I'm £17,000 In Debt | FULL EPISODE

I'm £17,000 In Debt | FULL EPISODE | Spendaholics

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4 жыл бұрын

30 year old shoe addict can not resist expanding her footwear collection. Can Jay Hunt and Benjamin Fry cure this shopaholic?
#Spendaholics #FullEpisode #Debt
Season 1 Episode 8: Adeline is 30 years old and her salary can not compare to her spending habits. With an average spend of £2500 on shoes each year, despite many of the pairs going unused, and her never-ending need for vacation, Adeline's debt has escalated to an out of control level. Jay Hunt and Benjamin Fry use shock tactics to confront Adeline with her overspending, but can she commit to going cold turkey for 7 days?
Spendaholics is a British TV series where the Spendaholics team tame out-of-control spenders!

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@thescenesociety 4 жыл бұрын

She’s a good example of how deals actually make you spend more money...it’s exactly what companies want

@sarnea5331 3 жыл бұрын

I literally cannot get over the fact she went on all those holidays for just £4,000 including the states. It cost me almost £1500 just to fly to SF to see family over Christmas 😬😬 Or the fact all that shopping cost her just £25. This whole programme has just made me realise how bad inflation has actually gotten. Those of us in our 20's and under have just been so fucked over.

@bookwormbon482 2 жыл бұрын

This comment is even more relevant now with inflation sky rocketing :(

@lvega5606 8 ай бұрын

But one of the reasons prices have inflated is because salaries have increased so much. Have you noticed how little the incomes are of all of the people in this series? 30k gbp being a big salary.

@MikasTinyLife 8 ай бұрын

Idk bout you, but saleries here barely keep up with inflation atm 💀💀

@MermaidPrincessLuna 8 ай бұрын

@@lvega5606 Funny, because research shows that wage increases cause minimal inflation, if any.

@daCubanaqt 8 ай бұрын

Airline tickets during the holidays are always crazy, and if you are flying cross country forget it. I don’t even know if buying your ticket early helps.

@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын

Her husband really needs to spend more time with her regardless of his work

@sdsch2167 2 жыл бұрын

Yea… she feels the void of love with shopping… she married a man like her father

@suilvenmountain2395 Жыл бұрын

needs to divorce her

@missk2494 4 ай бұрын

Agreed she's a lonely married woman

@kellyalltogether1747 3 жыл бұрын

My god, that is one frigid husband. She’s literally talking about how he’s emotionally unavailable and he can’t even get up and give her a hug.

@fernandatakahashiestudiohe9896 8 ай бұрын

The husband is sooo fed up with the situation. “They’re lovely” 🙄😡

@abigailbee7208 3 жыл бұрын

Ok so this is the ONE episode where I think “meh, it was probably worth it” when I think of all those trips she took, the memories she made, the different countries she experienced.

@youreincredible1648 2 жыл бұрын

What she spent on all thoes shoes, some will pay that on one pair now.

@hmmcinerney 4 жыл бұрын

'I'll pay for it out of next weeks budget.....'. That sums up chronic debt and financial insecurity.

@Sisabella666 3 жыл бұрын

Her face when she first saw the huge stack of shoes was priceless

@susanjensen4678 3 жыл бұрын

Her husband's work absorb 100% of his time, he says. And yet he got married. He talks of her as if she is one of his employees.

@Brooklyn-rj3np Жыл бұрын

Yeah. Sad.

@Rapunzel1122 3 жыл бұрын

Love the aesthetics of those days ... seems like yesterday and yet so much has changed ....

@rush7777me7777 2 жыл бұрын

I can’t really see that much difference, or I kind of can but I can’t tell what it is

@louiserobinson410 4 жыл бұрын

she needs a hug from her husband

@melgrant7404 4 жыл бұрын

Shopping like this is trying to fill a hole in your life for whatever reason

@greenkitty82 4 жыл бұрын

mel grant hrs it's usually a way to cover a sadness but the most productive thing to do instead is do what you can to help others. That will bring a long lasting joy. I find shows like this fascinating as I'm not materialistic at all but am fascinated as to why people shop and spend money like this.

