“Does your dad spend a lot of time with you?” “Yes” “Did he tell you to say that?” “Yes” lmaoooo

She should leave him and marry the customer

Heck the customer would treat her better than her own husband.

the husband is very manipulative; he keeps on victimizing himself in situations where he's obviously in the wrong. man i hope she leaves him asap she deserves so much better.

Lee Young-ja trying to laugh instead of screaming at him is such a mood like she threatening him with her laughter is a must. Like girl let it rip please for all of us

So basically he wants to be rich but off his wife's hard work. Yeah I would've divorced him after probably the 1st kid.

The husband is not a man. Not at all. Doesn't even come close to qualifying as a man. He's a child and a needy one at that. Absolutely deserves to copping stares of anger from people because he needs to step up.

Once again, one of those. I'll repeat, a woman is not yours just because you married her. She's someone's else precious daughter and sisters. She gave you love and birthed your children. A bit of respect

This man does not deserve any wife and kids in any means and in any period of time. Unless he is willing to change which is practically impossible.

OH I get it! when the customer notices the husband start to get VERY angry, THAT'S when he invites the husband to play golf/bowling to get him away from the family. It's to prevent the husband from targeting the wife and kids.

Ugh, this is so upsetting. He's not gonna change, dude is gonna try for a month and give up. Leave his ass D:< It sucks so much there's such a stigma against single mothers in Korea and around certain parts of the world. She doesn't deserve this...

The wife looks unimpressed tired disgusted and I don't blame her. Leaving him with the children is too good for him. He doesn't take care of them when they are sick so he damn sure will not do it any other time. Every time I watch concerns like this I wo see if it's a case where marriage was rushed. Don't marry anyone who only shows you there good side. I keep seeing how these women say he wasn't like this while we were dating and then he changed while we got married. Marriage isn't insurance you are not all of a sudden barred from doing your reaponbilities because you have another person to help. I say divorce him tbh. Any man who puts you through all of that while pregnant isn't worth waiting for to change. Men must think it's easy having a literal parasite inside you making your bones weaker, eating up all of your nutrients, adding 50 or so lbs, making your joints and back hurt. Some women can barely walk at the end of their pregnancy because it hurts so much and she is working long hours doing labor intensive work. Child pls. He can go live in that sushi truck and never talk to me again. Childish waste of a man.

You can tell how tense and serious this was by how little anyone laughed throughout the segment. Even the hosts were too astounded to find much humor in the situation. Honestly, the husband is a piece of shit. He goes golfing until 1 AM while his pregnant wife has to work 14 hours a day while looking after three kids because he's "stressed" and could take it out on his family if he doesn't relieve that stress? WTF kind of mental ineptitude is that?? Also, look at his kids. In addition to picking up his bad habits of violence and cussing, they don't even look at him even when he addresses them directly. I hope the wife does end up leaving him. Someone with such a shitty character like his will never change.

He's so manipulative. He says that if he doesn't release his stress than he will take it out on the kids or her. How manipulative. He's too unstable and he is not a team player. It's almost like he is trying to hold her hostage. She needs to leave. The kids already have a bad father. God forbid anything happen to the one parent who takes care of them. She needs to leave with her good health, for her children. It shouldn't be about him. He can come see them when he gets his act together. Children shouldn't be engulfed in dysfunction. She would hate for het boys to turn out like him. Leave while they can grow up to be good men who watch out for their mother instead of slugs like him.

So sad to watch the wife. Poor thing has no spirit left inside of her.

I don't watch every single clips from Hello Counselor but I swear this is the first time I've seen Yeongja just look so DONE with someone so early in the show. She seems to get really passionate when it comes to concerns with children involved, she's so nice.....

the hosts looks like they want to puch the guy's face hard as rock to knock him out

wow she is due in 4 days , hope it goes well for her.

