You might have saved my life. Thank you forever.

I live in America and there is little to no help for women who go through this kind of abuse. The police will not arrest your partner for domestic violence if you don't have outward signs of physical harm. when my husband left me he made sure that I was on none of the accounts or our house. I had no money for a lawyer. he even talked the mobile home park manager into taking me off the lease to my home, so I became homeless. my lawyer didn't help me except to take $9,000 from my family, and I'm trying to pay that bill. I felt like I was abused by the system after I was mentally raped by the man who had promised to love me. he even sent other men into my life to mess my mind up more. Misogyny is the root of all evil in my opinion I am older and so broken I have to couch surf because I cannot function anymore

It's important to note an important abuse (child and domestic) that falls under coercive controlling behaviour and that is blocking a living parent and their child from connecting and parental alienation. PIease do a separate video on this showing the patterns and impact and how it denigrate, destroys reputation and livelihood, mental health and loving family relationship with the child and parent and often the whole family in that parents side.

This is so helpful...i just realized that i am already a victim of this coercive and controlling abuse... thank u for having this video..

Thank you so much...am just an awakened 63 year old...just sharing this video will explain to my family from hell😓😓😓

This is unbelievable My wife did EXACYLY many of these to me, I didn't realize this was an issue, in the end I had to leave thinking I wasn't good enough for her. Then she threatened me with going to the authorities saying claiming to be the victim unless I paid money

For 20 years of marriage. My ex lived off me on my low income, let along giving me any allowance. Does it account as domestic Abuse? I feel I was his slave, at home, I did 90 % chores, at the same time I have to go out to earn money to keep the roof on our head. Then he could do his piano, art and games at home. When my son was 7, he said he wanted to be like his dad when he grew up, the. He can do anything he wants at home. Now he is 16, he changed his mind that he wants to study a subject at university which can guarantee him a job when he graduate. I think he understands that in order to have security in life, it is important to have a job, but not staying at home.

Thank you .

These are overt signs. Covert signs of coercion would have been more helpful

I am married to a narcissistic controlling person, April last year I lost my fight, but glad to say I made it through I threw him out and I have so much help moving forward, There are alot more things involved, that he put me though but this really helped me thankyou what's the app you talk about ?

I was in a relationship like this was gonna get married

Your video is very helpful. Thank you.

I'm glad I seen this video because thw people who was harassing me in my last relationship some of these people was even family members I want nothing to do with. They messed with my health so bad with the harassment that I was triggered my mental health was that I was sleep deprivated I lost alot of jobs and was being called a hoe and a bitch and was even told that if I left that they would get my address. I left any and these people are still harassing me. I have lost alot of jobs as well. When I got into trouble because I got so stressed that I tried to kill myself behind all the street they caused me I went to jail I'm court I had no proof of these people was doing this the cop on the scene took a sobriety test and told me straight to my face that I was showing no signs of drug use and she could tell I was dealing or shall I say she said, "Fighting another battle that had nothing to do with drug use or drinking this was the cause of all the harassment. I know if this police officer was brought into court she would tell you the same thing. After I went to jail these people still harassed me about my ex and did other things as well. I had no one to really turn to. I need some justice to be brought to these people and when I was searching on my phone for a a place to go because what they was doing to me was effecting my recovery they then hacked my phone and tried to make it appear that Dallas tx where my ex lives was the place I should move. But I knew that moving anywhere with my ex would not help me heal and these people was always harassing me about sex that I didn't want to have with my ex I was so depressed. When I did have sex with him afternoon all that I was just being harassed and I still have sickness to my stomach and flash backs from what they did to me. It effected my health and still does somewhat have an effect on me still one because the people behind this is still messing with me. Sometimes I go around other people some times I don't want to go around no one at all. These people have tried to say that it's my mental health when it really the results of everything they have done to me. I went through a stage of suicide attempts because of them and trying to stay strong and not have thoughts of wanting to die behind the mental, emotional and phycological abuse that they caused me and did and have been doing to me. I heard a judge tell another person in a court case that that kind of of abuse is mental and phycological violence that causes serious effect on a person mentally. Something needs to be done because of what they've done. I want nothing to do with them. I mean it with all my heart.

Surprised you don't have many comments on this

thank you lovley lady

Yes

Hi, I really could use some help. My ex has sabotaged my life since my pregnancy...this was 8 years ago. I have removed myself and son from this horrible situation but he is still using some tactics mentioned. I would appreciate any advice.

What do you do if you know this is happening to someone you know but there to scared to say anything to anyone themselves

Does it mean unreasonable requests too?

So the app is called "on record"?

Enough, you are getting abused then go, just leave, for a woman it is easy.