I'm 24, Make $170,000, and Still Not Happy!

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@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 2 жыл бұрын
I make $50k. I’m 61. I have no debt. I paid off my house. I’ve never done drugs I’m a high school drop out I travel the world. Life is good.
@luchadordecocina5106
@luchadordecocina5106 2 жыл бұрын
No one cares...
@steveclark7957
@steveclark7957 2 жыл бұрын
Well done, sir. Life with no debt is the key.
@geo865833
@geo865833 2 жыл бұрын
​@@luchadordecocina5106 shut up. Take your negativity somewhere else.
@jonathannavarro9048
@jonathannavarro9048 2 жыл бұрын
@@luchadordecocina5106 i do
@adamseidel9780
@adamseidel9780 2 жыл бұрын
Time to try a drug or two, live a little
@m2gautam
@m2gautam 2 жыл бұрын
When there’s no struggle, there’s no satisfaction. He should probably start volunteering and donating to realize how to be grateful for what he has.
@Winnie-Kay
@Winnie-Kay 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Volunter at a homeless shelter, a soup kitchen, or a boys club, just to name a few. And, not just donate as writing a check, donate by making it personal such as giving extra tips, or paying for someones vet bill. Also, having a hobby that will take him outside such as fishing or golf.
@undearwearman654
@undearwearman654 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like when u get rich, u lose purpose in life
@anthonyfaucy2761
@anthonyfaucy2761 2 жыл бұрын
Seems like his a narcissist to me. He is living a better life than majority off the population yet still not happy. If anything seems like his a psychopath as he says he "wants to make changes" i.e fire people and ruin their lives by being VP
@Hvspecter1
@Hvspecter1 2 жыл бұрын
Wow very wise words 👍
@fanesxx
@fanesxx Жыл бұрын
I wish he could donate to my charity
@freedomring3022
@freedomring3022 2 жыл бұрын
Clearly what drives this young man is not money, it's having a fulfilling life.
@Just.The.Next.Step.
@Just.The.Next.Step. 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe spiritual evolution?
@moisescarrillo6991
@moisescarrillo6991 2 жыл бұрын
dudes clearly a hard worker
@aaaaii6511
@aaaaii6511 2 жыл бұрын
Should have a kid
@rickhibdon11
@rickhibdon11 2 жыл бұрын
He hasn't learned contentment. Money can never, EVER "fulfill". He should try going in a spiritual direction. Try donating and helping the world around him. Nothing is more fulfilling than helping others.
@randiaz95
@randiaz95 2 жыл бұрын
Clearly living in california is expensive and you need to work alot to even have basics
@Gruuvin1
@Gruuvin1 2 жыл бұрын
Making $170k in LA is like making $100k somewhere else. The cost of living in LA is almost twice as much as most other places.
@chuckyyes
@chuckyyes 2 жыл бұрын
he has the money to just simple move somewhere cheaper, unfortunately not many people have that privilege to just simply MOVE somewhere else, unlike him
@taylorsmith9629
@taylorsmith9629 2 жыл бұрын
@@chuckyyes if he moves he might not make $170 k a year elsewhere maybe it’s only with that company in that peticular city.
@genxtechguy
@genxtechguy 2 жыл бұрын
Yep, $170k is not rich in LA. It’s just semi comfortable living.
@will_rr1
@will_rr1 2 жыл бұрын
Didn’t hear anything during his call if he had any kind of debt. Also after taxes he’s making about 105-115. Living in LA that’s just enough to be comfortable.
@MrBlakman1988
@MrBlakman1988 2 жыл бұрын
That was before remote work, now it's great that you could possibly take an LA salary to smaller and cheaper city
@mrcr125er
@mrcr125er 2 жыл бұрын
This is so so true for so many people. My brother and I have had this conversation multiple times. He lived in an expensive town in Colorado while I lived in Chattanooga TN making much less money. I loved my job and he hated his. I was so much happier than him. Money doesn’t buy happiness, although it does help.
@kagnewcobra5228
@kagnewcobra5228 2 жыл бұрын
Money isn't everything but it's way ahead of whatever is in second!
@tabathia7633
@tabathia7633 2 жыл бұрын
It sure beats living on the street corner, but that is not happiness, either. My X H was never happy, either, but he wasn't making any money, either. Some, just aren't happy, so watch out for those people, that's where jealously comes to play,
@morm2173
@morm2173 2 жыл бұрын
And money doesn't necessarily buy good health either
@katherinesproat1081
@katherinesproat1081 2 жыл бұрын
Chattanooga, TN is a wonderful place. I love it
@Aggie4life77
@Aggie4life77 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think money is the problem, it’s the job that your brother didn’t like lol!
@dialac1
@dialac1 2 жыл бұрын
I know how this guy feels and it’s a horrible feeling. I think he just needs to find hobbies and take some times off
@youngswoll3
@youngswoll3 2 жыл бұрын
“Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee” St Augustine
@sunnydaze1185
@sunnydaze1185 2 жыл бұрын
@@youngswoll3 everyone needs to read the book of Ecclesiastes.
