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"He doesn't care about your thoughts and feelings because he's not planning on dealing them"....bam!

"Dont just play hard to get, be hard to get" just wow.

"Listen Ladies If a man is not Curious as to what's In your head and what's In your heart meaning He doesn't care about What you think and.."

Somebody clone this man and send me a copy

Ladies, I know that the process can be very exhausting, but I also have seen God's grace and can tell you that if you walk in God's light, not only will you have the protection of the holy spirit, but you will have the wisdom and discernment to know a keeper from a creep. The presence of God will reveal a man's true heart.

Caution shows signs of respect. Its so so so true. He doesnt want to mess up a chance with you so hes careful not to get ahead of himself.

No matter how nervous a man appears in approach there's always intent in it because only thing he's nervous about is being rejected

1. Guy is abit nervous and careful (because he cares how you see him) 2. tone (he won't need to lower his tone to be sexual/bedroom tone if he is genuine to know you and not sex) 3. Space (testing your physical limits by coming close to you. Move back if he comes near if you don't want him to think you are open) 4. Compliments (excessive compliments about your look as a red flag) 5. What is he offering (friendship and companionship, he use your number to get to know you/talk, not to set up first date. If he avoid talking to you before meeting means no effort just want sex) 6. His curiosity during first few conversations (talk longer with you to understand your head and heart)

"Guys Who Know They Want you Will do The work For you.."

I definitely have been meeting too many guys who are eager to tell me all about themselves and answer my questions, but never seem to have questions in return.

This is SPOT ON!! Women always think that men are so complicated, they are not. Effort = Interest, and this video speaks to that so truthfully. God Bless you Kevin for speaking truth!

I've been dating a guy here and there for 7 months...no sex. I'm surprised at how things have progressed. We've gone out and really enjoyed each other's company. He does have a healthy fear. He's looking at my attributes and really getting to know me. We actually have phone conversations and not just texting. So, we will see how things continue. But, it's been great not dealing with a player. I'm in the ATL btw. So I'm very pleasantly surprised.

I hope the time NEVER comes when you feel like your talking for nothing or your advice is being taken for granted. Your videos are nothing but the truth and have helped more than you will ever know. Thank you!

Lmao his side captions in the videos TAKE ME OUT 😂😂

These men are too smart these days they know exactly what to say and how to behave and still it's fake, hff

"He's got to see how You interact with Other guys..he has To figure out if He can trust you And if you are worth Being weak for.."

“Hey sexy” will definitely get you blocked sirs

"If a Man is not curious as to What's in your head or what's In your heart meaning He doesn't care about What you think or What you feel.. he's just After sex..He doesn't care About your thoughts and Feelings because he doesn't Plan on dealing with them.."

As a woman, I really like the way that you present the information - straight to the point while also being respectful for women

I have a male friend who uses the shyness approach to trick women that he's nervous. He uses it as a calculated move to get girls to believe he has genuine intentions 🤦🤦🤦

So funny my baby is in college and can easily peep game....I just told her to not say much and sit down and look around and listen , you will find out all u need to know. ✌🏾

This DRY-HUMOR is LIFE GIVING!!! 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾♥️♥️♥️

The one thing I don't do is focus on whether a man likes me or not. If he does he does if he doesn't he doesn't. People worry so much about the superficial. Men worry if someone likes or loves them too. So if a situation is meant to be it will happen. If it doesn't it won't. Lolololol!!!

Superficial men have an easier time catching a woman's attention precisely because they are the most visible, confident and assertive. They often steal the spotlight from better quality men with genuine interest who might require a bit more diligence and attention to be noticed.

Expose them mr. Kevin! You are the realest. Thanks, I really needed this. Thank you again.

Wow I love this man. He seems so well-spoken and so respectful towards women. Man, you were raised damn well!

Where were you 17 years ago??! This could’ve saved me from 17 years of a pitiful marriage and 5 kids. Thank God I still look good! Thank you!

*Guys Who Know They Want You Will Do The Work For You* The Entire Video In A Nutshell! Respect Kev 👌🏿

Dating these days is just hard period.

Kev, i have watched many relationship gurus here on youtube with over millions subscriber , but you are the best and right on the point. I hope women watch your channel to get dating advice. Thank you for helping women , you are fun , exciting and know your stuff. Keep up the good work .

