How to Keep a Man

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This video discusses the 3 best ways a woman can attract, and keep a man around long term.
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@EntrepreneursInCars 5 ай бұрын

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@mezzuna 5 ай бұрын

Saddened to say: DPA channel has made video confirming Gonzalo Liras death. Hopefully it's not true. Gonzalo brought me a lot of wisdom l. Rip if true Please keep his memory alive

@afoolandhismoneychannel 5 ай бұрын

#4: Don't get comfortable and let yourself go physically, then demand that your man alter his idea of beauty to suit your new girth. Staying as close as you can to what you looked like when you first attracted his eye is key.

@Matt-tt4cu 5 ай бұрын

Swap the word "comfortable" out with "complacent" IMO.

@drtox06 5 ай бұрын

Totally agree. The S3x part should be frequency + depth/intensity + attraction. What good is her penchant for frequency and depth if she morphs into a land-whale?

@trackman1606 5 ай бұрын

No this ties into number 2. In order to be hot in bed does not it mean having 10 belly rolls hanging in lingerie.

@benscott6826 5 ай бұрын

Facts facts facts

@Shipwreck8l8 5 ай бұрын

@@trackman1606That’s why women want sx with the lights off . As rich said if she had true burning desire she’ll go all out , lights on!

@RealGaryGibson 5 ай бұрын

I retired in the Philippines last year and I'm now living with a Filipina half my age. She cooks delicious meals, keeps our condo clean, she's feminine, no tattoos, respectful, very affectionate and she has genuine burning desire for me. I'll never go back to the USA.

@HollowSentence22 5 ай бұрын

Good for you man. Western women are not worth any mans time anymore. I hope to someday find a nice feminine woman outside of the US

@rudeawakening3833 5 ай бұрын

Are you more the exception than the rule because you perhaps are successful and have lots of bank ? I’m not judging , I’m in my 60’s and am happy for you and I’m curious … Peace ☮️

@RealGaryGibson 5 ай бұрын

@@rudeawakening3833 Philippines has a low cost of living so it doesn't take a lot of bank. You can live on $1500 - $2000/mo quite nicely here and you are considered upper middle class. In the USA you are considered poor. My rent is $580/mo + utilities. I live in a 1br condo next to a huge mall so I don't need a car. A lot of guys rent further away for cheaper. My gf cooks nearly all our meals so I don't eat out much. Groceries about $400/mo. Movie theater is $6 tickets. Taxis and buses are cheap here. My gf is so appreciative that she has a roof over her head and food on the table and she doesn't have to work. She needed a crown on her tooth yesterday. That cost me $300. How much would that be where you live?

@rudeawakening3833 5 ай бұрын

@@RealGaryGibson At least a grand or more …

@rudeawakening3833 5 ай бұрын

@@RealGaryGibson Is there lots of crime there ? I’m in my 60’s … How easy to get a good quality woman and like not saddled with 5 kids ?

@SeekingNamelessly 5 ай бұрын

1) useful 2) bedroom skillz 3) respectful

@dustinmiller2775 5 ай бұрын

Keep our stomach full and our balls empty. The end.

@jarroddavid8352 4 ай бұрын

Boom

@vinnysclafani3468 5 ай бұрын

It's amazing how telling it is when you don't experience genuine burning desire. The idea that it's completely accepted that coaxing affection is crazy.

@csx6910 5 ай бұрын

For real. My girlfriend is like this; she wants to spend time with me whenever she isn't working and is always down to phuck and denies me nothing. Initially, the former actually kinda annoyed me until I compared her to the other women I see with the guys around me who barely seem to like their man let alone burn for him. The biggest issue with that is that sometimes, I need some 'me' time but she's cool with that too. It was an eye-opener and guys need to recognize the importance of their woman wanting him above all else.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

@@csx6910 I had something similar with my ex wife. She was frequently DTF unless she was legitimately sick or something. And when she wasn't up for anything her self she'd almost always help me out in some way. I can't imagine being with a woman who's not like that.

@caeaves 5 ай бұрын

It sucks when the GBD is just lure to hook a relationship. You commit, and the fun extra stuff goes away. Now you gotta end it.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

@@caeaves can't forget that last crucial step if it goes down that way.

@lexplorerrr 5 ай бұрын

Respect goes both ways.

@Donmecca415 5 ай бұрын

Another spot on video. The worst thing that can happen in a relationship is a comfortable woman. She gets comfortable, she feels she can start taking things off the list of things that got you in the 1st place.

@rudeawakening3833 5 ай бұрын

Facts . First thing - they STOP going to the gym/ exercise and proper eating habits …

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

If she starts taking things off the list, she was only ever doing them to get him into a relationship. She shouldn't look at these things as a list. They should just come naturally. If they don't that mean's she's not into him. And possibly she never was.

