Invest in himself FOR his family

Yes was the first thing I heard....THE I,MYSELF. THEY JUMPED OUT AT ME,I SHOOK MY HEAD😮😮

He’s very selfish

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Depends... you have to know if you married a Delilah in male or female form or someone who became a Delilah. For example, some women know their husbands are the type to do something like this and they have a secret savings to bail their family out in trouble or life and death situations. Matthew 10:16 Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.

​if you could help it,&&,you had the foreknowledge of it,what would be anyone's motivation to marry a "Delilah",&&/or anyone who had the potential to turn into one? please,make it make sense!🙄

Steve Harvey says your partner doesn't have to know everything 😂

Depends. Because women weaponize your statements and it will be used against you. That's why we keep secrets. Women on the other hand want to know everything. And women also hid secrets to their man

💯 percent, once that's gone your marriage won't be the same.

Yes 😅😂

Yes, that's when i started scrolling down to the comments 😂

Yes! That smile got cut quickly

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Looking from 5:40 on the video Spirit didn't help his confidence in her. His introduction to her as a counselor was: "I want to know the number" at that time she was personal, and not because she said "I" but it was all over her how she viewed things. Steve followed immediately with, "Look we can beat this guy up" In my opinion they need to be counseled by a COUPLE for BALANCE. My face would have dropped too. Spirit is probably good in her practice, and I cannot take nothing from her, but in that space on that stage it would have been a no for me. The husband's face said what his mouth didn't.

Women are adults also, he treats her like a child without a say and went behind her back

How ... She sleeps with him every night. She has no choice but to place her life in his hands. He is the provider and protector. Otherwise find one that meta your requirement She's is a stay at home mom. What else could she do. He is working class. With limited resources... There's isn't anything to gain. If you are concerned about money you have to marry money ..... And get an prenup that spells your demands. Can marry a man making 50k and have three kids and then make money demands were there's isn't money

@@keithwisdom1663 The morale of my comment is never to put yourself in this situation depending on a man who keeps making bad decisions.

@@writeart7636 most millionaires failed about three times and most go thru bankruptcy.... It's the process to becoming..... Most woman want to met the man after he wins the prize. In addition most black women will never get married check the data. So this women has already won but doesn't know it. This guy is a millionaire in the making but because of lack of support he will probably end up moving on. 25k is deductible on taxes as business expenses.... He did buy coke he brought property which is a sound investment.... Give three more chances he he will make it. But I know you are waiting for the winner at the finished line. Never go thru the process just give her the winner results.... Ok

Girl!😂

Not „a help“, eye-level, joint decisions. This is the 21st century.

Cool! Hope it went well, how are you doing?

I'm happy for you that it's non-cancerous, God bless you 🙏🏾 and may God heal you, wishing you a quick recovery 🙏🏾

Wishing you a swift and full recovery. 🙏🏽

@@NubianP6 Thank you!

I thought it was one of his twin daughters 😂 till they put her name up

@@dortheay7361 🤣🤣

True.

She wasn't too hard. She spoke the truth.

Taking risks without “taking care” of household necessities can, and often does lead to financial ruin, especially in light of the fact that he already has one bankruptcy under his proverbial belt. Calculated risks are one thing, provided that you’ve done a thorough financial risk assessment, and are well-versed in the area in which you plan to invest. Impulsive risks taken without even bothering to consult your partner is just a stupid, careless way to do life. You have three children and a spouse with serious health issues, and you’re out here living like a single man…as though these responsibilities don’t exist. His verbiage is all very self-centered, and he has a lot to learn about trust within a partnership/marital union.

She ought to be neutral just like the other lady.

She ought to be neutral just like the other lady.

Yeah, they should have held off on having any more kids until they were financially stable.

The why should be, why is he not taking care of his responsibilities like he's suppose to.

Don't sound like the kids are the problem. That might be their only bright light or glue holding them together. Besides, I believe the Creator put children in some people's live for a valid reason.

@@setsom2857 the kids are not the problem, but really, when you’re bankrupt and dealing with cancer you must have more right now? Pls have some logic. Take care of their existing kids and health and situation before bringing another life into this chaotic world.

@@VerleanHurd well he tried, he jumped, he fell, he failed. Thats life. Hes trying to rectify it. If everyone does what they’re supposed to do its not life. And because he doesnt take care of his responsibilities you decide to have more kids in this critical time? She should take care of herself physically and mentally first. Besides, they’re bankrupt, so priorities. Anyway, thats their choice, just find it strange to add another life to the huge struggle they are having, and on the brink of divorce as well…so many shades of wrong…Best of luck to their fam though.

@@seoulseokjin She didn't get pregnant by herself. Other than that, I agree.

Nope, she’s not. He just said because of the cost of daycare they made the decision for her to be a stay home mom followed by a breast cancer diagnosis + 3 kids. How can she be entitled for you in this case? I am waiting for your answer

She can get a job when he starts sacrificing his career for the three kids. Oh wait, in your book she must do both and Houdini herself to two places at once. Three places, if you count checking on the accuracy of his statements about their joint marital finances.

Vanessa..🤦🏽‍♀️

Oh please, he's selfish. She has to look out for her, and her boys. Clearly, he's not doing it.

$25k is all they had. That's a lot of money. Maybe, not to you, because you're rich. To the rest of us, it's a lot of money.

Oh wow. Years later and I still find comments of men defending other men making stupid decisions.

@@musicexplosionx4575 Bum birds of a feather.

@@VerleanHurdthen how did they get 25000 and get a job

Legally, it’s joint marital property

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No, it's not his money. It's there money. Plus taking money out of a 401k, you have to pay taxes. Not a very good choice.

​@@mariav8735 He's clearly don't have a head for business.

No, he stole their money.

No, it's not. If YOU can't offer that, then just say that. Other men can, and do. Mine does.

Marriage is rigged against men I’m sure you know. Even if she leaves she can ruin him and the law will have her back. Don’t get married it’s not worth it to men. Name 1 advantage for the man? 🤷‍♀️

@@DjSweat13 No. He don't!

Don't get married to an intelligent woman. Your knocks will be dragging to an attorney's office in the end my friend. 🤣🤣

@@kagnewcobra5228 Yes. He does. We both do. It's called marriage.

Maybe marriage isn’t your thing if this is your thought process…

SOME? A MAJORITY OF WOMEN.

If you think your 401k deficiency you created only affects you, you're on your way to divorce. Before you make big moves like that, you should discuss it with your spouse. If she's an intelligent female, you not doing so discounts her emotionally and intellectually. Go find you a bimbo for next wife to solve that problem because there will be a divorce if she's a thinker.

Oh Woww…. 😮

That thought process is concerning. It’s not about being questioned, it’s about joined responsibility. Even if you are the sole provider, still all of the family must bare the consequences, thus major decisions should be talked about and made together. Sharing. Teamwork. Shared strategy. Eye level. If that’s „questioning“ to you, the attitude is a giant red flag. 🚩