I’ve Feared This Day For 15 Years
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Want to share your story? Email Me at Baldcafe (at) outlook (dot) com Welcome to this Episode of Bald Cafe LIVE.
In this episode we welcome Jakub.
Jakub has been preparing for this moment for 15 years but it was not an easy step to take. Jake shares his thoughts and feeling around going bald and we see the moment he shaves his head bald for the first time.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Intro
00:34 Head Shave Attempts
01:14 Head Shave Begins
01:50 Half Head Shave Look
02:20 Finishing the Head Shave
02:57 Friends React
03:07 My Must Hear Advice
03:44 How My Hair Changed With Age
06:08 THIS Made Me Feel Ready To Shave It
06:38 Touch on Covering/treating
06:57 Did I feel Insecure?
07:23 This gave me the final push
08:22 How I Really feel After Shaving My Head Bald
09:04 Outro
Thank you so much for sharing your story Jakub and thank you for watching 🤝
#Baldcafe #Balding #goingbald
@PopaFlorinCONCEPT Жыл бұрын
Bro, as a barber, i really appreciate the work you do, to help people accept the reality of going bald, not easy..
@RyPie51 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the tribe, brother.
@WingsOfAgeOfConsent Жыл бұрын
Not here to conversate man
@RyPie51 Жыл бұрын
@@WingsOfAgeOfConsent You're in the wrong place then.
@WingsOfAgeOfConsent Жыл бұрын
@@RyPie51 talk about the game
@andrewlawson3798 Жыл бұрын
Yes, welcome!
@pereiraabrahao5318 Жыл бұрын
Bem vindo
@grantsarbon7210 Жыл бұрын
Not balding yet but I love seeing people just embrace themselves. Looks great too
@Doodsinho Жыл бұрын
DAMN! This dude was born to look like this. This is the best look for you, by far! You're at your peak my brother, looking good + no anxiety, stress from hair loss. Congratulations for being brave and taking the plunge 🍻
@gillianbarker2663 Жыл бұрын
Look younger
@cookiesontoast9981 Жыл бұрын
It's because he's lucky to have such a full beard. People just look so much better bald with a beard.
@user-cy6xl3vd3f Жыл бұрын
@@cookiesontoast9981 very true. My hair is thin and I hope my beard will be good enough if someday I decide to shave my head
@stevenscummy1458 Жыл бұрын
true, after he shaved it and was talking to baldcafe I forgot he just shaved his head, just looks like a natural cool bald guy
@craigg2058 Жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat, huge fear to shave it off. Always think I'll look horrible, and be stared at in public lol. But everyone on this channel who shaves it looks great and I wouldnt look twice at them in public for being bald. Good job Gents, my turn is coming because of this channel.
@ashleyhalcrow5945 Жыл бұрын
@@anneboyer6359 Go away Anne. This channel isn’t for people like yourself. Go spread your negativity elsewhere, this space is for bald and balding men/woman struggling to deal with it.
@BF3jonhson10 Жыл бұрын
Think about it like this, most people you pass by in your daily life have never seen you with hair before. Those who have won't care either way, most you might get is a comment about it, unless they're dickheads of course.
@ExtremelySkilledGamer Жыл бұрын
@@anneboyer6359 You'd definitely leave him for a handsome guy with amazing hair if he went bald lmao
@Wishmaster145 Жыл бұрын
No solution is good and definitive in todays times really, and hair or not in my experience shaving really gave me that push to let go and stop caring about what people might think, i would never get rid of otherwise, i just have a little bold spot in top really but somehow i didnt want it to cut them even if i didnt like them long at the same time.
@shyman99 Жыл бұрын
Craig - Make sure you record and post it so we can all celebrate with you
@rafaelaugusto8899 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the video. This shows how much the aesthetic industry works and spreads the idea of beauty, making something simple and natural, like hair loss, so difficult and painful for some people.
@Baldcafe Жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more!
@Xenor999 Жыл бұрын
I mean it completely changes you so of course people will wanna tell people that they need to not change themselves
@stephenmichaels6682 Жыл бұрын
@@Baldcafe ,now your ready for that new micropigmintation tattoo that they are doing on heads to look like hair.
