how women select simps(why women choose simps)

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Welcome to our channel! In today's video, we delve into an intriguing topic discussed by Sadia Khan: why women with numerous red flags often seek men with low boundaries. 🚩💔
Sadia Khan sheds light on the dynamics of relationships where women with problematic behaviors tend to target men who are fixated on their beauty. These women can spot men with low boundaries by their obsession with physical appearance. When a man prioritizes a woman's looks above all else, she can easily manipulate and exploit this obsession, allowing her to avoid working on other aspects of her character. 🌹✨
Such men become easy targets because their admiration for physical beauty blinds them to the woman's flaws. Khan emphasizes the importance of men developing boundaries by learning to value women for qualities beyond physical appearance. This shift in perspective is crucial for building healthier and more balanced relationships. 💪❤️
This insight has been eye-opening for me, as I've often wondered why some men don't leave women who treat them poorly. Understanding the role that low boundaries and an overemphasis on beauty play in these dynamics can help us all strive for better relationships. Did you always know this secret about women? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below. 💬👇
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*Key Takeaways:*
1. *Identifying Low Boundaries:* Women with red flags often seek men who prioritize their beauty above all.
2. *Exploitation of Obsession:* Such women can manipulate these men, avoiding personal growth.
3. *Establishing Boundaries:* Men need to look beyond physical beauty to value deeper qualities in women.
4. *Healthier Relationships:* Understanding these dynamics can lead to more balanced and fulfilling relationships.
*Join the Conversation:*
- Have you noticed this pattern in relationships around you?
- How do you think men can develop stronger boundaries?
- What qualities do you believe are most important in a partner?
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@DTKRDMNK Ай бұрын

"Don't Save Her... She don't wanna be saved! DON'T SAVE HER!"

@5TTT129 Ай бұрын

True. Not saving her.

@seanhammer6296 Ай бұрын

She can't be saved.

@mikef2811 Ай бұрын

Somewhere a SIMP is trying really, really hard to save her only to get burn by her and her Chad.

@alenaadamkova7617 Ай бұрын

Mediation changes people´s thinking and mindset, and finding purpose, maybe because it cleanses the mind from junk and allows pepople be themselves.

@alfredbenedek3398 Ай бұрын

GOOD, I DON'T SAVE HER ( HYPOTHETICALY. ) WHAT THAN? SHE WILL BE STUCK INA SITUATION / MUD, FOREVER? NO - O??! SHE DOES NEED, SOME ONE, TO SAVE HER! SOME ONE THAT COMLIMET HER AND SHE COMLIMENTS HIM??!

@shyguy9102 Ай бұрын

The way she treats you is more important than her looks, many men don't understand this

@MrEvldreamr Ай бұрын

Desperation

@jaddyrose9318 Ай бұрын

For real, especially notice how she treats you behind closed doors all alone in private vs with friends coworkers customers etc in public

@sunyata1016 Ай бұрын

Exactly! The beauty I can get from other girls when I cheat. The main girl will eventually lose her beauty and you'll cheat anyways so why not do it now. That's why even though my main chick is not the hottest I'm fine with that because she has all the other things I look for and will keep her

@qq84 Ай бұрын

Mostly they don't even look that good, often not even average. These men are just desperate.

@twoweeledsoto6072 Ай бұрын

Men typically don't prioritize that way. Maybe we should, but we don't. Equivalent to, women should pick a man who treats them well, not a man who has a lot of money. Should, but they don't. Those are the facts.

@michaelhussey440 2 ай бұрын

So so true.... And the classic nice guy response to red flags is often '' she has been hurt , I want to heal her..''.

@MadisonChloeLoves 2 ай бұрын

Never worth it

@muhammedrashid1244 Ай бұрын

It's been in my head, I left anyway. But it still hurts though. Can you emphasize that. Why am I feeling like, "she is hurt by me, I wanna do something about it". Even though I know it's not my fault, some part of my brain thinks otherwise

@michaelhussey440 Ай бұрын

@@muhammedrashid1244 It may be that at some point in your childhood you picked up a message that in order to be loved you must take care of other peoples feelings.