@cheerscheers9819 5 ай бұрын

Very helpful video, Rich thank you! I have been with my husband since I was a senior in high school. He’s older than I and was spinning plates at the time. His exe’s have tried coming back into his life. I made it clear from the beginning, I will not share him. You understand women more than we do ourselves. Haha I wanted to make sure I’m doing everything I should be to continue having a successful, loving relationship with my husband besides everything I already know and continue to do… The respect aspect perked my ears because that’s not talked about enough. It would be useful to continue to dive into respect from a woman to a man as it appears to be disappearing around us. He says I’m more than enough but I am interested in information and what is happening in the real world. I have to watch out for feminist, hence why listening to male podcasts are more useful and helpful. Thanks!

@Snarge22 5 ай бұрын

One problem regarding respect is that when the man is providing quite a bit of value in many aspects of a relationship the women gets used to it. Over time she starts taking that value for granted. Add in some more time and she starts criticizing him for minor things and then amplifies them. He is still meeting his obligations yet that's doesn't seem good enough anymore. Marriage makes it worse as women know the State will back her up in a divorce so proceeds to respect him even less as she has legal power over him. I'd add in excess spending on crap no one will care about after a few months as well as putting on weight. Men need to deliver on all aspects of his responsibility, his obligations, be productive, and be accountable. So if he is doing that, then the woman needs to reciprocate in her own way. Anything less is disrespectable.

@graeme5060 5 ай бұрын

If you're on here asking about respect, I can assure you that you don't need to worry about this. People know when they're being disrespectful and have lost respect for their partner. Women do it all the time with subtle digs and snidey comments. It's obvious. Chances are high you're not asking about this and completely oblivious.

@cheerscheers9819 5 ай бұрын

Graeme5060 Respect is a channel topic that could be elaborated on in regards to relationships.

@danfg7215 5 ай бұрын

@@cheerscheers9819 the guy Rich mentions in the video, Orion Taraban, explains a woman's respect to her husband with the following standard: to know whether you're disrespecting your husband, think "would I say/act/do the same to my boss at work"? Would you roll your eyes, complain or argue angrily, openly dismiss his feedback or concerns, would you belittle, be ungrateful, or make fun of him in front of clients, etc. If you argue that your husband is not your boss, you're right, but that's not the point. The point is why is a boss more worthy of respect than your husband, why is a romantic life-long partner less important than some job?

@2Gales 5 ай бұрын

If you really like him, I am sure you respect him, and it shows in your eyes and smile when you look at him, and your words, willingness to please. It’s easy and should come naturally if you love him. Many women have hypergamia and expect to get something out of the man in exchange for sex or whatever, then let themselves go, and the relationship dies. Now, that’s all you have to do, always expect respect, respect yourself and then if he is going to leave you for another woman, he will anyway, so just do what you can and naturally comes out of you, that’s all! The fact that you are in this channel says a lot about you!

@KNDCHV 5 ай бұрын

I love this guy. Just pure unfiltered truths.

@gottafly30 5 ай бұрын

I saw another piece in a psyche prezo that was very similar - men's relationship expectations were 1) maintain intimacy; 2) demonstrate respect; 3) be complementary. I like your comparison of relationship step up - women (economically) vs men (sexually). very interesting way to present it. I enjoy the content Rich, keep up the good work.

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

👍🏻

@claytontinsley1901 4 ай бұрын

7:57-I was wheelchair bound for 3 months due to a car accident. I’ll never forget how well my wife treated me and the load she carried. No bitchin’, genuine empathy, and helpful. We got through it and she is appreciated.

@Vision-dd8fl 5 ай бұрын

My ex of 9 months, was very combative, sometimes disrespectful. I dumped her. She obviously didn't know how to keep a man.

@tammielisa 5 ай бұрын

You did her a huge favor.

@badass1g 5 ай бұрын

Imo you failed to maintain frame and strict boundaries if you let her even get to that point. Going forward, LET THEM KNOW from the jump that you DO NOT TOLERATE drama in any way. If she back talks, dump her, if she raises her voice, let her know she’s walking a thin line. Easiest to keep them in line from the start. 👍

@Vision-dd8fl 5 ай бұрын

@@badass1g I set boundaries from the offset. The first time she raised her voice at me, I told her to leave my house, she came back pleading for another chance. The second time she did something disrespectful, I dumped her. I'm actually very big on boundaries and punishing bad behaviour. Some girls are unhinged and damaged, there is no fixing them.

@caeaves 5 ай бұрын

Yep. I had one yell at me in the street once over a camp chair we carried but didnt use. I was joking with another guy who also carried a chair but didnt use. 1st strike. I was firm about not yelling at me. Unless im dick deep in another woman we can talk like adults. 2nd strike came a month later and I was done. I told her to stop yelling as there was no point. I'm done. It was a quiet ride home.

@Vision-dd8fl 5 ай бұрын

@@caeaves good job. my ex very hot.. however combative and argumentive. First strike, got drunk the night before & didn't turn up for our date, she slept through it. Second strike, told me to Shut The Fvck Up over a small disagreement, I walked away, she came chasing. Third strike, went into an agressive rage at me, because I told her no social media phone use, at the dinner table. She was addicted to social media and her phone. I told her to leave and never spoke to her again.. Once they continusly behave like this, you have to get rid of them.

