Impulsive, aggressive, or passive aggressive. Failure to learn from past actions. Neglects the rights of others. Takes what they please without regard for the consequences to others. So short term hedonists driven by their whims w superficial charm.

Im currently seeing a therapist for it. My sister in law talked me into it. And told me to tell them the truth. So I’m giving it a shot…

Not sure how or why this video doesn't have any comments but I'll say this, this is one of the most important videos a person could watch. Thank you for making it, your efforts were not in vain. Tbh I'd even go so far as to say we need stuff like this taught in schools. Choosing the right people to connect & form relationships with in life is PARAMOUNT.

I do have to love that whenever personality disorders such as this are discussed its always in the context of teaching people how to avoid people with the disorder. So you expect a person with ASPD to consider your "rights" but you are outwardly hostile to their very existence

The science community needs to do more research on this disorder. I am currently going through this with my girlfriend and I also learned one major cause of this disorder is environmental. If you grew up in an environment around drugs alcohol violence and/or ANY type of abuse is also more likely to develop this disorder.

This describes 80% of inmates I have met.

Lack empathy but easy to fake empathy,like so many other things. I am a master at it. When it’s been put to me over the years how my actions and behaviour have affected and continue to affect people,I really couldn’t care less,but I can show I do.

People that get help with this are much better. But, the extreme end, this info is exactly spot on. They need an exorcism. The abuse and violence manipulation is literally hell. Had to just stay away as a family. Tried to get my aunt help but it is just used to keep her out of sight for a bit. She knew exactly what to say or act like to get out of whatever and go do it all over again.

You know, I keep getting these Narcissism and Antisocial videos pushed to me through the algorithm and I watch them to really consider if I am the problem in my interpersonal relationships. I've had people describe me as antisocial before, but the more I hear about the mannerisms of that disorder, the more I realize I may actually be the victim of one (or a few). I dont really like to hang around folks much and can be very avoidant at times, but whenever possible I like to be of help, sometimes at my own detriment. I now realize that me wanting to be of use to someone, is like being a magnet to others who will take advantage of me and I lack the capacity to enforce boundaries, then internalize that me getting hurt was my own fault. Maybe someone else feels the same here too, I just wanted to put it out there

I had a freind with this disorder, although it was undiagnosed. Another thing is, they do not accept criticism or anything they could believe might be criticism, such as suggesting they have ASPD. In severe cases it can be incredibly damaging to the person and others they callously abuse.

I have ASPD and have never hurt anyone or anything 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m this way because of trauma.

I'm completely surrounded. GOD-BLESS.

The generalization is certainly true. I am diagnosed with ASPD, and I have engaded in criminal behavior, and I have been to prison; in prison there is a wide range of antisocial personality disorders (I'm also quite lazy so my manipulations are slight, and my criminality minor; takes too much energy). My follow through is also awful. But! I have come across certain methods of functionality. I'm in university at the moment and, Ironically (?), I am failing my Interpersonal Communication class, again. My resistance/antagonism to the course I express in the assignments by stating that the methods of communication that we are assigned to work on, I am capable of utilizing for unhealthy purpose. I argue that for those like myself, to do the assignments, say what I'm supposed to say, and perform / conform to class expectations is not a good idea. That is how I put forth a persona. Within that space between where I am, and how you think I am is where the mischief happens, and you'll never know. The appropriate, expected behavior is what I'll abuse, and that has lead to all the let downs, for the people i care about, and who care about me. Anyway, I'm seeing that there is an inverted path for those with ASPD that can lead to positive social outcomes, and that there is also a pernicious... something, I cant put my finger on it yet, but i am certain that there is an appropriate use of an antisocial personality. It is also likely that this is just a narcissistic, grandiose delusion. But hey, you know what my favorite thing about narcissism is? ...ME!!

Thank you for sharing. This is very helpful. In a new relationship and having some red flags.

My boyfriend has anti social personality disorder and our relationship has been a nightmare. He will never get help because he thinks there's nothing wrong with him. I left him yesterday and have blocked him everywhere, I had to plan for months because he'd been controlling my money. But I'm free from his crazy behaviour.

