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Sheesh healing my inner child one video at a time ✨ thank you I’ve never felt so validated and understood

So basically just ask for what you want in a relationship and don't do any passive aggressive behavior.

My protest behavior is acting like I'm not attached. I don't do the other things listed but acting like I'm not clingy I noticed can also backfire. Especially for partners who also have attachment. I always wanted to be seen as the cool strong girlfriend but the truth is I am really insecure and lonely a lot

When someone chooses someone over you. They aren’t your person.

Thanks Sadia, I only recogised this recently at the age of 39. This video confirms it. I am an avoidant type, and I just need to communicate my feelings and needs directly without fear come what may.

This is so damn true, informative, material based on psychology and human behaviour

You've explained my childhood and my way of feeling when i was with my ex relationships, i get more clear now why i was feeling and reacting as i did. I really hope to heal this, sometimes i feel hopeless and disolated

And somehow the anxious attachment and avoidant attachment always attract each other

When my partner and I were fighting all the time and I had the angry switch jammed on - another psychologist on KZfaq had a tip regarding “opposite action”. You want to yell at them? Move toward them with tenderness, for example. I found this worked but couldn’t quite fathom the exact reasons behind it. The penny just dropped: “opposite action” is actually just stopping the protest behaviour. Wow. Thank you for this!

This is not an ordinary video, you just told my whole life being a stranger, god bless u angel ❤

Sadia you explained it in such a good way 🙏🏻 you are really good 🙏🏻

Oh my God this is soooooooo mmmmmee!! every single behavior or thought you mentioned is about me! I cant change myself i feel embarrassed to admit that i want the person or I need to talk to them! instead i pretend that I'm so independent and i dont need anyone in my life! i feel so lonely and vulnerable!

damn, best video I‘ve ever seen. needed this. was thinking I am delusional about relationships. in fact I just always play the independant woman, but my true need is to be loved & cuddled.

❤that is most accurate realistic analization. Best explained ever👍👍👍👍💗

Well, my jealousy is a treasure. It appears when I truly care, if I am not jealous then I don't care, if I stop being jealous it is over. As simple as that.

Sometimes when people chase someone they believe if they get this person. It proves love. On the other hand, if you dont love yourself and have your own boundaries... when someone shows interest in you, you turn away...thinking how can they love me when i...(self hate talk) every negative emotion shows up about yourself. ❤To truly find the one, find yourself FIRST!

You are so right!

Yep this resonated big time and I had parents just as she described

Thank you for your much needed perspectives Sadia.❤️

Amen sista!!!! Excellent explanation!

I felt this, it happened to my friendships as well

This is so accurate!!

This video was on point! ❤

This is crazy I watched this video randomly and ended up watching her describe me

U ARE UNDENIABLY GREAT 🤙 🤙 i can’t stop liking u ❤’🎯

thank you ❤🙏

I have to admit this is really good advice. :)

Total agree with you Sadia. I'd rather be honest than playing cool

Thank you

Yes

This content is superb!

I can never remember your name properly after some amount of time, but I swear you're IT in the dating industry! Just teach men how to spot good women and how to sacrifice for them. And teach women what they're worth, because some of them really don't see it and it's so frustrating the kind of stuff they'll put with when they've never had to. It would make our lives as men a whole lot easier if we didn't have to go get good women out of situations they should never have been in.

That was brilliant

Having said that, there are about 90 out of hundred, who have had a traumatised past(Childhood), henceforth the chances of having a good relationship once you are adults is next to none. Sadia, could you also speak more about, how to deal with such existential crisis? I mean, how to do the work? Mind you, not all the people suffering from such issues are necessarily equipped with avenues or enough education, that seem to make these recurring issues even more monstrous. But trust me almost all the families especially in the third world are troubled! Also, so far I have noticed that most of the podcasts or Talks seem to emphasize more on the romantic relationships, so it seems it is sort of too inclined toward sexual relationships which could be may be romantic as well. However I personally feel, such troubled childhood can sabotage the other very important portals of life too, e.g., the professional life, places of work are imbued with toxicity and most of it, I am sure stem from the toxicity at home and then get transported to the other areas of life.

Love u maam.... u r next level high quality women 🎉🎉🎉

All moms are like that btw. They sometimes punish the kids too

I like your content .. Can you add proper title to each video .. that will help you appear in search results.

❤️💚💙 I love you

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I can’t shake off a girl - she constantly creeps on social media - it’s been going on for 12 years - she writes emails to my jobs - asks friends to creep on social media - her boyfriends ask for money for her - what is the solution?

Miss khan your the best

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@sadiapsychology can you please explain why some people have such a huge gap in age in relationships?

Spot on analysis!

But what happens when you learned this lesson in the past and you started a new relationship and communicated your needs to the new person but she won't be nice and she'll say you're jealous and people need to be friends and won't communicate with you, she'll change behaviour and blame all on you, even when you discovered her in suspicious situations and found her with archived chats on WhatsApp with female names but it was a man? It doesn't matter how much you work on you when you continue meeting liar women who pretend to be what they're not. It's full of narcissists 💔

Wow, I wish my girlfriend could see this video before the ruins things for us.

Will you make video on breadcrumbing behaviour of partner?

This is me.....😢

When homegirl goes through this separation anxiety, time to do a reality check and STOP being so needy!!!

Southworth and not being into someone to mush. Balance with the way you think

Could just all the gurls be like Sadia, please?

Hmmm

Be authentic.

This applies for both men and women ? If a man says this to a woman is not coming too feminine?

I would suggest putting descriptive titles, These generic titles wouldn't attract people to clixk

Sounds Like My Hubby!..He Always Says 2 Me!..U Can Do Without Me!..But, I Cant Do Without U!..And, Hes Always Bin a Very Jealous Possessive & Manipulative Man!..But, I’m Still Here!

Yes the hot and cold that's what I realised my mum would encore me when in her presents but when I was with friends the opposite then I attracted men like that, then did the work and now I have an amazing man and he's consistent with no hot and cold games

I attract men like that.

Change your channel name to Sadia Khan. You are your brand now. Love what you offer the world 😁.

Em português, por favorrrrr!!!!

If only she was single…❤

This is a ideal girlfriend for Andrew Tate

Try this on? Because of resonances and con and Khan who's getting the raw end of this world thing?

Looking everywhere for the smell.

The degree would be limiting. That same degree could have open doors. Just stereotypical arrogance with that degree means I know nothing hahaha.

1st

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Isn’t this all women ?

Am you only fan 🤭