@daniellew.292 3 жыл бұрын

I think "shoe fetish" and her passion in buying shoes are quite different 🤣 I cracked up when heard the narrator use that term

@samswoman2009 3 жыл бұрын

I think I have 7 pairs of shoes, including sandals and winter boots.

@amytoedtli8194 2 жыл бұрын

good for you i ever been a big shoe buyer but i had to do a big clean out

@spark_ling1379 2 жыл бұрын

And that makes you better than her somehow? If she enjoys buying shoes who cares. It's just a problem when you go into debt by it. I have bought a couple of pairs lately and my guess is i have 25 pairs now. If i don't buy them someone else will and fuck nature because they are already made.

@talithat423 2 ай бұрын

Neither have I! My feet are size 6.5 so it’s quite difficult to find shoes that fit properly. Plus I can’t walk in heels.

@keithjames2450 10 ай бұрын

'I'm quite a private person', but I do like to be centre of attention on an hour long TV documentary! 🤪🤪🤪

@bluzshadez 3 жыл бұрын

I'd rather not have luxurious things than drown in debt. I am stunned with how this lady spends.

@babyyvie 3 жыл бұрын

My husband has had it with me🤣🤣🤣 I spend my own cash but he’s sick of seeing purses and candles coming into the house 😆

@billjones2629 3 жыл бұрын

When the experts check out the house the fridge is bursting with food; at the start of cold turkey there's hardly anything in there...

@rush7777me7777 2 жыл бұрын

It’s completely manufactured, one of the old subjects stated so on her KZfaq video

@diedrapayne6202 4 жыл бұрын

This was awesome ! She and I have so much in common. When I was a bit younger I was a shoes and clothing horse-almost every day ! I had to dress smart for court and so on. I learned that I was not growing as a person until I faced "myself". I am not as bad as I feared ! LOL. Years have passed and the shoes "I would die for" passed as well. Having money in savings and donating to women's projects has blessed my life. Laying my head down at nite with a sense of well being beats shopping any day !! 🤗🤗🤗s to you, girl. Job very well done.

@vondahe 4 жыл бұрын

Diedra Payne You two and millions of young women who never learned to make ends meet. A big hat tip for making that necessary change and helping others. That shows your big heart. I’m sure your parents are very proud of the woman you have become. :-)

@oechsnea 4 жыл бұрын

Do you mean legal court or royal court? :P

@monicanath4859 Жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@soniareddel1342 4 жыл бұрын

What a lovely woman. I love how much she loves the shoes on the staircase! I hope she has managed to get more of what she needs in her life. Therapy would be great, as it gives so much self awareness and control. I hope she has managed to change her relationship to something more fulfilling, and to stand up for herself.

@wipqueen715 Жыл бұрын

Worst statement from a male psychologist “her husband is who he is, and she needs to learn to accept that. She needs to learn how to communicate her needs, even if no one is listening”. Absolute rubbish!! Her husband needs to learn to communicate just as much. Period. My parents don’t communicate, never have, and now, in their 70’s, my mother absolutely hates him. He shows no emotion so none of us know how he feels about that. She is desperate to leave, but can’t afford it. We’ve been telling her for at least 50 yrs to leave him. She stayed for his pay check. It’s very sad, but it’s also very sad to hear this “dr” say, “he is who he is”. He’ll end up divorced if she starts taking good enough care of herself.

@barrybbenson1468 7 ай бұрын

because he isnt a psychologist, hes a "psychological coach"

@carriedudley8593 5 ай бұрын

I disagree, surely you know what your partner is like before you marry them. You can't expect them to change. You either accept them for who they are or leave, but remember you chose to marry that person for certain qualities. Stop focusing on the negative and look at the positive. If the negatives outweigh the positives then it's time to make some drastic decisions.

@rosshamilton1394 4 ай бұрын

If you want to marry someone to change them, you think wrongly. Your potential partners will have their baggage no matter what, and it's up to you whether you want to accept some of it, all of it or none of it. That is why you keep looking and use your judgment.

