If You're Struggling with LOW SELF-ESTEEM - WATCH THIS

If You're Struggling with LOW SELF-ESTEEM - WATCH THIS | Jay Shetty

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@thechancellor- 2 жыл бұрын

To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.

@keonphillips348 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you I needed this .

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@shubhambharti5330 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@QaisiKitty 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you kind fellow. I hope your dreams come true too.

@Introvertedalpha 2 жыл бұрын

❤

@brainstormd 2 жыл бұрын

Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally. - David Frost

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@solidcatink Жыл бұрын

... except when it doesn't.

@tubularbill Жыл бұрын

That’s pie in the sky thinking

@namunamoktan9194 Жыл бұрын

we should have an ambition but not only stress about it ...

@brainstormd Жыл бұрын

@@namunamoktan9194 damn

@javiermonje2031 11 ай бұрын

Took me 25 yrs to realized that I was living with low self esteem and finally I found out at the age of 31 yrs old. I grew up in a latin country with unhealthy mindset about competition for who is the best created an “Ego” in me that was killing my heart and poisoning my mind. Be kind to yourself and be honest with yourself and you’ll discover that your fears are not real. ❤

@rebeccatolomei4363 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m dealing with this exact same thing with a Latino guy I’m seeing, same age as you. He is so kind and caring, but it’s like there is so much self hatred. So much pressure to be masculine, so much pressure to act in a certain way, I treat him like he deserves the world, and every small thing that I do, it’s like he is shocked that someone would do that for him. It’s funny because he’s a seriously good looking guy, tattooes, great body, gets loads of attention from girls. He gets a lot this external attention but he doesn’t know how to accept actual love, actual genuine care from a woman without anything being expected in return. I feel so bad you guys have to go through this 😔

@francoisbessing 3 күн бұрын

As a Latino myself I hear this deeply. I have experienced low self esteem, codependency, and shame as foundational pillars of the culture. Much unlearning/relearning/reparenting happening.

@epycperson Күн бұрын

the same thing is happening with me right now

@VoiceoverFlowers Жыл бұрын

"You're not helping people so that they can be grateful to you. You're helping people because you know it's the right thing to do. But more importantly, you're helping people because you get to understand, experiment, and experience different parts of yourself." Yes to this!!

@BestViber2570 Жыл бұрын

@waldensiansylph4869 Жыл бұрын

Because you don’t want them to go through the same things you went through 🙏🏼

@NathalieLazo 2 жыл бұрын

If you’re watching this, I pray everything works out for you! ~❤️Nat

@destinedtarot7251 2 жыл бұрын

Wishing you the same ... More power to you

@FromPeloToYourHeart Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@rashmimishra4600 9 ай бұрын

People say that I m foolish and I also find many times that I forgot things and not a strong mindset people always say that I m not able for anything I m careless person ..its give me a strong tension and I started to loose hope and somtime thought about life is very bad I m the wrost one 😢 please give me idea s

@amberw6837 7 ай бұрын

Wishing you the same and thank you❤

@amberw6837 7 ай бұрын

Love yourself, I used to until I let toxic people make me think differently. I just want to love myself again so bad.

@Kamal_doc 7 ай бұрын

All my life i have been fighting with low self esteem , self doubt , low confidence . I will push through it . I will not let my ego say am the worst in the world . This video gives me a new perspective. I ll work on this perspective. I am happy .

@kashyap4245 Жыл бұрын

Low self esteem is caused by traumatic experiences and abuses. These 2 factors are the reason behind low self esteem from what i know. These causes you to have no self confidence which leads to low self esteem.

@helloo2286 2 жыл бұрын

Everyone needs to read it....if you are suffering from JUST ANY kind of a negative emotion that's perfectly fine..even i myself am suffering from 2 consicutive FALIURE low self-esteem feeling stuck depression etc. but i know one thing...if your endurance is bigger than this and hard work is even more bigger....than definitely all suffering will be worthwhile... don't fake positivity....have courage to face endure and replant your own seeds! All the very very best!

