how to not give a f*** what people think of you

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simonesimmo

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@simonesimmons
@simonesimmons 7 ай бұрын
LMAO yo I just realised I cut off the ending. OOPS
@nikitayumnam
@nikitayumnam 7 ай бұрын
I thought what just happened! 😂
@rxhrevfr98
@rxhrevfr98 7 ай бұрын
yeah hahah i was confused "agora hills" played automatically after. Mother I follow u on insta too im a supporter haha
@itsjustanaccount5838
@itsjustanaccount5838 7 ай бұрын
I was so confused 😂
@rxhrevfr98
@rxhrevfr98 7 ай бұрын
@@itsjustanaccount5838 🤣🤣🤣
@johnsonjo8454
@johnsonjo8454 5 ай бұрын
​@@nikitayumnamhi 💋💋💋🤎
@id_mahi
@id_mahi 7 ай бұрын
i relate so much when you said "every time someone said i couldn't do smth, the more i felt like proving them wrong" THAT FEELING JUST SLAPS DIFFERENT.
@iidentifyasjeffbezos
@iidentifyasjeffbezos 6 ай бұрын
my sisters smirked at the fact that I wanted to be an Engineer, it wasnt easy, but I'm solving math and physics questions after starting from the foundations, and I WILL pass an examination for Mechanical engineering 4 months from now! Never let people define you
@id_mahi
@id_mahi 5 ай бұрын
@@iidentifyasjeffbezos im so proud of you, keep going
@znvmrr
@znvmrr 7 ай бұрын
People nowadays use the word "narcissism/you're narcissistic" just anywhere without even knowing what it actually is. That's so true when you said confident people get called narcissists on the internet. Not just confident, but any type of behaviour that THEY don't like will be termed as narcissism🤦‍♀️ cz honestly if we really start caring abt what other people say or their opinions then we just won't be able to achieve what we want in life. How tf is not caring about other's opinions narcissism? They need to educate themselves.
@mesCheerios
@mesCheerios 7 ай бұрын
The term is rly needed by people who experienced genuinely extreme personalities to describe what they have been through without having to go into triggering details, and it has become meaningless and useless to victims of this. Also makes it seem like ppl can't experience abuse from ppl who are otherwise nice or even kind. It's so important for ppl to realise we are ALL capable of doing terrible things, and we also need to be able to realise that to become better if we are effing up
@ohohpelia2166
@ohohpelia2166 6 ай бұрын
Exactly it discredits actual victims of narc abuse
@hinaguiza8810
@hinaguiza8810 5 ай бұрын
The person I was "close" to with NPD cared alot about what people had to say. For example if he felt humiliated or even slightly threatened he'd not show it infront of them but lash out in different ways at his family/weaker ones this showed he was extremely triggered by it. He was excessively paranoid about how he appeared especially smelled and looked to the extent of taking shower twice a day. He was also power hungry, chasing materialism and validation/trying to fit in with the upper class and belittling us despite him belonging to the same class as us like??💀 these are just to say that these ppl to do care about how they're "perceived", he had alot worse counterparts but one thing good about him was his drive for power that made him successful/well known in his field but that never satisfied him, he wanted to fit in with his ideal class.
@Dreamcatcher_7372
@Dreamcatcher_7372 7 ай бұрын
Simone’s got the sixth sense she’s always here at the hardest times
@cicada_444
@cicada_444 7 ай бұрын
"I knew who i was and who i was going to become." THAT WAS SO GOOD AND POWERFUL!! You don't know how much your wisdom and advice has been at help to me, thank smm, and thank you for the new mantra 🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️
@smriti2461
@smriti2461 7 ай бұрын
I relate so much to "people get intimidated by me so much" but it is what it is. They either level up to not feel that or have no relation with me at all.
@noah.m2007
@noah.m2007 7 ай бұрын
the people who care the most abt ur life don't care much abt their life
@leksisatka6110
@leksisatka6110 5 ай бұрын
Girl the shrinking yourself to not intimidate others part, I feel SEEN
@Mishapindisguise
@Mishapindisguise 4 ай бұрын
I related so much to "People who are insecure and afraid of their potential would always want to bring you back to their level" so real! Some people will just not keep their mouths shut and bring you down everytime, just to not feel miserable about themselves. Ps. I m seriously thinking about plastering Simmone's quotes on my wall❤
@maxima_lmh
@maxima_lmh 6 ай бұрын
I relate so much to the part where you said you lost yourself. I was always told by new people after getting to know them better that they thought I was "arrogant" or "cold". It happened a few times and it caused me to really loose my confidence, make myself smaller and it made me afraid to say my own opinion (because I wanted to be liked and didnt want to come off as rude). And I recently realized hpw stupid that is. I really need to build my confidence up again and Im gonna start being true to myself again, because it is honeslty embarassing to adapt your personality to the person you are currently with..
