I myself am a Alcoholic but going on for 6 years Sober is not easy Every day I have to think positive can not let my Guard down at any time but is a bloody good life with out beer Bill
@stardressedsky3872 Жыл бұрын
Bill, congrats on your sobriety. Any tips for what helped you stop?
@billmoore1936 Жыл бұрын
@@stardressedsky3872 yes nearly lost everything my marriage grandchildren plus I was arguing with my wife and general up setting everybody so I thought regather then carry on so I stop but the last time I had a drink nearly killed me with the whiskey so now I have a fantastic life building a model railway and thinking positive thoughts every day so let’s hope this as help people out there but I am thinking about writing a book on it Bill
@sinansavas61776 ай бұрын
@billmore1936 Hi bill, i am watching this bid to help a very good friend of mine. He is going theough a relap. Is there some advice you can give to me to help my friend. He is going through a hard time. His wife is about to leave him ( already left home ) we just feel very helpless and trying to be there for him any help would be appreciated
@billmoore19366 ай бұрын
@@sinansavas6177 the way I see it is this you have to be very hard on your self and keep positive and think you are hurting your love one’s as need them to pull you thoroug it keep going Bill
@stevecooper65155 ай бұрын
Research The Sinclair Method. Abstinence is NOT the only way.
@suzanh7777 Жыл бұрын
There’s nothing more sad than watching a relative drink themselves slowly to death. Alcohol is a nasty drug. There’s nothing you can do if one’s relative has no desire to quit, nothing.
@willywanka8936 Жыл бұрын
Am dealing with this with my brother
@santoinetteberger Жыл бұрын
Useful strategies provided. Thank you for this video.
@mikew8573 Жыл бұрын
@@willywanka8936 I and sisters are in same situation as well our elderly mother. And he's always had an attitude and a hypocrite and more seen now. So puts us in the position of not wanting to assist, lend guidance in any form or fashion. Quite a dilemma we are all put in. I leave it our creator above.
@KathyDuncan911 ай бұрын
me too!@@willywanka8936
@jacquelinehillson958911 ай бұрын
Alcoholism is a nasty disease, like any disease if it’s left long enough it’s becomes chronic and you it eventually kills you, catch It early there’s a chance , it’s a sly Fox it creeps up fast , once the brain chemistry is altered it becomes very hard to manage, not something everyone can fight , it’s a demon, the alcoholic suffers horribly, as does all those that loves them .
@Davidchukwuma6156 ай бұрын
Addicted for 11 years ,thank God for saving me ,I was able to stop ,because I changed my location , perhaps if I go back I might start all over again , terrible experience ,because I keep having headaches loss of appetite alot,been active with exercise help slow the damage
@zero11885 ай бұрын
How did you stop addiction. I have a friend thats goijg through this?
@SNIPE983 ай бұрын
I have alcohol problem and i can say that this video is true!!! i have problems with high blood pressure and hearth problems and it will kill me if i don't seek help thx for great video
@Peter-Ac7 ай бұрын
tough love is part of the answer. Often bailing people out of trouble including financial trouble just enables them to suffer longer.
@BeautifulOnes8764 ай бұрын
Not with alcohol. Your people suffering from alcoholism doesn’t need “tough love”, you’ll be enabling him by HURTING them. They need a lot of support. Make sure you they know you love them and you’re there, you’re not going to let them fall. Talk to them about what’s really got them, because alcoholism is a symptom of a greater problem they have.
@m.harris24292 жыл бұрын
Thank you to you both for this very informative video. Dr. Anand, I particularly found your four “Cs” were spot on.
@edolina2000 Жыл бұрын
He seem very kind doctor
@montanagal695814 күн бұрын
I left him and now am filing for a divorce, 26 years of alcoholism/marriage, severe stage heavy drinking every night, lost jobs, in a basement somewhere renting a room. I continue to offer a life line but I cannot live with the drinking. He blames me.
@ccxfrank109Ай бұрын
i went to the ER many times. never did rehab. alcohol will end up consuming you and everything in your life and it wont stop. ruin relationships, any kind of financial status your at, your health. it'll ruin everything man.
@shraddhagaonkar61612 жыл бұрын
Very useful information want to know more about the addiction recovery
@963agАй бұрын
I am dealing with this situation with a loved one who is in serious denial. He cannot hold a job, is squatting in an abandoned house, forgets to eat during binges, gets aggressive, etc. It is bad, but half the family are enablers, others are scared to get involved, and the few like me, don't know what to do. If someone even mentions rehab, it provokes a reaction like WW3!