@vickimcburney8977 2 жыл бұрын

This is ridiculous. The best or the worst? Some people have been through terrible abuse that has left them feeling worthless and without confidence. People have a difficult time listing their skills when they have been told that they are nothing. Many of these abusive relationships begin with losing yourself in the service of others, who then steal from you, hit you and put you down. This eventually makes you feel reluctant to reach out to others, not because they won't thank you, but because they may hurt you again. You may need time to heal, to breathe, to care for yourself, before you feel strong enough to jump into service. Losing yourself in anything, a relationship, a job, a cause, is dangerous. You must be aware of your own values, morals, and worth, or you may be badly used and lost.

@jdalia22 9 ай бұрын

Totally agree with you! 🙏thank you!

@Ebby_Saks Жыл бұрын

My key lessons here are: I learn about my self when I help people. Success comes from service. Ego(too much or too little) has isolates many Thanks Jay

@Youtuber-lv6eh 6 ай бұрын

No. Never depend your happyness in others. Others will destroy you in the best way.

@Mx.Tutorials Жыл бұрын

In islam, helping others is an obligation due to its affects on us and our hearts in general. I find it fascinating that helping others could ultimately lead us to finding/ discovering who we really are.

@saudakhan9543 Жыл бұрын

Mashallah the more I learn the more I realize how beautiful our deen is

@namunamoktan9194 Жыл бұрын

helping others does not mean we don't get time for ourselves but can be helping on the way or even strategically but then the second one will make you satisfied because he or she chose to do so, we are all helping whether it be our family or friends,

@kanaler5924 Жыл бұрын

The evil book also tells people to persecute and humiliate other people for not believing the same things.

@alkamehra6873 10 ай бұрын

Never saw any muslim helping anyone apart from ditching, killing...

@princess_zulica 9 ай бұрын

wallah this strengthened my faith

@manpreetjohal2056 2 жыл бұрын

Your word encourage me alot to always keep moving ahead in life with all the cons and pros.

2 жыл бұрын

Your podcast had help me to get more confident in my life and my job, I love hearing it on my way to the job

@ccc0424 Жыл бұрын

So much wisdom shared in just 10 minutes! Thank you

@binurimathotaarachchi4957 2 жыл бұрын

Much needed to hear Jay! Thank you so much❤️

@dls300 Жыл бұрын

Jay, you are the best. What a God-given gift!

@evelaird2666 8 ай бұрын

This has been my favourite video of yours Jay, thank you for sharing your wisdom - I felt both comfort and strength in this.

@nathanleung5592 2 жыл бұрын

Jay always guides me to see things from new opportunities! If l had to share, Jay always guides me better than my own parents! Absolute best podcast & motivational videos

@fundatamdogan Жыл бұрын

I ve never known you or heard about you until three days ago.There was something I tried to find a way for my soul.Two sentences that you said in your another video became my exact answers.Because of wht I hear from you I am free and stronger now.Thank you so much

@azizamalki576 2 жыл бұрын

I love you so much Mr Jay Shetty !

@kathleenbinns2745 Жыл бұрын

Wow thanks for this message I needed that tonight. I was so much in my head telling myself that was not go enough. But realizing that who I am right now is better that who I was yesterday. Thanks so much be blessed

@EvolveNowYoga 2 жыл бұрын

Jay always helps me to see things from new perspectives! Best podcast out there!

@lilimariaholm 2 жыл бұрын

Insightful video. Made me realize that the common denominator between an inflated or deflated ego is that both attitudes ("I am the best" or "I am the worst") completely isolate the person. Which I suppose is why service and community involvement in general works to abolish the ego.

@harpinderkaur9593 Жыл бұрын

i have no words for your all videos may god bless you sir

@isabella_5245 Жыл бұрын

I love your last speech in this video❤ Thank u, Jay Shetty.

