Find out more in our full article on this topic: www.scienceofpeople.com/male-body-language/
@richdog4907 жыл бұрын
This wasn't actually about male body language; it was about males' interpretations of female body language.
@RohinaBrinsdon2 жыл бұрын
Word
@Poetry4Peace2 жыл бұрын
@@RohinaBrinsdon true..
@tommac213 ай бұрын
No its all about absolutely nothing !!
@mikeroshaft35677 жыл бұрын
ok men don't necessarily miss courtship signals, they just have trouble determining if the signals are genuine or not
@jhonjohnjonjondoe50116 жыл бұрын
very true. We get in our heads too much and think maybe it wasn't what we thought it was.
@steveniavarone36836 жыл бұрын
Exactly Mike!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Many women give off timid signals...very timid...and we are supposed to read their minds!???
@wendeln925 жыл бұрын
mike roshaft said: "ok men don't necessarily miss courtship signals, they just have trouble determining if the signals are genuine or not" - Exactly what I was going to say. Many women - and especially married women - like to test their attractiveness on a regular basis. First, some of us cannot tell if they are genuinely interested or just playing. Second some men don't care and just go for it Some of us might want to see if it is genuine interest, but are not really interested in her, OR we think we might be interested, but then start wondering what kind of nut-case we are going to have to deal with.
@gerrie7204 жыл бұрын
wendeln92 Same with women, we want to know which head is being used. Are you looking for a bimbo or a woman with a heart and brains. Never could stomach the game.
@draco891232 жыл бұрын
Yea, touching your hair, smiling, laughing sometimes, and looking at you aren't exactly committal anything.
@1GUNJAM18 жыл бұрын
she did not talk about the male body language at all only about femal body language.
@leosabat46364 жыл бұрын
man are simple. as a women a men talking to you can only be horny , scare, or socializing to for the fun o bit. in 1 to 1 scenarios
@barbaraschroeder15923 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I wanted to know how to detect a lying man!
@NOYBZ3 жыл бұрын
@@barbaraschroeder1592 😂😂😂
@saudade50186 жыл бұрын
You can see her intelligence through her humor and the way she's speaking... amazing girl
@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, when I want to attract the ladies, I just put on a really nice pair of speedos and go to the supermarket and shop for produce. I used to be to shy to wear my speedos shopping, but now, thanks to all your great videos, I can finally wear them with bold confidence. Thanks Vanessa for changing my life.
@angelus_solus4 жыл бұрын
I laughed way more to this than I should have.
@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS4 жыл бұрын
@@angelus_solus As Vanessa's videos have taught me, if shopping in speedos is wrong, well then, I certainly don't want to be right. Thanks so much for the support. Keep rocking!
@athar7861003 жыл бұрын
Make sure you let us know which store and what time u will be there in your speedos. I will do my damndest to make sure I am no where near. Lol
@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS3 жыл бұрын
@@athar786100 I don't like to brag but people in store's consider me to be a pretty big deal.
@indy18286 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂😂
@hannahdavidson69356 жыл бұрын
For me it's not the butt. I notice more the jaw bone and chest/arm/shoulder muscles.
@jhonjohnjonjondoe50116 жыл бұрын
I think all women notice the chest back and shoulders the most. Those are the traits when displayed correctly will display a Alpha male is in front of them. It is what the animal kingdom has always noticed in any male who knows how to display that trait and shows when a mans interested in a girl. Normally i believe that the female will mirror his actions if she is interested and if he notices it will drive him crazy inside and naturally the flirty courtship will happen.
@markl.22996 жыл бұрын
You haven’t seen my butt 😏😬
@deepadcruz64835 жыл бұрын
Wide Shoulders 😍
@Xegethra5 жыл бұрын
I do that with girls, the neck, the arms, shoulders and the waist are the most attractive places for me. But yeah, on the face, the jawline is another that I always look at, plus the nose.