@terrymcdermott8320 Ай бұрын

Yeah usually a freak

@TV-oc4ml Ай бұрын

Sounds like you have had experience

@sed.aba01 2 ай бұрын

Yes, this is why we all should have boundaries not just for women, but in general.

@mikeg2491 Ай бұрын

This applies at the office, being a people pleaser leads to your boss or manager asking you to stay till after 5 constantly until it becomes a routine

@AndrewDaniele87 Ай бұрын

This is what happened with me and my ex, that relationship destroyed me, however I am so glad that happened, it uncovered self esteem issues I didn't know I have. Now, I'm the best version of myself I've ever been, and I can spot manipulation from a mile away.

@Jrock4690 Ай бұрын

It wasn’t destruction. It was a temporary setback. Be careful giving away your power.

@brandonmontgomery7461 Ай бұрын

Rose like a phoenix 🐦‍🔥

@Mantakendown Ай бұрын

If she cannot be CORRECTED than she cannot be DIRECTED and if she cannot be DIRECTED than She cannot be PROTECTED.

@johnfried5333 Ай бұрын

Wow!! You summed it all up in this statement. Hi impact!!❤❤

@BiggEd219 Ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@billsmith2308 Ай бұрын

@@kc6810 being in the Medical field, you NEVER seen how a husband can protect her, help her, support her? You are not looking! We need each other.

@sloebone7399 Ай бұрын

He can buy you a safe reliable car and make sure somebody knows where you are when you’re out seeing clients. He’s also a phone call away if sh#t goes down.

@ronaldayoub Ай бұрын

@@kc6810 Sometimes you need to tend to a man's needs. Get over it.

@francescozzononsisa1078 Ай бұрын

First society teaches to respect and tolerate women's excesses, then we're told "if you tolerate women's excesses, she loses respect of you" 😂

@scorpieeeee Ай бұрын

why are you dating bpd women? serious women will not ask for excess and will not tolerate male excess (i.e., alpha male crap). she is stable and confident

@francescozzononsisa1078 Ай бұрын

@scorpieeeee Unfortunately nowadays the average woman is not virtuous, which pushes the average man to not be virtuous. And since This is not written on the forehead, it is not clear a priori who is virtuous and who is not, after bad experiences one tends to avoid trying and making mistakes and being screwed by modern Western women once again. This is why it's reductive not to make dates with bad women, it's not like they have it written on their foreheads, it's not that easy to distinguish them

@SimonKnight1023 Ай бұрын

Welcome to Red Pill.

@justtekina6709 Ай бұрын

its so bizarre, its like no logic in anything anymore

@user-jq4fz6co8b 2 күн бұрын

The last part is indeed true though. And what’s funny is a LOT of funny want men to chase them and wait on them hand and foot, and when they get it they extract whatever resource she can and proceed to reject him. If she’s got at least SOME sense of self-worth, she won’t do any of that, she’ll just never associate herself with you (no respect for you). So whenever women want you to stick their neck out for them, unless she’s really doing that for you, it’s a trap. Your default should always be emotional unavailability with women. Guilty until proven innocent.

@Entertainer114 Ай бұрын

Ugh, this happened to me. Problem was, it was with someone I'd known for many years as a friend, whom I'd always harbored feelings for. Lines got blurred because of mutual attraction, but she had lots of options due to her beauty, and I decided foolishly to prioritize her. She always wanted to be friends, but I was clear about wanting more, until I finally gave up. I have since moved on, thankfully. But I hate how many years I wasted (both in allowing my boundaries to be violated thanks to her beauty, and in allowing myself to keep hope alive for her/trying to fix her) rather than moving on sooner. This video speaks the truth. If you resonate with any of this, don't do what I did and try to wait around to fix someone who isn't prioritizing you back.

@carlrav5660 Ай бұрын

Geez...I did this too. Friends for 2 years, but we hooked up a handful of times. She just wanted me as a friend. But she wanted a secret side relationship for dating. Someone she didn't have to introduce to family, friends, her kids. She wanted a fake relationship and have me also. Too messed up...I bailed. Really hurt me, but probably for the best if she doesn't fix her avoidant issues

@ronaldayoub Ай бұрын

@@carlrav5660 You should have just played the FWB role and built yourself in the meantime in order to attract other women.

