How to STOP being messy WITHOUT working harder!
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Күн бұрынAre you stuck in the cycle of cleaning and tidying your home, just for it to get messy again? The REAL REASON your home isn't staying tidy and always seems messy is not what you think! You are NOT lazy, in fact, you are probably a perfectionist!
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@ChelWagz 4 ай бұрын
"Done today is better than perfect tomorrow". That hit me! excellent advice for recovering perfectionists.
@judithhawkins1126 4 ай бұрын
I’m 77 and you have inspired me to declutter before I croak🤪. So even my 83 year hubby is impressed with the organization you taught me. Thank you!
@user-fv7jh8pp9l 4 ай бұрын
Love your comment and resemble it (76 here but no hubby or help) spent the first 60 years gathering stuff hope to spent the next 60? getting rid of it.
@brendatomlinson 4 ай бұрын
You ladies inspire me! I’m 61 (62? I forget) and feel like I’m late to the party. But it’s never too late to start!
@jamiejoygatto 4 ай бұрын
I am proud of you!
@KSLassie457 4 ай бұрын
@@brendatomlinson Brenda, 66 here and I have been struggling to get started with decluttering my small home for about 3 years now. I am more determined than ever to make as much progress as possible in 2024. Wishing you can succeed this year also! Declutter More in ‘24!❤
@marilynndesilva7620 4 ай бұрын
I'll be 80 this year. After dealing with my mother's home when she passed I swore I wouldn't inflict the same on my children. Mom was a typical American consumer who acquired way more stuff than was necessary. (How many pairs of shoes with matching handbags does one woman need!?!) Not only have I done my kids a favor, but I've also made my own life easier by eliminating anything that wasn't useful or meaningful.
@MarielaMerino 4 ай бұрын
"be crappier" this is my motto for 2024 😅
@AmazinCarpeDiem 4 ай бұрын
That motto is AMAZE-BALLS! 😊
@MarielaMerino 4 ай бұрын
@@AmazinCarpeDiem hahaha a
@carmenbyrne6521 4 ай бұрын
Mine, too. . . 😊
@lynseyokamura1217 4 ай бұрын
🤣😂🤣
@collywogs2258 4 ай бұрын
That’s hilarious!!! Cas should have a motto contest; “CRAPPY=HAPPY”
@nontypicalwyominite 4 ай бұрын
My daughter calls it “Obsessive Compulsive Distracted Cleaning Disorder”😂 I can’t just clean the glass on the table without going through my jewelry box in the closet.
@JessicaOrban3606 4 ай бұрын
😂
@jamiejoygatto 4 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@WholeFoodSpark 4 ай бұрын
Exactly. ADHD brain = one small task turns into a full day of cleaning. Lol
@loriwald9532 4 ай бұрын
OMG! Tell your daughter I wrote this quote down and am going to read it before I do a 10 min declutter or cleaning task each day! It will get me started with a laugh but also remind me that this is who I tend to be and it will trigger in my mind to stay focused on my one goal. ❤😂😅
@shellc3509 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 Love this comment!
@MrsAlmaTrumble 4 ай бұрын
You're not lazy, you're energy efficient.
@jenniferpearce1052 4 ай бұрын
Can I get an Energy Star label?
@MrsAlmaTrumble 4 ай бұрын
@@jenniferpearce1052 lol, me too.
@Sorchia56 4 ай бұрын
Love it! 😂😂😂
@Sorchia56 4 ай бұрын
@@MrsAlmaTrumble🌟
@MrsAlmaTrumble 4 ай бұрын
@@Sorchia56 thank you.
@ingaredd4671 4 ай бұрын
Sister, you have saved my mental health and life IN 10 minutes.! If you never make another video, this is all we need, LITERALLY ❤😮😮
@drvidhyan 2 ай бұрын
😮😮😂😂😂
@sarasohail2918 2 ай бұрын
That's true I m feeling like you are talking about me😢
@kayellejay9608 4 ай бұрын
Watched 2 minutes of this video paused and scrubbed my shower for 10 minutes. It's not perfect but it's a lot cleaner than it was. Thanks Cass.
@mlm85000 4 ай бұрын
From one recovering perfectionist to another: Done is better than perfect!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Yes!