“ After being rejected, underestimated, and disregarded, a GOOD man might lose faith in the ability of a woman to see his value. For every woman whose been mistreated, I can show you a man whose been played by a woman for a lesser man.” Daaaaang Gina!!!! This is too raw! We GOOD women need to hear and be reminded of this more often! I’m telling you, it would totally change our perception of how we see dating and communicating. To think, more times than not we are all thinking and experiencing the same things. Lol. Kev strikes again!💃🏾

I've seen dozens of dating, relationships, love etc videos.. None of them had this solid core wisdom like you. I'm so glad I found this channel. ❤️

I disagree with number 1. Men feign nervousness to get you to put your guard down. These are the real players in my experience. A confident (but respectful) man can be a sign of integrity.

"Is She WISE ENOUGH To RECOGNISE What's IN FRONT OF HER And VALUE This Opportunity.."

I hope you're getting a professional counseling degree to go with this natural 'talent?'

"What is He OFFERING A Man Should be Offering To TALK To GET TO KNOW And to DISCOVER MORE ABOUT YOU.."

I was listening to a you tube video yesterday about how empaths love. I guess I sort of forgot how I am when I'm with someone because I've been alone for so long. It reminded me that empaths fall deeply when they like someone. I guess that is why I have to remember as I start to meet men that I have to be strong in my convictions what kind of man I want to be with and if I see that things are going south or I am betrayed I have to be able to cut my emotional ties. The last one has been hard for me in the past but for my own self care it is going to be a necessity.

This video is right on time. It’s time for me to tell him, “Boy, Bye!”

He said "a scoundrel" lmaooo

"When a Man Of Subtance and Maturity is measuring You for companionship He has to vet you like He's filling a job opening He's got to assess.."

Too much flattery is a problem I know what I look like my parents told me I was born beautiful and all that other s*** so you got to say something else to get my attention

With every video you open my mind even more. This video was just what I needed as I re-enter the dating world. And congrats on reaching 100k subs!!

You're always dropping gems!!! I just met someone new and I'm trying to figure out where I stand with him. Now I have a better understanding. Thank you so much!!

I'm 64. Young guys who claim to like older. Some may like someone who is a little young but 64 verses someone under 40. That is some bull crap. They are looking for a sugarmomma.

I wish I’d seen this a looong time ago!

You know, if I'm like most women, we have been approached so many times by guys who want nothing more than sex that we don't know what it feels like to have a man who's interested in more than sex approach us. I was dumbfounded the first time my (now) husband approached me because he didn't talk about my looks at all. I was actually self conscious because I didn't think he found me attractive. I wish I saw this back then! And congrats on 100k!!!!

Every time we hang out we talk till 4am. Either he really cares or he’s really strategic

**saves video to private playlist**

Kevin You are a very stand up guy! I truly appreciate your transparency. May God continue to bless your platform and your family!

I’m watching this and kissing my screen in total adoration for the wisdom and self awareness you give us naive clueless ladies... You are indeed a great addition to the universe and I can only imagine how intellectually and emotionally sound your kids will be. Your wife has a real one and your mama did that !!!

You are so articulate, I love it!

Finally have someone showing real interest in me , is so wonderful and new to me even .

☢ Caution equals RESPECT! 🔥🔥 Powerful!

Dude, you're so legit for making these videos. It's like I knew all this stuff, but hearing you speak on it I can see much much clearer of which men have approached me recently, and what their true intentions were/are. Bless your heart Kev! You are appreciated!

Snaps fingers to literally everything you said!!!!

Thank you so much for this video! As a survivor of sexual assault dating is very a strugle for me so having a man reassuring me that Im not just being mad for nothing and that the person Ive been talking to is probably not taking me seriously really helped me see clearly

I agree with everything you said, my only issue is that I've made most of em wait until I was sure they were serious with the same bad results.

i just want to thank you Kevin! i left my kids dad who was abusive over a year ago. got a full time job, my own place, and became a manager. i found a negative pattern in my life with every guy i ever dated, and every situation i encountered with a man ended badly. i realized it was my self worth. i decided to stay single and work on my mental health, and your videos have helped me alot. i lost my dad when i was only 12, and most of my life he was in prison. the last 3 years of his life he was in a hospital bed and that's when i finally got to see him more. i never really had any older male figures to teach me things like this. and you have helped me so much. so here i am 24, and i feel as tho threw you i have like an older bro or something. thank you, keep making videos cause you have helped people like me a lot

he's so real and outspoken, it hurts but i like it.

