THANKYOU SOOOOOO MUCH DIDI!! I HAD BEEN FEELING THIS WAY FROM MORE THAN A YEAR AND THIS VERY DAY AS I WAS COMING BACK FROM MY SCHOOL AFTER PREBOARDS (yes I'm a class 12 student...that too from pcm side xD) I FINALLY DECIDED TO FACE IT ALL AND GET TO THE ROOTS AND THEN I FOUND THAT ALL MY EXCUSES AND FEARS AND PROBLEMS WERE SUPERFICIAL AND I KEPT ASKING MYSELF "KYO NAHI KIYA YE SAB"...AND RECIEVED NO GENUINE ANSWER...AND THEN I WENT TO JOURNALING AND FOR SEEKING HELP IN MY ROUTINE I CAME TO YT AND AFTER WATCHING IT I SAW THIS VERY VIDEO, IT TRULY RESONATED SOOOOOO WELL AS IF U ARE TELLING THE ANSWER OF THE SO VERY PROBLEM I WAS FACING AND IT CLICKED IN MY MIND THAT FROM ALL THAT I WAS FEELING THIS VOID WAS THE VERY CORE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS...I WAS LITERALLY DOING ALL 'SECRET NRG SHIFTERS' UNKNOWINGLY...TRYING TO FIND MYSELF... I DID MEDITATION TOOK WALKS TALKED TO MUM GRANDMOTHER DID WORKOUTS JOURNALING AND ALSO THE PEPTALK EVERYDAY IN THE MORNING AFTER I WAKEUP AND IT WAS THIS VERY VIDEO THAT NOT ONLY GAVE ME THE ANSWER BUT TOLD ME THE REAL PROBLEM I WAS FACING IN THE CORE WHICH WAS ACTUALLY KEEPING ME STUCK IN MY OLD LIFE!!! REALLY THANKYOU SOO MUCH ...I SAW YOUR INITIAL VIDEOS LAST YEAR WHEN YOUR WERE 1 MONTH BEFORE YOUR EXAM AND THAT TOO HELPED ME!! BTW, I DO NOT COMMENT ON ANYONES ANY VIDEO BUT AFTER THIS ONE I AM REALLY FEELING ENLIGHTENED SO I HAVE A INFORMATION THAT MIGHT ERADICATE YOUR PROBLEM OF FEELING BAD FROM HATE COMMENTS PERMANENTLY: (only if uh deeply meditate upon it and take time to reflect upon it) PEOPLE ONLY SEE WHAT THEY ARE BE IT ANY PLACE i.e. THEY SEE THEIR FLAWS IN YOUR GOODNESS WHICH THEY THEMSELVES ARE LACKING ...hope it helps!! Ty once again didi 😃😇

What really hurt is when you can't share your tough or depressed time with your best friend. When you scroll your contact list and don't find anybody to talk. It really hurts aa lot.

"Standing with crowd is easy. It takes courage to stand alone."

"काफी अकेला हू.. पर अकेला ही काफी हू"! 🖖 This one line is enough for loneliness!

My energy shifters:- 1) Gym 2) Mummy Papa ka happy face 3) Talking to myself 4) Visualing the day I achieve my goals

I am lone wolf. I did it by myself. I went against the grain, I NEVER HAD NO HELP. I never gave up. I made it through the pain. On top of the hill is where I remain.

When we are DEPRESSED we feel everything on planet are happier except us 😂

My energy shifters :- ✓ Journalling( sometimes I just read which I wrote earlier, I am doing it from last 15 years!) ✓ Self talk ( one of the best thing. Tell yourself your story and be proud about it) ✓ Listening to TED TALKS ✓ self help books ✓ Music (light instrumental or old meaningful bollywood songs about life) ✓ Reading/listening to some Bhagwat Geeta or other great scriptures or stories from them(many good available on KZfaq too) ✓ Cooking for your close ones ✓ Play with kids(one of the best thereby) ✓ Earthing therapy 🌍 One of my fav quote of all time which actually narrates my learning of life till today is :- "The now is all there is" We are all just memories at the end....make sure to make the best one for you. Thankyou Ma'am. I can say you are a very learned person.