@karynstouffer3562 4 ай бұрын
Perfection paralysis is a real thing. I feel that so hard. I can hear my mom, in the back of my head, micromanaging my every "cleaning" action. I become frozen with fear of disappointing her, and she's been gone for nearly 21 years.😢
@user-fv7jh8pp9l 4 ай бұрын
So you're saying she still lives with you but she doesn't live with you...I've been there.
@Meltigger 4 ай бұрын
I so get this. I struggle too with chronic stuff and the voice of a well-meaning mother who has crushed me with her barrage of cleaning help videos, blogs, tiktoks until I finally had to say stop it because you are hurting me. Thankfully she has but the damage is done of never feeling good enough. Amazing how these things can imbed so deep. Hugs to you and know you have a friend overcoming with you. I am perfectly imperfect.
@brendatomlinson 4 ай бұрын
OMG yes! My hypercritical mom lives in my head and she’s been dead since 1991!! I took the opposite route of her and became a slob. I’m now trying to change my ways. I’m working hard with the Take Your House Back program, my Christmas gift to me.
@karynstouffer3562 4 ай бұрын
@@Meltigger 💓
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
I think you'll find embracing good enough more liberating than you can imagine. Just keep practicing good enough. One day, you'll breathe a sigh of relief.
@kmac7255 4 ай бұрын
This perfectionist is hearing "whole-ass your half-assing for a while and see how that goes" and I can get behind that!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Yes!
@lillianmartinez1593 4 ай бұрын
OMG! A zoom make over!! Wow! Honestly, I don't understand why you're not on HGTV!! They are missing the boat on this!! I loved your show, and I am sure that millions of others loved it too!! Thanks for the kick in the butt! You know me too well!! TFS! 💕🌴😎
@MrsAlmaTrumble 4 ай бұрын
They lost out on her and another KZfaqr I watch. Both of them appeared on HGTV.
@scattyfi 4 ай бұрын
I only saw a couple of episodes that people posted on here ages ago (think they got taken down) but because I'm in the UK they just weren't available to watch anywhere & I know all us Clutterbugs on this side of the pond really wanted to see them! Cas is absolutely right, who needs some money making corporate media? Cas can do exactly the same on here & I bet it'll be even better because it won't be set up like a show & Cas can totally be herself! I bet she got told "you can't say that on TV!" a few times on the show 😆
@meganfitzpatrick1019 4 ай бұрын
She was on HGTV! It was an awesome show, too!!!
@tngirlz4622 4 ай бұрын
Quoting Cass here: “If it’s worth doing, it’s worth half-asking!” A-MEN, sister. Here I am half-assing along with you. Is my house spotless, tidy, and mother-in-law inspection ready? Nope. Are we buried in dust, dirty dishes, and clutter? Also nope. I would put that quote on a plaque to hang in my kitchen, but the adorable wooden letters and plaque bases are all buried in a pile of craft supplies in the basement. 😁 Thank you for your sage advice!
@jamiejoygatto 4 ай бұрын
Seems like you know where you need to start your next half-assed project! DECLUTTERING THE BASEMENT!! 😄😄😄
@marlenelieb5935 4 ай бұрын
Hey, not doing that craft project is not making a mess. That's a win.
@cb9825 4 ай бұрын
@@jamiejoygatto maybe not like a full basement declutter, but a little half-assed declutter😂also using up some wooden letters will make the stash smaller, so the mess will be smaller too! 👌
@jamiejoygatto 4 ай бұрын
Like Cas says, "I hope you suck at this." heehee Good Luck and I am proud of you. @@cb9825
@carmenhastings9875 4 ай бұрын
Yes 🙌🏽 decluttering the wooden letters… thats a WIN 🎉 🏆
@michellefonville5326 4 ай бұрын
Perfection Paralysis Is So Real!!!
@messily1456 4 ай бұрын
“Done today is better than perfect tomorrow.” 🤯
@kimreed2489 4 ай бұрын
This was very encouraging! I'm struggling with several chronic health conditions, so on some days, just doing the basics is a challenge. I realized I've been beating myself up for the times I don't make it to doing 'above and beyond'', but I feel like I can breathe now and dare I say even feel proud that the basics are done every day even if I feel lousy? On my better days, I have been thinking of all these deep cleaning projects instead of breaking it down into doable steps, and yup, perfectionism paralysis is very real! Thanks, Cas!
