How to differ: The ethics of differing: آدابِ اختلاف

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Professor Dr Javed Iqbal

Professor Dr Javed Iqbal

24 күн бұрын

How to differ with some one in a more effective and productive way
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@zubeda4883
@zubeda4883 21 күн бұрын
I have a huge respect for Prof Javed Iqbal. He explains everything in a comprehensive manner from all angles and easy to understand. Please continue with your good work. This world needs people like you. I am learning so much from you. Thank you.
@zartanshaaki1992
@zartanshaaki1992 17 күн бұрын
Yeh shakhs Sahil Adeem ki budtameezion ko downplay kernay mein masroof hai, aur kuch nahi
@user-nc5of7hb2b
@user-nc5of7hb2b 20 күн бұрын
🍃🌸اسلام علیکم استاد محترم، میں اپنے رب کی بے انتہا مشکور ہوں جنھوں نے ہماری زندگی میں اس قدر خوبصورت ،تحمل مزاج ، نیک لوگ رکھیں ،جو ہمیں زندگی کو بہترین طریقہ سے گزرنے کا سلیقہ سکھاتے ہیں، اللہ کریم آپکو اپنی امان میں رکھیں آپ نا صرف میری بلکہ بہت سے لوگوں کے لیے روشنی کا باعث ہیں 🍃
@faridaqadir3174
@faridaqadir3174 22 күн бұрын
Sir you are a very wise and a very well educated person. When differing and discussing anything, choice of words is extremely important. I do not know Mr. Adeem much, but I saw this program under discussion. The venom with which Mr. Adeem was generalizing and calling women "jahil" was extremely abusive repulsive. No one has the right to use abusive language even if he claims to be a religious scholar
@Arslan_writes_yt
@Arslan_writes_yt 22 күн бұрын
Dr. Javed Iqbal has explained very well MashaAllah. I just want to add that normally we don't watch the whole video for 1hr or 2hr. Sir Sahil Adeem was telling the translation of the verse of Quran which was the same as he said. The thing is that nowadays we are far away from our holy book so we could not understand the actual meaning of an Arabic word. We have to see both sides and definitely we can't attack on anyone's intentions
@dontlosehope2723
@dontlosehope2723 22 күн бұрын
The thing is that he had arab teachers and in arabic this word is not used like we use it in urdu, in urdu its considered an offensive word...May be he is unaware of the negative impacts of this word as he dint have pakitani teachers.
@farzanafarooq6117
@farzanafarooq6117 21 күн бұрын
​@@dontlosehope2723i don't agree with you. He lives here .he delivers lectures here.
@dontlosehope2723
@dontlosehope2723 21 күн бұрын
@@farzanafarooq6117 No he might know....but when you have been brought up in Arabic language course you dont find it offensive...i myself when read this word in arabic language in a hadees first time i being a pakistani had a thought that Rasulullah s.a.w is using such a word but then you become aadi hojana...Actually we dont read in Arabic alongwith Urdu tarjuma that is why culturally we get very offended by this word...and also the way how ppl in our society use this word..like a gaali ya ghussa ya apni bharaas nikaalne k taur pay , ghalat "lehjay" main...its just my thinking ,i will keep good gumaan about him as Rasulullah s.a.w told us to refrain from badgumaani , badgumaani sab say bara jhoot hai..something like this.
@umermunawar5867
@umermunawar5867 21 күн бұрын
Mr sahil adeem was right but his way of talking as usual was rude n arrogant He must have same etiquettes which Dr sb is mentioning
@Sistreeideas342
@Sistreeideas342 16 күн бұрын
A o a Dr sahab ap ki baat itni monasib hai kay dil mutmaeen ho jata hai hum kuch bhi nhi yeh baat bilkul theek hai sahil adeem sahb ko Deen ka bilkul nhi pata or wo quran ko bhi nhi janty sirf kuch references lay atty hn or kuch nhi bhi kash wo ap ki is video say wo baat smjh lain warna yeh itni zada tadabur wali batain sahil sahb ko smjh nhi Anni Allah ap ko salamt rakhy ameen
@ghulamrasoolshahzadaofficial
@ghulamrasoolshahzadaofficial 21 күн бұрын
ڈاکٹر صاحب میں آپ کی بات سے سو فیصد متفق ہوں..