@ws-ss8ks 5 ай бұрын

Long term male/female relationships all come down to respect. A woman MUST respect her man or the relationship is doomed. As soon as she loses respect, she will begin to nag, test, emasculate, and look elsewhere. A man must demand respect at all times. Never tolerate disrespect from any woman. The flip side is that a man must be worthy of respect. So work hard, lift heavy things, and be your best.

@Vision-dd8fl 5 ай бұрын

I'm in great shape, great job, alpha traits. Definitely not a push over, started dating a girl & pretty much immediately within a couple of weeks, began showing signs of disrespect, chit testing, playing games. I ghosted her.. She came back pleading for another chance. I gave her only one chance and she began do doing the exact behaviours within weeks. I Dumped her.. Some girls are just awful people from the offset

@rvh1702 5 ай бұрын

This!

@ceejay9663 5 ай бұрын

@@Vision-dd8fl, thanks for reading my thoughts; don't have to type as much. 🤣 I dumped one after 1.5+ yrs for this exact reason. You cannot "manufacture" respect. She either gets it, or she doesn't.

@shaneashby5890 5 ай бұрын

So true and well said!

@Vision-dd8fl 5 ай бұрын

@@ceejay9663 mine was raised without a father, raised by a single mom. She had lots of male friends. Masculine personality too some degree. Daddy issues is the worst

@danielj3010 5 ай бұрын

Taraban GETS it.

@marksandoval5361 5 ай бұрын

This is the classic. Feed him. f--k him, be nice to him. Unfortunately, not many women will not do this. Could also be. 1. Be useful, traditionally that was cooking, cleaning, raising children but could also be other things like shared hobbies or help with his business. 2. A lifetime of frequent, varied, high quality sex. 3. Never disrespect him.

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

🗿

@MrJimmy3459 5 ай бұрын

It's so simple yet 90% of women don't get it

@lottiohnesorge830 5 ай бұрын

Still talking about women?

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

@@MrJimmy3459 They don't get it because they're with men they settled for. They'll naturally do all of that for a guy they're truly into.

@VoiceOfThe 5 ай бұрын

Corey Wayne’s 3% Man is the book you need to read to have effortless relationships with women. The focus is on the guy’s behaviour (not the woman’s) and how he’s showing up. If you sort this out and she’s a normal, healthy woman she innately responds due to the polarity between the masculine and feminine and you just don’t have all the problems that Rich discusses.

@donaldturner5124 5 ай бұрын

Great advice. I’m an older guy with many life experiences and this guy is straight up telling you the truth. I might add one thing. If you find yourself getting serious about a woman tell her flat out your expectations if she can’t or don’t want to comply, then move on. If she’s not an asset then she’s a liability.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

You shouldn't need to tell her your expectations, you should only ever get serious with a woman that's already fulfilling those expectations on her own, naturally.

@j.p.5716 4 ай бұрын

@@scottverge938 - Bullshit. No one can read minds. Part of leading and guiding women are telling them want you want and expect. If they joyfully comply, then you have a winner.

@scottverge938 4 ай бұрын

@j.p.5716 who said anything about reading minds? I'm simply saying that the woman that fits you best will be the one that naturally does the vast majority of the stuff you expect. And it's the same on her end. She doesn't want a man that she has to tell what she wants. She wants a man that just gets it.

@j.p.5716 4 ай бұрын

@@scottverge938 - I would ask how old you are and how many years you have been married?

@scottverge938 4 ай бұрын

@@j.p.5716 50, I had a 26 year marriage. Just a bit of experience.

@Ofmyownvolition 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for the talk Rich

@jinnantonix4570 5 ай бұрын

I have been faithfully married for nearly 30 years. However recently my wife went through menopause, and the the sex stopped. After about a year of this, I was looking around for other women, and started to spin some plates, but did not sleep with them. I told my wife about this, that I was not cheating, but would she allow me to get some exercise because I need sex. She said no, she would not let me, but realised that it was only a matter of time before I stepped out. She immediately got the best hormone therapy, and a few weeks later the sex was better than ever. Last night she jumped me so hard and did stuff she hadn't done since we first met and fell in lust. I have dropped all the plates, except my wife.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

Good old competition anxiety at work. Nice. Keep in mind that if things go south in the future she might bring this back up as resentment though.

@jinnantonix4570 5 ай бұрын

@@scottverge938 absolutely, it could happen. I knew it was a dangerous game. But I was very careful to ensure that I listened to her when she told me what her boundaries were, and she was clear that I could not cross them or it was the end of us. I didn't cross them out of respect for her and made sure she knew that. As a result I do not believe she has a case for resentment. In fact I can say I had the courage to face up to reality and that my actions saved our marriage.

@veronicatario7791 2 ай бұрын

@@scottverge938”competition anxiety”- I think you mean manipulation.

