HEALING A CRUSHED SPIRIT by rc blakes

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RC Blakes, Jr

RC Blakes, Jr

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HEALING A CRUSHED HEART by Bishop RC Blakes
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@RCBlakesJr.
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR STOPPING IN. Please LIKE 👍
@secreteobsession3584
@secreteobsession3584 Жыл бұрын
Who is the artist the song is beautiful
@tinatinaunicorn5279
@tinatinaunicorn5279 Жыл бұрын
This is really helping me to heal. Thanks RC Blakes
@christinas4168
@christinas4168 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your help 🙏🏿 I would love for you to pray for me and with me one day.
@karenricks5630
@karenricks5630 Жыл бұрын
Thank u for forgiveness
@karenricks5630
@karenricks5630 Жыл бұрын
Amin I have to a lot
@suskelleykelley7241
@suskelleykelley7241 Жыл бұрын
Never want or desire a man who doesn't want you!! It's his loss. Learn to love YOU more than a jerk
@GodsLove911
@GodsLove911 Жыл бұрын
❤️💕💕 Frogs can't live with Royalty!!!!
@tynaangelici3023
@tynaangelici3023 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. this is what I’m dealing with right now.six months later still trying to heal.
@Sdollrossi
@Sdollrossi Жыл бұрын
Yeah but how does one begin to love themselves? It’s easier said than done I don’t know how to start
@rpw6033
@rpw6033 Жыл бұрын
Even if you are married to that man.
@k.prince6799
@k.prince6799 Жыл бұрын
@@Sdollrossi Queen you just have to know that you are valuable and worthy of the highest form of healthy love. Begin with The Word which teaches us how to love ourselves and others. Then set your standards/boundaries/consequences for relationships/friendships. Anyone who doesn't align with them should not be in the forefront of your life. Best wishes on your Self-Love journey. ❤
@northshorelight35
@northshorelight35 10 ай бұрын
Yes. I have had my heart crushed. God answered my prayer though. He sent me the most amazing man ever and that man married me.
@kita-1116
@kita-1116 Жыл бұрын
Don’t let being crushed guide you into another bad/toxic relationship. Some people have sensors for broken women and are predators towards them. Love on yourself and remember to aim high... AND recognize those early red flags to save yourself future heartache. Don’t be a desperate/low esteem dater. ❤️
@amberensminger7247
@amberensminger7247 Жыл бұрын
This is amazing advise Ms.Kita I need to learn how to walk away when red flags presents themselves 💗
@meetai1774
@meetai1774 Жыл бұрын
These are WISE words I never knew these types of people existed and it’s true it was at my lowest broken point when a cruel person found their way in…. Do not let this happen to you if you are reading this❤️‍🩹 look to GOD not to others and He will heal you..
@kimberly0717
@kimberly0717 Жыл бұрын
Yes, most men can detect vulnerability or weakness due to their hunter instincts. My mom always told us to “never jump from the pot into the frying pan”.
@jimmylittle9295
@jimmylittle9295 Жыл бұрын
@@meetai1774 c
@shebrownsuga
@shebrownsuga Жыл бұрын
Amen
@letmebelovedwithoutthefake7100
@letmebelovedwithoutthefake7100 Жыл бұрын
🙌🏽 Heal Lord! Everyone that comes across this video. In the name of Jesus….🙏
@shannonlawson3209
@shannonlawson3209 11 ай бұрын
❤ Amen
@gugumkhwanazi9482
@gugumkhwanazi9482 9 ай бұрын
I like " EVERYTHING YOU'RE TELLING ME pastor."
@GodsPureGrace8
@GodsPureGrace8 8 ай бұрын
AMEN...🙏
@jacquelinesoucie
@jacquelinesoucie 8 ай бұрын
Amen
@soposh5671
@soposh5671 Жыл бұрын
“Nothing good comes from holding onto something that’s clearly dead”.. Wow!
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
Nothing but a bad smell
@kadinsmomma07
@kadinsmomma07 Жыл бұрын
"Allowing your heart to break, so your soul can heal" 🥺😭😭
@lizashone1976
@lizashone1976 Жыл бұрын
Sweet is Thy Will."
@lakeshasykes1860
@lakeshasykes1860 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this. My heart has been shattered for the past 6 months over the end of a 4 yr. situationship. My emotions and heart manipulated and abused. In counseling right now to help me to heal from this. Nothing more painful than realizing you didn't mean as much as what you thought you did to someone you loved. Thanks you RC Blakes Jr.
@coleenchapman8889
@coleenchapman8889 Жыл бұрын
Lakesha Sykes it’s the worst pain!!! I was blindsided by this revelation but trying to get stronger.
