I'm 34 & He's 62 - I Don't Have 'Daddy Issues' | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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Love Don't Judge

Love Don't Judge

Ай бұрын

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Alan and Jessica are in an age gap relationship, they have 28 years between them. Jessica is 34 and Alan is 62. They met just over 10 years ago through a mutual friend at a party. When they first met, they never discussed ages so were not aware of an age gap. Jessica was not attracted to him at first, but really liked him as a person. After she started to intervene with his style and dress sense she started to feel an attraction grow and decided that she wanted to be with him. “I always say Alan fell in love, and I walked in love”. 9 months after meeting, Alan proposed. Due to the process being so quick, a lot of friends and family didn’t agree with them being together and didn’t show up to the wedding. Jessica knew from that day that the only way people would take them seriously was if they were to stay together and they did just that. They just celebrated their 10th anniversary. When Alan first met Jessica’s dad (also called Alan) it was extremely awkward, Jessica blames it on him going through a bad time at the time, but it probably had something to do with Alan being the same age as him and also having the same name! He even went as far as saying his own daughter has daddy issues! Alan (Jessica’s dad) has now come round to the idea of the relationship a bit more. In this episode of Love Don’t Judge we hear Alan and Jessica discuss the relationship with Jessica’s dad.
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@Miscositasquehuelenbien
@Miscositasquehuelenbien Ай бұрын
I understand being sceptical at first, but thye have an 8-year-old kid and they have been together for 12 years... I am so glad they give privacy and respect to their kid instead of having her all over the internet.
@asavannah7439
@asavannah7439 Ай бұрын
They've been together for 12 years, good for them ❤
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
Imagine if he were poor; she wouldn't want anything to do with him.
@asavannah7439
@asavannah7439 Ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm Nobody wants a poor husband
@Obatala_Vibez
@Obatala_Vibez Ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dmand?! What’s your point? Would you pick up a guy or woman off the street???? Or would you pay attention to someone who has worked hard, has good wisdom and who is comfortable and ready to share life with you? TF
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
@@Obatala_Vibez Men don't usually take any notice of women's income; he'll have to pay for everything regardless. Even a woman who's a multimillionaire won't pay her way on dates.
@cocatfan
@cocatfan Ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm Because all that matters to men is her looks.
@lucyluna3361
@lucyluna3361 Ай бұрын
They've been together for 12 years... They look happy, their relationship seems healthy.... I don't know why it's anyone's problem 😊.... Stay strong xx😊
@Vanjuska0212
@Vanjuska0212 Ай бұрын
If it was false it wouldnt last 12 yrs. I am 34, my partner is 35, we re just a regular average couple and I am attracted to my partners success as well. That doesnt mean im after his money. Its just that a stable, successful man is naturally attractive to a mature woman.
@mikey92362
@mikey92362 Ай бұрын
It's weird you keep calling him your partner and not your husband.
@lynnloww
@lynnloww Ай бұрын
Exactly
@lynnloww
@lynnloww Ай бұрын
@@mikey92362maybe it is just her partner as in bf she never said she was married
@Vanjuska0212
@Vanjuska0212 Ай бұрын
@@mikey92362 i cant call him husband bcoz we re not married and have no plans to wed. We both contribute to our emotional, physical life therefore we are partners.
@TheresaCeeTV
@TheresaCeeTV Ай бұрын
Honestly, when you’re 30 plus…it’s a little more understandable being with an older man.
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
She wasn't over 30 when their relationship began.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
But she was 22 and he was 50 when this relationship began! They didn’t meet yesterday!!
@user-sl4cd2sz5l
@user-sl4cd2sz5l Ай бұрын
​@@winxclubstellamusaEwww. That's nasty 😂😂😂😂
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
@@user-sl4cd2sz5l very!!
@Carlinisalive
@Carlinisalive 25 күн бұрын
Hypocrite
@zziz6137
@zziz6137 Ай бұрын
That lady is well over 30 years old, she is a fully grown women, no one cares if her man is 28 years older than her at that point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
They started their relationship when she was 22 and he was 50. They didn’t meet this year!