@Yirragee4 ай бұрын
This should be on Australian tv hourly. For real. 😢
@bloodangel7731Ай бұрын
My relative had relapsed into binge drinking 3 times in 5 months and now they done it again and have been going at it since last week. I'm so tired of their impulsiveness and lack of self control that I just don't care anymore, because there's notning I can do and I'm not going to baby an adult so they can come back to their senses. I'm DONE
@nosajkrad Жыл бұрын
I’m in trouble with booze. I hate myself 😢
@MikeyRoy-dt3mx Жыл бұрын
All the best to you
@kirill25259 ай бұрын
i feel like that too man, hang in there, we can do it
@heybuh0079 ай бұрын
One day at a time
@Sugarsweetpopx8 ай бұрын
You should be proud that you care enough about yourself to start watching videos and not quitting on yourself by completely refusing to accept there’s an issue. This is a win and self love ❤
@give-me-your-broadsword7 ай бұрын
@nosajkrad I don’t hate you, I hope you can find peace going forward, I’ll pray for you
@ashimaearthsky10 ай бұрын
You cannot make anyone stop drinking or want to stop. Watch person in family household stumbling drunk every night. It's like they want us to see them drunk and there is nothing we can do. Why do they drink? Because they want to.
@royharper20039 ай бұрын
they don't want you to see them drunk, they just don't care
@annag55414 ай бұрын
@@royharper2003 When they are drunk they don't care because they don't know what they are doing. Once they sober up the do care and are sorry, embarrassed and regretful.
@mrmoon14824 ай бұрын
Sadly it’s almost impossible to help someone with alcohol unless they are willing to help themselves, I lost my nephew last week he passed away from liver failure, he was 44yr We all tried to help him but it was of no use, he kept drinking up until the very end,
@BeautifulOnes8764 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss. Unfortunately help is for those who want it, not those who need it. 😢
@billmoore1936 Жыл бұрын
Yes there is try and talk to them make them see sense is worth a only when they not a drink
@debkumarroy5 ай бұрын
RADHE SHYAM RADHA RANI RADHA ❤️❤❤️
@renedecquir19312 жыл бұрын
Very helpful
@colethomson7267 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@AD-cx2mw3 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@pytpeaches76539 ай бұрын
Just can’t believe my Child’s father beat my dad up … he said he “blacked out”
@give-me-your-broadsword7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry that happened
@1Strawbz1 Жыл бұрын
Im living in a houseshare with a potential alcoholic so its not ideal 😞
@monicak8195 Жыл бұрын
How do you deal with it?
@1Strawbz1 Жыл бұрын
@@monicak8195 i had to move out man, have you got the same situation? He was harassing me aswell
@billmoore1936 Жыл бұрын
Try taking to them when they have not had a drink I was like this once over with help from my friends and family I turn life around you can only do your best
@1Strawbz1 Жыл бұрын
@@billmoore1936 i moved out i dont have time for it, he was harassing me aswell, waste of space
@billmoore1936 Жыл бұрын
@@1Strawbz1 so you are a lot happy now then and you can get on with your life Bill
@gdavho87783 ай бұрын
Just do what I did. I was drinking every night and then one day I just said no more. That was over 5 years ago and I haven't died (LOL) . People keep telling me you should to go to counselling or AA and I tell them I'm my own counsellor so get lost. Staying away is not a big deal and I don't even drink when the lads(Leafs) or Argos are playing and that used to be mandatory.
@leahmay15062 ай бұрын
Not everyone is like you, unfortunately.
@gdavho87782 ай бұрын
@@leahmay1506 Why?
@leahmay15062 ай бұрын
@@gdavho8778 I really have to explain why not everyone is like you? Lol. Not everyone can quit cold turkey. That’s life. If everyone was able to easily quit and “just say no more”, no one would be in this mess. For a lot of people, it takes much more than simply saying “no more.” Congrats to you though, no doubt.
@gdavho87782 ай бұрын
@@leahmay1506 Yes I know but what?
@gunnerwilliams6229Ай бұрын
I mean this is what I’m trying but I know it’s not the best route. I know I need therapy to get to the root of why I drink to suppress things. Though I get how a strong personal motive may be enough to stop
@jacquistorey21137 ай бұрын
a nice dr yes..but so much of the interview was not on topic...topic being how to help...only a few points at the end on that.. most of it is about what addiction is..not ialit on how to help ehich is
@grandmastermario36952 ай бұрын
My stepfather not even my real bio dad but my stepfather, was analholic, and he went through barely any trauma, and he went on to keep a roof over our heads and everything else money but he abused us in everyway he stole money from mom, and got booted out, and booted out of multiple, and went to jail 5 times, if he going to say that alcohol did it to him, yah no makes no sense whatsoever, no yo did that to your self, don't blame a substance, you chose to to do this.
@maciejgamer37616 ай бұрын
is it weird watching it when i drink beer :D?
@alexprowseartist11 ай бұрын
Very Poor sound clean it up please - from the Dr side really frustrating. This could be very useful. Post .