My job really just brings out the worst in me, I generally consider myself a very kind positive person but whenever I know I have to go into work I develop a mean streak, I snap at everyone I love, and Im just not a good person to be around. I hate that I feel like I have no control over my emotions or motivation when im at this job. The real killer is I get so bummed out over it I dont even feel like building my business and singing career up so that I can finally leave, then I beat myself up because im not working on my business/singing career. Its just a cycle of constant stress and anxiety.

Watching this on a Sunday night to calm down because of Monday anxiety. My job requires me to constantly work under pressure with a lot of people and it’s difficult to catch a break or focus on one thing at a time. It’s so busy I struggle to keep up lately. My Co-workers are great it’s the job that’s the issue. I’ll certainly try to change my attitude this week.

I’m alwys positive & talking to myself being positive even tho I’m cussing them out lowkey 💀I have a problem with standing up for myself but I’m this close to walking out Bc I deserve way better then how I’m treated

Hello fellow sufferers

Thank you! What I hate about my job is that i was hired for one thing, and they are using me for another thing (cashiering). They also never acknowledge that i am good at it, that might help my self esteem!

Crying while watching this. Thank you for your wisdom and calmness. Your voice is so soothing ♥️

I’m sitting here at my job,the feeling of clocking in day and day out is so unexplainable but the micromanaging I can’t take anymore…. There HAS to be more TO LIFE THAN this how are my co workers an d everyone acting like we’re not all being controlled here told how to act or how to ask it’s driving me crazy is something wrong with me? Like I can’t be the only one who thinks jobs are a scam , I wouldn’t even wish this dread and pain of working a job upon even my worst enemy

I'm watching this video in the parking lot of the job I'm training at, and do clinicals at for school and I'm trying to not walk out 🙃 I'm trying my best to stick through it for the next 2 weeks! Thank-you for making this video 💕

Thank you for this video. I found this video whilst I was sat in my car debating driving off and never coming back. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today xx

My job tough I work in the kitchen and I’m surrounded by younger people that hard mean to me but I just need a way to be positive and then try to get through this. The kitchen is not my career. But the yellow brick Road.

I hate my waiter job because, i quote “Can’t fold up my sleeves”. I know dress code is a thing but even after a time when the restaurant is not even busy and the area is hot I still can’t fold up my sleeves. It may not look like a big issue to others but to me it translates that I’m not free enough to fold my sleeves, and I love freedom.

Thanks for this video, I am having a difficult time in my job atm and in the process of going to a new job. This was really helpful

Nicely put. Again its the mentality that gets you through the tough times.

Basically I am not having a good time at my job, my supervisor is being really unprofessional and getting annoyed with me and talking about me behind my back, she is also bad mouthing other staff members :( including my friend who works with me. She is a very negative person and takes things out on me a lot. Last Friday I was in tears as I found a memory card on the floor so I gave it to the other supervisor not knowing who’s it was and it got given to the manager and it had personal photos of that unprofessional supervisor and she blamed me for it when it wasn’t my fault

I'm trying to grow in this situation. My boss clearly isn't a fan of me, but he's about to retire, the culture in my department is garbage. I'm having such a hard time wanting to even try, because I'm getting that energy thrown back at me. Only been here a few months!!! But I'm trying to grin and bare it.

I keep telling myself this is temporary. I will do a good job and continue to do a good job elsewhere soon. The red tape of public school education is so desensitizing, it will make you ask for more red tape for your red tape. I know I am not teaching students in the best way possible because the district pushes curriculum a certain way, which makes me the teacher look bad and incapable in the students' eyes and minds. I cannot take it personally anymore because I won't succumb to a system that controls and creates willful ignorance in the minds of these paycheck-talking "adults." I teach knowing true learning does not end in a school building, it continues long after you graduate.

This was helpful! Thank you. I started listing the things I like about my job or started saying I’m grateful for the check or steady income but this motivates me to take that a bit more seriously and so much more helpful tips that I couldn’t think of so thank you. 🙂

Thanks for this video as it gave some very useful tips on getting through a tough period. I can't stand my job because it's not defined and changes almost on the daily. It's like someone telling you "make me something you think I'd like". This might be suited for some, but I prefer structure and defined expectations to measure success which this does not. Not to mention it's desk work (spreadsheets, manuals, emails) which is mind numbingly boring to me. Plus, it's pretty much amounts to nothing on being effective on anything. It's a make work position but it pays well. I think the solution (or at least bandaid) is to find a compromise by asking the boss for more structure and definition of expectations and focus on what doing these pointless tasks allows me to do by providing for my kids and having a somewhat decent life outside of the office. But it's a tough price to pay.

I’m an accountant, God help me 😭. I’m in hell everyday

Thank you! I needed to hear this. Have a great job but the associated B.S. is bringing me down bad enough to quit.

omg....! how can u spread positive vibes so easily..... it felt like a ray of hope when u r constantly smiling through out the video. btw I am a banker, and I cant accept it because it was never my option, I failed to achieve every desired goals of mine. lastly I had to take this job. dont know how will i continue it through whole life. now i really want to leave everything and want to go to hill stations and travel rest of my life. but i have no talent which can help me making money through a side hustle.☹☹☹☹

I needed this so much! thank u sus!

Thanks for the video. My job is difficult right now because my boss micromanages everything I do, I feel extremely drained at the end of the day and the work doesn’t feel rewarding unfortunately. Thankfully, I work on a rotation so this job is very temporary, but I cannot wait for it to end. I like your tip on finding at least one thing to like about the job every day. I think I can start making a list to focus more on the positives!

This was really very helpful. Thanks!