@jamiejoygatto 4 ай бұрын
Same! Chronic pain from autoimmune disorders. Ugh. I here you. I am still keeping my home "like a magazine" because decor/antiques/blah blah blah are my passions. Got rid of a WHOLE lot over the past six months. I just want to be ready for days ahead when I can no longer do all this. Take good care!
@karrieneal4484 4 ай бұрын
Completely sympathize, and understand with you both. Not just mentally driving myself crazy about wanting things Perfect but yet absolutely paralyzed. when I do attempt at cleaning, can only do so much due to multiple health reasons. My heart breaks & truly am sorry for anyone that has health issues on top of dealing with “ Paralyzed perfectionism” 🙄
@kimreed2489 4 ай бұрын
@@jamiejoygatto, thank you so much! I know it's hard to balance taking care of our homes and ourselves when facing these challenges. Best wishes to you as well!
@kimreed2489 4 ай бұрын
@@karrieneal4484, I hope you can give yourself some grace. :) I pray your health situation improves!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@claradontcara 4 ай бұрын
Bwahahaaahahahaaaaaa when you said that we could "shove our tea towels in our kitchen drawers without folding" I almost fell out of my chair. I NEVER fold stuff in my drawers and I always feel so GUILTY about it!
@LaJuana558 4 ай бұрын
And I went into a panic over it! What, I could never not fold my towels and fold them precisely… which is apparently causing a problem for me. 😂😂😂
@CheriJ11 4 ай бұрын
I gasped! I could not stuff my tea towels in a drawer without folding them first. I would lose sleep over a thing like that. 😅
@lauriepowell3959 4 ай бұрын
I don’t have problem with tea towels because. I hang them on hooks by the loop/label that’s usually on them. If not, I snap a cafe curtain ring on them and hang them on the hooks with the others. They live on my door to garage, which isn’t too far to manage. Now, I DO have a messy linen closet problem. I am a butterfly 🦋 so I took the door off it long ago and have a curtain tied back instead. I am now trying to half neatly stuff the bottom sheet in a pillow case so it is all together…and so they don’t fall off the shelves. I don’t even use top sheets so those are folded on top shelf and available to use as curtains, tablecloths, etc. Thanks for the “don’t fold them anymore” hint. 👍👍
@Nancy-hf6mt Ай бұрын
My daughter stuffs, I pull it out and fold. Then I worry about what will happen to her when I pass on
@claradontcara Ай бұрын
@@Nancy-hf6mt I think My mom was the same way!!!!! She fretted about my non-folding ways!
@aurorabella2000 4 ай бұрын
Omg !! Everything you said describes me to a T!! This is a great video so helpful !! I blame a lot of that perfectionist attitude I get from my mom who keeps a tidy and organized home !! So I swear I’m spending my life trying to keep things always tidy !! It’s exhausting 😅 So thank you for your wise words!!! ❤❤❤
@Lashlove16 4 ай бұрын
This video is the best one ever ..I wished I had seen it 30 years ago ……. This explains exactly who I am . I had to realize this 8 years ago on my own I dump my freshly washed underwear in a drawer compartment…I don’t fold
@sgallant2107 4 ай бұрын
I think it was Heloise II who said there is no point in folding your underwear. Wasted effort!
@catherinelain1370 4 ай бұрын
Yes, I am an “all or nothing” person. Perfectionist. I have been working on myself for years. When I go to clean a room, I want to it too top to bottom. I have made myself just do the perimeter and surfaces around stuff. Once I got all the rooms decluttered and in order, I have no problem keeping it that way now. But it used to be messy everywhere. I used to start over writing a post it note at work if I made a mistake. Now I just scratch through the mistake and keep writing. That was very hard to do but now it is easy. Decluttering my house was key so I thank you CAS because you are the one who started me on that journey. ❤
@jacinthiajones7346 4 ай бұрын
Goodness, I didn't realize I was a perfectionist until seeing this video. And then your comment about the post it notes! I go through four or five post it notes just writing a simple reminder to myself -- because it has to be perfect. I've got work to do!
