I RELAXED MY NATURAL HAIR AFTER 13 YEARS!😱

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Жыл бұрын

Hey girl, welcome to my channel.
So yea I did the thing. I relaxed my hair after 13years cuz I couldn’t keep up with my morning sickness and detangling and styling every day. I braid hair for a living, after being on my feet long hours my hair is the last thing on my mind. Once I found out I was pregnant, I had 2 options. Cut it (bald) or relax it. And I’m so glad I did, because it’s just easier to style for now until I can get past this first trimester and can put more effort into my appearance. I just don’t wanna look the way I feel right now 😂
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Пікірлер: 63

@NalaSade 10 ай бұрын

Yesterday, I relaxed my natural hair after being natural for ten years. I watched your video along with a few other videos of ladies who relaxed their hair after years of being natural. I felt like I could relate to you more, as you were natural for 13 years. Since I got home from the salon yesterday, I've felt so sad. So depressed. I'm so disappointed in myself. I woke up crying with somewhat of an identity crisis. I regret relaxing my natural hair. I want to loc my hair next year and thought I'd want to relax here one last time before I get locs, and I am also in a season of life where I am pretty busy and don't want to take all the time to care for my natural hair like I used to when I was younger. I miss my natural hair. I regret relaxing. It's not 24 hours yet, so maybe after a few days I'll be okay emotionally. Sigh. Life is truly a journey.

@cocoamonroe6312 4 ай бұрын

🤗 ❤

@riochime386 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been natural since 2013 and I’m completely over it. I was just following a hair trend to be honest 😂. Imma texlax my hair my bday month.

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Ayyye! Do it girl even if you don’t stay relaxed a break from natural is not a crime

@momonie4 Жыл бұрын

It's NOT a PERM it's a PERMANENT RELAXER...PERMS R 4 PEOPLE WITH CAUCUS HAIR!!!!

@eveali3177 Жыл бұрын

And now you’ll follow another trends u

@NoName-sp5dp Жыл бұрын

@@eveali3177 definitely not a trend

@Cravenn5 Жыл бұрын

@@NoName-sp5dplol right definitely not a trend❣️

@gwms1102 Күн бұрын

I’m growing out my natural hair and plan on relaxing it. I miss ponytails and low maintenance

@akosualove9139 Жыл бұрын

I relaxed my hair yesterday and i am loving it

@user-em1pu7um4e Жыл бұрын

you did such a good job! most people on youtube apply the relaxer from the roots for some reason and it almost never processes and makes their hair have a bunch of different textures

@kiahampton2225 Жыл бұрын

Sis your hair is sooooo beautiful 😭🔥🔥🔥

@Nickyloveslove Жыл бұрын

Beautiful 🌺. I'm happy that you are happy 😊

@NoDustZone 11 ай бұрын

I relaxed mine yesterday for the first time in 6 years and I'm currently silk pressing it and I have absolutely no regrets. ❤

@Crissy991 Жыл бұрын

It came out beautiful I just relaxed my hair I am 5 days post relaxer .I love it

@mikaylajbmartin 4 ай бұрын

Looks so good!!

@teresaburton3217 Жыл бұрын

Looks beautiful and looks good on you I relax after 2 years just wanted a change and I love it

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Thank you and yes definitely needed a change I don’t regret it

@As_You_Love_Yourself Жыл бұрын

I love long, natural hair on women with African hair types, but it does seem like it takes a lot of time & effort, if you want to keep the curls defined. When I was pregnant with my second son (26 years ago) I cut my hair short and dyed it for the first time - so sick with morning sickness - it was the right decision then. Now, I’ve got the time and will to grow out and take care of my gray hair. There is a time & season for everything. Your hair turned out really shiny & beautiful. Happy pregnancy & baby. 💞🙌🏾🥰👶🏾

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Yea morning sickness will ruin all plans lol but thank you

@yamunalove Жыл бұрын

It came out beautiful the style really suits you❤️

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Thank you ☺️

@bettymarshall615 Жыл бұрын

GIRL! I LOVE I❤ GOOD JOB!!

