How To Get A Girlfriend (Recruit Difficulty)

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KoldHeartKam

10 ай бұрын

how to get a girlfriend, how to talk to girls, stop trying so hard

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@TheSnoozeFox 10 ай бұрын

My main issue with these girls I talk to is they have insane social lives, like they have a stupid amount of friends, always out doing something even during the week and I often look like I don't have one in comparison which puts them off. I have a social life but I know when to just chill at the house and they think its weird for some reason.

@diegocruz9080 10 ай бұрын

You talking to the wrong girls then

@itzznotjacob 9 ай бұрын

@@diegocruz9080ong

@shy4real 9 ай бұрын

@@diegocruz9080factz, onb

@FalangeRevolutionary986 8 ай бұрын

Those are hoes my friends

@nateordonio679 8 ай бұрын

Same bro.

@MatthewRumble 10 ай бұрын

Anyone can find a girlfriend but its very difficult to find someone who actually benefits you. Most of these relationships are due to a lack of security in yourself and your loneliness. Never settle, always have high standards

@Newdawn80909 10 ай бұрын

bingo

@jimmyjoles 10 ай бұрын

I can’t find one at all lol

@MatthewRumble 10 ай бұрын

@jimmyjoles maybe because you aren't doing anything to improve yourself. Maybe you still relapsing on nofap. Also it may be because God sees better for you and he doesn't want you to settle for anything less than u deserve

@wezzsimple6612 10 ай бұрын

@@MatthewRumbleI’m doing everything to improve myself and still can’t get one, it’s tough out here

@HaveASweetNightMare 8 ай бұрын

i cant lol and if i try i just get called ugly

@mertcoskun8975 10 ай бұрын

4:24 "You're supposed to be your own best friend first of all " Man you couldn't have said it better

@kass8967 10 ай бұрын

I can’t explain how perfect the timing of this is

@Vibez_witYaboiJay15 10 ай бұрын

OMs

@ezyg3800 10 ай бұрын

same bruh

@AfricanSouljaBoy 10 ай бұрын

Same

@The_Top_J 10 ай бұрын

Frr bro

@M4X1 5 ай бұрын

Wish I watched this 4months ago…

@kyoi7568 10 ай бұрын

Recruit difficulty is wild

@Kratosisgw 8 ай бұрын

It's accurate for me

@cameron2900x 2 ай бұрын

@@Kratosisgwaccreat- Dj khaled

@apimpnamedstreetmeat 3 ай бұрын

bless you dawg. needed this rn, just started kickin it with this female i really like but i felt like i wasn't bein true to myself.

@Thegreatesgames 9 ай бұрын

Bro you should start doing podcasts , coz you always genuine and sincere in your talks Big Brother man

@songoten5880 10 ай бұрын

Man thanks for doing the real talk you are speaking facts and helping many young insecure man out

@allfoxgaming5049 8 ай бұрын

Your advice is the most good actual advice I’ve heard, I act like a little codependent baby, tough advice but never even thought of it, thank you.

@bravesfanACUNA13 9 ай бұрын

I see girls looking but I’m too shy to talk to them

@underdog7495 9 ай бұрын

Same here

@morimiser 10 ай бұрын

you be bombin me these guides and I'm becomin the master of life thank you sensei

@colegreenleaf9791 10 ай бұрын

I literally approached my work crush today and we hit it off easy, just pull the trigger guys fucking go for it, don't fear rejection

@joshwardman4864 9 ай бұрын

Update?

@colegreenleaf9791 9 ай бұрын

@@joshwardman4864 been dating for a couple weeks now boss just go for it if you get rejected just stand tall with your head up and never talk or look at her again she will feel like you're the on who rejected her

@notinservice7112 9 ай бұрын

@@tyrekkz The point is to go after a girl you like despite the possible chance of getting rejection. The girl you like can be anywhere, not just someone you work with.

@jdarrrr 7 ай бұрын

@@tyrekkzinsane thing to say

@birthdaycat6756 10 ай бұрын

I was needing this video tomorrow but it came today. Timing expectations surpassed.

@austinedmund618 10 ай бұрын

This is the best advice man! Thank you.

