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How to overcome a sex addiction? #1 Real cause revealed here!

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Alive Academy

Alive Academy

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Overcoming Sex Addiction - The root cause revealed so we can heal the root instead of endlessly fighting the symptoms.
Only when we know the real cause, we can heal the root and therefor automatically liberate ourselves from every other ADDICTION-symptom too, like not being able to stop WITH ADDICTIVE SEXUAL ATTRACTION, SEX cravings, moodiness, bad temper, loneliness, relational problems etc. You don’t have to feel ashamed for the fact that you are addicted to something. Because without any exception, most people are first addicted to something or someone, before the real root of the problem arises.
The only difference might be that some people are better in hiding their addictions behind a mask than others. Until their mask cracks obviously.
Only if we know what the real root of the problem is, we will know how we can STOP OUR SEX ADDICTION completely and for once and for all.
A SEX ADDICTION comes down to FEAR, fear for feeling what we would feel, without any distraction from SEX.
To end the root of the problem together with all it’s symptoms for once and for all, and therefor to shine the light onto our ‘dark’ addictions or fears, I came up with a drawing to show you.
If you wish to gain more insights about this, please visit alive-academy.com
I'll see you in the video's 💎🍀🙏🏼

Пікірлер: 559
@Lovereems
@Lovereems 7 жыл бұрын
THIS VIDEO NEEDS MORE VIEWS! It's truly opened up my mind
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Reema.
@Algorithm347
@Algorithm347 6 жыл бұрын
God your profile pic didn’t help me ... 😛😛😛😛😛😛😛
@edrasperez7827
@edrasperez7827 6 жыл бұрын
Damn you're sexy
@mo99mo99mo99
@mo99mo99mo99 6 жыл бұрын
Beedi aneek teezek ya
@bishalneupane5302
@bishalneupane5302 6 жыл бұрын
Reema p
@jeevjeev6497
@jeevjeev6497 5 жыл бұрын
I noticed when i with other people my emotions disappear but when I'm alone they go crazy
@ahmedsendagire331
@ahmedsendagire331 5 жыл бұрын
What do you mean disappear...
@brandonlozano1332
@brandonlozano1332 5 жыл бұрын
@@ahmedsendagire331 I think he means, he's able to put them in the back of his head
@blaqueknight
@blaqueknight 5 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way. Sometimes when I show my emotions with some people I feel rejected by them and I shut down again. I'm working on not caring what others think about me as much.
@SsSs-dc4ys
@SsSs-dc4ys 5 жыл бұрын
That's because it's not socially acceptable
@blaqueknight
@blaqueknight 5 жыл бұрын
@@SsSs-dc4ys No. They just have a limiting belief that it's not socially acceptable. Others don't react like that because they don't have the same mental block.
@Adri.emz1
@Adri.emz1 4 жыл бұрын
The eyes have a way to manipulate our hearts. The very moment we see a person we desire, we are in trouble.
@radioheadphonez
@radioheadphonez 3 жыл бұрын
I can't make eye contact with anyone without this happening... becoming a real problem actually
@kowsalyag9473
@kowsalyag9473 5 жыл бұрын
be authentic don't compare self with any other people. know what you want , be single minded and focus on what really make you happy. Change behaviours and habits that are stopping from being who you really are be assertive stay true to yourself.
@RathishKunath
@RathishKunath 3 жыл бұрын
You nailed it! But sometimes the cycles of the past can repeat itself. It takes a huge effort
@A_Dodo_
@A_Dodo_ 5 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done. But I know it's up to me to cure myself. Thank You so much, now I know how to deal with it.✌️
@jaredjose7740
@jaredjose7740 5 жыл бұрын
hi, did u make it?
@BIGBROGLASS_
@BIGBROGLASS_ 4 жыл бұрын
Facts cause im over here like i still don't get. How to fix myself
@Ethan-Martinez2003
@Ethan-Martinez2003 4 жыл бұрын
Hutikali GlassHalfFull yes same gete
@OTPpride
@OTPpride 4 жыл бұрын
Just fix ur self, duh 😭
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
Fast, pray and read the Bible. Also, fasting suppresses libido, and it may help some to know masturb-ting may mean one is having s-x with demons.
@pomegranatebae
@pomegranatebae 5 жыл бұрын
this is what I was looking for....i'm a big fan of digging to the root of problems and solving them...we are never born to have everything so running after everything is just exhausting
@sidhu9776
@sidhu9776 4 жыл бұрын
I am addicted to all of those he mentioned. Loneliness, behaviour change, moodiness, problems
@BradleyCoopertest
@BradleyCoopertest 7 жыл бұрын
The only time I don't think of sex is when I'm having sex.
@Algorithm347
@Algorithm347 6 жыл бұрын
Stig Lauren really that’s weird I can’t stop thinking about sex even more so whilst having sex......
