how to grieve and honor old love

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how to grieve and honor old love

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Ай бұрын

Its difficult to feel longing or missing someone you once loved so deeply. However, it is valid to feel this, and there are many healthy ways to channel that energy. Love is beautiful and worth honoring, even if it's from the past. If it matters to you, then it matters.
you always have a friend in me,
Victoria
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@StudentofFlames-me3ie Ай бұрын

Limerence is for limes. Lemorence is for lemons. Lemurence is for lemurs.

@MerieEducation-xo8cn Ай бұрын

my brain just itched lmao

@uncleurda8101 Ай бұрын

As a bleeding heart artist most of my life some of the most intense music I've created has been out of heartbreak and at grasping at an impermanent love. Some lyrics seem melodramatic looking back, after growing a little and gaining a detached appreciation of it. But I still wouldn't change it for the world. It's a time capsule into what emotions I felt. I also believe that everyone's an artist as well.

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

That’s so well said!!! Thank you for sharing that I appreciate that so much :)) sending you peace and light today :)

@user-xc3zp3vw7f Ай бұрын

Your vision of love is beautiful. Yes, art is life and all living beings are artists. Look at the traces of animals on the sand or the snow, the flight of migrating cranes...

@alainastea Ай бұрын

Thank you, I've been told that since my ex has moved on and in a new relationship that it's not worth my energy to still mourn the lost of our relationship.. it's been tough because I keep telling myself I need to be over it and pretended to me when I am still not.. I love him and will love him for however long.. I don't know

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

I appreciate your honesty and your feelings are valid. I too am in a similar boat with a guy I dated. If you feel they are deserving in your own heart honor them if that’s what’s best for you. The important thing is too just give yourself emotional room to explore and time :)) you are perfect and whole and you know what’s best for you sweets!! I’m sending you so much love and peace

@alainastea Ай бұрын

@@zeropodcasts thank you💚💚

@jojonjonas Ай бұрын

Things go away when it’s time for them to go, we gotta act upon letting go, ofc… But it’s kinda sucky when people around us can makes us feel pressured to just “get over it”, cuz its was a deep thing, it’s not as simple as rationalizing it.. These things take time and it’s okay to take your time with them My ex also has moved on to a new relationship… and it’s sad how quickly she changed her mind, people also tell me she’s not worth my time and yada yada… and tbh I even agree with them, she was really horrible to me at the end of it all, makes me feel like a bum to still feel sad about it from time to time… but now I’m starting to realize that it’s not something I can control, I can’t even properly understand it. As I feel it is as I learn from it. Cuz tbh it was a really deep thing for me, and that’s the thing! For us it was, it our feelings. Why not allow ourselves to explore them? Instead of rushing to get over them

@alainastea Ай бұрын

@@jojonjonas thank you💚

@Carlos_Quintero_ 4 күн бұрын

Your voice is calming asf

@yoeddy Ай бұрын

yooooo that plush looks so cute, and yeah, I agree, everyone’s an artist at heart, different people may have different creative outlets but we can all funnel our emotions through whatever it is that we prefer, love the videos, keep em coming ❤

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

@@yoeddy thank you so much :)) I love love love my bunny and yes we all truly do, well said :) thank you for your kindness and im sending you peace and light today :)))

@circustoonsjokevideos Ай бұрын

When it comes to first love or love in general, I personally think that love is created by many traits like patience, ambition, self-control, honesty, punctuality, accountability, intelligence (both mental and emotional), and respect. But it’s also made of hope, health, and overall confidence. I say confidence, because confidence, like love, is social, mental, emotional, and creative freedom. Yes, the kind of freedom people talk about and want. All comes from not only love and the experiences of it, but the confidence- building with all of the traits read above. Insecurity and fear is bondage. It’s okay to feel fear and insecurity, but it’s not okay to be controlled by it. Point is: You HAVE this confidence and security already, we all do. It’s just a matter of building it by putting yourself in different situations. Action and experience will strengthen your ability to challenge your love, confidence, and fears. Leading to my next point, don’t isolate yourself just because you’re anxious or scared. Just like isolating an anxious animal isn’t healthy, and doesn’t heal them. Same with humans. It’s not desperate to experiment with your experiences. It’s healthy. Again, the point is: You have confidence, love, and fear. Challenge them, experiment with them. :)

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Well said friend!! Thank you for that :)) im sending you peace and light :))

@TarakKakkar Ай бұрын

to hear this from someone your age, and relate and hear this wisdom is so comforting, thank you.