@zziz6137
@zziz6137 Ай бұрын
@@winxclubstellamusa no shit Sherlock I already know that!!! She was still an adult at 22!!!!!!
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
@@zziz6137 the brain isn’t fully developed until between 25 and 28!! And no one is emotionally, mentally, relationally, or even experientially developed enough at 22 to be able to handle a 50 year old, nor would any halfway decent 50 year old even CONSIDER a 22 year old!!
@zziz6137
@zziz6137 Ай бұрын
@@winxclubstellamusa everybody is considered an adult at 18 and can legally drink at 21, she was of legal age. People can fight in a war at 18, all this crap about someone's brain has absolutely no relevance!!!! She was old enough to know what she was doing then and she is old enough to know what she is doing now. She is 34 now and still with this man.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
@@zziz6137 no, this one clearly wasn’t old or mature enough to know what she was doing.
@erinnicole477
@erinnicole477 Ай бұрын
"I wasn't initially attracted to him physically...but success and all otherwise I'm all in" lmao girl.. least she's honest.
@troubleinthevalley5884
@troubleinthevalley5884 Ай бұрын
I mean I've dated guys who weren't super successful and I wasn't really attracted to them at first physically until I really got to know them and really like them as a person and then I became attracted to who they were as human beings and ended up becoming sexually attracted to them because of that. That's not uncommon or unheard of
@maryc4152
@maryc4152 Ай бұрын
Not the dad telling his daughter that she has daddy issues 💀
@Burrburrcloud
@Burrburrcloud 11 күн бұрын
I was thinking he's to blame for that!😂😂
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
She's attracted to his success, which means his money.
@JENKEN425
@JENKEN425 Ай бұрын
exactly. she is after his money.
@amachlis1991
@amachlis1991 Ай бұрын
@@JENKEN425she isn’t after his money she actually really loves him
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
@@amachlis1991 She says she's attracted to his success. She doesn't mean that he's good at chess.
@minae9935
@minae9935 Ай бұрын
And he’s attracted to her youth and beauty so what’s the problem?
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
@@minae9935 She's falsely claiming to be in love with him when she's actually in love with his wallet.
@alextaylor8776
@alextaylor8776 Ай бұрын
If they’re happy, good for them. If it was only about the money she would have divorced him years ago and took him for everything. So, kudos to them both, I wish them the very best.
@08clanic1
@08clanic1 Ай бұрын
I’m 34 my boyfriend of 7 years is 57. As long as you are happy then that’s all that matters.
@sunnywintermorning1941
@sunnywintermorning1941 28 күн бұрын
What’s your attitude to marriage? Curious. 7 years is a while.
@gisannramharack6332
@gisannramharack6332 23 күн бұрын
We are in d same position and I am happyyy...and to all haters..MARRIAGE DOES NOT define a successful relationship.
@sunnywintermorning1941
@sunnywintermorning1941 23 күн бұрын
@@gisannramharack6332 Got it that you think marriage doesn’t define a relationship as successful. Is there anything else about your thoughts on marriage that you’d like to share. Just curious.
@eileenmsimms9446
@eileenmsimms9446 Ай бұрын
Enjoy your happiness, guys. 12 years later and still enjoying each other.❤❤
@Mariahlamb
@Mariahlamb Ай бұрын
They been together for 12 years, so they met when she was 22 & he was 50. I was 22 as well, and my fiance was 43. 6 and a half years later, getting married in a couple of years. (Also the longest relationship we’ve both ever been in)
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
Would you have chosen him if he'd been poor?
@janyrose
@janyrose Ай бұрын
The longest relationship you ever been in and you met when you were 22. No shit sherlock
@Mariahlamb
@Mariahlamb Ай бұрын
I was saying it’s the longest relationship WE have both ever been in.. I guess you’re not Sherlock if you didn’t notice the context clues
@troubleinthevalley5884
@troubleinthevalley5884 Ай бұрын
​@@DavidZ4-gg3dmwhere did she say anything about what kind of money her fiance makes? How do you know he's not poor?
