she sounds so sad and tired while saying "mass shootings are more common now" me too honestly
@katac72864 жыл бұрын
11 11 they have off seasons when the boys are on vacation/finding other topics/researching/filming/traveling, so they fill in the huge gaps on the channel to keep on top of youtube’s algorithm!
@estreyac62854 жыл бұрын
creatifproduction our world has gotten so bad and now when people say it it’s common
@TravelerVolkriin4 жыл бұрын
@11 11 You won't be missed.
@charmolettafranquestafiestayam4 жыл бұрын
#me too xddd
@brokensoul61904 жыл бұрын
As humans shouldn’t we all have faith? Smh
@maeveh13764 жыл бұрын
"You don't think 'shooting' ... well more recently you do" is such a sad truth
@stanshaud61684 жыл бұрын
Actually mass shootings aren’t that common they’re just reported on more, it’s still a horrible tragedy but doesn’t happen nearly as often as people think they do
@maeveh13764 жыл бұрын
I'm not saying the fear is logical (the media does increases it) but people are more likely to jump to the conclusion, because it has occurred more often since 2012
@rebekahj86624 жыл бұрын
In 2018 there was a mass shooting almost once a day on average. That’s not exactly statistically rare.
@BlackGrapes4 жыл бұрын
@@stanshaud6168 i don't know, man. It's a fact that in the US gun related killings has increased over the years and it's much higher compared to other nations.
@Revena4nt4 жыл бұрын
Maeve H today someone brought a gun to school- they didn’t open fire but we were in lockdown it was terrifying
@EllaEllaEh4 жыл бұрын
I was in a church service when something metal clanged to the floor suddenly. The elderly lady next to me hit the floor. I ducked, and a man in front of me ducked as well. I helped the elderly lady up and asked her if she was okay. She started crying. The man in front of me turned around and told me he had been in Afghanistan, and was embarrassed he reacted to the sound like that. I reassured him, that I had the same reaction as him and we nervously chuckled about it. PTSD is no joke. The three of us have it for different reasons, but we all have it.
@gregoryjason33844 жыл бұрын
Tatsujiro Kurogane that’s a sick thing to say
@gregoryjason33844 жыл бұрын
Tatsujiro Kurogane I think what you said is pretty dreadful exactly.
@lydikiti4 жыл бұрын
@Tatsujiro Kurogane you are selfish.
@tdsims19634 жыл бұрын
@Tatsujiro Kurogane Wow. An amazing statement to make. It is awful--but honest. I hope you are never in such a situation.
@tdsims19634 жыл бұрын
Do other people in your life understand this about you ( you are not a minority with your outlook, don't worry), that you would sacrifice any of them to save your own life if push came to shove?
@linseyfitzgerald86784 жыл бұрын
This shooting is the reason I’m still scared of being in movie theaters.
@christinaforster4 жыл бұрын
I live in Colorado and cannot go into a theatre and in fact the only movie I have seen in a theatre since that shooting was Frozen. Long after it had been in the theaters for a while.
@fatimaterrazas65454 жыл бұрын
Me too... and I was only 11 when I heard about this shooting. And after this news, I never asked my parents to take me to the movies. When my friends make plans to go to the movies I go but I’m always with fear that something like this might happen. I even make us sit near the emergency exit... but now my boyfriend and i watch movies on our movie box or amazon prime... I recently went to watch Joker and I was anxious the entire time 😭
@emitwine4 жыл бұрын
I've been to that theatre long after the shooting but I was on the edge of my chair and my heart would jump when anybody would come in or leave. Any other theatres I feel the same way. I used to love being treated by my parents at a big theater like that but now I dread it and avoid them at all costs.
@thevampire60654 жыл бұрын
My 2 cousin's survived that shooting they're still going to therapy because of it they were only 5 and 7 when it happened
@ladydede884 жыл бұрын
Me too and unfortunately my kids always want to go 😢 I hate it.
@ckg95ty4 жыл бұрын
This was the theater I went to growing up. My friend bought us tickets for that night, but I got held up at work and she ended up getting the flu. I think about it a lot.
@ositoosito45664 жыл бұрын
Cindy Gomez damn.. 💟✝️
@Nina-8564 жыл бұрын
Before the shooting did you ever get a feeling, you know like a bad feeling in the gut when you knew you couldn't go to the theater anymore that night?
@Genevieve27884 жыл бұрын
Dang. That is like some people I heard ...where a plane crashed and they didn't make the flight. Wow.
@adanrosales33404 жыл бұрын
Stop lying
@leila56464 жыл бұрын
same thing happened to me, i was too tired to go so my mom went by herself and i’m mad at myself everyday for leaving her to endure it alone
@RemyKBartels4 жыл бұрын
Having to lose your family or friends because of one deranged person is the worst feeling in the world
@HarrisonTBr0wn4 жыл бұрын
@Toori Baba omg noooooo XD
@ThatGuy-yk1ey4 жыл бұрын
Toori Baba lmao
@awixgamingfunnies77074 жыл бұрын
Humans are messed up creatures
@statealchemistkev4 жыл бұрын
just lea nothing, he just cracked up a joke. its the internet softie
@zachlee79454 жыл бұрын
Ikr I get that feeling all the time
@stenodiva7774 жыл бұрын
She has the saddest eyes and expression...and her body language is horrible. You can tell she suffers.. God bless this young woman.
@nicelemons52534 жыл бұрын
how can you say god bless? how can you believe in a god that would allow this to happen? i dont understand how people still think that there is a higher power when this happens.
@mtlycru854 жыл бұрын
@@nicelemons5253 because there's such a thing as free will. God gives you choices in life to do good to others as you want others to do to you, he chose a path of terror and destruction that is not God's fault. Please don't pass judgement on someone else's beliefs just because you don't share them, we all have a right to believe how we choose you are no better or worse for your views than she is for hers. Be kind. ❤️
@graciew12254 жыл бұрын
nice lemons because there is evil on this earth too. The devil also controls things on our earth. God loves his children unconditionally, but the devil does things that are unimaginable, but you have to love and trust in God. Everything happens for a reason and he always has a path. I hope you come to find him someday❤️
@Roody_Patootie4 жыл бұрын
Yes may all the gods bless her🕉❤️
@fiercecheese10034 жыл бұрын
@@nicelemons5253 man's decision is not gods fault, its our fault for messing up what he created. Suffering will end soon. Its prophesied. The devil is in control of the earth at the moment 😢
@sydneyfoster27344 жыл бұрын
“Always look for the helpers.There are always helpers.”-Mr.Rogers
@itiswhatitis95004 жыл бұрын
Sydney Foster 💔
@qwertyiou4 жыл бұрын
This one comment made me cry
@mollierei14 жыл бұрын
@aburke08234 жыл бұрын
I'm not crying. Someone threw cut onions in my face. Thank you for this comment. 💙
@isabellarose44264 жыл бұрын
the fact that she went to see the same movie afterwords is so incredibly brave and a big step in ptsd recovery
@Angel-xe2tl4 жыл бұрын
@@osakarose5612 I never knew avoiding being raped again would make my ptsd worse??? Wonderful logic there.
