Your absolutely correct. Now she is going to have half his sht and income. He is screwed.

It’s his fault to settle with a single mother. I don’t mess with such a woman, ain’t taking care of another man’s child unless the father is deceased. He wasn’t there when he was enjoying that cookie. He needs to run.

Let's hope he doesn't have to pay alimony. Hope he just walks away

@@mattmasteringer4399 What a sweeping genre and old fashioned judgement. Not all single parents are the same as this women. Women of age can take advantage of a man, single or not. Men do the same of women, in other ways. The majority of single women are responsible, even if this one isn’t.

she wants half thats why.

Is it his mistake if she didn't share that information?

I made the same mistake.

@@BF-sb5zs No, a simp would still be talking her up. He's a chump.

The husband is an annuity to her. The stepson is an annuity to her. That’s it. That’s why there is a “custody issue.”

Yup He’s being used

Ugly custody battle for woman meant she lost custody or she wasn't that fit

Counting on spousal support and possibly child support. He better leave now - it’s only four years in. Love is not enough - compartibility I’d beyond attraction.

She drifts though life seeing kids and spouses as convertible annuities. (Child support and alimony). Not all women are wired like this but many women are and you can’t change that. The relationship is transactional that way. Forget the therapist,..,he needs an attorney. A strategic thing he CAN do is cut off the money flow so she can’t fund her attorney. Force her to settle quickly.

And he is supporting her son.

@@rosebush7000 He's not on the hook for child support when the kid isn't his. But yeah ... leave now and leave her with half their debt.

My ex-wife was like that. Women like that like to bite the hand which feeds. Now I'm debt free and she's up to her eyeballs in it.

Same here!! They are like kryptonite to the single man.

Same. Glad i did it

Exactly

Why do men get trapped like this.. crazy

@@ambert5302 Sex and charm. In the beginning at least.

Jody already got sidekick.

Insane

Yeah, modern empowered woman right there....

Crazy / stupid people don't think long-term. My ex-wife was going to be broke without me and all she could focus on during the divorce was "I'll be fine because I'm going to take half your stuff". Took no more than 6 months post-divorce for her to be underwater on everything she owned. Didn't matter, wasn't in the "thought box" unti the day came.

@@thepracticalblade9013 if you are bad with money it doesn’t matter how much you are given, you will shortly run out!

Actually, stop sexual contact...

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She can get pregnant by other men and he's on the dough. That's 40 percent of his pay.

Yeah, Jesus ain't going to court for him 👍

Seriously

Hopefully men wake up and stop looking at single moms for an easy lay.

He needs both.

@ih8leftistfilthThis

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God bless you!

Exactly

Especially when you and her don’t have any kids together.

@@larrybarbee4916 the guy needs some balls

Mgtow

I think he's paying the 'stupid tax' that a wife isn't loyal or grateful just because you provide everything in her life and her child.

damn straight

The tattoo on his chest is "Bottomless ATM"

This is the definition why not to date or marry a mother of another man's child.

Concur. Marriage is an obsolete concept that has no place in contemporary society. Have the same girl/boyfriend for life, fine. EVERY day you wake up you make a choice to WANT to be together, not the law saying you HAVE to be together. WTH kind of phucked up system is that? Anyone thinking marriage is "good" is either a gold digger (male or female) or an insecure SIMP (male or female).

Even the domestic violence is complete BS. They are always the victim!!!!

If she's seen domestic abuse, there's a good chance she'll be violent or try to push you to be violent as well. It's dangerous to date those women.

@@beatdown3361 it’s statistically proven that over 33% of domestic abuse allegations against men are false. I’m sure there are more that are false but not proven.

@@Excalibur2 truest comment right here. Take notes fellas

Yup. Single moms are poison.

exactly what I was thinking. This dude is probably average looking and may consider himself to be a loser and he saw a gorgeous woman on vacation who was going through a divorce and he thought he would simp and "save" her. Turns out she was divorced for a reason and now his life is going to suck

Came here to say this! Sure, go to counseling and all that, but definitely he needs a good lawyer.

