Yes she is a very smart woman on many levels, she was smart enough to respect his wishes to maintain his privacy 👍 , a lot of famous men and women just want a show pony on their arms at awards night, not a real living mutually respectful relationship 🤷‍♀️

I would also like to admit my partner leads. That's what I see as masculinity and that is rare these days.

She can say anything she wants and we have no way to verify it but looking on the outside. The way she flashes her body about, you can be SURE she is the boss. Psychology tells.

No. You adopted a son that you DID choose. Probably BECAUSE he can’t/wont challenge you for control. The problem is that you eventually lose attraction to, and respect for YOUR choice. The real issue is that many of you want the power that comes with leadership, but none of the responsibilities that come with. You want him to give up the power… but keep the responsibility. That is crazy-making and paralyzing. Trying to be responsible for something or someone you have no authority over. Trying to lead someone who only follows when she feels like it…

Agree 100% ,

meh.... nobody is equally yoked

@@TheMightyWalk You don't even know the meaning of the phrase, but that didn't prevent you from speaking up

@@kuramobay2445 - as i said.... nobody is equally yoked. Even if you are both christians you sin different and there is absolutely no way two people are raised the same.... shit even twins show difference

@@TheMightyWalkYou don't understand the meaning of the phrase. Use your dictionary or try Google.

@@kuramobay2445 you just said it above and on top of that its a blanket phrase. as i said... NOBODY is equally yoked. which is why its garbage advice. if it was this simple you wouldnt be watching sadia

Not sure if true but another relationship site claimed she has been married a couple of times and is currently a single mum. They were also disputing her advice to men.

@@damo5701 good on her for divorcing if it doesn't work. I just hope she learned the lesson and stops marrying altogether!

Looks have nothing to do with what she says. If that distracts you, then the problem is YOU. Someone's looks doesn't make them an expert.

I am unatractive ordinary woman and I like to click on her videos, listen her humble opinions with open mind....maybe because all my female and male cousins have very open personaliy humble attitude, smilling and smart personality, soe are religious, ...so I see such qualities in others online. and i am glad some people also with beauty create some balance in society with their mindset, thereforE i feel happy for their ability to share it....because it makes the world better and less confused. tv shows are polarizing people´s mindset, so we assume everybody thinks the same.

You left out the obvious prerequisite... physical attraction

You also forgot to include if a woman is suffering from previous unresolved trauma she's not in a position to submit.

Backwards. You cannot protect what you have no authority over. Which is why this whole notion of “conditional submission” doesn’t work. All a man can do is demonstrate that he’s trustworthy and consistent…and some of you are so broken that you actually find signs of sound character to be a turn-off. IOW, I can’t protect you if you won’t LISTEN…or you refuse to trust my judgment. Most of you under 30 can’t do that because you are simply too self-absorbed to be in a healthy relationship and cooperate with anyone.

Yeah well ppl with sexual or any trauma might need a good relationship to become better.

@@britt6084not without professional help

Bullshit I have been happy all my life, never abused never mistreated etc and i don t want any body because i Fell complete and happy with myself....

If you can't love yourself you cannot love other's period love yours

Agree

Most people have extremely limited choices and have to make major compromises, particularly on physical attraction

If you listen to Sadia, she says you must compromise on the type of people that are attracted to you. If you are going after someone and they are doing certain things, you picked wrong. Most people over estimate their looks.@@yourlogicalnightmare1014

Appreciated

You are being manipulated, she doing the same thing Derek Jackson did women but to men,she say what you want to hear not reality

@@LordDoma-jg6og What is reality to you?

@@fatherlucid4995 everyone knows what reality is, (deep down inside) they know what they can do and what they can't, (limits ,potential,skill ,genetics etc) .delusion is dangerous, that what sadia and Derek Jackson sell/spread

Glad you enjoyed it more is coming from this one

Thank you! Will do!

I’m curious if the entire 30 years was all bad?

@@1BlkBarbie1 It was not all bad but it was all difficult

How did you manage to stay that long? She will miss you, just wait.

If she wants you back and wants to reasonably restore your marriage: consider having pity on her for your both's sake and the sake of potential past and or future kids and or society.

Certainly not many you would be attracted to

if i do everything to have a sex with normal women, am i crazy and she may cheat on me because i forgot to do somethig , all is bs women must low their expectation from men

Something in her voice that makes it easy to listen to her

If you have found that men want control over you then you need to examine that.

And it's worse when they had father figures who were abusive. They suffer from misandry. It's sad.

@@jackthere I agree that having an abusive father is worse than having no father growing up.

It can be a tough world, stay strong. Seek greatness within yourself.

She wasn't the love of your life if she left you

Who?

@@SkywalkerPaul Dr. Khan

@@alexfafoutakis She's not a doctor

🤣😂

She probably wouldn’t have the best advice for this, but what I have to say is that you need to take direct concrete actions to stop being so introverted and closed off. A great piece of advice I received is that you need to actively initiate with people more often, every day if possible. It doesn’t have to be anything big or monumental, but you can just drop a complement on somebody and basically walk away. But if you do it, repeatedly, eventually, that will become part of who you are, and although you will still be an introvert by nature, in some sense you will have changed your personality.

Great places to meet good women include volunteer opportunities, church, hobby groups. The club and bars are not a good idea if you want a high quality woman.

​@@jessiesheldon-huffey1824 High quality and physically attractive rarely go together

Very sad but y don't u go for ugly or less attractive woman

@@deepakds4142 That's what I have always done, like women my size that weighed over 50 pounds more, etc. I have literally gone for women considered 3s. To high standards has never been a problem. I was even in a match making institute (which was a thing in my 30s), where I got 0 interested women during 1 year.

INDEED. It's IN, the "vows..." (And for good reason!)

@@williamtiffee3799 Even without marriage too. I wealthy so no need for my gf to work. And so I SAVED HER FROM THE NEED TO BE A WORKER SLAVE in life. You know...solved the ULTIMATE problem for her....and so we had an agreement. She gets breakfast lunch and dinner ready and respects me "upward" (not egalitarian respect...but respect like her father gets....he listens, but his word is final). She just absolutely failed to do it. Shes a poor Vietnamese girl living in a 150 USD per month CONCRETE ROOM. So, logically she should take the deal and do well in life. But noooooooo....she wanted to yell at me? Raise her voice at me? Attack me with crasse language? Man....she had so much going for her bro...and when I release this new product to the global hotel marketing industry, we MAY (a BIG may) end up living the billionaire lifestyle. Like...for real....not millionaire like now. And she had it all...all she had to do was keep her ego in check and do what she's told. To hold up to get end of the bargain. Instead, even I love her dearly....she is again living in a rat hole with concrete floors. well...floor. It's just one room. And she has nobody to blame but herself. Of course, she blames me somehow....but every single conflict we had was due to get overstepping her boundaries. Not following the agreements we have.

Codependence or independence are two extremes, interdependence is key to a better life imo.

So true. I have girlfriends who continuously cheat on their husbands & w no remorse whatsoever!!

​@@Love2Love927when you are emotionally solipsistic, you are by default ammoral

Yes.

Yes the rest will be uploaded in a day

Nope there are universal characteristics that make us trustworthy

They all are