@daisymay65054 жыл бұрын
Angel Oh I’m so sorry 😣😞
@LemonLoafEucharist4 жыл бұрын
Angel I understand where you’re coming from and I’m so sorry that happened to you. What they mean is that it helps when you are able to confront situations related to your trauma like going to the movies etc. Not the trauma itself. For example, it would probably help me personally to play Smash Bros with my close friends since that was a game my abuser and I used to play (but i’m not ready yet). You’re strong no matter what stage of recovery you are in.
@stephenpaea1774 жыл бұрын
Angel since you didn’t respond...we all conclude that your story is probably a made up and nothing more
@thevampire60654 жыл бұрын
@@osakarose5612 not true
@georgia88654 жыл бұрын
the way no one knew what was happening... that was the worst part for me
@kateNwilson4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Now if anyone unusual comes in the theater I get up and tell someone. I had to do that during Aladdin. 2 guys came in, in blacks hoodies. Within 10 mins of them coming in they got back up and left. I was like nope! I yold a theater employee. They didn't come back in
@randomrachael4204 жыл бұрын
Indeed It's like we are desensitized to these things and it seems normal to us so we don't know how to react when we need to
@mellamoalfonzo99674 жыл бұрын
@@randomrachael420 Homie she even said nobody knew how to react cause these things never happened back then. Has nothing to do with being "desensitized"
@randomrachael4204 жыл бұрын
@@mellamoalfonzo9967 the frequency of the event happening has nothing to do with our awareness being desensitized has made us less aware of everything that is going on around us and more accepting rather than being able to defend ourselves and others around us
@carlosisanchez70054 жыл бұрын
K8 B same I do the same or when I see someone sitting by themselves all the way in the corner with nobody around them, it’s sad how we can even enjoy a movie now a days due to these kind of events what has society come to now where we have to be paranoid everywhere we go.
@beandlunt4 жыл бұрын
when i was 10 years old me and my friend went to go see Wonder Women. There was a man alone in the back corner with a big bag. I was in front of him. My parents weren’t there. He took out the gun. People noticed right away. He was pulled out immediately. Don’t know who he was, where he is now, but I think about that night a lot. I could’ve died as a ten year old.
@yousefabdelnour48224 жыл бұрын
yellow mellow wtf you spell 11 years old u sure this didn’t happen last year?
@orionsbeltonthesestars4 жыл бұрын
@@yousefabdelnour4822 there have been tons of wonder woman movies in the 1970s-1990s.
@DannY-xj8ci4 жыл бұрын
@@yousefabdelnour4822 the only mistake I see is "me and my friend" When it's suppose to be "my friend and I" and that's not a spelling error.
@goldegalkyla4 жыл бұрын
that’s horrifying. so glad you’re okay
@ajisback28264 жыл бұрын
Yousef Abdel Nour it’s actually kind of hilarious because your grammar is so much worse then yellow’s spelling
@jolenevieira37484 жыл бұрын
I kinda laughed when she said She was embarrassed for getting up and leaving. And quickly thought, wow, how sad.
@misslayla934 жыл бұрын
Jolene Vieira so sad :(
@annetteslife3 жыл бұрын
That is an honest reaction.
@rachellemarie92913 жыл бұрын
A kind hearted reaction for sure🥺aww
@bashboi40744 жыл бұрын
I feel like because of all these shootings everyone now has that instinct of "if a shooter..." like if a shooter came from here where would I be able to go, where is the best place for me to sit or stand or whatever that if a shooter enters I'll be safe
@tigerminotaur804 жыл бұрын
It's so scary nowadays everyday at school I'm thinking about what I would do if there really was a shooter. It doesnt help when your school gets shooting and bombing threats at least twice a month.
@nine-vi7rw4 жыл бұрын
I'm thankful that I don't live in America for those reasons. But one of my friends there had her school shut down for a day or so, because a guy was threatening to shoot it up. Crazy how it's almost 2020 and that's a possibility in a supposedly "safe country".
@tigerminotaur804 жыл бұрын
@@nine-vi7rw Yeah 2 years ago the police were called and were told that our school had hostages inside. We were all crying in the corner of the room as we sit there for 3 hours. Thank god it was a false alarm though.
@trvpicalk4 жыл бұрын
I think about that at school all the time
@mcroyale_lover4 жыл бұрын
gotta be on edge.. strongest and smartest survives in these situations
@jjoploo4 жыл бұрын
My brother is alive, but he has a bullet scar on his back from this shooting (he was covering his girlfriend at the time, who remained unharmed). Thank you for this, Melia. Edit: I just googled the reddit story, but it's not written by my brother's girlfriend, as the stories don't line up, but I'm glad you all told me about it because my brother was vague and I've always been too scared to ask him for details on the event. His now fiance passed away a couple years ago, I believe from a car accident, but I could be wrong..... I know.
@Sarah-fr2ft4 жыл бұрын
Just out of curiosity, are they still together?
@jaelynn69244 жыл бұрын
Miss Mel tell him I said he’s a warrior. Much love from me to him and your family.
@suktoescom154 жыл бұрын
Miss Mel I read this on red it( I think ) I think it was your bothers girlfriend who I had wrote her account on the website x
@Jade-ct1hs4 жыл бұрын
@@suktoescom15 I read it too also I think! It gave me chills. They are the one that said that they went through the emergency exit right?
@_Rushana_2824 жыл бұрын
@@Sarah-fr2ft he said "girlfriend at the time" so i believe they are not together anymore
@oliviaellis36144 жыл бұрын
i work at a movie theater and we are now trained so intensively on what to do in this situation. we have learning studios on this every couple months just to keep us fresh on the procedures. when Joker came out a few months ago we had police officers in the theater and it was just so crazy to think about. i am a 17 year old girl working with others the same age/younger than me, in a theater where people had threatened to pull something like this.
@ally09754 жыл бұрын
I work in a movie theater too. I’m always on my toes when I’m on the job and when I’m there as a customer. It honestly sucks..but I enjoy my job.
@gmc56184 жыл бұрын
Yeah we also had extra staff on with the joker viewings. We had extra security too.
@iaminmrschusbasement21014 жыл бұрын
i’m so glad nothing happened at the new joker showings. the release of the movie was so anticipated and everyone was so scared, but i’m so happy a situation like this didn’t happen again.
@lolarodriguez92843 жыл бұрын
Just remember dont ever be scared or embarrassed to run or duck to save your life.
@chlorophyll6154 Жыл бұрын
Tell that to Uvalde
@Kityn4 жыл бұрын
I live about a block away from this theater and every time I pass it, I look at that back entrance. Everytime I go there, I get massive anxiety. The world lost a beautiful human being that day. RIP AJ, everyone from Gateway still remembers you every day, every year.