@kimberly0717
@kimberly0717 Жыл бұрын
Remember that is a issue with that person not you! Some people lack the ability to appreciate or value gifts. The right person will see YOU without you trying! 💞
@monicanicole738
@monicanicole738 Жыл бұрын
I’m here with you 😔💔
@T.pattzem
@T.pattzem Жыл бұрын
I feel this too , it sucks
@shadiamonforever21
@shadiamonforever21 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry! Praying for your comfort and peace
@talentedt5080
@talentedt5080 Жыл бұрын
This will be a great topic to speak on because after going through a heartbreak and feeling disappointment your feelings do hurt but we have to remind ourselves that God will mend a broken heart he’s done it for me even though I’m still in my healing three after realizing I was a narcissistic Situationship I’m just glad God has kept me through it all and I am much wiser now🙏🏽💯💜
@nolajones366
@nolajones366 Жыл бұрын
Same here keep the faith God has it all under control
@jenniferadderley2566
@jenniferadderley2566 Жыл бұрын
I was also in a narcissist situationship. It's a blessing how God show his children through pruning and give us the knowledge to move forward with the lessons we learn from those type of situations. To become stronger and wiser. We are Queens that deserve much more with Godifidence. May God continue to strengthen you through the healing process, you got this God got you with his Greatness. In Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏❤ 👑
@almacolic
@almacolic Жыл бұрын
same here 🙏🙌♥️
@rosemariefrusteri4087
@rosemariefrusteri4087 Жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate, I understand it all to well. Keep movin forward & shining your light & love
@latoyam1785
@latoyam1785 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey! Gives me more hope! I wasted 3 years and when I walked away from a narcissistic relationship, I left heartbroken and disappointed! God is Good! He’s been pulling me through each day…..bad or good! I don’t wish this feeling on anybody! Narcissistic abuse is real and it just leaves you numb and confused! I gave my all and he was never satisfied! But there is light at the end of the tunnel with God! Finally moved to another state and finally feeling a sense of peace….God’s Peace! Thank You Lord!❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾
@d.l.w.3916
@d.l.w.3916 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Betrayal is a hurt that is incredibly hard. I’m there now.
@rosemariefrusteri4087
@rosemariefrusteri4087 Жыл бұрын
Move forward thru it..... there will be scars. Proof you survived.💕
@rosemariefrusteri4087
@rosemariefrusteri4087 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Betrayal is Personal & is unexpected ....it's not from an enemy. Those wounds cut deep. It's a slow healing process because this pain isn't physical. Forgiveness is where healing will begin. Been there, still healing...it's only by the grace of God. 🙏
@lynellb
@lynellb Жыл бұрын
@@rosemariefrusteri4087 grace of God indeed. It was unbearable but I knew I had to cycle through the emotional hurt in order to move forward.
@nataliemoore9965
@nataliemoore9965 Жыл бұрын
I will pray that you move pass the pain
@nadinehammonds1312
@nadinehammonds1312 Жыл бұрын
Incest...."given men my heart but they gave me a dagger."
@sharhughes1086
@sharhughes1086 Жыл бұрын
God will mend and heal a broken heart! They say time heal all wounds, that's God and his healing power by his stripes you are healed!
@lynnec8832
@lynnec8832 Жыл бұрын
He's the best. I'm watching from N. Cali.. I discovered Pastor Blake 4years ago, coming outta a dark, lost place Abusive relationship...... BUT GOD!! I watch his videos daily at least 2 a day.. impacted my life, role model father figure. Thank you Pastor. God bless everyone watching as well. ✝️
@BC-qb2vw
@BC-qb2vw Жыл бұрын
Watching from northern cali too! Blessings to you sis 🙌🏽
@jenniferjones3657
@jenniferjones3657 Жыл бұрын
Keep walking Sis. I have been through and restorative power of God is just amazing. Oh the peace that resides in my home. I would not trade this peace for nothing.
@mrsbutterflyrainbows5900
@mrsbutterflyrainbows5900 Жыл бұрын
God bless 🙌you. From 🇵🇱Poland
@LarennPBel
@LarennPBel Жыл бұрын
Yessssss I understand that. I started watching his stuff at the end of 2019
@constanceconnor7908
@constanceconnor7908 Жыл бұрын
God bless you as well. I'm so grateful for discovering Pastor Blake's I've had so much Devastation in my life over the past few years and I'm trying to patch my everything back together! Heart so health everything has been shattered but I know that God is working and better things will be coming. Always keep the faith
@KL-pq3mz
@KL-pq3mz Жыл бұрын
Yes. Been crushed almost beyond repair. Just ground zero devastation! So thankful for God and for this channel! Yes Bishop Blakes, your so right! On the healing journey to repair this brokenness. Never lose hope and faith in what can be! Never lose your shine ✨ and never give up. God has you! He has you! 💝💝
@haileywilliams2108
@haileywilliams2108 Жыл бұрын
I’m going though a crushed heat right now
@MODISHYE
@MODISHYE Жыл бұрын
Yes he does, it hurts for the moment but once you allow God to heal you , comfort and trust Him 100% He will restore you and give you the peace that surpasses all understanding.
@lelo46
@lelo46 Жыл бұрын
I am too. I would love to know what you’re going through…
@pendomayeka588
@pendomayeka588 Жыл бұрын
Painful but wise fatherly counsel.Bless you Bishop Blake's on time message
@CC-br9qg
@CC-br9qg Жыл бұрын
God bless you sister.