@ghazaliteachings
@ghazaliteachings 22 күн бұрын
سر جی آپ ساحل عدیم کی بھی کچھ تربیت فرمائیے. ❤️ جزاک اللہ خیر
@uzmaasher97
@uzmaasher97 22 күн бұрын
As well as Khalil ur Reman qamar both person need to tolerate other people
@GADHAZEESHANGONADAL
@GADHAZEESHANGONADAL 21 күн бұрын
💯😢
@simplestatement1543
@simplestatement1543 21 күн бұрын
قُلۡ اَفَغَيۡرَ اللّٰهِ تَاۡمُرُوۡٓنِّىۡۤ اَعۡبُدُ اَيُّهَا الۡجٰـهِلُوۡنَ‏ (اے نبی ﷺ !) آپ کہہ دیجئے کہ اے جاہلو ! کیا تم مجھے بھی یہ مشورہ دے رہے ہو کہ میں اللہ کے سوا کسی اور کی بندگی کروں ؟ Az-zumar 39:64
@GADHAZEESHANGONADAL
@GADHAZEESHANGONADAL 21 күн бұрын
@@simplestatement1543 Acha phir me b keh sakta Sahii Adeem Ki ma bhe jahil our yeh khud bhe jahil
@adnanshokat99
@adnanshokat99 20 күн бұрын
ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ بڑے آدمی ہیں مالک آپ کو سلامت رکھے۔۔۔
@waseemahmed7762
@waseemahmed7762 22 күн бұрын
Sahil adeem is a public figure and he should control his hate behavior with people. He must respect people.
@priyankdhyani
@priyankdhyani 21 күн бұрын
A true momin directs all his respect only to Allah and Rasool pak SAWW. No respect for people who are against Islam.
@simplestatement1543
@simplestatement1543 21 күн бұрын
قُلۡ اَفَغَيۡرَ اللّٰهِ تَاۡمُرُوۡٓنِّىۡۤ اَعۡبُدُ اَيُّهَا الۡجٰـهِلُوۡنَ‏ (اے نبی ﷺ !) آپ کہہ دیجئے کہ اے جاہلو ! کیا تم مجھے بھی یہ مشورہ دے رہے ہو کہ میں اللہ کے سوا کسی اور کی بندگی کروں ؟ Az-zumar 39:64
@MalikMalik-vc9pj
@MalikMalik-vc9pj 18 күн бұрын
​@@simplestatement1543 bandagi aur Kisi say tamiz say BAAT krnay different hai.
@FalconNewsx
@FalconNewsx 18 күн бұрын
Direct your advice to the rude raging feminist.
@zartanshaaki1992
@zartanshaaki1992 17 күн бұрын
@@priyankdhyani Lanat hai tum per
@ABDULRHEEM-kr1kr
@ABDULRHEEM-kr1kr 22 күн бұрын
Convey message of Islam to all people of the world and to everyone who will come also convey message of Islam to all world leaders...................
@theenlightenedone1283
@theenlightenedone1283 22 күн бұрын
علاج 72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی اسلام = امن و سلامتی فلاحی ریاست اللھم' لبیک پاکستان زندہ باد❤
@bushrafatima3149
@bushrafatima3149 22 күн бұрын
Sahil Adeem jis level ki baat kartay hein unfortunately masses ki understanding ka woh level nehi hae. Lekin sab say pehlay alfaz aur lehjay ko dheema rakhna aur us k baad samnay walay k understanding level ko samjhay baghair hum kisi ko kuch sikha nehi saktay. Sir Sahil Adeem ki niat par toh shayad he koi ho jo shak karay but human psychology hae k hum niat say ziada alfaz par attention detay hein.
@Dil-ka-qalam
@Dil-ka-qalam 22 күн бұрын
I don't know anything abt this incident but want to say that words do matter. None is going to check inside u or ur intention. Atleast we can't expect from the general public. But we shd try to see the real intention but there r very few ppl who do that.