Upon watching this, I realized how lucky I am with my husband. He doesn't force me to work because I have to take care of our daughter. Although he is not earning too much money, I am very thankful to my husband

The wife is beautiful , I think she doesn't want to leave because they have a family and plus she's pregnant so I think she feels like she *can't* leave him and she won't be financially stable to leave him .Which is sad because in my opinion I feel like she should , she's too beautiful to be taking care of a business and their children alone !! As the *MAN OF THE HOUSE* he should step up and help . That's all she is asking for , it's not hard to help someone especially if the person is your wife and the mother of your children . His excuses are bullshit on the reasons why he doesn't help honestly he is just *selfish* and irresponsible ... I hope her pregnancy goes well because at this rate I'm surprised she hasn't had a miscarriage from being too stressed and working too hard . Good luck on the relationship though I hope for the best !

it takes 2 people to make babies . It also takes 2 people to raise the babies together . What kind of partner left everything to his wife and expect her to take care of it by herself ? He clearly is irresponsible , lazy and selfish towards the wife . DUMP HIM !

I am Livid....This was really frustrating to watch. Her husband is extremely selfish and only thinks about himself. Being pregnant in itself is extremely difficult, especially after giving birth it gets even more difficult. On top of that she has 3 other kids to take care of while running a restaurant...while he goes golfing...that's bullshit. I'd punch his face and leave his ass. I hope they do a follow up episode to see if he keeps his promise.

In the end when he said ‘supportive wives’ i felt really uncomfortable, i mean he said it like she she was an accessory to a rich life...the girl should really take some time off from him!

This husband is a waste of space... I would have already divorced. She’s soo strong

I love how young-ja advised the woman to stand up for herself at the end, if she doesn’t want something NO means NO!

I hope she leaves him, he doesn't seem sincere at all. This concern made me so mad

"You must protect yourself". Lee Youngja is right. Sometimes we cant depend on others to change. Some people stay as arseholes.

어디가서 남자라고 하지마소 남의집 귀한딸 고생시키려고 결혼했나? 뭘 위해 사는건지 생각을 해라 돈보다 가족의 행복이 최우선이다

He isn't going to change anytime soon. She needs to leave him.

In Asian cultures, there's a real pressure to get married and have kids while you're still young. But in doing so you're marrying to a stranger and unfortunately only get to see the worst sides of a partner later on in life, rather than while you date them. Hope the best for the mother, because the father deserves nothing at all.

She's a truly Wonder Woman in DCEU. And her husband is just like Thanos's hireling in MCU. They basically don't belong with each other.

I was going to say she should just leave work when she’s tired (after 4 hrs or so) & let him deal with the consequences until I heard how abusive he is. They’re describing it as a temper but he’s essentially abusing her emotionally and mentally. Maybe even physically, who knows. Especially if he throws his man-tantrums in public. There’s no reason a customer should know the inner workings of your relationship/family dynamic like that 🤦🏽‍♀️

YoungJa was so done with the man 😣

listen. i had to pause the video at around 15:00 when he said he feels like he would take his stress out on the kids or his wife. im absolutely sick. he just alluded to domestic abuse due to his "stress" the wife needs to leave him and take the children. how dare he like wtf. she could even risk a miscarriage or something terrible happening to the baby shes carrying. i've never felt so strongly about an episode but oh my god this is the worst

"You must protect yourself. you must be strong and protect your kids." Yeonja definitely knows the husband has the potential to harm the wife and kids. What kind of person makes his heavily pregnant wife work like this?

이런류의 남자들은 아예 혼자 살아야하는데 여자들이 너무 잘해줘서 문제…

I like how this time, the MCs didnt make too much jokes becauase they noticed how serious the concern was considering that the wife has already made a decision of most probably leaving his husbands with the kids.

"You are your own person. When it's wrong, you must say no. You must protect yourself." Truest words by Youngja

this is a case of unfixable selfishness. Get rid of it before it spreads. If my children were growing up in a household with a father like that, regardless of the social stigma of being a single mother, I'd leave within a heartbeat​.

결혼했고 애까지 낳았으니까 지가 머 어쩔꺼야? 이런건가요? 당신을 믿고 사랑하고 또 당신의 피를 이어받은 소중한 생명을 품은 분께 어떻게 그렇게 함부로 대할수있죠? 개도 그 짓거리안합니다. 당신의 아내이기전에 누군가의 소중한 딸이라는걸 인지할수없어요? 남편분?

I didn't get the title at first... I would like to witness them exchanging roles even for a day and maybe just maybe he'll understand...

저 아내분이 내 동생이었으면 저 남편XX는 애저녁에 뒤졌다.......