@yellowbird5411 4 жыл бұрын

I don't see any real motivation for Adeline to change. She said her husband doesn't care what she buys, and that she can even quit work if she wants. Her father's expectations aren't going to change, and saving money isn't going to impress him if he wants her to earn more, not save more. Her friends are spenders just like she is, and the whole cast of characters has enabled and encouraged her to spend recklessly, because that is what they all do, pretty much. She is one of those who can find that her life is upside down over night. She could be a widow tomorrow. Money seems to flow in the streets in her life, and they probably just want to keep her happy, since she has no real contribution. Which is the basic problem. She is like the house cat. And she knows it. She married someone like dear old Dad, neither of which see her as valuable in their own judgment. That will not change. Cold business men are just that. She has her friends and her cat, and that is who she has. And her shoes. She needs to find an outlet to go take care of others, and find her value in that way. She could do volunteer work with the homeless, in soup kitchens, or any number of important outlets. Then she will find that people appreciate what she does out side of the narrow views of her husband and father.

@kimberleyhunter6815 4 жыл бұрын

I think it comes down to her wanting to learn how to stand on her own two feet, and be able to take care of herself. You're right, though; she's not in the desperate circumstances that a lot of the other people that Jay and Benjamin help are in, at least not when she did the show.

@tfhfjhgkjhkjh 4 жыл бұрын

To be fair he did respond very well to the external advice given. I am a female who has difficulty with emotions and can relate very much to his personality. I’ve learned a lot by listening to others and from my very patient partner. But seeming unemotional doesn’t mean a person isn’t absolutely, completely human. Expressing things is extremely difficult for some people even though they are constantly analyzing, thinking, and responding to things within themselves.

@AnnaCN78456 3 жыл бұрын

Very true you nailed it

@Jane5720 3 жыл бұрын

She's an expensive women to have as a wife and he knows that

@Brooklyn-rj3np Жыл бұрын

This is the relationship of my parents. It toxic and sad.

@Scarletandgray1870 4 жыл бұрын

I wish they would make new episodes instead of these 15 year old shows

@vondahe 4 жыл бұрын

Mara _M It’s a tv concept that they need to pay to use. Perhaps the novelty wore off or they couldn’t find enough people willing to expose their stupidity.

@scoopitywoop 3 жыл бұрын

It was pre global recession, when they gave out credit like candy

@billjones2629 3 жыл бұрын

Yeh look at the old tvs

@srehtaef1824 3 жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. I don't think it would work these days as it's so hard to get loan or get a credit card now.

@AllthePrettyPurses 3 жыл бұрын

@@srehtaef1824 It's really not, though. Companies still try to give you cards constantly, and I get offers for loans all the time. Maybe mortgages are harder to get, but all the supposed reforms really haven't changed much as far as credit goes. The average consumer debt in 2020 was just over $14,000. There's plenty of fodder for a show like this.

@Probity100 4 жыл бұрын

I wonder if Mark & Adeline are still together....... so strange how she developed a shopping addiction from lack of communication/ emotional communication 😒

@kdp8133 3 жыл бұрын

They are and have 2 kids

@whyme7996 3 жыл бұрын

@@kdp8133 If that is true, that's good. She's definitely a woman who needed children.

@gijose83 10 ай бұрын

UK homes are generally so small how can you accumulate so much

@lexeiy1730 2 жыл бұрын

The part of this video when she is staring and is completely mesmerized by all of her "beautiful" shoes on the stairway and the Psychological Coach saying that this is a "disaster" -priceless 🤣

@Helga-fe5xl 7 ай бұрын

So funny 😂😂😂

@laurabalzekas4163 4 жыл бұрын

I just want to say that especially with shoes "designer" names mean nothing in terms of quality. Look for a shoe store that cares more about the shape of your foot, your insole and can talk about the parts of the shoe and match fit so that you are comfortable. I have bought many popular brands and they don't last very long. But on the same note buying the cheapest shoes you can find is a bad idea too because they are horribly uncomfortable and fall apart. Mainly I look for good deals on quality items. Leather is a great shoe material vs plastic.

@solidstate9451 3 жыл бұрын

I do have sandals from KEEN completely of plastic. I wear them since 2 years every day, even in winter. They are good as new and when I walk through mud, I can put them under the faucet. My Fersensporn doesn't hurt in these shoes and no animal was involved. Best shoes I ever had. An all for 100 €.

