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When a month ago a friend recommended the book Women's Magic Truths on Borlest, I couldn't believe how much one book can contribute to self-confidence, it's the best thing I've ever read! Lisa is the queen!

Lisa is killing me 😂 her facial expressions while listening are priceless - she's so attentive, all tuned and tapped in - I'm lovin' it 🥰

I feel like we are at a slumber party and she’s teaching us the secrets ❤

00:00 🌟 Self-worth is the cornerstone of seduction. Feeling worth it and confident is more attractive and elegant than vulgarity. 00:30 🛡️ Mastering seduction leads to self-confidence, which in turn leads to success in various aspects of life. 02:30 🔄 Seduction is about giving, not taking. It leaves the seduced feeling fuller and better, not depleted. 04:51 🔥 Rejection resilience is key in seduction. It's the ability to persist, softening rejections and turning them into maybes. 08:16 🪄 Seduction doesn't always imply sexuality; it's about attraction and creating desire, even in business. 12:06 💃 Body language plays a crucial role in seduction. Maintaining elegance, confidence, and a relaxed jaw are important elements. 14:05 🎭 Seduction involves a play of "yes" and "no," giving just enough to create a desire for more. 16:25 💼 Seduction in business doesn't have to be sexual. It can be using social charm, a unique blend of personality traits. 20:56 🧠 Trauma can hinder seduction and confidence. It's essential to address and heal these underlying issues for personal growth. 21:10 🪞 Childhood experiences can lead to feeling inadequate or not "enough." This may stem from parental expectations or other sources of pressure. 21:51 🩹 Childhood trauma can contribute to emotional wounds in adulthood. Exploring the root causes of emotional struggles is crucial for healing. 22:45 🪞 Society's beauty standards and societal pressure can impact self-worth and body image. Accepting and appreciating one's own body is essential. 24:11 🧳 Five elements essential for seduction: Elegance (self-worth), Intention (focused pursuit), Tempo (rhythm of enjoyment), Sabrosura (sensuality rooted in self-love), Mystery (where seduction and charm reside). 27:23 🔄 Sharing personal stories and traumas can be transformative, allowing others to understand and empathize with your journey. 30:57 🤝 Being present and feeling with someone through their pain or trauma is a powerful way to provide support and healing. 36:57 🌱 Healing from trauma is a layered process, and it's important to acknowledge and address each layer with patience and compassion. 39:56 💄 Engaging in sensory experiences, like applying lotion with intention, can be a simple yet effective way to tap into sensuality and self-worth. 41:44 💪 Embrace seduction as a form of self-discovery and confidence-building. Practice in front of a mirror or poster to boost self-worth and inner power. 42:51 🛑 Acknowledge the importance of consent and respect in seduction. Understand the difference between playful pursuit and crossing boundaries. Prioritize safety and elegance in interactions. 46:56 🗣️ When expressing a clear 'no', ensure it is conveyed firmly and gracefully. Respectful communication is crucial in maintaining healthy boundaries. 50:37 💖 Differentiate between lust and love. Butterflies and intense feelings may stem from past traumas and familiar wounds. Building a healthy relationship starts with inner healing. 57:06 🤔 Move slowly and consciously in new relationships. Stay grounded in your body and pay attention to the signals it sends. Don't rush into intense emotions; be curious and aware. 01:02:55 💡 Trauma healing often lies in facing the parts of ourselves we've pushed away, hidden in a "basement of shame" filled with feelings of unworthiness and unlovability. 01:05:40 💪 Inviting your wounds to tea, making friends with them, and understanding them is a powerful way to heal. Viewing them with the consciousness of your present self is key. 01:06:08 🌟 Identifying the feelings you want to experience is crucial in any endeavor, including relationships. This becomes your compass for decision-making. 01:07:57 🗝️ Separating the gift from the wound allows you to call on the gift consciously, rather than it controlling you. 01:10:16 🔮 Cultivating the feelings you desire through imagination and visualization is a powerful way to manifest your goals and attract situations that resonate with those feelings. 01:19:44 🚫 Relying on someone else to "complete" you is not sustainable. Sourcing your fulfillment from within is essential for lasting happiness and healthy relationships. 