@jessicaxx7163
@jessicaxx7163 6 жыл бұрын
Same
@twinmomma2012
@twinmomma2012 6 жыл бұрын
I think about how I’m going to get my next sex
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Stig, you can watch the 4 free theoretical videos at: www.alive-academy.com, enjoy your liberation process!
@BradleyCoopertest
@BradleyCoopertest 6 жыл бұрын
Alexa Mccoy Me too. It has been pretty bad. With me it started after a really bad break-up. I have always had a high libido but after the heartbreak I just wanted distraction and started to look for sex everywhere. It spiraled out of control. I think I am a bit authistic as well because I can’t break the vicious cycle.
@johnathanbolin5539
@johnathanbolin5539 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! "Pain feels like restlessness" that was an awesome line!
@justintime1078
@justintime1078 3 жыл бұрын
I remember as a child, I took it really hard when my mom and dad got a divorce. It was like how is this possible. I believe a lot of emotions to work on about this in my recovery today.
@Marcshaww
@Marcshaww 2 жыл бұрын
What does this mean
@karesssunflower2263
@karesssunflower2263 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to cry he literally just told me what it is why I am dealing with this...now that I know I will work harder to fix this!!
@Yugvijay
@Yugvijay 3 жыл бұрын
Aww help me too bestie
@heybitches9531
@heybitches9531 2 жыл бұрын
Bro me too. My masturbation led me to getting a blinking TIC disorder but luckily, this video helped me so much on curing myself...this guy made me cry...
@proudexmuslim2354
@proudexmuslim2354 2 жыл бұрын
I also want to kill my sex drive😭😭😭.please give me some tips
@Naan795
@Naan795 2 жыл бұрын
@@proudexmuslim2354 Check Samson Society or Pure Desire. You alone cannot heal yourself. You need to understand all the picture
@Gr3gg228
@Gr3gg228 4 жыл бұрын
I see his lips moving but not hearing a word of what he is saying. I'm going to watch this again because the comments seems like everyone else understands this.
@BIGBROGLASS_
@BIGBROGLASS_ 4 жыл бұрын
I swear
@keyannalee2432
@keyannalee2432 3 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@mallelobe2285
@mallelobe2285 3 жыл бұрын
People who are sexually addicted need to watch this
@dmullz100
@dmullz100 6 жыл бұрын
You are truly blessed. Going through some hard times in my life and I've actually got back to journaling and I'm seeing how one thing I did correlates to the next compensation... It's scary and it's dark. I'm excited to see those 4 videos. Thanks for standing up and helping us when 'we' are too weak to stand for ourselves.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Just follow the steps and experience for yourself your unharmed untouched light, that might be buried underneath a layer of darkness.
@anilpatnaik3336
@anilpatnaik3336 6 жыл бұрын
Yes thedude has really put words in my mouth too. Tom, I salute your efforts and professionalism besides the elegance with which you put the most important essence of life itself into a logical awareness for one and all to rid themselves from fear, anxiety and dis-ease of all kinds and experience an abundance of inner joy and liberation
@jeffreyhawthornegoines8727
@jeffreyhawthornegoines8727 3 жыл бұрын
This is very compassionate and very intelligent. Bipolar gave me periods when indeed I had to have sex and more sex, and it was harrowing. On the other hand, now at 62, something in me regrets these excesses and the temporary high that they gave me. I guess the human being is never satisfied, lol, and finding the right middle is certainly not simple
@paulmartin7609
@paulmartin7609 Жыл бұрын
I have Bipolar too are you married ok
@iyannasmith4238
@iyannasmith4238 5 жыл бұрын
Ok now I understand more of the WHY....I just don't know how to get to the HOW to change the cycle...
@blazekush7
@blazekush7 5 жыл бұрын
Iyanna Smith same
@hutatae
@hutatae 5 жыл бұрын
Here you go .. www.alive-academy.com This should help
@hutatae
@hutatae 5 жыл бұрын
Idk if its really free or not i just saw him tag this link
@AmaLoveGoddessTV
@AmaLoveGoddessTV 5 жыл бұрын
Settingcaptivesfree.com
@domo201
@domo201 5 жыл бұрын
Iyanna Smith Are you a woman ?
@mayankwalya283
@mayankwalya283 3 жыл бұрын
From now I will never watch porn and will Never indulge in sexual things, I will change every thing ,enough is enough, I've tried and failed, tried and failed but this time I will not fail whatever happens I will reach my goal
@aheartonfire7191
@aheartonfire7191 3 жыл бұрын
So, how’s it hangn?
@fennellturtle
@fennellturtle 3 жыл бұрын
HOW? 40 years of pain and trauma , and irritable discontent all my life, 12 step work done , 3 years of inner work , and still it gets me !!
@beetlejuulz
@beetlejuulz 3 жыл бұрын
Have you been to therapy and/or would you be willing to share your experiences?