He’s screwed. Hes gonna go through some pain

Idk about Virginia but some states he’s on the hook for child support as well for a child that isn’t even his.

Single mother challenges, child's father bounced for a reason, in came the nice who is about to pay dearly.

​@@MattyLight30"F" that 🙄

She might end up with half of his stuff

@@alluringbliss4165 so be it

@@alluringbliss4165 Hmmm, that’s no reason to stay in a marriage. I’d rather be broke, start over and be happy. He sounds young enough to do so, but even if he were older, do it for your sanity. Nothing is worth living with misery.

@@kcc3985 I agree, it takes an emotional toll overtime.

He does want to leave, but he doesn't want to leave her with no apartment as she cannot afford to rent one. He doesn't need a therapist, he needs a good lawyer.

She probably already has one on deck.

This fellow is trying to be a good christian man. That's foolish! Someone else decides what is a good christian man. He should focus on being good at being a man. He'll be much more content.

He better run before he has a child with her.

He needs a good lawyer

Run as fast as he can...adios

hit it one last time then bounce lol

​@@maxlasaternot worth the risk

Princess money pit😂.

Ya man up and move on. Lets go!!💪

Yeah I got that impression to he knows it’s over but he’s invested so much she doesn’t want to cash out

He probably in love or thinking with the wrong head

Also difficult to leave when you know that doing so is going to also harm her child as well if she can’t support him. Tough all around

Because it sounds like leaving appears like it’s dumping her and the kid on the street if she can’t get an apartment. But with how manipulative she sounds I think she’d just find another supporter honestly.

But it was his fault, he shouldn’t have settled with a single mother in the first place. He is a high value man, why did he settle with a woman with a lot miles on her. He is a travel nurse and I’m sure he has a lot options of woman he can choose.

@@mattmasteringer4399 but she's hawt dude :)

This is why you run a credit report if you are going to marry someone, see if they owe IRS or back child support. If they do give them a year to fix it or marriage is off....and no living together either...end it completely

Spot-on! An account that’s bad with money… It’s like having an obese Nutritionist/Personal Trainer.

She used her accounting skills to size up this man as her victim. Dumb like a fox.

​@@9StickNate Fat people make great nutritionists, just like great landscapers have messy lawns. They spend so much time taking care of others that they can't take care of themselves. It doesn't mean they're bad at their job.

femininity avoids it even when it has a degree in it.

an accountant who can't manage her own finances. Terrifying.

😂😂😂😂 Coach gang

🫡😔(TAPS plays in the background 🎺)

He needs to go to junior college. 😂

@@knowthyself8233 Bringem Young University lol

@@Allergic2broke with a fist full of twenties 😂🤣🤣

It really sounds to me like he walked right into this one

Poor gump got played. This is why you don’t date or marry single mothers

This bruh is a Cuck, if she were to move another dude in, he still wouldn't kick her out

Great guy, Yes. But was he blind to her character flaws or refused to acknowledge them? I’d like to know the type of women he is attracted to, and why? He might be attracted to “damsels in distress”. He might need to rescue women to feel important. To feel fulfilled. I’m just guessing. But it seems she had her issues b4 they met. Would be nice to know why her 1st marriage broke up.

@@Dividendflywheel I see what you’re saying. He said after they started dating she went through a nasty custody battle; that makes me thinks she was good & hiding how bad she was with money & it all came out when they got married which is terrible. I don’t think he’s attracted to them, but I do think he doesn’t wanna leave this kid on the street with his mess mom & this kind of thing is what breeds guys to continue to do that. Losing control

That kid not his issue . If they don't have kids he probably should go .

@@truebengalsfan nobody said it was, but he has a heart & doesn’t wanna leave the kid with a mess of a mom. It’s not his problem but it is commendable; he’s a great guy

She is a baggage without the child.

