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When you walk away from her make sure to walk towards yourself and not someone else.

Experienced divorce lawyer here. So many men would save themselves from a trainwreck of a marriage and nasty divorce if they simply listened to this video and walked away from a disrespectful woman. Great video!

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

If she is talking she is lying 🤥

Women show, they don't tell. Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does.

I just walked away from a beautiful strong woman because she broke my boundaries with the way she thought she could talk to me. Once I left she begged and apologized for everything until I told her bluntly .. it's time to move on it's over. Then she became the victim. It was and still is painful but I respect myself for walking.

Some people will only "love you" as much as they can use you. Their loyalty ends where the benefits stop. If someone really loves you, no matter how many other people they meet, their feelings for you wouldn't change. A real lover can't be stolen.

It wasn't just the lies, it was the absolute refusal to admit the lies even in the face of incontrovertible evidence. She tried to convince me that I was paranoid and suffering from mental illness rather than admit the lies. We are no longer together.

When she says women never lie! That is a lie in itself.🤣🤣🤣

"You'd be surprised at how plain most women are without makeup." - My Dad

Every single manipulation tactic all but implies the use of the lying tactic and the gaslighting tactic. I actually dislike it a little calling out gaslighting as a manipulation tactic as it's actually an effect. All manipulation tactics will contribute to it by nature of what manipulation is. Some tactics however certainly take the gaslighting effect to a whole different level. Blatant lies that are so bad they insult your intelligence is one of them. That kind of shit will make you feel like you are in the twilight zone after a while. Here are some of the reasons they do this: To test their control. To feel superior and/or entertainment. This proves to themselves how much control they have over you. In the end, you will give up and you will not leave (trauma bonded). In the process of getting to the giving up stage, you will go through some pretty nasty emotional states ending in massive amounts of cognitive dissonance to swallow all of that. Cognitive dissonance is a trauma defense mechanism where you essentially lie to yourself in various ways so that you can bring back some semblance of equilibrium to the insanity you find yourself unable to escape from. As part of the ‘backing you into an emotional corner’ tactic. This is a tactic where you are manipulated into being emotionally unstable inevitably leading to you losing your shit. This gives the narcissist a big dopamine burst, they feel powerful and superior having so deftly controlled you and manipulated into this emotional state. To finish the little game they play, they make sure to point out how unhinged and unstable you are and suggest that perhaps you need help or medication. Of course, you will internalize all that shame and guilt and the million other raging emotions they have created and swallow all that essentially allowing them to scapegoat their blame and accountability onto you. Bring on some more cognitive dissonance and gaslighting effects. To condition you to expect less respect, and ultimately put up with more abuse. You will tire of the inevitable circular argument trying to convince the narcissist of the blatantly obvious lie and eventually find yourself challenging them less and less as you subconsciously accept the fact that if you do it will just make your life and emotional state more miserable and you will be denied the satisfaction of any kind of ‘win’ even if it is easy to disprove. This is part of the domination process and makes sure all the power in the relationship ends up with them by the end. To turn your mind to mush as the gaslighting effect takes hold more and more over time. This makes you even easier to control. Many times while easy to disprove it requires some kind of concession of some obvious truth that the narcissist can just doggedly refuse to agree with or remember (‘the intentional forgetting’ tactic and the ‘feigned confusion or ignorance’ tactics are often employed for this). So, in fact, it is not so easy to prove when the narcissist refuses to correctly remember what happened 10 min ago or accept sound logic or reasoning. You will just turn blue in the face trying. Of course, in some cases it is indisputable. A phone log or something. My experience is when this kind of stuff happens it wasn’t their intention typically, although sometimes it was. But in these scenarios, you will typically get some sort of angry ‘invalidating’ tactic, with some good old ‘manufactured rage’ and ‘intimidation’ tactics to ‘put you on the defensive’ and get you more susceptible to further manipulation. Maybe something like: “Get over yourself already” followed up by some ‘blame-shifting’ tactics with some good old ‘guilt’ and ‘shame’ tactics, like “Why the hell are you spying on my phone records anyway? What kind of relationship is this? I don’t have any privacy? I don’t know if I can do this anymore! You have major jealousy issues! You need help!” You will walk away as the loser either way. There are resistance tactics that can be used but this is a very difficult tactic to deal with and it is one of their favorites. I won’t get into the counter-tactics here though. The only way to really win in a relationship with a narcissist is to leave them and go no contact. Moreover, Catching a cheating spouse might be difficult, and knowing what local laws say you can and cannot do might be even more difficult. To simplify the process, consider hiring a private investigator to do the sleuthing for you I genuinely appreciate how incredible you are and your work! Thank you for a job well done Metaspyhub@gmail. com,,