Jo insaan bachpan se akela hai usne apne aap ko kitna samjhaya honga 😊☺️🫠

I used to call my friend to vent out my sadness.... Then he used to tell his problems which are more depressing than mine 🤣

Right, jab hum khud ko behtar insaan banane pe focus karne lagte hai to life apne aap behtar hone lagti hai. 🙂

Mere pas koi energy shifter nehin hai.. Mai entrance exam ki preparation kar rahi hoon aur poori akeli hoon, ghar se bahar bhi nehin jaati.... Par apke videos mere liye energy shifter ki tarah kaam karte hai.. Thank you so much❤

Last line " You are worth..." : Really very touchy. Thank you very much for this one.💙

Thanks a lot, I watch all your vid since u were 4.2k this is the first comment I am writing on your channel I am 23 and went a lot through my life specially in last 3 years because of financial conditions of family, managing my articleship , family and studies and specially after the demise of my father last year which gave me huge responsibilities on my shoulders while watching this video I realised that I waw never allowed to feel low or weak or never allowed to cry every one around me just said me be positive be strong etc. etc. after watching this I cried my heart out and now I am feeling light thanks to you for making me aware of this ❤️.

Akela hu pr adhura nhi Gira hu fasa nhi Dhere hu ruka nhi Thoda km h pr khtm nhi Akela hu adhura nhi Jang se h khudme Zakhmi hu mara nhi Thoda piche hu pr samay se hara nhi Akela hu adhura nhi Akela hu adhura nhi Thank u mam for guiding us I'm trying hard to become the best version of myself tryinn to understand my problems most imp. Tryin to understand myself

this was needed due to online lec ,we all are losing the synergy between friends and most of us will lose friends in this age thank you for talking on this topic as ca student most of them can relate

1. Mummy 2. In a dark room (introspection) 3. Meditation 4. Self talk on terrace 5. Punjabi music. Your energy shifters are same as mine..but priorities are different...i prefer 1. Music 2. Talk with mom 3. Walk on terrace or self talk. 4. Alone in room (introspection) 5. Meditate

More than just studies and subjects CA Course needs mentors like you Ma'am to guide the students for dealing with pressure, depression and mental stress & the issues they face during this phase and also helping us in taking right decisions. Thanks a lot, Neha Ma'am ❤️🙂 I am able to feel the change.

WHEN YOU DESCRIBED THE VOID FEELING I LITERALLY FELT IT........YOU REALLY GAVE GOOSEBUMPS....GOT RANDOMLY YOUR VIDEO FROM KZfaq RECOMMENDATIONS, BUT LISTENING TO YOUR OPINION AND THOUGHT PROCESS.....I AM LITTERALLY SURPRISED.

Just needed this right now.You are a blessing 😭

When in doubt, speak out, seems like this is your true motto! I love talking to myself hence and always confront all emotions, apologize whenever I feel, or do something wrong!! Thanks for showing the path of acceptance, you're right we all are humans!!!

What a coincidence! It was only yesterday that I journaled about my current life situations, where feeling lonely was one of the prime themes. And today, I found this video! It felt like the universe spoke to me through you! Thank you so much di for your invaluable insights.

My energy shifters 1. Motivational songs 2. 5min stretching 3. Tea break 4. To do 5. Sleep 6. Cooking 7. Meditation

Going to the terrace and giving pep talk to yourself.. Is the best thing❤❤Even I practice this and this helps! ✌🏻✌🏻 I want to add one more thing.. Sometimes it do happen, that we have friends or we were okay but as soon as we open Instagram or any social media.. We start to feel void and we think yaaar hamare to aise dost hi nhy hai nahi koi aisa group jiske sath itni masti karu and we end up feeling bad about our own self.. I feel, that's okay to be lonely sometimes.. Yaaar, atleast khud ko samjhne ka time milta hai.. And God is always there... And the most important thing is-*If you overcome that feeling, just go little further, you can connect the dots and finally you wil feel.. Wo situation kuch lesson dekar gya hai..