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
@@troubleinthevalley5884 She says she's attracted to his success. That means financial success.
@juliejohnson7207
@juliejohnson7207 Ай бұрын
She looks 45 years old, she doesn't look young
@JessicaZirk
@JessicaZirk Ай бұрын
45?! Ypi cray cray
@peacelovejoyandhappiness
@peacelovejoyandhappiness Ай бұрын
I totally agree. If fact just sitting along side of him makes her appear older than she really is.
@HeatherExplores19
@HeatherExplores19 Ай бұрын
I think they are a lovely couple, they compliment each others personalities well and they look great together!
@monsterdong7520
@monsterdong7520 Ай бұрын
If he was broke would this relationship still happen?
@daniellecampbell8615
@daniellecampbell8615 27 күн бұрын
Asking for a friend… 😂
@HazbinRosie
@HazbinRosie 27 күн бұрын
LOL
@levismirnoff5450
@levismirnoff5450 23 күн бұрын
Probably not. But if you lose your employment or business watch your wife exit too even if you are of the same age. So why not play the field?
@AmateurAthleteAllDay
@AmateurAthleteAllDay 20 күн бұрын
If you weren’t broke who would you chose? The cream of the crop or the crap? Let’s be real!
@monsterdong7520
@monsterdong7520 20 күн бұрын
@@AmateurAthleteAllDay what a broken way of thinking. 😔
@AshelySamaroo
@AshelySamaroo Ай бұрын
Her dad and partner look alike and are The same age same name 😭 That’s crazy idk how she’s into that 😭
@BD12
@BD12 Ай бұрын
Guaranteed that there is a LOT of backdoor action going on with this couple.
@soulbrothanumbahone
@soulbrothanumbahone 7 күн бұрын
"My dad has always been daddy, and Allan has always been sugar daddy.
@daniellek3458
@daniellek3458 Ай бұрын
As long as they are adults.Age is just a number as long as their are both mature & love eachother who cares.
@bokangsentle9127
@bokangsentle9127 Ай бұрын
The "are you about to nap" was too 😂❤Beautiful couple
@gisannramharack6332
@gisannramharack6332 23 күн бұрын
I am happy for them. To all the haters who seem to critize their age gap...how is yall relationship going???
@Dylan-rs4yx
@Dylan-rs4yx Ай бұрын
“Look at this shirt that SHE WONT LET ME WEAR?” She won’t LET you?????? Heck no!
@user-sl4cd2sz5l
@user-sl4cd2sz5l Ай бұрын
Well we know how this story ends. She hits her peek, and he's in the seniors home .
@latashaberkley7573
@latashaberkley7573 Ай бұрын
34 ain’t young and 62 ain’t old. Get over yourself. What really triggered me is her talking about staying together to prove others wrong. Like, do you love this dude or what?!??
@patienceacheampong9542
@patienceacheampong9542 Ай бұрын
No. She loves his money.
@Mrs.TJ516
@Mrs.TJ516 Ай бұрын
Lol
@jorgegabrielgarciagutierre1722
@jorgegabrielgarciagutierre1722 Ай бұрын
Ratio then
@mljohnson7192
@mljohnson7192 Ай бұрын
I disagree. Anything under 35 is young and 60+ is definitely old.
@GameTime-yj6qv
@GameTime-yj6qv 21 күн бұрын
Age is relative... but the issue is there is nearly a 3 decade age difference between the two. He is he dad's age.