@jamieangel3766 3 жыл бұрын

Office are fairly cheap and they last for ages

@123moe 3 ай бұрын

It depends on the designer. I have a pair of Givenchy trainers that I wore daily for almost 2 years and the insoles are perfect (leather), and the soles are kinda worn but have still got plenty of life left in them. No other pair of trainers I've owned have ever lasted more than 6 months.

@madhatter909 4 жыл бұрын

I never had any shoes when I was a kid, that's how I became a shoe nut.

@sunbeam9222 4 жыл бұрын

She's so pretty and I love her style. Great genuine personality, really enjoyed the show and wish Adeline all the best.

@solidstate9451 3 жыл бұрын

Typical trophy wife...

@ryu4045 4 жыл бұрын

Professionals - ‘Don’t spend so much’

@karenlawler4043 4 жыл бұрын

Finally a conversation about their emotions and it only took TWO bottles of wine!! Hmmm ok...

@eleanorferguson3421 3 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure a spa break in the south east would be comparable in price to a weekend in Prague....

@EverythingKash 4 жыл бұрын

That *GINA* Brand looks Cheap AF 😂😂

@gemma-louiseridge2331 4 жыл бұрын

Remember this is about 2005 so that may come into it😂

@RuxyMachal 3 жыл бұрын

I would honestly refuse to wear anything labeled “Gina” until I’m at least 50 😂😂

@EverythingKash 3 жыл бұрын

@@RuxyMachal They *do* look like old lady shoes 😂😂😂

@nathan3368 4 жыл бұрын

So she earns 30k a year her husband earns 4 times that 120k so there household income is 150k a year. 17k in debt is really not bad.

@mariancounsellor 4 жыл бұрын

gas gas guy they shouldn’t even be in debt with a household income of that much though.

@carojames6776 4 жыл бұрын

@@mariancounsellor They are because she is spending everv penny.

@keorbats9429 4 жыл бұрын

It’s the toxicity of resentful spending that’s the problem, not the amounts...

@lup6974 4 жыл бұрын

It is pretty bad as it's absolutely unnecessary debt. They earn enough money for to people to have very comfortable life, save money and definitely be debt free.

@michaelm5741 3 жыл бұрын

Almost £180K in today’s money! They should be able to pay this off in 6 months!

@samswoman2009 3 жыл бұрын

Funny calling mass produced fashion 'unusual.' I have a closet full of unusual clothes - 75% are from thrift stores.

@jamieangel3766 3 жыл бұрын

Amen :)

@mariancounsellor 4 жыл бұрын

She doesn’t want to change and her husband doesn’t care either so there’s no incentive or motivation for change to happen.

@sarahobyrne9462 4 жыл бұрын

Nu Journeys Counselling she ought to leave her husband and marry a shoe 🥿😑 You are correct she lacks any motivation to change and clearly they wasted their time on her she does not desire to change.

@onlyme7308 4 жыл бұрын

This programme is about 10 years old. It’d be interesting to know where she is today and her circumstances 🤔

@mariancounsellor 4 жыл бұрын

OnlyMe yes it would be good to see a follow up on this couple.

@mariancounsellor 4 жыл бұрын

Sarah O’Byrne it’s so frustrating when people go on shows for help but they don’t really want to change deep down.

@fdm2155 4 жыл бұрын

@@mariancounsellor True but we also all know people who do this in daily life. So yeah, frustrating is right.

@itsadogslife1234 4 жыл бұрын

I don't know why with that small amount of money she has for the cold turkey she didn't wait till the following week or ask her husband to pick up the dry cleaning.

@heidihurn9828 4 жыл бұрын

I was in debt once no where near this amount but bad enough it was horrible suffering cause of being broke to pay it back never again

@jamieangel3766 3 жыл бұрын

Me too, it was around $8,000 4 years ago, I've just finished paying it all off. Worst time of my life! Onwards and upwards

@wannaBepunjabi 4 жыл бұрын

I like her. She doesnt come off as entitled or arrogant, like the others on this show.

@megadancefan 3 жыл бұрын

"It's been a pain getting up TEN minutes early." Me: 🥴🥴

@terenia27shandy95 4 жыл бұрын

Wonder how she turned out all these years later and whether she is still married

@kdp8133 4 жыл бұрын

She appears to have a couple of kids now and is a businesswoman

@Galworld761 4 жыл бұрын

KDP what a happy outcome!!