@nwk1626 10 ай бұрын

i been binging your channel cause some of them videos really hitting home

@andilenhlakaniphomaphanga40 10 ай бұрын

Spitting facts all the time 👌

@ttamcc.4674 10 ай бұрын

Man Kam hittin on this one and it came at the right time

@CommandoMaster 10 ай бұрын

Being Masculine is a whole can of worms in itself. Also, u need to have the looks, vibe, and personality that the girl is attracted to.

@Patbat69SaneVersion 10 ай бұрын

can we appreciate how consistent kam is 🎉

@perico6969 8 ай бұрын

I love your content bro keep it up

@skottles5968 10 ай бұрын

im not even joking 10000000 percent this works theres a few catches tho you got to know the girl for a while for it to be a real relationship i tried almost all of these methods and i watched this on day of release and somehow in a week she went from not interested to wanting me

@user-qs2sz7zo4m 7 ай бұрын

dude this is such killer video thanks❤

@yeet-- 10 ай бұрын

angel timing as usual

@skyzy8306 6 ай бұрын

thank u needed these advices amen

@joshuahernandez5908 9 ай бұрын

at the lowest point of my life rn

@altshift5834 9 ай бұрын

You ain't alone

@codgoaat 7 ай бұрын

You’ll be Ight bro 👊🏽

@smo7315 10 ай бұрын

“Girl out there likes you” 😂😂😂

@danboy9465 5 ай бұрын

spitting facts thx dawg

@garrettproductions1513 8 ай бұрын

This is the most real shit I’ve heard in years

@brooklynmayall4296 9 ай бұрын

your a hero ❤

@Sameer-px3vz 10 ай бұрын

Crazy how simple you simplify it😂

@TheHumbleBruce 7 ай бұрын

thanks for the video big bro

@DLPfan-km8dc 10 ай бұрын

I gave up on girls long long time a go i got bigger problems like trying stay alive

@Omarthedemigod 10 ай бұрын

Same. Having to be this perfect man to get someone who’s average just ain’t even fair or worth the effort for what you get. I have my purpose, my job, my actual job and am finding opportunities to enjoy new things. If someone loves me they do, but if they don’t then that’s just how the song goes.

@Newdawn80909 10 ай бұрын

@@Omarthedemigoddon’t ever settle for average if you’re improving yourself EVER my boy, for me we either find each other weak or find each other strong

@Omarthedemigod 10 ай бұрын

@@Newdawn80909 Not quite sure what you mean by the weak and strength part. I’m not gonna settle for anyone abusive if I can even find someone. But tbh I don’t have the genetic gifts to be a chooser. If she isn’t obviously ugly and she likes me like I like her then I’ll take it.

@GoldenMushroom64 10 ай бұрын

I always say. The women do the choosing. All the men have to do is show up.

@mannyjames7357 9 ай бұрын

Droppin gems

@yrnkid8748 10 ай бұрын

The “shhh” had me weak 😂

@Redkyloren 7 ай бұрын

My personality type I look for is kind and nice and what I look for as there liking some things I do I don’t care about her looks it’s all about personality not looks

@user-fq4em8tx8m 7 ай бұрын

Thanks you helped me so much

@Kelbell4143 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story 😮😮😮😮

@Jonathan-it7lz 10 ай бұрын

Facts 👌.

@user-ry4gf4bm2p 9 ай бұрын

When you say be yourself… well I don’t know anything about who I am or my objectives of even what I want to accomplish!!! I have to much to worry about to much to solve oh AND I AM EXTREMELY VIOLENT!!!!

@jeremybarnes5025 10 ай бұрын

I had a girlfriend before, but her grandpa broke us up before we graduated and she was supposed to be the one that goes to be married in the future

@jaisonn25 10 ай бұрын

L grandpa fr

@GUNSAKIMBO640 10 ай бұрын

Bro cocked blocked

@ayn297 10 ай бұрын

@@GUNSAKIMBO640grandpa been cockblocking since 86’

@789ine 8 ай бұрын

Damn

@JLxavyo 7 ай бұрын

Ouch

@arvidsvalstedt 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this now i will get a girlfriend

@dwightwilliams311 10 ай бұрын

I guess I was trying to hard. It's difficult being lonly at 32 years old.