@abdalrahmanmahmoud9209 Ай бұрын

Preselection; women love men who is also selected by others.

@TheFunkybert 5 ай бұрын

Spot on Rich.. once again. Invaluable information to practice in awareness and to live by. Thank you sir.

@globalautobahn1132 5 ай бұрын

2:42 I love the clip of the woman on the Segway! 😂😂😂

@SgtRock-LeatherNuts 5 ай бұрын

I saw Orion's, then watched your commentary ... BINGO !!!

@duckmann5000 5 ай бұрын

ALL TRUTH 💯🔥 Rich thank you so much 💪🏽

@cesara4382 5 ай бұрын

That Shearling Coat goes hard! Nice

@Ashas.Garden 5 ай бұрын

I’m not your target audience, but this was a good chat. Happy New Year 🎉

@hannchescoalcaraz2297 5 ай бұрын

Love Orion’s content

@sheldonthomas2697 5 ай бұрын

Locked into the podcast too. That Lambskin is fire bro. I need the store asap

@michellesabol1718 5 ай бұрын

Yes I agree to everything you mentioned

@HunkumSpunkum 5 ай бұрын

Yes, Dr Taraban is becoming a true guru for me (and probably a good many of your other viewers...).

@ffstretch 5 ай бұрын

Orion is a new find for me and I find him very interesting. Worth a look.

@JohnSmithEx 5 ай бұрын

I've watched dozens of Dr Taraban's videos, and gained tons of wisdom as a result, although I'm much older than he. His dating advices are brilliant. He has an excellent understanding of intersexual relationships, and also the ability to externalize this understanding by presenting simple and matching examples. Unfortunately he is not a philosopher, so when the discussion ventures outside the realm of dating I feel that he hasn't much to teach me. This is a weakness that he may address the years to come.

@roses6564 3 ай бұрын

@@JohnSmithExI am a woman with similar credentials and I find him excellent professionally, as long as people understand he discusses relationships mainly from a market/transactional perspective. There are other paradigms that govern relationships but most people are market types - "what I get in exchange for what I bring to the table," all looking for a bargain, of course. His best video is the one about "love having nothing to do with relationships." That's his apex.

@rytjson4487 5 ай бұрын

His content is really good his channel is great

@kizzagt 5 ай бұрын

Yes Rich it was Chris Rock who said Men can't go backwards sexually whereas women can't go backwards in lifestyle. Also to add on to the bedroom subject I'd add quality along with intensity and no one wants terrible sex.

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

Beta is even OK with no sex at all.

@overthoughtandunderstated 5 ай бұрын

Love the recent references to The Four Agreements, a genuine spiritual work and the kind of thing TRP needs a lot more of!

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

👍🏻

@hillsideonly 5 ай бұрын

Good luck thinking they're gonna pay any attention. I've been in their online communities and majority of them instinctively lash out any anybody talking about "keeping a man" or "earning their place in a man's life." That's one of the reasons some of they insist on dinner dates.

@pauliethefixer8617 5 ай бұрын

Wow! Right on the money, he nailed it perfectly.

@toranacar 5 ай бұрын

Great points and nice coat

@rudeawakening3833 5 ай бұрын

I was thinking about that ! But I’ll NEVER own a McLaren and be as badass as Rich ; so no WWII bomber jacket with fluffy collar for me …😢😂

@tahirhussain7099 5 ай бұрын

I’ve been following Rich’s channel for quite sometime and being active in the young dating pool, the number one thing is - Her desire to “Build a home/future” with you. Most women only want to build themselves and will choose their careers over a relationship. It’s the ones that really want a Relationship are the ones who will even consider doing these 3 things.

@periclescimon9954 5 ай бұрын

Rich I never get your videos anymore. I don’t know why because I’m subscribed to all notifications

@MrTimjm009 5 ай бұрын

I ve experienced a number of these things described in this video . Its true . Disrespects dont get forgotten . It is off putting if you tell a girl what you like and she tries to shame you into thinking its wrong ( that is BS ) Overall I get this video . But you learn over time so it doesnt happen again

@ronbridges3933 5 ай бұрын

Chase excellence. Have boundaries.

@bumpercoach 5 ай бұрын

Rich Its gotta be FREQUENCY ALSO plus the intensity

@leroy9147 5 ай бұрын

I love Ryan ms videos I was literally watching this series

@jonathanwu4171 Ай бұрын

Man you're like the uncle I never had bro, Thanks for all the vids

@samstan4462 5 ай бұрын

Rich with the Rocky IV jacket...

@martinhsl68hw 3 ай бұрын

This is one of the funniest comedy characters I've come across on the internet - congratulations! Way beyond Alan Partridge. The way the character gradually reveals his insecurity through his perspectives is very cleverly done. The juxtaposition of life advice from a clearly pathetic and sad individual is hilarious! Comparing women to cars could, in the wrong hands, be an obvious and not very funny routine, but the way you lose yourself in the character really sells it. Keep it up!