@Shrimpylo
@Shrimpylo Жыл бұрын
I called off my wedding 5 months ago and this message was posted just in time. thank you Pastor Blakes
@PyrPupMom
@PyrPupMom Жыл бұрын
So much better to call it off, than to go through incredible pain... Then a divorce... I know!
@carterthegamernoob6128
@carterthegamernoob6128 Жыл бұрын
God bless you sister for your strength and healing ❤️‍🩹
@ellenjohnson5323
@ellenjohnson5323 Жыл бұрын
Thankfully you called it off. God will mend your broken heart.
@aminamaradesa9778
@aminamaradesa9778 Жыл бұрын
i admire your courage...
@lizashone1976
@lizashone1976 Жыл бұрын
Good for you!!
@viviananderson7663
@viviananderson7663 Жыл бұрын
I am getting over a narcissist relationship. I didn't realize what was happening to me, until I started listening to your messages. I thank God I found your messages
@DeemMeBeautiful
@DeemMeBeautiful Жыл бұрын
My God the level of revelation I’m receiving from this teaching!!! I was in the middle of a mental/emotional breakdown all yesterday!!! Dysregulated, Ruminating and obsessing smh This is so on time!!! God wants me HEALED
@rosemariefrusteri4087
@rosemariefrusteri4087 Жыл бұрын
Keep your eyes on Our Father. Be in the moment. You are never alone.
@robinc5226
@robinc5226 Жыл бұрын
Ugh. Same. Right now. So dysregulated. 😩😩😩
@lawandalh2387
@lawandalh2387 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Albastar7869
@Albastar7869 Жыл бұрын
Same...so exhausted, but don’t seem to be able to stop this.
@charisselewis5401
@charisselewis5401 10 ай бұрын
I would like to know how you all are feeling now?
@brettswiferose50
@brettswiferose50 5 ай бұрын
Had my heart crushed by a soul tie and i asked God take this weight off of me, i wanted the pain to pass...I cried for 7days before God lifted it from me
@amieklein6043
@amieklein6043 Жыл бұрын
I’ve fought for so long and I’m so so tired. My will is broken, trying to find my drive again and envision a new future. I just don’t want to be disappointed and burnt out again. Thank you for message as I keep healing.
@heyonope7682
@heyonope7682 Жыл бұрын
This is for me, choose pain of holding on or choose pain of letting go... he can go ! Opening door to Gods best 🙏 🙌
@CH-tp3re
@CH-tp3re Жыл бұрын
11 years with a broken narcissist. The PTSD is real. I have God Our Lord Jesus Christ leading this healing I need ..
@jamekac.stuckey3228
@jamekac.stuckey3228 Жыл бұрын
I take full accountability for how I feel and what I’m going through right now. Again, I’m loving myself enough to walk away from the things that no longer serve me.
@nicoleoneal5115
@nicoleoneal5115 9 ай бұрын
I am with you on this, I am also taking full responsibility for my action that should have never been compromised,
@imralljoshae5978
@imralljoshae5978 Жыл бұрын
Amen, God continues to pull me up from the pain I could never fathom!! I don’t wish divorce on anyone.
@carterthegamernoob6128
@carterthegamernoob6128 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for healing today this pain was necessary
@anietieoduah9794
@anietieoduah9794 Жыл бұрын
I'm crushed. Definitely am there. It's been 4 yrs and I'm ready to move on. It's very lonely and sometimes hopeless. Lord help
@Godlywoman88
@Godlywoman88 Жыл бұрын
I can say the same. I've moved to a ew city 3 years ago, letting family and papers go. I have felt alone and as if there was no point for my life, along with many other emotions.
@valjean9581
@valjean9581 10 ай бұрын
I hope you're better now
@donnastotts6816
@donnastotts6816 Жыл бұрын
I've been there...CRUSHED, the rebuilding part has been tough, but I am reminded of a song that says, Lord, DONT MOVE MY MOUNTAIN BUT GIVE ME THE STRENGTH TO CLIMB!! In this process, I have had a LOT of quiet moments with GOD...he has NOW been able to Minister to me without all the EXTRA chatter...
@kellyfaulk2139
@kellyfaulk2139 11 ай бұрын
Been here /there...
@MsVMirka
@MsVMirka Жыл бұрын
10/13/2022- I choose to let go of the pain of holding onto the dead relationship I had. Though it is painful to move forward and deal with myself, I choose to grow through this. In Jesus name!!! Amen!
@susannabbosa9415
@susannabbosa9415 7 ай бұрын
I choose to do the same today, the27/11/23!Praise God!
@lynellb
@lynellb Жыл бұрын
"u need to feel the pain"..so very true. As badly as it hurts, sit in the pain and process it. I learned so much from this experience. Be sure to include God in the healing...🙏🏾💕 Be patient with yourself and don't rush the process. 😘
@markesastewart4741
@markesastewart4741 Жыл бұрын
I have sista come this choosing to devorce beating myself ... Forgiving myself being kind to me failing forward to becoming the best version of myself unapologetically 🙏🏾💜💕😭💐 I'am above never beneath .. finally putting distance inspite of how I'am feeling.Embracing my new Direction.😘 sisterly love
@ruthwells3990
@ruthwells3990 Жыл бұрын
I had my heart crushed and someone feet wrapped around my neck(figuratively) . But God’s loving Grace saved me!!!
