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Lessons are brutal but you’re stepping forward to heal that better you ❤ You’re stronger than you believe you are xx

@@Salshealing Thank you both! Yeah, lessons are brutal. But in the end we grow the most from painful situations. They are left stuck.

Stay strong! 🙏🏾

@@WeavToldMe I will! Thanks 🙏

Don't worry, Karma is sharpening her weapons. She will try to come back. Don't take her back.

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Similar situation here. At some point things will hit on her, maybe when she's done with this new person, and will reevaluate what she had. In that moment you can briefly confront her and say the things that only then she will understand, and then quietly remove your presence and walk away.

Hang in there, bro! It's been 5 years since my ex left of 7 years. Single mom. She got engaged last, I heard in 2022. I went no contact & never looked back. I still think of her, but I know she is a narc & is doing to him as she did to me. I'm the prize & she is now his problem. I feel for the kid, though, but he should be 18 & grown now. It gets better with time, & just work on yourself & your bank. All else will fall back into place.

This ones a bit of a roller coaster, so ill try to only include the spicy parts. 4 years ago, I rushed into a relationship with a mom with 2 kids, who was still actively seeing her now ex husband. She claimed he was unfaithful, and abusive, so I figured I'd hang in there until she got the courage to leave. Huge mistake I know. Once we had been somewhat dating for a while, she divorced him but still had contact, and would give him haircuts and hugs and stuff to support him. I had to tell her that it made me uncomfortable, and it eventually stopped. Going forward it was non stop drama with her kids and ex. Fights, harassment and he even stalked us to a weeknd concert and assaulted my gf/his ex wife. With all this going on, I even quit my job, changed career paths and bought a house with her within a couple years. To her credit, she was sweet, baked, took care of me and her kids, but her priority was always the kids over me. In the beginning it was 50/50 custody for her and her ex, but once the kids got into fights with their dad, it quickly became 100% custody for us. We had zero time together. Couldn't slow dance in the kitchen anymore. 100% of plans had to be planned around kids and their hockey/ride home from friends places. On top of all this, her kids had free reign of the house and could do no wrong. Friends would be over everyday of the week, all night, no rules, and we as a couple had no privacy anymore. The kids had zero respect for me, and didn't do anything around the house. The oldest even threatened to kill me one day after I scolded him for telling his mother to fuck off. He would sleep in 5 days a week and miss school, so rather than fix the problem, my girlfriend and her son would team up on me and accuse me of crazy stuff. They are all very narcissistic, hypocritical and overreact to everything. I was unable to discipline the kids as they would just cry to their mother and she would scold me. It went on like this for a couple years, along with the ex husband drama, the ex husband's parents would show up at my house and give me looks etc... so I naturally grew colder and less communication was taking place between her and I as she refused to accept any responsibility. She also had a very shady past with her ex in regards to parties and different.... let's say sexual lifestyles. So I would bring that up a few times when we would get in fights, which I realize I was wrong for. But everything over the years and my lack of communication piled on top of the added responsibility of kids that aren't mine and competing for affection, has become unrepairable it seems. She was a good person, and she treated me well, but it was just to much for me with the kids, drama, competing, lack of rules and consequence, lack of quality time and then out of nowhere on the 27th, she left me. She told me that I was to controlling, she was pushing her family/kids away and I never helped around the house. I also deleted a tracking app on my phone after she said she didn't care about me or where I went, out of spite. Again bad move on my part. Her kids made all the mess and I just got sick of cleaning up after them, and the only time I was controlling was when she was talking and texting her male "best friend" saying I love you with hearts and smiley faces. She also had no problem getting her ass smacked by an old alcoholic that lived with her brother back in 2020. Anyways, she said we should be roommates, and that's it. We are trying to sell the house, but it's taking a while, and during this time I've been in the basement, while she has a new dog, 2 kids, the kids friends and her parents upstairs everyday providing support. And I hear them laughing and moving on without me, so I moved into my sister's place while I wait. This is killing me. But I hope in the end I can forget all this. I keep thinking of all the good times generally, and it's hard. Now she is just super cold, doesnt text me, doesnt care about me and im broken. Have you or anyone you've known ever gone through something similar? Or maybe just a few words here to get my head on straight? Is this my karma for getting with a still married woman?

Ty for watching. One day at a time!

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One day at a time!

Yet here you are, still pushing through daily. That takes strength. Stay inspired! 🌱

@@WeavToldMe I’m trying. Thank you

Thank you for watching and following along. Stay strong!

9billion people bro. You’ll be okay.

Stay inspired!

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Always appreciate the love. Hope all is well!

Thanks for watching!

Thank you. Truly appreciate the love!

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I’m feeling much better now, I still miss him here and there but I wouldn’t say I am crying anymore, oh how I wanted it would’ve been him. But it is what it is

I'm in same boat. 8 yrs and the discard!! And I'll never really know why.

Better to save all those prayers for yourself. Stay inspired!

Ty for watching

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