@RJV-s3l
@RJV-s3l Ай бұрын
They make such a beautiful couple! Glad their relationship is working out ❤️ wishing them many more happy years together
@joyioryevese3811
@joyioryevese3811 Ай бұрын
Everything we have, we built together. I like that ❤
@katethompson3413
@katethompson3413 Ай бұрын
Let them be happy, anyone else’s who thinks otherwise!!! Can go chew on a bone 🦴!!!! Wish nothing but the best for both of them and their family 😊❤
@EnnVee959
@EnnVee959 Ай бұрын
He seems really shy. I wonder if she pushed him to start showing their relationship online.
@SAZ2009
@SAZ2009 28 күн бұрын
I’m there son and I can verify, my dad was not pushed he’s just old and awkward😂😂
@EnnVee959
@EnnVee959 28 күн бұрын
@@SAZ2009 ok I appreciate the reply. Thanks.
@FarahRoseSmith
@FarahRoseSmith Ай бұрын
These two are great, I see genuine love and trust between them. Nice to see. I'm in an age gap marriage... 21 yrs difference, together for 8, married for 5. It can work.
@brankamoore9879
@brankamoore9879 4 күн бұрын
What a great couple. I wish them a forever happily ever after.
@KatiesArabVision
@KatiesArabVision Ай бұрын
I’m 34 and my fiancé is 64. I’m madly in love with him!
@mikey92362
@mikey92362 Ай бұрын
That's awesome and everything. But why would a 64 year old man want to get married? I'm not trying to be a jerk here. I really don't get it. When you consider how much he has to lose and the terrible odda against him, what's the counterbalance? What do you offer him that he can't already just go out and get for himself?
@hazzastyles6315
@hazzastyles6315 Ай бұрын
@@mikey92362love, compassion, commitment, a family, intimacy, a home, adventure, trust. List goes on, don’t be a hater. Love is love, that’s whole point of the channel
@KatiesArabVision
@KatiesArabVision Ай бұрын
@@mikey92362 we are Christian and look at life a bit differently. We are moving on equal parts spiritually through the world as we are practically. We love each other and we value marriage differently.
@cocatfan
@cocatfan Ай бұрын
@@mikey92362 He gets someone to do all his chores, cook his food, run his life. Men love being taken care of. Men are more likely to remarry than women. Especially older men. I am 63, female and want nothing to do with marriage or men.
@khonkhosilelihle7414
@khonkhosilelihle7414 Ай бұрын
She was attracted to his "success", now we know why
@BracerJack
@BracerJack Ай бұрын
Whatever and however you think, one thing you cannot fault, she is HONEST about why she like him and it has been 12 years, however it may have started out, it has been real, real ENOUGH to last for 12 years, how many people you know that last that long ? I congratulate and wish them all the best.
@telayajackson2.023
@telayajackson2.023 Ай бұрын
The part she said Alan is the same age and has the same name as her dad took "daughters are attracted to guys who remind her of her father" to a whole new level.
@nicholashayes8373
@nicholashayes8373 Ай бұрын
Nice video 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
@DavidZ4-gg3dm Ай бұрын
Ask her if she'd have chosen him if he were poor.
@JENKEN425
@JENKEN425 Ай бұрын
hahhahaah EXACTLY!
@Obatala_Vibez
@Obatala_Vibez Ай бұрын
And? Why should she choose a poor man? Weird comment
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
Ask him if he would have chosen her if she was fat. It’s the same thing.
@JENKEN425
@JENKEN425 Ай бұрын
@@winxclubstellamusa RIGHTO HE IS WITH HER F OR LOOKS (LUST) AND SHE IS THERE FOR MONEY LOL
@levismirnoff5450
@levismirnoff5450 23 күн бұрын
Ask yourself if you would stell have your woman if you lost everything. No matter what she says now odds are extremely high she will leave.
@cesarumana3910
@cesarumana3910 Ай бұрын
I bet if he sells fruit on the corner she will never even look at him
@Obatala_Vibez
@Obatala_Vibez Ай бұрын
And?
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
And if she was fat he wouldn’t look at her! Stop signaling how broke you are.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
And if she was fat he wouldn’t even look at her! It’s the same thing.