@meganfitzpatrick1019 4 ай бұрын
Lowering your expectations is brilliant!!! Makes life SO much easier!!! 💕
@lmullens75 4 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh Cass, this is for me! I’ve been doing counseling for anxiety, and it turns out it’s not, it’s ADHD, and I’ve been labeled type a and a perfectionist… I’ve actually started doing stuff more sloppy, and just attempting to conquer the clutter and little baby steps and it’s helping.
@brendatomlinson 4 ай бұрын
Hey sister, turns out mine is ADHD too! 👊🏻
@sandyrice3559 4 ай бұрын
This totally resonates with me, but it goes against everything that was pounded into my head growing up. I now have a new mantra... "Half-ass is better than not at all". Maybe if I repeat it a million times it'll click!
@elizabethsydnor5247 4 ай бұрын
Amen! Me too!
@shellyjay8954 4 ай бұрын
I always say”something is better than nothing.”
@user-nv7rz1bz7w 4 ай бұрын
I am 68. I grew up being told, "If a job is worth doing, it's worth doing RIGHT." I never felt like I was doing it right. Add that to ADHD freeze, and there's a LOT that has gone undone far too long. I cannot put my towels or silverware away and let the cupboard or drawer not look perfect. As each of my parents passed, both in different states, their stuff has ended up in and all over my house. I'm drowning in a giant mish mash pile.
@mheninger99 4 ай бұрын
Slow and steady you'll get there...
@user-nv7rz1bz7w 4 ай бұрын
@mheninger99 I'm trying to keep that mindset. The hardest part is starting. I don't even want to see it lol I'm a sentimental keeper, as were my parents. I try to pretend I'm someone else 😏
@MaryKane-qv5vz 2 ай бұрын
I have a large bag of ornaments wrapped and ready for the charity shop. If I died tomorrow these items would end up being thrown in the bin. I have way too much anyway and I am happy, at my age, to let the go.
@tgayer1 4 ай бұрын
You cracked me up when you whispered “sorry “.😂😂😂
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
:)
@dia9491 4 ай бұрын
Love that scene where you’re pushing the pj’s into the drawer. You had that sneaky smile, like you’re in the know and it cracked me up beyond belief lol😂😂😂😂
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@LivingVintageAndHandmade 4 ай бұрын
This is ME in a NUTSHELL! Thank you Cass for permission to not wait until I can do it "perfectly"!💗
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@liquidgoldpictures 4 ай бұрын
THIS IS BASICALLY FREE LIFE ADVICE - NOT ONLY FOR DECLUTTERING AND DOING HOUSEWORK! You broke it down just so beautifully! Thank you for all your amaze-balls videos :D XX
@ladyb5888 4 ай бұрын
LOVE YOU CAS! We appreciate you so much! ❤
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@lina_mityukova 4 ай бұрын
I'd like to submit for this zoom session, but I realize I have already decluttered and organized SO much thanks to you! But this is one great opportunity, and I'm looking forward to seeing the video of someone's house's makeover!
@ccsimonds9590 4 ай бұрын
Mine is always messy because those living in my house mess everything up faster than I can clean it up.
@joannawhite1441 4 ай бұрын
Same! Three males with adhd and I just can’t keep up. My husband tries but his brain just can’t be organized.
@joannawhite1441 4 ай бұрын
Same! Three males with adhd and I just can’t keep up. My husband tries but his brain just can’t be organized.
@joannawhite1441 4 ай бұрын
Same! Three males with adhd and I just can’t keep up. My husband tries but his brain just can’t be organized.
@joannawhite1441 4 ай бұрын
Same! Three males with adhd and I just can’t keep up. My husband tries but his brain just can’t be organized.
@joannawhite1441 4 ай бұрын
Same! Three males with adhd and I just can’t keep up. My husband tries but his brain just can’t be organized.
@kimberlydavisson6634 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Cas, for this post. I needed to hear that. I spent all of 2022 recovering from near death. Most of 2023 overcompensating for 2022 until I got sick again. I am on the OCD side of perfectionism. My mother believed being in 2nd place was no more than the first loser. I have been striving for perfection ever since. Yet, everything I've ever learned has come to me from a mistake I've made. As 2024 rolled in I gave up. Tomorrow, in 15-minute intervals, I am taking the garbage bag around the house and tossing stuff. I've had a memory bin for years that will be coming with me. Please keep this kind of content coming--you are a great cheerleader!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@sheryllknapp9803 4 ай бұрын
Cas, you understand the overwhelmed 🦋🐝 SO well! That's why I've subscribed to your channel for years! ❤
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
@jknallen 4 ай бұрын
OMG!!!! This video is me! I absolutely feel like if I’m not going to do it all correctly and the way I want it why start. But then I never have the time to spend to do it that way. I’ll have to take your advice and try to be crappier!! 😊 maybe just getting 10 minutes of stuff I don’t need out of my house a day will eventually add up to making a difference. Maybe I’ll try one box/bag a day. Here’s hoping. This was a great video!
