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One thing I’m learning after a year and a half break up and currently on day four of no contact is it’s okay to be sad and grieve but after 2-3 days. Get your ass up and become the best self you can be, not for her but for you. Eat healthy, listen to music, watch movies, don’t drink, don’t rebound to someone else. Focus on your inner growth. Get a haircut, get some new clothing, buy that item that you have been thinking about, do activities. I know it’s harder said than done, but almost everyone has been in the cycle before. The best way to process pain and hurt is turning yourself around. You miss them, you love them, you care for them, but you need to stop thinking about what they’re doing and you need to start thinking about what you are doing.

This is one of the best in a long line of excellent videos. Excellent message that hit home for me. Thank you for making this content. It’s helping a lot of people.

spot on ... pure fakeness

I dipped outta that chaos a year ago. I couldn’t be myself anymore and I was treated like trash. I watch your videos every day and they make a big difference! You are helping people everyday! Much love to you brother!

🤣😂🤣 I'm ready for some effing peace. I'm going to stop talking so much.🤣😂🤣

Man! that was some machine gun therapy session for sure... I wish you would be someone to talk to in person... alas I live in Germany so this will never happen, but your energy is much appreciated! be sure of that!!!

Truths💯

I hear you. I’m lost and confused. Lost my man. Next my job. This is just too too much

Thank you for reminding me. I unblocked him today and he sent a general bs message apologizing. He cheated and lives with the new women. I’m struggling move on. I didn’t respond

Preach!!

Dip out of that chaos is exactly what i did. Thank you for helping me heal more than you know and I’ve said it many times you definitely have held my hand through this healing journey watching your videos. Thank you so much.

Nailed it! Let him watch me walk away and lead my best life now!

Damn thank you Sir I feel better already.

Love your posts … straightforward and spot on every single time!

It’s been three months of no contact I wasn’t in the wrong she was by me showing her proof and being honest I was in the clear god has bigger plans and better plans for me

I needed this. He just ended things yesterday

Damnit i'm gonna listen to this aaaall day, everyday!!!!! Until it sinks iiiiin!

They just don’t give a fuk… realest story ever told

Brilliant!

No, not accepting spinning the block. We'll never go there again. I learned my lesson. My peace is sweet 😌

The EXACT thing happened yesterday smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

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Been in complete no contact and still hurting

Do not give up on yourself. You have to find the motivation just to get your day started. Allow your friends and family to be there for you. Even when you think you’re not fighting, let me tell you that you are. Time is going to do exactly what it does and everything comes full circle. Also these videos help. You got this! We got this!!! Stay Solid

I've ruined his whole day over nothing, accused of cheating, lying, and now stealing money he gave me. Everything!..I will not be his emotional punching bag anymore.

Thanks for this

I’m in a very confusing situation right now. I’m not even sure how to feel or think about this entire thing anymore. She broke up with me at my lowest point in my mental, saying she needs to work on herself, making promises to me that she loves me, that she’ll be back, that she sees a beautiful future together. then 2 months later she’s going around spreading rumours and lies saying I abused her and manipulated her, and it had me so confused, now I’m just blocked on everything, I left her alone, gave her space, but she comes at me 3 weeks ago saying “this isn’t good for me anymore” blocks me everywhere, doesn’t even give me a chance to respond. Indirectly blamed me for everything to everyone around her, but has never actually said anything to my face? I just don’t understand the mentality of this, it has me so confused and I feel trapped even though she ended up blocking me everywhere it still feels like I’m caged and trapped /:

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Thank u 🫶🏾

Love yourself MORE.

Mark the date on your calendar when you stop ruminating over that Narc! Liberation.

Big bro.. Im never disappointed. Blessing to you and family. Thank you for your wisdom King👑 @WeavToldMe

I felt every bit of this! Spoke directly to me! Amen! And thank you!!

Vampires!🦇 Their compliments are worthless and a windup for narc abuse.

Nailed it as always Thx Weav

4 months since the discard. Took the new supply on the trip I begged him to go on for years before he ended it - Of course he had to really stick it to me one last time. It’s officially been one month no contact. He hoovered up until I found out the truth in why he left. I spiraled. I’m sure he’ll never reach out again. I’ve been doing really well these last few weeks though…focusing on healing but the past few days have been rough. Crying off and on. I want to reach out for answers I know I’ll never get so bad. It makes no sense how after 2 years he can just move on so easily but 🤷🏽‍♀️ everything you’re saying is right. He did exactly why he showed me he was capable of doing. I literally have no reason to expect any less lol. I have to accept it.

Was with someone for 6 years. We didn't live together but I'd go spend the holidays with his family and met up with extended family at birthdays and weddings etc. He ghosted me after 6 years together after moving in with his parents. Wasn't man enough to tell me face to face. Biggest blessing of my life.

I don't wanna change my number just because of that little shit. Instead, knowing how much of a coward she is, i just deleted her contact, didn't block her (so i can't find her number in a moment of weakness) and hidden whatsapp state and pfp so she thinks i actually blocked her

I’m learning slowly but surely

Wondering if mine is breadcrumbing me. Shes reached out a few times. Thinking about me. Says to call anytime. Last reachout screwed with my anxiety and i got angry an let her know it. Reckon shell even reach out again?

Same bro dealing with this thing now I'm learning more about myself then i ever knew was possible this is the way you have been a light in these days

Thankyou Boss! I really needed to hear this today!👍

Everything was going amazing, she went on a vacation with her family and then left me the day before she got back. She said how she lost feelings, how cringey our conversations were, how the stuff I’d post was cringey, how I liked her too much, and how things moved too fast. The thing is 2 days before that she told me how excited she was to see me when she got back and how we were gonna kiss when we saw each other and all that. It just don’t make any sense. And everyone in her life loved me too.

All of the above happened 😢

The college degree analogy, damn Weav 😂😂 facts 💯‼️

Damn! Every single thing you said was SPOT ON! 🙌🙌

Love you brother 👊 You speak the truth and always NAIL exactly what I’m thinking and feeling. Peace

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Facts....what a word 👏