@WeShareTheSameAffliction
@WeShareTheSameAffliction Ай бұрын
As it should be.
@HazbinRosie
@HazbinRosie 27 күн бұрын
😂
@troubleinthevalley5884
@troubleinthevalley5884 Ай бұрын
Come on she's 34 it's not like she's a little 19 or 21 year old girl. She's a grown woman who is ready for an adult mature relationship. Honestly once I hit my thirties I also became more attracted to older men because they were mentally and emotionally more in the same space I was relationship-wise than guys my own age who are still out there wanting to date around and mess with multiple women and not settle down and be serious. Plus older men are usually a lot more established and financially stable and able to provide which yes is something most women look for without having to be gold diggers. Or they are retired and have much more time to spend with you even if they don't have a ton of money. Quality time together is really important to me
@jellynellye
@jellynellye Ай бұрын
they started dating when she was 22 and he was 50
@Salomon_G
@Salomon_G 21 күн бұрын
They got together when she was 22.
@troubleinthevalley5884
@troubleinthevalley5884 21 күн бұрын
@@Salomon_G and they've been together 12 years so she obviously took the relationship seriously as did he.
@Salomon_G
@Salomon_G 21 күн бұрын
@@troubleinthevalley5884 That's ignoring the fact that you said 'it's not like she's a little 19 or 21 year old girl.' What would have you said when she was 22 and he was 50?
@troubleinthevalley5884
@troubleinthevalley5884 21 күн бұрын
@Salomon_G I mean it's still a little weird but she was still a grown woman and it wouldn't be on me to say anything anyway because it's not my relationship and I don't know the ins and outs and the motivations behind it. She doesn't seem to have like daddy issues that you would typically think of when a younger woman goes for an older guy. She seems like a very mature woman and obviously that's who she connected with so I don't see the problem. I've never had a problem with age Gap relationships. Not between older men and younger women anyway. It may seem like a double standard but I do find it a lot weirder when it's a much older woman with a younger man. Maybe not necessarily women today but throughout history it's been a well-known fact that girls and women tend to be more emotionally mature than guys their age and are typically ready for the things like marriage and family and settling down and being in a serious relationship before again young men that same age. So it's not as odd to me for a younger woman to be able to be in the same space as an older gentleman and have more things in common or at least be more ready for the same thing as relationship and future wise. Also women have always typically looked at men to be the providers and who better to provide for you than an older established gentlemen?
@ktsven6452
@ktsven6452 Ай бұрын
I wish I could have a child with my older partner, he's perfect
@alanmcmcbride1549
@alanmcmcbride1549 Ай бұрын
Who is anyone to judge other people. Only those who are unhappy with their own lives and jealous try to pull others down! Live and let live. 🙏
@valerierobertson6334
@valerierobertson6334 Ай бұрын
What a lovely couple ❤
@julieannesimms981
@julieannesimms981 Ай бұрын
Good for them😊
@xenontouchstone
@xenontouchstone 28 күн бұрын
We have a 31 year gap, if you worry about what others think or say then you won't last, the only one who should matter is your partner. Over a decade together and still going strong
@pawsation7719
@pawsation7719 Ай бұрын
Beautiful couple
@beautfiulalexis6967
@beautfiulalexis6967 17 күн бұрын
I never understood why they like older people lol.
@MindFuel106
@MindFuel106 24 күн бұрын
They look good together of they big age gap. They love each other and respect each other. Love you both. Be always happy
@NicOoG-im2yg
@NicOoG-im2yg Ай бұрын
When she said why she was attracted to him ...dhe saud ...suprise ...success first 😂😂....
@ruimonteiro3144
@ruimonteiro3144 Ай бұрын
I have a 26y difference to my gf/fiancée and it works out great!
@levismirnoff5450
@levismirnoff5450 23 күн бұрын
Hey pal I remember you, how are things?