@vondahe 4 жыл бұрын

KDP “Businesswoman”. Hahahaha. That means nothing. She could be a hairdresser, try to run a small clothes shop and cleaning homes. It’s the equivalent of a man calling himself a self-employed consultant.

@kdp8133 4 жыл бұрын

@@vondahe What a sexist remark! Yes, any business person could be doing those trades you mention. But she's running a marketing consultancy lol. OMG. I can't believe you said that in 2020. 🤣 A woman has to be cleaning, hairdressing etc 😄😄😄

@sarahlewis437 4 жыл бұрын

So what if her business is a hairdressers or cleaning company. A business is a business right?

@teresayeates3437 4 жыл бұрын

She said she has 60 shoes and buys 5 pair a month, that is basically a years worth. So she only bought shoes for a year?

@davidb9806 Жыл бұрын

Could be a binge-purge cycle with regular clearouts.

@thescenesociety 4 жыл бұрын

If I had $17,000 in debt, ALL of my clothes and shoes would be designer brands

@iarshintasudjana4382 4 жыл бұрын

Yes...they still hv value though...on the market

@tinlidtoo6615 3 жыл бұрын

She seems to have an empty life. She needs to find some meaning. Usually that comes from helping others. Her spa weekend was just the same self indulgence as every other thing in her life. The experts are missing the point in my opinion. Also unless she and her husband can find something they can do together I can't see the marriage lasting.

@nonamehi 3 жыл бұрын

Well theyre finance people, not shrinks.

@beaulieuc8910 5 ай бұрын

How can she be a manager when she has so much debt? She cannot manage her basic life. Why waste money on stuff that will just devalue and get ruined. She expects her dad to bail her out all the time, the dad has no boundaries

@michaelm5741 3 жыл бұрын

Ben goes all blazing squad at the end ... what a baller.

@truebluewonderful 4 жыл бұрын

She tries to fill a hole inside where the husband should put love and attention. We stay with the man who reminds us of our father. When we don't see it and stay, we may need a lot of shoes and massages in trying to get warmth and attention. I find it sad.

@truebluewonderful 4 жыл бұрын

@Mo Shirazi Your original comment was different. Ofcourse she's also responsible. But he's ALWAYS working. That creates an unhealthy relationship. When people, children too, are being neglected for a longer period, it has a negative impact on them. When this man would be a woman the result would be the same. A male partner wouldn't become addicted to buying clothing to fill the hole inside, but he would, for example, start drinking too much alcohol. When the neglecting partner doesn't change, the only option for change is a divorce. Because children don't have a choice they have to stay in a neglectful situation for 18 years. They'll hardly have self-respect, self-worth and self-confidence. They need good therapy to still create those. Otherwise they'll also choose wrong things in life to try and ease the pain.

@truebluewonderful 4 жыл бұрын

@Mo Shirazi You sound like you're angry with women. This woman is well educated. Apparently you suffer from partial deafness. He works and sleeps and that's it.

@Galworld761 4 жыл бұрын

Mo Shirazi her husband admitted all he does is work. Her debt is not his RESPONSIBILITY but it is a trigger she needs to manager. He PHYSICALLY sleeps, works and eats - he said it in the video.

@vondahe 4 жыл бұрын

truebluewonderful That’s an old wives’ tale on par with men marrying a girls who remind them of their mothers. She’s insanely immature in financial terms and apart with their line of business, it seems the father and the husband only have their indifference to her irresponsibility in common.

@billjones2629 3 жыл бұрын

He's probably had enough: when discussions fail, rather than argue he gave up

@senacynical 4 жыл бұрын

Mention of Imelda Marcos in this context is.... amusing.

@donnaharrison8336 4 жыл бұрын

Black stockings not with those shoes 👠

@alicejackson771 3 жыл бұрын

What she needed was a husband with time for her. (And his massive income possibly made her feel inferior.) She needed a new interest - a hobby, a passion, and maybe a different job. Some people in her position turn to another man - hope she didn't.

@cable30 4 жыл бұрын

I been to a thrift store and see people fill a cart with just shoes so guessing for gifts or try resell anytime. i try wear out or wear and tear anything till i toss it any so not have so many new shoes lol. i really do not spend a lot on shoes just know they last a few months or more then then gotta get some new any lol.