@arteeejr 7 ай бұрын

Jay Shetty's talks are always deep, and this one about ego and self-esteem is no different. It's interesting to think about how our self-esteem connects to our ego, just like Jay and his guest talked about. This reminds me of my life coach, Lisa Haisha, who's an expert in personal growth. She teaches me to be aware of ourselves and grow inside. Lisa's work shows how being honest with ourselves helps me become the best versions of myself. Thanks for sharing this one, it serves as a great reminder! ❤❤

@madadaalochannel8265 2 жыл бұрын

Iam your fan from somalia🇸🇴🇸🇴

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@prestatemusic Жыл бұрын

Gonna watch this always as a reminder

@ashwanijha7695 2 жыл бұрын

Super questions, and thoughtful answers. Best

@bige2817 Жыл бұрын

I’ve recently have expressed how frustrated I’ve been with the confusion of life itself and it’s seemingly endless contradictions. I came across this video and in the section with businessmen being successful because of service, it really struck my inner question of why I feel the need to be in service of others. And maybe through this video, I may have found a direction to go to that can fulfill me the right way. From the bottom of my heart, I wish to say thank you for your service

@NomadAAli Жыл бұрын

Big ups to you Big E

@annemarielabreche Жыл бұрын

I'm going to watch that video over and over again, it's so powerful and true

@Samaira_khan717 2 ай бұрын

plz help me i am having suicidal thoughts becoz i suffer from low self esteem stress...i am struggling to recover from worst phase in my life financially socially😭😭😔😞

@annetteluridsamy343 Жыл бұрын

I have to say Jay's success is due to his humility and willingness to share and wanting people like myself to be our best and how to deal with and overcome obstacles. Like all there will be criticism, negativity comments that Jay faces, in this world that will never change, buy its how one deals with it. Every video Jay inspires me and thank you so so much.

@DanielH3342 Жыл бұрын

I needed this today. I appreciate it. 🙌

@shivangpatel3120 2 жыл бұрын

@JayShetty u are my one of the best coach among everyone ,n absorbing you ❤️

@teamsteed1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting the video.

@rajgupta2049 2 жыл бұрын

The problem that makes me suffer everytime is 'If I think the other person is better than me ' Inner me : lacks confidence and says you are nothing and the opposite of this ' If I say I am better than that person ' Inner me - you are challenging that person . You are being rude ' .

@arteebba 2 жыл бұрын

The same thing is withe

@arteebba 2 жыл бұрын

With me

@monurajput5608 Жыл бұрын

Is this lack of self esteem or shyness due to past experiences such as bullying? Or genetics?

@dizzyspellxoxo Жыл бұрын

I struggle with this too

@donnawebb6057 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your video.

@DrPatrickKingsep 2 жыл бұрын

Hi, great video on self-esteem and Ego - if we could all spend more time being aware of the way in which our Ego speaks to us we could understand the effects it has on us. Being more 'honest' with ourselves is great advise Jay.

@mariamj3147 Ай бұрын

Such a great video - such wonderful respect in the energy between you both. I love this. I hope I can heal my soul and find a way to have better self esteem.

@dmac6130 Жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this today, thank you 👍

@sobelle8069 Жыл бұрын

This is now so clear to me I always say I'm missing the grey area I mean the in between Ifeel only very happy or very unhappy now i understand the point about the ego, thank you for explaining

@a7xfanben 6 ай бұрын

Great points! I like the concept of becoming addicted to the process.

@madadaalochannel8265 2 жыл бұрын

Ilike always to watch jay shetty

@alkamehra6873 10 ай бұрын

I have heard this video earlier but this time it made me cry no idea why

@Domfordj 2 жыл бұрын

I love this episode

@redraiderreloading7612 Ай бұрын

Im dealing with low self esteem and self worth. I lost my mom and sister 45 days apart last October n November. Ever since ive been depressed, i think if myself as a Piece of shit. I have lost all enjoyment in my hobbies.

@user-mu3iy8fq3d 6 ай бұрын

The advice to focus on the future rather than dwelling on past mistakes resonated with me. I am now determined to concentrate on growth and improvement, viewing challenges as opportunities for personal development.

@claudialuis9173 2 ай бұрын

My God the way this video help ease my mind I have been falling apart for aboutn2 months and this made me realize how much I need to refocus on myself i have been looking for validation from everyone

@ryanadleigh4078 Жыл бұрын

In this life I am struggling, within myself, this helps a little x

@user-fe2jr3wj5y 5 ай бұрын

all i can say is: "THANK YOU"

@ashlazdanovich8396 Жыл бұрын

I knew I had some issues but recently I think a huge source of anxiety for me lately has been low self esteem.. I want to build my self esteem back and be able to regulate my anxiety better so I can be who I want to be instead of beating myself up all the time..