@bergumi9106
@bergumi9106 4 ай бұрын
this is my situation rn
@julianacamargo2022
@julianacamargo2022 7 ай бұрын
Simone I need a video of "the fear of saying NO" or something like that. Most people say things like "you just do not need to feel guilty about it" but they don't see what is behind that fear or that "habit". (I mean when someone's upbringings are in an environment of not being able to say NO or are too afraid of people's reaction
@cansuayna
@cansuayna 7 ай бұрын
you are SO REAL for this simone, people hate on people because they have something they don't and they want to take it out on them
@kristinakristina101
@kristinakristina101 7 ай бұрын
I love what you said in the bullying part. As a girl who was bullied in school, it really made me feel better. Thank you
@user-xw2nr5zj1h
@user-xw2nr5zj1h 7 ай бұрын
I just want to add that sometimes friends and family do not truly want the best for you. Especially if your bond with them is made of a bad behavior that you're trying to get rid of or if they envy you for something you have. Family can be toxic and friends can be fake, learn to identify and remove.
@RichardMcSweeney
@RichardMcSweeney 7 ай бұрын
I like that word "someone you can learn from." Thank you. Wishing you all the very best.
@vanessaprincesssa
@vanessaprincesssa 7 ай бұрын
That was soooo POWERFUL especially the part about high-school bullies I needed that ❤
@mesCheerios
@mesCheerios 7 ай бұрын
rly appreciate u calling out the narc name calling issue. No one is going to understand the severity of what i experienced when i tell ppl i had to live with a sociopath as a teenager because ppl are throwing these words around like they aren't describing v extreme beyond toxic behaviour
@Eggmuffin-px5vq
@Eggmuffin-px5vq 7 ай бұрын
i love you simone. i've been following you for a year and you've changed my life so much
@vaibhavi127
@vaibhavi127 7 ай бұрын
It's really life changing advice that makes my path clear to whom I have to remove from my life and negatives belief in this society to make you weak by showing their ego and gratitude towards you, I really understand what mistakes and things I have to do to achieve my goal since this times. You are great ❤
@lovelylickyricky
@lovelylickyricky 7 ай бұрын
Simone gets prettier each video like WHAT DO YOU DO
@simonesimmons
@simonesimmons 7 ай бұрын
pretty when I cry pretty when I cryyyyyyyyy
@marie-louzhong1187
@marie-louzhong1187 7 ай бұрын
I’ve never been so early, but wanted to take this opportunity to express my gratitude for all of your honest and unfiltered guidance! It has been of great help for me to make sense of many things I’ve felt throughout my life but failed to put my finger on. Please keep up the great work!
@killerfiish
@killerfiish 7 ай бұрын
simone, you are so real for this. the people hating on you have no life
@saffwa.
@saffwa. 7 ай бұрын
i did not prepare for my favourite university’s entry test bc my cousins indirectly told me that i cant do it, and my aunt LITERALLY SAID IT ON MY FACE. and i went for test without studying bc my friend forced me (with NO preparation) & scored 69/200, and actually im proud of myself that i got 69 lmao when i thought i’ll score 5 or 0.. now i’ll prepare for it and go for test again, 😡, i just vented.
@saffwa.
@saffwa. 7 ай бұрын
@@Kleillaa2121 i get it now, thank you so much for this, i really like it when someone older tells me good things 🤍
@thehottestgirl777
@thehottestgirl777 7 ай бұрын
i love you simone IM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOU
@jooniedimples333
@jooniedimples333 7 ай бұрын
my teacher literally embarrassed me infront of everyone today what a perfect timing
@MahimaDondapati
@MahimaDondapati 7 ай бұрын
L teacher W Simone
@bts4everrr
@bts4everrr 7 ай бұрын
I just love watching your videos.. they inspire me, guide me and empower me. Thanks so much for being out here. You're one of the best content creators I've seen on the internet. Keep going, and I'll always keep supporting you. Much love and gratitude, ~Your subscriber.
