All we gays can agree on one thing.. It sucks having a crush on someone straight

When my gaydar doesn't work, I switch to the please-be-gaydar.

Also straight guys always talk about girls within the first 2 hours of hanging out with you, so that's another thing to look for...

I just watch their eye movements when in a crowd, who are they looking at. Works every time.

How can you accidentally meet a cute guy and he's also gay!? This never happens to me!!!

If he says hes gay... No wait. That cant be a sign. Thats too obvious.🤔

You are insanely attractive.

2:39 My repeat button is broken😂

“We don’t have he’s acting like a girl or she’s acting like a boy anymore- they’re acting like themselves” 🤗 well said, thank you!

This is difficult. I was visiting the optometrist and he kept telling me to keep my eyes open and stare at him.

You are hilarious bro! Thanks man! I needed a good laugh tonight... Spot on!

This was the most awesome version of this video I’ve seen done, and it’s been done a lot on KZfaq

I'm gay and none of these "signs" apply to me at all.

It's not that easy! Im gay & have messed up with my "gaydar."

So I’ll tell you this. I’m 18, I have always been aware that I’m gay and when I finally reached the age of 18 (about two months ago). A month ago, I met a guy at my friend’s. The first time I saw him with mask on, I was laying on a hammock, we looked at each other for one second as he was walking into the kitchen, I thought about him since then how he was so handsome and that was it. Later on, we were drinking, I kept looking at him and he kept looking at me, even everyone in the room could see the intension between us even when they were drunk. We realized that it was our second time meeting. What my friends said was that he is straight that he has always dated girls but if you look at me and him at the same time, you will say I look straight and he looks gay because he’s a pretty fem boy, and I’m more like a regular straight guy. His voice and the way he talks give it away but in a cute, baby way. Everyone agrees that he is cute like a baby. Everybody girls, boys, gay, straight, lesbian... everyone agrees he’s cute, and I so love him for the cuteness. After done drinking I had to go home and he didn’t want me to leave. Fast forward, the second we went drinking again was at my house and while my two other friends are lying on the floor, he and I had our first kiss, it was like 4 seconds. After that night, we kept thinking about each other everyday but we didn’t text anything about that night. And after a week later, we met again and I decided to talk it out. He admitted that the first time we met he noticed everything I did, how handsome I am, how I walked, how I talked, how I smiled, and that the first time he has feelings for a guy. So we kept texting, about 2 weeks ago, we had another talk about how he finds the answer if he is gay, or bi or straight, he said he is confused, he doesn’t know. All my friends think that he is trying to hide himself, Idk, but he said he’s not sure if he’s gay or bi. After another week, I asked him if he has decided yet, because keeping me waiting is going to hurt me only. I wanted to know if we should be dating or just being friends, he decided that we should be friends because he is afraid that if he’s dating me while not knowing what his sexuality is and when it won’t work between us, we will lose the friendship..... Now we are friends but we don’t talk, actually we try to stay away from each other, and I feel hurt. He was my first kiss, I was his also first kiss, and all the sweet moments we had, kissing cheeks goodbye, playing games together, cuddling, and the loving caring texts... because of all of that, I can’t unlove him. I don’t know what he’s thinking right now, I visited his profile everyday and one day his bio said, “I always leave a spot for you” idk if it was for me but we used to talk by changing on our bios, it was fun. But I keep telling myself that he doesn’t really love me so that I can get over it. I admit that I can’t unlove him but it's getting better everyday. What I’m telling you is, loving a straight or confused guy is hurtful, especially when you both done kissing, cuddling, texting, admitting feelings for the other but still not even a thing.... that hurts.

Re: Eye Contact. Twice this failed to be a correct indicator - in fact, the only two times I judged a guy by eye contact were BOTH wrong. I think this is a thing that varies with culture as well. In the US yeah, straight guys don't generally maintain prolonged eye contact but I met two different guys (possibly both were South American) who both made prolonged eye contact and seemed overly friendly and yet both were straight. So NOT a universal gay thing.

If he closes his eyes when you kiss him good night. When he asks "Do you have a condom?" When he calls you "daddy" and you are not related.

Andrew, the video was informative and entertaining. I'm really impressed how good your camera presence has gotten since you began. Everything was perfect including the volume (my usual peeve) lighting, and effects. And you're never boring. You're seem to glow with confidence and humility. Thanks!

I still feel alone😑😢 literally no one is gay where I am... I can’t tell anyone.