@movepauserestore 12 күн бұрын

Ego is judging ourselves as separate from the rest of creation ❤

@rachaelmurugi4 2 жыл бұрын

Good advice

@ksugirl02ify 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!!

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@aifoehealthandwellness1 5 ай бұрын

The segment on cutting-edge technologies caught my attention. It's fascinating to see how science and technology are playing a role in boosting confidence. Can't wait to learn more about these innovations!

@jishin7593 11 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@devenbhayani322 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing !

@pepsibottlesmallone Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@yvonnetomlinmiller Ай бұрын

EGO just wants to exists away from intuition, I have found that recognising that I am not my thoughts and that I am my intuition, this frees me from my low self belief. Dealing with my childhood traumas led to my choosing my thoughts and my intentions. Thanks goodness I chose this way of being. Service to me is love in action. Thanks for this video Jay!

@lhunkhohaokip7738 2 жыл бұрын

My inspiration Jay ♥️

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@brnsnaribm1371 Жыл бұрын

That seems so true.

@paulmevans 2 жыл бұрын

Struck a deep meaningful nerve with myself and other people I've dated and our behaviour. And maybe reflects my INTP 4w5 balance because of childhood experience.

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@girishva3823 9 ай бұрын

We often get stuck in a process as we are attached to the outcome ...whether we will be successful or not..which is not in our control....Jay so rightly pointed out that the we have full control on the preparation, process and practice ...😊😊

@user-zv8fi6cw4o 2 жыл бұрын

You are the best

@omarlearnnewthings7632 2 жыл бұрын

Jay Hi thank you about this video

@beemergoal 8 ай бұрын

Im extremely underestimating me🙂

@tanusriedbn8018 6 ай бұрын

Being in a place where ppl respect u for ur profession n deep inside feeling lnot good enough is a struggle i go through every day...n i dont know how to be d best version of myself nd stand in my expectations of myself

@charmainebock3079 7 ай бұрын

Hi Jay love your videos❤❤❤❤

@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 жыл бұрын

Aiming for goodness,spreading love,kindness,peace all over the world we are blessed with blossoming life of blessings which flourishes our life with happiness forever.

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@stanleyrajkumar5649 2 жыл бұрын

That was amazing🔥🔥 I loved it❤ tqsm for this❤✨

@LinjoJoson Жыл бұрын

Spot on jay shetty, I underestimated you but I am going to buy think like monk today after watching this video

@juliemyatt3697 2 ай бұрын

Please please consider not having background music. I love your wisdom 😊

@rytham7699 2 жыл бұрын

Wheather one moves slowly or with speed the one who's seeker will be a finder!✨

@craigbranno8193 2 жыл бұрын

J Shetty and the Sadhguru are Outstanding

@juicewrld822 2 жыл бұрын

🛐✊🏽Everyone struggles w/ low self esteem & downs themselves w/ something! Think positively can help, but you have to keep trying no matter what you’ll eventually obtain your issues!

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@JGalegria Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree with you and low self-esteem is usually invisible to others and not an extreme ego problem. It's just a matter of persevering on taking responsibility for the goals and desires you have and not being reliant on other people or things around you, not getting pulled down or distracted by everyone else's stuff 🙏💙

@Hunter_ng_bukidnon 2 жыл бұрын

Very nice

@hamzaasif3137 Жыл бұрын

I think this video is going to change my life.

@albulenakelmendi8968 Жыл бұрын

Jay, the sweetest man ever, how can you make people sooo happy and feel good, just by being autentic and have this values. ❤❤❤❤🧡💛💚💙💜

@tannisarkar8334 Жыл бұрын

sometimes i want to vent to random people and end up going wrong places. sometimes i end up burning bridges because the listener doesn't try to understand me. i have high EQ so i get hurt and end up lowering my self esteem even more. i want to change this attitude. i want to stop wanting to vent to people, searching for emotional support and become numb to any emotion in my life. i want to become a hard wooden log that doesn't rebuke no matter how many times it is hacked into pieces or shredded into dust. jay if you ever read this, please show me a way to overcome my low self esteem due to the above cause.