So true. Its scary

Unless she has proven she can live on her own for a while and has morals

Raising my own kids has been hard enough. I don't think I have the capacity to raise another man's kids.

I married a woman without kids, but i feel like this dude as i pay most of the bills while she continues racking up debt. Sure i could get a divorce but with a son and cost of living i would be in a worse situation as i essentially pay her rent and mine.

Dating and marrying a single mom has A LOT of challenges. I can understand your decision. But I will not put all single mom’s into the financially irresponsible category.

Not all, but most. There are different types of single moms. A widow is very different than a single mom who got knocked up from a guy she met at the club. But generally speaking, single moms are a very poor choice.

@@ilacallya324great answer!! Single mum here who raised 4 amazing children…..2 of whom are now millionaires 😂❤

I doubt her team includes her son unless he's a tool or pawn.

Legally he is stuck with her son now

The Father is some Chad or Tyrone who is probably in the clink… she settled for a nice guy…a walking wallet…

@@hiteshadhikari not unless he adopted him. Did he say that he did? I didn’t hear that.

@@wenchyfoodwench4098 nope, he married her and if she has sole custody, he will be liable for her son, esp because she now seems to be unemployed etc

She needs to give the son to the father!!!

“Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will reveal to us later.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭18‬ ‭NLT‬‬ Sometimes that is what life is. Remember as believers we are to be set apart from the world. He can’t think like the world thinks and just run. He probably takes his commitment seriously because he made a vow in front of God. He just has to trust God to see him through this season. God has a funny way of working things out. His wife could do a 180 when God is finish with her. Everyone has their season of challenges they have to go through.. Something Christian have to do is stop listening to the world and start listening to God.

Far from it, there is nothing in the bible about living this way. Read Matthew Ch. 5, especially the part where Jesus talks about what it means to divorce and be with someone else, and you'll see what I mean. Part of me thinks you are developing a strawman of Christianity to make it seem like it lacks common sense and that you're smarter than it, but this guy made a mistake to do this. Him saying that he's "trying to be a good man" is just a justification for it

Depends if she’s a Christian or not as well. If a non-believer wants to leave, then the divorce is permissible.

Read Boundaries. Being good doesn't mean being weak.

​@@nataliepope3286I agree. But while praying for God's intercession, he must safeguard his emotional and financial well-being. If the wife comes around transformed for the better, then she is part of God's plan for him, and he for her. I trust he would grow wiser in the process. He seems to be an outstanding man. But there is always room for improvement.

Not so easy being married with a step kid.

@@dahbajanman7044 When I married my beloved late wife, I also became the step-dad of her 12 year old son. Was DAMN difficult, but ultimately well worth it. He was the "teenager from Hell", but matured to be a kind, smart, successful family man. He credits me (his bio-dad is a nice guy, but little involved). Though she's passed on (6 years now) I still am blessed to have a son, daughter-in-law, and 2 wonderful grandkids.

He seems like a cuck dude that would tolerate worse 😂

Yup. Men need to wise up

Yeah hopefully some single dudes can learn from this and stay the heck away from single mothers.

people with kids 18 and over as well---the drama doesn't end at 18yr

plus a lot of grandparents have to take care of their grandchildren d/t neglectful stupid parents

Don’t marry anyone with kids period if you don’t have kids.

She probably forced him out of the picture when this doormat came onboard.

Probably abandoned them but pays child support.

No child support, it is not his son and he has no responsibility. They were only married for 4 years, spousal support shouldn't be too bad. e needs a lawyer, not a therapist

Don't risk getting a baby-momma with your bit of fun.

Nailed it, bad custody battle and trying to be a good man? 🚩🚩🚩🚩

Lolz

Ramsey loves Captain SAH.

ohh comeon World is better off without such simping men.

He's already unstoppable. Even with his terrible wife dragging him down. He needs to leave her and never look back.