone tries to hit him so that his water should spill out, then what that guy is supposed to do, Thing is we know our priority and we are focused, but what if someone is harming us directly and ruining our work, then its difficult to deal with such people.

@karanjokerfromhollywood4041 3 жыл бұрын

Should remember that easily said often comes from hard experience s ...the word comes from easy is not be trusted ..but the work you can rely on which comes from the act of hard...😄(correct me where necessary)

@avagamah7547 3 жыл бұрын

It depends on you friend, whether you make it easy or more difficult

@amitsavran 3 жыл бұрын

As a kid we were taught that "a rotten apple spoils the barrel" and now we also learn that when u r too much concentrated into ur own world, u won't see any disturbances. Conclusion - life is a puzzle 😓😓

@shaik1238 Ай бұрын

Misbehaving people should be avoided and keep away from them.

@tulsibarai222 29 күн бұрын

This is something I really wanted and needed to hear

@sannygulshetty8741 3 жыл бұрын

Most toxic people are surrounded in a family and this words changed my view of observing and facing

@ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926 3 жыл бұрын

Please keep avoid all negative people and all toxic people also because they all same like virus that killing ourselves slowly until we died.

@rishabcreator 3 жыл бұрын

I am surrounded with toxic people that is making me toxic as well, sometimes i feel like murdering them but bcoz of jail fear i am not doing it 😔

@rishabcreator 3 жыл бұрын

@KaNaK ofcourse i can't murder them bcoz of jail thing but i feel like doing that🙏

@rupkatha5 3 жыл бұрын

Nt just you ........every one silent ly murders in mind someone else out of anger anxiety and disgust

@pkb8178 3 жыл бұрын

I can understand you brother. You may ignore them. Because, people are weird.

@sandhyavijay2299 3 жыл бұрын

How to ignore. People

@Savna06 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@SoniyaRai-fx9ri 4 ай бұрын

Thankyou i need this video.

@pragyamahour4016 2 жыл бұрын

I really needed to hear this, thank you, I the people in my college are so negative, always gossiping and no one is passionate about their work and it really bothers me but after listening to this , I know what I can do

@paritoshattri672 3 жыл бұрын

plot twist:the HR used to be a monk in his teens😂

@Burningtissue786 3 жыл бұрын

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@doc11sadhana 3 жыл бұрын

😅😅😅

@army_forever3431 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@britneythao 3 жыл бұрын

What made him change? Did he deal with toxic people? He should have taken a full glass of water first before quitting his career as a monk😆😆😆

@maayavi09 3 жыл бұрын

Nowadays this decade, even parents are more toxic when they don't hear their words after child's wedding life.. they become as if they are third person

@priyap6912 3 жыл бұрын

Such parents should be left in peace, better to talk to third persons for help

@kushwanthsai49 3 жыл бұрын

I mean They do love you. It's just wrong ideology. So you should try and forgive them especially if you have been raised for 18 years by them

@andrewsonstony7710 3 жыл бұрын

I am in such a situation and my parents are same like toxic.i think leaving them completely is not possible in india because i tried this but i am not successful.

@karishmakarel4126 2 жыл бұрын

Umm..I seriously don't kno wat situation you are into but I can assure you one thing that sometimes the decisions or words of the parents might be wrong but their intentions are ALWAYS right...they never want to hurt you...and if you feel that they are being toxic...don't so things which will make them more toxic or annoy them...instead of leaving them...you should have taken a positive approach by talking it out or trying to spend some time with your family together...meaning with your parents, siblings, spouse, children...They might be feeling left out or they just want to spend some good time with you guys...be postive and deal with them positively rather than harshly...their ideologies may not be right but always remember that their intentions towards you will NEVER be wrong....They just don't want to lose you...I hope u understand

@kushwanthsai49 2 жыл бұрын

@@karishmakarel4126 yea but I know most of parents aren't bad but some of them might be like example some people's father who has addiction to alcohol.Few of them might be wrong but overall you should try and respect them,I agree with that

@YourGirlPratiksha 2 жыл бұрын

Everytime i feel triggered by the toxic people around me, i listen to this and i find my peace. 🥺 This is my 12th-15th time here and each time i listen to this it makes my thinking more clear and brings me peace. Reminds me of my actual goals and helps get rid of distractions. Thankyou so much for putting this up♥️

@deepugeorge2851 2 жыл бұрын

Ya i feel you, why people are interfering in other's life, i have some toxic friends and currently trying to avoiding them, i know it willl not happen suddenly and takes time and the process is hard and it is essential to avoid them to get a good future.