@MJ-qb5ph
@MJ-qb5ph 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe the pain is too enormous. Bless
@mallelobe2285
@mallelobe2285 3 жыл бұрын
This has made me to realise that i was in the dark😭😭😭😭
@ennesvi
@ennesvi 4 жыл бұрын
Simple and an excellent video. Wishing you most and more
@splashofun
@splashofun 2 жыл бұрын
So THIS is what Meditation is unravelling! - In addition to other wonders. Thanks for explaining!
@dadsandsons
@dadsandsons 5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video ... there is a lot of gold in here ...but I do not believe that addressing and facing childhood fears is enough or it will result in a diminishing of the symptoms and manifestations of addictive behaviour. The formula is too simple. Addiction is much more comlplex than that. In my experience recovery is a lifelong journey requiring a revolution in mind, body, spirit.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your appreciation. When we inject our body constantly with fight and flight biochemicals like cortisol, adrenaline,...out of fear, our body gets also out of balance physically (biochemically, hormonally, ...)Our brain gets in incoherence and will send incoherent messages to our organs, which is the actual root cause of diseases. It might be a lifelong journey, when we don't truly know how to flush out the physical, mental and spiritual root cause and restore the imbalance therefore I invite you to watch the 4 free videos that build upon this video at: www.alive-academy.com
@junegerber4028
@junegerber4028 4 жыл бұрын
The Bible says to RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU. Resist is a choice. You choose it. Then you choose it again - and again. The alternative is to hang a millstone around your neck and throw yourself into the sea because you are offending "little ones". Do you realize porn promotes sex trafficking which means the abduction of little girls all over the world. Your contribution causes these girls to become sex slaves in an industry that destroys them. If you had empathy - it would be easy for you to RESIST!
@heiltecn9ne
@heiltecn9ne 4 жыл бұрын
Part of the problem is true addiction is often thought of as a disease so I think just about every addict wants to ends the addiction but very few do. Why is this? To keep it simple our brain changes how it processes creating impulses and that feeling of “I need” I believe once the brain makes this change we need external help. A controlled environment without triggers is our best bet but our society is very misunderstood and often has a negative stigma to addiction.
@beetlejuulz
@beetlejuulz 3 жыл бұрын
It is harder, however, when the root lies in your childhood. My friend has been raped by their father at a young age. Once they started discovering masturbation they used it as a way to relive stress and escape reality. So their brain learned that sex is a way to deal with stress and this learning process can't be undone that easily. They're almost 31 now and their sex addiction once got so worse they didn't want to live anymore. They have been living with this addiction for over 20 years now. I asked them if they wanted to go to therapy but they said they don't have any time atm. They're in 7 chat groups with other sex addicts but it doesn't work for them. They don't want to feel pain, they said that they just have to "deal with it" but I can clearly see them struggling because they get horny whenever they're stressed or for no reason at all. Any ideas?
@TypeKK
@TypeKK 3 жыл бұрын
I think they say deal with it means that they will just continue until it get worse so they didnt feel the pain Because if they stop they will just feel the ultimate pain I just stop and feel the pain for about 4 months
@skylarthompson299
@skylarthompson299 Жыл бұрын
@@TypeKK then therapy is the way?
@skylarthompson299
@skylarthompson299 Жыл бұрын
Maybe force them into therapy kicking and screaming idk
@sashazova273
@sashazova273 7 жыл бұрын
Yea what if you live with sex addict? Im codependent... have no idea how it all happened but it did.. it is hell
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Sacha. Every relationship that we have, teaches exactly something about ourselves. Being codependent means that the 'hell' that you are living in as you describe is your preferred distraction, rather than feeling your own unsolved pain and fears when you are alone without distraction. If you solve the root of your own fear and pain, than your live is going to change from 'hell' to 'heaven'. If you haven' t subscribed to my more in depth videos: www.alive-academy.com
@ranafaheem3346
@ranafaheem3346 7 жыл бұрын
Sasha Zova nothing wrong in it
@BGKO1992
@BGKO1992 3 жыл бұрын
U opend my eyes to one thing, in always jn search of something to reduce my pain 💔💔💔💔the problem is I dont know why i feel so painful.
@someoneimportant8439
@someoneimportant8439 2 жыл бұрын
Woah! That diagram was so insightful. It helped me to genuinely understand the plight of a sex addict. Thank you so much!
@lainienorris3931
@lainienorris3931 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you… the way u explained it blew my mind!! It makes so much sense not just about sex but everything that someone could be addicted to
@sheldonferdinand704
@sheldonferdinand704 3 жыл бұрын
This documentary hits the nail on the head for me
@asiyajarrar2082
@asiyajarrar2082 5 жыл бұрын
Why tf was i crying while listenning to him
@mateocortanage
@mateocortanage 4 жыл бұрын
The inner voice knows what you have to let go, but you don't want to. Perhaps it's too precious
@alvingoh8044
@alvingoh8044 3 жыл бұрын
Because he speaks the true and you feel it .