@mateo7543 Жыл бұрын
Polak. Dobra decyzja bracie. Też się ogoliłem około miesiąc temu dzięki temu kanałowi. Najlepsza decyzja w życiu.
@kus3994 Жыл бұрын
też miałem długie włosy i nadal mam, ale patrząc na to, że mam linię włosów po ojcu i zakola wiem że za niedługo będę musiał się ogolić na łyso ...
@mateo7543 Жыл бұрын
@@kus3994 ja dlugo się bałem, zaczesywalem na bok itd. Ostatnimi czasy z rana czułem się tragicznie, do tego codziennie musiałem myć włosy.
@lordwiadro83 9 ай бұрын
Ja tez wlasnie sie ogolilem. Czy najlepsza decyzja? Chyba i tak nie mialem wyjscia. Musze sie przyzwyczaic. Mam 40 lat a Balfcafe ogladam od 2 lat.
@mateo7543 9 ай бұрын
@@lordwiadro83 za tydzień mija 1 rocznica mojej łysej glacy. Bez dwóch zdań najlepsza decyzja. Też nie mailem wyjścia, no chyba że przeszczep ale ogolenia się na 0 nie żałuję
@JaimeMesChiens Жыл бұрын
You actually look younger bald! And handsome, too. You were afraid you wouldn’t look as good, and you ended up looking so handsome.
@childishhambiino6020 Жыл бұрын
I'm 2:58 in and already feel immensely proud of you for doing this. YOu look great too! I shaved mine off about 2 months ago now and have not regretted it a single bit!
@sedwards2207 Жыл бұрын
Woman here. You look fabulous!! Well done!
@karentaylor6919 Жыл бұрын
You look 💯 % better with no hair !! You're rocking the buzz !! Well done in taking the plunge 😊
@James9399_ Жыл бұрын
Look great bro. Could literally feel that panic when he couldn’t do it. I was the same. It is such a relief when you do it.
@robertjag167 Жыл бұрын
I have been balding for like 10 years now. I resorted to a 2mm buzzcut. You can still see the bald spot but I feel like.. this is perfectly fine and I'm ok with it. I have never worried about my balding that much thankfully so seeing someone who is very self-aware of it cutting it of and feeling relieved brings me joy!
@jarvis4372 Жыл бұрын
Seems like such a lovely bloke
@lesterbronson2385 Жыл бұрын
I’m digging the wholesome content/vibes. Been rocking the shaved head in public at last this past year. It’s a liberating feeling for the lack of better words. Owning up to it builds confidence and it’s nice to know nobody gives a damn (in a good way). Thank you Harry for being the true friendly lad that you are. You have definitely helped me big time with this journey.
@whitewolf-hn2sk Жыл бұрын
If you ever read this jakub. Just remember this a life lived in fear is a life half lived... Welcome to the bald tribe brother
@john9755 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'm in the tribe too.
@bradt2797 Жыл бұрын
Mate being bald so suits you, certainly has made you look years younger, you will kick yourself now for not shaving it off years ago, a whole new world of confidence awaits you .
@ph-vf5hx Жыл бұрын
Right, it's not really just the matter of 'going bald'. Some people, like him, look fine without hair.
@justinfuller7540 Жыл бұрын
It’s liberating shaving your head, I love it now!
@sjokomelk Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club, Jakub! Well done! 👏
@aggressivelyaverage1 Жыл бұрын
Your honesty and vulnerability here are awesome. Anyways it turned out good, so good on you!
@fisherboxingacademy Жыл бұрын
He looks so good! Congratulations brother 👑
@BlackPlectrum Жыл бұрын
Man, you look awesome with that shaved head! Trim the beard a little and you'll look even more AMAZING.
@istvanbally2817 Жыл бұрын
Good choice, bro. Sounds like you have gained a ton of confidence. Good for you!
@1980alsful Жыл бұрын
Looks way better. Well done mate
@Countapple Жыл бұрын
3:15 Tbh I thought it was Baldcafe himself sitting there! You look good brother, took mine one year ago and I’ve never looked back! Greetings from Norway!