@lilcajunqueen888
@lilcajunqueen888 2 жыл бұрын
@@sunnydaze1185 ecclesiastics = real life timeless advice
@oliviaonairwinsteard9922
@oliviaonairwinsteard9922 2 жыл бұрын
That and maybe a little more living to do. He's young and probably still discovering purpose
@nellybelly623
@nellybelly623 2 жыл бұрын
We all have a God sized hole that can’t be filled with anything but God. Until we realize this we will always be yearning for more.
@seanjean9677
@seanjean9677 2 жыл бұрын
You have the kind of personality that will never be satisfied. You enjoy the process of getting to a goal. When you get the goal, you need another goal because you enjoy the act of accomplishing something. It’s a thrill.
@mariabuzo7569
@mariabuzo7569 2 жыл бұрын
Wow so good
@adamg5108
@adamg5108 4 ай бұрын
People like him need to be told a enough is a enough and gain some prespective.
@jamess.2491
@jamess.2491 4 ай бұрын
That’s the hallmark of a hyper-successful individual
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 2 жыл бұрын
“Lord my heart is restless and will not rest until it rests in You” St Augustine
@jakespianomusic
@jakespianomusic 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Peace is "the tranquility of order." Man is never fully at peace without offering to God rightly ordered worship, through the means he established: the Catholic Church. Come Holy Ghost, fill the hearts of thy faithful and enkindle in them the fire of thy love. Send forth thy Spirit and they shall be created, and thou shalt renew the face of the Earth. Oh God, who instructest the hearts of the faithful by the light of the Holy Ghost, grant that in the same spirit, we may be truly wise and ever rejoice in his consolation, through the same Christ, Our Lord. Amen. Our Lady, Seat of Wisdom, pray for us.
@addyfilm
@addyfilm Ай бұрын
@@jakespianomusicgotta move those catholic pedos around to save the kids
@BrokeMillionaire1
@BrokeMillionaire1 2 жыл бұрын
At this point in my life, I have no desire to manage other adults. So I’m setting myself to be in positions where I can best utilize my strengths through collaboration with others and not necessarily leading others. Being debt-free allows us to not worry about seeking job titles because of the money. That’s a great feeling.
@videostoviews2262
@videostoviews2262 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said!
@luccianoblock5127
@luccianoblock5127 2 жыл бұрын
It's good because you know you can afford things "rich people can" but you don't because your smart and save/invest and make lots.
@Gruuvin1
@Gruuvin1 2 жыл бұрын
It's important to know when to stop moving up the ladder of success. Don't go beyond your level of competence or enjoyment. An old saying: companies promote people to their level of incompetence. "Hey, he's good at what he does, so let's promote him" until eventually he's no longer that good and therefore doesn't get the next promotion. You need to know at what level to NOT accept another promotion.
@BrokeMillionaire1
@BrokeMillionaire1 2 жыл бұрын
@@Gruuvin1 wow, so much truth!
@oliviaonairwinsteard9922
@oliviaonairwinsteard9922 2 жыл бұрын
I feel that! "I have no desire to manage other adults" agreed!
@thesongofthelord4830
@thesongofthelord4830 Жыл бұрын
“Happiness is not a line to cross…” Thank you, Dave, for your wisdom and godly care for others. Those words touched deeply… 6:47
@meddlin
@meddlin 2 жыл бұрын
I feel very similarly to this guy, and it's such an exhausting place to be. John's right, and Dave is breaking it down well. The key piece is to dive deep down inside your driving motivations, and like John said--stop for a bit. It's so hard to find someone you can talk this sort of problem through with, because most people think it can be solved with a flippant: try this company, take a vacation, "just be happy", or finding yet another hobby. No, this is driven by deep convictions to achieve...sometimes in seeking a sense of self-worth. Jobs don't answer that.
@jackcoleman5955
@jackcoleman5955 Жыл бұрын
I KNOW, right?? Every time I try to talk with an older man about being hurt, or needing direction, they dismiss me. “You’re making X, so stop whining.” “Just set goals and go.” etc.
@daraghmorrissey
@daraghmorrissey 2 жыл бұрын
Yep, this is great advice. Take a breath and smell the coffee. Instead of chasing promos, lateral moves are also great to learn how other parts of the business work. I went through this myself, once I stopped chasing it, I was more content - but I actually worked better and ended up getting promotions.
@bertiekq
@bertiekq Жыл бұрын
The questions and internal dilemma from this caller is very relatable, and Dave and John's response seemed spot on. Great segment.
@walkietalkie1973
@walkietalkie1973 2 жыл бұрын
Young guy he has a lot of life to live still. As he matures and seeks wisdom in his life he will come to the realization that life is like a subway, always stopping and going, on and off, but always having the realization that each stop and go is a stepping stone in his pathway of life 👍
@keithrickson8522
@keithrickson8522 2 жыл бұрын
I've known people who made hundreds of thousands a year, had beautiful lives and mansions, yet hated their jobs. And I've also know people who had nothing and hated their jobs. The problem is not the job or where you are, it's deeper and closer to home than that.
