If you think your ex is never coming back and you have no chance to get them back, this short clip will explain why you may.
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@charitymichea12 күн бұрын
I really appreciate Dr Oluwaseun for restoring back peace into my family, now i and my Husband are living happily together..
@charitymichea12 күн бұрын
He’s on Facebook page…
@MrGearoid65 Жыл бұрын
I no longer care because I now know that my ex can't handle a real relationship. It's sad, for them but I have learned my lesson too. To be needy is to be vulnerable to abuse. Heal yourself first.
@mradityadwivedi355210 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Jakas-qt6hj10 ай бұрын
Yeah same my ex needs some serious therapy.
@12BY69 ай бұрын
Until me she hasn't had a loving relationship..dv and cheating from her husband...I loved her and supported her in every way a nd she ran away from me like a tiger was chasing as soon as we committed
@XANIMEBAKCHODI099 ай бұрын
Hello sir can you speak me
@emmanuelglenumenjoh91548 ай бұрын
😂
@Kelly-hm8yo12 күн бұрын
Dr Oluwaseun i had really lost all hope thank you so much for your help my partner has finally returned back to me just like you said he would i really can't thank you enough my family and home is finally at peace he shows me so much love and affection than ever before i really appreciate you
@Kelly-hm8yo12 күн бұрын
He’s on Facebook…
@apocalypse1180Ай бұрын
I honestly can't understand why people say that you should never take them back, go forward and don't look back. Personally I think that, if there's hasn't been a situation like cheating or something heavy like that, you can always try again. It's always worth to give it a try, and if you see it doesn't feel the same for you, or that it doesn't work the way you wish, then it's okay, you both tried❤
@zoeyanaqvi-zn748225 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@toddsapper603 Жыл бұрын
After 2 years I would have to say I’m in the 50% that won’t hear from their ex. She didn’t even acknowledge me in my most painful time when my daughter passed away last November.
@mmt2310 Жыл бұрын
Omg Todd, that is horrible, I'm so sorry. Prayers to you & your family. I can not speak about your ex, but I can imagine if they truly cared about you, they are grieving for your loss ❤.
@LonelyRider87 Жыл бұрын
That's so sad omg so sorry dude.
@sloanmagnum5009 Жыл бұрын
That's a sign that she is gone forever and you need to let go completely and move forward
@r.maelstrom4810 Жыл бұрын
@@sloanmagnum5009 think he aknowledges that. The problem is that the behaviour of an ex who probably was loving, caring and considerate during the relationshio is now so unfathomable after a breakup... It can be very emotionally, morally and intelectually devastating. You are thrown completely away into a void with only your soul to cope. You don't only feel betrayed, you feel fooled: you are eager to receive only a simple "hi", or a "how were you doing" from a person who showed you love for YEARS to reconcile (not even coming back), and nothing. You can get over them, but it's not that easy to get over what their turn the love and companionship between the two of you into.
@mba2ceo Жыл бұрын
Slores will be slores
@jimflammer9370 Жыл бұрын
I would suggest moving on, do not look back, learn from the break up.
@upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын
No it hurts and isn’t easy
@Ericgodisgood Жыл бұрын
Is not easy but I said disrespectful things in she moved on her brother said she over the relationship in to leave her tf alone stop texting his family so she will never come back
@naraendrareddy273 Жыл бұрын
@@upcycle4earth393Having no exes or with exes and a lot of pain, what would you choose?
@AvimadyeOrunni Жыл бұрын
This is the way to be. Us Guys need to become less emotionally attached in our relationships and you’ll be better off. I promise you. Value yourself beyond anything else. You’re all 10/10s. Take off your rose tinted glasses, grow some balls and don’t believe the hype. If they come back you won’t want them back. Walk around with the suck my nuts mindset.
@raqueledwards6061 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true!!!
@KingTheJim9 ай бұрын
At the start of the breakup i thought i had lost her forever, but in time i realised that when she tried to come back, she was really the one who lost me. It takes a while but it gets easier as time goes on.