Im a lesbian why am I watching this.

Probably the best thing I've done is not assume anyone's sexuality. Just talking to someone without the intent to decipher them really sets guys at ease. People can typically sense an ulterior motive. I know it's the opposite of what this video is about but just my experience.

I'm glad I'm not alone in my level of stalking...err, research...

Dude, you are SO right about Denver/Cap Hill! When i used to live in Denver and looking on craigslist for gay hookups, "Capital Hill" was the most spoken of location n the ads. :)

My heart just melt when you/he did the “the eye” contact. Imagine that in real life.

I truly love your videos. The way you talk is just so calm and comforting and I always put your videos on to listen to while I play video games or do homework. Thanks for all of the content you've made. It's helpful in so many ways.

The biggest give away is the eyes. Watch their eyes and who they're looking at and how intensely. Like if he's straight he'll likely eye up anyone woman that walks past but if he's gay he'll pretty much only pay attention to other guys 👀

its just all about their vibe and energy. when u interact with them just try to feel the atmosphere aroud the 2 of you and the way you make him feel and vice versa, ya know.

Your video remembers me a guy in my office whom I used to have always an eye contact. A very deep, unavoidable eye contact. He was really handsome and didn't have so called gay features! I always thought if I could get to know him more, but pandemic has stopped that flow. One day I was just coming out from restroom and we were face to face. The moment was so sudden that your all guards fell off. We spoke for the first time and he had a such a charming smile.

I came across this video and watched it because I think my best bud is gay. We're both muscular just like you and I'd say he's pretty good looking too, but some of the stuff you mentioned were there. He's not fond of talking about hot chics & stuff. We always hangout with friends but mostly just the two of us. I recently became single and he doesn't have one, just some hookups he's been bragging about. He's always handsy, but I don't mind. We've been bros since diaper days. He likes to cuddle when we're drunk and half ass naked. Does he like me or something? If he's gay, I want him to tell me. I'd gladly support him. Nothing will ever change between us.

eye contact is the best communication if a person is gay,

I’m not a stalker but I love visiting your page 😂

I find your way of speaking very pleasant and respectful. Am watching now.

Andrew, you're so amazing! You, Mark E Miller and Ethan Hethcote are by far my favorite KZfaqrs of all time!!! Keep being incredible!

How I can tell if a guy is gay: He goes out of his way to ignore me and pretend that I don't exist. He won't even look in my general direction. Additionally, I generally don't find them attractive. How I can tell if a guy is straight: He goes out of his way to say hi to me, is really friendly, and he looks at me and smiles back. Additionally, I'm generally attracted to them (which that feeling Isn't mutual. FML).

I like how now we can tell if a guy is gay thanks to the help of you. Since, I was trying to see myself as I ran into my fair share of bi, ace, and straight guys. Gay ones I don’t run into very often.

Your eyes get me everytime. You could probably convince me to do almost anything with that look.

I love this Kind of Videos Advice 1: stalk him everywhere😂😂

Ever since I trained this guy at work I thought he was giving me the "eyes". he always wanted to talk and chill if we had lunch break together. We would hit the gym together and he would always complement my arms and squeeze them. Weird things that normally straight guys wouldn't do like rub my shoulder and back, like he did. ....Then he sent me ass shot on Snapchat with his tongue hanging out. I thought for sure this guy has to like me. He found out that I was gay from a coworker. I know he asked at least 3 of my coworkers. He asked them multiple times, "are you sure he hides it so well."One of them asked him if he was gay and he got very defensive and then they poked back and said "so you are bi?" He still touches me though. He still acts the same towards me but said he likes girls when I asked him. I told him I don't believe him. I'm so mind fucked. What straight dude acts like this!?!?!? I think he's just scared to be outed.

Me: I want to have a girlfriend! My Heart: Nope :D Me: What? *Falls in love with straight guy bestfriends like a boss* *Hurts his own feelings like a boss* *_Gets depression like a boss_*

Some relevant points here, very current, and you're kinda slick. Next topic: Identifying Tops/btms/vers.

Andrew flexing in a tank top just made my week:)

I really do relate to what you are saying. The eyes does do the talking and it's not easy for me to tell someone I'm gay. Watching videos like this makes me envious

That prolonged eye contact means “ let’s go do it “

Andrew, you are just one BIG SMILE. When I see your face you're just so beautiful. Ly

Andrew, your eyes were sparkling the entire time you were talking to me on this video. That's great..........Ray

lmao....I like the super obvious sign where they drunkingly make out with you at a party 🎉

I laughed and appreciated this at the same time!