I am a new subscriber and I totally love your honesty and transparency, as a psychologist I can say that you are totally on point

am in my fifth year of dry spell and after my last encounter it got me so deep coz he told me to my face "I was just using you" and just gave up dating or ever the thought of any man pursing me.if real men do exist well, am yet to know. thank you for these lessons Kev hick

Congratulations on the 100k! Great video!

Ive been binge watching your videos. You're honest, keep it real and you don't drone on about the same thing. You understand how people work and have helped alot of people it would seem. You're sense of humor and articulation is attractive too. Definitely my fave relationship channel on here.

Am glad my boyfriend scored well on this list. Going six months of talking n three months since we started going out am glad I found a good man. Just nervous how to keep him interested for longer. Thanks Kev good info as usual

I said, let me see what this ‘young’ man is saying. You’ve proved your maturity. Enjoying the vids ☺️

Kev Hicks I appreciate you. Your honest, straightforward approach to helping women understand the male perspective, motives and actions is priceless; and, so is your humorous way of getting your message and lessons across to us. Thank you for your time and efforts!

Thank you. No wonder he gave me so much space. He would sit across from me on a different sofa and give me room to breathe.

This man is the truth✊🏾

Yes absolutely correct and well explained, a man that is interested wants to know about us, or will stop and listen to what we have to say, he definitely makes an effort💯 thank you for this video

Kev, u be saving me from some MAJOR BULLSH💩T, and from jawing somebody's son 👊🏾😎🤣

I loooove his articulate wording... Yasssssss

My kids’ father never asked me questions on our dates. We got to know each other just by hanging out. All. The. Time.

I loved this video. Especially the part about 7.5 billion people and there being more than one soul mate or perfect/compatible person for everyone. I truly believe that.

Wow, someone grab a bucket to catch all the pearls and wisdom falling from this mans mouth!

Great advice as usual. The sigh at the end took me out 😂 That’s the way I be feeling trying to interpret these dating streets. Thanks Kev!

I love the thing about flirty compared to wanting to get to know you....that’s a real big one I needed to hear

Them eyebrows tho👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I just like how you make it clear, loud and short ♥️

Kev be saving lives in these streets 😭 Thank you so much God Bless you & your family 🕊🔥

*He should* *Be through* *His ACTIONS* *Offering* *Friendship* *And* *COMPANIONSHIP* Not just a GOOD TIME 👈👏

Im so happy ,because I feel like my boyfriend was like this and still like this, we almost have 3 months and I always watch your videos to compare his action with your point of you !! And I'm just feeling like I made the right choice !! I'm just hoping everything goes well

Absorbing one’s intention can be tense if you can’t shift the energy being displayed 🖤

He was nervous which confused me. Yet he never asked me out and found out he was a player.

Every girl should view this video. Thank you.

You really need to have millions of subscribers!!🔥💯🙌🏽

This man is spittin truth ladies. Please pay attention!

He always ask me questions. To me that's a good sign.

Am I the only one that finds this man's voice soothing? I could listen to him 24/7. 😪😴 I think Kev should do ASMR videos.

"Or not duh if you're not used to hearing it.."

"Your knowledge Skills and abilities He's got to do a social Background check He's got to look for Signs of emotional Stability or instability.."

You explain things so clearly!

The written commentary in these videos cracks me up so much I have to rewind and listen to what I’ve missed! Lol 😂 Great content. Thank you

Had to subscribe after watching this! Never knew I was entertaining so many clowns!

Women and especially girls with apps and hookup culture today that exist for his benefit absolutely NEED this real talk today

He was confident because he's a sergeant in law enforcement and former Olympic contender. His tone was soft because he didn't want me to be scared of him. He was in my personal space because he didn't want anyone else to hear him.

So, no dude that has ever approached actually liked me. Kinda guessed that. Staying single.

Great video! I always was the hard to get girl but iT was just a matter of good judgement and selection. IT all comes down to identifying GENUINE interest in a man. As a woman i feel when this is present and when its not. I am proud to say that all the relationships in my life (not that many) have been long term and with guys who really loved me (and the current one still does:)

You are telling the truth on the personal space. It’s just lots of men lately don’t care. You may back up but they keep pushing I’ll you give in. Showing me they can give 2 fucks my personal feelings. So I don’t respond bc I know if they behave like that the first time the second time they will continue that behavior I may even take it to another step due to the fact that you allowed them to be in your presence again.

That is saying a lot. The men I’ve noticed that have approached me lately were nervous. They started sweating, stuttering, looking away, saying hello to random people to walk by, or “the squirrel” him pointing out something he just noticed on the ground. I never knew how to take them. Thanks!