The customer who sent the concern is so nice. And she should really divorce the guy. She is essentially already paying for everything and doing all the work so it probably will only get better

이기적인 가장은 가족을 힘들게 한다 남편이 바뀌지 않는다면 이혼이 답

애아버지 한테 애들 맡기고 결혼생활 정리하세요ㆍ남자 노답

Also...how the hell didn't EVERYONE vote for this as a serious concern? I think it's incredibly valid and serious.

"Laughter of absurdity" perfect way to sum it up

I'd say, girl, dump that cynical AF piece of crap and get a good relationship with the client! I hope he's single though! A man who was capable to see the struggle of a pregnant woman, felt empathy for her and her children and even stepped up for her being absolutely a nobody in the family....is a keeper!!

damn even the regular customer knows the wife better than the husband :-( if i were her, i would have divorced him before i had the first child... this is why i am paranoid about relationships :-( no offense to the guys out there ! but i am just scared :-(

Take half of "his" business,get him to pay you and kids alimony and leave him. He didn't even marry you and you have 4 kids + he treats you like a servant and isn't good influence on the kids. Girl be smart and run- that boy (not a man) won't change 😡

she's a very strong woman who can take care of her children on her own but i hope that if she divorces him, she finds someone who loves her and her children very much. someone who occasionally spoils her and will also be there to help her whenever. she deserves someone 100x better than her husband

저지경인데 애넷을 갖다니.... 남자나 여자나 상황이 힘들면 피임을 하던가 애를 낳으면 거저 크는것도 아니고 좋은환경에서 자라게끔 해줘야지 돈이 목적이면 한 둘에서 끝내고 부부가 일심동체돼서 돈을 모으던가 자식 욕심이 많아서 아이를 낳는거면 부인이 육아에 전념하게 해주던가 이건 이도저도 아니고,,, 상황판단을좀 하고 집안의미래를결정하던가.... 기분대로하는거같아서 보는내내 짜증난다yo

That dad is not responsible and is very childish. I'm disappointed I bet he just bangs the wife. Sorry to say that but what I said should partly be right.

i HATE when the husbands that are part of a concern on this show say that they're stressed. like... so is your wife????? of course you should always take care of yourself when you're stressed but you aren't the only one that's stressed?? like how selfish do you have to be to claim that you're stressed when your pregnant wife with 3 kids is doing YOUR work for you??

3년전 사연인가보네요 이분들 잘 사시나요? 후기없어요? 아 보면서 아주 열불터지는줄 알랐네요진짜. 지금은 많이 달라지셨겠죠? ㅡㅡ

Changing dirty diapers? Oh the customer definitely wants the wife 😂 That husband pissed me off so much. Not once did he apologize to his wife.

the guy is a deadbeat...bet the woman is going die of exhaustion if this continues cause he's not gonna solve this problem.

it really amazes me that only 158 of the 200 people thought that this was a concern. That means that there's 42 people with varying issues in that crowd

who tf, ok. WHO tf was the editor who put the "no, no, nooo~" sound effect lmfao that was fking hilarious

i've never seen youngja so mad before, i was never this upset damn some women are so strong but so many put off their own comfort and happiness to raise a family and take care or their husbands, mad respect to all the moms out there

*men like that is not worthy,he smiles like there was no problems at all , he is so annoyed to me* I'M MORE AFRAID TO MARRIED SOMEDAY BECAUSE SEEING MANY OF MARRIED PEOPLE WILL FINALLY DIVORCE AT THE END. *btw i really love this variety hello counselor especially youngja unnie,i hope more people like youngja being invited to this variety show*

Honestly I think this man is exactly the kind of abuser that would coerce his wife into getting pregnant to prevent her from leaving. She's obviously wanted to leave for a long time, I can't see why she would put up with it other than for that reason.

wth? i'm so thankful my dad wasn't like this to my mother. she had me when she was twenty and was forced to leave college early, but even then my dad left college early himself and catered to all my mom's needs with his medium wage job. he said he didn't make her lift a finger because he knows what she's going through, getting a job and waking up early in the morning would just put both of us in danger. i don't understand what's so hard for this guy to let his beautiful women rest while he gets off his ass and work, he isn't even gonna last two months. she's better off leaving this *boy*, i hope her and the baby find better even if he is the biological father.

the "nono" they put in after he said theyre still young perfectly fits my mood this entire episode

Give that customer a lifetime discount, he did a lot by bringing them here, it shows how kind and thoughtful he is ... in fact, dump your shit husband girl and marry that customer

Wow, I know that expression. She is so empty inside right now. I feel so much for her, he will never change. I hope she can find the strength to love herself enough to leave him.