@0000FFz 5 ай бұрын

Orion is the GOAT of youtube

@johnkuk1553 5 ай бұрын

“He not busy being born is busy dying” -Bob Dylan Also said ‘You can’t be wise and in love at the same time’

@user-ov9eu4gx3z 5 ай бұрын

The funny irony is that the more RP creators make these videos, the further they push women into feminism and avoiding men. Most women (were) neutral but then these creators upped the expectations of women being unpaid full-time interns and most of us who were neutral are now embracing decentering men. If men are having a harder time meeting women, its because of RP creators like the above who claim to help men, but since their time on YT, have made the dating market much tougher.

@jbstardust 5 ай бұрын

No, this is explaining what women can do to make their man happy and fulfilled in the relationship. Modern feminism is mostly about tearing down men anyway.

@user-ov9eu4gx3z 5 ай бұрын

@@jbstardust so not being a man's unpaid servant is considered tearing down men? Women are decentering and these RP creators are completely oblivious to what's happening in society.

@jbstardust 5 ай бұрын

@@user-ov9eu4gx3z I didn't say that. Feminism isn't their fault, it's women's and a lot of the media's fault. Women aren't forced to be unpaid servants. Doing chores around the house when the man is the only one working sounds unfair to you? Females not making men pay for everything and men do everything and them actually actively working to build a good relationship is what the video is about. I have to realize I can't argue with stupid people.

@MrHolland2010 5 ай бұрын

I love you man!!!

@freemandiaz5123 5 ай бұрын

100% accurate

@monikaterziyska1668 5 ай бұрын

Actually it's so easy to keep a man, to make him happy, but we, the women, make it complicated. I'm sure you helped to lot of men and women and I am one of them too. Thank you 💜

@jbstardust 5 ай бұрын

It really is easy. Doing a few small things a day is usually more than enough especially if she hasn't made any mistakes. I would say that showing initiative is the largest thing. Asking to hangout, going for intimacy first sometimes(hug, kiss, sex), doing small things show that you think about and want to make him happy. Guys usually mainly want to know you want to make them happy, doing the acts is a way to show that.

@sheldonthomas2697 5 ай бұрын

Definitely was nodding my head.

@jamesdean1143 5 ай бұрын

Nice jacket !

@RP07662 5 ай бұрын

59 yo woman here...I love Orion!

@factsdontcareaboutfeelings1107 5 ай бұрын

It's irrelevant if there's no genuine burning desire from the outset ie him being her first choice.

@caspa7 5 ай бұрын

When Rich says "us" he means "I". This channel is a Freudian 9-course feast.

@JCnordic2983 5 ай бұрын

Rich does the city utilize salt in winter on roads. Thinking bout the audi.

@graeme5060 5 ай бұрын

I have no real desire for a woman to do things for me. I don't like the idea of them doing my laundry or dishes. The thought of it puts me off a lot. I don't want to lean on a woman for anything. I like taking care of my own shit, and I keep a tidy place. I also don't mind doing things for them, provided it's never taken for granted or expected. I'm single and honestly have no idea what use I'd have for a girlfriend other than some company and intimacy. I suppose that's enough of a reason. But I don't need them to be useful in any other way than being there and being a good person. I don't need them financially and I certainly don't want that. I don't need them to cook or clean and I don't need them for support. Is it weird I sort of want someone to care for? Rather than care for me? I wonder what that says about me. Sounds like I need a dog, not a girlfriend as I write this. I'm early 30s now. In my teens and early 20s I was in a relationship and would be a total dick. I'd have her run after me. Go to the store, make drinks, clean up etc and I'd show no appreciation at all. She became ill and then it all changed. I "grew up" if you like and quickly began looking after her and caring for her. This went on for years. We're no longer together, but I have no interest in having a woman run after me again or do shit for me. I wonder if it was a case of being a dick in my early 20s as most guys are or if the circumstances changed me. I know most guys like their woman to do things for them as a mark of respect.

@ceejay9663 5 ай бұрын

I'm with you.

@nabilandre 5 ай бұрын

I mean if you cook her food the least she could do is do the dishes. That is just showing kindness and appreciation on her part.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

I feel very similarly. But all I really want is company and intimacy. And I agree about wanting to take care of someone. I don't think it's wrong at all. I think it's in our masculine nature. Society has completely shifted though, and men use to care for women by making sure all the bills were taken care of and the house was in good working order. Nowadays women don't need a man to pay the bills and tons of men haven't a clue how to use a hammer and women can pay a handyman. So while we still have that desire we have to shift how we care for them. Funnily enough by being a good companion and lover as far as I'm concerned.

@roses6564 3 ай бұрын

You sound great. All people should think like you, men or women, but they are still conditioned by calcified relationship paradigms where the two use each other as roles and demand things from each other because the role duties prescribe it. We are in the age of voluntary intimacy where people want to choose for the person's sake, not for the practical advantages, services and status they can squeeze from the other.