@christinaburton9297 4 жыл бұрын

Love this, thank you ...looking forward to more episodes...can you also do Bank of Mum and Dad?

@Reticence9zen924 4 жыл бұрын

I second the Bank of Mum and Dad.

@user-jy3zl2vp4b 3 жыл бұрын

@@Reticence9zen924 I loved that program and also wish it would return! On this side of the pond we also had Bank of Mom and Dad....great programs! And still very much needed!

@ishabrown 3 жыл бұрын

She's very pretty and has such a genuine lovely personality. Her style is quite unique too but she looks elegant

@absolutelyridiculous6743 4 жыл бұрын

When I was on my tight budget I spent $20 a week on groceries just for me. Now it is upwards of $120 a week for the four of us depending.

@jamieangel3766 3 жыл бұрын

I have a fam of 4, plus 3 dogs and 4 guinea pigs and I spend around £80-90 p/w for all of us. £120 p/w for 2 people esp 10 years ago is outrageous!

@thescenesociety 3 жыл бұрын

@@jamieangel3766 I live near Los Angeles & $120 per week for 4 people is good. I spend about $100 for my husband & I, plus a toddler. And it’s a good budget

@lorispain1 4 жыл бұрын

OMG I own one pair of Skechers, one pair of slippers, one pair of half decent shoes and one pair of boots!

@Theaterfreak 3 жыл бұрын

Right?! She bought pairs a month, most of her shoes never even worn. I have a pair of black flats I’ve had since I was about 14, two pairs of heeled sandals - one pair was a charity shop find for £3 - pair of cheap ankle boots from Amazon I’ve had since 2011 and some trainers. The only brand shoes I have are my 12-year-old Converse, and some Vans.

@samswoman2009 3 жыл бұрын

I try to buy quality shoes but I only have a few pairs. I have two pairs of high quality winter boots, two pairs of teva sandals, three pairs of slippers (floors in my house are COLD) and an old pair of sneakers. For clothing I depend on thrift stores or poshmark.

@nora4981 3 жыл бұрын

Nobody asked

@CraftyWitch1990 3 жыл бұрын

@@nora4981 nobody asked for your opinion either yet here it is. Funny that.

@TheCanadiangirl4 3 жыл бұрын

Anyone else find it funny they spend money on items to simply shock the person to get them to spend less money? I'd like to know what they do with the items after their shock. In one episode it was plastic sea creatures to illustrate how much money that person spends on seafood. How is that not a waste of money?!

@BleedingxRainbow 4 жыл бұрын

Loving this show

@fdm2155 4 жыл бұрын

Where do people put all this stuff that they are constantly buying!? 60 pairs of shoes a year...

@katiedominique1034 4 жыл бұрын

This woman is in loads of debt and needs to stop spending money. So the 'expert' takes her to try on designer shoes!! They really don't make programmes like this anymore!

@AllthePrettyPurses 3 жыл бұрын

Realistically, she's not going to stop shopping, so they're trying to give her some strategies for impulse control, so she can start moderating herself. If they just tell her to stop going into stores, it won't work.

@beebeebe463 4 жыл бұрын

Don't own a credit card now, never spend money I don't have, why do people think credit cards are equal to money, they are not, don't spend unless you have money in your account, end of story!

@karenlawler4043 4 жыл бұрын

Can't even imagine spending 50 quid a month on clothes/shoes nevermind 300! lol

@TheSamVala 4 жыл бұрын

I spend about 30 euros per year on clothes so yeah. This sound way out off control. I like shopping second hand and use what I have to The really end before I buy more

@wewemcrhyne 4 жыл бұрын

Right. I’m debt free and I’m teaching my kids to never use credit cards. When people use a card, they don’t feel the pain of spending cash. And they spend more than they would with cash.

@Pearlpablo 4 жыл бұрын

Karen Lawler I’m learning this the hard way I’m 3k in debt

@ZosiaSamosiaOo 4 жыл бұрын

@@wewemcrhyne Not true with me, seeing it in cash does little to me, however having my full history of spending on my online bank account divided into years / months / weeks and categories with each shop and usually the purchase also named, I have a clear view of where I've been doing well and what I still need to work on.