Yes, highly manipulative and act empathy or whatever. Always will say NO ONE TELLS ME ...... she was said to have it 14. She is 64 and she's still this way. It's been extreme hell all her life. Police. Drugs alcohol abused her husband. Ect. It's traumatic.

Sounds the same as covert narcissism or dismissive avoidant personality. I’m healing from a past relationship and trying to figure out what was wrong with them. It seems the only way I can heal and move forward is by understanding, but all these disorders seem similar to me.

Clinical high IQ psyhopat is almost impossible to figure out. After 5 years of great friendship that damaged me in any way possible and without realizing why it's happened, I accidentally saw her horrible" face without the mask." Telling you , it is impossible to forget ! Pure evil.

Lots of this video Is accurate I called a sociopath out she became verbally and emotionally abused me also she has a history of breaking the law she stole from her company and never was remorseful about it also she abused me by what I shared yelled at me and don’t respect my boundaries I think she still capable of doing something wrong since she doesn’t have empathy or compassion her smile was so disgusting it was fake she did manipulative towards me back then she still capable of doing harm to someone else she was and still is rough around the edges she is still a danger to society I reported her to the caregiver agency so I really thank this video helps me know what kind of people who I dealing with especially the person I used to deal with most of everything on this list fits her perfectly.

The links between ASPD and Oppositional Defiant Disorder and Conduct Disorder are interesting, and of course the links they have with ADHD. There's some research implying a heavy link in some cases between ASPD and ADHD, which creates a lack of serotonin in the brain.

I just found out tonight that my boyfriend has antisocial personality disorder an guess which disorder I have. The dreaded Borderline personality disorder. This is gonna be a challenging relationship.

I despise the public 💯!

The reason the person doesn't see their disorder is because it is subconscious behavior. We only see our conscious behavior, and we can only recall our conscious behavior. If our attention spotlight isn't on the topic, our behavior is carried out from memories. If there are consciously unknown miss-associated memories, behavior without conscious awareness will follow those memories, but the person is unaware of the behavior. Again, we only see and recollect CONSCIOUS behavior. Denial can be when the accused has no recollection of the behavior; behavior they wouldn't do; unseen subconscious behavior. At the root of many personality disorders are Subconscious False Beliefs. Stage hypnotists know how to plant them for laughs. Cult leaders do it for control or power. I knew a girl who, one day shortly after her first baby, developed a SFB that her husband was her dad. Of course, nobody knew this. When she thought of her husband, she acted fine(spousal), but absent a reason to think of him she went about her day and he never came to mind(without her spotlight he was tagged as her dad, and so wouldn't come to mind). To her husband she seemed distant, rejecting him at night, acting as though he was invisible and meant nothing during the day. He complained, but she acted like he was exaggerating and lying. That case took 24 years and buckets of tears to figure out. The danger with some psychologists is they come off all intellectual, but don't actually know what they're talking about. They even admit it, while at the same time arrogantly saying nobody knows how the mind works. They have a 4-inch thick book full of categories and labels, but that's where they stop. btw, That girl's brother came to see sis's new baby, and was calling her husband "dad" the whole time he was there. She had been within earshot but not consciously listening, and her brain took it as truth, and a SFB was created. Amazing discovery.

00:56 is a big one. It's helped me to be more aware of myself. Very great video. Thank you!

Well I just found out I was diagnosed with this as a kid in 1997 and u know what the NHS let me down because I've coped with this alone ... been fed all sorts of anti depressants.... I do lack empathy in situations but I'm a sick dad to 2 kids and I'm a class partner who's loved dearly. When I was young I was terrible .... now I deal with myself really well now amd im 37..still cant keep a job though jeez im such a good worker when im there its just keeping me there 👌

I don't go out of my way to disrespect or be mean to anyone and I would help anyone in danger if I saw it but generally I have zero emotions towards any other human or thing besides my 9 year old son. Like I said, I do not go out of my way to be nasty or spiteful to anyone but I do not desire your relationships or friendships or social structures to be honest. I am a misanthrope through and through so the more that everyone leaves me alone and I do the same to you all the better for me... No, I have never hurt, harmed maimed or killed any kind of animal or human in my childhood, teenage years or adulthood.