@fenderstratADHD4 жыл бұрын
My condolences 💜🙏💜
@ajisback28264 жыл бұрын
My condolences RIP rest in everlasting peace
@moniquealvarado-arellano12043 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine. Im sorry for your loss.
@MrNoName74742 жыл бұрын
I had a friend named AJ that survived my school shooting. Got cancer a year later and passed away. How ironic. Never forget being there for each other and going to the vigil together. Glad we got a little extra time together.
@daniellevstek17894 жыл бұрын
I respect her for opening up about this. It must be hard for her to even mention, let alone, think about it
@tauruskala14124 жыл бұрын
I respect her too
@nyc.r_Hit4 жыл бұрын
How?
@faeraindrops4 жыл бұрын
Hit Barney what do you mean “how?” she experienced a mass shooting. that’s traumatizing. especially seeing her friend bleeding a bunch because of an active shooter
@user-mg3xb4yv4j4 жыл бұрын
Hit Barney fr
@estceb64144 жыл бұрын
@@faeraindrops I would cry
@esperanzaserrano86084 жыл бұрын
This is an interesting perspective because it’s people in the other theatre not the direct theatre. People still did not even notice gun fire because it seemed like it was apart of the movie. People didn’t notice the friend that was shot or bullets were coming through the wall. That’s so crazy
@Bullet4MyEnemy4 жыл бұрын
DeathAngel M80s?
@mariem.53694 жыл бұрын
@@Bullet4MyEnemy tiny fireworks
@offplanet7404 жыл бұрын
shock does crazy things to the body, mind, and brain...
@rebeccaclement994 жыл бұрын
That's what happens with trauma, the brains main purpose is to protect us. What was happening in that theater was too much for the brain to handle so it blocked out what was needed in order to survive.
@Gabrielswe1004 жыл бұрын
Yeah. and theatre walls are soundproof also.
@joey58934 жыл бұрын
The thing that really stood out to me was how she was apologizing like “sorry for interrupting your movie experience. My friend got shot. ‘Scuse me.” It sounds like such a dazed and helpless feeling.
@auzziefish4 жыл бұрын
When I was 4, the Columbine shooting happened; which was a block away from my house. When I was 19 (I think), the aurora shooting happened, I was a block away. When I was 20, the Arapaho shooting happened; I was driving by as it happened. When I was 24, I was robbed gunpoint at the bank I’ve worked at.. I’ve dodged a few bullets. Much respect to everyone who has gone through this.
@sufferyetgain4 жыл бұрын
just let us know when you come to visit 💀😂
@aburke08234 жыл бұрын
Please stay safe. I think the Universe might have good plans for you.
@bfree48303 жыл бұрын
Well wishes 🙌🏻 You are protected, and wishing the absolute best for those who we have lost and their loved ones
@carolinebilliot22983 жыл бұрын
I was 3 years old when Columbine happened. I lived in Steamboat Springs at the time then...and I was 6 years old at the time of 9/11.....still in the same place.
@Nolanoyayo3 жыл бұрын
This is why gun ban needs to happen
@annmarie13654 жыл бұрын
I can see the pain in her eyes and the weight on her shoulders. Poor woman. The music is very distracting though.
@tinekevdgraaff59584 жыл бұрын
SomeCat FromJapan oef like en abonneer je beneden
@bwnnie4 жыл бұрын
@@tinekevdgraaff5958 w..what?
@jnaxlo4 жыл бұрын
Omg yes
@anim34life394 жыл бұрын
Your profile picture is distracting
@hardeeharhar184 жыл бұрын
People are mad you are distracting them from their lust to cry from depression. This was sad and I still understand you.
@christinaify4 жыл бұрын
"Because, you don't really think 'shooting'. Well, I guess...now...." one of the more disturbing things in a disturbing video, tbh.
@Camibug4 жыл бұрын
Her saying she screamed “WHY” because she was there with her sister as people died hit me. I can’t imagine being in that situation with my little brother.
@SoulKhepri4 жыл бұрын
she literally looks so tired and exhausted... even 7 years later.
@olivercloseoff33933 жыл бұрын
Yeah looks like she's still wearing the same clothes too
@SoulKhepri3 жыл бұрын
@pinkus krill how is that rude lmao idiot
@justusgrimm21273 жыл бұрын
@@SoulKhepri I think he meant the other guy
@SoulKhepri3 жыл бұрын
@@justusgrimm2127 looooool
@twolamevegans35914 жыл бұрын
I hope the rest of this woman’s life is so blessed. She deserves peace and happiness
@brokensoul61904 жыл бұрын
If only people say that to mass shooters before they do it
@KIBWEmma4 жыл бұрын
BROKEN SOUL you can’t justify their behavior like that, nobody is going to save me but you don’t see me shooting people. It’s mental illness, don’t blame other people for his actions.
@mmelcdyy4 жыл бұрын
Emma Burdett stop making mental illness seem evil. the person was just crazy.
@KIBWEmma4 жыл бұрын
Yoonie uwu I have mental illnesses? People w mental illness aren’t all evil, however some evil people do have mental illness. I’m literally a psychology major why would I demonize mental illness?
@meganm91784 жыл бұрын
Yoonie uwu you don’t know if they were crazy.
@xoura52304 жыл бұрын
Screw everyone who disliked this, it takes guts to talk about her experience, let alone keeping strong through the story retelling.
@coolturtle62863 жыл бұрын
I think some people’s mindset is “I can’t like this, I’ll hit dislike because that’s a sad topic and I shouldn’t ‘like’ this.” Meaning they’re not going “THATS BAD, DON’T POST THIS”
@AK907LSD253 жыл бұрын
I tried to dislike your comment
@coolturtle62863 жыл бұрын
@@AK907LSD25 my comment?
@AK907LSD253 жыл бұрын
@@coolturtle6286 yeah see the little thumbs down under your post? It wont work
@coolturtle62863 жыл бұрын
@@AK907LSD25 What’s wrong with my comment? I clearly stated that people probably hit “dislike” as a symbol of “I hate that for you. I dislike you went through that”
@oof-ll8zt4 жыл бұрын
Weird seeing this in my recommended. I lost a really close family member in this exact shooting. 7 years doesn’t not take the pain away and with all the shootings happening today it definitely makes it harder to not think about. Even though I was young it still is hard to remember the feelings my mother felt. Honestly something needs to be done. Thank you for sharing your story 🖤
@uggyfuggyducky4 жыл бұрын
I remember being in high school, and we had a lock down because someone on campus had a gun. I remember the chaos yet calmness of everyone, trying to stay quiet yet freaking out at the same time. I remember the feeling I had inside my chest and stomach, being super scared. Thankfully, nothing happened and no one was hurt. You are so strong to talk about this! You rock!!!!
@aleahc13794 жыл бұрын
I cant even imagine the kind of power it takes to speak on this. Shes strong.
@mia5784 жыл бұрын
Toori Baba, stfu.
@mysteryjunkie98084 жыл бұрын
Since it's been 7 years she probably only just now have found it easy enough to finally talk about.