@monztermovies Жыл бұрын
Took me into my mid 40’s to admit it….shaved it because of this channel and feeling better about it little by little. Cheers to you, ya look great! 🤘
@martesdemoluscos773 Жыл бұрын
this is amazing brother, i just had my first shave at age 17, all my life my self-esteem was pretty low, i used to hate myself so much because of the odd shape of my thick hair, now it's just me and my face, shaving takes all ego away, getting to connect with your body this way is the best feeling
@ntheroikz2549 Жыл бұрын
Youre badass for a 17yo my boy ! Congrats !
@evilkenevil766 Жыл бұрын
Shaving my head was the greatest thing I’ve ever done for myself , I had bad thinning hair and one day I just said “ I’m done “ , and went for it , I LOVE it . Bald with a nice beard is always a killer look 🤘🏻🤘🏻
@benhunter3962 Жыл бұрын
I have also gone through the transition recently and I must say - it genuinely suits you. I think you look awesome dude.
@27laylow70 Жыл бұрын
I’m 21 and this channel helped me a lot to take the plunge. I started going bald by the time I was 14 and already lost most of my crown at 17. It was rough during those years but I’m doing a lot better now. Some days it’s still hard for me but it’ll get better as time goes by.
@L1cktySplit Жыл бұрын
At the age of 14 ??? So early man..
@nikodemus6315 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I lost mine at 14 too. Was so hard experiencing that at school. The jokes and nights out getting laughed at
@tosoreket Жыл бұрын
Just did it last night. Massive relief. Feel awesome
@Baldcafe Жыл бұрын
Great to hear!
@jimbo0411 Жыл бұрын
Mine went like that too. Had long 80's rock hair then as I got older, the front widows peak, then the back of head spot got bigger. Shaved it , now been 17 years ago. I still wear hats in public , never been happy with it, think I look better with hair but it looks better than having balding hair.
@jasonbrody2946 Жыл бұрын
Same is gonna happen to me pal, i have long hair for the past 7 years, but i am gonna shave them in some months because i am norwooding... Unfortunately
@emanuel3461 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the Club. It looks good!
@The.Last.Guitar.Hero. Жыл бұрын
My head has been shaved for 13 years now, I literally don't give it a second thought anymore but remember all the stress of watching it recede
@LoveTonsure Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your Happy Balding! So brave transformation!
@mdasilva5599 Жыл бұрын
You look great brother 💪🏼 PS: What a great channel, so much love in the comments 🙏🏻
@captainwasel8377 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to him since I had a long hair (ponytail) for over a decade so I know how hard it is at first to shave it all off. I was fully aware that I won't have a long hair forever and this channel definitely helped me a lot. In May this year I cut my hair shorter and after like 10 days I have decided that I should just shave it all off for the first time in my life. Feeling much better now and the reaction from people is never as bad as you would think, the vast majority don't even care or say anything.
@Noctifern Жыл бұрын
exactly, like I know for a fact when I see a bald guy I never even think about it. it's completely normal and not as big of a deal as your mind makes you think, I'm not even bald or going bald but I like these vids alot. seems to help alot of guys
@captainwasel8377 Жыл бұрын
@@Noctifern you're absolutely right. All the videos are encouraging and helps a lot of men take back control of their lives.
@maorizio1 Жыл бұрын
@@captainwasel8377 If you’re worry about what others think, it’s a lot more complicated problem than the hair itself. I have a problem of going bald because of myself and not what others think.
@captainwasel8377 Жыл бұрын
@@maorizio1 that's absolutely correct. Most people are busy living their lives anyway so they wouldn't take something minor as someone else's hair as their main focus.
@orlandodanao371 Жыл бұрын
I had the exact same hesitations first and smile after i started
@JaDjok Жыл бұрын
Man, I kid you not and I am not trying to flatter you, I found this video randomly in my feed, but I have to say, you look good. I would even say, that you look better with a shaved head. And trust me, I have a sense of beauty. That is a part of my job, and a lot of people tell me that.
@Lasse_Bongo Жыл бұрын
You look great! Well done!