My next-door neighbor outfitted his Mustang with an aftermarket exhaust system that sounds like a helicopter taking off when he starts the engine and runs the engine. Six days a week at 7 AM he does this noise routine, waking me and other neighbors up out of the sound to sleep, and has done so for three years. Police ticketing and visits and neighbor complaints have had zero impact whatsoever. His behavior will not stop out of his own free will. Too bad outside legal pressure has had no effect either. The impact on our quality of life is extreme.

Thanks for diving right in 💪🏆

Ya hearing these things is kinda hard. I share a lot of these things. But never could share it with my therapist, I lied a lot. I lied tons too make myself look better, just to wanna learn now but lack the ability. I would like too add an observation I made about me, and my siblings. Me and one of them I think both have this, but me being passive aggressive and her being aggressive. It seems we learned the same coping mechanism but in a way that compliments each other. Meaning even though we weren’t hooligans and were either too smart or scared of the law too provoke it, but we tagged team our way out of tons of punishments. One time I had my phone taken away, so I asked my sibling to use theirs. When I got caught with it I said I stole in from my sibling so she wouldn’t get in trouble. They literally pretended to be mad, FURIOUS to keep up the lie. All without actually communicating with each other. Anyway the point was we share the whole diagnosis, but neither one of us have all of it. And what I’m missing they have, and what Im missing they have.

Can't imagine being this way. My moral code of ethics is strong.

I'd like to see some research on the link between aspd and reactive attachment disorder. The symptomology is SO VERY MUCH THE SAME! This is hugely concerning raising a child with all of the same personality traits. But it's called an attachment disorder. This video is describing the person in my home.

Having aspd sort of means you would have had to have harmed people. Having a personality disorder means they have little insight into their behavior.

These diagnoses are so the doctors can prescribe meds. Codes for insurance companies.

Why are all these videos geared towards how to ostracize and alienate people with ASPD? Why aren’t there more helpful resources for people w/ ASPD or people who love someone w/ ASPD who want to try to improve the relationship vs “find them out” in order to run away. I think this is a disservice to society. People w/ ASPD who are property supported do much better and can be productive members of society. More productive at least.

I think this personality is prevelant in puerto rican people of Hispanic descent . Specially stateside. If you think personality disorders cant be connected by racenand culture think again. In WW2 there was a diagnosis of Puerto Rican syndrome with the soliders known to produce psuedo epilepsy and siezures. Also Puerto Ricans are known to have Ataque de nervious a cultural syndrome of mostly latino women. Simply Fascinating! Look at Chicago l, NY, Philadelphia and New England Puerto Rican communities and anti social behaviour abounds.

I have some of the traits of an antisocial personality disorder, but not all of them. Some of the situations I get in are ambiguous. There is no law that says I have to find a woman attractive, but you can cause a lot of heartache if you don't. I'm pretty awful in that regard. I can't help it. I have all these passive aggressive mannerisms that nearly always cause pain. I've had this problem for over forty years. It's death on my social life. I'm not trying to make excuses, but I have seen other guys practically tell a girl to her face that she was ugly. I can think of three times I've seen that happen just off the top of my head. For instance, one time I was sitting with this guy in the school cafeteria at college, and this guy pointed at this girl sitting at a table within easy hearing distance and said, "Look at that. Isn't she ugly?" I said, "No, she isn't." But my own involuntary, passive aggressive mannerisms are probably more unforgiveable because they always hit a nerve. It's really hard to screen them out. It seems like something nearly always defeats me in relationships. I've received some attention from this girl I like, and I get the feeling she wants to try out an intimate relationship with me, but, I swear to God, it's like somebody has put salt peter in my meals. My pecker isn't working. I'm sure it seems to her right now that I don't value her, but that isn't the case. I'm staying away from her because my pecker isn't working. ... I can see how some of the things when I was growing up created a lot of this mess I'm in. I've been through it with a psychiatrist, and that didn't seem to help. I've kind of gotten to where I prefer to be alone. I have some ambition to be a writer, and I like to have a lot of time to ruminate.