@Sonya21786
@Sonya21786 12 күн бұрын
I have watched this over and over for continual healing. This ministry is such a blessing.
@Banyi570
@Banyi570 Жыл бұрын
Your teachings have changed my life. No longer a slave to my weaknesses. I’m Queen conscious. Woke ❤
@aliatianna888
@aliatianna888 8 ай бұрын
Idk. My heart has been heavy for a very long time. Just when I thought I met that special someone, disappointment came beating my behind again. I’m just now getting to the place where I can feel peace in my life. It’s taking time but I have so much to heal from. I’ve been single and not looking for about a year now. I plan to make it two. Next year My focus is on finishing school and meeting new friends 😊
@BC-qb2vw
@BC-qb2vw Жыл бұрын
Meditation has deeply helped me become aware of the obsessive and destructive thoughts and clears my mind and spirit so that I may hear and receive messages from the divine 🙌🏽 I believe with all my heart that anyone on a spiritual path will deeply benefit from Developing a meditation practice 💫
@a.b.2405
@a.b.2405 Жыл бұрын
I’m trying to be consistent with my meditation practice.
@charli2285
@charli2285 Жыл бұрын
Yes amen, thank you for blessing my spirit. Crushed heart!
@charli2285
@charli2285 Жыл бұрын
Tammy pastor tonight has been great with your wisdom!
@promisegrace2248
@promisegrace2248 Жыл бұрын
Been there I thank God for healing me it was not easy but the Heartbreak was necessary for me to open my eyes to see how mess up I was to praise God and give him the glory for healing me
@caur739
@caur739 Жыл бұрын
This resonates strongly......a broken world full of broken people
@jean_6524
@jean_6524 Жыл бұрын
Yesss. I needed this today. Was really in tears about how bad I messed up my past. Thank you
@rosemariefrusteri4087
@rosemariefrusteri4087 Жыл бұрын
Key word....."past". 💕👍
@francescahmulenga3265
@francescahmulenga3265 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@lynellb
@lynellb Жыл бұрын
Be sure to forgive yourself since u feel u messed up your past, forgive YOU...God gives us brand new mercies everyday, if he can have mercy on you why can't you have mercy on you? 😘💕🙏🏾
@kekebrown4119
@kekebrown4119 Жыл бұрын
Yelp me too. I allowed people to break me down so many times because of my brokenness.
@jean_6524
@jean_6524 Жыл бұрын
@@kekebrown4119 Amen,it's painful when I realized I wasn't perfect at all in my past.I had many spirits back then and pride was one of them. I was some of those bad words ppl called me back then. I didn't care because I had a good job. So therefore I thought everyone should just almost bow for me. I could go on.. but I felt your message spiritually and wanted to share.
@ladyzinada5341
@ladyzinada5341 Жыл бұрын
I needed this tonight Pastor. Yes I have had my heart crushed. Recently, as in the last few years and got tired of holding onto a group of co workers opposite of my personality and Wickedness and evil lived in them...including boss and supervisor. It was causing sickness, illness, and confusion. I let go 7/29. I Feel FREE to Live again. 🤗
@nicholajoseph1433
@nicholajoseph1433 Жыл бұрын
I have the same identical situation. I had to hurry find a job to n my career field , and resigned in 6/30 . God bless pastor . Powerful msg
@misguidedpearls7456
@misguidedpearls7456 Жыл бұрын
Look into cassandra mack About work situations She's amazing Here on KZfaq.. I def had the work issue Still do... Her teachings have helped me understand i wasn't alone.. She talks alot of work issues Friendship co workers Business pertners etc
@weireffie29
@weireffie29 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for such hope and encouragement.
@khatanialemon1295
@khatanialemon1295 Жыл бұрын
I feel my heart is crushing. What is sad about it is that I see everyone is happy with their life except me. I been crying most of the time. I been this way for a couple of months. I don’t have nobody to talk too.
@Tameka_White
@Tameka_White Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for what your going through.
@susanmunyi5680
@susanmunyi5680 Жыл бұрын
You have someone close to you that you can imagine talk to God who created you and who loves you so much God sees you hurting even if you don't feel His presence at the moment I assure you God is closer to you than you can imagine.
@allyb5156
@allyb5156 Жыл бұрын
Khatania do you have a church home ?
@donnastotts6816
@donnastotts6816 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you sis......you'll be alright. Keep your head up and look to the hills ....consider therapy, its helped me a LOT.. be blessed
@rosemariefrusteri4087
@rosemariefrusteri4087 Жыл бұрын
I haven't had anyone to talk with.....so, I started writing.....I have years of journals. Try it....it's therapeutic. God bless you. Remember, you aren't alone.