@moonlight98834 жыл бұрын
For me is how tall they are and their smell.
@MorseCodeStutters8 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on decoding male body language?
@PublishWithEmissary5 жыл бұрын
It’s usually pretty simple. We gawk a lot. 😆 I can tell you what I do when a woman signals interest. I’ll usually straighten up my back, speak less, make wittier comments when I do, half-smile, and check back regularly to watch for more eye contact.
@PrinceH71445 жыл бұрын
No she can’t because men aren’t that complicated like that. if we are interested we will make it known by asking you out. Simple
@Dharmicaction4 жыл бұрын
@@PrinceH7144 not all men ask women out despite being interested
@thelonelycat27644 жыл бұрын
@@Dharmicaction true
@TheColaGoodfellow9 жыл бұрын
You have to beware judging people by body language, not everyone is the same.
@mickyhouse87538 жыл бұрын
+TheColaGoodfellow thats bullshit, ik someone who is working with the government and they tell me that 90% of the time humans indicate those same body language
@TheColaGoodfellow8 жыл бұрын
Micky House But that 10% who don't are real people, if you don't seriously consider those people you will end up persecuting innocent people.
@Upper_echelon_exotics6 жыл бұрын
I know. I cross my arms all the time and it's not because I am uncomfortable or want to seem unapproachable. Sometimes when I am just standing around talking it is just comfortable to cross my arms. I guess subconsciously I am probably a little uncomfortable because I AM a little bit introverted and when I try to change it I don't know what to do with my arms. Then I start to feel akward. Lol.
@imakefoodhappen8 жыл бұрын
I don't get the butt thing. I've been a woman for quite some time. Never looked at a guy's butt.
@marinadoshkevich48638 жыл бұрын
+imakefoodhappen HUH? I definitely look at a man's ass. The legs and butt are of first importance. Also, height. If a guy is short, I am NOT interetsted, I don't care what they look like. Never understood why guys work out their arms when it just makes them look out of proportion. Like a big upper body on teeny little legs. YUK.
@imakefoodhappen8 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's just me then. I also like short guys...
@theboltthrower86618 жыл бұрын
+imakefoodhappen Just out of curiosity.. How tall are you? And about the butt thing, well... most women in the streets and clubs get in love with my face, then they check me out for my body as im a builded man... but it´s not that one is always walking around like some fuckin baywatch or whatever, so i would say you women love pretty faces and of course, STYLE!!!
@imakefoodhappen8 жыл бұрын
The Bolt Thrower Around 170cm.
@imakefoodhappen8 жыл бұрын
+The Bolt Thrower Yeah, i think it's mostly the face. I'm not usually attracted to skinny guys, most i like seem to be bigger, chubby men, but skinny wouldn't be a deal breaker either. I just don't care much about body type.
@ElCangri13710 жыл бұрын
Guys aren't dumb, they're insecure. There's a difference.
@atlas37325 жыл бұрын
Or not interested or focused on making money.
@kool42094 жыл бұрын
it has nothing to do with insecurity, men are told daily that women are interested and theyre just being nice and yet the two are severely similar to women. A woman will be extra nice when interested in a guy and will be nice to avoid being a bitch to ones she finds ugly. This causes many problems because it leads guys to think shes just being hard to get and causes him to chase harder and it causes guys shes interested in to ignore them because theyre not direct enough.
@angelus_solus4 жыл бұрын
I have to agree.
@seungminwhatisyourproblem9 ай бұрын
Guys are both dumb and insecure.
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
My male body language says, "Get away from me. Do not talk to me. "
@valberlin92394 жыл бұрын
1) Talking to woman. 2) Woman gives me clear signals. 3) I make a move. 4) Woman slaps me, and call Police. 5) The end. #Metoo
@Pixels_and_Points8 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, can you please post one on the subject this claims to be about? Maybe as one of your individual videos, which are much better? I don't want to be mean, but the hosts detract more than they add, especially one of them. Your information is generally spot on, but this is completely about women, not men.