@zachlee79454 жыл бұрын
F
@TrueCrimeTalkWithTaves4 жыл бұрын
Aleah C137 hey girl ! I never found someone on here that I know lol 👋🏾👋🏾
@bettyliljander12584 жыл бұрын
I live in Aurora and the theatre that this happened at is right by my house and I used to go there all the time and I remember this happening and my sister was going to go with some friends but she got grounded (thank God) but my dad was working in the mall across the street and I remember him just coming home and explaining what was happening and watching the news and the shooters trials and even now I sometimes go to that theatre just because it's so close and now there's police everywhere, there's a no backpack policy, and most everyone I know still won't set foot in there. what happened is awful and it's truely awful that it still needs to be a concern today. thank you for reading this if you did.
@novagalaxy11344 жыл бұрын
Is the movie theater the same as it was when the shooting happened, like are the seats the same? or did they remodel?
@N..P..4 жыл бұрын
@@novagalaxy1134 Its likely it was gutted (at least that particular room).
@RewindingFilm044 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised the theater is still getting business after all that happened there
@jenny22824 жыл бұрын
Wonder if the theatre is haunted?
@timpage94244 жыл бұрын
I still go to the theater because I'm not gonna let this jerk win. Also they remodeled the whole theater.
@deconharris4 жыл бұрын
When she said there parents were asleep must’ve been so hard to think a mother or father would ever have to wake up to a text saying “if I don’t survive I want you to know I love you”
@drewsinclair83124 жыл бұрын
I seriously can’t grasp the fact that people will see stuff like this and think that having stricter gun laws takes away their freedom.
@SurvivorSpencer4 жыл бұрын
there’s always an extreme case that proves ones point .... example: a man stoppped an active shooter in a church who shot 30 poeple with his car and ar-15... shooter would’ve gotten away... think with your head not heart
@arivens81274 жыл бұрын
@@SurvivorSpencer We said stricter. We don't say take them all away.
@drewsinclair83124 жыл бұрын
Harold OfTheRocks I don’t know what this has to do with black people? And I see you guys saying that this is an extreme case but there was literally 417 mass shootings in America last year. That’s more than days in the year, it’s not just one case.
@lambsauce53124 жыл бұрын
@@arivens8127 the shooter had the gun illegally numbnut, and was probably an r/atheism conessoir
@lambsauce53124 жыл бұрын
@@drewsinclair8312 you be like "21"
@jor74414 жыл бұрын
the fact that she didn’t let it stop her from going to the movies is so incredible
@BlaxicanBeautyTV3334 жыл бұрын
Ever since that event, everytime I go to a movie theater it's like an automatic instinct to think where I would run or hide if someone started shooting. I also get super paranoid if I sit in the front or middle row because I'm scared someone will shoot from behind.
@motherlilith814 жыл бұрын
Trust me you are not the only one who does this , I don’t go to the movies much now but when we go every time the door opens I feel nervous . I always think about where I would hide my 11 year old son
@ashuntaejackson63264 жыл бұрын
Toori Baba Wtf is wrong with you? Do you have no empathy?
@claudiaroman71884 жыл бұрын
Moon Child they’re just a sad person looking for attention
@claudiaroman71884 жыл бұрын
I went to see the joker a while ago and I was so nervous. I kept thinking of places to hide or how to act if a shooter would come near me. It’s so scary that we have to live like this in America. I get scared that my brother is in school without me and I can’t help him if there was a school shooter. There needs to be stricter gun control
@yunhosparrot4 жыл бұрын
Every time I go to a movie theater I ask for seats in the back or somewhere in the middle. Never in the front cause for me i start to think of a person going in from the exit doors and shooting or something and I try my best to not think that when I do end up sitting there but it’s hard not to so I feel you.
@natalie_kent4 жыл бұрын
i feel so horrible for her. my dad was in the theater next door while this happened, and we were terrified for him, so i cannot imagine what she went through. my prayers are with you to this day
@natalie_kent4 жыл бұрын
*not the theater that was shot in, but the other one
@Josh_Kolbo Жыл бұрын
She wasn’t in theater 9 she was in theatre 8
@Melody_5204 жыл бұрын
I literally think about this everytime I go to see a movie in a movie theater...
@smileyface4twenty4 жыл бұрын
ME TOO. I make sure I know where all of the exits are and imagine what I would do if anything were to happen.
@Melody_5204 жыл бұрын
nirvana-in-my-head❤ SAME! 😰
@thatdudegirl85484 жыл бұрын
@@smileyface4twenty same I always take the seats closest to the exit or in the middle and I get bad anxiety if there is alot of people
@DanielMazz4 жыл бұрын
THAT DUDE GIRL? How
@charlesgreen36833 жыл бұрын
same here
@totaldrama774 жыл бұрын
This is sad, and it was really sad when she said shooting had became a common thing
@bashboi40744 жыл бұрын
What's worse is it's not hyperbole, they've become so common that most aren't even reported on the news anymore unless the number hits a certain marker
@mysteryjunkie98084 жыл бұрын
Sad but true
@waterpoptarts97404 жыл бұрын
Well, it has
@oneegg29944 жыл бұрын
especially when she noted that it wasn't that common in 2012. people *didn't* assume shootings back then; i've completely forgotten that feeling.
@vtgurlie20054 жыл бұрын
@@oneegg2994 I think that's a misconception though. Mass shootings were common in 2012; she probably just didn't notice OR they weren't publicized as much.
@CastleBravo174 жыл бұрын
I work at a Cinemark (same company as Century) in Fort Collins only about 40 minutes away from Aurora. My GM was the manager in Aurora during the shooting. He never talks about it, but whenever the theater is busy, I can tell he's a little on edge. We always have cops standing in the theater, and there is always a staff member who does security checks in each theater, multiple times a showing. Even though I didn't experience what my manager did, it's always present in the back of my mind.
@elleschweitzer37454 жыл бұрын
Small world. My husband and I go to this theater quite a bit and always notice how safe it feels. I hope you know that you the staff and your GM are doing a great job in keeping it safe.
@TheAZT31504 жыл бұрын
MrsFefeNinja I’ve been on edge during a few movies. Last few times I have been, there have been guards and even men trying to start fights with people in the theatre, and I remember feeling nervous... not knowing if this person is gonna flip out.
@Annie-xu9dz4 жыл бұрын
I work at a Cinemark in Illinois. We had a situation the weekend I trained usher where two people who were acting suspicious had managed to get past box and podium twice. No one checked their bags, and they were being aggressive with usher. They kicked them out and they came back the next day doing the same thing and we finally asked for help from mall security. It saddens me to think what may have happened if we hadn’t of gotten help and if they could’ve truly been dangerous, considering they managed to get into a theater with their bags.
@yourbooaddieperiodttt57054 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine being in a shooting, living in fear, constantly not knowing if your gonna make it... you are so brave. If can’t imagine the pain you’ve been through. I am just glad you’re were able to open up about this.