@MrMlbfan6
@MrMlbfan6 2 жыл бұрын
There’s jobs that are trash
@nessapalmer5316
@nessapalmer5316 2 жыл бұрын
This is so true. My ex husband had the same issue never satisfied. Then one day it was his marriage that wasn't enough. They are never happy in the moment and always searching for more. Devastating for us as our two girls are now in a separate parent home and he is still searching. 💔
@amandadean3948
@amandadean3948 2 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy like that. Nothing ever satisfied him, he eventually grew bored with everything. This was with every single area in his life. He had so much to be thankful for but still complained nonstop so I broke up with him because being with someone like that is mentally and emotionally exhausting.
@HOLDXSTEEL
@HOLDXSTEEL 2 жыл бұрын
Poor kids
@soonermagic24
@soonermagic24 2 жыл бұрын
I bet you collect that child support though
@MrMlbfan6
@MrMlbfan6 2 жыл бұрын
It was your time .people have to learn that people aren’t property
@qendresaful
@qendresaful 2 жыл бұрын
@@soonermagic24 😂😂😂😭😭😭
@tiffanya4556
@tiffanya4556 2 жыл бұрын
He's equating his happiness to his income level and money. Not degrading him but to me it sounds like that. Maybe it's from his upbringing, personal life or people he associates with?
@wadeharris348
@wadeharris348 2 жыл бұрын
Yea that's how I currently am. I'm trying to fix this mindset.
@soogasooga
@soogasooga 2 жыл бұрын
Yea, I would bet that his friend circle is full of CEOs, directors, etc. all making 2x, 3x, 4x+ what he's making, and he feels like he has to keep up with the Joneses.
@wadeharris348
@wadeharris348 2 жыл бұрын
@@soogasooga Yea that's too much. I grew up poor so there were no Jones's around lol.
@Tunechi65
@Tunechi65 2 жыл бұрын
@@soogasooga it's tough because they say surround yourself with successful people so u also are..my mom always said "show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are" .. this guy has unfortunately been surrounded by success so now that's all he wants.. too much of everything is bad. Need a balance of it all.. Mental health is the most important thing.
@Jay-om8gr
@Jay-om8gr 2 жыл бұрын
That’s how the culture values men
@amandadean3948
@amandadean3948 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, never being satisfied is part of the human condition I believe. Learning to be content is the key because there’s always more money to be made, a better job, a hotter wife/husband to marry, more cars, bigger trips, etc…
@johnlewis8934
@johnlewis8934 2 жыл бұрын
Nope that’s a lie from the devil. When you truly learn and are happy where you are at because you created peace there with yourself and God when things come around that bless you then you will find satisfaction there too. That’s what Dave Ramsey was explaining here. We can be satisfied when we stop chasing the ghost of thinking we need more when all we need is already with us
@dyancelne
@dyancelne 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnlewis8934 Amen John :)
@ana10g
@ana10g 2 жыл бұрын
one of the best calls in a long time. and great advice too!
@FloppedPizzaParty
@FloppedPizzaParty 2 жыл бұрын
This was the best one I've seen so far. Clearly an ambitious kid and great answers/advice. Great job Dave and John!
@gabyszabo9615
@gabyszabo9615 2 жыл бұрын
All this advice was super-helpful and thought-provoking. Thank u!
@biolife3274
@biolife3274 2 жыл бұрын
I remember hearing John saying those same words when i was at a job i hated, drowning in anxiety and depression, and wanted to quit. And so i did quit. And he's right, all of that followed me, but it was different this time, the change in environment inspired me to change. The best decision i ever made was quitting. So many things changed that would have never happened had i stayed.
@han1218
@han1218 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you're in a toxic workspace and there are lessons to learn there, if you hang in there for a while until the "phase is complete". Then you're ready for the next phase. Leaving too early may rob you of some new skills which will be useful in life, but staying too long may also be a waste of energy. Perseverance is healthy and not persevering may become a pattern of quitting when the going gets tough.
@JoeyNYSDnomad
@JoeyNYSDnomad 2 жыл бұрын
The main point of having money is to not worry about having money. The peace of mind is priceless. That being said friends, hobbies, relationships and interests make you content.
@harrisonbailey9884
@harrisonbailey9884 2 жыл бұрын
I found peace in Jesus. I'm praying for you, brother. This sounds like a bright sincere young guy.
@nahomesimeneh1640
@nahomesimeneh1640 2 жыл бұрын
pray for me!
@grahamcarmichael6567
@grahamcarmichael6567 4 ай бұрын
Has Jesus ever splooged in your mouth?
@Mnil52
@Mnil52 4 ай бұрын
🙄
@chipster3394
@chipster3394 4 ай бұрын
You found peace in nothing? Good for you lol.