I find that its not enough for a person to read off a list of traits and characteristics. But, to understand what the underlying issue is. Otherwise, they tend to misinterpret the traits. Not all psychopathy shows up in childhood as bed wetting, hurting animals, arson. It can. It does. But not always. But it can show up in other ways though. For example, bullying other children, lying a lot more than most kids typically would, etc. Just throwing that out there. Yes they absolutely will tell someone whatever they think that person wants to hear. They don't mind deceiving and lying.

I think its more they do not care about the consequences, than not know them. Pretending to not know them is just what they do to manipulate.

So clear and concise!

Excellent information!!!

A lot of these are overt traits. Many of these folks are very understated. 🎉

As a lifelong fisherman and hunter… killing small animals and larger animals is totally fine. Just make sure you do it quickly and with respect for nature.

I'm antisocial but wish I wasn't but I find people and social settings draining and every fiber of my body wants to run..then when I'm alone its painful sometimes I self medicate with drugs and the cycle continues. I've done lots of work on myself but it feels like purgatory 😮

I thought my mother was narcissistic but I think she as some antisocial traits or just antosocial, it sould be fun to compare both side to side

Met too many passive aggressive people in my life my father being one of them plus he's very narcissistic.

I was told aspd include npd and BPD?

I know I'm going to prison one day, I don't feel bad if I don't want to, I do what I want when I want. I remember every slight. I take ridiculous risks. I'm 1:100. Who am I in your life? 😂😂😂

I can understand why people dislike aspd, I have a friend who has it and he told me he sees nothing wrong with manipulating others nor getting them in trouble if it benefits him, I was just like wtf … I told him it isn’t his fault he lacks the instincts like empathy and morality that the rest of us have but he has a responsibly to keep his behavior in check if he wants to participate in society but he disagreed. I got to say I don’t get the hate (nor why people blend them together) on narcissists though. Like if you look into it narcissism stems from having been neglected, belittled or mistreated growing up thus the people develop an inferiority complex and self hatred and feel a need to prove themselves to others for validation. They don’t lack empathy like aspd people do, they’ve just developed trust issues and internalized self hatred.

I thought I was antisocial. But this doesn't sound like me at all. Lol like 99% doesn't sound like me. BUT I don't like to be around people. I would rather be alone or with a small crowd or with my family.

Superbly put!!?

Dr, Snipes, you are gorgeous!

As a psychologist this type of disorder a person does not do well in therapy. Because they just mirror the therapist.

What wipp you say about someone have nothing to do with their lother an father family do not have any contact with them an she's happy so

This whole presentation on ASPD is actually just a bullet point lecture pointing fingers at something you don't seem to comprehend or can't treat with drugs. Listing a bunch of the most extreme traits and concluding that you can spot someone with ASPD? Doubtful. This lecture never even comes close to describing the average person with ASPD. It's no wonder people with ASPD are anti-social. You so called intellectuals are jerks. The fact is that most people with ASPD tend to keep to themselves and try to avoid exhibiting their disorder all-together in any situation. The fact is that you will meet, talk to, and be around people with ASPD your whole life and never see them exhibit a single one of these extreme bullet point traits ever. Even if you see what this presentation is explaining happen from time to time in your life, it won't be from someone with ASPD, because people with ASPD are far too witty and manipulative to ever show these traits in public. The fact is that these bullet points are nothing more than linkable traits that people with ASPD have and they can very from completely subdued to extreme, to non-existant depending on the person and situation. It's taken phycologists decades of research to find these traits and only under extremely close observation with extreme cases of the disorder where the average person with ASPD would never even be involved. What information that is being presented here is completely out of context and irrelevent to the layman. However, for someone with ASPD who is willing to open their mind and consider the symptoms they have, this presentation could be benifical as a starting point to get help.

Is she reading off a PowerPoint

Trump.

That's the human being lifestyle and human nature, Doc. Think about war. I'm sure war constitutes as Antisocial behavior.

Where did you learn this crap

Not nice to speak like this.