@JulianMichaelOnLine 5 ай бұрын

Patrice was the comic. Legend.

@camels9654 5 ай бұрын

Most Canadian women are more interested in a latte than men.

@SDtraining627 5 ай бұрын

That jacket godaaaaamn.

@rockster1385jh 5 ай бұрын

My question is… And I’m trying not to sound salty… How many Women watching this video are not only going past the six second mark…but are actually trying and wanting to know exactly how she can keep the a Man or her Man in her life? Simply because He’s all She wants.

@oldsoul2116 5 ай бұрын

I’m watching this video exactly because of what you said, I want to know how to keep the man I already have

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

@@oldsoul2116 Honestly if you're with a man you already are truly into, you'll find that you're already doing this stuff naturally.

@roses6564 3 ай бұрын

A woman who is blessed with the chance to be with the man whom she regards as "all she wants" is a woman in love. A woman in this state knows instinctively what to do to keep him. She doesn't need step by step instructions. Only the transactionalists do, those who are not in love with the man but want to manipulate him into picking her or into staying, etc for practical reasons.

@MiguelHernandez-rb8mm 5 ай бұрын

Forget about how can women keep a man....where can I get a jacket like that here in Mexico?!!

@rudeawakening3833 5 ай бұрын

Bla ha ha !!!

@roymillsjnr5172 5 ай бұрын

If we all had a dad like Rich we wouldn't be in a fecking mess now 😂 🙌

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

It's truly astounding that society just expects men to know all of this stuff. That for a long time there was no one teaching this stuff except maybe in some obscure books. We had to rely on intuition and maybe some quips from our fathers or brothers or friends.

@ThatDonna 4 ай бұрын

Woman here. I genuinely cannot imagine a woman walking past a load of laundry. Who is this woman? Where is this woman???😢

@rachelledellinger174 5 ай бұрын

I always imagined my relationship like this😀

@johnvincent4048 5 ай бұрын

You know there's genuine burning desire when you get anilingus.

@jefruscione6214 5 ай бұрын

NIce coat Rich...brand?

@jackspinner4727 5 ай бұрын

Love how that coat makes your baldness pop.

@margaretleboeuf6765 3 ай бұрын

What is the author's name of the psychologist you mentioned? The transcript says 'taban', but I'm unable to locate it... Thanks for your help

@IfSemper 3 ай бұрын

Dr Orion Taraban & his KZfaq Channel is called Psyc Hacks

@AquaTofana. 5 ай бұрын

since you are old now, can you make pls a video about prostate issues? how can a woman convince her old man, or even grandpa, to go have a prostate exam? you guys can be so stubborn when you must go for medical check ups. thanks in advance, please help

@JamesHawkeYouTube 5 ай бұрын

Never assume all psychologists know what they're talking about.

@bernibeckmann9753 5 ай бұрын

If I like a girl and she likes me back that's a good thing, right? Why do I feel that her liking me is synonymous with her wanting to get to know me? As I would like to get to know her. But it never works out that way. When she likes me all she wants from me is for me to "role play" boyfriend, to fulfill her fantasy of what a boyfriend is and to serve her. This is exhausting, frustrating and ultimately not worth the effort. Any girl that wants to keep me needs to show a certain level of interest in who I am, what I think and where I'm coming from. There is no other way to build a 2 person team.

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

Welcome into adulthood.

@user-sb1ze5hx9p 5 ай бұрын

Nice coat.

@jbstardust 5 ай бұрын

Very good for all the females. But those females better be sure they choose the right guy to do all this for because if they do it for a guy before him or more then he wont see her as much as a rider.

@Logan24855 5 ай бұрын

What about 20 red flags on men? 20 red flags that men should be aware on themselves.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

I'd actually like to see that list as well. Presumably some women dating coaches have lists like that about men.

@lw9306 4 ай бұрын

Damn that's a really nice coat.

@wmbedsole1 5 ай бұрын

Respect him and he’ll stay.

@Logan24855 5 ай бұрын

Rich, how dare you! 😂😂😂

@KevinReno-yd4vg 5 ай бұрын

Just be freaking pleasant ladies even if you're not very attractive.

@ES60Hz 3 ай бұрын

It is simple, “Make him a king and he will make you a queen” - Unfortunately this is why today there are not a lot of queens.

@Peteristrate 5 ай бұрын

On point 2: the sexual burning desire. What if she's a 24 year old virgin (yes, she's conservative and religious) and willing to do with me what she hasn't done with any other man before (a.i.: to have sex).... but (there's a twist) she wants to wait for the right moment, specifically, until marriage. And she's ready to settle for the marriage early (like as soon as feasably possible, could be sooner than 6-8-12 months;she underatands her value of making kids early while she's fertile and wants to have my kids while young, etc.). I'd like to point out that she is intimate with me in other ways, just not penetration, which kind of defeats the virginity purpose anyway. I'm 36, and she said the age gap is perfect for her even though I was a bit skeptical. So, how should I take this? - is she willing to do with me what she hasn't done with anyone else before (lose her virginity even if it's at the right time for her, at marriage)? - or, is there a lack of genuine burning desire since she can or is willing to hold herself back from sex with me until marriage? I explained her that holding herself back from sex with me can be perceived(by me) as lack of genuine burning desire or downright rejection, which she understands, and assured me it's not the case, but that she wants to stick to her religious principles that are very important to her. But, as you said, don't listen to her words, watch her actions. On point 1 (being useful) and 3 (respect) she is totally on point, she's entered my frame almost completely.