@prettygreenmaiden87936 жыл бұрын
You know what sucks? When you're encouraged to smile and be helpful/friendly to customers but they take it as meaning you're interested. So you think "am I being too friendly" so then you dial back on the friendliness but it doesn't seem to help regardless of what you do. Hell even when I don't smile I get "the look". Like...out of the blue intense gaze, hardly blinking or kind of unfocused. One time I was helping someone I barely even looked at. I was so busy frowning at the computer due to a glitch. I looked up to apologize for the issue only to be shocked by the look on this guy's face. I instinctively leaned back a bit. I wanted to ask if he was okay. Dude was trying to peer into my soul. There's _no_ reason to look at someone you don't really know *_that_* intimately. Another example. My colleague helping a male customer set up an account. I hear her voice, then his. Shrug, business as usual. Happened to glance over...this dude...had his body completely turned towards me, just looking at me as if I had been talking to him. Confused, thinking maybe my colleague had called me for help or something I look at her. She's just typing away on her computer, entering information...so what in the actual...fucc?! I've noticed that when some, not all, dudes come up to my work and have to take identification out of their wallet or pocket, they will maintain eye contact from under their brow as the dig for their info. ??? Why are you looking at me?! Look at your wallet. Male body language cues from personal experience: intense or hazy gaze, squaring shoulders, tilting up the chin, leaning a bit forward into personal space at times, staring at the mouth, turning their body towards you. Perhaps in a different setting these would be more welcome but I've learned the heard way how to not be overly friendly and too helpful at work. I lower the pitch of my voice, make brief eye contact before focusing on an eyebrow, glancing away towards my computer screen for a moment. Brief small smile at the beginning along with a basic "hello how may I help", then back to neutral face. Sitting up straight and not leaning over. Among other things. Amazingly it still doesn't work!🤔
@marvellousmusic43364 жыл бұрын
I can decode this for you easily. It's because most guys have sex on the brain and every woman they see as a potential person to get into bed in one week, be married and to of had a kid within a year.
@joetroutt74254 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm your typical male bc I tuned out half of what you said in this post but you know what? You're right. Now I'm going to see what's in the fridge.
@robinthompson84806 жыл бұрын
My favorite male body part is the arms.
@theIzzyfurreal8 жыл бұрын
If I don't find a woman physically attractive and don't see a connection, I could give a damn what kind of body language she's sending or not sending of if she's available or not. If I like what I see, THEN I'll inquire about her availability and if we have common connections and touchstones and then move from there. I think body language is an inexact science and can often be misleading.
@Anglisc16825 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@anisdhouieb99187 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, I love your smile I love your body language and I love the way your eyes shine when you say "I love talking about men , it's exciting".
@trentbriggs11985 жыл бұрын
I am the type of guy that does NOT assume a woman likes me and probably miss a lot of the signals. Thank you for helping to see these. I never like to read women wrong and be "that guy".
@TheCleanRapper9310 жыл бұрын
That guy was hilarious. Very good video.
@carolynstpierre87786 жыл бұрын
BHOP The Clean Rapper with
@kishon89 жыл бұрын
Wait we didn't decode any language though. It really became all about the women. lol interesting.
@TheRealFaceyNeck8 жыл бұрын
+kishon8 Yeah, lol. "*The Body Language of Men, With an Absolute Focus on Women, and Avoiding Male Body Language Discussion.*"
@roshaii26297 жыл бұрын
kishon8 if a guy likes you he'll keep the conversation going its literally that simple the exception is(female bestie+close female friend)we aren't like girl who like to string alomg guys
@user-qz4qf4cw3d7 жыл бұрын
Roshes aii TRUTH. I'll stop caring about the conversation like 3 minutes in if I decide I don't like the girl. But then be entertaining for like 15 minutes with a girl who I like (personality and face)
@saif9amar4175 жыл бұрын
It is all he time about women...There is no more room left for the men to be about them
@7sons4844 жыл бұрын
Women's favorite subject is themselves. I dated one woman for 6 months and she told me I was the best boyfriend she ever had when I dumped her. All we talked about was her. She knew nothing about me. lol
@asimbaki6 жыл бұрын
How about cultural influence on behavioral psychology?
