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UnBlah Yourself

UnBlah Yourself

Күн бұрын

How do you find your style tribe? Where do you find them? What are they called? The women who fiercely own their style and want to show it? The women who see themselves as art and want to show it? Glammas, Crones, Icons, Advanced Style. How do you find these friends? This tribe? Finding these women isn't always simple, but could it be they are hiding right in front of your face? What if we don't want to "age gracefully"? What if we want to have FUN...together?
It's unfair that these awesome ladies don't have a cool name we can simply Google. When you don't have a name for something, it might as well not exist! Well these style mavens, these icons deserve a name and we're going to call them, "Queen Baddies".
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Hi I'm Diana and I love to talk about style, skincare, makeup and living your best life after 40, 50 and beyond. We have a lot of fun here so I hope you'll subscribe and join our tribe!

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@kathysteele4303
@kathysteele4303 8 күн бұрын
Love Love Love this!!!!🎉
@susanlarson3926
@susanlarson3926 Ай бұрын
I'm 62, with lilac purple pixie hair and the outfit I feel most myself in is a pair of baggy overalls. Not everyone was happy that I dyed my hair, but then I also have things happen like random strangers, young and old, telling me they love my hair. When I look in the mirror I see the authentic me, and frankly, that is all that matters.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
I love it!
@dorlevanos3480
@dorlevanos3480 13 күн бұрын
This Queen Baddie from Sydney, Australia just turned 74! I have short bright pink hair and I love putting together fun outfits! I always get compliments on my thrifted /vintage finds. I love your channel Diana, your fresh quirky style is admirable and I have certainly subscribed! Cheers from Oz 🤗❤️🇦🇺
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 11 күн бұрын
Happy birthday!! Welcome, full fledged Queen Baddie! 😘
@dtgb8546
@dtgb8546 23 сағат бұрын
Diana: thanks for helping us all along our path to Queen Baddies! I have had SO MUCH FUN playing in my closet and getting dressed since I found your channel. You have truly brightened things up around here!❤️
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 22 сағат бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that! Thank you!
@thatgirl3960
@thatgirl3960 17 күн бұрын
This is the most I,portent video you have ever made! Thank you! ❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 16 күн бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@frannygrace2191
@frannygrace2191 Ай бұрын
I am on my way to becoming a Queen Baddie at 74 and I'm having so much fun! Years ago I subscribed to a vintage clothing newsletter and the lady said that the one thing you need to make sure you have before you leave your house dressed in your style is your sense of humor!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
YES
@Emefur1
@Emefur1 26 күн бұрын
Built over time - like an art collection - I like it.
@YamIa3gypsy
@YamIa3gypsy Ай бұрын
When I am an old woman I shall wear purple. That is a great poem worth reading if you get a chance. Lol from a queen baddie!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Yes will do! QB in the house!
@simplyme8593
@simplyme8593 10 күн бұрын
Thanks for the recommendation. I just read it and I love it 😌💜
@greeneyedmimibostian3013
@greeneyedmimibostian3013 9 ай бұрын
We love you and your videos ❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
Thank you sooo much! I'm always glad to see you! 😘
@greeneyedmimibostian3013
@greeneyedmimibostian3013 9 ай бұрын
I'm a crone!!!!!
@elisabethvismans
@elisabethvismans 15 күн бұрын
Once becomes confident by trusting one’s instincts. Take intuitive painting classes and learn what your subconscious tells you.
@kristiwathen2642
@kristiwathen2642 23 күн бұрын
Thanks, Dianna! You are the first truly creative blogger I have found. I am tired of people pushing style rules that suggest everyone needs to look the same. It’s too boring and sad for me.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 23 күн бұрын
Ahhhh thank you Kristi! 😘
@lynnephelps2370
@lynnephelps2370 17 күн бұрын
I love this. Lindsay Weirich, "the Frugal Crafter," mentioned you in her last Sat Chat video, and I've been binge watching ever since. I'm about to retire, so funds will be more limited, so your thrifting ethos really resonates with me. I'm overweight and live in stretch jeans and t-shirts but there is a baddie in me that yearns to come out. I'd love to be a virtual part of your style tribe! Something to work towards!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 11 күн бұрын
Oh wow Thanks for letting me know that! So cool!