@jackybogues2495
@jackybogues2495 2 жыл бұрын
Can you share that stuff with a therapist and not in comments thanks
@thepirate9288
@thepirate9288 4 жыл бұрын
This single video helped me, i will watch the other videos. Thank you.
@BGKO1992
@BGKO1992 3 жыл бұрын
U opend my eyes to one thing, in always jn search of something to reduce my pain 💔💔💔💔
@Tweakkkkkk
@Tweakkkkkk 3 жыл бұрын
I have been practicing escapism with a lot of low level activities. Now is the time to address the underlying issue so my joy can be restored
@FemkjeMW
@FemkjeMW 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!! The guy i like has this problem and i really want him to see the way i do so i looked up sex addiction for possible help
@raphy1951
@raphy1951 5 жыл бұрын
I can't have ONE day with my bf watching Netflix or whatever because of sex. I believe we both have a sex addiction and everytime after we do it I feel terrible and ashamed
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for you radical honesty Sophie. To get more insight into the root cause, I have created 4 free videos that build upon this video at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process!
@jashwanthreddy7f490
@jashwanthreddy7f490 3 жыл бұрын
You have that problem I have another problem
@shubhamkamble2951
@shubhamkamble2951 3 жыл бұрын
@@jashwanthreddy7f490 what
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
@Sophie Bophie It's because s-x with someone you're not married to is a sin. Be grateful you have any shame; it could mean you still have a chance to repent. Contrary to what many churches teach, the Bible teaches God does NOT hold his hand out forever waiting for someone to repent. Repentance is usually difficult but always worth it--because repentance of sins means you get to go to Heaven to live with God and Jesus forever in total peace and joy.
@dinhoaragao1497
@dinhoaragao1497 3 жыл бұрын
My husband is the opposite 😩
@victoriake6395
@victoriake6395 Жыл бұрын
This is very true. Same content as in the Untethered Soul, any scientific (biological, physiological, psychological) and truly deeply spiritual explanation all point to this same truth. True freedom is available when we do the work at the root cause of the symptoms of any and all addiction. Thank you @alive academy for spreading truth in such a simple and accessible way.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 11 ай бұрын
You are welcome!
@jrbknyc8785
@jrbknyc8785 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve spent years pre occupied with trying to aquire sex. I’ve wasted money, sacrificed my finances and my integrity to fill the void. I’m 35 still no healthy relationships with women but tons of impulsive and sometimes unsafe sexual encounters . Also addicted to my phone, the internet, social media. I’m constantly distracted and when I’m not I’m constantly thinking living in fantasy land where I have the perfect life scenario . It’s brutal and it’s driving me to want to kill myself. The overwhelming urges for pleasure . The dopamine. I can’t take it. I feel so alone and so lost. Thank god I don’t have any substance vices. I don’t drink or do drugs but the dating apps the constant prowl for compulsive sexual encounters, the hours each day wasted on scrolling Facebook , the compulsive shopping it’s so bad
@JaeDaeDae
@JaeDaeDae Жыл бұрын
You aren't alone, I have been dealing with the same for so long and I am so tired of it. Just know you aren't alone in this and we can beat it.
@jrbknyc8785
@jrbknyc8785 Жыл бұрын
@@JaeDaeDae thanks man I appreciate it !
@borderlineenarcisisti6134
@borderlineenarcisisti6134 Жыл бұрын
I would like to speak to you …😩pls
@Dukesparrow1999
@Dukesparrow1999 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you alive, I've been suffering from a major porn addiction that almost cost me my life when I had intercourse with a prostitute when I was 18, I really thank you so much for this video as I am now starting my journey of both self-discovery and redemption. Thank you sir
@ashikanwar1780
@ashikanwar1780 4 жыл бұрын
May God guide you
@junegerber4028
@junegerber4028 4 жыл бұрын
The Bible says to RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU. Resist is a choice. You choose it. Then you choose it again - and again. The alternative is to hang a millstone around your neck and throw yourself into the sea because you are offending "little ones". Do you realize porn promotes sex trafficking which means the abduction of little girls all over the world. Your contribution causes these girls to become sex slaves in an industry that destroys them. If you had empathy - it would be easy for you to RESIST!
@cooldude5699
@cooldude5699 4 жыл бұрын
June Gerber men and women have different temptations and vulnerabilities.
@Dukesparrow1999
@Dukesparrow1999 4 жыл бұрын
@@junegerber4028 and Resist I did I'm doing better now and haven't watched porn in a long time. I feel the cycle has been broken
@junegerber4028
@junegerber4028 4 жыл бұрын
@@Dukesparrow1999 This video may help you see the victims porn is exploiting as real people. It is evil!! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ps-bqaeT0ZmVo4k.html Stay strong. Seek Jesus Christ as He is our only hope.