@simplestatement1543
@simplestatement1543 22 күн бұрын
True
@simplestatement1543
@simplestatement1543 22 күн бұрын
Hindu culture sy he nahi ham nikly
@sundasa7098
@sundasa7098 22 күн бұрын
Alfaaz are extremely important. What exactly are you trying to hint at? Scholars agar masses ko bat samjha nhi sktay to unka faida kia? Yeh acha hai ... bat krni nhi ati to ye bol den k masses k samajh se bahir hai. Wah
@qabeelbinadam
@qabeelbinadam 20 күн бұрын
Sahil Adeem ka ye permanent tareeqa ha ke vo samne vale se bat nahi karta, vo us ko portal bana ke larger audience ka brainwash karta ha, ab aisa brain wash hua ha ke pooray munafiqistan ma maghaz ki nehri beh Chali hain to ye credit to ha us ka banta ha, maafi mange girl ko BHI credit jata ha, it's all for the better. Hum aisi qaum numa jathay ka murabba hain ke aise he jab hum ok doosray ko zaleel large to sudhray he or Rah e raast pe range, abhi to Sirf state bank ne raast nikala ha. or ye batae ke Pakistani aurto ko kis baat ka takabbur or akar ha, han mard BHI jahil hain, aur aurten BHI, Sahil Adeem se ittefaq nahi karta, 95 nahi 100% mard or 100% aurten jahil hain. SAHIL ADEEM se sawal ha ke ye 5% ka evidence de ke vo jahil nahi.
@ednanayub
@ednanayub 21 күн бұрын
قوم کی آبیاری اشد ضروری ہے تا کی فتنوں کی بارش میں اپنی اپنی چھتری کھول لیں اور بچا لیں خود کو ایمان کو مگر پھر بھی یہ ہوائیں سب کو چھو کے گزریں گی۔
@salmakazi5750
@salmakazi5750 22 күн бұрын
بہت عمدہ بہترین مگر معذرت کے ساتھ comments پڑھ کر لگا کہ ہم میں نہ مانوں والی قوم سے تعلق رکھتے ہیں اللہ تعالیٰ ہمیں ہدایت عطا فرمائے آمین جزاک اللہ خیرا
@anumramay4141
@anumramay4141 20 күн бұрын
True ... or es ko hi jahalat hi kahty hain.. And we are into it..
@zubbrabb
@zubbrabb 19 күн бұрын
Bilkul sahi 😊
@deenorduniyadonosawaren239
@deenorduniyadonosawaren239 22 күн бұрын
عمدہ اور اہم نکات
@haqnawazkhan552
@haqnawazkhan552 19 күн бұрын
پروفیسر صاحب۔ بہت عمدہ۔ بہت نفیس طریقہ سے آپ نے یہ بات پیش کی اور سمجھائی ۔
@nosheenahmed3231
@nosheenahmed3231 20 күн бұрын
Finally a knowledgable & well mannered person explained it👏👏
@S.Sam.01
@S.Sam.01 22 күн бұрын
100 true words !! jazak Allah khair
@EddiePayG
@EddiePayG 7 күн бұрын
Boht hi umda tareeka aur mere nazdeek bilkul sehi tareeka, lekin aj kal k doar mei kisi k pas itna waqt nai hota k is process se guzray. Mere aksar is baat ko face karta hun plue mai mehfil k adaab ka hissa samajhta hun kisi ki baat ko pura sun'na aur phir us ki baat ka jawab dena, aksar mai thought process mei ek behtareen jawab de sakun wo moment guzar jati hai aur baat kahin ki kahin nikal jati hai.
@MuhammadKashif-cf1ms
@MuhammadKashif-cf1ms 22 күн бұрын
Sahil Adeem and Khalil ur rehman jesy logo ko iklhaq ky daiery may kisi sy disagree krna chahye aur jazbat py control krna chahye specially in public.