@victoriab.6601
@victoriab.6601 2 жыл бұрын
this was a really interesting call .. I think it should be about wanting more responsibility because money itself doesnt satisfy ambition
@Euphorica
@Euphorica 4 ай бұрын
Who is paying this kid 170k for supply chain work ? That makes no sense . At all
@jimk2988
@jimk2988 3 ай бұрын
If he doesn’t own the business I don’t believe it. 24 is 2 years out of college, no one pays that money to a greenhorn.
@johnpulawski35
@johnpulawski35 2 ай бұрын
@@jimk2988 if youre good u could get it. see pay in high finance, tech, big law etc
@user-qn4rp8wh1h
@user-qn4rp8wh1h 2 ай бұрын
People can Make millions working in supply chain. It’s just on the consulting side or software side, not actually working in the supply chain.
@pureluckscratchers7384
@pureluckscratchers7384 2 ай бұрын
you Must not live in California Los Angeles mostly a lot of jobs out here pays 100,000 so 170,000 is not a ton of money out here in California. The taxes out here in California is the most in the world that's why we get paid so much he probably takes home 110,000 have to pay almost half of it back.
@Euphorica
@Euphorica 2 ай бұрын
@@pureluckscratchers7384 'most in the world' ..... Not.even.close. You should do some more research. California may have high taxes compared to other states but its still nothing compared to a huge list of other countries. I'm also fully aware of salaries , so unless this kid is a software engineer in 'supply chain ' ....no one is paying this kid that much money for traditional supply chain work especially with that low of experience. Just isn't happening.
@RustyJudgment
@RustyJudgment 2 жыл бұрын
This was a fantastic conversation that more people need to hear!!
@Aggie4life77
@Aggie4life77 2 жыл бұрын
The thing is that he is only 24. Most 24 year olds are hungry and trying hard to climb the corporate ladder. He’s already gained a salary that most will never see. His instincts is to keep climbing due to his age and probably lack of responsibilities. He also could be a bit of a workaholic. Hard to tell now, but he will find out when he gets older and have a family.
@Hello-iz9hl
@Hello-iz9hl 2 жыл бұрын
Man I wish I could make that much money I would be so happy
@user-zu6fe9nk6u
@user-zu6fe9nk6u Жыл бұрын
170k? That's not enough money to live off of. With gas prices and car prices and parts increasing?
@Hello-iz9hl
@Hello-iz9hl Жыл бұрын
@@user-zu6fe9nk6u that's not bad for a single person
@Hello-iz9hl
@Hello-iz9hl Жыл бұрын
@@user-zu6fe9nk6u if it's a family of three or more that's a different story but for one person that's not bad at all
@Ink30
@Ink30 Жыл бұрын
He's just ambitious nothing wrong with that
@MrPrentissDJones
@MrPrentissDJones 2 жыл бұрын
8:07 Mind blown 🤯 , I needed to hear that! “Don’t look for healing in movement, it’s not there.” - Dave Ramsey
@bychrxss8617
@bychrxss8617 2 жыл бұрын
He needs to find his own peace this dude sounds hurt and is using these job roles and ambitions to move that fast to fill a void that he may or may not be aware of. Best of luck to him
@Kevin_Zed
@Kevin_Zed 2 жыл бұрын
Dude this message is what I needed to hear.
@RicardoFinnigan
@RicardoFinnigan 2 жыл бұрын
This is a great clip, I would like to see more like these: unpacking life and money together
@mr.financial
@mr.financial 2 жыл бұрын
I think it is universally acknowledged that money isn't everything. People are what make life. Money is just a necessary tool in this life to enjoy time with the people we love.
@luccianoblock5127
@luccianoblock5127 2 жыл бұрын
It depends if you need money or trying to get out of debt then money is very helpful but for example you need 60k to live good and happy but want a 70k Job and live misrable do what suits you the best and not for money
@peerguy
@peerguy 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos, amazing advice. This is the kind of unsolicited advice youngsters need
@patrickclark4456
@patrickclark4456 Жыл бұрын
Powerful. 28 and did not realize this is the lesson I am currently working through. Thank you for the realization.
@collinblackwell3259
@collinblackwell3259 2 жыл бұрын
John is by far the best Ramsey personality that isn’t Dave
@zoukchata
@zoukchata 2 жыл бұрын
I'd rather listen to John
@blueboat9581
@blueboat9581 2 жыл бұрын
Six figures doesn't buy happiness. When you realize there's more to life, that's when maturity starts.
@ginoturano6821
@ginoturano6821 2 жыл бұрын
It buys you misery
@blueboat9581
@blueboat9581 2 жыл бұрын
@@ginoturano6821 it can, depends on how you handle it
@97I30T
@97I30T 2 жыл бұрын
I would absolutely love to make six figures, but I also have to consider what lengths I would be willing to go to in order to earn that much. If making six figures means hating my job and hating my life in general, then I'm not willing to go those lengths to earn that much. I could easily earn more money if I wanted to, but I really like my job and I don't think I'm willing to give it up for more money and a job that I'll probably like a lot less.
@jameserickson5372
@jameserickson5372 2 жыл бұрын
Money doesn’t buy happiness, it can just make it easier to be happy. He needs to worry less about position and focus more on life outside of the company. Donate. Do some volunteering. Travel. Do what interests you or helps other people.