@moonlight98834 жыл бұрын
Don't believe this, I'm a female and there is this very handsome guy at the grocery store that always greets me with the biggest smile (I think that's just his personality) and I immediately brake eye contact and look away and say good morning in my uninterested voice he probably thinks I'm rude, but that's just my anxiety taking over, and I know a lot of women who suffer from anxiety so I know I'm not the only one.
@pasta31668 жыл бұрын
My favorite male body part is not the butt! I would've gone with arms.
@Aevans7864 жыл бұрын
Hands
@likeumyeah8 жыл бұрын
Men don't "miss" the signals. We just don't fall for every blond, brunet, and red head that passes our way.
@rickyponting65268 жыл бұрын
Legit
@mindsetist7 жыл бұрын
Rhyme and Reason that whole less parts of the brain being highlighted thing, I think that's just because we don't over analyze it as much. We often down play it to ourselves I've observed.
@junad23607 жыл бұрын
Rhyme and Reason what a great comment
@likeumyeah7 жыл бұрын
mysterychemistry Who in the hell suggested otherwise?
@likeumyeah7 жыл бұрын
no, but when women do flirt, they expect to be paid attention to. Men, occasionally, deliberately parry your signals to put you back in place. We're not "missing" the signals. We know what you're doing and what your trying to accomplish.
@SunnySunKansas9 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! Love your videos. I watched many and all are great. Charming.
@Jasmillmelisa9 жыл бұрын
she ddnt talk about their language
@jhonjohnjonjondoe50116 жыл бұрын
I have advice for all men. Just build your body evenly and possibly work on your back and legs 2 times more then any other body part and doesn't matter what body part you have the females will have a favorite body part of the male on you.
@Siliven6 жыл бұрын
Not for me. I love a man's hands if they are manly. I once met this man with practically NO arm hair. I felt I was stroking a woman. Hated it.
@xZzirrSicK5 жыл бұрын
@@The___Batman LMFAO
@joetroutt74254 жыл бұрын
Well you wouldn't have to worry about that with me. I have plenty of it and back hair to go with it.
@DontFuckWitDreDay8 жыл бұрын
"her neck twitches, her hair itches...shes kinda of a freak" That is so funny and so true!!! I was laughing in my mind when a girl was hitting on me while doing that and thought the same!! :)
@kdsmith241146 жыл бұрын
unfortunately they only spoke about female body language and how the men take long time to notice... UGH
@Xegethra5 жыл бұрын
Yeah it sucks, kinda wanted to see what men usually do and see how it translates to what I end up doing.
@oriana1737 жыл бұрын
I must say that you are really good on it. I am practicing what I have learned while I was watching your videos, I did help me in a lots of ways. thanks
@DiomyYunsa5 жыл бұрын
This guy is interesting in his body language. When you arrive in the beginning, his legs are open, his palms are open, he leans in, his feet are pointed at you and seeks out eye contact. Its not until you begin discussing how to read body language that he changes. At 38 second he crosses his ankles. Thats a sign that hes got something he wants to hold back or info to hide. As you go into talking about the signs men miss, he has folded clutched hands with fidgeting thumbs. Hes still listening with interest, however hes nervous. His ankles are still crossed. He will still gesture with open hands at situations he connects with, but at one point he crosses his wrists, which shows he really wants to conceal something. Maybe hes starting to understand something he missed? at 2:56 a visual cue thats interesting is that he really leans back when he asks if there is a visual cue for when a man is lying. He finds that a tad bit uncomfortable. Also when trying to figure out what women find most attractive, he didnt like that part either. This makes me giggle. 5:31 his hand are now clenched closer to the face leaning out. He is reallly uncomfortable but he makes great eye contact. His head here is a bit higher than its been for the past few minutes. Final question hes back to being much more open, though his ankles are still crossed. He knows its almost over and has survived without his secrets coming out! LOL
@barbaraking10203 жыл бұрын
A man's facial expressions
@6969Nicole6 жыл бұрын
She’s incredibly smart
@es46665 жыл бұрын
I am a salsa and kizomba dancer. We often have many discussions on who gets chosen to get asked to dance and why we choose people to ask to dance - it’s not always about attractiveness or dancing ability. I would love your input on this - have you done any studies on this?