@CaraMarie13 3 жыл бұрын

So she married the emotional equivalent of her father.

@yokomodrifter 4 жыл бұрын

why did they replace benjamin fried in season 2?

@10caba 4 жыл бұрын

It is not later then year 2002. you can see that on how the fashion looked.

@poppygirl8607 4 жыл бұрын

And her eyebrow

@kdp8133 4 жыл бұрын

2005

@momof2momof2 11 ай бұрын

With their combined income they should have no debt except maybe for a mortgage

@valerianovember6942 3 жыл бұрын

9:38 😂

@kelhimacmillan5675 4 жыл бұрын

Adeline Garman... what an appropriate name for her, lol! We become addled to shopping due to the release of dopamine that we get from every single purchase being so short lived. Then, before we know it we need that fix again... Every addiction is fundamentally the same in that respect!! 🍾🍭🍟🍔💖😱🙏🙄😎💅👙🕶👠👡💍💄👜👒👑👚

@pauljordan4452 3 жыл бұрын

Right on. My brain doesn't produce dopamine yet I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.

@GalCharlotteOG 3 жыл бұрын

Benjamin’s looking for clues...🕵🏻

@HumanimalChannel Жыл бұрын

I think theyre a good team

@Tina06019 4 жыл бұрын

I think that being the primary breadwinner for our family may be part of the reason I have been so thrifty. I had enough stimulation from a demanding professional career and never needed to shop for fun. It would be easy for me to throw stones as her, but I don’t want to. My husband also gives me much more emotional attention than this gal gets from her husband. I feel a bit sorry for her.

@CardsbyMaaike 4 жыл бұрын

I suppose my taste is very different. Ididn't like any of those shoes, except the pink glitter ones, but would never wear or buy them. I have just been repairing my backback with needle an thread. I could go out an buy one but I don't like this one to become a pile on the landfill just yet:-D.. Iwanted to watch a few more episodes, but there's toomany commercial breaks. sorry I know you want tomakesome money, but this might not be the way if you shy away viewers

@diedrapayne6202 4 жыл бұрын

I loved every single pair...from a distance ! I now would rather save than spend and have buyer's remorse !

@crazyloon202 4 жыл бұрын

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@Vasa-gk1xr 2 жыл бұрын

So many pointy 2000s heels

@EchoDissolve 4 жыл бұрын

Half of these shows are just “Daddy Issues: The Series”.

@traciforsythe4362 4 жыл бұрын

No wonder she spends money or goes away with her friends of she is married to an unemotional brick of a husband

@sissyrayself7508 4 жыл бұрын

You think HE'S an unemotional brick?!? You haven't seen anything until you see MY techy hubby. At least HER husband responded when she asked him a question. Mine barely even nods his head and just gives me a terse grimace that I think is supposed to be his version of a smile.

@mphomolapo1562 4 жыл бұрын

@@sissyrayself7508 Ooo, im so sorry 😐

@absolutelyridiculous6743 4 жыл бұрын

@@sissyrayself7508 I get ignored mostly, but your situation sounds horrid. Hugs from a stranger!

@absolutelyridiculous6743 4 жыл бұрын

@Mo Shirazi When you're not receiving the affection and love you need, you'll look elsewhere to fill the void. Some people cheat, drink, abuse pills, shop, seek therapy, gamble...

@tfhfjhgkjhkjh 4 жыл бұрын

@neko8282 3 жыл бұрын

I don't like Benjamin always bring "Childhood trauma" for the reason..... It's not always childhood trauma brings you problem. What if he is feeling bad about his thin hair . I don't think it started from his childhood....

@jamieangel3766 3 жыл бұрын

oooo! that is savage ... but funny

@Sarah-eh7bw 4 жыл бұрын

A dozen trips a year?! Her carbon footprint must be Bigfoot sized, jeez.

@matts4893 2 жыл бұрын

14 credit cards? What the hell?!

@joelwillems4081 3 жыл бұрын

She makes 30k and he makes 120k? That 17k debt, even though it's all personal, shouldn't really be a big deal. Paid off in six months?