@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 жыл бұрын

My favourite speaker best doctor,psychologist and admirable professor Jay genius.

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@RuanAntunes7 4 ай бұрын

I’ve been struggling with low self esteem, low self confidence and Depression for 8-9 years now and I honestly don’t know how to change how I feel. Believe me I want to change that mindset and I want to start proving myself because it’s starting to affect my family and I want to help them but I don’t know where to begin and to make things worse I don’t feel like anybody in my family really gets me or understand how I feel, I guess I hide it well. I honestly feel helpless at this point

@VijayPawar-sz6gq Жыл бұрын

Spiritual points 👌 Advait Vendanta 🙏

@gavinspeaks 2 жыл бұрын

“Knock, And He'll open the door Vanish, And He'll make you shine like the sun Fall, And He'll raise you to the heavens Become nothing, And He'll turn you into everything.” ― Jalal Ad-Din Rumi ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction KZfaqr💜

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@derrickherber8124 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks alot Jay Shetty, the book think like a monk has changed my perception on life

@applesonaplate9992 Жыл бұрын

take notes

@sachinsaini4972 Жыл бұрын

Brilliant

@gbengaogungbade1918 Жыл бұрын

To inspire and impact lives

@namunamoktan9194 Жыл бұрын

we are defined by how we handle things or situations, people 😊

@chiziamadi 2 жыл бұрын

Find your purpose

@pup56 Жыл бұрын

Hope I have strength to deal with non sense going on in my head.

@bestlife1982 2 жыл бұрын

Great!

@kinleydorji4920 6 ай бұрын

My life is good but sometimes it is hard to understand why do I fail no matter how much I try

@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 жыл бұрын

Our thoughts in mind creates awesome life which is true.

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@TomboyAnaya2002 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video I needed this

@gurumaa7158 2 жыл бұрын

@Myown185 Жыл бұрын

I should not have any low self-esteem. My past should not be able to equal my future. Amen.

@sindhureddy5887 2 жыл бұрын

Ego is either i am the best or i am the worst.You could not fall in the trap of ego is by self honesty. When you honestly figure out what you are good at,great at and suck at.

@jonasnds1 Жыл бұрын

The other day i deleted all my music from all platforms, because my biggest haunter showed up again and upper cutted me, i really dont believe in myself, i dont think im worthy, i feel like i shouldnt even be here, so my creations dont matter and i get it, so i deleted everything, and im seriously planning on getting rid of all of my equipment

@paradox325 11 ай бұрын

The simple concept that ego goes both ways is insane. It’s been almost a year now since I gained the idea that ego can be a negative thing. Since then it’s helped me to better understand my own issues and how to better deal with those issues. I’m doing so much better now.

@rae451 7 ай бұрын

It's hard, really hard trying to find yourself when you don't even know who you are or how to start. So much information on how to get yourself and it's not just hitting but making you feel more self conscious. Life is complicated and hard! It's such a battle and I'm weak

@IamBeautyBraeden 4 ай бұрын

Hey Rae, this idea you are weak sounds like a generalization and a harsh judgment of yourself. If you were a friend to a person with this view of themselves and you were an honest and caring friend, would you allow this self belief to be unexamined. Maybe there are some errors in this Perspective you are coming from > I'd question myself; what is this judgement based upon? Is there some error or distortion in the Lense you are looking through. Is it real. Is it true? What Perspective is this based upon or coming from? It's a tenancy to compare our internal judgement to our selective observations of others external " on show" We all need support and love to help us to appreciate the real true reality of ourselves > it's a journey > we start where we are > total acceptance for how it is - being careful we aren't judging ourselves incorrectly > all the best brother / sister

@KenyaWright Жыл бұрын

Perfect 🎉🎉🎉🎉

@It_isGreatwith_mysoul Жыл бұрын

I just stopped relying on alcohol to help me get through emotional pain. I finally came to grips with my decisions and choices. I prayed to God Almighty for several years and it just "clicked" a few days ago !!! I have not drank for the past 4 days. I feel great. I have to work on my low self esteem. I messed up in life and I can't go back and fix things. Thanks for reading.