He’s on Facebook page…

Thank you

Yeah same my ex needs some serious therapy.

Until me she hasn't had a loving relationship..dv and cheating from her husband...I loved her and supported her in every way a nd she ran away from me like a tiger was chasing as soon as we committed

Hello sir can you speak me

😂

He’s on Facebook…

❤❤❤

Omg Todd, that is horrible, I'm so sorry. Prayers to you & your family. I can not speak about your ex, but I can imagine if they truly cared about you, they are grieving for your loss ❤.

That's so sad omg so sorry dude.

That's a sign that she is gone forever and you need to let go completely and move forward

​​@@sloanmagnum5009 think he aknowledges that. The problem is that the behaviour of an ex who probably was loving, caring and considerate during the relationshio is now so unfathomable after a breakup... It can be very emotionally, morally and intelectually devastating. You are thrown completely away into a void with only your soul to cope. You don't only feel betrayed, you feel fooled: you are eager to receive only a simple "hi", or a "how were you doing" from a person who showed you love for YEARS to reconcile (not even coming back), and nothing. You can get over them, but it's not that easy to get over what their turn the love and companionship between the two of you into.

Slores will be slores

No it hurts and isn’t easy

Is not easy but I said disrespectful things in she moved on her brother said she over the relationship in to leave her tf alone stop texting his family so she will never come back

​@@upcycle4earth393Having no exes or with exes and a lot of pain, what would you choose?

This is the way to be. Us Guys need to become less emotionally attached in our relationships and you’ll be better off. I promise you. Value yourself beyond anything else. You’re all 10/10s. Take off your rose tinted glasses, grow some balls and don’t believe the hype. If they come back you won’t want them back. Walk around with the suck my nuts mindset.

Absolutely true!!!

How long did it take for her to return?

Year and a half mate, and that was after leaving me where she just never came home, blocked me for year and a half, no closure, never even said why she left. She text me and i got excited, but she didnt reply to me asking her how she was for another month, and that was the turning point for me where i realised how terrible she actually was and is to me. I got unblinded in the end. You gotta try accept it for what it is. But if youve just broken up, whatever you do, do not contact her at all, show her you are fine without her, this is what made her come back, she saw me finally dating someone, and that was the moment where she realised she might lose me, so thats when she shouted me. All situations are different, if you really do love her and it was you that made the mistake, i wouldnt take my advice because it was her who left me for what seems no reason at all, i still to this day have never had an explanation, just some shitty ‘im so sorry i know i was wrong’ texts. Just her way to release her guilt for what she put me through Honestly bro, man to man, if you need someone to just ask shit about, trust me i really loved this girl, to the point i would still probs take a bullet for her now even if she cheated on me in the end like she did. So yeh bro if i can help in anyway, ill do that. I fully know what u going through bro

​@@KingTheJim she left me 5months ago , after entertaining other dude behind me , I broke NC after 2months and it fails. I broke NC again after 40 days and somehow it's better and we talk and chat and call but eventually she starts ignoring me yet again when I talk about reconciliation , she ignored me for weeks or 15 days , i miss her so everytime she ignored me I text her again , its been a pattern of 10 days 15 days and I broke it....yesterday I broke it again , and she still hasn't reply to me , idk what else should I do , I miss this girl a lot and I want to work things up as in 2months we won't be studying in the same college anymore, I told her that clearly but she still took it lightly, I wrote a letter , audio record but its all in vein

@@doubleJJ01 bro you gotta let her go and find out she cant replace you. Go no contact, prove to her you can be without her, the more it seems you can move on, the more attractive you become. I know this will go against every fibre of your being, i know u wanna just message her, but the more you do that the further you will push her away. Go no contact, actually work on yourself. The second she thinks you are moving on, thats the exact moment where all her feelings about you will rise up and shel have to make a decision. Trust me bro i know it seems like you jus wanna text her find answers or whatever. But that energy you give off when your like ‘well fuck this i aint being a clown for you anymore’ trust me it will effect her. Right now shes in control, shes seeing another dude but knows if it fails shes got you as a backup. You have to smash that idea and show you can move on. Trust me bro its the only way and i know all u wanna do is text her and beg her to communicate. I made all those same mistakes, drew pictures wrote letters, all it did was push her away further. Any questions you got shout me bro ill help anyway i can.

​@@KingTheJim 3.5 months in and no explanation too, just left one morning after 4 years of relationship. Blocked and everything. But she told me it probably won't be forever and in text message I felt strange because she still called me with cute nickname she always gave me and it feels more like she lied to herself to not to be in serious relationship with deep love. When she'll come back (if she will) I'm not gonna accept like nothing happened, I'm in so much pain I can't get up from bed all these months, she'll need not just explain everything and say sorry to me to recover. Stay strong guys

You are right on the money. I had to learn to love myself more than a man. That was a hard lesson to learn.