@alvpha3 ай бұрын
How long did it take for her to return?
@KingTheJim3 ай бұрын
Year and a half mate, and that was after leaving me where she just never came home, blocked me for year and a half, no closure, never even said why she left. She text me and i got excited, but she didnt reply to me asking her how she was for another month, and that was the turning point for me where i realised how terrible she actually was and is to me. I got unblinded in the end. You gotta try accept it for what it is. But if youve just broken up, whatever you do, do not contact her at all, show her you are fine without her, this is what made her come back, she saw me finally dating someone, and that was the moment where she realised she might lose me, so thats when she shouted me. All situations are different, if you really do love her and it was you that made the mistake, i wouldnt take my advice because it was her who left me for what seems no reason at all, i still to this day have never had an explanation, just some shitty ‘im so sorry i know i was wrong’ texts. Just her way to release her guilt for what she put me through Honestly bro, man to man, if you need someone to just ask shit about, trust me i really loved this girl, to the point i would still probs take a bullet for her now even if she cheated on me in the end like she did. So yeh bro if i can help in anyway, ill do that. I fully know what u going through bro
@doubleJJ013 ай бұрын
@@KingTheJim she left me 5months ago , after entertaining other dude behind me , I broke NC after 2months and it fails. I broke NC again after 40 days and somehow it's better and we talk and chat and call but eventually she starts ignoring me yet again when I talk about reconciliation , she ignored me for weeks or 15 days , i miss her so everytime she ignored me I text her again , its been a pattern of 10 days 15 days and I broke it....yesterday I broke it again , and she still hasn't reply to me , idk what else should I do , I miss this girl a lot and I want to work things up as in 2months we won't be studying in the same college anymore, I told her that clearly but she still took it lightly, I wrote a letter , audio record but its all in vein
@KingTheJim3 ай бұрын
@@doubleJJ01 bro you gotta let her go and find out she cant replace you. Go no contact, prove to her you can be without her, the more it seems you can move on, the more attractive you become. I know this will go against every fibre of your being, i know u wanna just message her, but the more you do that the further you will push her away. Go no contact, actually work on yourself. The second she thinks you are moving on, thats the exact moment where all her feelings about you will rise up and shel have to make a decision. Trust me bro i know it seems like you jus wanna text her find answers or whatever. But that energy you give off when your like ‘well fuck this i aint being a clown for you anymore’ trust me it will effect her. Right now shes in control, shes seeing another dude but knows if it fails shes got you as a backup. You have to smash that idea and show you can move on. Trust me bro its the only way and i know all u wanna do is text her and beg her to communicate. I made all those same mistakes, drew pictures wrote letters, all it did was push her away further. Any questions you got shout me bro ill help anyway i can.
@dugl2 ай бұрын
@@KingTheJim 3.5 months in and no explanation too, just left one morning after 4 years of relationship. Blocked and everything. But she told me it probably won't be forever and in text message I felt strange because she still called me with cute nickname she always gave me and it feels more like she lied to herself to not to be in serious relationship with deep love. When she'll come back (if she will) I'm not gonna accept like nothing happened, I'm in so much pain I can't get up from bed all these months, she'll need not just explain everything and say sorry to me to recover. Stay strong guys
@user-cx1go2hm2c Жыл бұрын
Absence makes the ❤ grow fonder!
@ladymiss91345 ай бұрын
Some people just get mentally exhausted and want to be free from relationship responsibility’s . Nothing lasts forever and no one owes us anything! Just accept the loss and move on.
@damnitjoey101911 ай бұрын
I think people don’t realize how important a heartbreak is. We’re all sitting here wishing we never felt heartbreak while there are people who’ve never experienced love so intense where heartbreaks come in. This is the arc where we take care of ourselves, not out of resentment or hatred but simply to accept what’s happened and move on the best way we know how. Be alone, go for a walk, pick up a new hobby, and learn to love yourselves again lads. Know your worth and know that being alone only makes you a better person in the long run. Stay strong fellas.