@Heritagepostfarms 5 ай бұрын

Marry her

@HollowSentence22 5 ай бұрын

Do you plan to marry her?

@jenfoster128 5 ай бұрын

No it isn't that her feelings for you don't include genuine burning desire. It is that she would feel like trash if she gave her body to a man who isn't her husband. If she has been raised religious she believes she should only belong to one man. I also waited. It wasn't easy and many men will reject you if you do but it is much better for both of you to wait until you are married. If you push her into having sex before marriage she will feel like a whore and sex will always be a problem for you guys. If you wait she will feel she has permission to express herself sexually with her husband because it is 'moral' and 'right'. She is a obviously a good girl. Either marry her or dump her but don't ruin her for herself and for someone else who might be willing to wait. The age gap is attractive to her because you are probably ready to settle down and be a husband and father. Even a lot of religious 24 year old guys don't want to take on those responsibilities.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

I couldn't be with a religious woman and don't believe in marriage so I'd have to pass but I do wonder about one thing. What's her relationship like with her father? Are we sure she doesn't have daddy issues? Although on second though, probably not because women with daddy issues are often promiscuous because they seek out that validation from men.

@jbstardust 5 ай бұрын

Compare her actions and words to her family and all her other actions. If she follows all biblical rules and her parents especially and all her family are extremely devoted religiously this could be really good for you, or it could be really bad if she is just doing this to trick you. Also look at how much initiative she takes to please you without being asked. Aswell as looking as her attitude when asked to do things.

@davidrodgers9558 5 ай бұрын

They don't care these days.. With ten guys in line... She will just trade you in if she doesn't get her way... Why even try..

@reubenmorris487 5 ай бұрын

Somebody gave me that book, "The Four Agreements." Never read it...hekk not even sure where it's at.

@blondythesuperdog8825 5 ай бұрын

Most peaple just have no options..so they stay together..

@randahlbeach 5 ай бұрын

Hey Rich, I disagree. I'm happily married for 30 yrs and she truly is an AWESOME person who is Loyal, Kind, Respectful, Funny, has a small group of close friends and a large (70+) extended family that all live within 1 hr of each other & get together 4x/yr. We are each others ROCK and I am full of gratitude that she is in my life. Our key to this blissful happy union is we don't have kids AND we make each other a top priority. Maybe she has a low bar (as I can be Hangry and a little moody when tired) but overall we are full of empathy, luv helping people & enjoy life that is FULL of "Us vs Them" mentality as we travel the world and enjoy hanging with friends & fam. We keep our finances in check and luckily have no vices or addictions. Maybe too much golf, track days or sports watching? We don't smoke, don't do drugs, are healthy & sort of athletic (we can be much fitter but chose to watch a movie or 2 vs hitting the gym for hrs on end.) All the Very BEST Rich. Really enjoy your videos. I enjoy being like a book & a parachute. - Cheers from Vancouver, Canada.

@renegadezen7841 5 ай бұрын

Sounds like you are married to a 1 in a 1000 type woman. And you found her 30 years ago...times have changed. It may not be even possible to find women like that anymore in this current generation

@randahlbeach 5 ай бұрын

Hey @@renegadezen7841 Valid point. Here's my counter ... You simple need to educate a potential life long partner on EXACTLY what you want and then they can decide whether they truly want that or not. Yes people lie and are deceitful but some will appreciate the candidness. So many peeps get married in the "Lust phase" or people she's pregnant. Some say marriage is 1 word and others say its a life sentence. Choose wisely my friend. A financially responsible partner can make your life a breeze. The family values that she (and her family) exudes will speak volumes of what she will be like in 10-50 yrs. All the BEST!!

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

Where is your disagreement point though?

@randahlbeach 5 ай бұрын

Hey@@honor9lite1337 Rich says that women need to do/be 3 things. In our happy home if my awesome wife doesn't want to cook, clean the dishes, start or finish the laundry that doesn't bother us. It eventually will get done by us or by the hired help. b) No she my wife doesn't need to be a slut in the bedroom c) She has always been respectful not only to me but to our elders, family members, friends, co workers, subordinates, community workers, gov't workers, etc. Almost everyone. Except the pedestrians who don't make eye contact when crossing the street when they shouldn't be. That really riles her up. All the Best Honor9lite.