This video was really helpful. I am currently facing the same issues described in the video. I am going to try the solution mentioned in the video.

I really liked this video and will try to apply your suggestions! I hate that my job involves a lot of busy work and waiting around for customers to come in... this leaves me alone with my thoughts for a majority of the day and I feel miserable.

Timely video for me. I would love to have a smile as big as yours one day - you look so content with what you are doing. Definitely inspirational 😃😃

Thanks for your video. The things that I hate about my job is the company culture. They never seem to give you a time to complete one task before they dumped these other tasks on to you and no matter how much I may see I will do their task once I've completed the task that I'm working on, they don't listen. People have actually ended up leaving the company due to the work overload. They doesn't seem to want to wait. I find them just too pushy and not understanding at all not taking into consideration that I'm not a robot plus salary sucks. I am also doing a job that I did not want to do in the first place and initially gone to the job interview for another job but was offered this instead because nobody else wanted to do it with the promise that I'll get promoted in the next six months or so I've been in this company for 3 years and so far there has been no promotion even though they have promised and have complimented me on my work. Then they get new people in when the extra work needs to be done and in spite of the fact that I have the skills to do the extra work and they know this from my CV, I get overlooked so I'm looking to leave coronavirus or no coronavirus.

Wish I could like this more than once. Really helped me. Thank you!

Currently watching because I’m so depressed mentally drained working here for low pay but if I quit me and my son will be on the streets it sucks having all the weight on shoulders my goal is to become a KZfaqd 😩😩

Thank you so much

😩I’m trying to survive at least 3-4 weeks jus to save money then I’m out 😂irdc even if they try to keep me I’m good. Like the customers make me smile. I jus dislike 2 managers in the morning. Like I have anxiety rn & thinking abt not going in tomorrow. I’m jus over it

Thank you

I hate that I have to call the absolute laziest, least enthusiastic person at my workplace my boss. He doesn't care about anything going on in our office and does a terrible job at the little work he actually does do. Everyone is constantly stuck cleaning up his messes because he just doesn't care, ignores deadlines, and throws things together at the last minute. If we all acted like HIM, none of us would have jobs because we would end up closing. If that wasn't bad enough, he is insufferable and is in love with himself. He really thinks he is great at what he does and is delusional enough to believe his work is better than what the rest of us, not realizing the little he does only looks good because we made it so. He walks around talking down to everyone and makes sexist comments about women's looks all the time. I cannot express strongly enough how much I despise him.

great video, relatable content❤...first like and comment yaaay me😉

Reading all the comments I understand m going through something very different than all... so I have been working in the same field for more than 6 yrs now, due to financial issues and always wanting to be independent keept me going in the career which I never liked. It doesn't feel like me, I'm all the time glued to the system, the work environment is pathetic, I have no social life (rn working from home). I got least interest in knowing and updating myself in the same same career. I understand and want to come over all this feeling and work for few more days but I'm not able to, it just feel like I'm putting myself through a torture everyday.

I lost my previous job suddenly when they just didn't need me anymore and now I'm back to being substitute at a daycare. That is the only work available to me so I can pay my rent and get some food on the table. The thing is, I'm not neurotypical. And the daycare work at my country is usually 8h large groups of kids (lots of noises that are really really bad for me) and one 10min break. If you are lucky you might get a lunch break alone, but usually you have to eat with the kids and help them get the food. It's a horrible place to me, causes me so much anxiety and drains me so badly that when I worked there for a year I had to stop bc I burned out so so badly that I couldn't take care of myself. Nightmares about daycare job every night for a half a year after quitting and now they are coming back. I¨m trying to tell myself it's just for two or three days per week, only for summer until school starts, then we can take a loan so I don't have to work in a work that feels like walking to my own death

Hello . I hate my job because of a toxic employee. I know I am a people pleaser which makes me a great supervisor for some employees but this one particular employee is aggressive and toxic. She wants to be the supervisor because she trained me when I got there 2 years prior . She is a difficult person

You have such a wonderful smile.

I don’t like how unorganized my lead is.

I am a manager who is not allowed to manage my own team, anytime i move to fix a major problem i get push back from below and above me and my only option to fix something is to make it such a big deal that 2 and 3 levels above me from me feel stupid for not implying it, but if it doesn't go well because of external factors its now my fault. Even when i save to company thousands I'm operating cost a shift the one day it cost more they undue all i did and revert to what is comfortable.

Great video. Thanks for sharing. I just recently added a video about this and would love your feedback.

There are many gurus who tell you that you shouldn't hate what you do. But does hating your job actually hurt your other planes in the physical, emotional and spiritual realm? As I told my own subscribers--yes it does. If you despise going to work that is eight hours of your day you are unhappy. Plus the getting up in the morning for it and getting back home is another two hours. Which would mean most of your day, most days of the week, most of your life--you hate doing what you do. This will affect the emotional plane and lead to the midlife crisis earlier than expected. It will drain your energy and then guess what? You stop taking care of your physical plane as well. Then your spiritual plane will fail as you see yourself as just another insignificant cog in the universe. So if that life in the high suburbs is destroying your planes my suggestion is to either laterally change careers or downsize so you can at least be content in what you do---most of your time. Hope this helps someone out there---Charles

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May I ask where you’re from? I’m hearing 2 accents and it’s killing me trying to figure out on my own 😅

This is the first video I've found on this topic that isn't by a white man. ❤

The company do not follow rules, they always bring lazy ppl on board who don’t work then question why the work is not being done, even after gets fined by joint commission they are still not think of best practice , they do not think of employee safety… should I go on??? The 2 good things think I can think of is, I have a job and I don’t have to work weekends.

Thank you