@apemanhill Жыл бұрын
Nice one, fella. Looks a lot better 👌
@ciaranmceldowney9010 Жыл бұрын
Congrats, looks soooo much better 👏👏👏
@petsandmore5266 Жыл бұрын
You are looking smart bro. Keep up the great and confident look.
@ST-mn6nw Жыл бұрын
Looks so much better bald
@Tiss382 Жыл бұрын
His smile after the first pass 😊
@rafaelalexie2417 Жыл бұрын
Brother looks like a rock star
@KerryFairbanks Жыл бұрын
If you read the book No More Mr Nice Guy, the author Dr Robert Glover says not shaving your head can be due to people pleasing behavior (he's bald shaved)
@johnny_belmont Жыл бұрын
Bro, it looks so much better. Good job.
@psychopoison Жыл бұрын
Looking Badass man, congrats
@PAOK-G4-Orcs Жыл бұрын
Looks great Brother
@Alex-ut7op Жыл бұрын
Great video and another guy that looks better with a shaved head!
@Darthsiddiousful Жыл бұрын
Welcome to your new life 😎👌🏾
@michaelschuett Жыл бұрын
I felt like I was listening to an 80’s movie in the intro. Bald look suits him.
@sonicart1808 Жыл бұрын
You look 1 million percent better without the fluff believe me..... well done for taking the step Jakub.
@johnnybracciole5490 Жыл бұрын
Was going bald had to shave my head at 25 was very nervous about it got nothing but compliments from the ladies ever since then.
@kennethrodriguez5183 Жыл бұрын
So brave brother. I definitely recommend you a beard shape, trim it to it look its best
@pereiraabrahao5318 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@pereiraabrahao5318 Жыл бұрын
Ocupa baixar mais a barba ele.
@craignorthrop3719 Жыл бұрын
You look great bro!!
@TheSaturnMan8227 Жыл бұрын
I understand. I recently took it all off. And it’s is very freeing. I get more compliments about how much better I look Vs hanging on to what hair I had,. I wish more balding men would take the plunge.
@Edu_SM Жыл бұрын
Bienvenido colega!!
@John-xl5iv Жыл бұрын
Look good, can’t lie. Beard fitting nicely too.
@navyspook79 Жыл бұрын
My friend it really sucks in the beginning because it's something you don't want to accept but it turns out to be a confidence builder. You got this now, rock it.
@dor4376 Жыл бұрын
Hi Jakub! Siemanko! You look great! Love this channel!
@mikenikolovski8792 Жыл бұрын
love the big beard with the shaved head man..
@sbenn6917 Жыл бұрын
Haha, been there, I think the beard with shaved head looks good on you man.
@sadeaton Жыл бұрын
I saw this one gentleman the other day with his hair parted just above his ear, the most spectacular comb over I have ever seen.
@616midian Жыл бұрын
Yeah i'm sure xd
@RicoTheUnknown Жыл бұрын
So much better 👏
@VamanNeurekar Жыл бұрын
I went bald this Tuesday after dealing with a receeding hairline and hair fall problems for more than 4 years. Feels damn good! Edit: typo
@theidiotfiles9414 Жыл бұрын
Gratz man it feels like a new you kinda
@shyman99 Жыл бұрын
Should have recorded and posted it so we can celebrate the moment with you
@viShNu-iv5pj Жыл бұрын
so shaving every 2 days is so irritating right. horse show shadow also come when all front hair is gone
@shyman99 Жыл бұрын
@@viShNu-iv5pj - Men used to shave their face every day. So what's the big deal of shaving a head every other day? Although there's nothing wrong with horse show shadow if they don't want to shave so often.
@viShNu-iv5pj Жыл бұрын
@@shyman99 Bro shaving a head is not that easy like shaving a face. Also scalp skin is too much sensitive also. Have you heard about keloids, keloid can occur from razor cuts if your skin is keloid prone. Also if you are an indian nobody will like the full shaven look, no girls will look at you with attraction.
@s2theven594 Жыл бұрын
It looks much better than before bro 😉👍
@goatree_saluberrimae Жыл бұрын
I knew from the beginning you will look great. Rock on
@AlyssaSunshineAngel Жыл бұрын
A good look for you!