@agelessglamournotyourmamas688
@agelessglamournotyourmamas688 Ай бұрын
Loved this!! Shared with my girlfriends. I am 70 and love fashion so I am in!! Thanks from another Queen baddy!😊
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Welcome Queen!
@katechadbournebard
@katechadbournebard 14 күн бұрын
Fabulous and truly inspiring! I love how you prize fun above all and I so appreciate your encouragement to value and befriend other women at all stages of life. All my life I have loved playing with clothes- dressing as a poet, a pirate, an owl, a spy, whatever calls me - and have been alternately warned about fitting in and told I’m fantastic and unforgettable. The finger waggers don’t appear to be having a lot of fun or garnering prizes for adhering to the “rules.” So here’s to growing every day into the delicious liberation of being a Queen Baddy. Yes, please. And thank you for the awesome name and video!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 14 күн бұрын
❤😘❤
@elizabethsmolens2752
@elizabethsmolens2752 Ай бұрын
I am inspired!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
I'm glad!
@kalulu1675
@kalulu1675 Ай бұрын
This is so fabulous that I sent it to a fashion writer. P.S. I decided to dress like a lighthouse as I age, thanks to you.
@suzangroves959
@suzangroves959 Ай бұрын
Well I'm 80 and love my orange jumpsuit and flowered kimono jacket .jumpsuits all the way for me I've cut my unruly curly hair really short as well and wear contact lenses so I can see to put my makeup on you have inspired me to get out my scarves and accesorise!!! Yay thanks for this lovely Diana ❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Wow that sounds awesome! Welcome Queen Baddie! I want to be in your style tribe!
@user-mc7wu8dx9u
@user-mc7wu8dx9u Күн бұрын
I’ve been binge watching your videos today. Great stuff! The bit about breaking from the male gaze hit home. I’m almost 46 and I’m looking forward to a turban and mumu already!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Күн бұрын
😘
@evilandproud
@evilandproud Ай бұрын
I knew you were my kinda gal! This is what I aspire to. No one else's opinion should matter if you love the way you look.❤❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Love your username! 😆
@Dwynfal
@Dwynfal 5 ай бұрын
How did I miss this Diana? It just popped up in my feed even though I've been with you since the beginning! I'm an apprentice Queen Baddie. I'll be 55 this year and the more time passes the less I care about what people think about what I wear and look like! And I love it! Now, a (probably not) quick story about finding your tribe. I love Doc Martens boots, especially the high heel ones. I also love Irish Wolfhounds. Some 15 years ago, after my two wolfhounds had passed away within months of each other I decided I needed to get a wolfhound love bath. So I went to a specialty wolfhound outdoor show in France, 6 hour drive and all. Lucky for me the breeder of my first wolfhound's dad was there. I pulled out my camping chair next to her and basked in wolfhound kisses... Shortly thereafter, this lady came out of the show ring with her wolfhound and sat down on the other side of my breeder. I eyed her Doc Martens boots (flats in her case), she eyed mine.... She didn't know Doc Martens made heels but the overall style was unmistakable to her. From that day we became friends, then as time went on more like sisters from another mother. We aim to get to Queen Baddie status as we grow old. We live in different countries, a 4 hour drive away from each other (yes, I know you're barely out of California then!), but nothing will break us from being Queen Baddies, together and apart!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 4 ай бұрын
I LOVE that story! And it's a testament to wearing your insides on your outsides so others can get to know you better. Perfect and lovely. Thanks for sharing!