@bonnieleffel95718 ай бұрын
You are right on the money. I had to learn to love myself more than a man. That was a hard lesson to learn.
@AgathaChristian-dm9fbАй бұрын
You said it finish my dear ! ❤️❤️
@tyronejackson95416 ай бұрын
Respect yourself! Don’t chase anyone!
@dr0n3droid9 ай бұрын
If you love them, let them go. If they come back, they're broken.
@vidbobanec83844 ай бұрын
Did she come back
@ADayInTheLifeOfJames11 ай бұрын
They always come back in some way trust me
@Frannylucks582110 ай бұрын
100%
@jgentile3410 ай бұрын
Never had an ex come back lol
@MrDan29129 ай бұрын
Yeah mine came back after 3 months completely cold and picked up her stuff. Stopped believing tbh
@nottoday92239 ай бұрын
Bullshit hahaha
@valiantangel19988 ай бұрын
even if he does or doesnt, im moving on. he can remember what he lost, i pleaded at the end of the breakup and ik i have more respect and worth than that and he did regret brekaing up with me and he didnt want to he said but he knew he had to make this decision but i mean, it would be hard to resist him but whats stopping him from leaving again if he tries to come back to me
@Rebelmutt5078 ай бұрын
So many of you in here say you dont care but then why are you here
@skftrust53846 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wow good analysis..the answer is..I have taken my revenge ..hope others get motivated
@aliciawinston65076 ай бұрын
I don't want to be in a toxic relationship! It can't be fixed moving on. Self care is everything.😮.
@thebackbencher00511 ай бұрын
No coach it’s not about getting back with the ex- for me & most of us , it’s more about getting back that respect & peace & those times that was stolen & lost while pleading not to waste such hard invested relationship after breakup . It’s personal ...
@mutechannel13 Жыл бұрын
Hearing from your Ex means nothing. They just want validation because they are bored with their options. They want to keep you on a leash so they can pull you back for their convenience. If your Ex left you. Never accept them in your life.
@intricatejayee Жыл бұрын
True, especially when you have kids. F the ex and the kids. Lmao
@DSILVAjeiy Жыл бұрын
@@intricatejayee Well said 💯🏆😆💪 Kick Rocks bare foot 👣
@WishesandWonder Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯. Once you start to move on you won’t want them back anyway. Don’t put your ex on a pedestal.
@Originalman360 Жыл бұрын
@@intricatejayee 😂😂😂😂😂 naw maaann not F the kids 😂😂😂😂
@erikhorvath4297 Жыл бұрын
Yeah if you are a straight person you can think like that but not as a gay guy.. "bored with their options"😆 well that's certain we don't have many
@jms776510 ай бұрын
Why would anyone want them back ? 5hey lost an amazing person. Let em go.
@ditadrosa34828 ай бұрын
I Choose To Not Entertain The Past. Trusting God Through Prayers and My Discernment. 🙏 😇
@Thechosen776 ай бұрын
Why?
@ditadrosa34826 ай бұрын
@@Thechosen77 I’m Grateful For What I Have Lived, Learned and Always Learning… I Only Want People In My Life Who Want Me In Theirs! 🙏🏼💕😇 Accepting What Is.
@Thechosen776 ай бұрын
I emotionally cheated on my gf, but before that I think deep down something tells me she didnt really love me even tho I did wrong...she would always disrespect me during argument, she called me a little bitch once, compared me to an ex, but something tells me she didnt love me, she hasn't texted me since 3 weeks idk why I reply this but I feel like you are going thru something similar @@ditadrosa3482
@juanitagonzalez83339 ай бұрын
Yes people let's show strength find a hobby go to work stay busy know your worth and add taxes
@user-wn1ui4fi8m Жыл бұрын
He wasn’t an honest man he was deceitful and untrustworthy he isn’t who I imagined him to be.😢
@upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын
R u sure
@matt1yas8 ай бұрын
Then it’s good you’re done
@pawel32417 ай бұрын
My ex did reach back out. I did not respond back. She lost me. Thanked God for showing me she was not the one.