@le5314
@le5314 2 жыл бұрын
Amen James
@KryptosChain
@KryptosChain 2 жыл бұрын
100% amen James !
@EarlyBirdCraft
@EarlyBirdCraft 2 жыл бұрын
Money does buy happiness. It’s up to the individuals whether or not they’re happy with it. If you’re an internally unhappy and miserable person nothing can make you happy. Many ultra rich people commit suicide.
@Dad-979
@Dad-979 2 жыл бұрын
It bought me happiness
@glory2god4infinity63
@glory2god4infinity63 2 жыл бұрын
Sheeit it would make me happy
@DailyMeditation365
@DailyMeditation365 2 жыл бұрын
I went into Healthcare for this reason. I always thought I could do more with my life at almost 30, so I decided to become a doctor. A decade later, I have a ton of job satisfaction, and ultimately happiness. I'm not rich, but I don't have to be. I care about my time, my freedom, relationships, and opportunities to continue to learn.
@getchertified
@getchertified 4 ай бұрын
This is so interesting... Do you mean you studied medicine at almost 30? Then you became a doctor 30+? Amazing! Hope you could share more...
@chuck197
@chuck197 Жыл бұрын
Love the advice. Gotta work on yourself first in order for everything to work for you! That is true happiness!! Incredible, Fantastic gentlemen!!
@Midoricakes143
@Midoricakes143 2 жыл бұрын
“Beware of destination addiction, a preoccupation with the idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job, and with the next partner. Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.” - Robert Holden
@cocomarineblu993
@cocomarineblu993 2 жыл бұрын
This is my issue.
@Midoricakes143
@Midoricakes143 2 жыл бұрын
@@cocomarineblu993 I think everyone struggles with this. What I find helps is defining what “enough” means to you. If your glass is bottomless you will always fill it with more but if you are limited you will choose more wisely.
@ginah.864
@ginah.864 2 жыл бұрын
Who told him having that salary would make him happy?! Someone misled him. Celebrities who make millions commit suicide as money does not and never will make you complete or happy. It does however IMO add security to your life and you can bless others.
@StoneAgeWarfare
@StoneAgeWarfare 2 жыл бұрын
Truthfully, the cultural messaging at all angles is that more money means more satisfaction. In reality, many people, are satisfied with being with where they're at. The chase for "more" only ends making one feel even emptier. It's a depressing cycle that has no definite conclusion.
@ginah.864
@ginah.864 2 жыл бұрын
@@StoneAgeWarfare Very well stated! 👏
@MrBacon-ou1kw
@MrBacon-ou1kw 6 ай бұрын
To be fair, most celebrities are nut cases so it’s hard to judge off that. There’s a reason they’re famous in the first place
@kavikaa9192
@kavikaa9192 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for what your team does Dave! Thank you for sharing your gifts with the world
@justinh8055
@justinh8055 2 жыл бұрын
This is all around great advice. I found all of this in every aspect of my careers. I had a similar path.
@TitoMolina604
@TitoMolina604 2 жыл бұрын
Such good advice, great job guys. God bless.
@Jo-vu1me
@Jo-vu1me 2 жыл бұрын
And here I am battling with the exact opposite 😂 I don’t want to promote in my department because I’m content in my current position, Those above me seem miserable, and I could really care less about stressing more on work. I have enough to worry about outside of work. Is this wrong?
@EarlyBirdCraft
@EarlyBirdCraft 2 жыл бұрын
No, not wrong at all. I got promoted at 23, that’s a year after in a company. They promoted me out of desperation and lack of other candidates. I was miserable. I had to switch companies so I can be back to a normal (non management position) for some years to be content with every aspect in my life.
@glowiever
@glowiever 2 жыл бұрын
a colleague of mine bribed the hr to delist his name from the pool of promotions lol. he made more because of commisions, and promotion could possibly reduce his income and flexibility
@andrewsmith8715
@andrewsmith8715 2 жыл бұрын
I've seen managers above me come and go. The extra pay isn't worth the stress and eventually getting fired.
@mdel310
@mdel310 2 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat as you, my management is grooming me to become the lead for my shop when the current person retires. I think they gonna be disappointed when I say no thanks 😅 I see how stressed out he is all the time from having to fix everyones problems and he gets none of his own work done as a result, why would I willingly put myself in that situation?? No thanks
@robj577
@robj577 2 жыл бұрын
Same , I want to stay in my current position for a while, finally realized that I make enough and want to do things outside of work that satisfy me. I did however just become debt free except my house so that helps
@Fgp4991
@Fgp4991 5 ай бұрын
John knocked it out of the park on this one. Really motivated me to look into more of his work, what an amazing advice he gave to this guy.
@NicolasMoy
@NicolasMoy 2 жыл бұрын
This one spoke to me. Thanks for taking time to answer this question.