@wawawawawa6348 жыл бұрын
It takes men 3 to 4 times to notice a women is interested by body language? May be because women always complain about how being nice isn't flirting, but when you're expecting someone to practically read your mind and body to make out how you feel it's going to take a couple of interactions just so you don't make a mistake, which is why telling a man how you really feel is a lot easier. If men are practically expected to pursue and engage the women, then women should be expected to at least be straight forward and honest about how they feel. I don't think that's too much to ask. Oh, and I love that blonde ladies response and facial expression at 1:15 "Or, just hand him your phone number.."
@PeachyKins6 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Jones lolz, have you ever had a girlfriend ?? All we talk about is our feelings, I thought it was a guys fantasy to get us to shut up about them😉😆 When was 18, my father (retired USMC) told me, "You know what a guy is thinking when a woman looks at him? She wants me." Straight up seriousness, I didn't believe him, THEN, definitely do now. Cute video
@jhonjohnjonjondoe50116 жыл бұрын
somewhere over the rainbow we do believe that but there are somethings that i like in a women to show me before i say it is a done deal where i actually take it further. One i want them to constantly show me they are interested. If they show they are interested in another man at the same time showing me that interest i lose attraction right away for the girl and she becomes a lower rank female with little self respect who is looking for attention. Those girls IMO are more likely to cheat when problems happen in a relationship. I also look for them to do cute things that i don't see other women do very often and it can be even in the way they flirt and the attraction for them goes up big time.
@delnaazj48866 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Jones lol
@babauranai7 жыл бұрын
this is so good! i know tv cuts things for time but id really love a more extensive version!
@msbosslady60545 жыл бұрын
I like: Clean teeth Clean face Nice smile Tall Straight posture Clean clothing No baggy clothes Not rude or a jerk
@dionysus37744 жыл бұрын
I like - No makeup - Not fucking fat - Isn't on her phone 24/7 - Won't wear baby clothes in public when dating. - Short - Clean face - Clean teeth - Isn't a jerk or rude.
@AwesomeAndrew7 жыл бұрын
this is why I miss the cues. Subtle hints I don't get.....obvious hints I don't get.........just talk to me and express some words that show an interest. Something like after talking for a bit......"hey, would you like to meet up tomorrow for lunch?" No hints....just direct to the point. Then I can say no, you are a hussy for trying to captivate me with your pheromones
@saveUyghurs6 жыл бұрын
Girls never want to seem too eager
@delnaazj48866 жыл бұрын
Awesome Andrew llol
@lostinportlandia37395 жыл бұрын
HAHA ! Aha ha ... I read that, and actually laughed out loud after reading that last bit of your comment. LOL I didn't expect that Andrew
@KDBlaine6 жыл бұрын
Well I am fascinated by how many men say they don’t find “high maintenance” attractive and they end up with them every. single. time. This also applies to the “crazy/stalker” types who men also claim to want nothing to do with. Have you done research on that ? I would be so interested because most of the ladies I know who are normal, well adjusted, charming, approachable are standing around wondering why all the guys are with the women who criticize, stalk, etc, etc.....