@donnahill214 Жыл бұрын

Need updates

@missk2494 7 ай бұрын

I dont get the shoe obsession

@notthedoctor8621 4 жыл бұрын

Thesd people always had tons of clothes and shoes and no proper place to store them

@glammeddiva4520 4 жыл бұрын

Wow she reminds me of me with shopping

@billjones2629 3 жыл бұрын

£17 on 2 drinks: was there a war on?

@neets7519 6 ай бұрын

What is the track 53:26???

@patriciadorris1149 2 жыл бұрын

🙋Wow! What a jewel of a husband. He wouldn't have to tell me twice that I didn't have to work. Of course it would be hard for me to run along and do what whatever I wanted as he got back to work...NOT!!😄

@susieenglish302 4 жыл бұрын

They are bailing her out so she continues to be dependent on them

@jla9227 3 жыл бұрын

What year is this series from? Seems like 2000.

@CraftyWitch1990 3 жыл бұрын

2005 approximately

@yhwe100 2 жыл бұрын

17K isn't too bad. Some simple adjustments to get out of it.

@bookwormbon482 2 жыл бұрын

This was filmed a long time ago so back then 17k was a lot

@georginasmith441 4 жыл бұрын

who goes abroad every weekend......

@ellenorbjornsdottir1166 3 жыл бұрын

someone in the EU

@kdp8133 3 жыл бұрын

I used to go a lot. Cheap flights - why not?

@thomasgrey6309 4 жыл бұрын

This makes me think about my own life.. I see the numbers she spends on things and it doesn't sound that bad to me (the 17,000 pounds of debt notwithstanding). She took all those vacations and never eclipsed 4,000? I'd do that with one trip to California. Her weekly budget is not even enough to fill my car gas tank for a full week. I've also tried making a packed lunch and I've concluded that I dont actually spend less buying the components to make my lunch than I do if I buy my lunch. This austerity plan is a good one to have her climb out of debt, but I'd suggest its a horrible one if one is supposed to "live".. A life lived on bread and water alone is not much of a life, tho admittedly there are increasing numbers of people these days that seem to have this very struggle each and every day. I'm with this on the excess shoes and trips... but that is also from a guys perspective.. I just dont understand the female obsession with shoes so I have a bias there. If she can suffer for a spell to work off the debt and find some better balance.. I think she's okay.

@ultraboombean 4 жыл бұрын

Price were lower back then though.

@AnnaCN78456 3 жыл бұрын

You are watching a 2000s show

@indraneilbiswas 3 жыл бұрын

i m always a cold turkey :D

@mojopika Жыл бұрын

Which brans is that pink glitter heels😍

@Pearlpablo 4 жыл бұрын

Those are horrible shoes,why buy 15 ugly shoes that have a pair of designer shoes

@poppygirl8607 4 жыл бұрын

It the early 2000 just look at the eyebrows

@kdp8133 4 жыл бұрын

@@poppygirl8607 Yep. No ridiculous painted eyebrows in those days lol

@SinaAla 4 жыл бұрын

Apparently we were all blind back then. Fashion really sucked 😂

@ForgiveMyMadness 4 жыл бұрын

I wonder how someone so bubbly ended up marrying that guy... He's like a living brick!

@vondahe 4 жыл бұрын

Cottonsocks434 She’s about a 4 on a good day and he’s probably a 3 but 1) he tolerated her excessive materialism and 2) more importantly, he earns four times her salary. Some of her kind get silicon breasts and marry some old sod. She found a well-healed man her own age but for the same reason.

@tfhfjhgkjhkjh 4 жыл бұрын

@sonaterese799 11 ай бұрын

Oppoaites attract - I have an unemotional husband myself but we balance each other

@westmidlandsdashcam6717 5 ай бұрын

maybe his 120k a year salary in the early 2000s has something to do with it.

@5agentalex5 4 ай бұрын

The poor husband seams absolutely drained by her, I don't think most people understand how emotionally abusive it is for a non-competitive person to be married to a hyper competitive one. Them always celebrating your failures and being resentful with you for succeeding. She also clearly married him as a proxy for her dad and is taking out her daddy issues on him now.If she really wanted to be the bread winner she could have cracked down, gotten further education and secured a higher paying career, but no, she just wanted it to fall in to her lap with out working for it. 100% if they split up she will quickly find another guy just like him.