@chaylynnpetherbridge60614 жыл бұрын
Another survivor shared her story on reddit. Her husband was shot and lost his leg. She was in the same row as the youngest victim. She remembers being scared because they left a trail of blood when escaping the theatre, and thought the shooter would follow. A very sad story. The way she wrote about it, didn't forget a single detail. Its heartbreaking.
@Josh_Kolbo Жыл бұрын
I just heard about her story on tiktok but I didn’t know she was in the same row as the 6 year old girl 😢
@coolcat6677884 жыл бұрын
I work at a movie theatre and right before Joker came out this year we changed to a no backpack policy and honestly all the workers were nervous working opening weekend of that movie because of this we even had armed security and I feel so bad that you had to go through this. It sucks when a place for fun and comfort becomes a scary place...
@brianna5394 жыл бұрын
coolcat667788 I also work at a movie theater and we had the same thing! People were on edge
@fenderstratADHD4 жыл бұрын
Brianna L. I remember when the families of the people who were killed in this were like so concerned that someone was gonna attack the Joker movie and it started a controversy
@noworries22544 жыл бұрын
Yeah I mean people cant even go to church any more without packing heat. That's how unbelievable things have gotten
@maxshelltrack97204 жыл бұрын
@@noworries2254 I would think you would pack heat anyways and not have that liberal mindset.🙄
@j3dr9054 жыл бұрын
@@maxshelltrack9720 wtf is wrong with you
@fidget9344 жыл бұрын
Nothing like this is okay. I hope you know everyone is here for you.
@charlieeshelman90834 жыл бұрын
Toori Baba wtf. Stop trolling people, your replying inappropriately to every comment I’ve seen. Just stop
@jasonb95624 жыл бұрын
Charlie Eshelman toori baba apparently has nothing going on in their lives and this gives them some semblance of relevance
@grzyruth92054 жыл бұрын
You you're not lmfao stop lying
@itsalexvargas4 жыл бұрын
“You don’t really think shooting... well... I guess now you do...” 💔💔
@jadyn72314 жыл бұрын
I haven’t experienced a mass shooting but I felt that when she said she flinches every time a loud noise happens. Especially in school.
@nedflanders65604 жыл бұрын
This is such a tragic story and I love how she ended it by telling us that there are horribly cruel things that go on in this country but at the same time there are good things it’s uplifting that a person who went through this doesn’t say how bad the world is but says it’s just as good
@skeelo224 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ned
@tinekevdgraaff59584 жыл бұрын
Your tragic
@roachtingz90614 жыл бұрын
Tineke Vd Graaff you’re**
@AM-kr1pc4 жыл бұрын
Honestly why I avoid going to movie theaters. I get nervous when my family goes without me too. Like I can’t protect them at all
@justaguy26484 жыл бұрын
Actually Madness how do you live? Because you could get shot anywhere
@abelinks32784 жыл бұрын
You know a gun could help you protect your family:/
@marc96754 жыл бұрын
New York Nick it’s how a lot of people live atm, sadly. always being at risk of getting harmed by another person’s actions just because they decided to go out and have fun for a day.
@jusbertmeza44244 жыл бұрын
Quit overrating. Don't stop that from enjoying your life. Don't live life in fear of something happening in the off chance. Even though shootings are becoming more common it's still almost impossible to ever find your self caught in one. When you live in fear the terrorist did more than just shooting those people but causing future fear. I go to the movies all the time to experience movies i love. It's just a different experience from home. Fear of shootings doesn't stop me from going at least once a month.
@snowfall51714 жыл бұрын
This stuff is super rare, you dont need to be wigged out about it. Its just the media trying to make it seem common so they can pass their gun control laws so they can have more power tbh
@annieclark28624 жыл бұрын
“You don’t think about that when you’re going to a movie.” After there was a shooting my senior year at my high school, it’s all I can think about. To the point I can’t go to a movie. I haven’t been for 6 years.
@kb96964 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you're safe and okay. You are wonderful and worth every bit of sweat and tears it takes to deal with something like that. I dont know you but I hope you have the best holiday and that you have so much peace one day. It will find you. Sending you much love and healing thoughts.
@mistique773 жыл бұрын
She's still got PTSD, I have it as well not from a shooting but, it's pretty much the same as in the way we feel... and she's amazing because I know that I wouldn't have been able to go back and watch any movie, much less that same one!! I truly admire her 😍
@blink5h5764 жыл бұрын
The saddest thing to hear was "Mass Shootings are more common now".
@willcstgd4 жыл бұрын
It’s like pandemics, they are happening more often but less people are dying in each one.
@xcessivexcessive57894 жыл бұрын
Just because the news likes to cover them more doesn’t mean they are more common
@nian67944 жыл бұрын
@@xcessivexcessive5789 They statistically are more common... lol
@nate_the_great83874 жыл бұрын
If you want to feel protected, get your CCW and get a gun. There was a guy that walked into a church in Texas with a shotgun and started opening fire. He only killed one or two people (out of 40) just because a man attending the church had his own gun and started opening fire on the guy. Killed him in one shot and saved many lives. The guy is a hero.
@chloe-qs7ue4 жыл бұрын
Nate_the_Great83 fighting fire with fire isn’t going to help. the usa needs to do something about gun laws. i live in australia and the last mass shooting was in 1996 when the government banned guns. there has not been a single mass shooting in 24 years. don’t say there isn’t proof that banning guns will help because it will.
@TyroneOne4 жыл бұрын
This would have been interesting enough without the violin in the background... cmon buzzfeed were not robots we know what sad is
@alexreyes37304 жыл бұрын
Duchess stfu 😂
@shaz56014 жыл бұрын
didn’t notice it till the end and I was like “oh something to tell me I have to be sad”
@halien63844 жыл бұрын
Duchess playing sad music when someone is talking about a mass shooting is propaganda? i thought mass shootings are considered sad no matter what your political background is 🤔
@briannecarver92744 жыл бұрын
they put the music in the back as a filler. its not saying "this story isnt sad enough we need violins"
@hardeeharhar184 жыл бұрын
Correct they are trying too hard. It's distracting to all who Feel this story naturally except the emotionless who need something to feel sad about.
@dhosea1012 жыл бұрын
It’s now been 10 years. I remember my girlfriend at the time texted me and said that there was a shooting at the theater we go to and we can’t go there anymore. I remember getting messages all day saying thank god you weren’t there, glad you’re safe, etc. it was a crazy and sad time, god bless this woman for telling her story.