@Nismolover3 ай бұрын
After how long did they reach out?
@CharlesTvMotovlog Жыл бұрын
nope, my ex is the one who should think that she had no chance on me, i know my value now, im fully awake. thank you coach craig
@sjb3028 Жыл бұрын
My strength comes from finding myself And never letting them back. I never again want someone who bails. I promise you this I will leave them alone for good.
@DSILVAjeiy Жыл бұрын
🤔 Not sure of your situation, but i can relate with feelings of rejection and being abandoned. So the ego always seems to hold as much pride. Ive learned that no one is perfect and relationships will never be as well. Try not letting your anger cloud your heart. There is the Fading Effects Bias, where we give the old crap from the relation a chance to dump all the negative and then humans start to remember the good parts of the relation a chance to rise again. Ive been with my partner gf for 5 years minus 2; i walked away for 2 years for us both to fix are own demons, so we dont continue to sabotage our situationship. Some people have to learn to grow up and mature 🙄 And we grow through hardships if you do the work. Now im in round two, while i am getting ready to walk away again from the girl. We should never tolerate being disrespected. The end of the day, you have to choose YOUr self-respect. Let those who cross your boundaries, KICK ROCKS barefoot 👣💪
@upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын
Did u ?
@dmitryisaev5955 Жыл бұрын
Agree with your point. But why do the dumpers need to take this hard path of breaking up with their partner? Why not just to talk and work through staying in relationship? It looks like cowardliness on their part…
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
It honestly depends..my ex also would call me cowardly if i left. But i mean he doesnt understand how wrong it is to have kept a secret him being friends with one of his exes..i even asked him why this particular ex? And not all of them?? Even after i told him about my past he still didnt tell me about his ex. The way i found out was messed up..staying felt disrespectful to me..he slipped up her name in bed..and lied about it blaming it on a video game. And later i found out who was first in his contacts..so nope im not a coward for leaving him once and for all..😊
@upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын
Yea well I like working things out too unless they want others subconsciously
@roshawngreene7069 Жыл бұрын
It is cowardliness.
@caveman3577 ай бұрын
@@roshawngreene7069REAL coward behavior is trying to find out what’s going on, telling them it’s ok if we’re not being together. Then having them say they want a 2nd chance, and then ghosting after that
@averynmitchell7 ай бұрын
I am a dumper. I spiraled to my absolute worst point with anxiety, depression, in addition to ruminating thoughts about the relationship. When I was at my worst, he blamed me for not being able to meet his needs. I wanted things to change, and they didn't. Do I hope we could get back together despite what happened? Yes. But it got to the point where I didn't think I could stay for a second longer because it impacted my wellbeing so much. Taking care of yourself when it gets THAT bad is not cowardly, it's necessary for self-preservation.
@SoundsSilver11 ай бұрын
I made all the mistakes. She reached out after four months to "close the cycle" with a couple cold sentences. No contact resumes, and this time it will likely last a lifetime. Unfortunately begging seems to prevent them from experiencing nostalgia, dumper's remorse, or realizing what they lost
@KT37915A Жыл бұрын
When my ex and I divorced, I never saw or heard from her again and it’s been over 15 years since our divorce. When we were done, we were done. I moved on and she did too. Thank goodness for that too.
@jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын
And we had a connection like crazy.. but stepped out on me.. it’s been two months 😢
@rubio9478 Жыл бұрын
You can do better. Forget the one who hurt you. And just be happy.
@sloanmagnum5009 Жыл бұрын
To be honest, just because you felt that doesnt mean they felt that. Or maybe they felt it in the beginning but got to know you more and found out they weren't interested anymore. I've been on both sides of that and it is what it is. Not everyone is meant for each other.
@MaryNAdam Жыл бұрын
Same girl, hang in there!!!!
