If You Lack CONFIDENCE & Want To Raise Your SELF-ESTEEM - WATCH THIS

If You Lack CONFIDENCE & Want To Raise Your SELF-ESTEEM - WATCH THIS | Jay Shetty

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@listentohillsong7600 Жыл бұрын

I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter and a new identity... A child of God.. Hallelujah

@artube3290 Жыл бұрын

He was a Prophet sent by God

@fk8495 Жыл бұрын

If you want the real belief, follow Islam

@yourdailydoseofme7945 Жыл бұрын

@@fk8495 what “real belief”? Don’t stop them from believing the one true God in heaven

@justinawhyte373 Жыл бұрын

Praise God!!!❤

@mamooshka9503 Жыл бұрын

Thats so Great to hear! ❤

@DariusTan 2 жыл бұрын

In summary on how you want to raise your SELF-STEEM, Three signs that you're struggling: 1.) You feel pressured to know what you want to do with your life. 2.) You've lost interest in your own life and get disconnected. 3.) You don't know what your skills are or you feel you lack them. Three tips to raise your SELF-STEEM: 1.) Don't let what's happening around you affect you. 2.) Think what you can help to other people. 3.) Generating positive result from negative situation.

@danurkresnamurti3598 Жыл бұрын

thankyou and bless you.

@aerikahjaafar3582 Жыл бұрын

So good 👍 thank you

@raygacy Жыл бұрын

Thank you for typing this 😊👍

@siyapawar1893 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the bottom line

@ibtashab Жыл бұрын

Champion 🔥🔥

@NathalieLazo 2 жыл бұрын

"You don't know what you need in your life until you figure out who you are" - Jay Shetty ✨

@abbassimohamedabdelmoneem3571 Жыл бұрын

of course it is ❤️❤️

@CreativeCashflow1 2 жыл бұрын

Don’t let anybody, especially yourself, make you feel like you don’t deserve to be in the room you’ve earned a right to be in. You have something unique to contribute - your ideas, your experience, your wisdom, and your point of view.

@brainstormd 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes, you just can’t get what you want, but it doesn’t mean that you can never have it. Everything takes place at the right time

@deekshabehl 2 жыл бұрын

the words-"fear is a good push, and love is a beautiful pull". 😇😇

@therealturph948 Жыл бұрын

It's videos like these that can literally be life changing for people watching this!! Thank you Jay for all your uploads and thank you to all of your guests for their genuine vulnerability 💯❤️

@AnnTsungMD Жыл бұрын

Life changing and inspirational.

@HouseOfLabelle Жыл бұрын

That is the best analogy I have ever heard in my life. This will stick with me forever

@mariannebloom3266 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. I got chills at differents times. You are so inspirational you both. I am so glad to have listen to this video! Thank you so much for what you are doing

@shirleyabanga3164 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this priceless wisdom shared (Ed Mylett and Jay shetty 👌👏) My take away from this: - We need a huge reason to push us towards our Dreams/Goals ( how big is your WHY) - Raise your Proximity - Surrend yourself with people who can increase your thermostat - Always think about how you can serve, contribute and add value into people lives - Fear is a good push and love is a good pull

@angeliquebel 2 жыл бұрын

Still loving this after years ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💯👍🏻

@marcusparasuramen442 Жыл бұрын

This is so true. The conversations we have with people around differs with the type of friends... an eye opener...thank you🙏🙏🙏

@smrithiglamup8251 2 жыл бұрын

🙏huge reasons makes the difference... Well said thank u both.. u guys raised our proximity

@nathanleung5592 2 жыл бұрын

I can listen to Jay Shetty for hours, days, weeks, months & years! My focus is completely going the right way! Genuinely l lacked my self esteem especially with parents around! After listening to Jay Shetty l feel more motivated than ever!

@optimisticc7040 Жыл бұрын

I love these guys! They motivate me to be better!

@ck6471 2 жыл бұрын

Jay Shetty can listen for hours, completely focussed on the opposite person and try to understand his perspective and struggles. What a gem !

@kevinberkau7932 2 жыл бұрын

You have 2 ears 👂🏼 1 mouth, use them proportionally

@golopeters1152 2 жыл бұрын

When I heard his reason I was so touched I almost started to cry.