@deconharris4 жыл бұрын
She’s so strong. When she said maybe her experience can help save someone else is just truly amazing
@hardlynoticeable944 жыл бұрын
I was just shy of 17 when this happened. We lived in Aurora. I remember hearing about the showing the previous night, thinking how cool it would be because there would probably be people in costume and everything, and wishing I could go. I remember getting up, coming down to go to work, and my mother had the news on. She wasn't getting ready, she was just staring at the TV. I was late for work because we were both just frozen, watching the TV talk about Aurora 16. I remember watching the hunt for the shooter. It was just kind of numbing. It felt so distant, even though it was less than 10 miles away. We knew that theater. We shopped at the mall next door. But it still felt like something happening in another world. Until we took flowers to the memorial that had been set up that weekend. We got a dozen roses, one for each victim, and walked the rows of crosses, placing them on each one alongside the crowd of people that had come to do the same. Even then, they were just faces on posts. It all sank in when we reached the little girl's cross. It was surrounded by flowers and teddy bears. Lots of little teddy bears. Pooh bears. And my heart finally broke. Because she wasn't just a face on the news anymore. She was a little girl who was so excited to go to a movie when she should have been in bed, who loved bears and Winnie the Pooh, and she was gone. I cried the whole way home.
@kaylavaladez26964 жыл бұрын
hrdlynoticeable yeah i went to denver just for a vacation back in 2017, i went to the mall next to the movie theater, i had the chills. i was in cali when i heard about the mass shooting, it really just gave me chills
@saraf32894 жыл бұрын
Those last sentences of the little girl are really about to make me cry 🥺
@randsom3214 жыл бұрын
"Back in 2012 mass shootings weren't so common" oof
@vanessabanales36894 жыл бұрын
ppl werent so depressed tbh
@FirstnameLastname-do1px4 жыл бұрын
Mass shootings still aren’t common place, stop being such a sheep
@noelleisabellia51934 жыл бұрын
Caleb Carrigan mass shootings are very common, actually
@esmeortega20814 жыл бұрын
@@FirstnameLastname-do1px there was more shootings in 2018 to this year, so yes they are more common. It's either every week, or every two weeks a shooting happens.
@Vercingetorix.Fantasia4 жыл бұрын
@@FirstnameLastname-do1px there's atleast one a week man.
@MsTinkerbelle873 жыл бұрын
I wish the comments were disabled. This poor girl doesn’t need unsolicited advice or be judged on how she looks or handles her trauma.
@SlimThief3 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen any comments like that
@MsTinkerbelle873 жыл бұрын
@@SlimThief I have seen many
@coryCuc3 жыл бұрын
@@MsTinkerbelle87 Then don't read them?
@Flyinclutchman2064 жыл бұрын
This shooting made me so conscious when I’m at movie theaters. And all these school shootings have made me extremely paranoid when at school and paranoid everywhere It’s sad that this has become commonplace and it’s sad our government has not been able to make a lasting change yet
@bleujay61274 жыл бұрын
Whenever I see a worker or a person walk through a theater when the movie is playing I have a tiny panic attack because my mind always thinks the worse.
@lilcosmo30694 жыл бұрын
The same with me. Its sucks .
@erikanorman9284 жыл бұрын
Candy Star me too. Every time.
@thatdudegirl85484 жыл бұрын
Same with me The more common shootings get the more anxiety I get in public places
@Mr.8ezman4 жыл бұрын
Has anyone seen the interviews of the shooter. He thinks he's playing a game, like a video game. Sick mf, RIP to the beautiful people that are gone. Someday we'll be with them.
@jasonhill28794 жыл бұрын
Mark l no he just doesn’t care
@jasonhill28794 жыл бұрын
ThatGuySky so does like every human
@DN-ru2rl4 жыл бұрын
kj Bro are you okay?
@roosterman86014 жыл бұрын
@@jasonhill2879 Uh huh, apparently Mister Rogers deserves to be in hell.
@SavageBunnyGetMoney4 жыл бұрын
@@jasonhill2879 Psychopathy is traditionally a personality disorder characterized by persistent antisocial behavior, impaired empathy and remorse, and bold, disinhibited, and egotistical traits. It is sometimes considered synonymous with sociopathy
@thesounknown3 жыл бұрын
Nice touch by the hotel staff going out of their way to help the families. We need more people like them in the world.
@abracadabraalakazam.4 жыл бұрын
7 years later and we’re dealing with this more often. If nothing changed after Sandy Hook then I have no hope that anything will change in the near future
@piperg82164 жыл бұрын
I read a story from another surviver of the shooting on Reddit a couple weeks ago!! I looked up pictures of the lost victims and the shooter, the pictures terrified me especially the ones the shooter took of himself. And I saw pictures the victim described such as a trail of blood coming from her boyfriend or husbands leg, and her friends pink flip flops that fell off when they went out the exit at the theater. I watched videos of people in the shooters trial giving their parts and I cried, especially with the one of the youngest lost soul's babysitter. The little girl who died would be around my age now (13). I can't stop thinking of the shooting and I don't think I ever will. It's great to hear another person's experience so I can know more. Thank you to this lovely lady for giving her story, and thank you BuzzFeed Unsolved for letting us hear her
@thebroman5004 жыл бұрын
I remember reading and hearing it!
@thebroman5004 жыл бұрын
It was a month ago, can't remember what month though.
@ted66074 жыл бұрын
Piper G it’s one of the highest rated posts on Reddit’s r/letsnotmeet
@HarekaTysiri4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Your comment completely describes what i feel. He looks very creepy. I also read the reddit story
@shubheksha54814 жыл бұрын
May I please get the link?
@mrs_sarahbelle69504 жыл бұрын
I remember coming home from a midnight showing of Dark Knight the same night this happened, states away in NC, and my mom just hugged me and cried, knowing that not all mothers like her were as lucky. It breaks my heart.
@ari-in8ny4 жыл бұрын
i remember going to the movies with one of my friends. we saw the back door opening and closing. we started plotting what to do if there was a shooter. we went to the bathroom for fifteen minutes just to be safe. It was a worker. The fact that this is where our minds went right away is so sad.
@samantharosee_xx68104 жыл бұрын
This is so impactful. I’m also a victim of a shooting and it has affected my life in a lot of ways... I could never imagine a shooting of this scale. I’m so sorry.
@gaithrislife4 жыл бұрын
samantharosee _xx wow! I can’t even begin to comprehend how awful that must be! I struggle with PTSD, but I’ve never experienced anything like this and I’m really grateful for that. Stay strong beautiful
@lefertap76364 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh when I heard about this I was really scared. Now I have a really bad fear of theaters but I still go. God bless you I hope u do much better
@JanXD914 жыл бұрын
its dey I’m the same way. I love going to the movies but it’s terrifying now to think that one of my favorite places could be dangerous. I worked at a theater at the time the shooting happened and I was terrified to go to work.
@itsdaniyeaa4 жыл бұрын
I’m scared of movie theatres too but you have to remember (and I know it’s hard) but you’re letting them win if it ends up stopping you from going to places and doing things you want to do 💞
@kateNwilson4 жыл бұрын
I have a fear of theaters also
@DanielDanger4204 жыл бұрын
I always go to the movies armed now.
@M4R3B34R4 жыл бұрын
@@DanielDanger420 so you can shoot blindly in the dark and end up injuring more people in the process?
@Amsayy4 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t imagine having to live through this.
