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How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease.
Elena writes, “Hi Susan, thank you for your wisdom always! How do you tell someone you met through dating apps, that you would like to explore more and see other people before deciding to get into a relationship and giving it a label? What if we like this person a lot but are not yet sure if they’re the one but also don’t want to lose them if we say that we want to explore more? I’m very new to dating apps. Thank you x”
In today's dating online world, it's smart to keep your options open when you’re chatting up someone new. Even though you like them, you don’t really know them. Before you close the doors to other interested candidates, it’s wise to get very clear on what this person is looking for and how keen their interest is in you.
Are they texting you regularly? Are they motivated to meet you? Have you gone on a couple of dates already and feel good about where it’s going? If you can’t answer, yes to these questions, then it’s time to have a discussion with this person and let them know that you will be seeing others.
Communication is key. Be clear about your intentions and boundaries. It's all about finding the right balance between exploring new connections and staying true to yourself.
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00:00 Introduction
00:39 Viewers Question
01:23 Early Dating Decisions
01:57 Communicate Goals and 'It's Early Days'
02:13 How To Say It
04:49 Pace Determines Viability
06:29 Managing Their Staying on Apps
06:57 Negotiation