@jean_6524
@jean_6524 Жыл бұрын
Very deep. I thought I had repented and was humble. After today's breakdown over my past. I really repented
@krystinmcadams4594
@krystinmcadams4594 Жыл бұрын
I am happy to have found your channel. I def am crushed / broken / sour right now. Praying my heart out for a light at the end of the tunnel
@laceylynne5848
@laceylynne5848 Жыл бұрын
I think the only ‘good’ thing that comes out of having a crushed spirit and heart.. is it makes you look at yourself in every single way possible. God has kept me isolated for a while now. But I went from being on a platform, to being all by myself. Warfare. Everything. But God makes beauty out of all things He loves. I think the best lesson I learned out of my last relationship I have to fix me first. And that means without projecting my toxic energy onto other people. Blessings pastor. 🙏🏽💕
@AbsolutelyLinda555
@AbsolutelyLinda555 Жыл бұрын
Ur as real as it gets I’ll NEVER LET this WISDOM GO 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽thank you
@GaminGawdess
@GaminGawdess Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your time pastor and for fighting through the low energy.🥰
@kingdomcome5262
@kingdomcome5262 Жыл бұрын
Just reading the comments here ❤️🙏🏼 I'm in a season of my life of healing. I think what hurts is to finally come to the realization that when someone doesn't care about you, used you, called you out of your name.. and all you were simply doing was remaining obedient to God's instruction, but got taken for weak. Then you broke completely. It's a hard reality to face. From being so confident to God slowly picking me back up. 🙏🏼🕊️☀️
@bluebirdwing6021
@bluebirdwing6021 Жыл бұрын
I so get this. God sees. He sees. 🎉
@tamisharowland4933
@tamisharowland4933 Жыл бұрын
I feel like you're talking about me I'm trying to heal I was in a 17 year relationship I have two kids with him it's so hard I'm doing this by myself and all I do is cry and pray I feel so stupid because I stayed for so long
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 Жыл бұрын
@@tamisharowland4933 You're not stupid. You hoped, you loved, you thought the kids needed that father in the home and you sacrificed. It's ok to be confused. I sure went through it too. It's so painful to find out when you finally do get out, that you caused for more damage than you ever could have guessed. You only realize this when you're on that other side, attempting to heal. Oh my, have I found this out. I felt foolish and made a fool (by his cheating and the nasty way he did it) for some time too. Now I give myself grace and love. What I'm going through to get to full healing is bad enough, I won't let myself or let the devil make it all the worse.
@chosen1612
@chosen1612 Жыл бұрын
Mine heart has been crushed more than I like to admit but it wasn’t until the last time that I really stop and realized everything wasn’t normal… I had a wounded heart… But God…I finally stopped to reflect, learn and grow through the pain….lots of nights of tears… I’ve now been single for over 4 yrs healing and loving myself.., I feel confidence have forgiven myself yet still growing and healing but wiser 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️ Thanks for your messages 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️
@tommyfoster5616
@tommyfoster5616 Жыл бұрын
How u do it ,,, 😢😭🙏🏽
@chosen1612
@chosen1612 Жыл бұрын
@@tommyfoster5616 1. Lots of prayer 2. Strong conviction to do what’s right for me so I’m not played again… don’t believe the nonsense… 3. Journal thoughts a feeling… Why be with someone that doesn’t really care about you and playing games… you know the difference… if you go for the games you will end up hurt again…
@nataliemoore9965
@nataliemoore9965 Жыл бұрын
God keep giving me the strength and healing
@LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024
@LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024 Жыл бұрын
Hello my name is Natalie too🙏. He will give us the strength and healing to move on😞😇
@fefeanng7
@fefeanng7 6 ай бұрын
I’m over the broken hearts seriously after all these years of having them I mean damn, I only have one 😢. Thank you for this Sir
@viettehunter2854
@viettehunter2854 Жыл бұрын
Yessssssss...I'm in this place! Divorce & the death of my mother...I feel like I'm on this journey alone! Brokenhearted!
@princesssawyer9345
@princesssawyer9345 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been there, exact same place as you 3 years ago! Stay close to God! It’s the only way you will get through! To God be the glory🙌🏾 I can say I’m in a much better place
@kmack3202
@kmack3202 Жыл бұрын
May God continue to bless you, I was at that exact point a year ago. By his Grace I’m still standing
@judithvenable3113
@judithvenable3113 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother and I pray for your strength as you journey through both situations. Divorce is a type of death, too, for so many hopes and dreams that you may have had for your marriage. However, after a season of pain and time for reflection and grieving, you will regain your joy. God can give you double for your trouble and "make your latter days, your best days." Think about Job and how he gained so much more after so much loss. Keep God at the forefront and talk to Him honestly about your feelings - the good, the bad, and the ugly. He already knows everything about you and is faithful to bless you in every area of your life!! You are not alone!
@viettehunter2854
@viettehunter2854 Жыл бұрын
@@judithvenable3113 Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I will keep God first!
@viettehunter2854
@viettehunter2854 Жыл бұрын
@@princesssawyer9345 Thank you so much!