@tedpendlebury79786 жыл бұрын
I do hope you're not having a hard time finding a man - you're quite the pretty lady.
@blackbettybam20165 жыл бұрын
I love the encouragement to make them agree by nodding your head yes while saying, right? LoL. I use that often, along with no nod.
@russgurpa13064 жыл бұрын
"Women don't lie"-audience of the speaker (psychologist) laughs. "No, really. They will at first convince their own selves what they are saying is the truth. Then, they will try to convince others"
@devenlee454710 жыл бұрын
LMFAO. I say a mans face eyes n mind is the most important !
@kool42094 жыл бұрын
of course women are only concerned with whether or not the guy is hot enough.
@MrVasudan8 жыл бұрын
as a man Ive missed 100% of signals given to me by women.
@Sy2023hk3 жыл бұрын
I think guys do know, but we're apprehensive to approach too soon as it could be unintended. If I wasn't so afraid of getting the wrong signals, I would have approached first time🙌
@happyjoy49628 жыл бұрын
You are so fun to watch!! Thank you for your videos!! : )
@PastorJC9 жыл бұрын
I think that a lot of the assumptions given here as cues for body language are extremely superficial...
@Xegethra5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it is. We have our ways I guess words or not, but not everything is that deep.
@vissistvinod83517 ай бұрын
The man in the host chair sitting in-front almost was reading everything from her mind. He is the best psychiatrist I have ever seen on a TV 😎
@twilson9768 жыл бұрын
Maybe men miss the cues because theyre not use to seeing "charming" women anymore (instead its hard, aggressive,). Good fun video none the less.
@pantherakathecat44403 жыл бұрын
I love her skin tone.
@stellathraelkill21453 жыл бұрын
fascinating that in the first minute the man already starts mirroring Vannessa's body language...which is often what we do when we are attracted to someone. At 0:36 his hands are folded like hers and his legs move into the exact same position hers are in.
@timbuktu8069 Жыл бұрын
At 0:30 "Are men and women different?" He then visibly cups his hands in front of his chest. That's what's called subliminal body language.
@_IcyCube_7 жыл бұрын
The main reason they didn't decode any male body language is because it's pretty easy to tell what we want and how we feel, we don't really give off hints.
@Metalhead82to117 жыл бұрын
the availability point is very true
@progrocker2112 Жыл бұрын
I remember this anchor in another segment with you and it seems that she learned something from the first time.
@jburckhardt10 жыл бұрын
my favorite part of a man is the shoulderrrr , broad shoulder ;)
@blisswkc33446 жыл бұрын
Thank You so much dearest sweeties 💐🙏 You’re such an inspiration ❣️ Stay Blissful Eternally 😇🕉💖
@Je_suis_Jefe8 жыл бұрын
What does it mean when a man is cracking his neck? Hint he is just cracking his neck.
@lillybizzo3 жыл бұрын
Great video Vanessa!! I had a good laugh too
@theburningman5047 Жыл бұрын
I am never lying about wealth, power or anything. People hate me for my honesty, they think I am just rude. I don’t even do it when it would benefit me, that’s why I failed a lot of job interviews. I tell the truth, about 90 percent of the time. I feel horrible when I do not. Also my face is not expressive among strangers, it’s just a slightly bored or annoyed look
@AkashKhan-km4xf9 жыл бұрын
I'm a big fan of you. Thanks for the tips.
@andrewpratten5 жыл бұрын
The presenters are very good and you all work well off of each other
@SkyBlueAugust7 жыл бұрын
Interesting to watch the body language of the male interviewer - especially when they were talking about women's favorite male body parts!
@KingaGorski6 жыл бұрын
These are so fascinating! I can see how women's brains would like up 3x more than men's, lol.
@VoiceoverMomentum2 жыл бұрын
For me the most attractive body part on a man is a smile.