@hyppomaniaa 3 ай бұрын
your work is life changing. I've cried to your videos so many times.
@evalindell2757 4 ай бұрын
😂 My dog peed on the livingroom floor yesterday and I not only dried that up but I vacuumed the entire room, moved couches and took all trimning as well. Then I cleaned the floor before putting the couches etc. back. 😂 Even I felt it was a little over the top but how nice it is to have a clean livingroom! 🫣😬
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Embrace good enough! Thoroughly clean up the pee, then go back to what you were doing prior to the piddle.
@Angebaby1237 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤Cas I love you…….I was soooo nervous to watch this weeks video….but I have never felt good about my messy home as I have in this moment!!! This video is incredibly motivating!! I can’t even wait for the video to end. I’m stopping it here and I’ll come back to it!!! Thank you!!!!! ❤❤❤
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@deloreshall5459 4 ай бұрын
Hey Cass. Thanks for the peptalk. Recovering perfectionist. Organization and decluttering journey been going on for a while. I have occassional relapses of perfectionism. Needed this reset tonight. Love ya. You should still be on HGTV. ❤❤❤❤
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@meriawakened 4 ай бұрын
I tell myself to do "good enough". One way I cheat is give myself 5 seconds to fold each piece of laundry. Then I immediately put it away. That keeps me from having clean laundry pile up.
@mckenzielynntozanwrites 4 ай бұрын
"Basically what I'm saying is, 'BE CRAPPIER.'" 😂😂😂❤
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Do it!! It's great! WE can be craptastic together!
@oopurpledove 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so real 🙏
@bridgetmagby1610 4 ай бұрын
This was so helpful and so true in everything she said because that’s excatly how I am! Thanks so much for sharing this I’m gonna try it!
@natikokoloskova8230 4 ай бұрын
10000000% TRUE!!!! Absolutely super helping advising words! Thanks a lot 🙏
@adena1122 4 ай бұрын
Haha! Thanks for making me feel better and keeping it real! It's okay to not be perfect, get rid of crap and shove the crap we keep outta sight. I can't do it all at once and that's okay
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
It's totally okay!
@theastewart6721 4 ай бұрын
You are so right. This video is spot on. Thanks!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@jorget9179 4 ай бұрын
I love these motivational videos with hard truths. It’s what I need to hear most of the time, thank you ❤
@alisonj1384 4 ай бұрын
i know you've said this so many times before but, for some reason, it has really hit home. Thank you
@abbym3915 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this reminder. I'm also finding it helpful to see taking care of my home as an extension of self-care; taking care of my space as a way of taking care of myself.
@amepandabear07 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this!!!❤
@MendeMaria-ej8bf 4 ай бұрын
True analysis. Thank you, elegant woman.
@marysusa6985 4 ай бұрын
Just adore you, Cass. You have the best approach to life. Thank you for sharing!!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@lbentley 3 ай бұрын
I watch so many organizing decluttering videos but you’re the only one that hits home and makes sense and gives REAL practical tips EVERY SINGLE TIME. We appreciate you!!
@nhabinezabudara8797 3 ай бұрын
Exactly my self,amazing you are!!!❤
@denisedaves2097 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for letting me know it's OK to not be perfect! Everything you said in this video really hits home with me.
@gengoddard2105 4 ай бұрын
thank you so very much - i am struggling with this right now so this video is just what i needed. and i did not realize perfection paralysis is a real thing. i really appreciate this video.
@lariegonzalez3631 4 ай бұрын
Kas, your the best. Since I found you on KZfaq you have been my motivation to keep on trying to keep my space clean. I have applied all your tips and tricks and let me tell you that they work. Love you and sending many blessings and so excited for the HOT Mess to start
@user-tv5rn8yi6v 4 ай бұрын
Wow! Exciting news - can’t wait to see the lucky recipients for a virtual makeover with you!! I’ve already decluttered and organized my entire house. To be fair I’ve always been tidy so only the closets, garage & attic needed any work. I love having a more simplified home!!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Can't wait!