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Thank youuu☺️

@csslkft6517 Жыл бұрын

Perfectly done. Great job

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🤍

@taylornikii Жыл бұрын

I'm gonna buy a flat iron and attempt to straighten my hair before deciding on a relaxer. I never straightened my hair natural so I want to give it a go.

@sonyaellis2059 Жыл бұрын

You Are Absolutely Beautiful Either Way Queen!🤗😊🙏❤️🌹🌞🌈

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Thank youuu☺️

@yourwhateverhomegirl Жыл бұрын

Welcome back sis!!!!! Because, Natural I could NEVA!!!!

@chrtyhwrd Жыл бұрын

Wow, your video came up on my timeline today as I've been trying to figure out what to do with my hair. I'm tired of the natural hair. It's too much work. You are so brave to transition back to a perm. Your hair turned out really nice too. 😍

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Girl yes don’t be ashamed to say you tired of being natural. Do what’s best for you in this season.

@jackiegill Жыл бұрын

Omg me too! I've been natural for a couple of years and I'm just struggling... decided to go back to relaxer and after seeing these comments I'm sure I made the right decision for me. This video was awesome and just what I needed to see! Great job! ❤😊🫶🏿✨️✌🏿

@poquitovibes9432 11 ай бұрын

If I spent 13 years natural and my hair wasn’t at least past my shoulders I’d give up on life

@MoonWaterX 10 ай бұрын

I remember a few years ago when we all had that guilt to be natural to prove self love to people. Yeah whateva. My hair is hella work and no one is trying to help me with it. Do what makes life easier for you

@Lovely-ff7uv Жыл бұрын

Did you also trim on relax day?

@TryMeMrsRabbit40 Жыл бұрын

How did you dry it ?

@Flourishingtresses335 Жыл бұрын

New subbie 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 absolutely gorgeous

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Awww thanks for subscribing 🤍🤍

@Talania12 Жыл бұрын

Hello ! what relaxer did you use and where did you purchase it?

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Hi I used motions and just my local beauty supply store

@myad2152 8 ай бұрын

relaxing your hair while pregnant is actually insane

@mariamsadiq1524 Жыл бұрын

Suits you

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@DeeDeeKarol Жыл бұрын

Looks like lots silk presses

@Lady-pr9el Жыл бұрын

So yall done got educated on what relaxers do but yall still returning back to it oh OK o ok

@ranandiebraut7425 Жыл бұрын

If you have straight hair and dye it it's the same. We all use chemistry on our heads.

@DeeDeeKarol Жыл бұрын

They hate themselves 🤷🏽‍♀️

@DeeDeeKarol Жыл бұрын

@@hustlelikebrussell7593not like chemical relaxers so stop it.

@twiggs65 11 ай бұрын

Good Luck, not me!

@kimoladeane1930 Жыл бұрын

13 years, and it is so short. I have been natural for almost 3 years, and it is double your hair length, and I cut the end when I see split ends

@ShesWilling Жыл бұрын

Clearly everyone’s hair grows differently but yes I’ve shaved my head a few times in the time frame. Think before you speak

@matildadonkor7313 Жыл бұрын

OK good for you

@TM9_ Жыл бұрын

Weird flex, but okay

@Blakk_Wolf7 Жыл бұрын

Why are women cutting their hair, I mean not all women, but there's a new thing where you see a a lotta women cutting their hair above the shoulders, or even shooter than that. Some are even shaving their heads?! Nah, sorry, but I'm not into women who cut their hair or shave their heads, looking like dudes. No disrespect to any ladies who do cut their hair above shoulders, or shave it off

@truthordare197 Жыл бұрын

No one cares about your opinion

@sophiam9886 Жыл бұрын

Nobody cares what 👉you👈 like.😅 Why are you guys always running up to us, IN OUR SPACES, telling us what you don't like? 🗣We don't care. 🤣🤣🤣

@Crissy991 Жыл бұрын

It came out beautiful I just relaxed my hair I am 5 days post relaxer .I love it

@Crissy991 Жыл бұрын

It came out beautiful I just relaxed my hair I am 5 days post relaxer .I love it