@mitsuninkhiangte5771 Жыл бұрын
then your connection is bluetooth
@akasickform8 ай бұрын
Make sure you read up on *trauma bonds* just in case If you realise it's a trauma bond you really need to look in to whether it's healthy to get back in that situation
@juliamiller2299 Жыл бұрын
It depends on why there was a breakup in the first place. If either party cheated and infidelity was involved, there is no return. At this point, you just move on with your life and find a new partner. Never reconcile with a cheater. They will only cheat on you again if you get back together.
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
Right? And especially if they withheld important information..like being friends with exes. Even after slipping up their name and having told them about our previous history...like he still never bothered to tell me about that ex..i feel like he just used me to make her jealous..by posting our relationship on social media..for every month he made it his mission to do so..lol makes sense now..yeah i miss him but he definitely wasnt good for me...and he knew it..he told me n it makes sense sadly..i wish he had told me earlier so i wouldn't have started to get attached to him...or the routine we had .
@kiyokowilkinson158 Жыл бұрын
True my mom always says you train people how to treat you what you put up with will continue bc you acce Pted the bad behavior is my interpretation of that . She's normally right weather I l8ke it or not . LOL be S T to everyone he4re going thru difficult painful situations . Remember you deserve moreo7t of your life you only get 1 make it your best one possible . Hope yo7 find what your look7ng for out there . 🫢🤞🏼🍀🍀🌿
@chineduchineyeze4039 Жыл бұрын
Not always true !
@muemamutalo-24519 ай бұрын
Correct 💯,am leaving my cheating wife for good.though its hard but I will manage it
@akasickform8 ай бұрын
It would be unwise to return to any abusive relationship
@techtutorialcentral6 ай бұрын
Mine is a cold hearted snake. She doesn't miss me.
@Believer_-5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 bruh😂
@rainbowstalin5944 ай бұрын
Felt
@khianuy95994 ай бұрын
Same
@Alwaysblissfulvibes3 ай бұрын
Danggggg
@viewershunt94033 ай бұрын
Me too
@mediniphukan59599 ай бұрын
My self respect and self love is above all of the rest. I don't even care how they feel about me anymore. I moved on and I am doing great 👍
@Wildanimal864.3 ай бұрын
Coach Chris actually said 64% don’t hear from their ex during no contact.
@Karamia00014 ай бұрын
If you love them, let them go If they come back it means no one liked them Let them go again
@giomig24 Жыл бұрын
My ex went back to the ex husband . I was the rebound. No hope here , just staright moving on
@helensagal35945 ай бұрын
Sorry about that
@pandorasmagicbox9 ай бұрын
It happens exactly as Craig says. It did for me.
@maryanngray4519 Жыл бұрын
getting back, don't ever want that back , lm focused 💯 on me
@annastacia3190 Жыл бұрын
You speak truth. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@amandlaawethu1538 Жыл бұрын
Between narcissism and gaslighting. They put his in so many categories. I now feel like I was the bad guy. Even my positive has turned bad. If were strong were toxic if were emotional were bata. The emotional manipulation & head games are to much
@zeldsfan8 ай бұрын
Honestly speaking , I only want her back to talk about our relationship. Like, what went wrong and what worked. Kicker is, she is like, very depressed, mentally ill and completely and utterly changed when she Monkey Branched off of me onto a replacement for her abusive ex boyfriend (very very evil bad person)
@t.doleydoley6523 ай бұрын
Same here ❤😂
@upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын
Thanks man I feel weak bc of love - sucks we have to play these mind games . Truth is there are men where the dynamics will never be that we have to resist to get attention jeez. This vid was short and simple ❤ just let it gooo they will come
@lakshmicosmo9551 Жыл бұрын
Driven past their house😅😅😅 Ur right about not chasing and I havent invested and i felt myself loosing control. Trying not to care at all. Thx Coach
@karenevans91524 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t run after anyone.Never mind an ex me.I know my own Respect/Worth.Keeping it that way to..