@mags77804 жыл бұрын
I live in aurora and have been in that theater a lot. It’s so scary to be able to put a picture to this story and think that I could be in a room that 12 people were murdered in. She’s so brave for telling her story, I can’t even begin to say how much I respect her.
@sadiejay48194 жыл бұрын
I’ve been terrified of movie theaters ever since this shooting and I wasn’t even there.
@xmxdii5194 жыл бұрын
I legit went through and liked every comment because they are so heart felt
@grzyruth92054 жыл бұрын
Every comment is the same bro, none of their concerns are real and neither is yours
@blissfulmemories62054 жыл бұрын
Wow, I never knew that bullets went through the wall and injured anyone. I am happy she and her friends got out.
@jmacjr1014 жыл бұрын
Why does NO one talk about this shooting? It's so important!
@jerrygodeep47874 жыл бұрын
65roses93 this shooting is talked about a lot especially when Joker came out the media mentioned it a lot.
@fenderstratADHD4 жыл бұрын
jerrygodeep yeah these people’s families started a huge controversy about Joker
@solus86854 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I actually never heard about this
@lambsauce53124 жыл бұрын
NO ONE* also yes they do
@DanielMazz4 жыл бұрын
cringemaster 69 how
@morganmacdougal32594 жыл бұрын
I remember once I was in colorado at a pool in Glenwood Springs, and a woman had a batman tattoo on her back with a date-date. I thought "huh, she must really like Batman." I think about her a lot.
@melo13melo4 жыл бұрын
I went to a movie at an AMC theater right after a shooting happened. I can't remember which one it was (which is sad tbh). I was with my mom and when we sat down she saw a guy walk in by himself with a big duffel bag. The guy sat in the very back row, which was not far from us. Considering that a shooting had just happened and there had been a shooting in the mall this theater was attached to a few years prior we were freaked out by this. My mom went outside to tell one of the staff who seemed to take it seriously but literately nothing was done about it. We thought they would send security or something to make sure everything was ok but no one ever came. I kinda feel like an idiot for not leaving but we didn't know if we were just being paranoid. Everything ended up being fine but to this day I can't believe the theater didn't check. A guy walked in by himself with a big duffel bag and they did absolutely nothing about it. My mom contacted customer service after this but she never got a response.
@hehheh12044 жыл бұрын
Melo they probably looked inside the duffel bag before he got in. That’s what they always do in California.
@markkay42244 жыл бұрын
to be fair, once ur inside, i would absolutely hate being harassed by ppl watching a movie.. check me when i come in, once im in, dont bother me. telling ppl someone looks suspicious is a bit over reactive, but i get why u felt that way. imagine it happened to you, and 20 ppl went up to say u looked suspicious. i dont know, its tough.
@toriwargel4 жыл бұрын
that happened to me once at AMC! and it was right after they mentioned reporting suspicious behavior in the pre-movie commercials. odd
@TheOneGuyUKnow Жыл бұрын
One time my dad signed up for in shape gym membership and they gave him a free duffel bag. This happened outside the theater and we went inside the theater with it lol
@TheOneGuyUKnow Жыл бұрын
Like in 2008^ and I wonder if he was just bootlegged movies
@ujjwalbharadwaj11534 жыл бұрын
Her statement "now that shootings are more normal..." needs to be understood and a reality check for those in power.
@sarahbolelli48154 жыл бұрын
You are so strong and I commend you for going to the theaters even after the shooting! Facing your fears and taking something good out of a really bad situation is truly inspiring! So glad you are safe to be able to tell your story ❤
@businessofseyy35124 жыл бұрын
Poor baby 😩 you can tell she is still very scarred... and will never be the same
@poweroffriendship2.04 жыл бұрын
*1989:* The Joker fell into the vats of chemicals and went insane. *2019:* The Joker got thrown into the society. It's more toxic.
@BoomDipity4 жыл бұрын
@lovnely I don't see what the person said as a joke at all. They just depicted that society is bad because of people who would do such terrible things. Maybe a part of it was a joke, but I saw it more as a comparison.
@conspiracycornerpodcast43024 жыл бұрын
Figures someone would get triggered by your comment on a BuzzFeed video lol
@assholebyginger4 жыл бұрын
It's like the Joker from 2008 had more to do with terrorism, but the one from today is about mental health. I don't really know what to make of that.
@poweroffriendship2.04 жыл бұрын
@lovnely Well, despite the comment is actually a joke, I think it turn out to be true. What's even more interesting is that society is like a bunch of chemicals that somehow disfigured your identity and leads you into a pure insanity day by day when your mental breakdown snaps. That's how the Joker turn out to be. Batman 1989 is a circus trip made by Tim Burton, the Dark Knight is more of a detective thriller, and The Joker is more of a psychological thriller than just a supervillain movie. And about Synder's Batman? Not so much. It has nothing to do with the aspects of the real Joker.
@conspiracycornerpodcast43024 жыл бұрын
@@assholebyginger I haven't seen the new one. But really want to. Especially as someone who struggles with mental health
@sepulchrums4 жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart, I can’t imagine going through this. I’m extremely sorry you and many others had to go through this. It isn’t okay...
@tauruskala14124 жыл бұрын
Same. I can't imagine being in a mass shooting, either. I feel bad for those who have been through one.
@tiffanyi56454 жыл бұрын
The fact that there's enough "mass shooting" stories to make a series out of it, tell us that there's something seriously wrong with our country!
@journeyreese4 жыл бұрын
It's sad that we have to go everyday being afraid of getting killed for no reason when we go out in public.
@sarahjasmin76774 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace to those who lost their lives on that day. I'm so sorry.
@megangerdes39754 жыл бұрын
Having been through a school shooting I can resonate with the PTSD symptoms. Thank you for sharing your story.
@brokensoul61904 жыл бұрын
Stfu
@user-ol3wk2ds9m4 жыл бұрын
jado potato with a username like that im sure he has
@delaneywildermuth47884 жыл бұрын
Which one?
@megangerdes39754 жыл бұрын
@@delaneywildermuth4788 Look up the Millard South school shooting
@delaneywildermuth47884 жыл бұрын
Megan Gerdes Thanks, I will
@southern_belle63364 жыл бұрын
This is so heart breaking 😭 R.I.P to all the ones that died.
@lauren1894 жыл бұрын
“You don’t think shooting well more recently you do” I got chills
@Kbmt554 жыл бұрын
Cant even watch a damn movie without fearing a shooting will happen
@savage47494 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately we're at that point in society.....
@Kbmt554 жыл бұрын
@@savage4749 i really hate it like you dont even see kids outside playing anymore
@lancebettencourt69524 жыл бұрын
You don’t see kids outside because they’re all playing video games or doing things with they’re friends not like they’re scared to go outside
@Kbmt554 жыл бұрын
@@lancebettencourt6952 almost any parent would not let their kids go outside i used to see plenty of little kids outside a couple years ago now its super rare
@notsodamning4 жыл бұрын
Brandon Rosario yeah but that’s not because of shootings bruh lmaooo
@colbyandbrennen35434 жыл бұрын
Her telling us about the people coming out yelling about their loved ones really made me tear up
@kierstensmith21694 жыл бұрын
I remember seeing this on the tv the next morning and just crying for everybody who were there. Thank you for sharing your story, and being so brave to share.