@mallelobe2285
@mallelobe2285 3 жыл бұрын
This has made me to overcome my fears
@alsadigibrahim2947
@alsadigibrahim2947 3 жыл бұрын
Really sexual addiction is one of the things that roll up my mind
@iimx4270
@iimx4270 3 жыл бұрын
Omg same 😣
@mehavarunanselvakrishnan4538
@mehavarunanselvakrishnan4538 6 жыл бұрын
Am not addicted and i didnt done those kind of things in my life but still i don't want the feeling. I dont want to see a girl in my life.. help me..
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 6 жыл бұрын
You can watch the 4 free theoretical videos at: www.alive-academy.com, enjoy your liberation process!
@gopalsagrolikar21
@gopalsagrolikar21 5 жыл бұрын
Sex
@thangtinhenhaokip3103
@thangtinhenhaokip3103 5 жыл бұрын
Brother you have to read more about Bible
@waleedaslam445
@waleedaslam445 5 жыл бұрын
How lucky u r
@wenchesterwenchester7028
@wenchesterwenchester7028 7 жыл бұрын
I am a sex addict...i tried to stop...i will try find the cause of this. To prevent those symptomps..
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 7 жыл бұрын
If you need any help with making it even more clear & visible, don't hesitate to watch the 3 free videos on my website: www.alive-academy.com
@scorpian6013
@scorpian6013 5 жыл бұрын
+Alive Academy At 58 , I have one hour sexual intercourse with my 20 years younger woman, daily. Am I addicted ?
@RDSquash
@RDSquash Жыл бұрын
I don't often comment on the videos I find on KZfaq. But this is amazing. Thank you so much
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 11 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@nononsensetaken
@nononsensetaken 4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant and straight to the point, pretty surprised to find the correct direction. How can I correlate this video with the scriptures of the Bible
@louisparfitt7864
@louisparfitt7864 5 жыл бұрын
I struggle so much, everyday..... its really hard. Feels like an uncontrollable urge to f***. Its an addiction like no other... you are addicted to the human body. Not like a drug where you take it out of your world.... people are everywhere. Very upsetting tbh. :/
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
I understand Louis, but once you solve the root cause of the urge for distraction, the addiction will be flushed out together with it. Check my 4 free additional videos that build upon this video to get more insight in the actual root cause at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation of struggle!
@louisparfitt7864
@louisparfitt7864 5 жыл бұрын
@M B thank you. I do call out to God. He helps me when I'm struggling. Thank you for your kind words. I am stronger than this evil.
@gooodboxer
@gooodboxer 5 жыл бұрын
Chop them balls off bro
@brandonwombacher2559
@brandonwombacher2559 5 жыл бұрын
Your Not Alone. I Feel It From Time To Time
@junegerber4028
@junegerber4028 4 жыл бұрын
The Bible says to RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU. Resist is a choice. You choose it. Then you choose it again - and again. The alternative is to hang a millstone around your neck and throw yourself into the sea because you are offending "little ones". Do you realize porn promotes sex trafficking which means the abduction of little girls all over the world. Your contribution causes these girls to become sex slaves in an industry that destroys them. If you had empathy - it would be easy for you to RESIST!
@jackyt3404
@jackyt3404 5 жыл бұрын
What if your root is a chronic illness you cant change? Then the manifestations are actually realistic responses to stimuli which is painful. Nice convoluted ramblings though
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
If the root cause is a chronic illness, I suggest you watch this video: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qL1_ideFx7KsoKM.html
@rufuswaiba8337
@rufuswaiba8337 5 жыл бұрын
I wonder why i am doing so many things art skate music and many thing always going back and forth and i wonder why but now i know i was limiting myself cause i am scared thank a lot brother... God bless you...
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
You are welcome!
@FreeFlow__
@FreeFlow__ 4 жыл бұрын
It all comes down to pathless path of surrender. To shine the light of awareness on those uncomfortable feelings and establish oneself as pure awareness again. Beautiful video
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed, once we flush out all unsolved issues once and for all, only complete and independent fulfilment is left to be experienced. If interested, I suggest you to watch the 4 free videos which build upon this video to get a crystal clear insight in direction of true liberation, together with the practical tool to get past any kind of fear @ www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process!
@FreeFlow__
@FreeFlow__ 4 жыл бұрын
Alive Academy thanks but I am already free
@nmchugh1
@nmchugh1 6 жыл бұрын
Treat it like everything else, too much of one thing can have a negative effect. Too much alcohol, drugs fatty foods etc. At least we have had that experience that no one talks about but you'd be surprised how many men have tried it. It's better than being a lonely virgin or sexual predator! Also think of the girls, I'm sure it's not the job they really wanted once they left school and they don't brag about it to their friends and family! Try and filter it, knowing you can go anytime you like and before you know it you have not been for six months or so? It's the oldest job in the world and boys and girls just want to help each other out in this thing we call life!. I live close to a city where it's easy to access the service but if I lived 200 miles away I'd be stuffed! Control and discipline is what you need and don't see it as a problem after all as men were just helping those girls going through their degree course and they are helping us destress! lol!