@nickm4662
@nickm4662 2 жыл бұрын
“Oh do you want to talk Dave?” 😂😂
@TheHoriginal
@TheHoriginal 2 жыл бұрын
@ Nick yep first time I’ve seen Dave let the person speak! Epic 😆
@carson911
@carson911 2 жыл бұрын
Great to hear people like this with that much drive at that age. That is inspiring to all of us. I'm 30 and that really just inspired me to do better.
@JL-cw9sm
@JL-cw9sm 2 жыл бұрын
Incredible piece. I was him not too long ago and when finally stayed put in grew in more ways than I ever imagined. Powerful piece.
@jackcoleman5955
@jackcoleman5955 Жыл бұрын
Great great wisdom from Dave n John here. Don’t seek value from work role. Slow down, face what you’re running from. Then, ambition and drive find their place/limit, and you work from a core of pease, not a hurting hole. I needed to hear this, too.
@2boxergirls9604
@2boxergirls9604 2 жыл бұрын
"Don't look for healing in movement." Good advice that applies to jobs as well as other areas in life.
@ANGELCRYPT0
@ANGELCRYPT0 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to be happy when you are surrounded by many that want to tear you down.
@titus4792
@titus4792 2 жыл бұрын
“Happiness is not a line to cross…” Dave spittin truth bombs
@Jamesaepp
@Jamesaepp Жыл бұрын
I love this call. Just three men chatting about what's important.
@kagnewcobra5228
@kagnewcobra5228 2 жыл бұрын
These boys nailed this!
@zyzzuschrist3410
@zyzzuschrist3410 2 жыл бұрын
Happiness comes from within. Gotta enjoy the present tense
@happylistener4628
@happylistener4628 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Exactly. Happiness is innate. External events and people are just icing on the cake. As a debt free and stress free retiree, I’m grateful for all my blessings. No more commuting to and from work in horrid, time consuming traffic. Not to mention owning a Toyota Prius Hybrid. Saving myself a ton of money on fuel consumption and expense. Saving money while sharing home cooked meals and connecting with my family and friends; enjoying delicious food with good company just can’t be beat. It’s a comfort having the cash to buy what I need when I need it. Retirement is good. Stay safe and God bless.
@kagnewcobra5228
@kagnewcobra5228 2 жыл бұрын
True happiness comes from what we enjoy not what we have or how much money we make
@davidreeder1259
@davidreeder1259 2 жыл бұрын
Sound advise. Words of wisdom I needed to hear, too.
@johnyhernandez3876
@johnyhernandez3876 5 ай бұрын
This one is the best Dave Ramsey clip I’ve heard. Great advice.
@CrappyProducts
@CrappyProducts 2 жыл бұрын
Why want to be a VP? The kid clearly is missing the point. VP is just a job title. If he really knew what he wanted he would say: I want to be a VP because this would mean that I would have a bigger impact on my decisions and would achieve greater things and do better for the world
@safye4
@safye4 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like he was just having trouble actually putting his feelings into words.
@glowiever
@glowiever 2 жыл бұрын
probably watched american psycho and wanted in on it. they were all vps in that movie lol
@privacyplease1556
@privacyplease1556 2 жыл бұрын
“Fulfillment and logistics in e-commerce.” He is a dropshipper lol he’s not working in supply chain.
@fotismichael1877
@fotismichael1877 2 жыл бұрын
"Happiness is not a line to cross." What a terrific line & visual.
@TheHoriginal
@TheHoriginal 2 жыл бұрын
Ya food for thought 💭
@DoWorkExotics
@DoWorkExotics Жыл бұрын
Fantastic message. Keep pushing but enjoy the ride and find a balance.
@alladreamwedreamed
@alladreamwedreamed 2 жыл бұрын
He speaks like a future philanthropist. Son, put in some years of work, build your estate, and you can do so much in your future like start a foundation or grand endowments to a school....like Dave says, live like no one else now, so *later* you can live and give like no one else.
@cocomarineblu993
@cocomarineblu993 2 жыл бұрын
Not in Los Angeles
@Babugee9
@Babugee9 2 жыл бұрын
3:48 - LOL that was my initial thought 🤣
@ericonca
@ericonca Жыл бұрын
This was a wonderful segment. So important to understand what John and Dave are saying here.
@countessstevens63
@countessstevens63 4 ай бұрын
“Don’t look for healing in movement” This was a GREAT clip! Amazing advice
@Billyrex500
@Billyrex500 2 жыл бұрын
This is probably the best advice I have heard John offer in a while! Good content
@kingambler8950
@kingambler8950 2 жыл бұрын
John usually gives really odd advice, like telling someone how they feel
@wolfalpha2862
@wolfalpha2862 2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video!
@FranciscoFlores-pc2dd
@FranciscoFlores-pc2dd Жыл бұрын
One of the best videos on this channel.
@claubit32
@claubit32 2 жыл бұрын
Dr. John, your advice was great!
@jimroscovius
@jimroscovius 2 жыл бұрын
What's the problem? Just go with the flow and keep the income coming in. Don't worry about being a VP.