@jimlong2469 28 күн бұрын

@@ronaldayoub Uh, no. That's totally messed up. People need to have respect for themselves.

@MasterSplinterPDX Ай бұрын

I didn't have low self esteem, but my ex observed in me a loyalty and generosity toward the people I loved and she tried her hand at manipulating and abusing me. It only lasted a few months, and the reason it even lasted that long was because that was the first time I'd ever encountered a real narcissist. As soon as i understood what was happening, I got away, and to say I dodged a bullet would be an understatement.

@Joesizzle442344 Ай бұрын

Lotta guys are married 30 years and didn’t realize that til it’s too late

@bwilliamson3887 Ай бұрын

I've dodged a few bullets

@johnvillamil3138 Ай бұрын

Yup. Took me almost 25 years to realize it but it was a slow reveal that she did until she hit a point of no return. Got rid of her and much happier.

@taepung7426 Ай бұрын

Guys who did “Good” things and then gets screwed over, will become vindictive once they realize the truth later.

@95Bartosz Ай бұрын

Mam zaburzenia ze spektrum autyzmu, przez co jestem bardzo naiwny i większość kobiet mnie wykorzystywała emocjonalnie, a potem olewała, ale nie szukałem nigdy z premedytacją zemsty, czasami tylko w gniewie powiedziałem dobitnie prawdę i się obrażały.

@alfredbenedek3398 Ай бұрын

I PERSONALY SAY. NO - O PROBLEM DARLING?/ GO? GO AWAY?! THERE ARE MUCH MORE GIRLS / WOMEN, THAN MEN? I DEFINITELY WILL FIND MY KIND OF A GIRL FOR MYSELF?!! BUT YOU DEAR? YOUR BIOLOGICAL CLOCK IS TICKING, AND SUDDENLY, TIME IS U - UP??!!

@mujjuman Ай бұрын

whats crazy is, she described my ex... she was not very pretty but she was initially sweet. she had low self esteem and had suicidal ideations. i healed her and made her feel good about herself, constantly. i treated her like a queen. i improved her sense of self worth, self esteem, loved her and cherished her. unfortunately, she let that get to her head and began to treat me very badly... i put up with it for a while, almost 2 years... i was shocked because this personality trait was never obvious when we first met. the day i broke up with her, she said many nasty things to me, including "you will never find a woman as beautiful as me" i responded with "its not about looks or beauty, its about how you treat other people" she actually said "thats true" lmao

@kennydileo414 Ай бұрын

Respect

@BermudaGrass Ай бұрын

Then that means she wasn’t depressed due to poor self esteem, but due to not being the “it factor” in the room. Something I had to learn is that you never really know who exactly or what exactly you’re helping.

@MaximaChanZuckerberg Ай бұрын

Exactly what happened to me

@MrFoofarew Ай бұрын

Guys, you just need to learn how to say no. Call your girl beautiful, treat her with kindness, respect, honesty, and tell her you love her often, but please learn how to say no.

@cameronmckay3504 Ай бұрын

This human behavior of manipulating and disrespecting is villainous. If a person like this is ever in need, "Would not piss on fire to put you out"

@TV-oc4ml Ай бұрын

Just some 17 year old Repeating platitudes he heard on the internet

@Kelvin_smith28 2 ай бұрын

SHE TELLING THE TRUTH!!!

@MadisonChloeLoves 2 ай бұрын

Hurts but it's true 👍. Thanks ♥️

@Kelvin_smith28 2 ай бұрын

@@MadisonChloeLoves You're welcome

@E3N8013 Ай бұрын

DONT SAVE HER!!! or you'll lose yourself in the process

@busara45thevillain22 Ай бұрын

As soon as the beauty begins to fade, we join the dark side of the force. The wheels fall off. The end.

@gc8972b Ай бұрын

interesting

@E3N8013 Ай бұрын

"Because she knows you can go anywhere looks wise"💀

@cnote3580 2 ай бұрын

Truth...some women have to learn this lesson by you simply walking away.

@Ace.0.0.0. 2 ай бұрын

True that. I walked away from a centerfold worthy woman. Over the phone (pre-internet), I told her we were done. I could tell she was all shook up. This might have been the first time someone rejected her.