01:20:36 ⚖️ Staying in a relationship out of fear is common, but the pain of staying must eventually outweigh the fear of leaving for true growth and happiness. 01:23:09 🔄 Changing yourself can positively influence your relationship. When you raise your frequency, it has a ripple effect on your partner and your shared dynamic. 01:24:03 👁️‍🗨️ When partners connect deeply, their frequencies align, creating a powerful bond. 01:24:18 🤯 Raising one's frequency can lead their partner to automatically sync, akin to a Jedi mind trick in relationships. 01:24:32 🔄 As you grow and heal, fears that held you in a relationship may dissipate, granting you more agency in it. 01:24:44 🗝️ Having agency in a relationship is crucial for getting your needs met and finding contentment within. 01:24:59 🪑 While a breakup may bring initial devastation, knowing your happiness is rooted in self-relationship empowers you. 01:25:14 💞 Every external relationship is ultimately a reflection of your relationship with yourself. 01:25:25 🛤️ Choosing to be in a relationship and setting boundaries leads to positive transformations. 01:25:41 🤝 Emotional closeness and intimacy can lead to hormonal synchronicity among friends and partners. 01:25:54 🧠 Understanding how frequencies align can enhance your relationships and interactions. 01:26:08 🤔 Stepping into a deeper connection with a partner can lead to setting healthier boundaries. 01:26:22 👩‍❤️‍👨 The natural progression of a relationship involves evolving towards deeper intimacy and shared responsibilities. 01:26:37 🧪 Providing scientific evidence can be helpful in engaging skeptics in understanding relationship dynamics. 01:26:51 🧠 Our conscious minds process only a fraction of the vast information around us, limited by memories and senses. 01:27:04 🌌 There's an entire universe of experiences beyond our conscious perception. 01:27:19 ⚡ Developing your own relationship with your sexuality is key to unlocking pleasure and connection. 01:27:33 🌬️ The act of self-stimulation is essential for understanding and enhancing one's own sexual experience. 01:27:46 🕊️ Women possess unique abilities for multitasking and intuitive understanding due to neural connections. 01:28:01 👩‍❤️‍👨 Recognizing and valuing gender differences can lead to a more harmonious understanding in relationships. 01:28:14 💑 The fundamental desires of men and women in relationships are often expressed differently, understanding this can lead to better connection. 01:28:28 🔄 Men and women may have distinct needs, and comprehending these differences fosters healthier relationships. 01:28:42 💗 Emotional closeness is a vital component for both partners in a relationship. 01:28:55 🕊️ Understanding and respecting each other's desires can lead to a more satisfying and harmonious relationship. 01:29:10 🧬 Evolutionary and societal factors contribute to the differences in how men and women perceive intimacy and connection. 01:29:25 👩‍❤️‍👨 Recognizing and appreciating these differences can lead to deeper mutual understanding and harmony in relationships. 01:29:40 💞 Emotional closeness plays a crucial role in a woman's sexual satisfaction in a relationship. 01:29:54 🌟 Emotional intimacy is a powerful factor in a woman's overall satisfaction and fulfillment in a relationship. 01:30:08 🌿 A strong emotional connection is the foundation of a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship for women. 01:30:22 💔 A lack of emotional intimacy can lead to a breakdown in both sexual and overall relationship satisfaction. 01:30:37 🛠️ Men can enhance their partner's sexual desire through acts of support and partnership, such as sharing household responsibilities. 01:30:50 💗 Acts of partnership, support, and understanding can lead to a deeper emotional connection and increased sexual intimacy in a relationship. 01:31:04 🌸 Engaging in acts of support and partnership can create a stronger emotional bond, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling sexual relationship. 01:31:17 🤝 Balancing responsibilities and demonstrating care for the relationship contributes to a deeper emotional connection and greater intimacy. 01:31:29 📜 Understanding the societal and evolutionary influences on libido can provide insights into maintaining a healthy sexual connection in long-term relationships. 01:44:54 📆 Scheduling intimate moments can remove guesswork and create openness in a relationship. 01:46:04 💑 Spending non-sexual time together, like kissing and cuddling, strengthens intimacy. 01:47:29 🗝️ Removing the pressure for sex at all times can lead to more freedom and fun in intimate moments. 01:47:58 🪒 Preparing for intimacy together can create a sense of togetherness and anticipation.