@ld3507
@ld3507 20 күн бұрын
Thank you for this awesome vid! LOVE LOVE!!💞😘💃
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 20 күн бұрын
You are so welcome! Glad you're here!
@deehowe8650
@deehowe8650 Ай бұрын
People tell me I dress uniquely all the time and they could never pull off what I look good in. I wear hats to church and they say, oh we need to have a hat Sunday. I tell them why do we need a certain day, if you want to wear it, wear it!!! I enjoy playing worth my clothes. It does cause an issue though; I have way toooooo much 🤷🏻‍♀️😉👩🏻‍🎤🕵🏻‍♀️💂🏻‍♀️🧑🏻‍🎤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Me tooooooo
@Eau-Cielle
@Eau-Cielle Ай бұрын
I want to have fun and feel good feel happy !! 🎉 I laugh a lot in life but I'm a bit afraid since some years, because I change a bit.. Time... Merci beauuucoup you help me to remember what I am. To reconnect to myself, to my creativity... Merci.. ❤❤❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Yes, fun, happy, laughing! The best style advice!
@dianemalek436
@dianemalek436 8 күн бұрын
I love this! I just found your channel recently and am just loving your content! Keep it up, please!💙
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 4 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!! 😘
@PookieK
@PookieK 25 күн бұрын
From one Queen Baddie to another- I love this!! And I adore you and your channel. New subscriber here who is binge watching everything you have ever put out
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!! Welcome QB! 😘
@kimmyk3640
@kimmyk3640 20 күн бұрын
Queen Baddie want-to-be here! Thanks for the guidance. I LOVE this video. ❤😎🥂
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 20 күн бұрын
😘
@andrealemburg8545
@andrealemburg8545 Ай бұрын
Hiya, I only recently found your channel. You make a lot of sense. I was raised on a farm in the middle of no where and we were judged by what we can bring to the table. And I guess because of that I missed all the media hype and peer pressure. I wear what I want, when I want as long as its publicly decent, like not letting it all hang out plus I am German hence your French girl style is very similar to the German style. I still live in the country side and have farm type of dogs therefore my style has to be compatible with this. The amount of times my daughter makes statements like " mother what are you wearing"? Do I care? No
@lisa_wistfulone7957
@lisa_wistfulone7957 9 ай бұрын
“… And you know who you are. I am you, you are me, we are THEM.” Yaaazzzzzz!!!!!! I’m in my early 50s, and I’m already converting my closet contents to the velvets, tulles, vibrant florals, and layers galore that I always “wished” I could wear!!! My wishing days are over, I’m letting my inner Whimsigothical Playful Princess have her way!!🌻🌸🦋🍁💝✨ (Added:) I’m looking forward, however, to when the fierce fearlessness kicks in in another decade or so! I’ll get there tho!!💫⚡️✨
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
I love all of this! Just enjoy your life!
@jojodaisy4
@jojodaisy4 29 күн бұрын
Very encouraging thank you so much!!❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 27 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!❤
@nelluke
@nelluke 9 ай бұрын
Brilliant! I love this sentiment! You found so many fabulous photos and examples. I’m on the hunt for these ladies on Instagram now, not to copy them but to be inspired and boost my bravery. Thank you so much. Also I’m in love with that turban. I wear similar headwear from time to time. It really draws attention.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
A great place to find photos is Pinterest! When you find something you like, it serves more directly to you. I love it! Thanks for being here with us!❤
@alamedadanceparty
@alamedadanceparty Ай бұрын
This is the most inspirational video I've watched in years.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Glad you liked it! ❤
@darkangelkate3950
@darkangelkate3950 Ай бұрын
Me too!
@greensoul517
@greensoul517 Ай бұрын
This is so inspiring, can‘t wait get out of the little black beige capsule i put myself in long enough. I turn 60 this summer and think it‘s time to be bold. Thank you for yout content ❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Glad you're here!