@valeriebarnoski1319 4 ай бұрын
Wow, this is so me and I get overwhelmed! Love this video, very helpful!
@AM-bm2xw 4 ай бұрын
I love this. The expectations Ive put on meself for my house, motherhood, etc., have been wild. Im slowly peeling back the layers of expectations, failure, and shame. Thank you for this message :)
@FloridasYesteryear 4 ай бұрын
I purchased a pot rack for my cupboard and I feel a lot stressed knowing I can pull out a pot or pan and not have an avalanche falling out of cupboard. Sometimes my dishes are still a little wet when I put them in the cupboard.
@sgallant2107 4 ай бұрын
Scandalous!😂
@RainbowPyramid 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message❤❤❤
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@hcmangs3634 4 ай бұрын
Cas, you are so amazing, you have such a talent speaking so concise, to the point and at the same time so warm and funny!!! Very few can also be warm and funny while being a ‘to the point’ concise speaker. You are seriously better than majority of therapists. Thank you for repeating this message and understanding a lot of us, especially me, need to hear it 1000x’s to get it through. ❤
@qormi1000 4 ай бұрын
You continue to inspire and motivate us with every video. Thank you Cass.
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@theevolutionofmama7771 4 ай бұрын
I need to listen to this every morning while I drink my coffee. This is so inspirational. I am LOVING this type of your videos. Thank you for your work. It’s really helping 💕
@cathyanderson785 4 ай бұрын
Found you and The Minimal Mom last week and you two lit a fire under me for decluttering! Learning how to break down the decluttering process into manageable tasks made all the difference. I have tackled some major problem areas and have purged like never before. It is so liberating! Thank you Thank you Thank you for showing me the way!
@cathybergeron5485 4 ай бұрын
OMG - How much do I love you!!!!!! You are so real!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
:)
@a1waystreet597 4 ай бұрын
You are a clutter lightening bug. So positive. Thank you✌️
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
I try!
@tamandaflynn6090 4 ай бұрын
Yay, so excited about the upcoming makeover x
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Me too!
@heatherm941 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this! This is exactly what I needed to hear. I really appreciate you. You are so fun and real AND helpful! You are my favorite! ❤
@cpatel587 2 ай бұрын
All I needed was this video 😅 you are my favorite person on KZfaq ever ❤
@sevdedlk2118 3 ай бұрын
This is the most useful video I've ever watched on cleaning. I appreciate it. Thank you!!!
@ChristineS.-nc7zq Ай бұрын
Thank you for your excellent advice. Incredibly helpful and life-changing!!
@thebraveturtle 4 ай бұрын
I SO needed to hear this today 🥹 Thank you so much, Cass!! So thankful for you and your content.
@Clutterbug 3 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@ashblack4351 4 ай бұрын
"Be crappier" Best video ever! Yes analysis paralysis the struggle is real! Thank you so much. I love your channel. I think this is really gonna help
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@mrssmurf55 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video exhausted after work and the whole house needs hoovering and floors washed and was thinking i shouldn't use the cordless hoover cos it doesn't hoover as well as my corded one so procrastinating even starting this video gave me permission to just do a quick hoover better half done than not.
@lorettahouben6565 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this excellent video. I have recently discovered you (I think it was through my Facebook feed which is why I love FB so much) and the few videos I've watched have helped me immensely. I never used to have clutter this bad before 2020. That's the year everything crashed in my life, including my health. My health is good now I'm happy to say, due to having a much needed operation in 2021. Now I need to organize/clear 42 years of accumulated clutter. I enjoyed this video so much as it describes me perfectly.
@cinden0801 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your excellent advice. Incredibly helpful and life-change!!
@melikealtintas576 2 ай бұрын
I feel it. It is mind blowing. Same of the world shaking moments.. and it was so easy. The hole time.... thanks for sharing.
@justtina577 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Cass! I love how you engage with us, I love how finally someone else with adhd is hitting it right on and sharing wonderful relatable doable -gulp advice I am just trying to clean the sitting room for inspection by Tuesday and there is the whole house and garage to go - I shall try to be crappier so I can get it all done.