@lechae8924 Жыл бұрын

You can’t change the people but you can change the proximity

@blisswkc3344 Жыл бұрын

Immense gratitude thanks to y'all so much dearest all 🌹 Y'all such an inspiration 🥰 Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖 Stay Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈

@DrPatrickKingsep Жыл бұрын

Great video Jay - interesting to watch and absorb! "Your self-worth regulates your life...." I like this quote. And the "power of other human beings" - again great quote!!

@sassylane6354 2 жыл бұрын

2 of my ultimate favorite inspirational people on the planet ❤️ thank you both 😊

@shivahearty Жыл бұрын

I know Jay, May I know the other person in the vdo ?

@AnnaLauraMigliorati Жыл бұрын

One of the best video I have seen! Thanks 🙏 profoundly touched! ❤️

@KiddoVibe Жыл бұрын

Watching this gives me great motivation to go to work tonight even my body and my emotion and brain is very exhausted from all negative things happening around me

@joe3055 2 жыл бұрын

Wow this man has a wise perspective on this.

@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 жыл бұрын

Precious words like diamonds which makes our lives shining.Awesome conversation admirable topic.

@joshthomas_1696 2 жыл бұрын

Very eye opening and informative video, Jay! You do an amazing job at inspiring many! Thanks for all that you do. 💙🙏🏽

@preeti1545 Жыл бұрын

• We make decisions emotionally but we justify and rationalize them logically. • It's not the external conditions but your internal thermostat, which governs your life. • You can't change the people, but you can change the proximity. • Fear is a good push but love is a great pull.

@AchieversWorkshop Жыл бұрын

You can't change people, but you can change the proximity into how they affect you; coupled with the fact that someone pulling you upward can't be too far ahead of you, otherwise you'll just feel insecure instead of inspired. I really resonated with those points, thanks guys :)

@rajinderkaur334 Жыл бұрын

Amazing!!! Thank You🙏😊

@VivekYadav-hg4tv 2 жыл бұрын

2uh Legends together.. 🔥

@tornedsky 8 ай бұрын

thank you so much for the wonderful advice. you guys are really one of a kind

@radhekrishna.88 2 жыл бұрын

This was much needed

@suvarnapeta2219 2 жыл бұрын

Jay is just extraordinary 🙏🏻💞

@AnnTsungMD Жыл бұрын

Wow! Ed and Jay on the same stage! Thank you both for this amazing interview.

@aidayohannes1423 Жыл бұрын

So inspirational both of them 💕💕

@Yaavi-jx8jw Жыл бұрын

Wow this is exactly what I wanted to watch, what I was looking for. I've always let others affect me, but now I have to regulate my norms and values, have to stop other people affecting me. I really hope that I do that. Thanks for sharing such a good information

@atasiarukhsa8882 2 жыл бұрын

Fear is a good push Love is a great pull😴

@johnmcfadden9620 Жыл бұрын

I enjoy your shorter videos like this one. Thanks for what you do.

@dearsariya06 10 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for this ! I really learnt a lot from this clip. It's so relatable and true. I 'm feeling great after hearing this!👍😊❤

@kasulealex9036 2 жыл бұрын

This is phenomenal ...wow 🥰🥰🥰

@laxmigurung6007 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for uploading this video

@radhekrishna.88 2 жыл бұрын

Ed mylett I never knew anything about him but from this day I never gonna forget him the reason for his gym the bella'swedding day oh god he is such a loving father and his personality the way he reflect on things ok I m noting down I don't know to what extreme but I will try my best Jay seriously u never disappoint us

@dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841 Жыл бұрын

Confidence, one's assurance of their abilities. As you look back through your life at all the downward spiraling failures. Was it the failures or was it the story you kept repeating to yourself? If, a baby was aware of itself. And it's starting to learn how to stand. And it fails to stand and it tries again and the parents laugh and the child is aware of their laughter. Would the child learn to walk? Would it give up on wanting to walk? A child at this age lives without a mind. It does everything in silence. But what if it had a mind like you. It would say to itself. I can't do this and they're laughing at me. And the child crawls to the room and closes the door. Never learning to walk.

@marymichelle6426 Жыл бұрын

Love your videos. Thanks a lot 🙏❤️👍

@RishabhMishrxa Жыл бұрын

good morning everyone

@mep8083 2 жыл бұрын

I never comment but this is the absolute truth. What a great way of putting it. This needs to be taught in schools! I wish I’d known this properly decades ago. Thank you.

