Go to a therapist, not a coach. Coaches are maninly charlatans that do a few hours training

She ain’t special. Happens all the time

Yes, from the sound of his response it’s probably a compulsion on his part and something he could explore in therapy if he ever wants to be happy

You can tell she’s gonnu take him back. She hasn’t said it. So in the back of her mind it’s not over. Give it a few months. They will be back together.

Some people are deeply troubled.

It must be awful for her.

He didn’t cheat 24 hours after the engagement. He did it before the engagement, but she found 24 hours after the engagement.

you wish.

But she is? So why should she downplay it? I know I'm a good writer for example, should I be afraid to say it...just to avoid giving other people the "ick"?

Think I would be when she's ranting 😂

😅 limelight how? The only reason she discovered the cheating is because she showed his face for the first time when she announced the engagement. He got no "limelight" from their relationship

My thoughts also , he probably felt overshadowed, hiding one's significant other wrecks havoc on the person supposedly being protected. I say lucky escape on this one .

he is boring

That was his sympathy face.

The issue is that it's disrespectful and hurtful. Men & women cheat, and men & women are scared to be cheated. I have not heard of evidence that it really is in men's nature. And if it is in nature, that it's somehow just men's and not (some) human's predisposition to be explorative in general. Also, note that the reason people cheat is often because they feel insecure, want to do something forbidden, dissatisfaction, etc. We're simplifying the issue if we just put it down to 'men's nature'. I could see the logic if that is really in 'men's nature', how he tried to conceal it, as just a fling that he played around with(though as stated in the video, he texted with the girl he cheated on even after) and not something serious, and that he still truly wants to be with the woman in this video. But it doesn't mean she will not be hurt by that, of course she will. Any guy in her place would too, unless it's something a couple agreed upon earlier. He could've told her, but he probably thought that she wont hurt if she doesn't know. The guy is probably polyamorous(should've told her when he found out), or is putting band-aid solution on something he could've resolved with someone he must've said he love and respects. He's in the wrong for cheating, and that's the fact of the matter.

Maybe she does not want any germs from men who cheat or maybe she thinks she is special, ask her why?

He can tango alone. 😂

He certainly can, free of the overbearing lifestyle and misery she gave him

@@twinpotracer He wants her to take him back. Clearly, she wasn't overbearing. His loss. 😃

@@natashadickson4819 no, he does not..

@@twinpotracer 😃😃😃

It’s a magazine show not news

I'm interested to be fair...

clearly tickled your fancy as you clicked on it and watched it 🤷‍♀️

Why is she a narcissist? Do you know her?

@Rise-and-Shine333 You can tell she's a narcissist in the first few seconds of this interview. Also, the claims she kept him out of the spotlight for his protection is something a narcissist would say. Also, she keeps self-promoting by plugging her books. And going back to the point of keeping him out of the spotlight. What spotlight does she mean? She is not an A-lister. I didn't even know who she was or still know who she is.

@@joekerry741 maybe you could use the term narcissistic. Calling people narcs online without much evidence at all says more about the person calling another a narcissist which means to have a personality disorder. Theres a huge difference between being highly narcissistic and being a narcissist and being disordered. And whilst that may not seem important it absolutely is. Dont get me wrong she may well be a narc but we don’t know her therefore it’s safer to assume they have narcissistic traits which we all have.

He cheated and now he wants her back. She's not the narcissist. 😂😂😂

@natashadickson4819 He cheated because he wanted to have some control, Subconsciously he wanted her to find out

Nothing you wrote made any sense and your use of grammar is terrible. You want to comment about the intelligence of other people? LOL

What the world needs now is love, sweet love ❤️

It's because she works on the show, and is often on the show giving advice to people. As a life coach who works on the show, it makes a lot of sense to do a segment where she talks about her recent experiences and offers advice to people who are also going through heartbreak.

😅😅 it's wild you think this is the news😂

It's not a news show. It's a talk show.

I agree, and they are cringing when she is talking about herself being a public figure and telling the paps not to take his picture to protect him but now she is sitting on national TV spilling her private life.

@@vimtorules she is talking over them...which doesn;t show many life skills. (and does not shut up) BTW who is she??

@mimig6511 a life coach / relationship advisor from ITV This morning and author of I'm Wiser .

@mimig6511 they are interviewing so she is supposed to be talking 😊 if you're not interested, then just click off the video 😊

@leahlovesroses I watched it live, and I was interested and curious re her behaviour/ language, which enabled me to reach my conclusion .

Exactly, she's not even a therapist. Anyone can be a coach

yes

@@sarahharris2729 do u know how many couples get counciling and continue when this happens.

It's her decision and she also said he's been cheating with multiple women.

@@CrystalRuby92 i didn't say its not her decision did i? Im asking do u have to break up 'a good thing' over this immediately?

@@scartwright9350 nobody said that you do in general. Not even Michelle did. But you're commenting under this particular video, so I assume your referring to her particular experience. And she's made her decision and again, in this case it wasn't even a one time thing, it was multiple times. That's not worth fighting for, no matter how good.

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He wasn't put off. He wants her back. His loss. 😂

@kitkat7491 me too lol !

Isn't she awful?! No insight at all.

Did he get a word in? She over talks the issue. He was a rat but I think she is overbearing to the extreme. I now have a headache and she is a name dropper. 😂

@@catrescuer I had a headache too! 😫

I wonder why he cheated on this narcissist?

To raise kids

Why are some men so intent on lying about being on board with it?

You must be the cheating fiancé @dkleinm

Help me understand why men need validation from multiple woman?

@@Rise-and-Shine333 not sure all do but low levels of polyamory shouldn’t break up a relationship or an engagement.

I thought this! She's so irritating

No there isn't two sides...theres a cheater and someone who is being cheated on...there sorted it for you.He wants her back and shes saying "so long farewell...moving on up,moving on free,time to break free..." ain't got time for cheaters and liars but obviously you have ? maybe its because you are one ? liar,manipulator ? You need to go away and think about that.

@upendasana7857 There is his side. I just don't blindly believe her.

@@upendasana7857 what are you talking about 🤣🤣🤣🤣

People’s perception can be cruel 🙄 a cheater is a cheater, I hope you find your forever person, keep being strong 💪

Because he didn't know exactly what she looked like when he matched with her, when they got into a relationship and when they got engaged, right? 🙄

What a nasty hurtful comment

@@camellia8625 thank you you’re such a doll. How can somebody be a life coach? And not know what’s going on and their personal life. BS

It's not her size. Why was he living with her? No one forced him to be there. And making plans to marry her? No good. Glad she found out before marriage. He needs to get his own place. 😂

@@tangiechapman6219 life coach doesn't mean omniscient. The fact that she ended the relationship quickly after she found out shows that she's about what she says she is.

What the world needs now is love, sweet love. ❤

Thats a wild statement,wow!

Enjoying your life and being successful is more than being a certain weight my friend.

@@lizziewalsh275 Well said.

A bit backward aren’t you. It’s 2024

We ALL USE dating apps unless you're 80! 🤦‍♀️🤣

@@teaacustardcream2868And look who that turned out for her…

@@kitkat7491If you love a potential stalker..then fill your boots.

@@teaacustardcream2868Proof positive…no one is always as they seem.

She looks fine to me

Says the person with no photo