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I AM NOT SURE IF SHE WILL COME HOME// Adoption Update// Q and A

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The Felts Family

The Felts Family

Күн бұрын

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Hello, friends, and welcome back! In today's vlog, we have a Q and A session, which includes and adoption update. It's a good video with valuable insight! Thanks for dropping by!
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@aprilarlidge2807
@aprilarlidge2807 11 ай бұрын
I remember in another video Stan asked Addison about adopting Isabell and he said "Would she be better blind in our home, or blind in the orphanage." That brought tears to my eyes
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
us too!!
@cherrymetha3185
@cherrymetha3185 11 ай бұрын
I thought that was a very mature , logical and thought provoking answer . Addison is mature beyond his years.
@cherrymetha3185
@cherrymetha3185 11 ай бұрын
I still can’t believe that Izzy is walking . And she’s now walking with confidence . I still remember the video when you guys went to pick her up in China . It’s just incredible
@cherrymetha3185
@cherrymetha3185 11 ай бұрын
I love that you’ve instilled in your biological children to love and care for people , especially people with special needs . Yet that doesn’t mean that they can’t enjoy their own lives. They are well adjusted as you talked to them about how they felt throughout the different stages of when your adopted children were new in the family . Also your male children see Stan a big strong police officer crying and emotional regarding his adopted children ( eg when you guys picked up Izzy from China , and when she had her dental appointment ! ). That makes male children emotionally very strong imo. You’ve moulded all your children to be independent and strong . You and Stan are amazing parents ! You are everything a mother should be . The children are blessed to have you as their mother . ❤
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Well, thank you so much!
@cherrymetha3185
@cherrymetha3185 11 ай бұрын
@@TheFeltsFamily My pleasure Ashley x
@switsfamily2471
@switsfamily2471 11 ай бұрын
Praying for Liliy Grace and your Bulgarian little one to be able to come home soon.
@donnamoulton1032
@donnamoulton1032 11 ай бұрын
So proud of Issy. Her steps are getting stronger
@ChristinaMaeK
@ChristinaMaeK 11 ай бұрын
Praying with you that your Lily Grace will come home so soon.
@cherrymetha3185
@cherrymetha3185 11 ай бұрын
🙏❤️
@robertareppert2550
@robertareppert2550 11 ай бұрын
Enjoyed your vlog immensely. God will bring your Lily Grace home, patience, it’s hard but good things come to those who wait. God bless you all 🙏😘💜
@GreatLee05
@GreatLee05 11 ай бұрын
Please, Lord, protect these sweet babies & give Ashley & Stan the strength & confidence to know that they will be united with their children in good time. 🙏
@silentmoviequeen
@silentmoviequeen 11 ай бұрын
Praying that beautiful little girl gets to go home to her family!
@suefrizzell7005
@suefrizzell7005 11 ай бұрын
We have a special needs daughter she is now 32, She has cerebral Palsy, when she was in junior ,senior and up probably until grade 5 or 6 she would have a daily helper to sit with her just to keep her company during classes , all the kids wanted to do it so they made a schedule so they all would get a turn, her classmates were amazing with her. She has now moved in to a Ongwanada group home for young adults with special needs , there are 5 clients in the home , she lives about 20 min from us, we see her weekly for dinner and she is so happy there ,she goes to programs 5 days a week and swimming ,concerts etc... she is in a wheel chair and can talk, she is very bright , she can do most things for her self except for her daily grooming and bathing and a few other minor things. She is the light of our lives and we thank god everyday that we were picked to be her parents.
@laurenagetstein2761
@laurenagetstein2761 11 ай бұрын
I don’t know where you live. Not sure of any school system that would pay a helper to sit with a child to keep them company. Parents have trouble getting their kids services for reasons of necessities.
@mayrafernandez7303
@mayrafernandez7303 11 ай бұрын
I’ll be praying. You are with God’s help a miracle worker.
@judyjones1121
@judyjones1121 6 күн бұрын
Ashley, don't be so hard on yourself about the way you're thinking. Try to remember, God is in control he will watch over Lilly Grace until the timing is right to bring her home. Just keep Praying. And the wait won't be so unbearable. I'm Praying with you. Keep smiling that beautiful smile. Do you know what the word FAITH stands for, Forsaking, All, l, Trust, Him. Just try to remember that and hopefully it will male the waiting much easier.
@judyjones1121
@judyjones1121 6 күн бұрын
Ashley, now that I'm grown l realize when l was young l was bullied. It just wasn't labeled as bullying back then. I wish l had the advice that you're giving people today. I didn't have anyone to give me advice except my Mom. She passed away in 2019.
@haleytyrrell9609
@haleytyrrell9609 11 ай бұрын
Ashley, I really hope she comes home. Please do what you're doing and keep up your vlogs. I love seeing your days in the life with your sweet girls. They couldn't have better parents than you.