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

@@TarakKakkar thank you so much for your kindness!! This made my day :)) sending you peace and light today :))

@armichng 27 күн бұрын

Thanks for the video, I needed to hear these things

@WasifSikder Ай бұрын

May God wrap you in his divine protection, from the demonic forces affecting your skin

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

😂

@WasifSikder Ай бұрын

@@zeropodcasts My love, it may be a good idea if you stop taking accutane. The demons are happy with this med. Please directly consult your creator before making any life changes.

@gotamekanicole 18 күн бұрын

Oh you had me in tears with this. Bless you ❤

@zeropodcasts 14 күн бұрын

Aww thats so sweet thank you so much Im so happy you enjoyed it! Sending you peace and light today friend!! :)))

@catastrophic_ong Ай бұрын

your voice is so refreshing and idk really normal, it feels good to listen to it. The video brought a very calm and beautiful atmosphere, keep going YOUU GOO GIRLL. This will take you far, you're touching hearts.

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Your kindness has truly made my whole week!! That’s very sweet thank you so much. I’m so happy you enjoy it :)) im sending you peace and light my friend :))

@MindFullness-ARC Ай бұрын

congratulations for your maturity, it seems you are young and also very mature, chapeau

@timinri Ай бұрын

I will honor our love, jk, just here to appreciate kind insights

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Sending you peace and light !! :))

@Paulie_Geelie Ай бұрын

Going through a breakup right now, I appreciate your words. Thank you for sharing your message.

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your vulnerability:)) im so grateful we crossed paths and im sending you a virtual hug and healing energy. I don’t know you but i feel compelled to share that im proud of you and you are doing amazing!! Thanks for stopping by friend :))

@deanvanochten3369 28 күн бұрын

Yes thank you God bless you too 😊😊

@imahadevan98 Ай бұрын

I was going through a breakup, and I could relate to this video in so many ways. Not sure if anyone else does this, but I've always made an effort to incorporate the positive traits I admire in them as a way to honor the love. And now, life just seems even fuller

@zeropodcasts 29 күн бұрын

This is so beautifully said friend, thank you for sharing this and I am sending you so much peace and light :))

@jojonjonas Ай бұрын

No feeling is negative! The way we interact with it is what turns it negative 🫶🏽 Thank you for this video :))) It resonated a lot with me… Does anyone else feel like part of them stayed with you? I know she’s not that person anymore… but part of the person she was stayed with me

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kindness:)) and yes they become apart of your story and it’s important to honor that if you feel called to that :)) it’s so beautiful. Sending you peace and light friend :)

@hobaaize6474 Ай бұрын

Thank u for talking about it it means a lot to me

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kindness, that’s kinda why I made my channel so I could be rlly open about my feelings even tho it makes me nervous. I do it for people like you :) thank you for your kindness again :)) sending you peace and light today friend :))😊

@grahamhirsch2567 Ай бұрын

The most difficult part for me right now, is trying to figure out how to keep my love for that person alive while not hurting myself in the process. Peace and love to you, too.

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

@@grahamhirsch2567 exactly, it’s all about finding that balance in honoring them but also finding healing :)) it’s a tricky rope to walk but I promise with time and patience it will be easier to understand:)) sending you so much peace and light

@bigpetev 8 күн бұрын

Very thoughtful very heartfelt

@gotnojams1409 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Sending you peace and light friend :))

@tokisuno Ай бұрын

how tf did this pop up in my feed. i swapped browsers so my youtube homepage blocker was turned off, but god damn i didn't mean to fall into existencialism

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

The KZfaq gods wanted you to find it …. Jk im not sure but im wishing you peace and light :))

@Usmantalks6 Ай бұрын

Shapes who you are today, gotta look at it in a positive note

@zeropodcasts Ай бұрын

Yes! Everyone is here to teach us something but if you want to honor them if they deserve it in your heart that’s also positive as well :)) sending you peace and light!!

@Usmantalks6 Ай бұрын

@@zeropodcasts sending you even more peace and light 🧚

@user-vd2io9uf7l 23 күн бұрын

👍

@PhilosophyOfEnglish-jm3hv Ай бұрын

cute

@nurulnasrudin Ай бұрын

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