@ByronRainer-AMG6 ай бұрын
Getting back with an ex is like buying a car again after you sell it. No, one does that.
@Sunitha0018 ай бұрын
Thanks Coach Craig! In No contact now. Focussed on improving myself and getting to a place where its me before everybody else.
@assassin234072 күн бұрын
Got out of a 4 year realationship cuz she neded to work on herself, we were happy in those 4 years but still ended on bad terms, no cheating involved, but i did have a weird feeling that maybe she did but i didnt believed it and still go no answers to this day and well its been 2 years of NC so its a no for me but idc anymore tho just looking at these videos whenever its on my fyp, stay strong kings👑better days will come for you and you will 100% forget about your ex, NC is for you not for them, if they actually cared they would reach out if not you dodged a bullet cuz you probably dated a narcissistic person who only cared about themselfs.
@stephengialanedlla8891 Жыл бұрын
Rethinking and facing up keeps you motivated
@petridhskyriakos2 ай бұрын
My GOD!! That's EXACTLY what I've done. Unfortunately... I honestly admire you for your profound knowledge & understanding
@Mari-lv1rd11 ай бұрын
I really needed help with growing emotional self control. Just thoughts of him puts me in tears.
@jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын
I’m really missing him.. 3.5 yrs😢
@i.s4005 Жыл бұрын
It’s been 1,5 years and missing also 😢
@upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын
:(
@positivewordsofthedaysumli721510 ай бұрын
U will be ok... just stay positive
@mst51137 ай бұрын
he will come back reach out
@joyjamie5 ай бұрын
Move on honey,3.5 years is too much time 😊❤
@mberrynunez4 ай бұрын
Good message! Sometimes it's just our immaturity, either in the moment or even over a long period of time, that contributes to a breakup. Evaluate what you can contribute to a healthier relationship, and take the time to discover who you can achieve that with. It may be your ex or it may be someone new. However never chase your ex. Use it as a time to become a "whole person", someone that is happy to have someone else in their life, but not someone that "needs" another person to complete them. Many blessings!
@valiantangel19988 ай бұрын
idc if my ex comes back, if he does then maybe we could work it out but if he dont, ill be fine, im trying to move on but its kind of hard because i feel like he feels something for me still but cant or wont admit it to himself or me. but i just have to show him ive moved on and hes kinda feeling sorry for himself now i can see that,
@rikmang6 ай бұрын
I appreciate you giving people hope.
@brittaneyhonts810511 ай бұрын
😢 I miss him badly but I'm doin that the best I can by doing that
@nielsdaemen Жыл бұрын
Well I know 'cause I learn a little every day I know 'cause I listen when the experts say that That a good heart these days is hard to find True love, the lasting kind
@dereckmearns459611 ай бұрын
You said it don't chase self respect i do believe this especial reading thank you for this especial reading.
@debbietafoya595411 ай бұрын
I moving on to bigger a nd better things no more narcissists!!
@captainbligh38947 ай бұрын
Thank you Craig, I watch you daily . It helps.
@liquidsleepgames366110 ай бұрын
She left me, dated someone else and is manipulating him
@tymccutchen16 күн бұрын
Put Christ first in Everything. Have Faith in him and Hope. God grants us anything we want. Just believe you already have it in your hands. Manifest it through Christ. ✝️🙏🏻✝️
@ronniemcmullen968410 ай бұрын
I don't want them back and I'm so grateful and thankful for everything they said I have so much energy and peace it was all for a greater purpose
@stephengialanedlla8891 Жыл бұрын
The importance of showin strength and self controle
@user-yx3rt1io1vАй бұрын
I feel if you loved them truly someday at some point of time they will surely miss you and will surely understand your value and will try to come back...
@hushpuppies87226 күн бұрын
I wish everyone has the strength to walk away as its just stress, anxiety and manipulation all over again.