@valberlin92394 жыл бұрын
Altho some of this is true. I can assure you, at least 70% of it isn't. People are just different. There are no rules. What Sophia shows as a clear sign of interest, is the "Get the F away from me" signal when it comes to Susie. Anyone who pretends to know what certain behavioral characteristics mean, and attach that to "most" people are at the minimum, lying to themselves.
@KayRoseLiving2 ай бұрын
And I thought it was all about a cool car 🤣🤣🤣 this guy is wild !
@oriana1737 жыл бұрын
Vanessa how about the body language in celebrities for example cate Blanchett and rooney Mara?
@hybrisss9 жыл бұрын
but is because it "shows" that the man can run fast jump high etc. Was good back in the days.
@ElCangri13710 жыл бұрын
So it has nothing to do with using different parts as it does with in America, a vast amount of men are lambasted down to a state of insecurity so they need more signals and indicators of interest before feeling secure that she is indeed interested in him. Distrust and/or devalue or falling I f respect of females also play a BIG role in it. It's more to it than Vanessa is leading.
@spurconsultationservices29975 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, Understanding women's body language was more focused and easy to understand than understanding the Men's body language. Distortions, laughter and comparison with women was more dominant. I am sure you could have done it better.
@Chris-uh3cm Жыл бұрын
Great content. Society sucks for a man these days. A lot of pressure on the man. If women would get it out of their heads ( not all woman are like this) that the man has to make the first move and she actually strikes up convo it would make everyones life essier
@GodricThe8 жыл бұрын
yeah everybody knows about body language nowadays. i think its more about psychological ques. women notice when ive more confident, wearing right fit clothes because most of us wear size or two to big.money usually doesnt play a big role but you need to have a money to pay for few drinks. who ever understand a women psychology i think would say its way to complicated to explain. growing up with a sister and having few female friends with constant curiosity for human behavior hepls
@TieXiongJi8 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. Thanks.
@manfromnantucket95448 жыл бұрын
I've got what some people would call a bubble butt (I'm a runner), and it's got me a little attention from women, but I can't say I've ever been able to take a lady to bed on that alone.
@randomuser11057 жыл бұрын
She never said you could. Women aren't as shallow and slutty as men.
@user-qz4qf4cw3d7 жыл бұрын
randomuser1105 True true. Unless it's for money
@dankearrape19397 жыл бұрын
randomuser1105, all women of fertile age are sexual, and their biggest fears are being perceived as a slut. And looks alone is nothing for sex appeal without strong body language of an emotionally secure man.
@Larry219246 ай бұрын
This is a masterpiece. I recently read a similar book, and it was a masterpiece in its own right. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@ScienceOfPeople6 ай бұрын
Ou thanks for sharing!
@alcudiababe14 жыл бұрын
I understand this is about decoding men but I think being able to read some body language at least helps win some people over you just do more of the things they like. Like if your in a new job and you want to make some friends if you can pick up the subtal signs especially in the eyebrows and around the lips you know when they're impressed disgusted and you learn to adapt your behaviour to get more approving likes and nods and various other things they'd like to see, hear, because if you didn't how do you know if they will class you as someone they like to hang around with, e.g, like introverts if your showy and theatrical around them they know instantly your not going to be in their inner circle they can trust, they may talk to you, find you sweet and cute but introverts prefer people who have more like minded qualities so sometimes only like minded people group together, if they can't find simularities in your behaviour then they can't relate to you. I know I'll get accused of it's not healthy and considered inauthentic but when you match your energy with theirs there's more chance they have of liking you and you show different people different sides, you're not going to joke around with someone who doesn't have the same sense of humour as you do, it's what makes people think, hm, I thought she was alright. You are yourself but you show different aspects of your personality to different people. If you know someone isn't going to judge you can be more of your authentic self. You might like to let loose on the weekends with your fella but in the week in your job you act a little more reserved because you want to seem professional
@annisharma13842 жыл бұрын
It's not specific but depends on many more.....