@dylanpringle4314
@dylanpringle4314 5 ай бұрын
I’m glad I found your channel seriously I feel like there’s a lot of people in my life take advantage of my kindness and I would really like to fucking get over that it’s all in my head one in the acceptance
@nineplustentwentyone26
@nineplustentwentyone26 6 ай бұрын
I am so glad that I have watched this video today. I really needed these words. Thank you
@julianasuarez7974
@julianasuarez7974 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for putting subtitles! it´s helps me a lot to understand (i'm learning english)
@yesminehabachi9130
@yesminehabachi9130 7 ай бұрын
please keep making these kinda videos btw i really love the content that ur making thank you girllll
@sarbunoemi4454
@sarbunoemi4454 6 ай бұрын
Damn, Simone, been listening to your videos since June and now I am attending university and got a better a job because of you! Shame on you for inspiring us to be better, I hope one day I can meet you! :D
@RealzMe
@RealzMe 6 ай бұрын
I watched this video on mute because I don't need anyone telling me how to not care about people. Now your video is helpful! I didn't listen to a single word. I figure there might be some depressed child out there who needs to hear this 9 minute video about how not to give a f. good video keep up the great work!
@hellosouuu
@hellosouuu 5 ай бұрын
Wow I relate so much to people feeling intimidated around you. I’ve been trying to find ways to make people “not intimidated”around me, why was I even doing that. I didn’t need to go out of my way to make people comfortable, they don’t even make me comfortable.
@bananabre4d
@bananabre4d 7 ай бұрын
u have been raising me for 2 years now I LOVE U SIMONE💗💗💗
@MahimaDondapati
@MahimaDondapati 7 ай бұрын
Yaas we love mother 🎉
@ameliarachanska4682
@ameliarachanska4682 7 ай бұрын
queen posted two days before my presentation 🙏 god bless
@punpunr.3703
@punpunr.3703 7 ай бұрын
I kinda need this reminder right now. Thank you very much!!
@adorbeva5697
@adorbeva5697 4 ай бұрын
I’m trying to become more confident as I’m a 14 year old girl who gets embarrassed by everything at school and always goes red if anybody even talks to me because I don’t have confidence at all. Thank you, this is slowly helping me. Also your accent is so nice.
@Theholistichealthfairy
@Theholistichealthfairy 7 ай бұрын
Needed to hear this queen. Thank you 💗
@id_mahi
@id_mahi 7 ай бұрын
aint pregnant but u always deliver, love this video and ill be applying these in my life. ty simone!
@aysegulcelik5886
@aysegulcelik5886 7 ай бұрын
The thing you said about constructive criticism was so right
@Dreamcatcher_7372
@Dreamcatcher_7372 7 ай бұрын
YESSSS I NEEDED THIS
@cioch2297
@cioch2297 6 ай бұрын
Omg I needed this video you have an amazing way of thinking
@Stay_gorgeous
@Stay_gorgeous 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely love these kind of youtubers !! 🦋💗😍
@Vanuuieee
@Vanuuieee 7 ай бұрын
2:44 so true girl .. they wish they are you but not even 00.1% . You keep going girl🙌🏻You are amazing ❤❤
@hinaguiza8810
@hinaguiza8810 5 ай бұрын
I remember watching a video of yours back then And I was deeply triggered (one of those lifeless people💀) because how dare a girl be this confident and speak her mind huh? But god how how I subscribed quickly 2 minutes into the a video! I've healed much and I'm thankful, including your videos into my healing journey from bpd.💗 Love you Simone, that energy you radiate is not that of a commoner!! It's magical, I mean it.
@nyx-0907
@nyx-0907 7 ай бұрын
wake up babe, queen is here to level us up
@cristinealiwalas827
@cristinealiwalas827 7 ай бұрын
was really hoping for such words of wisdom, loved this from you mentor 🤭
@yesminehabachi9130
@yesminehabachi9130 7 ай бұрын
right timming i really needed this soo bad thank youuuuuuuu
@aakankshajain8555
@aakankshajain8555 7 ай бұрын
Omg you posted this 3 mins ago and I can’t wait to watch!
@charpearson_
@charpearson_ 7 ай бұрын
will definitely be coming back to this video.
@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km
@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for the reminder!
@mansoor3159
@mansoor3159 7 ай бұрын
Makes my day when you make new videos Simone😀💖
@carmencatalina9086
@carmencatalina9086 6 ай бұрын
Glad I don’t care no more. ❤. Shared this video with a friend.