@margueritedrya9807 Ай бұрын

@@Ace.0.0.0.There are lots of disrespectful guys out there too... I finally walked away from a very disrespectful and abusive guy...

@Ace.0.0.0. Ай бұрын

@@margueritedrya9807 Then you did the right thing. Kudos

@ianarn Ай бұрын

Maybe she’ll lack the ability to ever have any empathy for you and walking away will just trigger an abandonment issue. But if there’s been cheating she cannot talk through with you and dishonesty and physical violence then no matter how pretty she is you really do have to walk away.

@DivineKnight_115 Ай бұрын

Yep, I was in this position. Not anymore. Since that breakup, it broke me down and now I’ve been rebuilding self with the help of the lord Jesus Christ. Through his example I am growing in self esteem, sorting out and fixing my mental state, and keeping an eye out for women that aren’t a walking red flag.

@brando7266 Ай бұрын

Where was jc ,before your break up?

@FredCarpenter-pb6bd Ай бұрын

Anyone who sees everything as a power play is going to get rejected by me very quickly, and I can size up and reject a woman just by her energy alone.

@SundayCookingRemix Ай бұрын

Amen Fred

@spartanghost9713 22 күн бұрын

💯💯💯💯👌🏾

@tombevan9527 28 күн бұрын

The message I’m getting here is that relationships are not worth it and that I should stay single

@danherrick5785 21 күн бұрын

If friendship takes this much mental manipulation and effort - why spend any.

@dmark2639 Ай бұрын

I agree that a man has to have boundaries. My issue is that whenever I exert my boundaries with women, they just leave. Exerting my boundaries does not garner me any respect from women...they just leave and look for their next target.

@immortalitysecrets6476 Ай бұрын

It's a good sign. And my advice; don't revise your boundaries but revise the type of women you choose

@ronaldayoub Ай бұрын

Keep building. But keep your boundaries too. When you enforce them you should do so with authority.

@ian5220 Ай бұрын

how do you show interest and at the same time not be impressed by a beautiful girl? does this simply mean acknowledge the beauty just don't let it control you?

@itsmba78 Ай бұрын

A pure woman wants RESPECT & SECURITY / SAFETY - I mean a Family woman, raised with family values or her priorities. The woman with attitudes, zig zag kind of behaviour may play for a while or few years but once she starts loosing her physical beauty, she will be ignored and eventually will be left alone in the last decades of her life. Empty, depressed, frustrated or with other psycho issues

@incognito7843 Ай бұрын

This is the oldest trick in the book. Complement your woman for the things she do for you, because she will subconsciously focus on those parts and value herself from her behaviour instead of her looks. And she will improve those parts even more. You don't want your woman to think that her looks is the central part of your attraction, it will eventually turn her into a worse person of herself, that starts feeling valued by getting the same kind of attention from other men...

@knoname7778 Ай бұрын

The Sampson & Delilah story….. Lust darkens the mind

@kennethdileo6578 Ай бұрын

Indeed

@Timbermannetje Ай бұрын

Why can't we just team up and make each other great again? Why all the stupid games.. The west needs to be saved, we need families, good people!

@ronaldayoub Ай бұрын

That requires introspection, which is in short supply throughout the West let alone the US.

@basilhenry-eyo6522 Ай бұрын

Real though, I had a friend like that and she was exhausting, she did so many things but I just kept forgiving her until I couldn't anymore and I just blocked her everywhere!

@StrawmanBRUCE-cv6ee Ай бұрын

She'll use him while she can, then dump him when she gets bored or thinks she can do better.

@JaySmith-pv2mw 2 ай бұрын

Treat fives like they are tens and tens like they are fives.

@MadisonChloeLoves 2 ай бұрын

That's hard keep track of

@user-vi7wc9jm7k Ай бұрын

Keep it simple. Keep all numbers like 5's and then your in the mindset of treating all women as equally the same. Women are like, more tribally (emotional bonded) connected than us men. They'll appreciate it and respect you more if you see them as one equal entity. All you have to do is present 'the hero's return' after your Sabre-toothed Tiger mission.