@luchadordecocina5106
@luchadordecocina5106 2 жыл бұрын
Fulfillment and logistics...QVC, e-commerce. Sounds like shipping from home via eBay and Amazon. 🤣🤣🤣
@privacyplease1556
@privacyplease1556 2 жыл бұрын
I thought the exact same thing. He’s a dropshipper. That’s why he was so vague and that’s why he can become VP level in less than a year.
@taylorsmith9629
@taylorsmith9629 2 жыл бұрын
@@privacyplease1556 what’s a dropshipper? How would you get into that?
@maxcohn3228
@maxcohn3228 5 ай бұрын
This is solid advice. I also had this growth mindset, but way to speedy. A lot of the most powerful lessons aren't directly learned, but more so absorbed by osmosis over time. Nothing wrong with taking your time before progressing in your career.
@brucefredrickson9677
@brucefredrickson9677 Жыл бұрын
He's still very young and trying to figure it out...he will get maturity and settle into his values. No need to worry too much about this young man.
@highentropy2468
@highentropy2468 2 жыл бұрын
Money is not everything. Time is all we have. Spend your time focusing on making long lasting friendships. Remain close with your siblings and parents/wider family. Money comes and goes. Those you are closest to, do not.
@Rachel-zc8ur
@Rachel-zc8ur 2 жыл бұрын
A job, a spouse, nor a lavish lifestyle can fill a God sized hole in your heart. This is what lead me to Jesus. Went to church and heard about Him as a kid, but I learned who He was when I spent the first 30 years of my life chasing everything else and never found true peace. Hope this caller finds God, it's the only thing that will give true peace.
@ezequielrojas2828
@ezequielrojas2828 Жыл бұрын
Just write a poem already🤦🏽‍♂️
@Excalibur2
@Excalibur2 Жыл бұрын
Doesn't really sound healthy. You can't love God, or anyone else if you don't love yourself first.
@devineyourlight
@devineyourlight Жыл бұрын
Amen 😊
@Vencarter
@Vencarter 5 ай бұрын
So much great advice (lack of a better word: wisdom) from Dave in his short turn to reply.
@CarpalMute
@CarpalMute 2 жыл бұрын
Man, this resonated with me. I am in a similar boat as the caller.
@truegrizzlesfan2292
@truegrizzlesfan2292 2 жыл бұрын
Making 170k in California is equivalent to 60k in Texas.
@evelynherrera-gonzalez1474
@evelynherrera-gonzalez1474 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on 🤣
@UnixBro
@UnixBro 2 жыл бұрын
Not true. More like 90-100K in Texas.
@mando2.049
@mando2.049 2 жыл бұрын
????
@rg7315
@rg7315 2 жыл бұрын
Nope. As one who lives in CA and works in HR, he’s doing very well! And I don’t see that salary in fulfillment and logistics often. Agree he needs to be content with where he is, especially if he hasn’t been in that role for very long. AND most people who leave a job like that, will find other reasons to not be content with their next job or company. He sounds young. When it’s time to make a transition, it will come naturally.
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 2 жыл бұрын
I spent my whole life in calif. border line homeless. Moved to Texas 4yrs ago. Now I feel rich.
@redbunnyclassic
@redbunnyclassic 2 жыл бұрын
No good sensible words come after the phrase "I feel like..."
@PanamaWoods
@PanamaWoods 4 ай бұрын
Incorrect
@JMKrech
@JMKrech 5 ай бұрын
Good advice Dave and John!
@MsAdsdf
@MsAdsdf 5 ай бұрын
Dot look for healing in movement! I needed to hear this one, thanks Dave!
@ProtoMaxoid
@ProtoMaxoid 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this. I may not make as much as him, but I'm always chasing the next certification/degree for 'happiness'.
@Tunechi65
@Tunechi65 2 жыл бұрын
So difficult to always want to be greater. I'm that way too. I've made my goals of being an aero engineer and now 6figure salary. I'm afraid I'll never be satisfied since I always have a next goal I'll obsess over
@brianhap22
@brianhap22 2 жыл бұрын
LOL dude admits he was a job jumper. Never stay long enough to actually do any work or affect any change. Just uses the title and salary to move up to more without working. The job is getting a better paying job.
@whifling
@whifling 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. "Don't look for healing in movement." This whole clip was really, really good.
@raqlionchaser
@raqlionchaser 5 ай бұрын
"Don't look for healing in movement - it's not there." - powerful line
@Rob22122
@Rob22122 2 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat. I make 35 yo and make 250k a year and I feel like something is missing. I not happy with my life. I’m always looking for more but I think is a way to sabotage myself to loose everything.
@v.w.1000
@v.w.1000 4 ай бұрын
I think it’s just human nature. We are always searching for more.
@kevinfromalberta
@kevinfromalberta 2 жыл бұрын
I feel similar to this man. I’ve got a beautiful family, amazing wife. Nice house nearly paid for, no dept except small mortgage. For some reason I feel like a failure and nothing is good enough. It could be that my walk with Christ is a mess. The sins I had once forsaken cling to me insects on wet paint. I am so miserable.