@anaalves3658
@anaalves3658 9 ай бұрын
I love the term! I recently bought some bright pink 😢 purple, snake skin prin😢 Nike sneakers and I love them, they are totally crazy, but my husband said that he liked them with a dress i wore 😊. They make me smile so I am going to rock them 😂
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
Yay I love that! 💯
@marie-josegauthier5257
@marie-josegauthier5257 23 күн бұрын
I am 82 and have always felt good at any age. I am fashionable, creative and enjoy my life now. This is a little patronizing, one can be 70 + 80 * and don’t need to be told that they could be ok😢 they are.😊 they don’t have to look like old hags they are beautiful, period. Without the turban.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 23 күн бұрын
While I'm really glad aging has been easy for you, the truth is it hasn't been so easy for others, which is the entire reason I started this channel. Woman after woman kept telling me they felt Blah and didn't know what to do next. Of course one doesn't have to wear a turban, I just love them. I'm just trying to help people that want the help. You sound like you've got things figured out and that's great. ❤😘❤
@pammienakh
@pammienakh 19 күн бұрын
Super vid! Happy to see you talk about this topic . I’m hitting 70 soon and it’s a bit challenging to figure my clothes out. The Queen Baddie Tribe sounds great. I wanna join! ❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 18 күн бұрын
You're here! Welcome Queen Baddie! 😘
@just_me8796
@just_me8796 Ай бұрын
Here is my problem. I live in southern California and the coolest looks I'm in love with are layered and even layers of hand knits (thick warm cozy) and I can NEVER where these things. I'm trying to get the look by sewing my own things in cotton and linen, but it's hard to get textures. I can get prints, but textures are harder to find. But yah, I've been eyeing these pictures a LOT I love them since I've been in my 50s. I'm about to turn 61 now, LOL and that's EXACTLY how I want to present :D Too fun, but gotta be light and fluffy, I need more inspiration that isn't warm :/
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
I also live in Southern California! You know what layers really well? Silks!
@octoberwhatever8033
@octoberwhatever8033 9 ай бұрын
What we love is our style
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
Yes it's as simple as that. 😘
@amandasale3840
@amandasale3840 9 ай бұрын
I can't wait to be a Queen Baddie! I'll dress in leather, silk and velvet - kinda like Steven Tyler from Aerosmith. 🎸♥️
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
I like the sound of that!
@anaalves3658
@anaalves3658 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 love it!
@Enoo-Wynn
@Enoo-Wynn Ай бұрын
Why wait? Be a Queen Baddie now.
@robinsabo6932
@robinsabo6932 Ай бұрын
Love this! Thank you!
@fleurdixoncoote
@fleurdixoncoote 3 ай бұрын
I’m so up for this tribe x
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 3 ай бұрын
Welcome to our online tribe! 😘
@fleurdixoncoote
@fleurdixoncoote 2 ай бұрын
@@unblahyourself 💓
@katec9893
@katec9893 Ай бұрын
Due to your videos (and Kathleen Illustrated who is another inspirational creative youtube lady) I'm currently wearing the denim overalls I've been too scared to wear, a purple t shirt and a cute scarf for doing some gardening in style! I'm sick of wearing only boring sensible clothes and want to be more fun and creative in how I put my outfits together. P.S that turban is so fun!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Yay! I love that! I have found myself gardening in dresses kind of by accident but then thought, why not?
@ld3507
@ld3507 20 күн бұрын
​@unblahyourself I wear dresses when I garden! And thought the same thing...why not! I had it on, I ended up in the garden...and hey, there ya go!
@katec9893
@katec9893 20 күн бұрын
@@unblahyourself I have been doing a lot of landscaping and DIY on my allotment so need to wear protective gear as I saw wood and drill etc so a dress wouldn't be safe but I'm still aiming to be a stylish gardener as it makes me feel better. Nice outdoor trousers, tops, hats and maybe silk scarves are my aim.
@VHPINC
@VHPINC 21 күн бұрын
I thought for sure you would show some queen Betty style choices… Hope that’s on its way
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 21 күн бұрын
That definitely needs it's own episode!