You are my energy shifter Your videos did change my mood🥺🥺🥺❤️

Aapke videos dekh kar padhne ke liye aur energy milti hai mai last 1 week se bahut low feel kr rahi ti lag rha tha ki kitna padai karu lekin yeh video dekhne ke bad maine apne aap ko ek acha sa relaxation diya aur abhi mujhe acha lag rha hai. Thank u so much for such an amazing videos

This is what I really want to listen...each word really hits me...I know its going to be difficult to accept the reality ...but u helped me a lot .Thank u for being there to inspire us😊

You are so motivating ma'am ❤️ I'm a NEET aspirant but your videos are so helpful.. thankyouu so much😇

I am not a CA aspirant but your such type of videos are relates to me,. In India every single students feel these things and also deal with this but unfortunately no one wants to talk about this, Thank you 👍 and also a lots of love ❤

Thanku neha ❤❤ waheguru g bless u dear, just hi apka ye video dekha, mujhe solution mil gya, i am very grateful for this video. Stay blessed 😊

Bahut acha samjhaya ek ek word 👍👍 mai last month tak bht depression se gujri hu but now i feel so good, calm and relaxed. Ab mujhe meri zindagi bahut achi lag rahi jabki mai akeli hu na koi dost jyada na bf no relationship and no insta and no fb... I feel so good now a days kyuki ab mai sirf apne sath samay beeta rahi hu last month tk isly depression me thi ki mai to akeli hu koi hai hi ni mere sath but aaj akeli hu to bhi bahut acha lagta khud k saath khud ko samay de rahi hu and specially career wise chize change huyi isly mainly itna sab ho paya but acha lag raha aaj kal bahut ❤️

Kabhi teres pe aapke aate hi hawai chalne lagti hai... Kabhi video banate banate andhera ho jata hai... Kabhi neighbour ke ghar kaam chal raha hota hai to uska disturbance hota hai... Kabhi video banane ke liye lunch skip karna padta ha... Upar se itna saara Workload to hai hi.... In sab ke bawjood aap har 2/3 day mai ek video to upload karte hi ho,Sach mai Didi aap kitne dedicated ho and kitne efforts lagate ho hamre liye i have no words to express my gratitude... Hum to dhany ho gaye ki hume aap jaisa mentor mila. Thank you so much❤️ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Ps: Hawa be like: Aaiye aapka intezar tha isliye aapke teres pe aate hi wo chalne lagti hai 😂😂😂😂😂

I am CA because of her....her affirmation videos I used to listen & When my FR paper wasn't good in Dec 21 cycle. I downloaded her videos in audio format and listen everyday. It helps me to manage my further papers. Further She also help me to keep my channel growing #ToBeConsistent

This dilsetalk series is wonderful sach mai aapki baat dil ko chu jati hai Thank you 🙏

I will say it again CA degree has a great power. It can make everything possible. Being a finalist just a one big hit away from winning this long match of CA, looking at you I do feel ki yaar cheeje badlegi aur APNA TIME AAYEGA 😂😂 Thanks alot mam

No maa no father without parents life can't imagine but slowly slowly I'm growing maa papa bless me 😢 miss you

Listening to your videos is my energy shifter🙏

Jabtak hum khudki hamdard nehi bante, Tabatak dard humse juda nehi hota.. Be your own best friend❤️🤗

your voice is sweet, matured and fells like therapy.❤

Pep talk to self and going to terrace everyday and plugging in earphones to listen my favourite songs has helped me a lot didi. Also, thinking and planning with pen paper works for me the best (didi has also told regarding this in some videos). I would suggest everyone to try that as well😇😇.

1. Do not force positivity allow yourself to vent out. 2.Accept 'it is what it is' and see what next step can be taken. 4.Find your energy shifters. 3. Meditate. 4. Give yourself a pep talk. 5. Listen to music / dance it out. 6. Avoid scrolling social media its just escapism. 8. Alone time is a blessing in disguise and do not see it as a curse and make the best out of it. 9. Remember that Tigers hunt alone unlike sheep that follow the crowd!