@caranasser3710
@caranasser3710 Жыл бұрын
It’s been about a year and a half. I’ve prayed and done everything I can think of and Im still devastated. I keep expecting it to get better.
@ruthwells3990
@ruthwells3990 Жыл бұрын
Man of God, I praise and thank you, you are a TRUE BLESSING, ALWAYS!!!!
@onelelabase1778
@onelelabase1778 Жыл бұрын
I chose the pain of letting it go a couple of months ago, and after watching this video I broke down for the first time since I really thought I had this under control I have a lot of work to do.
@shannonmcgill8206
@shannonmcgill8206 Жыл бұрын
I have been abandoned repeatedly and rejected, left without resources and feeling like I needed to lie when people asked me where my husband was. The crushing part was that I went through that more than once. 😭
@fakouabynum2385
@fakouabynum2385 Жыл бұрын
often times we love and live in the fantasy of the personality of the person- job, money, looks, lifestyle (who dsnt value them) instead of waking up to who the person is in character. Hence, the unending abuse and pain. Find yourself first and ur values are the core foundations of all kinds of relationships
@arikawi
@arikawi Жыл бұрын
Ahhh yes, thank you sweet Jesus for this one tonight. And thank you to the good Pastor Blakes for his obedience to the Lord regarding what to speak to us about, every time. I’m praying in advance that the good Lord will grant us all the healing that we may need, and mend our broken hearts. Amen.
@nathaliejimenez110
@nathaliejimenez110 Жыл бұрын
You mentioned around 23:30 about how..” you left my channel because somethings you didn’t want to hear.” I watched your channel probably more than 5 years ago. Today I am watching this in the process of healing from such a pain - I could’ve avoided if I would’ve watched more videos and had an open heart to God and trusting His path. Amazing that you said this. Grateful for your messages and my Heavenly Father’s huge mercies!
@lorrainedemarco4927
@lorrainedemarco4927 Жыл бұрын
Excellent message! Every time I'm feeling weak and wanting to look back to my past, I just turn your messages on and listen to them and they guide me right back to God again. Thank you for investing your time and effort in us women, who find ourselves on the wrong path in life. Thank you for always pointing us back to God and reminding us that God can heal us and bring us the life that we hunger for one day. We just need to take your messages and actually apply them in our lives! Again, thank you 😊
@zuli7hernandez80
@zuli7hernandez80 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Lord, thank you Jesus for guiding me to this video in this moment. To guiding me to pastor Blake’s channel…this has brought me so much inside, knowledge, wisdom, healing… There are no coincidences. The Holy Spirit directed me here But tonight more than ever I needed this bc I’ve been really struggling with mending my broken heart/crushed spirit My mind has being obsessive And I’ve been hurting so much n can’t stop thinking abt him despite the fact that he hurt me so much, it’s been almost 5 mths since the break up (the fact that his my neighbor makes things that much harder bc I’m reminded everyday of what happened, pain, and the fact that he has already move on. It hurts like hell!!) But I thank you pastor Blakes. Thank you Jesus for his words This has helped me tremendously! This is so wonderful! ❤ Thank you father god 🙏🏼 In Jesus name I pray 🙌🏼 This too should pass. I will heal. I will be patient n I will trust in you lord Amen
@alisha4232
@alisha4232 Жыл бұрын
I lived in a marriage for 25 years of heart ache that he put me through. It took me three years of counseling to get my life back. And become a better woman.
@Passion84GodAlways
@Passion84GodAlways Жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR BLAKES & MRS. BLAKES!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
@maiangellove8949
@maiangellove8949 Жыл бұрын
It feels good to be happy alone. God bless you Pastor!💕
@tynaangelici3023
@tynaangelici3023 Жыл бұрын
Everywhere I go I see happy couples. This is what I desire.
@RLC8093
@RLC8093 Жыл бұрын
I remember being in a broken place and never seemed like the pain was going to end, but let me tell you, take it 1 day at a time and it gets easier, but make sure you heal completely because if not you will fall into the same trap over and over until you finally get it right. After i was set free I said to God, I FINALLY GOT IT! AND BE GETTING BLESSED EVERY SINCE. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!
@Rashmi_Motivation
@Rashmi_Motivation Жыл бұрын
Let all broken heart heal🙏
@AbsolutelyLinda555
@AbsolutelyLinda555 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your DEPLETED ENERGY 🙏🏽UR APPRECIATED 🥰FEEL BETTER 🙏🏽
@user-ih5hh9ox2o
@user-ih5hh9ox2o 3 ай бұрын
My heart has been crushed and still crushed, I'm seeking God
@Lifeisfun84
@Lifeisfun84 Жыл бұрын
This man is spot on … always! ….. I was like why am I so hurt still after 6 months …. Everything he says was on my mind , so glad he explained this….. just keeping moving don’t stay stuck , stay with the proces …. Your feelings are not final…. Stay focus on the outcome… 🙏🏾
@theresanatiemumba9962
@theresanatiemumba9962 Жыл бұрын
Am sharing this message with my girlfriend she just got a massive heartbreak.. she is struggling to let go but i believe upon her hearing this message something will shift within her ..Thank you Pastor , you have really been helping us
@jenniferb5342
@jenniferb5342 Жыл бұрын
Just purchased the book Father Daughter talk. Thank you to the person who recommended it!❤️
@misguidedpearls7456
@misguidedpearls7456 Жыл бұрын
All his books have helped me🥰
@nma78112
@nma78112 Жыл бұрын
I have been there and am currently there right now Pastor Blake's, I have been crying out to My Father God to comfort me for yet another failed relationship. I am tired, I believe I can do better through God's wisdom in my judgement on choosing men.