@asaeaburns35152 жыл бұрын
First I think your amazing. I've seen many of your videos to help me become better at sales women. I wanted to learn the male's body language so I can tell if he is interested in what i'm saying or just trying to polity get rid of me. This video was almost identical to the female body language video though. What are signs that a male is genuinely interested?
@CarminaTunes7 жыл бұрын
I always toss my arms.. Thats probably why guys treat me like I'm their sister.
@amaliawilson25964 ай бұрын
I put my hands on hips a lot not to show authority it's just a habit because I was a soccer player and that how we stand when coach is explaining.
@diptimayeesahu69822 жыл бұрын
For me it’s eyes , jawline and muscles
@myronprovost4839 жыл бұрын
I have noticed from the laws of attraction that there at times where a female sometimes send signals even out out attempt.
@johnglass6334 жыл бұрын
Most of us don't speak that language so don't expect any movement we make to mean something
@angelus_solus4 жыл бұрын
That has to be one of the most intelligent comments I've read today.
@johnglass6334 жыл бұрын
Thank you that's the kindest reply I've read in 12 years
@tedpendlebury79786 жыл бұрын
I'm with Cobalt below - this was supposed to be about male body language.
@NoirL.A.3 жыл бұрын
i can't speak for everybody obviously but i know for many men it's not that they MISS the signals it's that they IGNORE them because so many women are forever fucking with guy's heads and half the time they're "flirting" with you they have no interest at all except in establishing that somebody finds them attractive to say nothing of the fact very very often they only want you as long as they can't have you the minute you reciprocate any interest (assuming it ever existed in the first place) it's game over.
@korvmedmos97911 ай бұрын
ok but its also that they give strong signs and then when you ask them about it they act like nothing happens. So after many rejections i become numb to it
@ScienceOfPeople10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@TieXiongJi8 жыл бұрын
"This is all a theory." "Researched backed science." I believe that's what he said...
@jaydamalley33988 жыл бұрын
The scientific use of the word 'Theory' means 'as close to a fact as possible' (till new information might disprove it) I'm guessing you think she meant hypothesis. So, no, she didn't contradict herself by saying it like that.
@ElCangri13710 жыл бұрын
In fact, even men's lying is likewise connected to their insecurities.
@erickvidbaz30862 жыл бұрын
5:06 Hmm! haha was funny his reaction.
@willlakai3 жыл бұрын
this girl definitely knows what is up 👀
@i_n_sist86416 жыл бұрын
The host...Her laughter at the numbers.😂😊
@ArleneRegos6 жыл бұрын
This gentleman is so funny every time he says something it's funnier than the last! I could so easily get along with this guy I've never seen in my life, but he is freaking hilarious! I got to figure out who the hell this guy is oh my God but seriously it's amazing how one channel has about 500 videos on this and it's the robot giving you bad advice as always. So much contradictory information on KZfaq it's absolutely insane.
@LilyIglesias5 жыл бұрын
"What's woman's favourite male body part"? I thought butt! Lol I'm a clairvoyant 😂😂😂😂 true. Actually I like a good butt, broad shoulders and salient veins 😍😍😍😍
@Potatoalex5385 жыл бұрын
My butt is flat lol😅 thin asf...
@captaindrywall9 жыл бұрын
Vanessa I hope you can find a different show to be on,
@FaisalAhmed-uc1ee4 жыл бұрын
I fallen in love with Vanessa! Did you decode that?? 😁
@coachishnlp25708 жыл бұрын
Vanessa. question. why the butt been the feature that the woman loves most???? you did not give enough info.. by the way will you be offering certification programs??
@atlantisfae11112 жыл бұрын
Love your videos, what does it mean if a man ruffles (grooms) his hair everytime you catch eyes with him, even if you've never spoken?
@khayalethumadonda34463 жыл бұрын
A question for Vanessa Male body language that signals testosterone?