@user-SSKYT111
@user-SSKYT111 19 күн бұрын
Dr shaib Marey pass ilfaz Nahi Hein. Bus inta khena chahoun ga ke ap ki video sekhene waloun KO bohat Gia howa hsi. ❤❤❤❤
@yasimeendurrani1209
@yasimeendurrani1209 18 күн бұрын
Please remember ... "Let us agree to disagree without being disagreeable"
@smssa3627
@smssa3627 20 күн бұрын
Kitni sahi baat samjhae hy ma shaa Allah. Ya Allah logun ko adab ahtram samjh ajaen آمین
@hidayatullah8370
@hidayatullah8370 19 күн бұрын
Ethics of Differing: " RESPECT" Remember the Ethics of Differing Opinions: R: Respect E: Empathy S: Stay Calm P: Professionalism E: Engage Constructively C: Clear Communication T: Tolerance
@kamrannasir1002
@kamrannasir1002 20 күн бұрын
Dr. Sb. words are not enough to appreciate you. May Allah bless you more. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@sajjads2728
@sajjads2728 21 күн бұрын
Good advice, Javaid Sahib. Our prophet called only one person JAHIL. Imagine if he would have called all of the Quresh Jahil. He never did, and there are obvious morality reasons for that.
@Careercompass178
@Careercompass178 19 күн бұрын
@@sajjads2728 He S.A.W called him AbU Jehl...NOT JEHL
@muhammadKhalid-mo1wu
@muhammadKhalid-mo1wu 22 күн бұрын
Very rightly said mainly we should be tolrent to each others.
@talatzubia9229
@talatzubia9229 4 күн бұрын
JazakAllah kher Dr sahib buht hi achy Sy aap NY ikhtelaf ko kis Tarah karna chaye samjhaya sehat k Sath Khush rahen
@ahmedabbasi637
@ahmedabbasi637 19 күн бұрын
Assalamalaikum, Bohat umdah.. Doctor sahb apny apny zarf ke hisab se kitni basic bat asani se logo ko samjha di.. Kash log apki batao ko samujh sakain.. Allah apko sehat ata farmain.. Ameen.
@humeraalvi305
@humeraalvi305 21 күн бұрын
Beautiful way of explaining, may Allah give hidayah and hikmah to all brothers and sisters....Ameen
@alibinshakeel34
@alibinshakeel34 13 күн бұрын
Subhan ALLAH❤ JazakAllah Bhaiyya🎉
@sam35827
@sam35827 22 күн бұрын
Sir your argument hits jackpot but valid only if arguing parties are equal but in this case Dr Adeem considers himself above the argument so he wants belittle the other participant Who is jahil is anybody’s guess
@javedjamot4738
@javedjamot4738 19 күн бұрын
سر رہنمائی کے لیے بہت شکریہ ❤❤❤
@HUSSAINI.5
@HUSSAINI.5 22 күн бұрын
Absolute such, Alhumdulillah we have which is Qur'an. Our lens towards things which be Quranic. Our true Identity is Muslim. We are not limited but limited here in this world.
@aquarian8843
@aquarian8843 22 күн бұрын
السلام علیکم بہت ہی اچھے انداز میں آپ نے اس پرابلم کا حل بتایا۔ جزاک اللہ خیر۔ واقعی سوشل میڈیا پر لائیو شو میں اتنی غیر اخلاقی طور پر ایک دوسرے سے بات کرنا نہایت غیر مناسب تھا۔ I really dislike it.
@khanmujeebkhan5776
@khanmujeebkhan5776 20 күн бұрын
Simply, in such cases when people have different views about any notion then listen carefully and say 'we agree to disagree'. Act sensibly, be calm and don't be arrogant or insulting!
@uzmashah1839
@uzmashah1839 20 күн бұрын
ساحل عدیم نے جو کہاسچ کہا انہوں نے بہترین تردید کی ہے اوریا مقبول جان کے چینل سیکھنے سمکھنے والوں کے وہ ویڈیوکافی ہے
@farmeensheikh1206
@farmeensheikh1206 22 күн бұрын
Sir you are a humble and polite person and explained this topic very well❤
@abdulshakoor-dv5cy
@abdulshakoor-dv5cy 22 күн бұрын
یہ صرف اندازے گفتگو اور الفاظ کا چناؤ ہی ہوتا ہے جو لوگوں کو اپکا گرویدہ بنا لیتا ہے۔ بڑے بڑے پڑھے لکھے اور جہاندیدہ لوگوں کو آپ کہتے سنیں گے کہ میں تو طفل مکتب ہوں، کم علم ہوں اور آپ سے کچھ سیکھنے آیا ہوں اپنے آپ کو عقل کل سمجھ کر گفتگو کرنے سے مسائل پیدا ہوتے ہیں
@AimanSaleem-q5p
@AimanSaleem-q5p 2 күн бұрын
JzakAllah khair sir for these much needed points.
