Each and every concept not only on this channel but also on clarity for youth presents a new concept every time and it unfolds a new dimension of thinking "knots khulte jaa rhe hain "

The main issue with Indian family set up is the utter lack of respect for boundaries.

Seriously true..throughout childhood I thought my mom's side was amazing but in adulthood I know..Not everything that glitters is gold..

Mother's narrative on relatives of husband side is because she is the one who has to tolerate and live with them and she is affected by their behavior. Father rarely lives with his in-laws and even with his own relatives he is not able to sense the politics played by his own relatives. The wife has to vent out her feelings and also feels the need for a sympathetic listening. Hence she pours her views on relatives to her children as the husband doesn't pay any attention to her complaints. I don't say that mother side relatives are all good. But as she is mostly affected by in-laws side relatives due to the societal set up of girl living with her in-laws, this type of narrative against relatives tends to get generated. But anyway your videos are really mindset changing and thought provoking. Kudos to you for your effforts in bringing change in societal mindset. Thank you.

Manipulation, emotional blackmail, narcissism are all unfortunately related words to indian parenting. A person who is born in india but without typical indian mindset, it becomes difficult for him or her to live with society where even families are full of politics. So any guidance for such ppl, how to stay unaffected while living in society which is completely different from his or her thought process? Bit weired question, but would glad if you guide on this subject.

My mom's response for every reasoning , "Maine jyaada duniya dekha hai, mujhe sab pata hai" 😥

Every word that you have said is 100% true. The elder generation of today has literally destroyed the young generation of today with the baggage of their expectations and hopes. Relations between the ward and their parents/guardians have been dented beyond repair in many cases including myself. 😵

sir I am a mom of a 7 year old boy. and I want you to make a vedio for our generation who is raising this new below 10-12 years old next generation. sometimes I feel confused because jo humare parents ne Hume sikhaya tha vo humari life me kafi hadd tak workout nhi hua. ab hum apne bachho ko kya sikhae , kaise handle kre. Hume to Mast pitai lag jati thi , ab hum apne bachho ko Marne ka soch bi nhi skte. so parenting to change kr di Hum ne but now kaise kre parenting......... please 🙏 make a vedio about new generation parenting.

My brother and I are very fortunate. My mother inspite of her issues with her in laws and other family members she never tried to influence us. Infact all cousins are having strong bonds.

Narrative = धारणा ।

Keenly collecting golden wisdom from your videos sir.. lucky to have found this channel.

Very true, there is a great need to form your own opinion of things rather than blindly following elders or parents just because they take care of you.. When you become parents yourself you will understand that you are just a person and you can't be always correct and that is the same for other elders and parents.. Nice Concept !!

I was in family where my mother put in additional effort in having good relation with both my paternal and maternal uncles and aunts.

In my family my mom-in -law has created frictions between their sons for her own benefits

It's true that mothers usually set the narrative in a household....my mother had started hating my father and set both of us children against him...but his house sheltered her till her 80's and the finest academic education he gave us and his legal legacy stands by us till this day

True ....earlier middle class generation seems to be really suffocating.

Great sir Ur punches are much stronger than any Bollywood dialogue writers... 👍

Sir, where were you 20 years back, lot of things in my life would have changed.

करोडो युवा सरकारी नौकरियों की तैयारियों में 35 years निकाल दे रहे है . अंधी दौड़ है । सरकारी नौकरियाँ बहोत कम है sir. अगर ये सब युवा private business में आ जाये तो सब बदल जाये। इस विषय पर वीडियो sir

What my mother did in unnecesaary hate for my wife, can't forget for life. She created a hell out of my life

I have come across this channel accidentally. But after that, I saw all your old videos and I am very happy now. Your choice of topics is very unique and relevant. Plus your thoughts and perspectives are so fresh and new. Thank you very much Sir

One more point📍 sir I will like to add. Is OverControlling and Overinterference ka repercussion hi ye ho raha hai.... Yaa hone wala hai... Ki aane wali generation marriage institution system se Kanni kaat rahi hai. Kyoki unhe ye poora game samajh mein aane laga hai. Bahut Bahut Dhanyavaad aapka hum sabko aaina dekhane ka 🙏🙏🙏. But Sir as you say already jobs logo ko mil nahi rahe, mil bhi rahe hai to wat is the situation of Salaries, inflation, expenditures etc. Ye system kaha tak jaayega iska bhagwan hi maalik hai. Aap sahi kehte hai.... Jo 40-50 saal pehle kiya hai, usse bhugatna to hum sab ko padega.