@HappyLifewithMaria 2 жыл бұрын

This is incredible 🙏👏🙏👏🙏

@lauradeletant6243 Жыл бұрын

Wow that’s huge!!! Daughter’s wedding day! I love it ❤️ Yes I will use this! Thank you Ed Mylett and Jay Shetty. 🙏

@samchowdhury_29 Жыл бұрын

This video is a feast for the eyes and ears.💫

@Active10711 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing thoughts

@elizabethmoran6745 Жыл бұрын

That is amazing.. the knowledge I got from here is wise…

@browngirl2096 Жыл бұрын

I love jay . Great person

@girishva3823 10 ай бұрын

Very nicely said and true for almost of us, we keep ourselves open so that external conditions drive how we feel..to have thermostat is very good example to remain at a certain level come what may...Thanks 👍👍👍

@panda-crux.165 2 жыл бұрын

I have very low self esteem because i have Speech Problem I have a bifid uvula that's the reason why I'm getting Always bullied and Getting harsh word especially in school and public places that's why I'm always silent and Sad😢😭.

@ChuChuAndAhBa 2 жыл бұрын

Do you have a hobby/passion you love like a sport, drawing, or singing? Getting good with a hobby/ passion you really love might help you gain confident, and probably find friends who share the same passion like you. Maybe you can give this a try. Or you can try doing volunteer work helping the more unfortunate, being compassion and be of service to others might also bring your happiness and even confident. A person that has confident and compassion will never look down, bullied and make fun of others. Those people who are bullying you are just people who have low self-esteem and lack of confident themselves. Just ignore them, you don't need them in your life to show your confidence. Look for those who truly appreciate you and you will find them someday. Just be confident with it and believe in yourself.

@jithinkk3349 2 жыл бұрын

Go to gym and level up u r fitness It would be definitely change you Believe me

@panda-crux.165 2 жыл бұрын

@@ChuChuAndAhBa Thank you Sir I will do my best🙏😊

@panda-crux.165 2 жыл бұрын

@@jithinkk3349 Thank you sir I will do my best🙏😊

@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 жыл бұрын

My favourite speaker Jay genius

@kevwhartman 9 ай бұрын

I love the thermostat analogy

@claireroche8920 Жыл бұрын

I’m cracking up y’all are amazing ❤️ hahaha MORE OF THIS ENERGYYYYYY

@ayala7282 2 жыл бұрын

How can I get into a great circle in growth? Listen to podcasts- digital influence. Where do these people congregate? I have to go where they are. Ask someone and see how I can help them. Work out- move my body to move my energy. I find someone who is a bit better than me and keep pushing up my standards.

@kevinberkau7932 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@makefinanceeasy3682 2 жыл бұрын

One of the best💫💫💫💫

@Squirrel_101 Жыл бұрын

This.. This just explained things I've been trying to figure out for the past 20 years... Thermostat love it

@annanims7876 2 жыл бұрын

Great interview, if someone has more ideas on places to connect with higher frequency, positive people, please share.😊

@nokuthulankoyana7450 2 жыл бұрын

I think this has been my favourite episode. I keep watching it over and over again.

@masthanrahman6632 Жыл бұрын

great motivation

@youcando5246 Жыл бұрын

my the best author Jay

@Jayjamie Жыл бұрын

Great video 👏

@dr.destressthebluezoneproj5841 Жыл бұрын

4:30 Friends, not just friends, tv, sitcoms, cartoons, movies. The first 13 years, no tv, no toys, no friends, no stories told to me. All I was around was optimistic people, who did not live in the past. I woke up each morning to a state of joy.

@laustephanie9290 Жыл бұрын

Almost all your reason is either for other people or big dreams, simple yet wise.

@ireshasamarasekara4761 Жыл бұрын

Great one👍

@vallareedeshmukhofficial Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, such a meaningful conversation! 👏🏻 Key takeaways: • We make decisions emotionally but we justify and rationalize them logically. • It's not the external conditions but your internal thermostat, which governs your life. • You can't change the people, but you can change the proximity. • Fear is a good push but love is a great pull.