She sounds so much like the last women I dated, she was also a psych. Very self centred and felt she needed to explain everything to me. Also turned out to be a serial cheater while telling me I was crazy.

One of the best things a man can be taught is that he can tell people no. Especially to those he loves and adores.

" women don't lie - they simply don't tell the truth!???" & Bait N Switch!

It's not just low self-esteem. It can also be that you have such a great impact on a woman but you don't recognize you can't heal her from certain issues like trauma

The real problem is that women think that if you dont allow them to get away with whatever they want you dont love them.

"When you value the connection more than the respect that's she's giving to you" Wooooaw, such a revelation for me, i can't thank you enough.

Choose better. Have criteria beyond attraction.

it's amazing what communication and boundaries will do. I told my newish gf that i was doing all the work in the relationship. When I got home she had cleaned my house, did my laundry, and made dinner.

Never never tolerate disrespect. Always have boundaries and self respect

Intelligence and depth of character is far more sexy than looks. There are so many beautiful women out there with ugly hearts

It’s been said, “charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting.”

The best advice and video I’ve ever seen. I watched it 20 or more times to memorise it. It describes the whole demise of marriage in my life. She picked early on that my mother was abusive and that’s all she needed.

The only love you need in life is your own. You don't need anyone to validate you or love you to make you feel better. Tell yourself that you love yourself. That's all you need.

This video confirmed it for me - there's no point in even bothering 🫠

This is spot on. I just dumped a gal after 4 episodes of disrespect (name calling). She actually was a pretty good person other than that - but the boundary had been crossed repeatedly and it was time to move on.

I’m dealing with this past week and yesterday I appreciate it to stand up and infuse great self respect. I have been watching your videos and I have found a fuel source I needed to make a breakthrough in my life at 42. Best regards!! I am open minded to navigate with a current toxic partner that I now don’t trust and cope and arm myself with confidence I need to stand my ground and expect to heal myself for over 8 years of wasted time it’s so stomache wrenching at the thought how far evil has grown being together for so long that the disrespect is out of control like getting out the car and being yelled at and people in the parking lot looking at me so humiliating and I just built callouses and powered through until i recently said enough

It is truly shocking how well you can lay this out. I needed this advice 15 years ago, thank you!

Woman here. Sadia is 💯 percent right. A man with clear boundaries and who doesn't accept disrespect is seen as high value. Also, always be willing to walk away after disrepect no matter how beautiful the woman is. She will get in line if the feelings are mutual. 👍❤

Very right. Therefore in my own instance, I saw the red flags from the onset but chose not to take them seriously, thinking it is a man's utmost duty to chase a woman until it works or try to change who she is fundamentally. Does not turn out well, and I take the majority of the blame for ignoring the red flags.

This video was amazing. Thank you for making and shooting straight with the Gentlemen in this community. I really wish I would have seen/heard this video YEARS ago.

You are exactly right. I was adopted at 6. My adopted mother was great, but my bio mother always chose my siblings she had with someone else over me. Im a strong, yet loving man though. I dont put up with deceitful women anymore. I find out early how they are and if they show those traits, I leave. Done

Woooow. I have been a weak man. Thanks for awakening the beast in me

When I was a kid, my mom would slap me almost every day. One day, when I was almost as tall as her, I stood my ground and put up my fists to defend myself. She backed off and never tried to hit me again. If you show weakness, you will be taken advantage of. If you show strength, you will be respected.

