Don't expect a lot of men to be chasing women. Pay, sex and leave.

Then be as single mother with 3 kids

lots of good smart men have taken the red pill these days due to feminists, metoo movements and what not, so good luck to you.

And thats why ur single

If you don't chase we assume your not interested

The daughter is only going to be in that grade for one year.

@@NewEyes25 In Norway we had the same teacher from the 1st to the 4th grade, then the same from 4th to 7th and then 8th to 10th was the same, so in total I had 3 teachers in elementary school, which is 10 years in Norway.

I thought Steve would tell her that like mom you can’t go else where

But who knows? She could actually find love??? You never know where and how you can and will find love. 💯💯💯It's worth the risk. You've got to take the chance.

@@OriginalPuro She's in the U.S.A though so she's good. In this country, we have the same teacher for one year.

#princewilliamdoesnotwearaweddingring

that is true

Louisa Byrd you got point nkt everyone does n nkt for wrong reasons

And why not wear his ring in the first place?

That was not the point

She's obviously very thirsty lol lookin at her kids teacher.

Also, just because he's good with kids, doesn't mean he wants to get with a single mother and someone else's kids. Let the man live a successful, fulfilling life and enjoy his wealth. A lot of us just want to be left alone, we love being single to do as we please, talk to who we want, and go where we want without someone getting in the way of that. MGTOW!

ltsallwood true

And to add on that. He's getting paid to do all that.. She sounds desperate.

Doesnt mean he would be bad with her kid either, She only said he was good with kids, not that he will be good with her kid.

That’s right cause a relationship always ends in marriage....NOT. Don’t be naive. Men are always in a relationship...even if the woman is the only one that sees it that way.

Not necessarily you might be what he’s looking for

I was married but on paper only, you see as l found out he was in heavy porn and he started cheating with called girls prostitution and then he got to close and started cheating with a woman in the church, he was kicked out of the church said he was done he was going to change but it didn’t he continued and continued his unfaithfulness I kept hoping finding out he was never ever committed to me! 34 years and I emotionally snapped I don’t think I’ll ever remarry again I have not even had a date I did everything I could to be the best wife the best mother to look the best I would run exercise keep my figure in good shape but it didn’t matter! Yeah better get to know that man I guess I have to just Have God is the only void in my life I get very lonely no dates no nothing I’ve never been asked and I guess that’s OK

That's right!

he just answered the lady's plea and how can she get it. but you're right.

Girl. And it's too many rules to remember.

I can’t even .Staying single is easier

I say just try to go by what you feel is right for you. Forget about the rules, just let it flow, but it never hurts to learn about how the male mind works how they are triggered and understand their language, yet I don't believe holding yourself short cause of some silly rules that if anything should apply more for young women, not for women over +35, is not the way to go. That would be depriving yourself cause of some ridiculous rules...setup mostly by men. Now, if you're not ready or don't feel comfortable...that's a whole different story. Be confident, strong, and take responsibility for your sexuality...Be empowered. If a man belittles you for whatever reason due to what society has implanted into his system (he let it happened), then he is not worth your time. He hasn't educated himself to understand women of the 21st century nor to respect women for their worth as a person and NOT value her by her sexual experiences. Especially if you have acted responsibly in that field, within reason.

Lmao 😂

I think you should just let it go as it is

Lol totally agree

I lost it with the cookie 😂

He's using the term seeing someone rather than in a relationship. Seeing someone does not mean relationship. I think that's the angle, not him telling her she should try to take him out of a relationship

idomagirl abahi Seeing someone doesn't necessarily equal a relationship. The man could just be dating. Dating does not necessarily equal a relationship either. So it will be up to the man to tell her whether or not he's just dating or in a "committed" relationship. Then if he is in fact in a "committed" relationship the young lady should move on.

idomagirl abahi 🙌🙌🙌🙌

Yesss

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Let's him see what he can get? I don't understand see what? Get?

@@blingblingcrystal1938 I thought 'get' is the woman he can get

Ngan Kimmie see who she is internally by talking to her ....getting her intellectually

I dont quite understand what that statement mean? What he is trying to say. What if he's not interested in her?🤷‍♀️

Let him see what he can get, but « let him imagine what he can have » here it means trust him enough to give her intimacy « cookie » to that man.

The egg doesn't swim to the cell

That’s not always true, are you a single mom?

Well the problem is that for a Man it's not in our preference to get with someone that had already a strong back sotrie

@@xsbbx5191 ??

@@GypsyRock à Man is the leader of the house hold, the problem is that is going to get in a family that is already established and he has to lead it, but if the mom doesn't give him the right thé kids will not and he's most likely going to live in a home that is not his in some sens, for exemple let say thé kid is doing something bad he can't decipline him because the mom would be like "don't tuch my kid" not all the Time but most of time that what happend so it takes to much work without really a hight chance of sucess so Man préfer someone that doesn't have a backgroud already and get a fresh start with them

@@xsbbx5191 ask any long time married man if he or his wife is the leader of the household. He will say his wife, because it's true. Many men know this, you currently don't. Those who do and are serious and ready about kids in a grown up way, do not mind if the lady already has a child. She should absolutely look for someone like that.