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe it would be okay if God didn't clearly indicate in the Bible that s-x with someone you're not married to is a sin.
@familyguy4724
@familyguy4724 3 жыл бұрын
Your not supporting their education your supporting their pimps and possibly supporting a drug addiction
@bxstar5276
@bxstar5276 3 жыл бұрын
@@dianag2426 shaming people with your religion doesn’t help
@justintime1078
@justintime1078 3 жыл бұрын
That cycle sounds like the way the addiction progresses through time..
@shhh2955
@shhh2955 4 жыл бұрын
My family hated me for a long time because of my” problem” I don’t think people know how much this effects people. I figured out this all stems from my want for true love. I hope everyone finds help.
@maryjones293
@maryjones293 4 жыл бұрын
Am really heart broken searching for a true lover who is willing to take care of me
@tom4412
@tom4412 4 жыл бұрын
mary jones what’s broken your heart
@theservantsofthesoul1606
@theservantsofthesoul1606 2 жыл бұрын
My band and I professionally produced a brand new song in Chicago that we posted today on KZfaq that sheds light on betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. Please click on the sleeping tiger to the left and it will take you right to the song. Thank you for listening, if you do.
@christophersynnott7967
@christophersynnott7967 3 жыл бұрын
I love this man. Thank you
@benuchida5851
@benuchida5851 4 жыл бұрын
How could I be addicted to somthing I’ve never had
@benuchida5851
@benuchida5851 3 жыл бұрын
@@ShiroUsagiArt k there bud you do didnt have to agree
@rajashekaraihamb5529
@rajashekaraihamb5529 3 жыл бұрын
You are really great you changed my mind. Thanks a lot
@brandondavis7525
@brandondavis7525 7 жыл бұрын
I need help
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Brandon, check my 3 free videos that will give you clarity and help you to overcome the root of the problem together with all its symptoms: www.alive-academy.com
@cross96
@cross96 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@sreenivasanvenketesh9654
@sreenivasanvenketesh9654 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@maryjones293
@maryjones293 4 жыл бұрын
Feeling lonely without a guy
@shutupidiot16yearsago79
@shutupidiot16yearsago79 4 жыл бұрын
@@maryjones293why do you feel lonely without a guy?learn to enjoy being alone instead of feeling lonely?
@bonitamorlang1073
@bonitamorlang1073 Жыл бұрын
I believe that mine stemmed from child sexual trauma. I was triggered as an adult after I felt betrayed by my husband (nothing to do w cheating). Its been a big problem for almost 20 yrs now. Im going for total abstinence from anything sexual. My thoughts keep going to sex but I talk myself down. It hasn't even been a week since I decided. I heard something about not being able to FEEL due to a sex addiction as in not being able to really connect to others. I feel that to be true for myself.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 10 ай бұрын
If this video resonated with you, I invite to you watch the free video series here alive-academy.com/ 🍀💎🙏 They might provide you with the insights you are looking for.
@kingmaker3343
@kingmaker3343 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah ..im too hurt..maybe this can stop me for a while..im a very good hearted hero except this thing.👍
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
Once we solve the root cause it doesn't stop for a while, but once and for all, because there won't be any 'need' anymore to look for relieve in distractions like sex. Check out the 4 free theoretical videos at: www.alive-academy.com if you are interested in solving the very root of the symptom.
@ruslannikiforov7801
@ruslannikiforov7801 4 жыл бұрын
S.O.S! Save us!! Save our souls!!! Thanks a lot.... It's Great!!!!!
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your appreciation. When you need more help and clarity along your liberation process, make sure to check my 4 free videos @ www.alive-academy.com
@visionarybrushstroker7694
@visionarybrushstroker7694 2 жыл бұрын
Dude got the perfect jawline
@saviorodrigues282
@saviorodrigues282 5 жыл бұрын
How to solve the root pain and fear .wht kind of the pain is it
@CarlosBanderas1
@CarlosBanderas1 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you this video helped me a lot
@wheretonext1158
@wheretonext1158 2 жыл бұрын
Tom I have an insight I saw this white circle ⚪️ and I said “Oh yeaaah compassion is spiritual” the circle represented a feeling which was covered up , do u recognize this
@mallelobe2285
@mallelobe2285 3 жыл бұрын
Now,i know to cure my self.
@mojok7070
@mojok7070 5 жыл бұрын
I've been addicted to sex for so many years. I married my ex teacher because of the amount of sex we was having. I've tried to get help and other ways but it's too hard. My wife makes me more addicted every time. I got easily seduced by curvy women. I even had kids with my wife just because the moment was too good. Now we have four kids within three years.