Andy ...could you do that flex thing one more time cause you made my knees weak ! you are one handsome guy , have fun and thanks.

It's 2017. Everyone's a stalker to a certain degree.

At the end when you talked about mannerisms I appreciated that.

Great video totally correct, my experiences straight men generally always like to talk about women, how physically attractive they are, blowing whistles on the street, seen so much of it, unless they are incredibly shy but usually if a guy isn't doing that, that is a sign they might be gay and usually are, however even if they are the other issue is they may not like you physically so you can get the brush off which is also and issue these days, just trying to make friends with other gay men can also be difficult at times.

Well...I'm gay. You're cute and my gaydar is broken.

I recently discovered your channel and I fell in love. You have great content, and a bonus is you're completely adorable and funny. Keep the videos coming. I look forward to see what your KZfaq channel puts out in the future. If anyone has any hateful comments about your channel, the only reason it would be so is because they secretly are in love and want to be you. Especially the ones who continue to do it. You know they write those comments and then think In the back of their mind "damn he's so cute." Why else would they feel the need to comment if they wasn't watching, to be able to direct a comment about a particular thing you said. Wonder if they realize as long as they view the video, and comment on it even if its a hate comment, that it still makes you popular. Just let them hate watch and sit back and laugh. When people look at the number of views and it's 20 thousand plus, you will watch that video because if 20k plus is watching, it must be a great video. Oh and I find your friend very funny as well, so I also subscribed to him. You two are hilarious together and I would love to see you two do more colaberation videos in the future. Again, keep up the great work man.

social media stalking is a common thing, but its kinda complicated if he's Bi.

Andrew, when you flexed your arms I almost fainted! Keep flexing on flexing, handsome! I L U

The facebook and instagram 'stalker' theories are good. But aren't some on private? LOL

You can tell from the STRETCH MARKS AROUND HIS MOUTH...

I’d say pay attention to their voice, if they are into you then their voice is likely to change around you. Also body contact. I had this one friend who would always touch me but swore he was straight, recently I found out that wasn’t the case. And body language is a big indicator, like if someone is blushing when they talk to you, if they have their bodies pointed toward you, if they are really open. It really isn’t hard to tell when you look at the right signs lol

This is a 2017 video that came up in my list. Andrew I like your hair style. You can always do a video without your shirt.

when you gave me the eyes i had to rewatch like 10 times

The best way find out whether someone is gay or not in my opinion is observation - If he just won't stop looking at hot dudes passing by he probably is 😜

I like what you did with the pallets. I always look at them and think maybe I can put a piece of glass on them and make them a coffee table. I like what you did better with the shelves.

I needed this I had a co-worker that I could have been with but did not know he was gay now he is gone really miss him

Andrew, I love your videos, your just so natural in front of the camera , great job love David

*prepare to melt at **2:38** lol* thank me later 😊

If you did the "Hey... I like your hat" to me with those eyes and that smile, I would probably pass out LOL

The prolonged, extended eye contact is the clincher for sure.

"I sound like such a stalker" I'm not alone!❤🧡💛💚💙💜🦖

Some of the men I work with I have known for twenty years and consider them friends, but I have no idea whether they are gay or not. We are all in our 50s, and of course they are not on Grindr (neither am I), and if they have facebook they won't reveal it there (neither do I). They may be gay, but they don't go to gay bars, or attend Pride, or wear fashionable clothes, or listen to pop music. Not everyone who is gay is public with it, or makes a big thing about it, and not everyone lives their life on social media.

he's on Grindr 5 feet away !

OK, when you did the workout-guy voice, that was hilarious. I want you to do more voices. Maybe you have a career as a voice artist for cartoons in your future.

Easy just ask him... anything else is just crossing personal lines

It's the Eyes! It's always the Eyes 😂😂😂

Your muscles are amazing

I think "touching" is the best way to find it out ! By the was: are there really gay quarters in N.YC ? I thought that there are lots of gay people in San Francisco .

My nephew just recently came out and I always knew that he was not attracted to women just by the way he acted. He was in a long term relationship with a girl for about 4 yrs and I always knew it wasn’t going to last and one day he will come out. I just wanted him to admit it so he could be happy!

When Andrew did the eyes I melted and I wanna feel...

My sister was out on a date with her boyfriend and he got drunk and she caught him kissing his male friend.. My sister still didn't understand and was wondering if he was gay.