@Bigmonkey102 8 ай бұрын

I just want someone who loves me I go to the gym I try to be disciplined and masculine I’ve been doing it for a year now and nothing has happened I’m losing hope

@arctiicastro2813 10 ай бұрын

Perfect timing. Just lost a baddie due to a flaw of mine. Run it back.

@arctiicastro2813 10 ай бұрын

her friends kinda fucked me over because they know me more than the girl.

@bakz23. 10 ай бұрын

is all good my bro i can relate to that

@nathanbrownornb 10 ай бұрын

You’ll bounce back bro, focus on you for the moment! 💪🏾

@user-jn3es1kc2f 9 ай бұрын

Hey man, you want to be friends? Like a couple years from now we can be homies where we go camping with our families

@Omen271 5 ай бұрын

God bless you

@Redkyloren 7 ай бұрын

Also I always played the waiting game but a friend told me it’s better if I go out and talk to people

@TheHumbleBruce 7 ай бұрын

never had a girlfriend until i watched this video man

@SirSamich 7 ай бұрын

If Hitler can get a wife/girlfriend, anyone can.

@jdarrrr 7 ай бұрын

That's one way to put it....

@luhreyy 4 ай бұрын

Anyone can, it’s just about how you can

@apimpnamedstreetmeat 3 ай бұрын

he has a high state of authority, who knows how he bagged that woman. remember that was in the era of arranged marriage

@Malik_Hoff 10 ай бұрын

Kam, can you do a video about "what's the point of a girlfriend outside of sex"?

@sanzen3694 9 ай бұрын

?? Bro??

@NibbleNibble 9 ай бұрын

💀

@Incognito-ru9hk 7 ай бұрын

Real💯

@Chriso22 10 ай бұрын

Now thinking about littreally all my friends from college has been with someone lol

@brycebean8798 10 ай бұрын

How to get into the discord that he mentioned?

@DJ210_ 10 ай бұрын

Yo kam can you make a video on how to shoot your shot

@akeemmissouri4716 10 ай бұрын

I'm young black man im having trouble trying find a woman man i use to like black woman but now they just think they better than me they think they better than the black man they think they are alot of woman thinks that man its sad bro everywhere i go they pick at me i stutter bad i like Puerto Rican women but i think i probably have same thing with them🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷👑

@Silver_Gaming 8 ай бұрын

I’m on the verge of going into the middle of nowhere and die

@SimplySam7 10 ай бұрын

Timing immaculate

@basedgraham1430 9 ай бұрын

im giving myself 1 more year to find a gf, if i fail, im going to self delete EDIT: i want to thank those of you who replied with concerns, i can tell you now that i feel much better, i have been going to therapy and hitting the gym everyday, thank you all again so much!!

@sanzen3694 9 ай бұрын

?? Bro?

@shy4real 9 ай бұрын

theres more into life, blud

@altshift5834 9 ай бұрын

We're here for you bro you got snap, discord, whatsapp?

@Warmonger6785 6 ай бұрын

It’s been months! Have you changed your mind?

@basedgraham1430 6 ай бұрын

@@Warmonger6785 yeah im better now, girls aren't everything, i appreciate all the comments

@789ine 8 ай бұрын

3:37 LMFAO replay button

@poodabran 10 ай бұрын

Girlfriends are overrated! Get a wife bro! More benefits.

@mannyolivarez1253 10 ай бұрын

It’s impossible bro

@nathanbrownornb 10 ай бұрын

Marriage is the biggest scam on earth. “Get a wife” 😂😂

@mannyolivarez1253 10 ай бұрын

@@nathanbrownornb fr 😂

@shy4real 9 ай бұрын

@@nathanbrownornbong

@Kratosisgw 8 ай бұрын

She may be your type but you may not be her type

@MrTellIt 10 ай бұрын

i checked out your youtube channel

@dragsterguy38 10 ай бұрын

They are just distractions. Who wants that getting in the way of your progress in life?