@rubberepileptic9833
@rubberepileptic9833 3 жыл бұрын
what if my fear is a traumatic experience that i am scared of occurring again?
@sudeshpawar123
@sudeshpawar123 5 жыл бұрын
You just nailed it !
@ufonut1593
@ufonut1593 5 жыл бұрын
Funny lol
@tyravanleer7521
@tyravanleer7521 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot relate....but I can empathize with people....who are trying to recover and/or heal themselves. I'm trying not to judge....but this whole issue TRIGGERS ME! I'm dealing with my own problems....no one is perfect.....so people must fix themselves. Money, 💰 , Power 🔋, fleshly desires and,/ or an Man -nor a Woman.....will heal you. Use this diagram.....to help heal yourself I'll be 🙏praying for you. Stay Encouraged, TV
@LevMiyako
@LevMiyako 4 жыл бұрын
I am one of the Jehovah's Witnesses and I came here because the information I turned to in my religion didn't give me the information I really needed to help my issue, I am very disappointed with myself I must say and disappointed enough to the point where I don't believe that I can call myself a Witness right now (Even though I am still not baptized or an unbaptized publisher). It has become a big problem for me so I came here, as a teenager I can say this is quite tough to handle, knowing that if everyone else knew about this I would loose a ton of friends most likely, but mostly all their trust and faith they put into me...
@junegerber4028
@junegerber4028 4 жыл бұрын
Haley - you must get out of Jehovah's Witnesses cult. It is not the true "church" Jesus established. Please listen to me. God's Word (KJV Bible) is your guidebook and simply ask God to give you His Holy Spirit to discern truth. About sex addiction: Resist the Devil and he will flee from you. That is God's promise in His Word. But you must resist!!
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
Fast (no eating or drinking except for water--could take two months, two days, or anything in between basically) and pray, read the Bible daily, and deny yourself when temptation comes even if you want to do something so badly you cry like a little girl--don't give in (thinking of how doing so is for a greater end which is going to live in Heaven forever with Jesus and God). If you try all those things DILIGENTLY and still have a problem, you could skype someone like Chris LaSala of BDS to cast out demon(s) driving you to do that; BUT, do NOT seek deliverance from demons unless you're truly ready to not do that sin anymore; because if you fall to that sin again, the demons can come back seven times worse, and then who knows if one can ever be freed of a sin if that keeps happening. Chris does skype counseling, too, or email. Also, I don't know if masturb-tion is one of your problems, but maybe it will help you avoid that sin to know that you're probably having s-x with demons when you do that.
@rizaslifestyle5824
@rizaslifestyle5824 3 жыл бұрын
My ex bf too.. He open only now about his sex addiction. So i need to help him now.. I didnt know before when we are 2gther that he is sex addiction. Its crzy now he told me. But I need to accpt even its pain an he hurt my feelings
@purehustler1536
@purehustler1536 3 жыл бұрын
Man, why the hell did you draw the brain like that? Oops that sounds like a sex addict speaking Anyway, good stuff! Thanks for the video!
@throwthejavelin368
@throwthejavelin368 4 жыл бұрын
This is pretty hard to understand. I want to get rid of this!
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
Fast, pray and read the Bible.
@maximpark
@maximpark 4 жыл бұрын
But no idea to stop sex urge
@mallelobe2285
@mallelobe2285 3 жыл бұрын
The eyes make a person lust for Another person
@cash_is_king7774
@cash_is_king7774 2 жыл бұрын
It’s the fucking eyes
@Lott0Jay
@Lott0Jay 5 жыл бұрын
Very informative
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jay, I'm glad you receive it that way!
@TonyMontana-mx6bb
@TonyMontana-mx6bb 5 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow mgtow brother ✊
@nippyreigne
@nippyreigne 4 жыл бұрын
I need this 😢
@geoffreykamau1313
@geoffreykamau1313 6 жыл бұрын
Mae galfriend left me without a reason I really got hrtbroken nd was unable to take it I started watching lesbian relationship just to get maeslf distracted so tat I won't think abt her nd am really addicted please help me
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 6 жыл бұрын
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@BradleyCoopertest
@BradleyCoopertest 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly what started it for me
@szililolabu
@szililolabu 5 жыл бұрын
also add in working out, sleeping well, eating well
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
Fast, pray and read the Bible. Also, fasting suppresses libido.
@emilyraley4268
@emilyraley4268 5 жыл бұрын
I want to stop this behavior but I don't know exactly what my fears are
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Emily, I have 4 more videos that build upon this video that will give you the insight in the root cause of your fears at: www.alive-academy.com Enjoy your liberation process!
@scorpian6013
@scorpian6013 5 жыл бұрын
At 58 and lonely , sex with the same young woman one hour daily is the best recreation as well as exercise. I don't think its addiction.
@zzydane681
@zzydane681 4 жыл бұрын
Observe your sexual fantasies...
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
And fast, pray and read the KJV Bible.