@bhadrapraveen37794 жыл бұрын
the fact that shootings are so common now really upsets me. The fact that we can't really do anything about it is worse, knowing that is happening and unable to do anything.
@lucindamychelle57304 жыл бұрын
I remember reading a reddit account of it and their was a small girl in their and that was horrifying to read about.. Actually a lot of it sounds just like this tbh. But the girls boyfriend got shot and they ran through the emergency exit. They were in the same room as the shooter though. Also the girl wasn’t told where they took her boyfriend she searched for hours to find him an hour away from there.
@piperg82164 жыл бұрын
Yeah I read that one too, I looked more into it for the rest of the day after I read that. Pictures, articles about the deceased, victim's testimonies, other stories. Broke my heart
@sdg1314 жыл бұрын
I read it too
@dontworryy.4 жыл бұрын
link ?
@kaden52964 жыл бұрын
According to some victims record, the little girl was Veronica Moser Sullivan. She was shot 4 times and her mother, pregnant at the time, remained tetraplegic and lost her baby a week later. Humans can be cruel.
@jadat74394 жыл бұрын
I read that too
@ninabonina14404 жыл бұрын
Because of this I get scared and tense in movie theatres
@BlaxicanBeautyTV3334 жыл бұрын
Same, I don't like sitting in the front or middle rows because I'm scared someone will starting shooting from behind
@kealysevidal47464 жыл бұрын
@Toori Baba people are just sharing their thoughts you dont have to put people's fear down they're scared of it and there's nothing wrong with that
@N..P..4 жыл бұрын
@@kealysevidal4746 Sir with all due respect, there's an absurd amount of people acting like they were in that theater too.
@EastmanEditing4 жыл бұрын
@@N..P.. With all due respect, it is human nature to feel fear over something so horrific happening to ordinary people doing ordinary things. It wouldn't make as much sense to fear having a bomb dropped on you in Afghanistan if you never travel to that area, but it does make sense to have a healthy fear (aka: respect) for things that you can relate to personally. I feel it shows an empathy and understanding (even in the smallest sense) of what happened to the victims and their families that day. Some people have a great ability to imagine themselves in situations that they haven't personally experienced, which also creates more compassion. It's not a bad thing unless you believe fear itself is bad.
@ladydavinci99144 жыл бұрын
I remember going to see The Dark Knight Rises in NC with my dad after the Colorado shooting happened, and I was nervous. I kept checking the movie theatre exits every few minutes during the movie. I knew I was okay because my dad was with me, but still, I couldn't shake the feeling off. Another time, I went to see a Marvel film, X-Men: Apocalypse (I think) with my boyfriend, and I saw a backpack just sitting there in an empty seat with no one else around. We decided to leave the theatre and report it to the manager. Thankfully, nothing happened, and the manager ended up giving us free tickets. Honestly, it sucks when a sick person ruins a moment like this for everyone and instills this fear of wanting to go out at all.
@JustJules19914 жыл бұрын
Every time I’m at the movies. I think, “what if someone comes in and just airs this place out?” So scary
@l.c.williams98134 жыл бұрын
I survived the 2019 garlic festival shooting. This hits close to home. She is so strong
@lorainec78634 жыл бұрын
That day I was going to go but our family car broke down on the way there. So we stopped and called a tow truck to go home. I remember the day like it was yesterday 😞
@windmill45814 жыл бұрын
I don’t even go to places anymore. Distance learning online shopping exercising eating everything from my house. I can’t even go out to my Homeschool place to do a test without fear of a shooting
@avacrews66043 жыл бұрын
@@windmill4581 how old are you? no one should have to feel like that, personally i wont ever need to feel scared about guns because here in australia have them banned for over 30 yrs and have had not one mass shooting since. im not saying here in australia people dont get murderd because thats not true but def less then america because of the gun laws. i heard that in 2018 or 19 that there were something like 415 mass shootings and thats a scary number because thats more than days in a year im thirteen and glad i dont get scared to walk to school or can go to the shops but im sorry you feel like that in places that are meant to be a safe place because growing up thats what we need safe places.
@windmill45813 жыл бұрын
@@avacrews6604 I’m 16. Here in America all you see is shootings
@windmill45813 жыл бұрын
@@avacrews6604 bigger ones every year. And they seem to always not even have a motive. It’s always some dude just wanting to go kill people so he straps up and goes to school churches Walmart’s and casinos killing everyone they can. For no reason.
@trewsoo91214 жыл бұрын
Movie theaters haven’t been the same since.
@lancebettencourt69524 жыл бұрын
Ricdawg. But you know theatre’s obviously didn’t care enough to change anything for people going into the theatres until there was a certain movie with the same character they decide to change things and it might seem like I’m mad they did I’m just saying if people were really that shooken up by this which we should be it’s infuriating knowing they only want to change things because of certain things not all things
@prikas43134 жыл бұрын
what has changed honestly? besides a new fear in the backs of our minds
@greyking99394 жыл бұрын
@Toori Baba it's just statistically unlikely for another shooting to occur in the same theatre, not a reflection of regional views on guns
@prikas43134 жыл бұрын
Toori Baba I don’t quite follow, you mean more people have armed themselves so it hasn’t happened again?
@freddyslayer28534 жыл бұрын
I hope he stays in there for 773 years And god bless the people who died and got hurt
@whitneesand25784 жыл бұрын
I was 11 when this happened, and I remember that I had voice lessons a few hours before it, at a church just a couple blocks away from the theater. My family and I go there sometimes, but I’m always on edge, keeping an eye on the doors, making plans in my head for if we have to escape, even though they always have security guards around. This should not be nearly as common as it is.
@msme51044 жыл бұрын
I went to see the Joker last month in Texas. The fact that I was so scared because of this and so many shooting is sickening. Thanks for being strong💜💚💙
@Moominteapot4 жыл бұрын
I'm in the UK where shootings at least are pretty rare, but even so this thought still played on my mind when going to the joker! Making a note of exits etc...
@gmc56184 жыл бұрын
@@Moominteapot I worked at Vue in the uk and we had extra security on during the showings of joker
@andylol77804 жыл бұрын
so heart wrenching...
@madrish72264 жыл бұрын
Hello
@martaleja92794 жыл бұрын
Please give her strength!
@jessicas5643 жыл бұрын
She is brave. After hearing about that I was afraid to go to the movie theater for awhile and still think about shootings.
@fredwillins39103 жыл бұрын
Hello Jessica
@MG-qm8if3 жыл бұрын
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@rachelelisabeth62184 жыл бұрын
I think about the “what if’s/what would I do” every time I go to the theatre like she was saying. When I went to go see the new Joker movie, I was so distracted during the previews thinking of this incident. It takes courage to talk about what she experienced, thank you for sharing. ❤️