Darnesha Grays yessss he sure did

He just ruined it if you took him seriously

@@anubisgod23 Tell her again because Steve Harvey thinks that he is the spokesman for every man. Who knows every man in this world personally, nobody does.

He destroyed your life. What people want is to be happy. How can someone make other people happy? Impossible, only you can find what makes you happy.

@@anubisgod23 why you say that

Dildozer wowww

Aminah A wow what?

So you try to shower them with gifts so that you "could get what you want"?

@@MedicaLabTech EVERYONE does that!

Are you actually a guy cause that was a whole bunch of BS! But then again 98% of what Steve claims about guys is bS

Molar Bear when he ask me what I like can I lie and say the opposite. Can I say U like guys with Aids, who grew up without a father, who works at McDonald’s. The key is to not let him know what you like?

Or can I just say illl know when I meet him.

Sooooo true!!

MOST Narcissists show signs... YOU chose HIM/HER, its important to tell your standards, YOUR FAILURE OBSERVATION IS YOUR FAULT.

Exactly, tru story

Exactly

I think the bigger problem there is you shouldn't lie and say you want to be Friends With Benefits, when you don't actually want that. If you genuinely want to be Friends With Benefits with someone, you're probably not doing it with someone you think has long term potential. There's no downside, as long as you are both on the same page and not lying about it.

Yep

FWB will ALWAYS lead to a broken heart!!!

@@gionagrace6279 Yep! It usually leads to a broken family for the unborn child that can be conceived in such a meaningless situationship. I pray women in then types of situations, do not allow themselves to get pregnant at all.

ice angel, girl yes for sure. Raising my standards.

ice angel me too! That dang Steve Harvey!

ice angel same here! Lol

ice angel Steve With The Keysss

It is logical. If you reveal any stranger what you like, you are putting yourself at risk of being hurt because a dishonest person will fake and act to match your standards to get what they want. Dont do anything just observe , dont say much, just basic general stuff and see how they treat you on their own without your instructions and guidance.

⚘

Not is she dating p diddy.

He and her mom can talk all day but if she's not ready to listen and wants to do it her way she will have to suffer the consequences just like anybody else who is hard-headed. The unfortunate thing is that we get to see it.

Nah she likes to bang rappers

ocubex blessings to you & your wife!!!❤️🌹

so u mean even aftr marriage we dont tell a man..wow!

Hina B. 18yrs of marriage too

You are the man!

tell me about her, do she pay the same attention to get to show you how much she loves you? think about it....

JESUS IS LORD Lets stick to the wisdom of Almighty God, and wait on the Lord for a spouse.... nevermind Steve!

Cat G but you’re watching the video too lol

Finally someone who gives the word from a place of love instead of weaponizing it to offend people. God bless you.

Tamara Laing me too smh

Tamara Laing me too😭😭

That's alright boo, me too, but we on it now!!!! Steve H - thank you

Me too honey...lol that's why I've been on my man hiatus for some years now....building myself up and getting myself ready❤️❤️

LovinMyCurves&Curls 38 me too

Lol…Reality against Mentality.

Also came back to report that I passed the test, and continue to grow😊🙃.

@@maseengmasitha6212 God gives the same test over & over at times. Until you pass.

Why are you so right! Inside a relationship this stuff is just so difficult

😂😂😂😂

YESSSS!!!!! That’s all I could think during this. As a single person I was like “Steve, this is the 21ST CENTURY!!! I ain’t gonna be able to find nobody nowadays if you telling them that!!”😂😂

But it takes time... which mean I might waste my time either😅 just to figure out his true color

That's the problem lol Steve just saved us "time".

It's not that, it's not about material ,i.e flowers,stuff,etc, tell a man what she values in man she want, what type of character she would want in a man, flowers, chocolate,etc etc are just stuff, you are just buying a woman for some mating indirectly.

Problem is... Narcissists use everything you say to mirror you.

J Q Thats the trap a man loves to set up on you. A man can only be himself to a person that trust him, not to someone he doesn't know will have a place in his life

J Q I actually tell him “...while I observe and decide”?

EXACTLY!!! THANK YOU!

Good one..💯

Paul Hogue just be honest ..

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

well he is right

He should be..... That was good stuff!

MultiChristyk Well he should, it made him successful

MultiChristyk ur he does t take his own advice.

Totally!

Ok so I'm back from writing that down. What were you saying?

Thank you

❤

@@rhondagreene7938 ahhahaha ive just written down the most important thing in the video

This is what I pray for in a husband "A man that loves me like Christ loves the church!"

Perfect way to sum it up 💖🙌🏻

Awweeee that's so sweet

rembeadgc how do you know what many women think

Well, having never met you, but based simply on your question, I believe I'm getting some idea of what you think right now. If you say or do more I'll have an even better idea. If you know or have had experiences in your life with men, I would imagine that you too might know something about what "many" men think. Do you disagree?