@mediumchungus9662 Ай бұрын

Treat them as they deserve to be treated. Punish bad behavior and reward good behavior. That number scale shit is beta male nonsense.

@ErikAdalbertvanNagel Ай бұрын

the biggest bullshit of the year. doesn't matter if she's 5, boosting her already inflated ego is always a bad idea.

@maurotolari9215 Ай бұрын

You can treat a 5 like a ten,but you can't treat a 10 like a five.She doesn't need you.She has a que of eager men to pander to her needs .

@standstill0641 Ай бұрын

She even thinks to play games she's out the door.. no time for games or manipulation.. rather be single

@spartanghost9713 Ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@hordakprime6172 22 күн бұрын

Preach!

@lasv69 Ай бұрын

I think you are spot on. I have been with a beautiful woman for 20 years now and have learned the lesson of what you are saying the hard way. I am fortunate that I did manage to recover and establish proper boundaries after lots of inner work. This prompted her inner work and I see so much more depth and value in her. Our relationship is changing to have greater mutual respect for each other and love for different reasons than what it started out as. I think the caveat is that compassion is key and know we are all in this together.

@twoweeledsoto6072 Ай бұрын

Yes, I knew that. Pretty much common sense. Often, that type of woman requires the simp type man because no one else will tolerate them. I don't know if they look for that type or the pieces just always fall that way (with a simp).

@Robert_Westwood Ай бұрын

Dating has become exhausting. That's why I have been on only one date in the last ten years...

@gc8972b Ай бұрын

exhausting it is. at least we are now in groups thinking deeply about relationships, understanding more about ourselves and seeking better experiences

@geraldking9385 Ай бұрын

Gave up on dating once I turned 30 . True waste of time

@CloudWithoutASky 27 күн бұрын

Probably the most real confession a woman has made on yt. Ever. By far.

@johnvillamil3138 Ай бұрын

Very well put and so true. Setting boundries will make any relationship more healthy

@Doodlefisher Ай бұрын

Absolutely! 💯disrespect does come from being glued to beauty. It’s like a trap that sucks a person in and they keep going for the bait

@konsyansnou8623 Ай бұрын

"That's how we know en have low self-esteem ..." Who's "we"? I guess she speaks on behalf of all beautiful women and from experience

@lars1480 Ай бұрын

The more I see video about women and relationship The more convinced I become that I made a huge mistake in getting marriaged 37 Years ago 🤯

@41ajak Ай бұрын

Hurt people hurt people. Sadly, you can't do anything. So save yourself 1st. 🏆❤

@Rose_Arcana Ай бұрын

Treated me so badly... GONE, DONE, OVER! All that she gets is her regret.

@aquaevitae Ай бұрын

When a woman is doing well, she goes F around with bad guys, and then when a woman has a difficult life situation, she seeks comfort and support from a nice guy.

@elunclesamprz5801 Ай бұрын

That's why I don't understand women,you figure you go all out and bend backwards for her,that she'll notice it,and then love you more,but it seems she'll love you less I don't understand that

@nikolavisnjic9799 Ай бұрын

Because it's a power trip for her.

@ronaldayoub Ай бұрын

You can be a nice guy. But don't be a push over. No one is going to like that quality in a man.

@Vanity-v9c 19 күн бұрын

I had to do a double take because I was thinking Kim Kardashian is the last person who should be giving anyone relationship advice!! Lol!! But once she spoke, all doubt was removed. 😂

@stevensmith4213 25 күн бұрын

Beautifully said.

@jaykal3716 Ай бұрын

Thank You For This Information.🙏🙏❤❤

@lsporter88 22 күн бұрын

Agreed. And yes, some of us always knew this secret. Many a Woman has experienced a rude awakening because of this. Great video.

@wolfgangamadeusmozart2476 Ай бұрын

You do not ask the fish how to fish. you ask the fisherman.

@DeuceBiggerHo Ай бұрын

Or the other one is, women with a ton of red flags tend to go for guys with a ton of red flags because that’s what their father was like. Father treated em like crap so they choose men who treat em like crap coz that’s what they think love is. You can’t fix that btw.