@Shahkhalid-qv1gq
@Shahkhalid-qv1gq 21 күн бұрын
Sir aap nay affirmation k baraya may Jo wazahat ki, esi mafhoom say imam Ghazali (r.a) nay b ek osol lika hay munazeray k liy. Masha-Allah 💖
@jawadhaider2823
@jawadhaider2823 20 күн бұрын
جزاک اللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب بہت ہی اچھے انداز سے اپ نے سمجھایا خاص کر یہ کہ کسی کی نیت پہ شک نہیں کرنا
@mrsgilani5488
@mrsgilani5488 22 күн бұрын
Yes,yes aur samjaen. Students aj ka bi ethics ,sa bohat dooor hain.
@MrAbdullahArif-nr3xf
@MrAbdullahArif-nr3xf 11 күн бұрын
Agreed and sir I would say we should respect everyones opinion we should respect each other.
@sheikhhashimi5082
@sheikhhashimi5082 20 күн бұрын
شکریہ کے مستحق
@khawar79
@khawar79 16 күн бұрын
Khoobsoorat ...... bohot bohot shukriya
@sofiaraza2262
@sofiaraza2262 22 күн бұрын
Specifically socalled scholars ko jazbat pe control kar k bolna chahye
@Arslan_writes_yt
@Arslan_writes_yt 22 күн бұрын
Dr. Javed Iqbal has explained very well MashaAllah. I just want to add that normally we don't watch the whole video for 1hr or 2hr. Sir Sahil Adeem was telling the translation of the verse of Quran which was the same as he said. The thing is that nowadays we are far away from our holy book so we could not understand the actual meaning of an Arabic word. We have to see both sides and definitely we can't attack on anyone's intentions
@jalalusmani2623
@jalalusmani2623 21 күн бұрын
ڈاکٹر صاحب میرے والد مرحوم و مغفور اکثر فرماتے تھے کہ کسی کے عقیدے کو نہ چیھڑو اور اپنے عقیدے کو نہ چھوڑو
@AhmedMujtaba-xf5nj
@AhmedMujtaba-xf5nj 21 күн бұрын
Or maray teachers kahtay thay HAQ kay sath kharay raho chahay Jan jaay par eman na jaay
@abdulraufhafiz664
@abdulraufhafiz664 22 күн бұрын
ساحل عدیم کے بیانات میں اکثر proudness کا پہلو ہوتا ہے
@redrosered5539
@redrosered5539 21 күн бұрын
ye aap ka zavia e nigah hai
@yasmeenalvi1410
@yasmeenalvi1410 21 күн бұрын
Agree 💯
@tabinda460
@tabinda460 21 күн бұрын
It's his aggressive way of talk .so.please calm down why cant we e focus what he said it's right or wrong
@aamnasajjad113
@aamnasajjad113 21 күн бұрын
Not proudness but rudeness
@nazs3332
@nazs3332 20 күн бұрын
Arrogance is the right words for his attitude, which is disliked in Islam
@salmanahmed6695
@salmanahmed6695 21 күн бұрын
I think difference in anything or matter one may differ but definitely in a decent way. Nothing shall be taken as personal. Egoist behaviour always damages you
@SaleemKhan-vy8nm
@SaleemKhan-vy8nm 22 күн бұрын
Jazak Allah. Absolutely right
@dancesongs2611
@dancesongs2611 18 күн бұрын
MASHAHALLAH Kitna Acha smjha rhy ha ye oti ha educated person kasy baat karta hai...