I love Lisa’s face😂 at the beginning she like riiiiiiioooooooggghttttttt

For a woman, it's ALL about confidence and self-love. You don't need anything more to attract people.

I can't get enough of this amazing and incredible woman. Lisa, please,more of her okay. You just have to bring her back on the show, again and again and again! Thanks Lisa.

I appreciate you so Much Lisa, your channel has been one of my favorites on KZfaq for years. Thank you so much for sharing your light with the world!

Lisa is so adorable how excited she gets with what the guests are saying. I bet she knows some of this already but she just is so amazed and enthusiastic with them!

Love, love, love this talk ❤️❤️❤️. I love that you equate seduction with wholeness and self love. We're able to be more playfull when we're accept ourselves. Omg and the part about connectedness ❤️

Also this literally motivated me and has hit so many nerves this morning...in a good way. When she said that you have to rebuild and start over and you think something is wrong withh you and to share your story... geez... I would like to join one of these shows! Or even sit in the audience

This was one of the best conversations I have EVER HEARD .thank you both

Dear Lisa, thank you so much for your amazing work. I am enjoying each and every interview with the greatest Women on the Planet.

Lol Lisa's expression always crack me up she is so tuned in I love it. Thank you Lisaaaaaa ❤❤

This type of talks are really needed ! Thank you team !

Lisa! You are the feminine counterpart to Lewis Howes! You're such an incredibly effective interviewer who makes it effortless for viewers to be able to extract the most out of the information that is being presented by your interesting and eloquent and knowledgeable guests. Thank you for always choosing compelling and relevant subject matter and bringing it to the general public in a powerful way that resonates and makes it possible to apply that information, and in turn, to live in a more elevated, positive, and knowledgeable way that leads to a life of true abundance, self-love, and happiness❤❤😊😊

Thank you for this. I can relate to what Chen had said... I would like to face the world once again with elegance and confidence, despite the pain and trauma I have endured over the years. It's incredibly challenging to show up every day as if you were a radiant ball of sunshine, full of confidence and spreading love to everyone despite being enveloped by the weight of past traumas - "adulting". I genuinely appreciate this reminder that it is still possible, and recognizing this is my first step forward.

Sitting up straight also makes you appear to be confident. Love this video!!!!❤❤❤

This was such a fun conversation!! I truly enjoyed Lisa and Chen, and their interactions together. Thank you ladies!! 🥰 My healthy and humble Self Love, Personality, and Character/Well Being, which includes self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, self-consideration, etc., radiates from the inside out, so no extra work is needed to influence, seduce (sexual and non-sexual), attract, etc. in the environment around me. Being Humble is key. Arrogance is a huge turn-off. As an Empath, everything I do has to be real and authentic since anything fake is abrasive and has no place in my realm. One thing I have experienced is that being my own self - friendly, outgoing, engage in conversation, etc. can be taken as being flirty and seductive. I am particular where I apply my time and energy for flirting and seducing, so it is very selective. ❤

Both interviews were soo good! I have learned a lot, thank you.😉❤

Love This... Thank You for bringing this to all of us.... I actually was Fully Loving of my husband, the pain of staying in... too great, and I know my Love is Pure... it is sad - even though we believe we were a Divinely Connected Heart... it's difficult for some people to actually be okay with the Work a Relationship of Value Is - all the High Frequency Stuff Is Where I was working, and that's when my husband fully acted up... we Loved genuinely, sad he couldn't 'run with the ball of our Love'....