@ankushdhawale4628 Жыл бұрын

i totally removed toxic people from my life deleted blocked ghosted

@PsRanaFamily Жыл бұрын

Hare Krishna 🌼🕉️🙏🏻

@sabeer3808 3 жыл бұрын

I was about to change my job’ Now I changed my mind Thank you 😊

@mallujummannavar7396 3 жыл бұрын

I am also thinking same

@jonam2589 5 жыл бұрын

Holy shit, a big thank you to you Prabhu ji,you know I was thinking to leave my job😲😲😲😲god made this video for me at the right time!!

@bishaldhar9467 5 жыл бұрын

Same here...

@Urbancutsbarbershop 5 жыл бұрын

cheng zemin same here brother

@sabyasachirimpa 5 жыл бұрын

Was the reason exactly the same?

@timepassvlog2405 5 жыл бұрын

Same reason 😦😧😧me too

@bhagwatijangid530 5 жыл бұрын

क्या आपको फ्री "ज्ञान गंगा " पुस्तक चाहिए ? वो भी फ्री डिलीवरी के साथ। अगर चाहिए तो अपना नाम, पता और मोबाइल नंबर भेजे । हर किसी के मन में एक प्रश्न उठता रहता है और वही प्रश्न बचपन से मेरे मन में उठता रहा कि आखिर इतनी बड़ी इस सृष्टि की रचना करने वाला कौन है जब मुझे ज्ञान गंगा पुस्तक मिली तो मुझे पता चला कि वास्तव में इस सृष्टि की रचना करने वाला ं कबीर साहेब

@mohammedimran-zd3sy 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks alot guru ji

@pratikshyadas4390 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks.. really thanks...

@antaraseal1586 4 жыл бұрын

What a coincidence Guruji!!! Today some of my toxic relatives have come to our house and tonight I see this video! This must be a cosmic tip for me! 🙏 Edit- didn't expect so many likes!! Thanks everyone 🤣

@sachintendulkar2356 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@sachintendulkar2356 4 жыл бұрын

@TheChosenOne 😄

@theknightriderstudio8205 4 жыл бұрын

I can relate. We just have to make sure that we observe their actions very closely and create boundaries. And when they cross boundaries, we have the right to response.

@lurkingfell 4 жыл бұрын

These 'relatives' are worst kind of humans

@mycollegedost7903 4 жыл бұрын

Same here Antara

@hruaizelachhangte2051 4 жыл бұрын

Sir but its so hard to tolerate them when they speak to us and say toxic things.....i couldnt focus on anything else other that my anger

@RAKESH-qn6xr 4 жыл бұрын

Once you are receptive to them they will taking your piece of mind. How we block some persons on social media. They send msges but we are not receptive to it. So negative people dnt change and problem arises when you try to change them. Gandhi ji said be the change you wants in others.

@swpankumardas1477 Жыл бұрын

Thanku sir

@FairoseNawar Жыл бұрын

thank you for existing sir.

@shubhvijayaphalguna1125 3 жыл бұрын

I tried this for years with toxic HR head & authorities. I was costing my health & peace. I finally came out of situation by quitting. Sometimes, you must know that some situations can be handled but when you can't anymore you better quit. It's not worth of loosing your energy hanging around toxic people., especially when you know you can't anymore!!

@ravindradatt9809 5 жыл бұрын

I am just 12 years old but love your lessons guruji you are awesome......

@ravimusical6339 5 жыл бұрын

I am 15 years old 😒

@LEONLOVESMUSIC 5 жыл бұрын

I am 12yrs old and going to be of 13 on March.😊😊😊😊😊

@CharleneTupas 5 жыл бұрын

Keep learning and keep growing! You're doing an awesome job! 😊

@ArpitTiwari-nr6sx 5 жыл бұрын

You guys are future of country keep up the good things in life

@siddhichamat3294 5 жыл бұрын

Congo that u have access to smart phone I didn't have. I'm 18 now

@Adwaith1122 2 жыл бұрын

Yes sir...thanks a lot

@peacepeace4256 Ай бұрын

Beautiful. I needed that.Thank you.