실실 웃으면서 어물쩍 넘어가려하네 아내분 그냥 애 데리고 이혼하세요 육아와 일의 노예가 될 게 뻔합니다

at first I would say " just divorce, he does'nt deserve you" but she had almost 4 kids to take care, she looks so mad that she ever think to leave his husband with all the kids*leave your husband maybe not wrong, but leaving your kids are totally wrong" lets pray that he really take his words and give all his wife want. let the wife take care the kids*and take care of them totally difficult, beside their age are close to each other* you must keep eyes on four of them, give love equally, and ect. I hope she can find the happines that she want after tgis show

She's not a wife for him she's an employee with benefits

I'm so sorry but when the music at 23:25 was gold XD No no~ No no no~

I'm the girl at 23:26.

"Please note that you can only press it once." Woman: repeatedly press the button If that woman ain't me, smh. I wonder what the in laws are saying about this whole problem.

It makes me wonder what type of education did he have. He has completely unrealistic standards of people and he's constantly making stupid excuses and being dishonest.

When I see Men like this I become more and more distant from the idea of getting married and starting a family 😥

THIS LADY HOST IS SUCH AN AMAZING AND BEAUTIFUL AND NICE AND KIND WOMAN. LIKE WOW. ALL OF THEM ARE SMART BUT THIS ONE JUST TAKES A STAND. AMAZING LADY.

남편 참 답답하게 생겼다.너무 이기적이고 너무 짜증난다

Yeongja always give the best advice 💜 really love her in here 😊💕

Plot twist. The customer is secretly in love with the husband.

I don't see any love in the eyes of the woman for him. This is already one reason to leave him, one amongst all the others.

니만 스트레스 푸나?ㅡㅡ 진짜 싫다….. 와이프가 아니고 노예로 생각하네

the eldest boy is absolutely adorable, i hope he doesnt grow up like his dad...

The ghost leaving the hosts body is how i feel throughout the entire 28 minutes. *too shocked for words*

I was raised by my grandparents when I was young, and I can tell you that I am much closer to them than my parents, even though it was only for a few years. A child should feel that their parents are there for them from a young age.

진짜 극 이기주의..애기 하나도 힘든데… 하루만 아들 셋 봐봐라.. 와이프 너무 불쌍하네요. 주먹을 부르는 남편행동

It's saddening how the wife has to go through all the physical and mental fatigue. Really hope that the show helped him to wake up him up and make some positive changes for the sake of his family.

듣고 있으니까 눈물나네요ㅜ

I have no idea how she can have calm face with being 9 month pregnancy... I couldn’t even sit down and breathe well at that time.. She is amazing...

16:42 oh my gosh the anger ran down my back in chills. The betrayal from the customer

HOOO that man is a sorry excuse of a husband! How can you put money before family, let alone accept anger management issues as a personality trait?! I wish them the best, but maybe it's time for wifey and kiddos to leave. Too much poison exuding even from his face.

if you guys are mad abt the customer taking the father golfing... THE DAD LEGIT SAID HED HIT HIS KIDS AND WIFE IF HE DIDNT RELIEVE HIS STRESS. the customer SAW the dad flip tables and get angry so he probably was scared the wife and kids would get beat. also if the customer didn’t sent the concern the wife could’ve lived like this forever so he’s the real mvp y’all

Each time I watch a clip from Hello Counsellor, I get more surprised that the votes aren't higher. Poor mother and children...

Oh, she's giving birthday today! Congrats!

Their reactions are everything lol 😂 i love these korean shows ☺️

이런 상황에 넷째까지 어떻게 왜 만드는지 ......

I cried, I have one son and also work but I am home based I also don't have any nanny. Its a lot of work. Kudos to the mom who loves her kids

I've rolled my eyes so many times in the first 3 minutes omg

When the customer said he changed the babies diaper I was all in for him to be the new husband/father. It's sad that a customer has to step in rather than the husband

he plays fewer hours and complains about him having it tough. while his poor wife is toiling hard at work, needing to take care of all her children and the one in her womb. never a break, constantly at work. i cannot help but laugh at this delusional man :’) it must be hard being in so much denial

The kids are the best -- so honest!

Most serious episode I have watched.