@lynnloww
@lynnloww Ай бұрын
He looks like colonel sanders from kfc 😂😂😂
@user-zf2go1yz7d
@user-zf2go1yz7d 16 күн бұрын
She said the truth first she wasn’t attracted to his looks but everything which equals money, she’s smart since she’s playing the long game!!
@clareswinney1087
@clareswinney1087 25 күн бұрын
Lol we refined his look.
@purpleperegrine7295
@purpleperegrine7295 Ай бұрын
Many reasons for marriage, including love, caretaking, stability. Their marriage has lasted longer than many without a big age gap
@oliviarosedistefano5203
@oliviarosedistefano5203 Ай бұрын
My 59 year old mom is insulted about the ageism in this video😭
@asdeducator7220
@asdeducator7220 Ай бұрын
I am 30 my gentleman is 64 nothing strange
@patienceacheampong9542
@patienceacheampong9542 Ай бұрын
Hi golddigger...
@Mrs.TJ516
@Mrs.TJ516 Ай бұрын
Yes it is lol I’m 33 my husband is 44 that’s not bad yours is SICK🤢
@Elisabeta.Marina
@Elisabeta.Marina Ай бұрын
​@@Mrs.TJ516Does your 44 years old partner think you are kinda old at 33? Do 40 year old men look for 20 years old girls?
@Mrs.TJ516
@Mrs.TJ516 Ай бұрын
@@Elisabeta.Marina And I doubt you have no HUSBAND 🤠 lol we’re headed to Greece next week where is your husband taking you?
@Elisabeta.Marina
@Elisabeta.Marina Ай бұрын
@@Mrs.TJ516 I asked you if your 44 years old partner likes 20 year olds at his age, cause everybody says 40 year olds like 20 year olds not 33, onest answer, I dont t care that he married you, that doesn t mean he likes you and maybe he just likes Greece, that doesn t mean more...
@user-in1vj3vf5c
@user-in1vj3vf5c Ай бұрын
Happy for you guys it’s your life fuck what people say nobody is living it but you cheers and congratulations ❤
@winternightsky6945
@winternightsky6945 Ай бұрын
I like older men and I don't have daddy issues neither. Nobody is thinking about their dad when their kissing/sexing/with their man. We all want mates because that's what mankind does, mate. Problem is mating the wrong person. Look at all the females with a good dad around/stable home but still willingly get with the bad/or wrong boy/or man and allow them to ruin their lives as well as their kids. How many mates have people went through in their own age group trying to find the right person. But ended up stressed, depressed, angry, bitter, financially ruined, divorced, single, single parent, in prison or a coffin🤔 Don't worry I'll wait. It's not the age that's the problem, it's the characteristics, actions/or lack thereof of. The higher divorce rates, toxic, controlling, abusive, neglectful, sexually unsatisfied relationships/marriages are with people in the same age group. Just because they have a mate that's wealthy/old doesn't mean they're a gold digger. Had people choose a financially stable mate, then they wouldn't be financially struggling.
@wanishabirahmad9268
@wanishabirahmad9268 18 күн бұрын
How old u r
@coolbreeze3338
@coolbreeze3338 Ай бұрын
She's attracted to his success, that's a nice way of saying,she attached to his money,an i was like she favors Christy Teigen,it is her teeth,she must've went to the same dentist, because they got the same exact teeth,look at her smile an tell me she doesn't have the same teeth as christy teigen...😁
@WeShareTheSameAffliction
@WeShareTheSameAffliction Ай бұрын
So? Most women prefer to date successful men with money, and men usually prefer pretty yonger women. It's an even exchange. 🤷🏿‍♀️
@nikkic7776
@nikkic7776 Ай бұрын
I've always wondered why dating an older man means daddy issues🤔I was never close to the man my mom created me with but all the men I date are always younger than me.
@HangNguyen-ih8rf
@HangNguyen-ih8rf Ай бұрын
What a good looking man!