@Quetzali19
@Quetzali19 Ай бұрын
This video got you a new subscriber!❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Welcome!! Let's have fun!
@karengrohs4942
@karengrohs4942 9 ай бұрын
I'm in!
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
Let's do this! ❤
@jeanettekays1954
@jeanettekays1954 Ай бұрын
YES! YES! YES!
@d.carter
@d.carter Ай бұрын
Love it!!!
@elzbietakachnowski8637
@elzbietakachnowski8637 9 ай бұрын
Love every sentence you said. Love the message 🥰
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, and thanks for being here! 😘
@jessieswritingden115
@jessieswritingden115 Ай бұрын
I love your videos
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Thank you!! 😘
@alamedadanceparty
@alamedadanceparty Ай бұрын
​@@unblahyourselfI'm planning to send it to so many of my friends. "This is us when we're 80." Your content keeps getting better and better. Your humor and authenticity is superb.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
❤😚❤
@Eau-Cielle
@Eau-Cielle Ай бұрын
Superbe !!! 👌👌👌
@lynnduke1302
@lynnduke1302 Ай бұрын
I like you a lot
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
😘
@bellaheblan8479
@bellaheblan8479 9 ай бұрын
Fantastic! I think I’m there! I’m a 69 year old grandmother, and I usually play it so safe with fashion! However, my inside doesn’t match! Lol! 😂 Maybe confidence will grow, as I gradually become more fearless! Thanks for putting this desire into words/great ideas! Looking forward to more ways to “unblah” myself! ❤️😎😍💃 New subscriber here! 👍🏼
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
Welcome Bella! I know so many women whose outsides don't match their insides... yet! With small adjustments over time we get there. Thanks for being here with us!
@clairereilly2778
@clairereilly2778 4 ай бұрын
I have been looking for queen baddie you tubers but struggle to know what to search for. Any recommendations?
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 4 ай бұрын
This is a great question and I'd like to look into it. Let me get back to you!
@alamedadanceparty
@alamedadanceparty Ай бұрын
I want to be a Queen Baddie.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
Me tooooooo
@mariay.cotter8842
@mariay.cotter8842 Ай бұрын
💋💋💋💋
@passioncompassionhumorstyle
@passioncompassionhumorstyle Ай бұрын
Love your videos but highly disagree on the definition of ”stylish” being ”well fitting clothes without stains, rips or tears, clean, presentable and in good shape”. That sounds more like what it used to mean when fash mags dictated it for us. I believe ”stylish” these days = you have a style of your own, whatever that means to you personally.
@Enoo-Wynn
@Enoo-Wynn Ай бұрын
I think your opinion is kind, but I don't agree. But, the world needs kind people more than stylish people.
@stefanopapucci9258
@stefanopapucci9258 9 ай бұрын
I like your scarf....silk ?
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
Yes!
@stefanopapucci9258
@stefanopapucci9258 9 ай бұрын
@@unblahyourself ohhhh yours beatifull scarf ...how many times do you wear a scarf for week?
@stefanopapucci9258
@stefanopapucci9258 9 ай бұрын
​@@unblahyourselfI love your scarf❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself 9 ай бұрын
I've been wearing them less on my neck these days with my very short hair but a lot more in my hair, a few times a week?
@stefanopapucci9258
@stefanopapucci9258 9 ай бұрын
@@unblahyourself hello...this morning i word the scarf tied aroun my neck...do you like ? Scarf hermes ...
@DMG64
@DMG64 Ай бұрын
Im hitting 60 yrs this year and am having a time finding my style. I just don't wanna be a crone.
@unblahyourself
@unblahyourself Ай бұрын
I never liked the word "crone". It's so harsh sounding. Think about what fabrics you love, what patterns, what colors and make sure everything fits your body great. Wear those and whatever that combo becomes is your style!
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