@user-tl5bc8wb8f4 ай бұрын
Thank you universe I feel the positive energy flowing in me she will be back we going to be happy together she is my only and forever love ❤
@dorothywilliams929011 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for that advice I needed that may God bless you🙏
@constantin_cerneidaniela44696 ай бұрын
YOU ARE VERY HELPFUL/ENTHUSIASTIC TO HELP-THANKS. D.
@DKForeman28 күн бұрын
Lust and soul tides makes people miss you. Never take an ex back. Heal yourself grow and move on 🎤
@Manny_199310 сағат бұрын
I miss her so much.... We've had no contact 3 weeks already, going into 4. It's hard but I'm trying to remain strong.
@veronicajohnson82536 ай бұрын
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@rosetoa76710 ай бұрын
No looking back! There is nothing in the past, I just move on! ❤
@wickidblazed4206 ай бұрын
It's been 2 weeks since my ex left me!! I'm sitting here crying over him!!! I keep hoping I'll bump into him or he'll come back after work....not a chance he's gone
@CxGameLol9 ай бұрын
I had my breakup but we never cheated on each other....we both had mental issues and she said we need to work on ourselves to be better and happy
@blaslcardenas3534 ай бұрын
I have left her alone!I kept no contact and she still is not coming back.
@shawnbateman793 ай бұрын
People want what they can't have. If you're always there for your ex whenever they need you, then they aren't going to miss you or want you back. Don't make things too easy for them. Go "no contact", it works.
@RakeemDixon15 күн бұрын
There’s no chance. It’s over I think. Been nearly 5 months and she’s not reached out at all. I’ve broken no contact various times throughout the timeframe through anxiety I have to admit that. And she’s adamant that this is what she wants and is living her new life now
@valiantangel19988 ай бұрын
well i did kinda beg after the breakuo because i was confused and loved him and he said he even regretted it and considered getting back togthert but decided against it but says that he wont ever come back but i think he was just angry and hasnt resolved his feelings and got salty when i started to move on
@PatienceWithAnimals-be6uc10 ай бұрын
Lol then when they claim to miss you but ignore your birthday
@storm4515 Жыл бұрын
It’s been off and on with mine for 5 years and last time i saw him was November. Since then it’s been radio silence and in March on my birthday - he dropped gifts off on top of my car at my HOUSE 🤦🏻♀️. Since it wasn’t the contact I wanted, I never responded back to the whole gift thing. He always pulls this shit with the indirect direct approach. On top of that, the card he left with the gifts left no indication he wanted to meet up, talk, or any of that. The card was dry AF like a default birthday card from CVS that was in the clearance section. I dont think I’m being petty either, I think I’m just knowing my worth and holding a boundary. Do I love him and want him? Yes, but I’m not accepting stale ass breadcrumbs even Aladdin wouldn’t eat.
@LonelyRider87 Жыл бұрын
I'm envious of you; he ignored my birthday but it's ok I expected that.
@upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын
Ehh you either want em or not
@davidking420869 ай бұрын
That was cold af. He acknowledged your birthday by bringing you a present. "Thank you" would have sufficed. You ignoring him totally should let him know to stay tf away from you forever if he has any self respect. Deal with your ego.
@slavenpladou23194 ай бұрын
Missing them is absolutely normal. Feeling lonely is absolutely normal. If your ex left because he/she was unhappy and they left and worked things out themselves and they come back after some time, you have an opportunity to show you’ve worked on yourself too. However, if he/she left for someone else, it doesn’t work and one day…they come back. Please people, never ever take them back. They thought it was gonna be better and it wasn’t. As hard as it is, you must decline reconciliation. They chose them, not you…when needed. Walk away, as hard as that is…walk. I miss my wife every day but I can never go back to her. She really destroyed me. We were together 10 years and I was dropped like a hot stone for another man. It killed me. Yet, after some time I realised I genuinely deserve more. I loved my wife so dearly but it wasn’t reciprocated. You must stay strong and remain your values. When you let them back, they’ve got you. It’ll happen again. WALK!