@vsejejasno7836 Жыл бұрын

loveeeeee this ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@MindscapingNYC Жыл бұрын

Mental health is constant upkeep. I’ve lived in a few different cities around the world, in NYC, I have to make the most environmental accommodations because hustle bustle ness of the city means I have to schedule more nature and self care. The busyness and hectic-ness of the lifestyle means more planning to connect with loved ones, etc. but I know I have to prioritize these things, because otherwise, anything else I’m building or working on, fails. I know this because I used to fight this idea and I made my life so difficult for so long because of it lol

@EliUnityGoldsmith 2 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙌🏻

@theotherside6436 Жыл бұрын

Great people

@LoyceFitness 2 жыл бұрын

Love from 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

@emyf9197 Жыл бұрын

I woke up wrong side of bed today.. Fully depressed, lost & confused and now a bit anxious... I hope to God I don't go back to experiencing depression again bcuz tht was literal hell n waste of my life. But I do see symptoms again, lost of appetite and feeling really low today.

@obakengmhatlhe118 23 күн бұрын

Wow motivated klaar❤

@smrithiglamup8251 2 жыл бұрын

Fear is a good push, love is beautiful pull,🙏♥️

@Amir-A Жыл бұрын

Jay Shetty is finding ways to make as much money as he can. Open your eyes everyone and be brave, there is no such thing as anxiety or depression (its all created by you and this business done by so called motivational gurus).

@mrelixirgalactic Жыл бұрын

Yes indeed 🔥💪🏽💯🙏🏽

@madadaalochannel8265 2 жыл бұрын

Ilove from somalia🇸🇴🇸🇴

@vikasyadav8777 2 жыл бұрын

Love from India

@lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933 Жыл бұрын

I love self esteem

@vineetsingh8484 Жыл бұрын

This guy really has some good stuff 👁️👁️

@bulbulsnest8338 Жыл бұрын

Fear is good push love is strong pull

@vikasyadav8777 2 жыл бұрын

Those things learn from your book and Thank you thank you so much. ❤❤❤

@JackdawLifts Жыл бұрын

I’m going to a job interview at a gym in south london on Tuesday. It’s a popular UK “hardcore” bodybuilding gym. About 3,5 hours away from me. (Across the country). A part of me is like am I swimming upstream. Or am I following my inspiration. That’s why Abraham hicks teaching sometimes annoys me. It’s like. Don’t try make it happen. Don’t force it. It’s not about action. Etc etc. Like. “Wherever you go, there you are” But yes. I believe I am committing to it ! And I’m arranging for a room viewing on the same day, 0.6miles from it, so I can walk to work. I’ve had a calling to move city ever since coming back home from one and well. I tried manifesting it. But I’m gonna action it I think.

@khnsanoman8934 2 жыл бұрын

I don't what to do with my life, i don't know what my skills are, i don't know my purpose or passion is, i don't have goal or vision. I watched all of the vid abt passion and purpose but i still don't really understand how to apply it in my life

@kevinberkau7932 2 жыл бұрын

Delete all social media and things that distract and steal your time, time where you can find your purpose, find your purpose by using the time you have left over now you have A lot of free time to try new things and see what you love to do and do that that is your purpose if you choose to something that brings you up in the morning that you can be excited about and obsessed about that you think about all the time and feel good when you think about it and you get what you think about most of the time

@Iloveuniverse222 Жыл бұрын

Can your purpose be just living life joyfully ? When your cup is overflowing with joy, you will be a joy to millions 🌞🌹❤️🙏🏻

@BRIDTA Ай бұрын

Hi. I help people find their purpose and strengths. Let me know if you want a free consultation

@fredrikabodemar5434 2 жыл бұрын

Love it! You dont need to add music to it, it distracts since it’s a ”feel piece” and he is explaining things, the two crash and his message is being cluttered. But love what he says and all your videos!!

@tedtalk548 2 жыл бұрын

Adam Grants "Otherish Givers" concept 😊

@aravindprabhu7377 Жыл бұрын

Please Add subtitles

@gavinspeaks 2 жыл бұрын

One of the biggest secrets I discovered in life is to figure out how to love life more than you love to sleep! ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction KZfaqr💜

@preeti_108 Жыл бұрын

Krishna ❤ helped me in every phase of life... Hari bol!

@thechangeyouneed2145 2 жыл бұрын

Jay Shetty and Ed Mylett. What an interview! Such raw emotion from Ed alongside the completely calm and effortless charisma of Jay Love these guys!

@AshleyGarland5959 Жыл бұрын

Try and do everything 50% slower than you usual do, try it for one day and see how much better you feel. As a bonus you will actually achieve more! Monks do not run!