@HeriB1994
@HeriB1994 Ай бұрын
I'm 29 never had a gf😢...i don't wanna have to wait til im in my 50s-60s for a women in her late 20s mid 30s to find me attractive maybe..😪
@Obatala_Vibez
@Obatala_Vibez Ай бұрын
Don’t worry it will happen just work on you
@HeriB1994
@HeriB1994 Ай бұрын
@@Obatala_Vibez thanks, that's what I've been doing this year. Working on me
@janyrose
@janyrose Ай бұрын
If they don't find you attractive now they won't find you attractive later. Hit the gym, get therapy and make as much money as possible if you want a young woman when youre old
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
Studies show that it takes an older man making 400% more money than average for a significantly younger woman to like him and favor him over a man her own age! And if you never work on WHY you’ve never had a girlfriend, you’ll never have one! Are you too poor and unambitious? Are you scary or misogynistic? Is your attachment style fucked up because of your upbringing? There must be something that you are doing wrong.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
Studies show that it takes an older man making 400% more money than average for a significantly younger woman to like him and favor him over a man her own age! Are you too poor and unambitious? Are you scary or misogynistic? Is your attachment style fucked up because of your upbringing? There must be something that you are doing wrong.
@user-gb9uk6du9m
@user-gb9uk6du9m Ай бұрын
She looks well over 34!! Alan is quite attractive - I prefer gentlemen!!! I would like to see Alan dye his hair in a rich, warm brown colour.
@cocatfan
@cocatfan Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Alan doesn't give a shit what you want him to do with his hair.
@daniellecampbell8615
@daniellecampbell8615 27 күн бұрын
@@cocatfan😂😂😂😂
@what.the.whatever
@what.the.whatever 17 күн бұрын
I'm 32 and my parents are 66 and 70 lol
@SpikeyOfficial
@SpikeyOfficial Ай бұрын
3 seconds in to the vid. he isn't living in a council house but what looks to be a home worth a million. So there is your answer and that is a fact. If he was broke she would have never bothered with him
@lidiamartinez9989
@lidiamartinez9989 Ай бұрын
People will always have opinions about couples. Oh, they’re too skinny. They’re too fat. They’re too old. They’re too young. They’re poor. They make too much money always something let them live and be happy. Who cares?!
@angelab947
@angelab947 21 күн бұрын
Well, from what I see they are soulmates. I think they’re perfect together. They are one. I don’t see an age gap here. I see love true love.
@khonkhosilelihle7414
@khonkhosilelihle7414 Ай бұрын
True.
@prettychrissy
@prettychrissy Ай бұрын
They are a ❤ beautiful 😍 couple
@brendadickson9583
@brendadickson9583 Ай бұрын
They are gorgeous couple I see nothing weird here❤❤
@jellynellye
@jellynellye Ай бұрын
you think the overweight elderly man is gorgeous?
@GameTime-yj6qv
@GameTime-yj6qv 21 күн бұрын
I'll be surprised when a hot young woman falls in love with a poor 60 year old man.
@ThePinkPantha21
@ThePinkPantha21 Ай бұрын
I mean being married to people closer in age isnt a guarantee of a better relationship, I dont see the problem. I feel like men are better in general when they are older. My husband is almost 50 and is just now maturing 😂😂😂.
@d0peshow
@d0peshow Ай бұрын
Alan doesn't want to be there.
@SAZ2009
@SAZ2009 28 күн бұрын
Alan does want to be there, don’t assume
@tyreesetjjoyner1995
@tyreesetjjoyner1995 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@StaceiW
@StaceiW Ай бұрын
Only thing bothered me about this is people not minding their damn business!!!