@go.11bananas49
@go.11bananas49 5 ай бұрын
oh, i love it when Simone is serious talking like that 😆
@ankitasarkar3646
@ankitasarkar3646 7 ай бұрын
the much needed video just dropped. 🎉
@Shraddhatvv
@Shraddhatvv 7 ай бұрын
Too grateful ❤
@nightx..
@nightx.. 6 ай бұрын
You seem awsome... you just got another follower! I'd love to see more, thank you... this helped.
@jamiewilliams8107
@jamiewilliams8107 2 ай бұрын
When you are left to your own devices there are no f@@@s to give!
@thatgirloncommentsection8798
@thatgirloncommentsection8798 7 ай бұрын
I love you so much Simone...
@arfaasif1842
@arfaasif1842 7 ай бұрын
Omg I needed this today.😭 thank you queen !!💕
@biancaanabella
@biancaanabella 7 ай бұрын
I love your words of wisdom ❤❤❤ this is trueee
@magz-ho1gf
@magz-ho1gf 7 ай бұрын
simone is just casually being my Australian/Perth queen atp
@yanatewari5354
@yanatewari5354 7 ай бұрын
thank u for this❤️❤️❤️
@HelloFreya
@HelloFreya Ай бұрын
this is so true because i always wanted to do affiliate marketing since i started uni people used to tell me “only influencers makes money off of it” then one day i just started, yes it took time for me to understand how to make money but now i am making money even though it’s not a lot but I just bought my first louis vuitton bag and it feels so good to have been able to prove them wrong looool sooo a win is a win
@lalalalalalalalalol
@lalalalalalalalalol 7 ай бұрын
Hey simone! I love your vids so much!! because of you, I have decided to dedicate my teen years to focusing on the truth of life and being the best version of myself. your advice has helped me so much ever since ive started watching your vids a few weeks ago and I feel so proud of myself.
@aranzaaranda
@aranzaaranda 6 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🫶🏼
@kostantinakaras9559
@kostantinakaras9559 7 ай бұрын
thank you in advance, i'm writing this after listening to 2 secs of the video
@kandacepereira795
@kandacepereira795 7 ай бұрын
Love your videos ❤
@1036am
@1036am 7 ай бұрын
okay yess needed !!!
@ervinsmoviecorner8748
@ervinsmoviecorner8748 7 ай бұрын
Nice one, Simone!❤
@mesCheerios
@mesCheerios 7 ай бұрын
algorithm always welcoming me to your second channel but not your first
@cxtswl
@cxtswl 4 ай бұрын
Simone is so real
@ayeshallastname6225
@ayeshallastname6225 7 ай бұрын
hi ! simone can you please make a video on school and all that stuff !!!
@alexandriacaysseljoycarlos1835
@alexandriacaysseljoycarlos1835 6 ай бұрын
Thank you 😢
@joseniasguilhermesantiago4060
@joseniasguilhermesantiago4060 7 ай бұрын
SIMONE, THE ONES WHO MAKE FUN OF OTHER PEOPLE, MAKE FUN OF THEMSELVES.
@joseniasguilhermesantiago4060
@joseniasguilhermesantiago4060 7 ай бұрын
WE ARE ALL ONE.
@Morningvibe824
@Morningvibe824 6 ай бұрын
I like Simone so much❤
@Mynessly
@Mynessly 4 ай бұрын
Thx for the recommendation
@klonca
@klonca 7 ай бұрын
Thanks! ❤
@HamzaHabi-z7h
@HamzaHabi-z7h 20 күн бұрын
I am proud of you😊
@jigyasa345
@jigyasa345 4 ай бұрын
PLEASS START A PODCAST ON SPOTIFY
@Nicksroom
@Nicksroom 6 ай бұрын
I love this video. As a trans person who’s still in school, people can be brutal. I struggle so much about what others think, but after watching your video I feel just so much lighter. Thanks Simone, your videos always save :)
@alitathepotato8492
@alitathepotato8492 6 ай бұрын
I love how savage she is
@divinevixor
@divinevixor 3 ай бұрын
1. unless the person doesn’t bring value in to your life or they are not in a position you want to be in, don’t care about them. They’re not in your reality. 2. Don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from. 3. Have confidence in knowing who you are and your own values 4. Strut that place down and focus on you. (and the people who truly care about you)
@biancaanabella
@biancaanabella 7 ай бұрын
True i love thisss ❤
@gabi8096
@gabi8096 7 ай бұрын
I can't believe I didn't click on this bc I thought I already didn't care, when my clown self can't get my own ass in the internet bc she's insecure about people not believing in it! the realization was delayed but I'm here
@Peace34_
@Peace34_ 4 ай бұрын
Gooo girl.. make much video.. you influence me... in positive way
@spiritmadeofstars
@spiritmadeofstars 3 ай бұрын
I started running and writing one blog a month about it. On my first post, an old man commented that I should not run or I will be paralysed when I'm older. On the second, he commented that I am not running enough and should be ashamed for even putting my journey online. Now he thinks he knows everything about my running form from a few photos that do not even capture my real running, because my old camera is unable to actually take photos of my real run in a sport mode :D so I mostly just hop to emulate the look of running. His comments made me feel sad for a moment, but I do not care, I am doing it for myself and sharing it with others to keep me motivated and accountable.