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

As a clinical outpatient therapist who works with equal numbers of men and women, I commend you for speaking candidly but also wisely on this topic. While there are certainly many toxic men out there the reverse is equally true but is not spoken about as often. Women will oftentimes find social acceptance for their toxic behavior which serves to reinforce the pattern.

“If you want to know someone’s mind listen to what they say, if you want to know someone’s heart, watch what they do.”

Once I had a girlfriend who had kids. My childhood was so wholesome that I tried to pass that to the kids too. So they had great family moments. But apparently she felt jealous of her own kids because I dedicated time to them, so she broke with me. Did I beg her to come back? No. She met a guy who scammed her, so he took the money and left her a big debt. She told my brother it was a mistake to break with me. But by that time, I was already marred. Once I break, I do not look back. There is a reason why we broke and going back will not make it work. I always to my best and if that ends up being not good or not enough, not my problem. Breaking is the best solution for both.

How to know she’s lying: she’s speaking

I worked in the divorce court for 30 years. My Supervisor told me, "You know how to tell if a woman is lying? Her lips are moving." Every woman who worked there would deal with a female customer and come to me and report, "people like that make me ashamed to be a woman."

Most guys should’ve learnt this through experience by the age of 25… one of the sad facts you have to face is often once a woman realises you can’t be manipulated she’ll completely lose interest & sometimes actually become quite unpleasant towards you.

My ex walked all over me for 25 years because I didn't stand up for myself. Definitely, will not happen again with my new relationship. Learn to say no and stand strong with your boundaries

Sadia. Thank you. I am a nurse and worked psychiatry too. Your insights are really valuable. I am in the middle of a crisis at the moment and I find it hard to just abandon ship. Over the years I embarked on a health journey to become the most fit person and the more mentally strong I could ever been. There is not a day that pass without me achieving religiously that goal. I see the manipulation, the emotional blackmail very clearly now. How every little sentences I say becomes the start of an argument for my partner, I see how the tables flips around and I am called disrespectful while having to hear many insults and tearing me down comments at the same time. I have a hard time creating the consequence of the boundaries. My boundaries are known, basically dont bring me problems without a dialogue about finding solutions, dont disrupt my peace just to lash out and be overly critical of everything. Etc. Inside of my heart I just want to leave and I feel like I cant. The old me got into a relationship with her but now I am in a different place I can see who truly put the work. Everytime I mention I want out of this toxicity I get the "oh now we see your true colors, thats why you didnt last with your exes etc" comments. Yeah, well. Besides looking really intimidating now, this part of my life prevents me from blooming into a smiling laughing happy or at least peaceful person. I developed anger issues, I react loudly now I am this "I am going to burn the whole world before you come burning me once again" mode.

I am Thankful for this video. You have brought to me, so much peace.

I believe many men who struggle with asserting themselves with women might have been raised by narcissistic mothers. In such environments, any attempt to establish personal boundaries during childhood was likely met with punishment, ingraining a pattern of behavior that persists into adulthood. Asserting oneself could have made things worse, leading to a learned helplessness in standing up for oneself. While I may be projecting my experiences to some extent, I'm convinced that distancing oneself from such a toxic influence and focusing on personal growth is crucial. Embracing your autonomy and worth is, in my view, one of the most transformative steps you can take.

You manage to communicate a life changing information in eight minutes, that other so-called coaches can't explain in 30 minutes. That was solid.