@josephdaly2015 4 ай бұрын
“15 minutes at a time” with a timer. “Expectations set too high” for yourself and family, this is real and we won’t even start with the resentment. Omg have you been in my house??? 😂 Lowering the expectations with 3 non negotiable things to do. Thanks for giving us permission to not be perfect. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇♀️👏💪👍💐🙏
@user-sx7dz5vy8u 4 ай бұрын
Thanks, Cas. I really needed to hear this today.
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@Nutmeg_6666 4 ай бұрын
I honestly really needed to hear this today, not just for my messy house but for other aspects and things going on that I can apply to my life as well right now, so thank you :)
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@marialemos3346 4 ай бұрын
Perfect words! Like awaking after a long long sleep! Thank you! 🥰
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@ellenbullock9451 4 ай бұрын
Love the makeover opportunity you are offering! I loved Season 1 of Hot Mess House so I am excited to see what is coming!
@skyedaisy4007 4 ай бұрын
Great video Cas! And I'm so excited to see the makeovers! :)
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
@amandapanda1541 4 ай бұрын
This is one of my favorite videos. Thank you. ❤
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@ashliebranch9191 4 ай бұрын
Can I just tell you that you are now my best friend! I found your channel this past week and have been so encouraged.
@RemoneCunningham 4 ай бұрын
This is the tough talk I needed thanks.
@MzSarai 3 ай бұрын
I really needed to see this video and hear these words!! I’ve struggled a LOT for the past couple of years with organizing. Attempted to reorganize 3 closets, all at once. I ended up putting all the things that didn’t belong in the closets, into a bedroom and now having trouble clearing out that room.
@melodysmith9163 2 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness girl. Thank you, you have just encouraged me to stop beating myself up. Low expectations is my new thing.
@Lil_trout777 4 ай бұрын
This is the video I’ve always needed lmao I’m a newly single mom in our first place and I have too many things for my too many hobbies and it’s always been stressful unboxing things as I move but you’ve made me feel like I can tackle it all
@Cheray_ 4 ай бұрын
This video was catered just for me! Love the new idea, can't wait for the submissions to roll in💃🏾❤🙏🏾
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoy it!
@tonishea8541 3 ай бұрын
You make what seems impossible, POSSIBLE ! Thank you.
@marciavernor1849 4 ай бұрын
Cas you “hit the nail on the head”! I’m a perfectionist and this makes sense. 💝🌹🤗
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Glad I can help!
@kasia4942 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely true! This is genius, awesome🎉
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@chandelle2146 2 ай бұрын
Sis you just gave me a whole therapy session. There's a special space in heaven for you❤
@katarinakozelj557 4 ай бұрын
I think this is your best video :-D yesss, -whatever you said in here, yes, yes and yes!!!! It is now obviously clear that because I can't do everything as I want, I just leave it, especially with my ADHD. Soooo many golden nuggets here: "what can leave to make room for that item that you actually use" "make it good for now and you can make it perfect later" and many more. Thank you for doing what you do!!!!!!
@user-jy4qr7hw1e 4 ай бұрын
This is my favorite advice video that you've ever shared. I've got a situation that needs me, and you hit some nails squarely on the head here. Yes, I am a perfectionist.
@susandiekmann 4 ай бұрын
Wow, this is SOOOO what I needed to hear! Yup, perfectionist here, and I truly wish I was brave enough to send in a submission. It's been years since I gave up scrapbooking (because I could never make each page good enough!), but I want to keep the memories. My scrapbooking room is a disaster, and someday I'll tackle it. Way too overwhelming, even after years of it being in that condition. For my other areas in the house that aren't so bad, I love the "memory bin" idea. Great video!
@s.r.8930 4 ай бұрын
Love this video!!! I think, I have to listen to it multiple times to get it in my head!!!!!!!!!😉 This perfectionism is the worst! I am always paralized, because I see something I wanna do, then see the next thing I have to do before I can start the first thing and it goes on and on and on .... At the end there's nothing done!🤯 I have to train myself! Thank you Cass for being here for us!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@elizabethsydnor5247 4 ай бұрын
Omg! The zoom makeover is GENIUS!!!
@Clutterbug 4 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
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