@elandrac5099
@elandrac5099 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Kevin ! God is yearning for that relationship back with you , he loves you! I recommend watching on KZfaq transformation church :cuffed to condemnation (part 5) I believe it will speak to your spirit 💪🏾stay encouraged brother
@eetoved1758
@eetoved1758 2 жыл бұрын
Kevin, bless you. Sounds like your desires and heart are in a good place, and God encourages that. Life is so hard. Being human is so hard. Jesus knows that. Thank you for your vulnerability, wishing you all the best. Bless you and your family.
@robfilmedit
@robfilmedit Жыл бұрын
Hang in there man life is never easy but there is a reason we are on this earth even if we aren’t successful on other peoples eyes the chances of us being born is close to impossible so we can do anything after that
@v.w.1000
@v.w.1000 4 ай бұрын
Do you have any hobbies or activities that you like to do?
@ericsorensen8242
@ericsorensen8242 2 жыл бұрын
We need people like him to continue to push to find the next big world solution. Not everyone needs to just coast through life. If this is who the guy is, a driver, a guy who won’t settle with status quo, then good on him and I say continue to stick forward and change the world in your industry for the better. At the same time, he’s calling into Dave Ramsey show for a reason - he’s unsettled. At 24, he still probably does not have it all figured out or know exactly who he is. If he’s not settled and as Dave and his co-host have pointed out, he’s not finding a good landing spot no matter the job change, then he needs to point his attention somewhere else. Good ideas I read here that I agree with involve hobbies, volunteering, donating, and I’ll also add focus on well-being (adequate sleep is a good start).
@h-townsfinest4216
@h-townsfinest4216 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with him being driven or ambitious. But it should be for the right reasons, and not wanting to advance in life just to try and keep up with others for the "everybody look what I did" false fulfillment in life.
@sarahescobar4828
@sarahescobar4828 Жыл бұрын
Amazing advice and so applicable to many.
@Mattius08
@Mattius08 2 жыл бұрын
I make close to 200k a year 35 years old and I am very unsatisfied with my job. The money is great but sometimes you need to realize life is to short. I understand this individual 100 percent
@dustinduzgames1276
@dustinduzgames1276 5 ай бұрын
Life is even shorter ehen u cant afford to fix yr car or dental care
@frankisawesomee
@frankisawesomee 4 ай бұрын
I think it depends on how you spend your time. If you talk about drama all day and talk about the “news” such as watching tv after coming home from work. These issues could cause issues. Just stop watching tv and stop talking to negative people and talk to people every so often , meditate and go somewhere on vacation. Just depends on how you visualize the world. Most jobs that pay 200k are usually high level thinking jobs.
@adamg5108
@adamg5108 4 ай бұрын
Well hopefully you have enough saved up so you can get out of the work force completely some day.
@madduck2323
@madduck2323 2 жыл бұрын
Well, I reckon that’s just proof that money can’t buy you happiness!!
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 2 жыл бұрын
Seem like someone who doesn't have a life,no hobbies,activities,or good friends and neighbors. Always been fine regardless of income level.. Money is just a tool and enhanced what I was already doing in my life. Even when I was broke living in my van while going to school I was busy reading and enjoying sci-fi books I traded at used book store. Now I listen to Audible.
@HastelloyC276
@HastelloyC276 2 жыл бұрын
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@352tavboy
@352tavboy 2 жыл бұрын
"Dont look for healing in movement". Awesome!!!
@monealiza7553
@monealiza7553 2 жыл бұрын
meaning what?
@repboy1
@repboy1 2 жыл бұрын
So true as soon as I got promoted I thought I’ll be content but wanted more and then got more than wanted more
@GrayTheDon
@GrayTheDon 2 жыл бұрын
170 in LA is like 70k anywhere else😂😂😂
@Corkfish1
@Corkfish1 2 жыл бұрын
Good point. I was scratching my head thinking what skill set could he possibly possess that would rate that kind of salary? That would explain it.
@TexasMan77
@TexasMan77 2 жыл бұрын
The average income is something like $56000, but it seems every caller on here makes at least $250000 a year.
@96Views
@96Views 2 жыл бұрын
Lower mate, it’s 45
@michaeldejesus8234
@michaeldejesus8234 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. This kid is lying. Anyone can makeup anything. Heck I can call in and tell people that I make close to $1 million per year.
@MrTmenzo
@MrTmenzo 2 жыл бұрын
Easy to lie especially on Reddit everyone apparently make 300k
@Mav0585
@Mav0585 2 жыл бұрын
No not usually - they are usually around $45k
@Sloimer
@Sloimer 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaeldejesus8234 why would he call in to anonymously lie about himself? There ARE people out there that are young and make good money. You seem like you just don’t want to go believe it so you feel better about yourself.
@Xxxxxrrr6464
@Xxxxxrrr6464 4 ай бұрын
this priceless input, thanks Guys
@enginaliosman4491
@enginaliosman4491 4 ай бұрын
What a beautiful message, Dr.John Delony
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