Trueeeee, I had always considered myself as an extro, i hated going back to room, when I decided to go in hostel for 3-5 months I cried every single day but now, i think if I get out of that Mangla Gauri I can do anything, being alone was my biggest fear and during this I genuinely found that there lays an invincible summer in me! We all are just the same! I yet am very happy when my friends are around, I yet talk to my parents so much, i yet cry, i yet ask out my personal mentors(mainly teachers and chachu) for help but i feel that now i m not hollow without them, and i m really thankful that at 17 I have really gone through and discovered so much within:)

You truly justify the hashtag! Thanks alot ma’am! Could highly relate ♥️

Very Simple.Mobile ko Life mat banao and second thing is gharwalo ke saath baat karna start karo.Mobile ke piche aaj hum sab itne paagal ho chuke hai ke bina mobile aur bina internet ke bina hum ek ghanta bhi nahi nikal paate.yahi vajah hai ke aaj har koi khud ko depressed and alone fill karta hai.To mobile ko rakho side and ghar walo ke saath baat karna karo start.

There is a difference between "Being alone" and "spend time lonely" and that We need to understand.

I can relate my life with those people, I am first bencher and I want to flash a good impression on my teachers but the fact is I don't have so many frnds. Actually frnds he nhi hai .koi jesee bat karo . When I see there wtsap statusI fell like I have no social life at all. I fell very depressed ... And these video literally lit my confidence . I am ok...

Me Pichle two years se akele feel kar rahi hu after a loss of my mother. No understanding friends or relatives who really deeply understand my inner trauma. I how tried all the things like cooking, consuming positive content or self pep talk, and many more but find one thing that those activities which really make me alive is no longer seems interesting and do not comforting me. Now I feel so lonely that someone try to come close to me I just get angry on them even now on my relatives, father, and anyone. I feel so depressed that thinking to need any kind of medical help but more stressed out to share my feelings as I have reserved my feeling to myself and there is no one who has the capability to understand anyone. Your video didn't help me. May be helpful for others.

Di , I m Neet Aspirant , I m 3rd dropper now 🥺 I feeling so much Exhaust, depressed ...but you know your vdo help me a lot ❤ I can relate you most of the things that you felt that time 😢

There are numerous channels but your channel is amazing. Some points I know internally but you put all the things in perspective. Thank-you for putting whole platter out there. As you description says aptly dilsetalk. No marketing, no false self motivation only true talk. ❤

My energy shifters:- 1) family time 2) talking to myself 3) writing journal 4) reading bhagvat geeta 5) talking to Krishna

Great maturity and wisdom! Thanks for posting this beautiful content.

Neha di you are the biggest inspiration for me, I lost all my hopes about exam you boosted up my confidence even I remember the day when I was very hopeless and just finding anything motivational so that at least I could sleep, that day I watched your video for the first time. Now it's been a routine of my to watch one of your video daily. It feels like you are just siting in front of me and I'm sharing all my problems to you and you are helping me to deal with my problems. How can your videos are these similar to my life....?? Thankyou so much di for boosting the moral of many students like me who almost gave up and lost all the hope. You are the RAY OF LIGHT in my life. 🥰🥰❤

Feeling void or alone inside....it's because of lack of love or care for us....this can be family, friends, pet or anything which makes us feel loved and cared many times helps a lot

The fact is many have reached to the point that they can't even cry their heart out. 😢

Since a few months i've experienced the same with me, I was living in hostel so couldn't really help out myself and always sad that there's no one to whom shoulders I can cry on. You said right talking to mom is therapy but sometimes she says "be more practical and say it clearly " which can't be extended further. I'm back to my home since few weeks and i've realised the same you said. God has given us a chance to focus on self improvement and know what's the right thing to do or act when you feel low. Thank you ma'am , your content makes us feel that we aren't alone, everyone is fighting a battle within their own and we need to win it from ourselves by ourself. 😊

Really a great therapy speech, awesome, I'll utilise this Alone time... "Energy Shifters" great idea 💡

Gym, reading, meditation, work. These have become my saviours helping me preserve my sanity :) I try keeping myself occupied so I do not get these negative thoughts. I might feel bored or sad often, but soon revert back to normal. I keep setting goals for myself to become a better person. Being an introvert, the next one is to become more social and try making new friends, and at the same time start learning to enjoy my own company. Your video is exactly the type of content i was looking for :)

Seriously....... I cant believe ki abhi mai yahi feel kar rai thi nd randomly phone mai yutube on kia nd aapka vedio a gaya, u r a motivaton for me, ki life mai faliure aapka future or aapko define nai karte, aap aik example ho ki galtiya kar ke bhi bht kuchh seekha ja sakta hai, so love urself❤ thankew so muchh.hume ye feel karane ke liye😊