@enktoonz
@enktoonz 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much.
@gezzelpalbacal2403
@gezzelpalbacal2403 2 жыл бұрын
How will i resolve the pain that was due to past bad thing that happenned?..how?how to resolve it without going thru it?😭
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 2 жыл бұрын
There is actually a way to flush out all unsolved trauma once and for all without having to re-live it. I suggest you to watch my 4 free video, among which proof you can too @ www.alive-academy.com 😊❤️💎🙏🍀 Enjoy your complete liberation process of the untouched and unharmed blank slate you actually are.
@silviuandreiiacoban3962
@silviuandreiiacoban3962 3 жыл бұрын
this video is on point
@thespectrum9657
@thespectrum9657 6 жыл бұрын
So basically feel fulfilled and we get away from it?
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 6 жыл бұрын
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@khizar9959
@khizar9959 4 жыл бұрын
What if the root cause or pain in boredom?
@miminana205
@miminana205 6 жыл бұрын
how do you solve pain? what does that look like? confronting yourself with them?
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Mimi, If you want to know the theory how to solve the root of all pain, check my 4 free videos at: www.alive-academy.com
@joseafalvel
@joseafalvel 5 жыл бұрын
has anyone problems with prostitutes addiction?? I need some help, I'm a very introvert guy so that my relantionships with women are not quite good specially with the ones I'm attracted to, that's the main reason I'm dealing with depression, being rejected by girls constantly led me to resort to prostitutes and since 4 years ago I pay for sex at least four times a year and I want to stop now !! I feel pathetic. I want to keep my money in my pocket and to stop thinking about sex all the time. I want to feel confident enough to cope better with female rejection.
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
Fast, pray and read the Bible. Also, fasting suppresses libido.
@mariebelle3493
@mariebelle3493 3 жыл бұрын
Since I started having sexe at a young age leaving with my elderly grand parents I had no connection with vaginal sexe cause I really thought I would stay virgin !! So all my life I was detached from the importance of it and thought as long that it wasn't vaginal it was ok!! Having to explained that is a traumatic experience and I had failed relationship because of it!!
@henry8558
@henry8558 4 жыл бұрын
Well I search this up.
@longonthomas
@longonthomas 6 жыл бұрын
So true!
@hardlines4
@hardlines4 7 жыл бұрын
This makes sense, now how to solve this once and for all??!!
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 7 жыл бұрын
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@michaellawrence1978
@michaellawrence1978 6 жыл бұрын
He doesn't actually say how, he just lays out the problem. Google "SAA Primary Purpose" (sex addicts anonymous primary purpose) -- specifically that group, not anything or anywhere else. They've found the solution and have been helping me significantly. They host tons of telemeetings.
@reidpattis9478
@reidpattis9478 6 жыл бұрын
At 1:40, I was expecting a jumpscare. Been watching way too many horror movies.
@starkiez100
@starkiez100 5 жыл бұрын
Not sure if anyone else has notice that all his videos are the same...
@kayebarker8556
@kayebarker8556 Жыл бұрын
I haven’t been addicted to sex, I have had other addictions
@Fallenwings_
@Fallenwings_ 3 жыл бұрын
I totally need mental help i hope God forgives me when I get my mind off it forever
@iimx4270
@iimx4270 3 жыл бұрын
Same 😔 but God won't forgive?.. I think-😭😭
@iimx4270
@iimx4270 3 жыл бұрын
@unVivo ohhh okay ! Thank you so much!
@iimx4270
@iimx4270 3 жыл бұрын
@unVivo aww yes tysmmm!!! 🥺💖
@kobevandeputte1622
@kobevandeputte1622 3 жыл бұрын
@@iimx4270 god will forgive over and over. At least if you believe in Jesus
@MattB8030
@MattB8030 3 жыл бұрын
Never give up...God bless you
@BreakFreeAddiction
@BreakFreeAddiction 7 жыл бұрын
Good one.
@TheSaboorAnsari
@TheSaboorAnsari 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I wana know how?
@cianahorton
@cianahorton 5 жыл бұрын
I know I have a problem but get so anxious just thinking of trying to stop. I can't have what I want ever.... what do you do then?
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
I suggest you to watch the 4 free videos that build upon this video at: www.alive-academy.com
@dianag2426
@dianag2426 3 жыл бұрын
Fast, pray, and read the Bible.
@josiethai5733
@josiethai5733 5 жыл бұрын
TY for sharing this.
@alive-academy
@alive-academy 5 жыл бұрын
You are welcome Josie!
@crossbladesak9013
@crossbladesak9013 4 жыл бұрын
Hi
@raise707
@raise707 6 жыл бұрын
amazing solution . absolute formulae to ease life
@AS-jd9ye
@AS-jd9ye 5 жыл бұрын
Where’s are the other 4 videos you mention
@thatonedude.3471
@thatonedude.3471 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
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