I'd like to say props to the young man i was in my 20s. No papa *sniffle* and a deranged abusive mother. Yet i can say to the very best of my knowledge i have not been cheated on used or disrespected. Minor infractions aside of course. And props to the women in my life for being decent ones ❤

I would rather adjust my life to their absence than adjust my boundaries to their level of disrespect

Exactly what I needed to hear. Going through it as I’m writing this. When she kissed someone else I forgive her but kept going with the same person and her excuse was I don’t have anyone else to hang out with, here I stepped back and ignored her she went into a roller coaster of emotions without addressing that she made mistake and she is willing to change, she only came when she feels down want me to tap on her shoulders. The fact is I believe in forgiveness life is too short to inflate your ego, but even that didn’t change she jumped into another man in less than month and called me to check if I had replacement ( I said I focused on myself) I don’t need to be in relationship just to continue living. She will come back either to make me feel bad or try to get me back to her, but I won’t pick up the phone anymore. I hope she heals, she was good until she wasn’t. Thank you Sadia for your work

Guys, go your own way. No woman, no problem.

This is an absolutely fantastic video. A must see for every man. An eye opener. Many times men do not even realise what is happening to them. By giving an inch every time, they give a mile and don’t even realise it.

She's the best of the best when it comes to this topic! Hands down...intelligent, and the way she tells us or teaches us is soothing and calm, which for myself makes it easier to take all the info in.

I'm chosing to walk away from her again and respect myself. Thank you.

Effectively, actions speaks LOUDER than words.

Thank you so much. You’re very intelligent, and I very much hope that hundreds of young women watch this video

Feels like this video is speaking directly to me. I really need to start paying close attention to the red flags early on, and ensuring not to reward disrespect and crossing of boundaries.

2:46 That makes soo much sense value the respect over the connection she is giving you. Currently going through a divorce and trying to understand 😢 thanks Sadia

I went silent and now I avoid them... too manipulative, even to complete strangers. I liken that to pure evil.

This was really good. It was truthful and didn’t beat around the bush or sugarcoat, and taught. It didn’t make me feel stupid or like I was being accused of oddly cheating on / hurting myself.

I learned that the hard way...pain, rage, disappointment , OMG lesson learned thank you!

Lessons I unfortunately had to learn the hard way. This is 100% spot on.

If she’s breathing she’s lying

I'm sharing this to help others. Great knowledge. Thank you Sadia

It's very interesting what you"re saying plus your voice is smooth and relaxing. So nice to listen❤

This woman is so interesting. She doesn't seem to have the anger so many people who talk about the opposite sex have, whether it's the men talking about women or the women talking about men.

This is true. Many years ago I ignored red flags consistently from women & the damage to me was devastating. It destroyed an already shattered self esteem. Now I have zero tolerance to them.

I just learned so much about myself. Thank you so much for the video and helping people be a better person.

Thank you for the video, Sadia.

Simply they have too many options and also no consequences for cheating...sums it up

I wish I had heard your content 4 years ago. Thank you for sharing, it’s really made a difference in my life hearing this.

It’s a game you don’t have to play - stay single men - that’s my advice.

The first example she used earned my like👍 This Lady KNOWS of what She says!💯

Great short vid, lots of truth! I 100% ignored multiple red flags in my past relationship in the beginning & throughout. Can almost certainly say my trauma as a child led me to not set boundaries from the get go. In doing so i definitely clung onto the connection rather than leaving the relationship, respecting & putting my health & wellness 1st. I can now say I've learned a very valuable tough leesson & I wont be ignoring any red flags in my future relationship. Thankyou!

How to know she's lying: Her mouth moves

You have to be willing to lose who you love in order to protect who you are 🤞

Thank you for putting those thoughts into my mind. I feel revaluable again. Boundaries. Found the word I was searching for. Thank you.

yeah women dont lie its your fault for not realizing you are being lied too, or whatever fancy word we use to avoid calling it what it is. This is absrud.

I had a woman tell me this: "I don't lie." But I took it as: "I manipulate."

Spot On 🎉 I am goin thru all of wat you say Wow !! Praise God that in time I hear your amazing words of wisdom so many need this advice God bless you ❤️

It appears after watching numerous videos like these women are simply children. They need somebody to give them boundaries and otherwise hold them accountable because they are incapable of doing it themselves. Why would anyone get with a person like that?