Things we were not having clarity and were bothering us subconsciously. Because of you sir getting clarity in life. Thank you from bottom of heart

Thank you sirji. This is a very very relevant topic. I have seen this being played out in my life, my aunts have influenced their kids (my cousins) so much that i don't have a good relationship with them. It's a loss for both sides I feel.

I lived in hostel in school and college and a solitary life after joining service. I lived without any any influence of narratives on me. It has made me solitary, detached and analytical person.

Wonderful message sir🙏. Please keep up good work sir. Let's change the society... With new narratives...

MAG (Maaza Aa Gayaa) Sir..Thanks a lot for this valuable topic discussion🙏😇

कोविड के बाद तो बहुत ही तेजी से सोच में बदलाव आया है , हर क्षेत्र में, अब लोगों के द्वारा , लोगों पर प्रभाव पड़ना कम हो गया है

Great topic! The "average" Indian needs an alternative narrative to that so far offered by "Saas-Bahu" type inferior, third grade media productions or worthless influencers - very important to open up the doors & windows of the mind & let fresh air & thoughts in, to be courageous, take chances in life - which does not translate to being foolish & reckless. Thank You 🙏 very much for taking up this thankless job! The mountains you have to climb are very steep indeed. Good luck!

टूथ पेस्ट वाला उदाहरण मेरे दिमाग मे हमेशा आता है और दोस्तों के साथ शेअर भी करता था. परफेक्ट उदाहरण change of narrative!

Agree sir 👍 how you explained narrative is wonderful 👏

If my wife or friend see this comment, they will be shocked, amit ji is my new best virtual friend, it may be one sided but I was never so confident in life, but since last more than 4 months, amit ji has opened my eyes nth number of time. Thank you so much best friend 😘

This is so my family. Thank you very much for making this video and putting the right points upfront 🙏🏻

हमारी बेटियाँ है इसलिए हमेशा दुत्कारा जाता रहा... हमे ही नहीं बच्चियों को भी... Property हम कभी नहीं मांगे फिर भी हमेशा झगड़ा कि कहीं देना ना पड़े कुछ... तो भी 17 साल इसलिए सहन किया कि माता-पिता हैं समाज तो हमें ही गलत कहेगा... लेकिन अब बच्चे बड़े हो गए हैं समझते हैं इसलिए उनके और अपने आत्म सम्मान के साथ छोड़ दिया... रिश्तेदार या समाज जो कहता है कहता रहे

Good perspective.

Video banata raho sir bahut kuch sikhne ko milta hai

That is very correct ...I am myself 54and remember my parents saying Hamid bnogey ya mehmood of premchand fame story eidgah....😁😁😁😁😁😁...or hum Hamid kya ameena dadi bn Gaye.

You have great experience.... True clarity giver....

Very true..... Very precision analysis

Thanks sir for making this video It gives clarity how narratives are used in society, workplace & in family to create fear, confusion and mislead people

Such a great content !!!

Best video so far ... Immediately forwarded to my family group

I love listening you sir. We really need people like you in our society n families.

Thank you for light..

Superb. Certainly food for thought.

Bahut achi n sahi baatein lekr ate ho sir aap. We also observe all these things.but we are unable to word it 👍

Very thoughtful video

Sir aapne 1950-1960 Wali generation ko expose kar diya hai. They had lot of issues specially Controlling issues. Sir is chakkar mein 1970-1980 Waale kahi ke nahi rahe. Hum log pura control kiye gae.... Aur hamare bacche aab hamari bilkul bhi nai sunne wale. You were right about this. Isliye 1970-1980 Walon ki awakening ho rahi hai. Unke saath kya kiya gaya hai.... Ye aab unhe Clear cut samajh mein aa raha hai.

Very good sir. Absolutely spot on

Very insightful

Real great. Thanks.

I wish i can forward this to my parents, relatives and in-laws 😂

Sir.. your videos are life changing. Thanks a lot for this perspective. You have explained my life. I wish I had come across these videos 20 years ago. I would have been a different person 😊🙏🙏🙏

Keep on going sir, you are doing super amazing job. #clarity 👏

Very true sir 👍 you are inspirational all the time.your observations are bang on Eye opener.I forward your videos to my kids n I have seen they discuss these aspects and prospects. .keep up the good work.Thank you

Always enjoying your videos sir. Our Indian societies need your input so they get better , also exceed in life .