@darkknight17 Ай бұрын

My ex used to test my boundaries a lot in the beginning of our relationship. She used to use her sexuality and access to sex to entice me to make up each time we were on the brink of me breaking up and walking away from her. She had a lot of weird women's relationship books on how to manipulate men on her book shelf. What she didn't know, was I had clicked dom to her red flag behaviour and was using her as a fluffer while I pursued more serious relationships. I absolutely milked her free head game for many years while I played the field and making her think I was committed. She's now a single mother with someone else's kid. I'm happily settled down and remain thankful for the experience and free sex. Ladies, never turn a good man into a bad guy. It might be the only good guy that comes along.

@grantwithers Ай бұрын

All men already value women for things beyond appearance, it's just that there are so few women that are valuable in the modern day in the ways men want them to be (beyond appearance) that it seems like there are many men that do not. Just facts. And yes, this causes problems.

@Vitriol-Divergent Ай бұрын

So, any woman over 30 who isn't getting used by the guys she's actually attracted to anymore?

@duellingdescartes7950 Ай бұрын

Until she chooses " a simp" then he rejects her and she is forced to deal with that!

@markflierl1624 Ай бұрын

This is so true.

@LeviKerrison Ай бұрын

Narcissistic women

@rayholt4643 Ай бұрын

I see why men shouldn't chase women.

@coltenkelso5764 Ай бұрын

The truth is a woman will try to go for both the simp and the jerk. They want their cake and to eat it to. One will be constantly putting her on a pedestal making her feel like a queen and she will definitely take advantage of that. while the other will be simultaneously treating her like dirt and she will actually be chasing that guy due to her low self esteem. Either way it’s a lose lose situation. I’ve been on both ends of the coin.

@ExileTSuccess Ай бұрын

I just don't get much attraction to the physical beauty. I only get attracted by my own beauty, but I lost my high self-esteem quickly in love.

@lutfysalim5998 Ай бұрын

Always remember Alpha seed, beta need. Alphas dont take shit from women, women will always take for granted the nice guy

@MadisonChloeLoves Ай бұрын

You're right ✅️

@dandaman9009 Ай бұрын

Then tell mothers and fathers to stop raising nice guys in this country

@lutfysalim5998 Ай бұрын

@@dandaman9009 theirs nothing wrong with being raised right. Treat a woman with respect. Just dont be her doormat. If you treat a girl like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan

@TV-oc4ml Ай бұрын

@@lutfysalim5998 another 17 year old repeating the same platitudes he heard somewhere on the internet

@Lisa-mg5tk 23 күн бұрын

Tracy needs to listen to this

@danherrick5785 21 күн бұрын

If friendship takes this much mental manipulation and effort - why spend any.

@chrisclark4197 Ай бұрын

As a former simp so true 😭😭😅

@zozoxo2675 17 күн бұрын

She is absolutely right 😎😍🙏

@unlimitedvacuumsponge7252 Ай бұрын

That makes me so happy!! that means i have a chance!!!

@dustyk103 Ай бұрын

That pretty sums up all my relationships before 55

@REDMICRADIO Ай бұрын

If women can sense this and that. What can Men sense.?

@bangelo8067 2 ай бұрын

Oh Sadia, then I must admit you have total power over me 😊

@MadisonChloeLoves 2 ай бұрын

At least you tell the truth

@avinashjadhav2436 Ай бұрын

Women like Sadia are honest... they won't hurt you... but such women are only handful in whole world... Normally women will never show you their True behaviour .. yiu need to find out

@jcronin3155 Ай бұрын

Simp Alert.

@bangelo8067 Ай бұрын

@@jcronin3155 damm right, 💯. And I don't simp around as easily btw

@OneRuthless Ай бұрын

she talks from her own experience of vanity

@kozubart 22 күн бұрын

If you disrespect me, I’m out. I don’t care how beautiful you are on the outside, I am looking at who you are on the inside because that is what matters. I’ll do the rejection from now on after a recent heartbreak.

@grawakendream8980 23 күн бұрын

i've found no real way out of this rule

@MackMittenzTV 24 күн бұрын

It’s not the beauty of a chic , it’s the duty of a chic. 😎

@terrymcdermott8320 Ай бұрын

Pretty helps but find the beauty within it's a million times better

@iampraneetverma Ай бұрын

where is the link to full video?