It all depends on what vibe you are putting out as well. I find that the more I put out my gay vibe, the more noticeable someone may respond to me and in turn the better I am at telling if they are gay and interested. Always be putting out gay-vibes and they will come boys!!!! Trust me!!!

Thank god for tank tops. Love watching you in tank tops

I'm thinking, if he gropes you . . . THAT'S a dead giveaway . . . . . 😂 😂 😂 😂 Have a great week, Andrew! 💝

The most difficult time was telling my friend . I never did care about what my parents thought. My 2 brothers are straight but totally cool. My sister supports Trump and is the girlfriend of a married straight adulterer. But me and M were friends for many years. Finally, he asked me, are you gay? Seriously, this is after 25 years of friendship! I began to cry and told him yes. But then the conversation was interrupted because we were at a gathering. Everything turned out fine. I was afraid if he knew I was gay, he wouldn't love me anymore. But he still loved me for sake of our friendship.

It's like knowing someone's rude and they're rude and that they dgaf about you that's how it feels

This video is soo helpfull I have found a boyfriend because of this vid. Love you so much x

Thanks for sharing man your looking good.

I am gay and I have this guy friend at school that I really like, but I do not know if he is gay or not. It is really hard to tell and I have got no clues. Not even a stereotypical one. He does not follow any gay person or makeup guru or fashion designer or whatever on Instagram and Facebook. He does not dress gay or wear makeup or got any gay friends. The only clues I have is that he seems to be best friends with a girl and so am I. He sometimes acts a little gay such as posing "gay" in Snapchat pictures and he often uses the word fabulous. I know my assumptions may seem very stereotypical, but there is just something about his charisma that makes him seem gay.

“FEELING BIG” Ooh!

Awe you are incredible 🥺 thank you so much.. 💓

Yes- hard to decipher - especially if the person is Bi. Usually 'over time' you can figure it out by like different 'bread crumbs' he drops!

There are plenty of people who fall in the category that have no behavioral indicators that even hint at them being gay, like me. Everyone always assumes I’m straight because there’s nothing about me that indicates otherwise. There’s a lot of people like that, which is why the best way to find out is to ask.

Years ago, a bisexual roommate of mine and I bumped into a gay friend of his at the cinema, and he was all bummed out about a serious crush of his, "Well, if he is straight, yada yada..." We were just both shaking our heads at the sob story. Finally, the gay friend, started paying attention to our speed bump sighs and said, "What?" We each told him, if this guy is a friend, that is what is important. The question is authenticity: Does he maybe like you in "that way" or not? Whether he is gay, bi, or straight, genuine friendship is so much better than all those shallow illusions and what amount to ego issues, trying to make his time and love available to you without taking the time to glide up on him in a sensitive way. Maneurisms? Yeah, all this round and round is enough to give you a stroke. Is love even important to young folks, any more? I never found any love connected with "hooking up", but I found a good bit of quality time with friends who eventually were okay with "benefits".

When I finally came out in my mid 30s I realized it was ok to look at guys, it opened a whole new wonderful world. I went to a mall with some friends and realized there was eye candy everywhere. I noticed who the guys were looking at. If they were looking at other men, I was pretty sure they were gay. If they were looking at women or just briefly glanced at me, they were straight.

Number One way to tell- Pay attention to what he is looking at. If he's checking out guys, distracted by some hot dude, says Hello to a cute stranger when you're walking down the street, then looks over his shoulder to see if they are looking over their should...

I met my now husband in 1985 when we were 16 he came into my work place it was eye contact, he was exactly my height age and build, blonde to my dark hair. Still together

It’s creepy, but check who they follow on insta, Facebook, tiktok, etc. If I see 2+ basically straight soft porn accounts, I pass (not worth it to see if they’re bi or not), if I see a significant amount of pretty girls who they follow, I usually pass. Now, if I see a bit too many “men’s fitness” accounts, or straight up openly gay guys they follow, them I pursue lol Let me know if this works for you 😅

This is a really good video. It's sometimes hard for me to understand modern culture in relation to men who like to be with men. Sometimes I'm afraid to ask a guy if he's into me. This helped, so, thanks.

Yes. The eyes. I've seen those before. Sometimes I make the eyes, like in a more obvious way to see how they'll react.

I tried walking up to a guy and asking if they were gay. Did not turn out to well for me.

You are good at giving advice

that grndr tone you did @5:10. I love it!😍