@mainakdatta7417 5 жыл бұрын

This made my day.. thank you Sir ❤😘

@mimansamahajan2250 3 жыл бұрын

Mine too😊

@florencelorraine4206 3 жыл бұрын

Same here..

@ritikanagar2977 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@raavanwithearphones1657 5 жыл бұрын

Dear employee we both sailing in the same boat!

@payal1086 5 жыл бұрын

Too good

@sweetypinky1051 2 жыл бұрын

Wao guru ji thank u for telling me this

@Hhk380 2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou♥️

@jhanusherly5820 5 жыл бұрын

I just had a fight with a toxic person and this helped😩🙏💫

@Mohit4156 5 жыл бұрын

Superbly explained and how easy to understand, each word ☺ 🙏Hare Krishna Guru ji!!!

@jaideepsingh8936 9 ай бұрын

It's very hard when the toxic one is your father

@bbaecw.m2877 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I was completely affected by the way my brother's wife and her sisters taunting and pulling me down whenever they meet me. When I am doomed, I heard this speech sir. It relieved me from that stress created by them. Thank you

@ryvlsc Жыл бұрын

Ohh! Feel the same way- lets talk!

@yusufjamadar8043 5 жыл бұрын

256 dislikes the real toxic peoples 😑

@prashanthireddy9694 5 жыл бұрын

They r not Toxic people I to have one doubt ok if we don't bother others we will do our own work eventhough the people will surround us then....how can we get in....

@Kingmaker0301 4 жыл бұрын

Now it's 396 always toxic creaters raises

@Kingmaker0301 4 жыл бұрын

@@prashanthireddy9694 just concentrate on urself sis why u bother

@gangaganga9043 4 жыл бұрын

yusuf jamadar 😂😂

@abhishekrajeev2814 4 жыл бұрын

@VK get the Fuck outta here

@myworld8841 Жыл бұрын

Thank you ....

@b_33_saumyapatil80 Ай бұрын

Don't do good, don't do bad with them, just make some distance from them. Be it someone from family or any friend. If not physically possible then mentally you can make distance from them. This is what I believe.

@sonaligupta8052 3 жыл бұрын

It's taken from a story of Lord Vishnu, Narad Muni and a Farmer..... Great lesson learnt ❤️

@Burningtissue786 3 жыл бұрын

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@heliosgaming01 2 жыл бұрын

But how our school can fail to make us learn shits....

@kidzkitchen8930 2 жыл бұрын

@@heliosgaming01 😂

@Frenchylikeshikes 3 жыл бұрын

Cut off the toxic people....it feels so great. Just finally aknowledging they're toxic feels amazing.

@Burningtissue786 3 жыл бұрын

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@korpsofkreig1359 2 жыл бұрын

Oh I lov this.

@boyindianrajan8547 5 ай бұрын

thank you

@jyotid8330 4 жыл бұрын

If such toxic people are in our family...how can v even shift our view..I cant even concentrate on my children

@ScienceSeekho 3 жыл бұрын

We all good people watching this video! ❤️ May all your dreams come true ✨

@ravulasandeepkumar2617 3 жыл бұрын

Well said bro

@christytony199 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Guruji

@reenadhanai224 2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou sir

@goodboysunny1 5 жыл бұрын

Your videos are life changing, whenever I feel upset I prefer to watch your videos and after that I start feeling so good.

@that._.1guy732 3 жыл бұрын

Whoever watching this video,, can we all Join together and Make our own Toxic free Society?🙃

@nuwanda7223 3 жыл бұрын

I am ready man 😭

@aartilamba 3 жыл бұрын

Ready

@naveenj4125 2 жыл бұрын

I am ready. Its very painful to live around toxic people. Atleast, we can create a whatsapp group to support each other.

@heliosgaming01 2 жыл бұрын

Why not....

@zentenn9665 Жыл бұрын

lol

@desirequeen6040 Жыл бұрын

Thanks guru

@palakgrover9925 Жыл бұрын

Really need this at the moment!