@XenobiologistB5 4 күн бұрын

Im just content on my own at this point. I realized that to let someone in like that was consistently unhealthy for me, and you have to break unhealthy patterns. So is it lonely? Tremendously so. But im not unhealthy anymore. My bed is empty, and will stay that way, but its the best situation i got.

@eric44ism Ай бұрын

Afghanistan has the right idea

@reggiedavenport3911 Ай бұрын

I used to be that guy. Never again...

@d.l4055 Ай бұрын

One of the best frames for female beauty I've heard articulated. Females are taught how to test drive their degree of beauty at an early age, yet most males have no frame of reference even when they hear females openly refer to it as "Girl power". Beauty isn't power unless it prioritized as such in Your own mind.

@serdar2580 Ай бұрын

Remember guys beauty starts from inside the rest is just fake if you have this motto your in front

@StephanyMwila Ай бұрын

So True

@judaahmed684 9 күн бұрын

"Bro she's so pretty you're so lucky" - Literally every simp -

@ferran5344 Ай бұрын

Great

@Captain_Commenter Ай бұрын

It's true, that used to be me.

@adriand2895 Ай бұрын

The truth!!!

@pascalfo6014 Ай бұрын

Sadia is something

@adamfindlay7091 Ай бұрын

Beauty is an idea. Not real. It's in your 'head.'

@jacksavage279 Ай бұрын

True.

@ryanmac8283 27 күн бұрын

Amazing woman.

@solomonkajjakiro Ай бұрын

Actually in my analysis when the man focuses on a woman's beauty alone it boasts her Ego....to start misbehaving thereby affecting the emotional health of a man.

@derinden15 7 күн бұрын

She is very smart.

@johnny-mnemonic13 Ай бұрын

Same thing holds true the other way... however, a woman will actually value and respect you more cause good looking men are rare. I was an 8 in my prime and women woukd stare in awe and never played any games on me. They wanted me to be the one...they would want to marry them.

@countryroadstakemehome Ай бұрын

Thank you for this. I have already taken steps to put more focus into myself and bettering myself and stop chasing women, but this is one of the things I needed to hear. I've made mistakes in the past with giving women the power and I guess unconsciously I was still making that mistake. It's just in our dna and I grew up pretty shy so was never really confident with women, but had a lot of girls like me. I still like women a lot, but I know I need to not fall into their beauty trap and focus on the things that matter most like family, hobbies, career, diet etc. edit: When you don't fall into the trap of a womans beauty, you start to notice a lot of them are probably not even your type not to mention it makes convos/ interactions with them much more breezy because you're not looking at them like a romantic interest. You're just seeing them as another person.

@giuseppeLizzi-rj3er 2 ай бұрын

I read that as shrimp

@MadisonChloeLoves 2 ай бұрын

Shrimp 🍤 is tasty 👍

@wheelsoncrisis Ай бұрын

And then she hurts him eventually, and then she makes a misogynist, then women question what is up with these men, well they are becoming smarter, they are tired of women and replaced them with video games

@ryansyd4224 Ай бұрын

Best advice is all men should stay single and happy

@jebenttopbob Ай бұрын

No i did not know

@BarriosGroupie Ай бұрын

Like attracts like as far as I'm concerned; so I have little sympathy for simps and those who manipulate them.

@thejourneyofone2425 22 күн бұрын

Interesting view on the dynamic between beautiful women and beta males. The old pick up community knew this decades ago and flipped the tables on beautiful women by using this psychological fact against them. They would simply lower a woman's self esteem in the interaction. Just as this woman points out they look for men who value beauty. The pick up artist values beauty but he doesn't show it. Like we used to say treat a 5 like a 10 and a 10 like a 5 😂

@seankelly1366 Ай бұрын

Well...obviously....That's why I'm a single man....unfortunately it only happens here in America...When I travel to a different country I have absolutely no problem with picking up LOTS of women..

@DionLYA Ай бұрын

It happens everywhere my friend and I am not even from America.

@vettie Ай бұрын

As long as you're ok with knowing they just see you as a free ride to the promiseland.