@randahlbeach 5 ай бұрын

Hey@@honor9lite1337 Rich stated that all 3 behaviors are required/needed to keep a man. I disagree: All relationships are different b/c the 2 people are different and their situation/relationship (finances, age. maturity, goals, needs, wants, desires, family structure, friends, cultures, etc) is NEVER exactly like any other. a) If my wife doesn't want to or is too tired to do the dishes, laundry, cook, tidy up, etc - No problem. It will get done eventually by me, her or hired help. b) Be a slut in the bedroom. Nope NOT required c) Respectfulness. Yes that's necessary. For me what's important in a successful relationship is mutual respect and always water the grass on your side of the fence. We both are business people so communication is KEY and simply give your partner what they want (as long as its within reason, not illegal, won't harm anyone, etc). Don't worry about the small things just talk it thru to understand each other's POV. We have had a fight once. I simply told her that I needed air and I grabbed a hotel room for 2 nights. I didn't like that she blew up at me and we talked it thru during and afterwards. It takes a very strong Mature Ego to put your partners feelings first. I'm old school and believe you only get married once so make sure its a great fit, there's mutual respect and you both will do whatever it takes to help each other and be their BIGGEST Cheer Leader. Our mind is like a book & a parachute. Cheers Honor 9 👍

@GB-en7ue 5 ай бұрын

Most modern women’s response to RC: what!? men having standards? Reeeeeeee!

@georgezagr6627 5 ай бұрын

Hey Rich. What about a gal who’s gone down from sports car boy to normal car boy (me) and she likes/d me and did all you said in bedroom, and then started changing her behavior. Respect.

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

It's normal phase, be careful.

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

How has her behavior changed?

@RobertoSanchez-rz4qv 5 ай бұрын

💯

@Longtermalwayswins 5 ай бұрын

What car is this guy drivint?

@tonyzeni9186 4 ай бұрын

You should keep in mind that you're a high value man Rich and most men have a very very different experience dealing w women

@HighPockets933 5 ай бұрын

Women ultimately decide that YOU as the man should always do what Men are always suppose to do and then in time also split the chores that they do because they see you sleeping in the bed as much as they do, Making as much mess in the house as they do if not more, eating and making dirty dishes like they do, pissing in the pot like they do, so since you also do these things you now must share the cleaning and preparing required by them. As, of course they jump into the vehicle that you and only you just changed the oil and trans fluid on so they can run into town and meet with the girls for lunch. They come home to take a hot shower , after you and only you just changed the water heater. Get my drift? We don't make them do our chores and what is required to make them complete but they expect it from us. Because every REAL man should always help his woman RIGHT?

@jbstardust 5 ай бұрын

I read a study a while ago that said higher testosterone levels were correlated with offering fairer deals.

@margaretleboeuf6765 3 ай бұрын

That is so messed up, I don't even know how to respond... Women like that! And not all women are like that! It's the toxic 'feminist' agenda being promoted... Nowadays it's man hating. It's frightening to many of us women. Too many toxic agendas and narratives being promoted in what can only be described as indoctrination... It's scary, and disgusting

@menguardingtheirownwallets6791 5 ай бұрын

Richard, what planet are you talking about, because vvomen that you have described (they have a 'burning desire) simply don't exist on this planet, or at least not in the part of the planet that I live in (Southern Ontario, Canada).

@scottverge938 5 ай бұрын

See the problem with this advice is that if a woman is truly into a guy, she'll do this all naturally, she won't need to be told or reminded. If she needs this list she's with a man she's just not all that into. And you as a man should never accept less or you'll just be miserable in the long run and likely divorced at some point. I've had a woman like this in my ex and I'll never accept a woman that isn't similar in that respect.

@roses6564 3 ай бұрын

100%.

@trentonfettig7265 5 ай бұрын

Do you have more videos about the male perspective, like, why do men cheat? Why do men become complacent?

@honor9lite1337 5 ай бұрын

1. Biological, genes spreading 2. Lack of purpose

@MikeG82 5 ай бұрын

she picked Chad who has endless options over the other 95% of men that would be grateful to have her

@roses6564 3 ай бұрын

@@MikeG82Not all Chads have been created the same, different women want different Chads. Be a woman's Chad. You can't convince women to want what they don't want and to un-want what they want.

@MikeG82 3 ай бұрын

@@roses6564 there are certain Chad qualities all women want tall, confident, rich, symmetrical face etc most men can't be any woman's Chad when you factor in at least two of those qualities can't be changed if you are flawed in those areas

@roses6564 3 ай бұрын

@@MikeG82These are just general patterns since any human prefers more money than less, prettier than uglier, etc. This has nothing to do with the subjective and holistic making of a Chad in a woman's eyes. Of what you mentioned, only confidence is somewhat universal and even this trait only needs to be present in specific areas, not overall. (Such as he's smart AH even if at 5'7"). It is absolutely not true that a woman would reject a guy who makes her heart sing just because he is not tall, rich and other generic proxies for attraction. You are confusing holistic attraction with attraction proxies. See Orion Taraban's video on this topic (licensed psychologist specialized in male metal health, excellent content, search YT).