Agree with your comment that bringing new new topics and detailing it in words is very commendable and appreciated.

What a wisdom.Must watch by all middle class families.

Thanks 🙏 for your all videos

Sir ji me aapko Guru manta hu. Shayad aap kabhi mujhe mil na paye dekh na paye lekin me aapko bohot sunta hu. Keep it up and you are at such high level of wisdom ki aap corrupt nahi honge. Mujhe yehi baat achi lagti he. Kyuki baaki log jinko me follow krta tha wo ab corrupt ho gaye he time ke sath. Aap sahi ho. Thanks for existing sir! 😊

You are validating our thoughts

Sir aap to great ho. God sent for our Indian society 🙏

It is so true sir , I was thinking earlier that I I am the only person to be influenced by the narratives of my parents....but later on realises if I had sat calmly and peacefully ask the question to myself then I would have got the answers .....Ur videos are such to the point and answers our inner conflict with ourselves.... Thank u so much sir...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Very useful n making thinking process very clear

Sir, Thanks a lot for your videos🙏

You are also a influencer who is setting a good narrative to the youth.

Great video (telling bluntly which is the reality & required) This type of content is the need of an hour. Thank u for making this videos👏🏻✨😃🙇🏻‍♂️

Thanks 🙏

Yes sir there's lot of effort that you put in making a video sir, because you talk from all perspectives and it's not easy sir, keep it up sir.. 👍

Well said sir.. Even in my family after my tauji's death the relations among our cousins have become hostile due to some misunderstandings between my taiji, mom & dadi. As taiji feels that we ( my parents &dadi) did'nt supported her during tauji's cancer phase which is completely wrong.

I totally agree with you.

Very practical & useful. I admire your guts, how logically you give examples in a simple way.

Sir yaha to dono ne bachpan se narratives set kiye hue hai. Me manta nahi tha to me kharab. Fully agreed with what u say sir.

Sir aapne duniya ko bhut njdeek se dekha hai ya to aapki life me bhut aise experience hue hai isliye aap in baaton ko bhut acche se smjhate ho main abhi 30 years ki hu but main bhut kucch jaan gai hu apne experience se mujhe aapki video dekhna bhut accha lgta hai mujhe lgta hai k koi hai jo aisi topic pr baat krte hai thanks you sooo much uncle

Superb 👏

Amazing video!! Full of insights that can bring a shift in worldview 👏🏽👏🏽 Please continue to create these informative videos. I’m sure it’ll make a dent 👍🏼

Very strong effort to change society mind set 👏 👌

Sir U R great!

Your children are so lucky 😂 ..I’m very curious to know how you gained all these refreshing perspectives and what were your experiences that shaped you into the person you are today. Anyway ,Sir , you are very entertaining and informative to hain hi…I’m hooked to your videos. Parents ko bhejne ka man kar raha hai but kaise bhejen😂 …we will be termed nalayak if we do! 😂

English subtitles please! 😊😊 For us South Indians..

you are Absolutely right sir

On point! Exactly this is what happens in families.

Sir, you are right.

Sir, बहुत सही कहा आपने !!! मजा आ गया...

Aapke sabhi video unique aur related hote hai👍👍

Eduacative video.

Actually south mein girls and boys have a very healthy relation with each other and parents are also very accepting of their kids

Excellent video

Yes sir, you're absolutely right. Narratives are made by smart, cunning people for their own benefits or image making. Money, power, position are the reasons behind.

So true sir

Topic is interesting and factual. Narrator use narrative according to their circumstantial requirement of the time and personal comfort.

Sir your Content is Eye Opener!!!!!

Sir God has blessed u with wisdom. 🙏

True 👏

Very much good videos 😇👍 excellent💯👍👏👏👏 work, keep it up 🙏🙏🙏🙏

U r of my father's age and i can relate to ur thoughts too much.i enjoy watching ur videos.👍

Yes can see the same in society. I do stock market long term investing, so other people in the family say, do take a loan and buy a house first, wherein my house construction is already going on!!

Very relevant topic expressed in simple words...always like ur videos and able to relate with them. Even I've started giving such examples to my 8 year old..thank u for making me realize.

This is the need for our society. Thanks sir v want many more to come

Exactly , so relatable