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@sarafisher6490
@sarafisher6490 11 ай бұрын
As a Special Education teacher, education is key, there are great books and one of my favorite things to do is invite my students general education peers and saying hi or letting them read a story or playing games with them such as Legos or play dough. Along with being their helping buddy. My continued prayers for you two adoptions and to bringing them home.
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
That’s a great idea!
@renaidean3998
@renaidean3998 11 ай бұрын
Is it possible you can complete the paperwork they require faster and send it in. As she is not going to be selected if you are not on their radar. It is so sad , l have watched you and your family from day dot how developmentally Izzy and Mika have come along . Your an amazing beautiful mum and dad to all your children and grandchildren. Your inspiring.
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Wehave already completed all paperwork that is needed thus far. We can not move on until China resumes their part of what is needed from them.
@judidownes9141
@judidownes9141 11 ай бұрын
Hi Ashley, I was wondering , where are you upto in the procedings for your Bulgaria adoption... Have you reached the point where you are recieving possible children to match you with... If not how many steps do you have to get to that stage & what are they from where you currently are now 🤔🫠😘
@mariagarcia7077
@mariagarcia7077 11 ай бұрын
Son mis videos preferidos, cuando no hay videos nuevos comienzo a ver los vídeos pasados🎥🎞️📽️❤💚💚💚💛💛
@reneegoodin1317
@reneegoodin1317 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your update...you are blessed everyday!
@ECunningham
@ECunningham 11 ай бұрын
I have a couple of small questions. First, how are things moving with your Bulgaria adoption? Also, have you tried tube fidget toys for Izzy? Like the ones where you can pull and push them to make sounds? It seems like something she may like, and be good practice with her motor skills. Or those shaped plastic ice cubes since she likes playing with ice?
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Awesome questions and I will add those to the Q and A vlog in October, so be looking for that!
@katiemouille954
@katiemouille954 11 ай бұрын
❤ you are inspiring. Love and prayers to you and your beautiful family.
@annazuzannakowalska2148
@annazuzannakowalska2148 11 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@cherylrhone3407
@cherylrhone3407 11 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this video so much. I wish I would of got in on the questions on Instagram. I do have some questions. How are things coming along on the adoption from the other country? If the adoption falls through on Lilly Grace, do they allow the money to go toward another child, or do they reimburse you? When Mika, is going into a new environment like youth group. Do you make the other children aware that she is non-verbal, or just let them find out on their own? I also want to express what a wonderful job you, Stan, and the children have done by just making Mika, and Izzy, a normal part of the family. You don't make a big deal out of their disabilities. You treat them like the other children without a lot of limitations. You have instilled confidence instead of fear. I don't personally know you, but I love all of you. Your light shines. God bless each of you. ♥️
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words and these are great questions!! I will plan on answering every question on a vlog in October so be looking for that!
@judyjones1121
@judyjones1121 6 ай бұрын
Hey Ashley, what can I Pray for you guys specifically? I want to be an encourager for you guys. I Love your heart. I wish l could do what you guys do. But since I can't, l want to know what to specifically Pray for, for your Family. I wish we lived closer together. I would really Love to be able to meet and enter act with you guys. You girls Meeka and lsabell are. Awesome. I'm sorry l really think all of your children are awesome. I just mentioned Mikka and Issy because that's who we mainly see. I be Praying for you guys. I hope to see you all again soon. Bye for now.🙂💯
@cindyschuman4814
@cindyschuman4814 11 ай бұрын
Is there an update about your other adoption in Bulgaria?
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
I will update soon in a vlog--but no, not really. It has been slow slow slow moving.
@laurenagetstein2761
@laurenagetstein2761 11 ай бұрын
I have the same question regarding Mika. Have you appointed a god parent or someone take Mika in the event that you and Stan pass away or just not able to care for her due to your ages?
@BryartonFarm
@BryartonFarm 11 ай бұрын
This was such a great educational video
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Thanks, friend!!!
@laurenagetstein2761
@laurenagetstein2761 11 ай бұрын
Is there any update on the Bulgaria adoption? Have you been matched with a kid yet? I don’t recall hearing you say anything about it.
@judyjones1121
@judyjones1121 6 ай бұрын
Hey Ashley and Stan, how is you Bulgarian adoption going?
@melaniesmids2196
@melaniesmids2196 11 ай бұрын
Are you going to make some more videos with your sister ? ❤️🙂 I gleaned a lot from those . I understand you are busy and likely she is as well, but I loved those !
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Possibly! Her life is super busy at the moment but maybe we can work towards that. 😃
@laurenagetstein2761
@laurenagetstein2761 11 ай бұрын
I know you have mentioned at one point especially when chinas adoptions stopped Lilys adoption was tying you up from pursuing other adoptions. If you aren’t sure that Lily will ever come home. Is that still going to affect you from other adoption processes?
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Hey! No, it won’t affect it.
@judyjones1121
@judyjones1121 6 ай бұрын
Ashley you should use the word spark not evoke. Especially with children..Don't give up hope, your daughter will be coming home soon. I don't think God would have put it on you guys heart if he wasn't going to allow it to happen. I'm still Praying for you guys. Keep us informed. I'll keep your family in my Prayers.