@naticat15
@naticat15 Жыл бұрын
This is SO timely. Speaking straight to my heart ❤️ Thank You.
@lisaharris5473
@lisaharris5473 Жыл бұрын
Pastor, I listen to your videos at least 2 or 3 times a day, to all scenarios in my Life from filing divorce in 2019 till now, still in court it has REALLY BEEN HELPFUL, no father as a leader 22 years of a marriage with to be said in my 40s... God knows 🙏 this has changed me Forever...blessings upon your ministry
@duaajaved3935
@duaajaved3935 Жыл бұрын
I have been through this, Thank you RC blake for your teachings. I made a few mistakes in the past because I didn't know any better, got my heart crushed, loved people who never loved me back, lived in fantasies, settled for bare minimum quite literally because I was lacking a mans love. But now no more, I'm becoming aware of myself, my values, my worth. People might come in your life, who would not treat you right, who won't respect you and stuff but I will never let myself down for anyone, especially someone who won't earn it.
@cindydelu4055
@cindydelu4055 Жыл бұрын
I NEEDED THIS! Father God, heal us all.
@RLC8093
@RLC8093 Жыл бұрын
This man is truly God sent, his videos has really helped me overcome the worst heart break of my life, God truly speaks through him! Thank you Blakes, God is going to bless you even more for being obedient and doing HIs will. I'm back in the light ladies, no more darkness Hallelujah!
@jaywill6783
@jaywill6783 Жыл бұрын
Amen, it hurts like nothing else
@tamisharowland4933
@tamisharowland4933 Жыл бұрын
It's the worst pain I ever felt
@tracylondon844
@tracylondon844 Жыл бұрын
MY HEART HAS BEEN CRUSHED, BUT I THANK GOD FOR BEING THE HEALER
@BlessedByTheeMostHigh
@BlessedByTheeMostHigh Жыл бұрын
Here for the playback! I love the intro song! 🤎
@kendradamm1428
@kendradamm1428 Жыл бұрын
Become comfortable with discomfort. Very good advice!! I needed this tonight. Thank you.
@BrittanyPOPins
@BrittanyPOPins Жыл бұрын
Love this. It doesn't have to apply to just romantic relationships, but life situations as well 👏👏👏
@lscrap9567
@lscrap9567 Жыл бұрын
Yes, that's what I just said too
@lorettamarshall7577
@lorettamarshall7577 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I am embarrassed RC Blake , I really am this is the best word that I didn't want to admit Amen.
@user-pf6lt5iv5y
@user-pf6lt5iv5y 7 ай бұрын
Thank RC music trigger me to start to reminisce …..out came the pain he does not want me never did 😢❤
@shanievans2371
@shanievans2371 Жыл бұрын
Happy and blessed to be here…joining from The Bahamas 🇧🇸. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@fatman7916
@fatman7916 Жыл бұрын
Good evening to all. Waiting for this presentation. Rose
@rochelletaylor7722
@rochelletaylor7722 8 ай бұрын
RC I SO RELATE W/LISA.. 1st AT 4 yrs of age, NOW at 53 I deal with my new me. 2020 I got COVID-19. 21 days of isolation and my phone randomly sent me RC Blake's. THAT 21 days awaked my,me. When I HEARD LISA say how they seem to pass her along. My last spoke knowing all, Said they DID IT. I want TO DO that TOO. When LISA said that she thought THAT was normal. 23-53 I think I have no idea what I need for a healing. Addicted to dysfunction. Narcissistism/ VIRTUE wasn't there but it was good to hear from you. Snuggles spoke. You can put lipstick on a pig but it's still a pig. Conflicted . This pass year has challenged my person so to the core. OUCH OUCH OUCHY OUCH OUCH!!!!!! JESUS WHELPS WHO AM I? HUH
@JudionSmith
@JudionSmith Жыл бұрын
This is so amazingly profound. Too many of us seems broken beyond repair, but there is hope in knowing that God loves us too much to leave us broken. I had my experience for years to the extent of self-destruct and self-sabotage. It was a conscious decision not to heal. I was waiting for an apology, but one early morning the still small voice woke me up and said 'unless you forgive, you will never be free'. After my healing I was commissioned to speak on 'Matters of the Heart'. Life will hurt us all in different ways and at different times, but it is how we respond that determines whether we become a permanent victim or an overcomer who is healed, centred and whole. Pain will ooze out of our body one way or the other. Whether we become easily frustrated or angry. No more pretending it's not there. Its time to feel and then heal. The world will benefit more from the healed version of us. It is time to soar to new heights. Time to release the weight we are constantly carrying at the expense of a purpose worth pursuing. Healing is the new high and forgiveness is the new drive. Let forgiveness kick start the process. Sometimes, the misconception of forgiveness is what makes it difficult at times. As a result, I was inspired to write '12 Fundamental Truths about Forgiveness' to clear up the misconceptions. It is available on AMZ. All the best everyone. Let us stay close to Him who heal the broken hearted and bind up their wounds. x
@GloAlston
@GloAlston Жыл бұрын
I would like to listen to the opening song on repeat, it’s so empowering and someone to aspire to be!