@rummankhan4620
@rummankhan4620 19 күн бұрын
1. What is my true identity 2. Appreciation 3. Affirmation
@nasreendar4644
@nasreendar4644 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for this great information Allah bless you sir and all of us
@Ahtshamnasir072
@Ahtshamnasir072 18 күн бұрын
Thanks to be enlighten my dull soul and mind on this sensitive topic thats are very responsible for goodness and productive to an a relationship just for differancial debate. So nice of you ... Your fragrance should more be Allah gave barkat in your life Respected Gentley Mr Eternal/ javed Iqbal . Javed nama ❤
@mumtazziad2630
@mumtazziad2630 19 күн бұрын
Excellent JazakAllah khair mujhe ap ka andaze guftogo bahut pasand hay ap ki positivity bahut appeal kerti hay salamat rahein sehut o tundurusti key sath Ameen
@owaissyed1912
@owaissyed1912 21 күн бұрын
*اختلاف کے آداب* توجہ کی ضرورت امام شافعی نے فرمایا: تمام اختلافات مباحثہ سے جیتنے کی کوشش نہ کریں.. کبھی کبھی "دلوں کو جیتنا" "مناظرہ اور بحث جیتنے" سے زیادہ اہم ہوتا ہے! "کہنے والے کی بات " پر تنقید کرلو مگر "کہنے والے" کی عزت اور اس کا ادب کرو... ہمارا مشن "بیماریوں " کو ختم کرنا ہے… نہ کہ "بیماروں" کو ختم کرنا- اللہ تعلی ہمیں ہدایت دے آمین
@dr.m_amir
@dr.m_amir 22 күн бұрын
very beautiful message
@mohammadanisains9432
@mohammadanisains9432 21 күн бұрын
السلام علیکم ڈاکٹر صاحب آج بہت سریع و بلیغ باتیں اختلاف پربتاءیں شکریہ
@DrtalkAnimated
@DrtalkAnimated 21 күн бұрын
Huge respect for you sir Prof Javed Iqbal
@nishayaqoot7553
@nishayaqoot7553 21 күн бұрын
بائی دا وے یہ ساری باتیں اپ خاص طور پر اپ کی جو اخری باتیں ہیں وہ ساحل عظیم کو بھی سمجھا دیں
@user-zq6fj6sn6h
@user-zq6fj6sn6h 22 күн бұрын
بہت خوب جزاک اللہ خیر
@AzeemKhanAukSunConsultantsLtd
@AzeemKhanAukSunConsultantsLtd 15 күн бұрын
Respectfully these days people want us to first come to the point and then give the Tamheed. Thanks
@drhammadhaider3115
@drhammadhaider3115 22 күн бұрын
With all die respect doing all this will make you such a homeopathic person to whome no one will listen and try to understand I gave example of salman asif siddiqui he is a gem of a person but honestly how much impact he has on society just because he is a gentle soul no one bothers about him
@engineerbhai5676
@engineerbhai5676 21 күн бұрын
Ma shaa Allah boht acha explain kiya ha Dr sab ne.
@anchkanch
@anchkanch 21 күн бұрын
Insan KO Dekh kr bhi idea ho jata hey Kay ye reasonable admi hey ya nhi... Rational hey ya emotional hey..... Rational shakal say bhi rational lgta hey, emotional shakal say hi crazy lgta hey
@musioo7
@musioo7 21 күн бұрын
💯 agreed But wo larki jis agenda k leay bethi thi wo us ne Pura kr lia
@hajimuhammad3910
@hajimuhammad3910 22 күн бұрын
السلام علیکم سر ساحل عدیم اور خلیل الرحمٰن قمر جیسے لوگ بس تنقید کرتے ہیں حظ اٹھاتے ہیں
@simplestatement1543
@simplestatement1543 21 күн бұрын
قُلۡ اَفَغَيۡرَ اللّٰهِ تَاۡمُرُوۡٓنِّىۡۤ اَعۡبُدُ اَيُّهَا الۡجٰـهِلُوۡنَ‏ (اے نبی ﷺ !) آپ کہہ دیجئے کہ اے جاہلو ! کیا تم مجھے بھی یہ مشورہ دے رہے ہو کہ میں اللہ کے سوا کسی اور کی بندگی کروں ؟ Az-zumar 39:64
@genuineidea6043
@genuineidea6043 22 күн бұрын
Very well said but normally people hate each other inside and they are looking to find something to make fuss with and when they get this chance, they don’t let it go. 90% of people don’t listen to understand, they just listen to respond. The scenario you are presenting here is an ideal scenario which doesn’t exist. People are not that sincere these days, if you ask them “let’s talk” about it, they won’t even want to talk about “it”( any misunderstanding). They want you to say sorry without understanding the matter. This is very general comment, not about the particular situation you are referring to. I have something to discuss with someone for a very long time but can’t find anyone who could understand my point. Can i send you my question?