Ok? 💜👌🏻💯

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faho0ody wbas I thought the same thing too! Lol

...that's her idea, she wants him to know

That would make it easy for the woman, plus she’s obviously not afraid if she’s approaching him. #Confidence

@@nedudee7861 exactly

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Right? I yelled "PREACH" bout a hundred times! #Slay Steve

Alright Steve

That was my same thought as well 🤔

Not always. He isn't afraid of being honest with women.

😂😂😂

Amanda Jade Holtz ...if you were a hunter, would you care whether the deer has a female/male or fawns. Or would you just want to taste their flesh.

Amanda Jade Holtz . Hi

To be honest, I was also shocked and disappointed at Steve Harvey's answer.

i usually like his answers, but this one sounds like he's lowkey telling women to be homewreckers

@@lang-ed3bk if someone not married but he talking to someone then you don’t chase him or provoke him but if he chase you then technically you not doing anything wrong

Alarai Lun True. When I was teaching, we were warned to not fraternize with the parents. Dating my student's parent was taboo.

She could date him after the daughter moves up a grade and changes to another teacher

And if it is for marriage or something serious? It's because today everyone goes to the bedroom before marriage that relationships became not serious and dating became shameful in some curcumstances. Personally I think that one can date everyone if it is for some serious staff (or to get information at least, to see if the person convenes you).

I thought the same thing. And depending how willing they are to date a parent begs the question of how many other parents have they “dated”. Furthermore how does that play out for your daughter in the long run. Follow your instincts , like you said you don’t want to seem crazy and desperate

My mom dated my history teacher when I was in 9th grade. Then when I went to college HE pursued me! YUCK! He wanted to take me to various countries. I was maybe 19 and politely and firmly told him that was not ever going to be possibilty.

True

I think what he means is that many are still have "relations" with someone until they find someone they truly want 🤷🏾‍♀️

True, not everyone over 40 who is single is allergic to relationships

I agree with you.

lol..and you bet they tell stories about your sis too..oh no

Well, dang! Tell all your sisters business, will you? LOL

What a nasty sibling you must be

Shayne Harvey I dont believe her sister did all that..she chic probaly was trying to sleep with sister's man and got caught now she is bitter!

I have five sisters and I would never ever bad mouth them even if we had a rocky relationship. You are wrong to insult your sister like this. We only have your side of the story. Clearly something is broken within you to be this hateful towards your sister. I am shocked what kind sibling are you

So your advice is woman shouldnt chase a man, love will come along as it is set to be? I really want to know. Not picking a quarrel. Thank you

@@moneysfan I believe that if a man has not determined in his heart that you are worth the chase, you will do all you want and he will never see you as a catch. There's something in us men that is triggered when we find a lady that is not just there to occupy space and time but one who can beat companion

jay_rael well said. Id also say that men in their 40s who aren't in a serious relationship are very discerning. Been there done that. It better be awesome lol. (There's also plenty of married men who don't wear a wedding ring)

well bring him to me then. 😂

+Justice Butler . exactly

jay_rael no he said there is no single 40 year old man that don't have it together that's what he said

jay_rael Yep something wrong

@Rosetta Jones I agree 100% with everything you said. Women have to stop being desperate and thirsty and let the guys pursue us. If you’ve already been around a guy and he’s seen you then he’s had opportunity to pursue you and if he didn’t it’s likely because he’s just not interested in you

Aaawww thank you.needed to hear this😘

@@lethaboberenice1272 gosh you are so pretty.

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Why go out w anyone you're not interested in? What's the point? Just using him. You could go get dinner or go out on your own.

Nick Tekweme 9

Bingo!

Three years later what's up m

That cookie must have spider webs

4 years cookie check,

@@toreibowe4262 lol 😂

@@toreibowe4262 not if u treat it right

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Oh, you’d be surprised.

Hello 👋👋👋

Seeing someone DOES NOT mean he is in a relationship. If he is in the dating stage, it DOES NOT mean he is in a commited relationship. It just means that he is dating in order to get to know the person and see if it could get to a good relationship. Guys, some of you are soooo exagerated

You're questioning Steve Harvey here, what is he on divorce number 3?

If someone is in a relationship and they are content they will stay with that person.

What does it means pls?😄🤦‍♀️

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Katnip 09 no suga..... He may see here but only as his student teacher. If she has interest then make it known

That pretty much sums up what he said.

the assumption is: She's a mother of one of his students. Good chance she is married. Just as there are some men who are married and do not wear a ring, there are some women who are married and do not wear a ring. (though the married woman without a ring is less common, because women love their rings and other shiny crap.)

@@fhuber7507 That gave me a chuckle. Don't know if you've been paying attention for the last 50 years, but if a black woman has a child it's an almost certain chance that she's a single mother who has never been married.

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