@vchell
@vchell 7 ай бұрын
ending was hawt
@Nikoletak23
@Nikoletak23 5 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%, what do you think about people who react badly to constructive criticism? How would you deal with them if you tried to help them with it, but they turned you into their worst enemy after this?
@irmakch
@irmakch 6 ай бұрын
every time i watch simones videos i feel more powerful and more confident thank u❤️
@jilyyyyy.
@jilyyyyy. 5 ай бұрын
"Let people feel the weight of who YOU ARE, and let them deal with it."
@taraalao7055
@taraalao7055 7 ай бұрын
Can you please do a video on how to get over past mistakes and forgive yourself 😂
@mario125ww
@mario125ww 7 ай бұрын
How do I meet people like you. I want level up but i feel like im surrounded by those who ok with being average
@hawa004
@hawa004 7 ай бұрын
Hello Simone and everyone :) I have a question that's probably a bit mirrored from this video. I accidentally raised my voice at this friend but I was actually half joking at the time. It's about her not finishing her presentation slides when it was her turn on that day. I finished my presentation earlier than them because of some issues. After I finished my presentation, our teacher asked my classmates to take a number each randomly from these pieces of paper to decide the flow. And they had a week to finish it. She was sick when we fought but it just started 2 or 3 days before her presentation day. She asked me to use my laptop on that day but I couldn't give it to her because my laptop can't be used for presentation. When I tell that to my friends, one of them was confused because she has a tablet and a phone. I know that using a phone can be quite tricky. But she can use her tablet. Our other friend used her own tablet to finish all of our assignments. On that day, my friend ( if I'm not wrong ) asked her whether she finished her slides and she said no. Then I said, " you have your tablet. You have your phone" with a loud voice by accident. She cried after that. My friend that was sitting next to her told us both that she replied slowly, "I know you finished your presentation. No need to show off". I wasn't showing off, obviously. And I'm planning to not apologize to her because I stated the right thing in my opinion. She's actually kinda problematic so my other friends also told me that it's fine. I just want to know other people's opinions. What do you guys say? I'm sorry for this long question. I'll delete it later. Thank you so much for answering. Hope you have a great day/night❤️ and of course, thankyouu so much for this video, Simone. Lots of love! ❤️
@sondoussesetti
@sondoussesetti Күн бұрын
what if you work but you lose . and this people win in the end
@Xh-xg2ll
@Xh-xg2ll 7 ай бұрын
Simone, need your help. Can you please do a video on how to stop being taken advantage of? (Especially in friendships)
@stelllac
@stelllac 7 ай бұрын
Omg yes
@malaaka7177
@malaaka7177 7 ай бұрын
Hey simone can you do a video on how to rely on yourself as much as possible bc most people avoid helping
@TilikaVispute
@TilikaVispute 7 ай бұрын
Build self trust. Do the small habits you said you would do to firstly build confidence with yourself.
@user-yj7lc4ne3x
@user-yj7lc4ne3x 7 ай бұрын
Is this ending right?? It is so sudden (I watch all your videos Simone x)
@playtpuspower3241
@playtpuspower3241 5 ай бұрын
I KNOW THEY WANT TO LIVE THE LIFE I LIVE PERIODDDDD I’m out here affording to be able to live by myself, have a great remote 9-5, getting book for well paid DJ gigs, getting sober working on my health like…
@youeina
@youeina 7 ай бұрын
early for the always serving queen!!!!
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