I am evolving with your thoughts. 😊😊😊😊 Commenting for the first time... My biggest problem got solved 🎈🎈... Thank you neha didu... I am watching your videos since long time.. But never commented..I comment under videos very rarely...🌟🌟 Thank you very much neha didi... You don't know how much you have helped me...I can't thank enough... 😊😊 I wish you tons of success in your life 😍

This was the much needed video as i am going through the same phase rn! Thankyou so much for this.🥺❤

My energy shifter .. . Food . Family . Watch something new or motivated . Talking to god . Walking . And thinking something new . Cooking . Traveling . Having Tea

My energy shifters:- 1. Meditation - always helps me calm down and think positively. 2. Good self-talk - this helps me understand my achievements better and feel proud of myself. 3. Good TED talks and Josh Talks - Listening to inspirational talks and the lives of other people is very motivating. 4. Talking to my mom - she is my biggest supporter and motivator. 5. Journaling my thoughts - this helps me understand myself better.

My energy shifters: ♥️🤍💚 1) Talking to myself... 2) Singing song golden era songs or ever green songs of bollywood which makes me jump/dance... 3) Watching some short transition video of a girl from worse background to achieving something big, with her hardwork... This gives me extra energy... Itna motivation/energy aa jata hai... 2 dinn takk sooti nhi hu... So, jo depressed/lonely feel krrne wala time hota hai... Vo worth it feel hota hai... Such situation is like a decision making moment for me... Aur usske baad wala situation jo hota hai ussme zada efficiently padai hoti hai... 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 ♥️🤍💚

This was exactly what I was feeling...Do you have telepathy waali superpower.... exactly right before this I was journalling...I have given a name to my journal ...that gives a personalized feeling to it...and a sense of satisfaction that somebody is listening to me

Wah Neha wah , Self Pep Talk wala sahi tha Guru, bahut Khub, Neha You are too Good and so much inspiring,keep it up, Warm regards 👍

Mam aap ke bato se hmne khush rahna sikha life me age badhna sikha ...aap ke liye mere dil me bahot bahot respect h ❤️😇

Your "Cute Smile" is my energy shifter... 😊🥰

My energy shifter is definitely cooking and eating and also watching your videos😚😚😚😚

I generally don't feel alone because of environment or people's opinions about me....But I feel alone to think about my life...To think about my parents that one day they'll leave me...I fear about my future...I fear about what will I do after 10 years...My family r making too much pressure on me that within 5 years if I will not get married...I will cry for rest of my life...I can't understand my own emotions that what I want...I'm feeling suffocated...I can't explain what I am feeling

Thank you very much I feel good after listening to you . We are the power source of the whole world introverts 😊😊

Ma'am we as society tell boys that you can't vent out or cry you must remain hard and never tell your weaknesses or you are not allowed to be weaken as you has lots of burden to take care off

This is so so relatable and the advice you give is JUST AMAZING!✨ The topics u make video on , is just what happens with us sometimes...thank you for this..❤️it's like an elder sister giving advice 💜💕🤍

Love from my side....me 1 months ae bhi jada depression me tha aaj mujhe kuch aaram mila....😔 I don't know what would be my future...hope is the only last im living with Upsc preparation haq. Se🦁👋

Jyada kuch nhi kahunga...but first time kisi ka complete video dekha h👌👌

Love to hear such great things from u ❣️ really feel blessed to have a motivator like u ...

All the things you said I'm so happy that even I do the same😀 Mai bhi mumma se Apne thoughts share Karti hoon🤗...yes it's a therapy as you said ☺️💓.... But yeh shant ho jaane wali baat jab se Aapne boli hai I'm literally following this and this is just amazing dii ❤️🙏....apke videos bhi Kisi therapy se Kam Nahi Didi☺️💓... Thank you so much 💟💟

Ma'am aapne itne pyaar se samjhaya aapki voice me hi itna assurance feel hua and yeh story ekdum real si lag rhi thi mujhe sunke yeh bohot acha laga thanks mam❤

Jo koi bhi insaan is duniya ki asliyat jaan lega use is duniya se vairagya ho jayega