@marianroach6338
@marianroach6338 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon M Blacks how are you doing? Well, my name is Pet and I am from Jamaica, my heart is so crushed right now. But first, let me say a big thank you for your interesting beautiful loving Queenology videos of which am so grateful for. I listen attentively " Broken heart. Well, mine is. One love Pet.
@nomzamojele7100
@nomzamojele7100 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Sir i have transformed a lot because of your teachings. God bless you
@lisam6907
@lisam6907 Жыл бұрын
Such wise words..I really needed to hear this as I’m going through it
@josannebritto6898
@josannebritto6898 Жыл бұрын
We need the pain to learn the necessary lessons. Yes we do. Thanks Pastor. I pray that we do learned from our pain 👏🏿
@Nancinew
@Nancinew 18 күн бұрын
It’s so crazy to think we can still be dealing with this 30 years later. I thought I was healed from this issue but here I am going through it again.
@heathermadigan7199
@heathermadigan7199 Жыл бұрын
Amen, have been there and still feeling it… Yes, I feel like the only one going through this!!! The pain is very hurtful. I felt like my heart was coming through my chest and devastated
@rosemariefrusteri4087
@rosemariefrusteri4087 Жыл бұрын
Keep speaking to your Heavenly Father. He is & will use you. Keep your armor on soldier. God bless 🙏💕
@heathermadigan7199
@heathermadigan7199 Жыл бұрын
@@rosemariefrusteri4087 Thank You, God Bless You as well🙏🙏😇😇
@lscrap9567
@lscrap9567 Жыл бұрын
This seems to be true in other relationships too. I need to be delivered from people, ie friendships that have been plagued with betrayal. God is moving me on but sometimes the discomfort shows itself. Thank God foe healing.
@kbraxt2613
@kbraxt2613 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely have! Had my heart crushed.
@rosieneal1530
@rosieneal1530 Жыл бұрын
Thank you and I pray that God bless you and give you the health and wholeness in Jesus name.
@erickazinnerman8525
@erickazinnerman8525 Жыл бұрын
The intro song 💗💗 so beautiful and powerful
@labreah7001
@labreah7001 Жыл бұрын
I think I am dealing with a Narc and have begun to research how to break soul ties... Its been years and im stuck. I just dont know what to do anymore
@jqgatlas4281
@jqgatlas4281 Жыл бұрын
@La Breah Have you heard of Pastor Kevin Ewing. He is a true man of God out of the Bahamas. KZfaq his videos on breaking soul ties. His videos are awesome and he teaches on biblical principles. You won't regret it sis, I've been there. I thank God that He delivered me.
@arikawi
@arikawi Жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes also wrote Soul Ties. Very helpful. I really got a lot out of it.
@shawandastaggers4553
@shawandastaggers4553 Жыл бұрын
Follow Bishop and Lady Blakes, go through his playlist. I was there and his teachings help me get the strength and wisdom I needed to break free!! God wants you free!! You shall be free! You’re not here by accident!! Praying for you Sis! 🙏🏽
@DailyreadwithNee
@DailyreadwithNee Жыл бұрын
La Breah I dealt with a Narc and it tore me up to walk away but with God I did it. You will get through it. God will be by your side. It really hurts when you love these fools. But God will heal your heart ❤️
@ivetterivera9917
@ivetterivera9917 Жыл бұрын
I’m at work in tears already. I’m all those things you describe.
@dwayneross6518
@dwayneross6518 Ай бұрын
Thank you, this message was a God moment for me. Exactly what I needed to hear and re-hear to heal. God bless you!
@CC-br9qg
@CC-br9qg Жыл бұрын
God bless. This message has brought me great comfort today in letting go and not giving up on myself and my higher purpose in life. Thank you so much.
@godovereverything5478
@godovereverything5478 Жыл бұрын
I needed this right here Mr. Blakes….u spoke some real things I have been trying to figure out on how to deal with them and u most definitely gave me what I need to do while I am on my healing journey…God bless u and ur ministry with all that u do….amen….🙏🏽😊
@mischelldavis7617
@mischelldavis7617 Жыл бұрын
Broken Consciousness!! I lived this for a very long time. One day I said yes to walking away from the bondage that my mind and heart kept me attached to. Healing is an ugly process but ohhhh Lord!!! God creates the net of love through it all. Forever grateful
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