@Peter_Adventure
@Peter_Adventure 11 ай бұрын
I AM NOT SURE IF SHE WILL COME HOME 💯
@charlenecarey4135
@charlenecarey4135 11 ай бұрын
But it doesn't sound like you've finished your part, You said you still had to fill out some papers, So maybe she can't come until you do that, I'm not sure if that's what you meant.
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Girl, if it was just the fact that CHina was waiting on us--then it would have been completed 3 years ago. No, we can not complete more paperwork UNTIL China resumes adoption. They are not waiting on us. We are waiting on them.
@judyjones1121
@judyjones1121 11 ай бұрын
Hi Ashley and Stan, is your Daughter still in Mission work? I forgot her name. I really enjoy watching you guys. Keep the videos coming. I look forward to seeing more of them.
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Emerson--yes. She went to Guatemala this past summer again and it was a life changing experience for her. I plan to make a video with her soon talking about all of that!
@abbieprice3430
@abbieprice3430 11 ай бұрын
What I’m curious about is why didn’t you bring your other kids with you when you went to the Philippines and China to adopt Mika and Izzy? Are any of them going to come along when you go to China again to pick up Lilly Grace?
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
For our Philippines trip- we travelled much later in the year than anticipated, and the airfare tickets we had to purchase in December were far too expensive to bring children. Fir china- we only wanted to bring one child and since addison was the oldest and about to marry and move out- the decision was made to bring him. These trips are very stressful and hard therefore I have no desire to bring multiple children with us into a hard situation in an another country. Plus, the Evie se is huge!
@ericaaubie860
@ericaaubie860 11 ай бұрын
Can you get a lawyer to fight, and advocate to get Lilly Grace home.
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
No mam.
@ericaaubie860
@ericaaubie860 11 ай бұрын
@@TheFeltsFamily Iam so sorry this must be so hard for you. Lilly Grace is so cute. I know if it was me I would find it so hard. We need to pray her home. Your right the girl must be tramatized being bounced around. I was so happy to hear she was at Eagles Wings. Because the one on one, and it was more like a family atmosphere. I often wondered why they are non verbal. No wonder all the trauma. It is so nice to see people like you to advocate, and want to adopt. Jesus please speed it up, and bring Lilly Grace home where she will be loved, and belongs. Lord cause a miracle to bring her home.
@MissyDcherrydaisypie25
@MissyDcherrydaisypie25 10 ай бұрын
I am a firm believer Lily Grace will come home. I’m praying
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 10 ай бұрын
Me too!
@ashleecollinsworth9279
@ashleecollinsworth9279 11 ай бұрын
Do you think the kids will like the new girl if you still get her not trying to be mean or anything just a question for the qna
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Yes I 100% know they will! ❤️
@ericaaubie860
@ericaaubie860 11 ай бұрын
How 😢 sad your telling me Lilly Grace might not come home. They should ever day do what ever they can. To get as many they can home each day until they are all home.
@elizabethbetsyschneider1647
@elizabethbetsyschneider1647 11 ай бұрын
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@swampophelia2098
@swampophelia2098 11 ай бұрын
I’m sure I read the other day that China is opening again
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Slowly. They have invited about 15-17 families to travel over the past 3 months.
@thanhhuongao2803
@thanhhuongao2803 11 ай бұрын
🎉 chào bạn nhé ❤ tôi đến từ Việt Nam ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@kazholt1
@kazholt1 11 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@suzannesmith2624
@suzannesmith2624 11 ай бұрын
Always curious how people learn . Is there special education available for Mika to learn to read ? That is such an important skill . Or read music ?
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
It is an important thing for her to learn to read. However for kids like Mika, those milestones won’t be met like your average typical child. Mika is so smart! Very visual so she’s great with learning sight words- spelling them etc. We are integrating her learning to read by using her communication device, workbooks, and lots of repetition. I’m still trying to figure it all out . 🤣
@ellenfisona8530
@ellenfisona8530 11 ай бұрын
What happened to the little boy that you were going to adopt?
@marshmallow7640
@marshmallow7640 11 ай бұрын
I feel like they have always been very clear on adopting girls, are you confusing them with someone else?
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
We haven’t pursued adopting a little boy yet.
@katlu5496
@katlu5496 11 ай бұрын
I feel like you need to be more aggressive towards this adoption. Get your steps done here and pressure them to give them your daughter.
@TheFeltsFamily
@TheFeltsFamily 11 ай бұрын
Lol- you’re clearly ignorant on how this all works! We completed every step within OUR CONTROL in record time. The hall is in their court and no- we can not demand anything of them.
@katlu5496
@katlu5496 11 ай бұрын
@TheFeltsFamily ignorant or not, you don't have to be such a jerk about it. I hope you get your daughter. I will no longer follow you.
@enmuaa
@enmuaa 10 ай бұрын
I feel like you don't entirely know what they have done to accelerate the process, and she does NOT have to give us any details to make us feel better.
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