जिंदगी में जब अकेला फील होता है तो समझों आपको बहुत ब्लेसिंग वाला टाइम मिला है,,यही वो टाइम है,,जब आप खुद की आवाज सुन सकते हो,,खुद से बाते कर सकते हो,,,अपने आपको पहचान सकते हो,,,जो सच्चे ईमानदार होते है,,जिनके लक्ष्य बड़े होते है,वो अकेल ही होते है,क्योंकि वो हर परिस्थिति को अकेले ही चुनौती देने की दम रखते है,,जिसने अपने साथ रहना सीख लिया,, वही आनन्द में है,,,,जो लोगो की हाँ मे हाँ नही मिलाते,, अपने विचारों को लेकर समझौता नही करते,, उन्हे अकेला लगता जरूर है,, लेकिन सारी दुनिया उनके अंदर ही होती है,,,

Guys dont worry bass thoda aur push karo apne aap ko.. Even i was feeling very depressed ...itna ki like i was about to give up on life bcoz growth hi nhi thi life me...nd some other reasons...bohot tough tha 2021 for me it was year of Great depression for me ...later on i went to psycologist nd there i saw sth which made me confident... I saw Picture of deepika padukone,amitabh bacchan,SRK,The RoCk,alber,kapil sharma,JK Rowling nd many more So dont worry if u feel lonely or depressed ite just short term ...life me u will achieve great ...keep smiling always ...God is with you

U sense problems just like me.....And u r more experienced than me and hence u know what I am thinking and u guide me in the way I need....

Wise words! Self pep talk & calling mom are my constants too✨️

Hare Krishna hare Krishna krishna krishna hare hare Hare Ram Hare Ram Ram Ram Hare Hare Chant this mahamantra and be happy

You are lucky you can talk to your mom atleast

I learnt to stand alone than in crowd during my college days..Present is pressured but looking at the past makes me feel ..yeah I stood alone for myself..thanks to me

I learn a lot from you dear, May God bless you🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤

Criticism is something we can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing. You are doing a great job, lots of love❤

My energy shifters are also as mentioned by you ❤️

Don’t know how bt KZfaq recommended me this video on right time… what i used to do always was suppressing my emotions, bcoz I always feel afraid to seat alone & let that emotion come out. Someone’s memories kills me inside & had made me void..

I also do the same thing didi and you tell that exactly 🤠😅 thank you 😊 Didi.. you are really become one of my mentor 😊😊

Bonus point -- start writing things/ PPL whom u r grateful for and thank them( gratitude journal) Trust me u will feel super happy after writing gratitude journal Thanku for every breath that I take Thnku for proper functioning of my every body part Thanku for my eyes that makes me to see everything

Recently I got my AFCAT result I couldn't clear the cut off That's why I was feeling heartbroken Your words are so Inspiring ☺

Aww..... So sweet you are neha.... ❤... Kitne acche se share krti ho khud k experiences... Lovely voice..

What really saddening is when you go through such sad times and scroll through you contacts, you will find absolutely no one you could talk to...

I literally feel the tear of joy. your each line is worth listening di. i have been feeling so messed up. but, after watching your talks i felt good and you gave me a hope light. lots of love di. I am grateful that I came across to your channel. :)

I'm actually passing through this time. Preparing for gov exams and I'm about 26. So, my time is about to get over in the field in next one year. But I can't focus , constantly feeling demotivated and horribly lonely. Friends are settled with jobs , marriage and children , I'm just stuck at this same point for four years now. Parents are suggesting to get married. I feel very lonely also. Biye niye bhison bhoy o kaj kore. Can you give any insights on this neha? Bdw, I love the way yout sort out real things and hv the positive energy,emotion. Lots of love from kolkata. ❤️

A very great takeaway Neha. The energy shifter idea is cool 🤩

I did not know that CAs also look beautiful .U are so wonderful and energetic .#lovefromKolkata

Ma'm ...the feeling of loneliness can't be expressed in words...these things can be only be understood by the person who have been felt and passed with this situation.... I think ma'm ...that loneliness is not a situation..it's a deep feeling ..that can be feel by empathically not sympathetically

M'aam.. these days CA final student face such problem like loneliness, the way you elaborated in this video about this topic is remarkable.. "You are worth Spending time with your ownself" touched my heart..!!💝