@shaziakamal2650
@shaziakamal2650 19 күн бұрын
"we both agree that we disagree on certain points" well said statement.
@shabanasohail6319
@shabanasohail6319 21 күн бұрын
MashaAllah ashfaq sahib ka bad ap ki bato ma bohat asar h Allah ap ko sehat wali Zindagi dy amen
@asifaparveen254
@asifaparveen254 22 күн бұрын
Mujhy lagta hy hamen yh sochna chahye k jis base py females ko lailmi ka kha gya hy Kya us k bary mn males janty hn I think taghoot ka meaning males ko bhe nh pta hoga to males or females ka qasoor nh hy balk yh pori society ka fault hy
@salmanahmed6695
@salmanahmed6695 21 күн бұрын
Absolute truth and awareness no one has. U right sir
@HifzakhanKhan-eq4gk
@HifzakhanKhan-eq4gk 22 күн бұрын
MaShaAllah sir❤🤲
@quratulainmansoor1249
@quratulainmansoor1249 21 күн бұрын
Assalamu alaekum apki guftagu ne meri soch k bohat se dareechey kholey
@Mohammadali-tn3ro
@Mohammadali-tn3ro 21 күн бұрын
Is this possible to treat the ppl in this society right now,,,,, every single person feels like he is the smartest person in the world 😢
@hometedtalk7994
@hometedtalk7994 20 күн бұрын
JazakAllah for sharing your ideas! May Allah give me and others the "taufeeq" to implement these procedures in our day-to-day conversations with unlikely-minded people.
@musioo7
@musioo7 21 күн бұрын
Is waqeay k Baad ab tak ki best video
@user-qo9nh2sk8o
@user-qo9nh2sk8o 21 күн бұрын
Wonderful sir,behtreen arguments,defined wonderfully❤❤❤
@legalexperts1148
@legalexperts1148 22 күн бұрын
I personally think that Sahil Adeem is sowing seeds of hatred amongst social media. Wasn't there a "qiyamat ki nishani" that illetrate and unqualified individuals would try to teach islam ? Correct me if I'm wrong
@Arslan_writes_yt
@Arslan_writes_yt 22 күн бұрын
Dr. Javed Iqbal has explained very well MashaAllah. I just want to add that normally we don't watch the whole video for 1hr or 2hr. Sir Sahil Adeem was telling the translation of the verse of Quran which was the same as he said. The thing is that nowadays we are far away from our holy book so we could not understand the actual meaning of an Arabic word. We have to see both sides and definitely we can't attack on anyone's intentions
@FalconNewsx
@FalconNewsx 18 күн бұрын
@@Arslan_writes_yt Most of these simp men siding with raging feminist women and putting all the blame on a man
@binteismail6444
@binteismail6444 22 күн бұрын
Best and wise advice Sir👍
@nelofarjaffry660
@nelofarjaffry660 22 күн бұрын
Boht hi behtreen tareqa se bataya ❤
@sunnyreon7415
@sunnyreon7415 20 күн бұрын
Thank you Sir for your well wishing advice Lekin problem hi na hoti agar haqeeqatan neeyaton me garbar na hoti. Sara masla hi isi beimaani or buri niyyat ki wajha se hai. Bohot se log sahi/haq/fact ko ainaad ya ghuroor ki wajha se jhutlatay aye hain. Hum me se koi bhi dilon k haal nahi janta, ye alfaaz o andaaz hi hain jo bazahir is taraf ishara kerti hain k fareeqeen me se koi ya dono hi darasal naik niyyat I k sath maslay ka hal nahi chahtay bulkay apni supremacy ko qaim rakhnay ki gharz se ya buray background or culture se haasil shuda asraat or unhi baatil aqaid or aisay ancestors ya companions/team-members ki taeed or khushnoodi k liye illogical or problem-end pe kharay ho ker behes kertay hain. Duniya ki majority achhi hoti agar majority log shayateen ka shikaar ho ker u k pakkay dost na ban چکے hotay.