@firstname3255 Жыл бұрын
Brother turned into Floki! I love it man! Hell yeah
@RickCT2000 Жыл бұрын
Great video...Like your insights
@skiwop5366 Жыл бұрын
Older video I see, but I just shaved my head two days ago ! I love it so far. We love a bald king congrats man
@Baldcafe Жыл бұрын
Congratulations 👏
@lukey5833 Жыл бұрын
I'm gonna drink some mead before my next head shave in honour.
@seapot9675 Жыл бұрын
Zajebiście wyszło
@gorkaportu Жыл бұрын
You look great!!!👌
@PedroUR Жыл бұрын
You look great shaved. Great decision.
@Apollo_Blaze Жыл бұрын
He looks great...so handsome!
@7Andy77 Жыл бұрын
Turned 32 today. Damn... My hair line has gone back quite a lot recently. I'm afraid that this is my future too
@netanelaker4437 Жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you that you found your style, and you really are rocking the new look :) Baldness is hard to pull off and you did it. Question - did you try Minoxidil? Other treatments?
@tigerward88 Жыл бұрын
Looks great really suits you
@pankajkadam3471 Жыл бұрын
You look awesome bro
@Ailasor Жыл бұрын
one of us, one of us!!!
@wojitechintros Жыл бұрын
Na serio wyglada super 👌👌👌
@parker75 Жыл бұрын
He looks 10 years younger. Fantastic 👍
@dAr3s Жыл бұрын
Suits you dude, welcome to the club!! Glad you took the jump. Of course your barber said it was good to keep it (you pay his wages)😂 You have a bit of a Nick Oliveri thing going on now too 👍👍
@louispolistico4613 Жыл бұрын
You look way younger and it suits you ! Been shaving mine for 12 yrs now low maintenance lol 😂! Nice job ….
@feedapony Жыл бұрын
Look much much better. You look you ger for it bro
@baldnbearded Жыл бұрын
He looks great!
@jerrywilson5173 Жыл бұрын
Best thing I ever did was buzzing my hair. I started losing my hair in my early 20’s. I tried to hide it for years and I finally buzzed it of in my mid 40’s. I kept it that way for six yrs and I finally shaved it on my 50th birthday!!! I love my twig and leaf razors. 🪒🧼😁❤️👨🦲
@JamesVytas Жыл бұрын
Looks so much better now
@congerscott6064 Жыл бұрын
I said screw it, I shave my head with the lowest attachment and grew a big beard, looks good man, you made a good choice 👍.
@BAK87 Жыл бұрын
You look bad-ass shaved my man.
@HLl564 Жыл бұрын
I have been through so much in life the hair is a small issue. Turning 40 soon. It is not fun but I love the masculine look of it. This channel helped me cut my hair off.
@lordwiadro83 9 ай бұрын
I, too, just turned 40 and shaved my head. After 2 years of struggle when I first discovered things were going bad. Do I like it? Not sure, will take some time to get used to. But at this point I have no choice. The feeling of relief is there for sure. At least I don't have to watch my decaying hair everyday in the mirror.
@HLl564 9 ай бұрын
@@lordwiadro83 It takes around a year to grow into the baldness, its a process
@user-lg8ux1rt6d Жыл бұрын
So much better 👍👍👍
@rodneyt72 Жыл бұрын
You've got a great look for a shaved head man.
@Bulgarov_ Жыл бұрын
Looking good! 👍
@opopop6 Жыл бұрын
这个频道很棒！给于了一直受心里挣扎的人勇敢的踏出第一步，我也是看了baldcafe然后剃光了头，不再每天的骗自己，一直为头发而烦恼，去吧兄弟们，时代不同了，开始你会觉得人怎么去看你，其实比你每天盖来盖去好得多，放下心里挣扎的包袱你会自由很多。
@Lukemasonmedia Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the brotherhood 🧑🦲
@lanieheyneke Жыл бұрын
Wow how stunning and you look so much younger 👌👏🤩 You should have done it ages ago 😍🇿🇦