I looooved the insight behind her coming around to speaking on her story ❤ I’m learning this is the key to connection with others for the best value in whatever you are called to do in this life. Great podcast episode!!

Chen just taught me what seduction is for the first time!!! I love her analogies, and her contextual examples just made it all make so much sense. Dudes have been teaching seduction all wrong for a decade. Seduction should make the other person enthusiastic, excited, and intrigued not diminished, needy, and insecure. This was so good, AND HER "NO" WAS POWERFUL! I felt that shit, her body language was very cutting, but she was polite. Damn, women really need to learn that "NO" because I have never seen a no like that before, I usually see the polite "maybe no". But I'm the type that if it's not a yes, im not into it at all. I don't like mixed signals so when I get them I lose interest. There was no denying Chen's No😅, love that. She is really good, I like the advice about feeling into the body language you are presenting, that is a MAJOR KEY. It really takes the ambiguity out of the experience. 💯❤️💯 I am going to use a lot of what she said and try it, I'm a strait male, but I have zero idea how to flirt, but I am charming, so she really opened my mind to learning now. I'm going to follow her to see what else she has to say on the matter for guys.

I think this conversation is absolutely paramount! I’m so glad you’ve brought these sex issues to light. Equating the males need for love and the women need to feel love. This gift of sexuality has been equally displaced by both men and women for so many decades, it astounds me that once Brought to light in conversation because the need to feel. Loved is the birthright of both in. 5he relationship. “Women need to feel loved to want sex, and men need to have sex to feel loved”. . This awakened truth should really be continually explored and used as tools to keep the beautiful flame of sex alive in long term committed relationships. There is some great nuggets of golden wisdoms toward deeper connection and zesty health and deeper authentic happiness. It gives me a wonderful Seneca of hope and self care and empowerment. Excellent presentation! Thank you Cat

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

This was a GREAT conversation ladies! Thank you!

One of the best podcast conversations I've listen to, Thank you both♥

It is so awesome to see Lisa really into this interview... soaking it all up, babe!!!!

The security piece is important here. If a guy is organizing the evening but they are not in touch with what you enjoy, get excited about etc, it can turn into feeling invisiblized and bored for the evening. But if a partner is in tune with you AND THEN organizing everything and pampers you then that makes the person on the receiving end feel seen. That is what’s charming.

Thank you for every episode Lisa You are great helping me alot in my self development journey

A plethora of awareness and permission to thrive as one was, is now, and potentially will be. Brava.

So many good tips from Dr Laura - totally agree on the transactional piece and will have to reevaluate how I think about it.

Wow your videos are getting better and better each day 🍿😊❤🔥 Love your guest. Great content 🫶 Thank you ❤

Ty Lisa for all these amazing positive pod casts❤❤❤❤

Lisa is such a greater listener!! Great talk! #proud of women

Damn. This was a good one. I would love to see Teal Swan on the show on the subject of seduction and selflove. She is such a Siren. But she has also overcome great great suffering

This is one of those rare videos that you tell yourself you need to listen to every day!

Great interview. I knew Chen when i lived in vancouver and she has come so far even since i knew her then. Interesting discussion!

Honestly - I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!! Seduction is so subtle and can encompass so much. AND it seems that this art has been lost in our oh-so-busy lives. This talk reminded me of a book I read many years ago called "I flirt therefore I date" haha. I had to hide it cuz as a guy, my guy friends used to find it and laugh about it but it was a great book on the topic. Well done Lisa and Chen......thanks for this episode!!

God Bless this Woman. She is giving me so many epiphanies ❤️

3 needs everyone has ….to be seen, to be heard and to be valued or validated!!!