@VictorZaragoza-q5i
@VictorZaragoza-q5i 16 күн бұрын
I was with her 2years mi life is was so happy
@ryaneugenelawrencewalls1987
@ryaneugenelawrencewalls1987 Ай бұрын
AGE ain't nothing but a damn number so come on let Jessica and Alan enjoy themselves they are great people 0:08
@jc10907Sealy
@jc10907Sealy 27 күн бұрын
She’s pretty
@VictorZaragoza-q5i
@VictorZaragoza-q5i 16 күн бұрын
It works I was 50i have 20 years grill friend
@Dylan-rs4yx
@Dylan-rs4yx Ай бұрын
She straight up got herself a Coll. Sanders though! I know this is the dude that made KFC 🍗
@ZhiQuanCui
@ZhiQuanCui Ай бұрын
@MoMotivation0304
@MoMotivation0304 25 күн бұрын
Y would he say she could be your daughter....😅🤦🏽‍♀️
@AngryGrape1337
@AngryGrape1337 29 күн бұрын
Redbar is watching.
@christinaohanian8438
@christinaohanian8438 Ай бұрын
👍🏻♥️
@lidiabenavente351
@lidiabenavente351 Ай бұрын
anna nicole smith
@peacelovejoyandhappiness
@peacelovejoyandhappiness Ай бұрын
I dislike when people say partner. It’s just weird.
@SAZ2009
@SAZ2009 28 күн бұрын
They made them say that
@wildfiregirl1556
@wildfiregirl1556 22 күн бұрын
Cute couple lol.
@PhnxI3
@PhnxI3 Ай бұрын
Her dad looks better and younger than her man 🤣🤡
@SAZ2009
@SAZ2009 28 күн бұрын
That’s my dad, let me see you then bro😭🙏
@ADayInThee
@ADayInThee Ай бұрын
Good for them! I'm the same age as her and my bf is the same age as Allen.. We also obviously share a 28 yr age difference and have been together 5 years.. Life keeps getting better everyday and we have an extremely strong healthy relationship, I really don't know why people are so quick to judge based on age .. we are a normal "traditional" couple just with different ages.. The funny part is that it really makes us balance each other out and we're almost more compatible because of it ❤
@tanyaholstun2799
@tanyaholstun2799 Күн бұрын
Age does not matter
@LambHasaLittle_Marie.
@LambHasaLittle_Marie. Ай бұрын
Girl be fr... No one cares about the fact his name is Alan , like your dad . Even with the same spelling 😂.
@Amerikka
@Amerikka Ай бұрын
Nice lady. I think she really loves him and he's very lucky. God bless you both
@shanellescott6777
@shanellescott6777 Ай бұрын
Leave them alone
@patienceacheampong9542
@patienceacheampong9542 Ай бұрын
They wouldn't have been filmed if they wanted to be left alone.
@NicOoG-im2yg
@NicOoG-im2yg Ай бұрын
They kinda resemble each other...daddy...and zaddy...
@AmateurAthleteAllDay
@AmateurAthleteAllDay 20 күн бұрын
She looks like Khloe Kardashian
@blueanderson5302
@blueanderson5302 9 күн бұрын
Haters gone hate fuck the haters Alan and jessica
@TK-oi3jy
@TK-oi3jy Ай бұрын
they're old enough
@mizzhllywd
@mizzhllywd Ай бұрын
I'm guessing he's rich.
@SAZ2009
@SAZ2009 28 күн бұрын
So is she, it’s not about that, it helps tho as it should
@Bukurije_
@Bukurije_ 22 күн бұрын
She is an Escort, and datet him for his Money. Now she married him for his Money.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
They have been together since she was 22 and he was 50, which is completely unacceptable!! And even if she doesn’t have daddy issues, she obviously has mommy issues, especially since her mother isn’t in the picture.
@CaraJohnson01
@CaraJohnson01 Ай бұрын
Exactly I'm also 22 and that is nasty if they just now started dating that would be fine but the fact that she was barely an adult no
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Ай бұрын
@@CaraJohnson01 right!! I’m so surprised that most people in the comments are acting like they just met right now. A 22 year old is no where near being physically or mentally mature enough to handle a 50 year old, and no 50 year old should be pursuing something less than 1/2 his age.
@janheffernan4792
@janheffernan4792 22 күн бұрын
.only money
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