@samanthareilly69685 ай бұрын
I didn't do any of that, I let him go and went no contact. He started contacting ME and is being cold and weird. But it's him contacting ME. I'm not chasing not doing anything.
@Kyle-MoneyProphet2 ай бұрын
My ex is still hanging on. She left me, but won't fully leave.. She still calls, texts, we see eachother a bit. She says she doesn't care, but her actions say otherwise. I can't do this forever though.
@Bluepearl187Ай бұрын
In that same boat with my ex.
@HopeFaithExpect773 ай бұрын
She wont ever come back. Ive been NC for 5mos now. Its over. 8yrs down drain. She discarded me for a new supply. Her "true love" as she is posting.
@angelakeely5859 Жыл бұрын
They're called an Ex for a reason🤔🚩
@astridrios115511 ай бұрын
I'm so scared that this is it...
@user-tz1hl3pf2w2 ай бұрын
Some coaches say that with those with low self-esteem like avoidants, after X amount of time there’s nothing wrong with US reaching out to them.
@iProHydro13 күн бұрын
3 weeks post break up. She’s been drinking, reactivated IG, and been going out more. I’ve been going to therapy, reading my bible/praying more, Gym & reflecting on all the pain I’ve caused and received.
@natalierichardson22738 ай бұрын
Going ahead instead to get lost in the back steps is preferable. Look for the new opportunity and live happier 🎉
@omkzion13533 ай бұрын
Baby momma lost feelings for me few months back bcuz I pushed her away n wasn’t showing her love, now she dating someone else, hope I get the chance to fix things n be a family again
@JPM_1104Ай бұрын
I have never had an ex not come back. Taking them back a different story. But never failed once. Every single time, months later, one a year later. Just move on
@Nick-bw9jm3 ай бұрын
Kings, hear me now. If you give a girl power, especially during a breakup, she will NOT use that power appropriately. Only against you. Move on. Build yourself into an unstoppable force with your time instead. She will come back. & a real ride or die “woman” would never give up on you in the first place.
@jennamejia666811 ай бұрын
We got back but now 2 weeks he is giving me silent treatment for what??? I don’t understand. He is 60 yrs old man and I expect him to be more mature and handle relationship in a very good way but thats not the case... no wonder in his past he didn’t succeed coz maybe the way he treated women 🤷🏻♀️🤦♀️
@benergy100k27 ай бұрын
*How old are you Jenna?*
@maryl91808 ай бұрын
No, no, no. No positive future lies in the rearview.
@vivianperdue4329 Жыл бұрын
If I never hear from him again I'll be cool with that
@dejavous_diaries8 ай бұрын
Even if he misses and comes back, what's the point! I mean when he doesn't care how I feel now, I cried alone, I'm healing myself, I was with me when I was hospitalized. I don't think it's a good idea to accept someone who already left you 😢
@jmdyt3626 Жыл бұрын
I agree since our breakup I pretty much begged to get her back and before that she said she wanted to try getting back together but since talking even though she keeps saying she wants to get back together she takes 10 hrs to open my message and respond and I’ve been chasing her and have been completely drained for a month now so I’m just going to relax and back of and if she tries calling me, what’s apping me and messaging on all social media’s I’ll know if she truly wants me or not because I’ve been doing everything but I doesn’t feel like she’s been doing the same
@ALPHASTRENGTHANDPOWER6 ай бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom
@RealityxFairytale10 ай бұрын
Him: you tried to call them Me: "could you lose my number?" lol
@RoseClimbPaintC Жыл бұрын
Well. He sent me his newsletter randomly. I unsubscribed. I dont want his newsletter. I want him to use his words.
@storm4515 Жыл бұрын
Right!!!
@myrnasharif499 Жыл бұрын
leave them alone ,!! focus on yourself !! be stro ng, phycically, emotionally and spiritually!! ❤❤❤
@fr33fall77710 ай бұрын
This is one of the times I may agree to disagree with you Craig. She will never come back😊