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The scenario with the bad joke was such a good one! It's these moment where we get caught out and show our true selves and that you still have work to do. Such a perfect opportunity to work on yourself while working on you partner.

My husband suffered/suffers lack of trust... I was blind sided by his declaration of divorce. I didn't even know that I had been bulldozing over him for years "asymptomatic" that explains it😮

Hi Geoffrey, I'm at the beginning of my journey of changing my mindset and longtime habits of blaming other person if they hurt me. Just want to tell you that his is revolutionary! Everytime they get mad I look at myself what do I feel in such situation and reflect on what was my provocations, sarcastic remarks or pointing out old mistakes. And then I realize that I would feel helpless and provoked and so they do and I feel compasion and an urge to fix thngs and this works in turning the bad spiral backwards. I know it's still not great but I see the obvious progression and results. Just wanted to let you know that.

Amazing video! Thank you for your insight! You made a lot of great points :)

Hi Geoffrey. Your toughts on this matter are so spot on . In my own case ,not unique by the way, i totaly agree with all that you said !!!! Safety lives in a blind spot . I felt exactly this lack of safety from my wife. At the moment im chanching and stedfast .Motivated no matter the outcome. Planting seeds .Thank you so much for your time and this valuable info that you share ... Much love from Portugal. Terima kasi .

Geoffrey this came at a PERFECT time. I am moving back in after 6 months being gone. While joyous I also had NO idea what to do next. This video has given me SO much to think and meditate on. Please keep up your hard work it means so much.

Please do one on separated but living together and also how to conduct yourself on social media! I’m sleeping in the babies room and she goes out and post and pics and won’t speak on the night. it’s the hardest part for me 😞

Profound essential video

Your content is, very good.

Hi Geoffrey, i want to thank you for your amazing videos. Unlike other people around here with more serious situations mine is much better but i still dont know what my next step should be. The main problem she accuses me of is treating her and everything around like garbage when i am mad. I lost her trust that i can be a calm person during angry moments. Long story short she talks to me daily she is interested in what i do and we have 10-20 min talks. The thing is the talks are generally superficial and i cant find the right moment to start a conversation on a more emotional level. Also i feel like i am ready to prove how much i progressed but moments in which i am usually mad are generally situation based ( work traffic etc.) which I cant recreate in any way especially since we are doing long distance . What should i do ?

You are amazing !! Men should be enrolled in your class .

I have most problems with the farming mindset and not solving things in the very moment and giving the other person time to calm down. Any thoughts, mindsets to help endure the wait, stay patient and believe it will be ok(it is everytime so far)?

Hi Geoffrey, I’m very confused for what step to take next. I’m struggling to just get past step number 1 of getting my ex to even see my changes or reply to me. Main issues I’d be defensive & turn problems into me vs her instead of as an opportunity to fix them, her & I vs the problem & also my insecurity issues mainly when she goes out with her friends. 21 questions, & causing arguments once she came home. Without going into too much detail she has been going no contact on me for almost 3 months. I’ve been working really hard on fixing my issues through your videos & seeing a psychotherapist. & to show her (through a letter & msgs as she refuses to talk to me) I understand them, how it would have made her feel & to show I know how to fix them & change. I honestly believe I’ve fixed my issues & will not be like that anymore (in short see problems as an opportunity to fix them, her & I Vs the problem, listen, show her she’s understood etc & with the insecurities know that I can only control myself & just have to focus on being the best partner I can be & doing everything right so that she will not have any reason to even consider anyone else. This way I’ll be reassuring myself & won’t feel the need to be insecure. but she refuses to talk to me. She’s only told me she’s exhausted & doesn’t have the energy & just wants to focus on herself, & just says that it doesn’t matter because she’s lost the feelings. The confusing things are although she says this. She hasn’t asked me to stop trying, asked me to get the rest of my things from her house & she accused me of not taking long to “get a root” (even tho I haven’t) just because she saw me at the gym with a female & she wrote “happy birthday babe” on my fb. & my ex said that she wouldn’t be able to take me back if I’ve slept with someone else & that that would mean any small chance is gone? But she was already showing me there was zero hope. I’m still not giving up. But what I’m doing of giving her space & then showing her my new mindset & changes isn’t working & hard to show her without another chance.

I recognize my situation is not unique. my belief is that it's as simple as I damaged emotional safety because she would tell me things sometimes harshly that she had an issue with. and I'd take it personally and respond by pointing a finger back etc. over our two year relationship I guess she just felt she couldn't express herself to me. two months ago she left, for the first few weeks we still talked although much less. sent funny videos played games and even spent a few weekends together that went so well. but then one day she I asked her about if she was online or not so we could game because I seen her playing a game but wasn't on discord. and she went off saying she was tired of me asking and all and now we haven't talked at all aside from our one weekly obligation with other friends, and she refuses to see me. before going on no contact she said this was a mistake and to go f myself. now it's either bare minimum or nothing at all. and im at a loss.

Is there a limit on how many times we can join the master class? My wife has said she would be willing to watch it with me this time.

My wife has ghosted me for a month now. Is there any hope?

I’ve been watching Geoffrey’s videos for a couple weeks now, There are some great lessons here, I applied the techniques and already feel my changes, other people have noticed them too, I did almost everything wrong before watching his lessons, shutting down when she stonewalled me, being clingy and begging which got me blocked, Ironic since I broke up with her. I finally landed a conversation on the phone and tried my best to listen, however she continued to be extremely rude, saying hurtful things and told me she did not care if I had changed, she refused to talk in any meaningful way, I did not react but instead thanked her for telling me how she feels and reassured her I wasn’t going to keep working on myself. What would you suggest I do when your partner doesn’t want anything to do with you? To the point she demands that I even don’t walk passed her work (it’s in the same shopping centre as I am and is the fastest rout to where I work) It seems truly hopeless, I know already that I could apply the knowledge I know now into a new thriving relationship but something I noticed is you don’t talk about when it’s time to give up, I know this is all about saving the relationship but is there anytime you should give in for the better?