@Soulcubb 8 ай бұрын

so how am i supposed to initiate a conversation if theyre supposed to do all the talking i honestly don't even know how to get to the friend stage with a girl cause i know she isnt ever going to approach me

@flacko426 7 ай бұрын

a woman thats interested wont make you do all the talking bro, im not much of a talker too but girls that like me do the most talking when we're having a convo, you do have to seem interested in her tho

@pbg1204 10 ай бұрын

Was gonna do the first comment lol

@jerryariza6834 8 ай бұрын

your examples crack me up, but it is exactly how dudes think.

@graysonbeck5597 10 ай бұрын

🐐

@uni29508 10 ай бұрын

Can you do how to keep your girlfriend. I easily pull girls but i never keep them around. Like what do girls need from us men to make them stay

@DiggingDeepVlog 10 ай бұрын

My man looking like sideshow Bob from the Simpsons lol

@user-ch5fv6ef3o 3 ай бұрын

Steven harry 😔😔😔😔

@dustinhernandez8214 10 ай бұрын

Kam should I do my videos faceless or with face?

@DannyVibes1 10 ай бұрын

What kind of question is this, definitely with your face

@jayPskiii 10 ай бұрын

What happened to the discord

@legrealtrolling9693 10 ай бұрын

bru ain’t no way i got muted in ur server for no reason 💀

@300waystodye 12 күн бұрын

Thanks

@jimmyjoles 10 ай бұрын

I think the 9 of 10 don’t count for me. I think n would now of sombody I knew liked me

@arvidsvalstedt 9 ай бұрын

Now im not lonely anymore

@TERM1000 10 ай бұрын

Wtf are those piercing, mans going of the deep end bruh

@lem3579 10 ай бұрын

How tf can I find the one? Like a beautiful girl that's not a hoe and genuinely has a pure heart and is ambitious? Most of these women today don't have anything at all to offer if we remove sex.

@TheBatman200 10 ай бұрын

It’s the sad truth. I just want to find a virgin chill person. Nothing crazy. I don’t want a hoe or a girl that party’s or none of that

@coldheartedchris256 10 ай бұрын

@@TheBatman200it’s gone be super hard to find uh virgin nowadays especially once u grown just look for 1 who ain’t got uh bunch of bodies n they are sun girls that are helpful they just hard to find

@christlives9774 10 ай бұрын

Well first you have to self improve so your not a degenerate or evil like most of the women in this generation. Become Christ like stop swearing and repent. A woman of God should be clean and not like the girls you mentioned. Be a child of God

@lem3579 10 ай бұрын

@@christlives9774 I'm a dude

@jamespain2138 10 ай бұрын

I just want the Cheeks Kam lol I rather just pay for 📦

@eross899 10 ай бұрын

listen man, so i got to know this girl on long distance, we talked every day for a good 6 weeks, and now she just gone. I wont give in to double texting, she replies to my messages 10 hours later with a word and ofc i considered the fact she found some other dude, but i meant to visit her in like a week and now its like were done. I know i gotta move on but its hard man.

@amonzi8646 10 ай бұрын

Yeah bro rough hate to hear it but she lost interest in you so move on hit the gym play a sport blow off some steam (I play soccer) and don't focus on revenge but get your revenge in a product way aka just calmly improve on what you can like a strong man worth having and if she tries to come back reject her and say nope

@senpai-lol4310 6 ай бұрын

Been through this multiple times, it’s 100% somebody else. If you guys are younger then the only other factor could be that her phone or laptop or whatever got taken but if she replied or has been online, she would mention that. Once you start to notice girls getting distant, just know they found someone else and don’t want to tell you or look bad for talking to other guys. They’ll either ghost you or just straight up block you. It’s so sudden as well, but only to us, because she’s most probably been talking to the other dude for a while now. Now that she’s fallen for him, you’re on the back burner. No longer as important so she doesn’t give a shit how long she takes to reply or what you gotta say. Doesn’t matter how well the relationship has been, doesn’t matter if you never argued, you’ll become intolerable to her quick, she’ll fr just start to find you mad annoying for no reason and the more you talk, the closer she’s getting to just blocking you sadly.