You said it finish my dear ! ❤️❤️

Did she come back

100%

Never had an ex come back lol

Yeah mine came back after 3 months completely cold and picked up her stuff. Stopped believing tbh

Bullshit hahaha

even if he does or doesnt, im moving on. he can remember what he lost, i pleaded at the end of the breakup and ik i have more respect and worth than that and he did regret brekaing up with me and he didnt want to he said but he knew he had to make this decision but i mean, it would be hard to resist him but whats stopping him from leaving again if he tries to come back to me

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wow good analysis..the answer is..I have taken my revenge ..hope others get motivated

True, especially when you have kids. F the ex and the kids. Lmao

​@@intricatejayee Well said 💯🏆😆💪 Kick Rocks bare foot 👣

Facts 💯. Once you start to move on you won’t want them back anyway. Don’t put your ex on a pedestal.

@@intricatejayee 😂😂😂😂😂 naw maaann not F the kids 😂😂😂😂

Yeah if you are a straight person you can think like that but not as a gay guy.. "bored with their options"😆 well that's certain we don't have many

Why?

@@Thechosen77 I’m Grateful For What I Have Lived, Learned and Always Learning… I Only Want People In My Life Who Want Me In Theirs! 🙏🏼💕😇 Accepting What Is.

I emotionally cheated on my gf, but before that I think deep down something tells me she didnt really love me even tho I did wrong...she would always disrespect me during argument, she called me a little bitch once, compared me to an ex, but something tells me she didnt love me, she hasn't texted me since 3 weeks idk why I reply this but I feel like you are going thru something similar @@ditadrosa3482

R u sure

Then it’s good you’re done

After how long did they reach out?

🤔 Not sure of your situation, but i can relate with feelings of rejection and being abandoned. So the ego always seems to hold as much pride. Ive learned that no one is perfect and relationships will never be as well. Try not letting your anger cloud your heart. There is the Fading Effects Bias, where we give the old crap from the relation a chance to dump all the negative and then humans start to remember the good parts of the relation a chance to rise again. Ive been with my partner gf for 5 years minus 2; i walked away for 2 years for us both to fix are own demons, so we dont continue to sabotage our situationship. Some people have to learn to grow up and mature 🙄 And we grow through hardships if you do the work. Now im in round two, while i am getting ready to walk away again from the girl. We should never tolerate being disrespected. The end of the day, you have to choose YOUr self-respect. Let those who cross your boundaries, KICK ROCKS barefoot 👣💪

Did u ?

It honestly depends..my ex also would call me cowardly if i left. But i mean he doesnt understand how wrong it is to have kept a secret him being friends with one of his exes..i even asked him why this particular ex? And not all of them?? Even after i told him about my past he still didnt tell me about his ex. The way i found out was messed up..staying felt disrespectful to me..he slipped up her name in bed..and lied about it blaming it on a video game. And later i found out who was first in his contacts..so nope im not a coward for leaving him once and for all..😊

Yea well I like working things out too unless they want others subconsciously

It is cowardliness.

@@roshawngreene7069REAL coward behavior is trying to find out what’s going on, telling them it’s ok if we’re not being together. Then having them say they want a 2nd chance, and then ghosting after that

I am a dumper. I spiraled to my absolute worst point with anxiety, depression, in addition to ruminating thoughts about the relationship. When I was at my worst, he blamed me for not being able to meet his needs. I wanted things to change, and they didn't. Do I hope we could get back together despite what happened? Yes. But it got to the point where I didn't think I could stay for a second longer because it impacted my wellbeing so much. Taking care of yourself when it gets THAT bad is not cowardly, it's necessary for self-preservation.

You can do better. Forget the one who hurt you. And just be happy.

To be honest, just because you felt that doesnt mean they felt that. Or maybe they felt it in the beginning but got to know you more and found out they weren't interested anymore. I've been on both sides of that and it is what it is. Not everyone is meant for each other.

Same girl, hang in there!!!!

then your connection is bluetooth

Make sure you read up on *trauma bonds* just in case If you realise it's a trauma bond you really need to look in to whether it's healthy to get back in that situation

Right? And especially if they withheld important information..like being friends with exes. Even after slipping up their name and having told them about our previous history...like he still never bothered to tell me about that ex..i feel like he just used me to make her jealous..by posting our relationship on social media..for every month he made it his mission to do so..lol makes sense now..yeah i miss him but he definitely wasnt good for me...and he knew it..he told me n it makes sense sadly..i wish he had told me earlier so i wouldn't have started to get attached to him...or the routine we had .

True my mom always says you train people how to treat you what you put up with will continue bc you acce Pted the bad behavior is my interpretation of that . She's normally right weather I l8ke it or not . LOL be S T to everyone he4re going thru difficult painful situations . Remember you deserve moreo7t of your life you only get 1 make it your best one possible . Hope yo7 find what your look7ng for out there . 🫢🤞🏼🍀🍀🌿

Not always true !

Correct 💯,am leaving my cheating wife for good.though its hard but I will manage it

It would be unwise to return to any abusive relationship

😂😂😂 bruh😂

Felt

Same

Danggggg

Me too

Sorry about that

Same here ❤😂

It’s been 1,5 years and missing also 😢

:(

U will be ok... just stay positive

he will come back reach out

Move on honey,3.5 years is too much time 😊❤

I'm envious of you; he ignored my birthday but it's ok I expected that.

Ehh you either want em or not

That was cold af. He acknowledged your birthday by bringing you a present. "Thank you" would have sufficed. You ignoring him totally should let him know to stay tf away from you forever if he has any self respect. Deal with your ego.

In that same boat with my ex.

*How old are you Jenna?*

Right!!!