There is so much truth to this. I grew up that way. Because I never received that unconditional love I accepted whatever I could get from women in realtionships. So this lead to being lied to and accepting it. This lead to being cheated on ect. It took time for me to learn my childhood tramas and see that I was allowing all of this which made me bitter. Boundaries are so important for a realtionship and yourself.

Damn. Hits home. Great delivery. Thanks.

OMG ! You are too right for words ! Just PERFECT !! Thank you so very much

Facts. The last few chicks I dated were from the same recovery community, with various amounts of sobriety, so I thought that our common bond and foundation would be built on that. I ignored the red flags because I figured “she doesn’t have nearly as much clean time as I do, so maybe it’ll take some patience.” The more red flags I saw, I started to realize “even when I first started out sober, I wasn’t this bad, I wasn’t even mean to people or rude, this is just how these chicks ARE”. The last one got comfortable enough to start yelling at me, in MY car, bitching that I wouldn’t take her to the mall, because at the time I had a hose leak in my car which made it overheat (it’s all fixed now, see KZfaq channel 😅) anyways, I was thinking to myself “this is what we’re doing now? So be it 😌” I pulled over and said “hold on, who the fuck you think you talkin to like that?” She was 😳 I told her that I’ve been patient with her bullshit long enough, but if she’s gonna sit there and act like I’m on her payroll, while she talks shit to me in MY car, there’s the sidewalk. Hit it. She shut tf up and stared out the window. The moral of the story is, you can’t win nasty over with kindness, don’t ignore the red flags, ignore the whole damn woman, or it’ll cost you.

When I found about this lady I had to download all her podcasts. This lady is not painting pictures. This are true talks.

Top notch. The delivery is spot on. Kind of video rewatch.

Killer video. Wish I heard it before my 2 marriages, both which ended in divorce after I finally set boundaries. As soon as I did, they turned on me like a viper and took everything with the help of ridiculously unfair divorce courts. I’m wiser now, but this video explains a lot and will help that it never happens again. Much thanks.

If she's breathing, she's lying

Thank you Sadia 🙏 I didn't receive the consistent love you were talking about as a child and have been working with this for a while now. In you breaking down the mechanics of this, I feel a clarity presenting that unifies all the work I've been doing and streamlines it for understanding and implementation! Deep Gratitude!

You have the most accurate truth I've ever heard in my entire life.

Hey, *DigitsalTruthSeekers* squad! I just wanted to drop by and shower you with some virtual love and appreciation! You guys are like the fairy godmothers of truth, waving your digital wands and making all the lies disappear.. Thank you for being my rock when everything else seemed to crumble. You're the real MVPs..!!!!!!.

Thank you Sadia i needed to hear this message 🙏🏼

I could almost give you a hug for so much truth and love

Boundaries are HUGE, if they are not willing to set boundaries then do not take them seriously and remove yourself very bluntly

True story, while listening to one of my favorites, (going on ten years w/ this particular lady) She has a way to bring dialogue that isn't exactly correct, but yet dissolves herself from culpability through manipulative mind play, Gotta admits, She's working her way up the top ten list !

Ive been looking for this channel, ever since seeing a couple of clips. Very pleased its finally shown up in my recommendations, subscribed straight away. Your advice and explanations are top end.

As someone who’s been blessed to attract beautiful women whether through the physical, demeanor or being an artist I’m definitely going to share this vid to my male inner circle as it contains irrefutable truth. Sometimes we “Win” in locking her down as a girlfriend but “Lose” due to the motives behind her choosing us.

How Ironic that Sadia lied when she said "woman don't lie" lol. Look I'm done with all the drama, lies, manipulation, narcissism etc... Haven't dated in years and I am happy as can be, living my best life now with no drama, no anxiety, and no Bull**** The best decision a man will ever make is to stay away from all woman... then and only then will a man find true happiness...

When she learns that her behavior is ruining the relationship, expect things to get worse, not better, when he tires of her abuse and begins to set boundaries. The longer you've let it be the established norm, and the more entangled you are, the worse her abuse will get until you're willing to set it all on fire to get away from her.