I would like to add also that many women, perhaps the majority, based on my observation, just aren't aware of fundamental differences between men and women when it comes to things like sex, desire and commitment. No one is born knowing these things. I think Steve recognizes this and is trying to help many women avoid unnecessary hurt. When these things are known by women, it also helps men to be more conscientious and accountable. If it hasn't been taught through experiences with fathers and other male relatives and friends or other women who know, how is it then passed on to a young woman who thinks that a guy who is attracted to her is operating under the same motivation with the same intentions that she has? Often she may not fully know, appreciate or understand what is motivating him and to what degree, or how it should be approached without demonizing him. I think this is how many women get turned off through their interactions with certain men and then transfer that to men in general. Enough bad relationships while operating under bad information based on missed understandings are certainly enough to scar anyone's heart. God help those who know no better that to constantly submit themselves to it.

As a woman I like his advice and I haven’t seen one woman in the comment section yet say they disliked it, or didn’t want to hear it bc it “wouldn’t get them what they wanted” Where are these “most women” that’s all I mean to say. Have I formed some sort of opinion about most men? Yes and no. It’s my opinion and it’s relative

I understand what you are saying and appreciate your sharing it. I didn't say said "most women" though. I did say "many", which, to me, simply means a number that isn't insignificant. I do hope that "most" women take Steve's advice. I'm glad you like it. I love it! Spread the knowledge!

Only for t he men who play games. Real man don’t have the time.

@@echomike5097 I like that!

He is really just telling it like it is and I am so glad he does just that. So women can be helped and be aware of some men's tactics.

Hehehehe justice is sweet!😂✊

@@rosettajones1161 lol Most women are too unaccountable and lazy to change. They’ll just fall into the same trap but blame men.

Lol

Yeah, why does it start at #3?

Must be a Scorpio 😌

Kat Natural how it going for you did these answers work

Me too lol

How are you doing norma

True

I understand now

Fit in your pants. Your profile is largely irrelevant.

Steve isn't entirely correct. Either and way is going to get you hooked and quickly wanting up sex to a man. My sisters and I were always told got our time tested and sound advice from my father and uncles. My father and except for 3 out 10 of have all still married. Steve's been divorced a few times. There's only been 2 divorce

But how is the man to know what you want? By mind reading, prayer , the stars?

M_ Hx 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Right lol. It’s a dead end road. You can’t get there.

Lolol

@@miekaash6831 hahahahah

Crystal Mitchell me too😫 better late then never

@@crissyunpredictable3981 how are you doing

Nathalie Aguirre U would give specifics and that's not what u want????? That don't make any sense.

How've you made out?

Hmmm please do take care that these things don’t misguide you

Woooooooow great advice and we get that alot❤️👏🏾👏🏾🇿🇦

"A man who's trying etc. would not ask"?? What if he wants to know if she's compatible for a relationship/marriage? bc HE doesn't drink. What if it's literally the beginning and he doesn't know? He has a right to ask, as opposed to this "paying attention" mind game. How does that even make sense to you? It could be a first date situation.

@@pCOCKPRO11 Thank you Billy, but this is my total opinion. Most men who ask that question, usually want to know so they can get a woman drunk, and ready for the bed. I said what I said. That's a great majority of men.

@Kendl 🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 People miss this. Sad too. Integrity is so lost.

Andrea that’s why I’m still single . I’m not gonna bring just anyone to meet my family . Been divorced since 2011 . 2 children (ones already married and doing her own thing) and the others about to fly the nest . Comfortable in my own company ☺️

They listen and learn if you withhold/delay the rewards 😉

Maybe you have been having relationships with the wrong type of men?

Beautiful L one of them for sure !!

@@OlderWomenRock well I pray you finally are treated like a queen and you are cherished and respected as you deserve. God bless you.

Beautiful L what an absolutely lovely comment , thank you 🙏 so kind . I’m ok without a guy these days . Check my channel for fun 😊

Angela Bareque adult children 😂

Steve is teaching boys how to be men at his mentoring camp. but some grown men could benefit from his advice as well.

Mr Hightower!

He use to be on Steve Hightower

Lol maybe college kids

Beautiful answer! 💥💣💥

That's right baby!

YES to self-love!! And YES to a partner that can make life a fun and supportive journey.

Debbie B.. hahaha you are funny

Moïse Étienne somebody needs to... some of you men are ridiculous!😁

@@sirnathanstorernbsn Oh snap, just realized you one of em 😁

You might be right but many would call that simple logic.

I would like to meet Steve and his beautiful wife, Marjorie, someday as well. And to be in his audience while he does his motivational talks would be great!!