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This channel is quickly becoming my favorite resource on the changes I need to make within myself in order to prepare for my next relationship. After decades of failed relationships and failed attempts to salvage those relationships with every partner I've had, I'm beginning to understand where I went wrong and how my obsessing over "getting her back" EVERY TIME pushed them all away. Your videos have been so helpful. I'm shocked that you currently have less than 20k subscribers!

Geoffrey I believe your content might be one of the best on KZfaq for relationship advice and mentorship. With out a doubt the most underrated for sure. Psychological Safety is one I hear you speak a lot about along side emotion safety. I can’t seem to find any good psychological safety content anywhere and I’m sure you’d be the best to explain not only what it is and how it’s important, but on how to practice it. Thank you so much for all the help from me and my relationship!

I just really want to say thanks for not using ads for your videos. Awesome videos man, really helpful.

Thank you Geoffrey for touching up on this topic. I like the way you broke it down. I initially was obsessing my broken relationship to get back with my ex and now I had to shift the motivation and relax about obsessing over the relationship. Because it was just going down hill unintentionally. Now I feel like things are slowly getting better. I know the relationship will be worth it but it takes some time. By continuing to listen to your wisdom I've definitely learned a lot about what I needed to improve on. Thank you for doing what you do.

i just wanna say, don't stop making vids men. you're the best! your words and knowledge do help a lot of people. god bless 🙏🏻

You're way ahead of everyone else on KZfaq on this topic. Thank you

Thank for the constant videos they're keeping me afloat right durning these very difficult times and giving me hope when I thought there was none. I joined the Facebook page and all of this has helped me the last few days since I found you. Thank you

Feeling a little needy this morning this is just what I needed thank you

You sir, are a Godsend. Hitting the nail on the head every time. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

Long distance makes things even more difficult it seems

Doing the masterclass today, definitely been obsessing way too much over getting my ex back. The long distance layer + 6 years together has made it difficult, emotionally draining, and painful to understand. Side note, the FB group link under the video description seems to be broken.

Super useful video Geoffrey. Really helped calm my nerves and keep focused on working on myself. Can you talk about how to approach your partner once you've agreed to give them space? I feel like this is very time-sensitive and tricky. It sounds like a paradox but she recently messaged me while she takes space but I didn't get too excited and matched her level of effort - not sure what was the best thing to do. Thanks!

Not all people are going to die of old age in a marriage . A happy marriage is when both parties are working on themselves and the focus is on the other party only …..usually in long therm relationship men cheat in different ways on that female he once loved , cherished and was loyal ….. this destroys the trust and safety and it goes in circles until the divorce comes . For any man who truly want a happy marriage till death …..stay focused on your wife ONLY ….say and DO things that makes HER HAPPY! I hope someone one day gets inspired to be a great husband by reading this comment . 🙏🏻

Wife and I been on a break for 3 months at first she was not talking to me at all even when dropping off kids. She has said divorce 6 times when I tried to talk to her about the problem I stopped bringing it up she still has not filed...that I know of. I feel like now shes starting to want to talk more now and shes not acting in a rush to go. Said she needs to find herself but is not really doing anything.

Thank you Geoffrey! You're making me feel better.

Great video. You are going to get much much bigger.

This taught me how I was being manipulative by being outcome oriented. I see how it's all for personal gain.

I pushed her away to heal, she says understands. As painful as it was for her to accept. What can I do to not lose her forever😢😢

I've been watching a lot of your videos and everything is starting to make sense just hope it's not too late for me to repair my relationship either way thank you for the knowledge I have been missing

You’re the best!

Hey Geoffrey i have been enjoying your videos. Im currently going through a separation with my wife. We are taking some time apart so she can make a decision of whether she wants to stay in this relationship. Your videos have helped me so much in working on myself and building myself. I just wanted to check. I have signed up for the masterclass multiple times but have not received and links or notifications in my email. Pls help.

How are supposed to ti handle real life responsibilities during this time of rebuild and growth?

Hello. My wife & I are separated & I want to save my marriage. I love her endlessly. And I don't want to lose her or my marriage. Everything in this video, I'm doing. I don't want to drive her away.......I want to draw her to me ..........HELP!!!

What if you don't feel like it was all your fault?

I am here to get my partner back ofc she’s been such a amazing person in my life but all I want to be is my best me all around not just for her but for myself!! Because that’s what matters most.

What if they specifically ask you to back down and ti give them time/ space to heal?

So glad I came out of the no contact BS and found your site!

Thanks for sharing Geoff! Question here is - while I’m working on improving myself, should I give us the space? No contact? How?? My partner says he see no hope & wants to move on Pls advise

Jeffrey you sure do know your stuff everything you said was right it’s been a year that I’ve been separated from my wife and you’re right I did look at the first videos when I went on KZfaq and did the first things I seen on there and it doesn’t work because I want to be the front of the line maybe I was a little bit obsessed because I’ve been my wife for 25 years there’s no communication whatsoever except when she got our stimulus check he was in both our names so we had to go to the bank and cash it that’s the only time I’ve seen her in one year and I had nothing to say to her I just wanted you to do and get out of there because I feel and see no love there anymoreI am almost over her but that’s what everybody tells me I need to do

How do I work on my self when I'm running out of time and she'll divorce me this week?

I need your help Geoffrey

thank you

Geoffrey, you make great content! I don’t think your program can help me.. I’ve done quite a bit of appealing to my wife “logical side” saying thing like.. “I’ve never been soo serious about fighting for my marriage” her response is… “I know you’re serious, I’m done still” as he’s already filled for divorce and seeing someone else…. I’m totally a mess right now.. I’m trying to keep the hope by truthfully working on myself and not worry so much about the outcome.

I have to agree with some comments below. Truly underrated content here. Geoffrey your videos are great. You are truly an expert on your content. Initially I could associate my ex with your videos and the signs.. but since then and after continually watching ive learned from your videos that I also was the problem. Is there anything you can help me with to make my changes genuine? Regardless of if I can get her back or not. I would love to have an opportunity for some 1 on 1 consultation and maybe mentorship from you. Please let me know if thats a possibility. We can talk via email or phone and I'm interested in your class. Hope to hear from you back and merry Christmas 😊

Did you think the past (20 yrs ago) is important to be brought up in the present time...

I need help!!! im dying inside

Honestly if you have to change yourself so much, is it worth to even save the relationship? Sure if you need to grow for better, go ahead! But I think it's also good to figure out which one of you need to grow, it's it you, your partner, or both of you? Maybe your partner is leaving you so they can grow as a better person. It might not even have anything to do with you! Just look at the bigger picture first before you go into the full "identity change" mode!

My wife tells me to my face that we are working on things, but she is secretly buying and sending things for the other guy. She tells her friends and family that we are getting a divorce. She states he is her end goal! How do I deal with and handle that? How do I address this kind of issue? Please help me!!!

Can we get one on one talks?

Hi all , Geoffrey Got the papers that my wife has filed for divorce today. Is it too late to turn it around ?

Should be taught in schools damn.

17 years with this woman, and I'm losing hope

What happens when your wife is already in a sexual relationship with someone else? Is it still my fault that's she's cheating?