@ishtiaqshah7936
@ishtiaqshah7936 15 күн бұрын
ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب جناب
@user-lk3ke1yf6d
@user-lk3ke1yf6d 20 күн бұрын
AA .main AP ko bht Shok se sunnti hun .AP ny bht zaberdast points btaaiaya Hain
@kiranferasat8903
@kiranferasat8903 19 күн бұрын
Jazak Allah khair
@shakilahmad211
@shakilahmad211 21 күн бұрын
Think Win-Win (Mutual Respect & Benefit) Seek First To Understand Then To Be Understood (Mutual Understanding) Synergize (Creative Cooperation)
@fatimaabbasi6485
@fatimaabbasi6485 22 күн бұрын
JazakAllah khair, Sir ❤
@bahadarkamal9142
@bahadarkamal9142 22 күн бұрын
Sir aap ki har video sy bohat kuch sekhny ko mil jata hai Allah aap ko ajar dy Ameen
@MUsman-197
@MUsman-197 20 күн бұрын
Sir you always give us the best lessons completely agree to your three points i-e Identity, Appreciation and Affirmation
@Bootoful
@Bootoful 22 күн бұрын
(Sahil Adeem) ya kuch or logh jo thora ilim hasil karti hai to phr dosron ko jhail khiti hai or khod ko Alim mein ni essi bhot religious logh dekhi hai jo uroto ki respect nahi karti on ki awaz ko hamesha daba kar rakhti hai khod ko gentelman khiti hai or bakio ko jhail khiti hai or apni ilim pi proud kariti hai jasi Shitan ni kia tha apni ilim pr . 8:19
@fitnessbykulsum7773
@fitnessbykulsum7773 20 күн бұрын
Sahil adeem wanted to be a motivational speaker in his teen age but couldn't succeed of many reasons, one of them was his appearance, later on he learned Ismalic teaching n now he's thinking of himself Islamic scholar
@firstgear6751
@firstgear6751 19 күн бұрын
Sorry to say this is too judgemental
@atiqrehman4246
@atiqrehman4246 21 күн бұрын
اسلام علیکم سر آ پ بالکل ٹھیک کہہ رہے ہیں ساحل عدیم صاحب کی نیت یا مقصد غلط نہیں ہے بس ان کے الفاظ کا چناؤ تھوڑا سخت ھے بس اس چیز کا تھوڑا سا خیال رکھیں 😊😊
@GADHAZEESHANGONADAL
@GADHAZEESHANGONADAL 21 күн бұрын
Acha phir me b keh sakta Sahii Adeem Ki ma bhe jahil our yeh khud bhe jahil
@mohammadmubashir3846
@mohammadmubashir3846 21 күн бұрын
اس تمام بحث کو میں دو جملوں میں بیان کر دوں،،، ایک چیز اختلاف ہے اور دوسری مخالفت،،، مسئلہ کب پیدا ہوتا ہے جب ہم اختلاف کو مخالفت میں بدل دیتے ہیں،،،
@mahnoormuqdis.8181
@mahnoormuqdis.8181 20 күн бұрын
Deen se jis jis ne dor kiya h Allah Pak unki akhrt ujden
@zebashaheer5173
@zebashaheer5173 20 күн бұрын
Very well said I hope we all learn To be against sin not the sinner
@kashifnazir5973
@kashifnazir5973 19 күн бұрын
Zbrdast ❤️ sir very valuable video for me❤
@amjadfiaz4830
@amjadfiaz4830 22 күн бұрын
Mashallaha jnb tnks
@sabaaziz122
@sabaaziz122 19 күн бұрын
با حکمت انسان❤
@C.B.A.gallery
@C.B.A.gallery 21 күн бұрын
Sir aap ki videos bohot informative or motivational hoti hain. Aik sawal tha k bachay ager incentive deny se bhi BAAT nhi maan rhy ya kehna nhi maan rhy to kia krna chahiye. Parenting pe aap ki bohot se videos Dekhi Hain or us per Amal bhi kia Jo aap ne hidayaat di parents ko. Thank you JazakAllah Dr.
@ishasaqib2618
@ishasaqib2618 21 күн бұрын
Much needed topic. Jzak Allah sir
@abrarulhaq5768
@abrarulhaq5768 21 күн бұрын
Love from Kashmir sir... Thankyou for the words of wisdom
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