Omg! Her Ted talk is so great, good to see her again 💜💜💜

Wow. After a long time not watching this is really something i needed. Thank you

It's very fascinating to listen to her because watching her make's it easy listening. Lizra Lizra Lizra... such a powerful woman. Her hand gestures show's that gay men,are more sensual than most feminine women. Thanks Lisa, for you are a great impact on women. Love.

There's some great stuff in these interviews, and I find it quite dangerous when people talk about the differences between men and women at emotional and sexual levels as biological issues. We can't forget a few things: (1) society only makes certain expressions acceptable for certain genders (e.g., men's sexual desires are ok to express but their emotional needs for connection are not as welcome), (2) gender is a spectrum, (3) sexual orientation is a spectrum, (4) the way people do relationships is a spectrum. Thank you for creating a space to explore these things. I love your desire for everyone to have a fulfilling and fun life.

Omg!!! Chen Lizra is amazing!! 😮👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love this so much!! 😆💕

OMG ty Love 💜 This has braught my Elegance BACK 💃

Love this interview! Learned so much about seduction and love the part about using your charm! Thank Lisa and Chen!

such a great episode ! loved it

I enjoyed this episode amazing and informative. ❤

Nice interviews. Thank you very much. Blessings 👋🏽✨️

Oh wow I was not expecting this to be so powerful. Thank you so much for this

Wow, this was incredibly helpful, thank you 🙏🏻

So good 💗💗💗 Two strong women! Thank you

This is fabulous! Refreshing and useful. Thank you!

This is amazing. I like it very much. Will give it a try ❤🎉

Lisa , recently have found your videos. You have a wonderful assortment of speakers.

@chenlizra So True and Thank You So very much for the work you do, and Magnetic Hz Blessings for you and your husband and All your relationships

❤My teen self feels answered through this video. I desperately used to look for the answers about myself.

This is extremely powerful I have been battaling with trauma for over 26+ years and just tried to ignore it forgive them pretend it never happened tried to block it everything you can imagine I have tried but it still haunts me. I'm not playing the victim I'm just relating to what your saying. Thank you for sharing.

OMG!!!’ How much can one person learn in 1 day!!!! Thank you!

What an episode. Absolutely loved it❤

Love your show I share it with all my friends

Amazing interview with real examples

Loved this interview, feminity is so powerful.

❤❤❤This was a great podcast!!!Just listening help me feel more confident!!! Loved it!!

In the discussion about "to feel with" someone at 39:45, I want to add that the German word for sympathy is "Mitgefühl" which literally translates to "with feeling" or "to feel with".

Omg I love Dr Chen's energy 😍😍😍

I love the way she says “Hello!” like she’s inviting life itself to seduce her and give her its best… It’s like she’s biting her lip at a possibility, at the unknown, at the sensation of intrigue, and I am LIVING for it! It goes to show that being seduction truly comes from within-it’s a mindset, and a mental state of being, rather than a behavior. To see something potentially beautiful and exciting in the world and decline the initial urge to chase it, to instead meet it with a greeting of open invitation… is so grounded in feminine power. That’s lovely. 🥰

I have watched many ep of this show, but this one is prob by far my fave😊

So awesome to watch. It blew my mind :-) I know what i m trying to figure out. ❤

This is amazing!! Profound and supportive.

thank you for sharing the good and the bad.

Wooohooooooo thank you for this interview!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I allow from now on my seductive side to lead my life. I always shut it down at a certain point. I love you! ;)

Listening to you, I believe I can find my old self again. I forgot about. Thx so much for this, what an eye opener

Eeek !! This seems like so much work . What ever happened to being yourself and trusting that’s enough . And whomever it is - will love that ❤

I've never heard that the butterfly feeling was negative, but this is the second time this week, that I heard its your body warning you! Must be true!

Two amazing women! Thank you so much!