@sujathakallaje2508 3 жыл бұрын

I wish all youngsters look through this video to have a better life. Thank you Guruji🙏

@smitaranimishra4689 5 жыл бұрын

Hii everyone... Before meeting him I was addicted to everything except my dreams... After hearing him now I'm addicted to him... But the plus point is, in past I was giving my 20% efforts to my dream and career but now it increased to 60%... Everytime I start wasting time, I remind myself about my goals.. of course I am enjoying with my friends, family... But now I have plan for every section of my day... Thank you so much... Hope I'll continue this till the end.. thank you for keeping motivating us... Happy New Year,. Going to start a new life for a better life... 🙏

@venusmart5382 5 жыл бұрын

Good..keep it up

@balbiryadav1787 5 жыл бұрын

How to meet him????

@oneforallah 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this it inspired me I'll do the same 60-40 ❤️

@smitaranimishra4689 5 жыл бұрын

@@balbiryadav1787 I too don't know 🤣🤣

@balbiryadav1787 5 жыл бұрын

@@smitaranimishra4689 hehehe

@user-js2pe5dx3n 2 жыл бұрын

thanks i needed that....❤

@vardeepkaur3315 2 жыл бұрын

absolutely true.thanks sir

@srushti928 5 жыл бұрын

U always give very clear explanation to every problem 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊 Pranam Guruji....Thanks for enlightening our mind.... May ur videos reach to everybody

@srushti928 5 жыл бұрын

@Apple. Pineapple what?

@eranilkumaryadav400 3 жыл бұрын

My parents are very toxic . Especially my mother is very abusive. My father and mother talk always negative things about me in the house , with acquanitances and relatives. I was earning 40k in a reputed private company , they didn't like the job . Always criticizing my job and low salary . So , I left my job and sat at home. Now after 2 years , they got fed up and now telling me to do data entry job of 15k . They don't allow me to learn music , which is my hobby . I seen enough drama . Now decided to live separately from them with my savings and will do some job to support myself . All I want is freedom and peace . I can't survive anymore with my toxic and dominating parents .

@HareKrishnaHareRama101 3 жыл бұрын

You Better stay away from your parents for a while and do what you think is correct, but take care of your parents . Your parents are good , they really have concern on you ... but due to lack of practical knowledge , giving you Wrong advice . We can live with bad advice . But if forcing you criticizing, pulling you down, creating inferiority complex and depression. Then you must stay(live) away from them and just give care to them

@devd_rx 3 жыл бұрын

Damn, i wish u good look on your endeavours, whenever i will feel down, i will remember your struggle and then get back up

@rohith9732 3 жыл бұрын

Don't leave your parents ...they must be seen afterall they are your parents

@pujapaul9197 3 жыл бұрын

I have same problem. Shake hands!

@nowyouseeme164 3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I also hate my parents but when I think about them sometimes they are right I think you should talk to your parents about them and clear things. You are mature enough to handle things wisely. And always remember everything happens for a reason, God has a plan for you. All the best for your journey ahead 😊

@AU_Vlogss Жыл бұрын

There are many videos to deal with the same issue. But this one is so calm and full of positivity❤️

@NimishaKhairnar 2 жыл бұрын

Wowww❤❤❤

@patelyash530 3 жыл бұрын

I am facing this exact problem. I am thinking to quit my job, despite being one of the top performers in my company. I am fed up of my leader. 😭

@ahmadizzatshahmieralhamdul4926 3 жыл бұрын

100% true,this all happened because devil disturbed at workplace,that not good environment actually.

@jasminerose8623 3 жыл бұрын

Please do yourself a favor and quit that damn job. Never take your mental health for granted. If something is really affecting you in a bad way, remove it from your life. You don't deserve to be ill treated like this. There are thousands and thousands of other companies in India. It's all about our mentality. Our mindset and attitude towards life matters a lot. Always be positive and happy. But please make sure that you yourself don't end up becoming same as those toxic humans as you have faced. Be happy and kind and full of love towards those who deserve. You may earn less for somedays but you will be peaceful atleast. Struggle always pays off and who knows one day you may have your own company? Never trade your mental peace and health for some bucks because mature and intelligent people NEVER TRADE THEIR FREEDOM AND PEACE FOR MONEY.