Yessss, Chen Lizra just hits different... Whew!!!

Fantastic episodes!!

This one is in the top 5 talks in this Chanel ❤

Lisa is super cute! Thank you for sharing this beautiful episode ❤

This was SO GOOD.

Wow!!! Amazing! Simply amazing!

Oh my God! I didn't want to comment but the second guest FORCED me to comment. I used to feel butterflies but I have just been in a relationship but there were no butterflies. I was so calm and myself on the first date. I enjoyed being with him. I connected to well with him. But he was all those physical attractions that I listed for my ideal man. but he is everything I NEED, compassionate, caring, ambitious, family-conscious. I fell in love with him but this love was a more relaxed feeling. not like when I was young and I was even worried that maybe I didn't love him enough but I know I want to be with him for the rest of my life. I was forcing myself to bring those butterflies, doing research on why I do not feel the butterflies. and this second guest's first remark just answered my question.

I like her hand gestures.i did learn that. And when Lisa is asking her a question,she locks her hands

You ladies made my afternoon have fun

I can't even thank you enough I really appreciate it I like Her hair 😍

It has to be said, Chen is incredibly outwardly attractive so the charm aspect is very much helped by this fact. The same for men, certainly helps to be generally attractive.

Oh I love her.. she got that va va voom and je nais se quois 😂

Let’s make a libro 📚 📖 because we can help women understand undereducated motherhood porque podemos alludes a muchas mujeres entender como ser mejor madres By feeling and understanding our mothers lack of education Para entender las opportunidades que no tenían nuestras madres There’s strength in understanding & undoing the trauma when you can walk through it. ❤ You gave me a new perspective. Lot of love 💕 Gabriela

Awesome interviews ❤❤❤

What an awesome video!

This is fascinating 😍.... Will definitely be watching this video a few times 😂❤😅❤️🌹👍 Thank you BEAUTIES 💋

I like this lady, she is so right! I am in medical sales and yes i have to seduce everyday…both men and women…it’s not sexual it’s an energy!

Wonderful interviews!

This was a really fascinating discussion especially Chen's nuanced version of seduction. As someone living in the west, but having grown up with eastern influences, if I had to translate this interpretation of seduction I would use the verb "to enchant." When Chen used the idea of a piece of meat to explain what her version of seduction is not (i.e. an object to be devoured), I began thinking what would be a useful parallel to demonstrate what it is. At first, I thought a piece of art in a gallery would work well because whether the viewer accepts or rejects it, the art is going to stay until the exhibit comes to a close. The art has to seduce you into its viewing area and make you want to understand it or have an emotional response. If the art piece does not seduce its audience does it mean it is undeserving of appreciation? No because at the end of the day whether it is viewed a billion times or just once by the artist, it will always remain unscathed and a piece of art. However, as much as I enjoyed the analogy there was something a bit bleak about the passive aspect of the art piece. Then I suddenly was transported back to my days as a dancer and choreographer and realized that, in fact, this was probably going to be my best analogy. Dance is extremely seductive, intimate, passionate, suggestive perhaps, but not sexual. It really is a conversation between two people using their bodies and movement. Using ballroom as an example, traditionally the man "leads" and the woman "follows", but these are very misleading terms. It is not as though the leader is the driver of a carriage and the follower is a horse being hitched to pull it under the driver's commands. In social ballroom, especially Latin, the leader _offers_ a move (possibly akin to a question) and the follower _chooses_ how they wish to respond (akin to answering the question, but the question is about an opinion or preference, therefore no answer is wrong). For example, the leader may ask (through movement), "how do you like to spend your free time?" and the follower might respond (again, through movement) "I really enjoy learning new cooking methods from different cultures because I travel a lot for work." And so on and so forth. I may be completely off-track in my interpretation (if so, I apologize!), but nevertheless this was a really enriching thoughtj experiment and inspired me creatively. Thank you both!

This is so perfect

This woman is brilliant